My FGM reconstruction surgery journey - BBC Africa

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  • Almost 230 million girls and women around the world have undergone some form of female genital mutilation. Over half of them are in Africa. FGM is the partial or total removal of the external female genital organs for non-medical reasons. Shamsa Sharaawe, or Shamsa Araweelo as she is known on TikTok, underwent reconstructive surgery in Europe to repair the damage done to her as a child in Somalia. She spoke to us about her experience.
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  • @ajohonly3721
    @ajohonly3721 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +34

    I’m from South Sudan 🇸🇸 we don’t have this but! The child marriages are still happening 😢.
    Africa please stop this nonsense.

    • @jamalov6026
      @jamalov6026 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Ok

    • @samm9709
      @samm9709 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      We must observe our culture

    • @johncbny
      @johncbny 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@samm9709…’Culture’? You’re marrying children to grown men!

    • @johncbny
      @johncbny 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@samm9709…even if that so-called ‘culture’ is destroying lives or killing people?

    • @Christine-Tina
      @Christine-Tina 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      This practice doesn't just happen in cultures from the African continent. I happens in Asian cultures too.

  • @christineom-tiz8793
    @christineom-tiz8793 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +48

    As if being a female isn’t painful enough. I praise our sister for making something so dark less taboo. ❤

    • @Bell_plejdo568p
      @Bell_plejdo568p 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      She lying and doing this because she's paid idk about her personal life, but where she claims to come from, she's lying about that

    • @christineom-tiz8793
      @christineom-tiz8793 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Bell_plejdo568p lol you’re a sad and petty person to think I would be paid to make a simple comment. 🚮

    • @SouthernPawsFN
      @SouthernPawsFN 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Lol being a female literally couldn't be easier. You get everything handed to you like a baby and contribute nothing to society except onlyfans and tiktok rage.. lol unbelievable

  • @silentnight9655
    @silentnight9655 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    Mutilating any part of the human body for cultural or cosmetic purposes is strange.

    • @blessingecoma9233
      @blessingecoma9233 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      True!
      Wish the trans community would realize this too.

  • @zedianerkatwishi3930
    @zedianerkatwishi3930 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

    Lucky to be born in Zambia where FGM is not practiced.

    • @christineom-tiz8793
      @christineom-tiz8793 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@zedianerkatwishi3930 never forget we’re all affected by this as women/young girls. No matter where we are. 🫶🏽

    • @zedianerkatwishi3930
      @zedianerkatwishi3930 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@christineom-tiz8793 mine is intact. I am not affected!

    • @christineom-tiz8793
      @christineom-tiz8793 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@zedianerkatwishi3930 well I guess in most cases ignorance is bliss. Besides I was concerned with your private parts but thanks

    • @Bell_plejdo568p
      @Bell_plejdo568p 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@christineom-tiz8793 How are u affecetd and this girl is also lying who made this video nor is it as common

    • @gracefaithjanet2673
      @gracefaithjanet2673 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Born in Cairo to Zambian parents so grateful our people don't practice this barbarism. Most of our parents love their children. I can't even imagine!

  • @andrealowe1083
    @andrealowe1083 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    You are a beautiful woman. I won’t pretend to understand anything you have gone through. You are so strong, kind and selfless to share your personal journey with others.

  • @bibic9397
    @bibic9397 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hello, I am Haja from the Video. Thanks so much for the support!

  • @Christine-Tina
    @Christine-Tina 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    For all those commenting about "Africa", a) this practice isn't present in all cultures from the African continent, and b) it is also present in Asia.

  • @gracefaithjanet2673
    @gracefaithjanet2673 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Great job BBC on this. Q few years ago for the first time they discussed FGM At my job. O was shocked such a practice existed I then told my friend what we learned and how horrible it is and she confided her parents had her do it. I was so shocked and didnt know what to say. I apologised. She said she is always jealous of women who have not had it done and the only ones who didnt have it done in her area where a particular group. The men who demand this are so wicked and evil.

  • @maibege761
    @maibege761 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    Pls lend a voice to the plight of Gambian women as it seems the government is trying to make a legislation to return to the darkness of FGM. This is really destruction of the human rights of women.

    • @user-bt8ig1qg8u
      @user-bt8ig1qg8u 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Gambia does not practice mutilation instead they practice circumcision

    • @maibege761
      @maibege761 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@user-bt8ig1qg8u is it female or male circumcision?

    • @nursetinalouise
      @nursetinalouise 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      What an ignorant line Gambian men keep repeating.

    • @treasuredpossesion9047
      @treasuredpossesion9047 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@user-bt8ig1qg8uBecause it was banned. Majority of Muslim countries in the past practiced FGM but now thanks to Human Rights organizations, this evil practice is being fought against.

    • @mellymel6624
      @mellymel6624 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@user-bt8ig1qg8uif this “circumcision” happens to women it is mutilation- FGM

  • @FF-by6ci
    @FF-by6ci 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    How does it improve sexual pleasure if the reconstruction is tissue taken from the inner thighs, it's plastic surgery to make it look like nothing is missing.

  • @rebwolfe2702
    @rebwolfe2702 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are so strong! To have been abused so badly and now a wonderful life!

  • @emilyloppy7970
    @emilyloppy7970 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This evil pratice of FGM has been ban today in the Gambia🇬🇲.# Girls and women lives matters. #

    • @RDCFemmes
      @RDCFemmes 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I thought they rejected the ban?

    • @DunyaVersusAsana
      @DunyaVersusAsana 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@RDCFemmesno they rejected the attempt to overturn the ban.

  • @ForMySoulSistas
    @ForMySoulSistas 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Very informative 👌🏾there's hope 🙏🏾

  • @mohameda8070
    @mohameda8070 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    It happened and won't change much regardless of what was done to her nor the reconstructive surgery she went through. It's not an African culture, nor based on any religion. It is believed to have originated in ancient Egypt during the rule of Pharaohs. Without parents changing their attitude towards this practice, it'll continue to take place and some chicken in the UK won't change much in remote parts of Africa.

    • @Bell_plejdo568p
      @Bell_plejdo568p 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      What won't chnage and also this girl is also lying about the nation she's from and how common it is

    • @FF-by6ci
      @FF-by6ci 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Bell_plejdo568p How is she lying when it's done to 99% of Somali girls, I come from the same country as her so I know.

  • @blocktube1449
    @blocktube1449 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    can we also stop MGM?

    • @mohameda8070
      @mohameda8070 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It's coming

    • @Bell_plejdo568p
      @Bell_plejdo568p 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@mohameda8070 What's coming anf it's not mutliantion

    • @blocktube1449
      @blocktube1449 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Bell_plejdo568p my body my choice

  • @DaveThompsonfairlife4all
    @DaveThompsonfairlife4all 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I want my foreskin back, and the NHS (who sliced if from my body) say they can't reverse it with reconstruction surgery, because it's "cosmetic". We have an FGM act in the UK, but no MGM act. Disgraceful sexism.

  • @skinnyzebra8626
    @skinnyzebra8626 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    In the states there’s a great doctor who works on similar patients especially Somali community

    • @nursetinalouise
      @nursetinalouise 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Where?

    • @SuperGreatSphinx
      @SuperGreatSphinx 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Hippocrates

    • @Bell_plejdo568p
      @Bell_plejdo568p 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@SuperGreatSphinx He's lying, just like the girl from this video

    • @Bell_plejdo568p
      @Bell_plejdo568p 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@nursetinalouise He's lying, just like the girl from this video

    • @Bell_plejdo568p
      @Bell_plejdo568p 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Where and what does he do, and it's not common in the "Somali community", this girl is lying and is funded to demonize that nation

  • @iceman4660
    @iceman4660 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    This is a brave thing to do. Remain strong.

  • @j_tich
    @j_tich 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I am so proud of them❤. I hope each and every one of us does whatever they can to stop this, especially us Africans.

  • @jgjg934
    @jgjg934 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    So sad to think something that was part of you was painfully taken away, without your will, only for you to pay in future to get it back. It's so cruel for anyone to think and do this to a child or anyone else against their will.

  • @LyricGoodMusic
    @LyricGoodMusic 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Beautiful Woman

  • @davidmonda2665
    @davidmonda2665 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    1) This is a very difficult and delicate topic many African feminists resent speaking about. Especially since this particular discourse is coming from what might be seen as a European/white media service analyzing a topic very personal and cultural to an African woman's genitalia.
    The critique of liberal elites so "concerned" with this topic is that there are soo many other more pressing issues directly related to war and peace that decide if African women live or die such as the crisis in the Great Lakes Region. What's with the obsession with the African female genitalia?
    I'd tread very sensitively on this one. It's not as straightforward as it seems. Even coming from the testimony of African women! *(Also see: Jomo Kenyatta's Facing Mt. Kenya and his views on this very delicate topic, or the experiences of Ngugi wa Thiongo and the tragedy that befell his ex wife!)

    • @annap1171
      @annap1171 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      I don't think this would be such a "delicate" topic in your mind if you were at risk of being subjected to this yourself, my dude.

    • @davidmonda2665
      @davidmonda2665 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I'm not your dude! Both men and women can have opinions on this topic, and it needs BOTH genders involved. Read the references I provided to understand my context. 👋

    • @GypsyVictorious
      @GypsyVictorious 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Once elders stop being obsessed with the genitals of young African girls, so will everyone else.

    • @nursetinalouise
      @nursetinalouise 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Your ignorance is showing because ignorance is a choice. You are disregarding these African women explaining the damage the mutilation caused them and yet claiming it’s unimportant. Removal of the clitoris is not equivalent to removal of male foreskin (which also should not be forced on infants) but is equivalent to castration. Let’s catrate you and ask why your genitals were so important!

    • @johncbny
      @johncbny 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ⁠@@davidmonda2665… I am not African so I don’t have first hand knowledge about anything that happens on the continent.
      But from what I’ve learned, the ‘obsession’ with African women’s genitalia(as you put it), is because it is ruining lives and killing women.

  • @SweettoothMarie77
    @SweettoothMarie77 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

  • @abdulaikoroma5458
    @abdulaikoroma5458 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I wonder African countries are still carrying out this barbaric practice.

    • @Bell_plejdo568p
      @Bell_plejdo568p 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Which ones and it's only the ones the west lies about to demonize them

    • @LogarAcc
      @LogarAcc 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It's not all Africa, this is a muslim custom. The why is: because they absolutely hαte women and girls.

  • @user-cq9bj6du1l
    @user-cq9bj6du1l 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love you my girl I love how you laugh 😂😂hah😂😂

    • @Bell_plejdo568p
      @Bell_plejdo568p 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      She's a lair and agent

  • @speakup18
    @speakup18 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I feel sorry for the torture you encounter 😢.. no to FGM

  • @hunnugumti3281
    @hunnugumti3281 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Just because one flaw does not make a whole culture or people bad

    • @Bell_plejdo568p
      @Bell_plejdo568p 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      is that what there saying that the "whole culture and/or people are bad." This lady is also lying about the nation she's from and how common it is there, idk about her life but she lying. She funded to demonzie that nation.

  • @tanieleland9825
    @tanieleland9825 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ay men… “what fat? What are you talking about” ? 😂

  • @sandmors7998
    @sandmors7998 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Beautiful lady

    • @sandmors7998
      @sandmors7998 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Beautiful ladies

  • @enx11
    @enx11 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Don't we just loooove Islam? ☺

    • @mansamusa1848
      @mansamusa1848 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Is tribal tradition. Ignorant

    • @maibege761
      @maibege761 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Oh jeesss.

    • @maibege761
      @maibege761 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Oh jeesss.

    • @christineom-tiz8793
      @christineom-tiz8793 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@enx11 say it louder for the people in the back (respectfully)

    • @rainhawk5264
      @rainhawk5264 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      this is actually NOT a Muslim practice but instead merely an AFRICAN tradition and usually found in Afro-Southwest Asiatic societies - from Christian Copts. to Afro-Semitic people who immigrated up to the autochthonous PIE West Asian flat lands of the Indo-European Zagros foothills

  • @ucan1
    @ucan1 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    This is indirectly questioning God's decision of making you a female which in my opinion is way beyond imagination 🤦‍♂️

    • @nursetinalouise
      @nursetinalouise 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      What do you mean? God created the vulva including clitoris.

    • @sotonjohnbull3522
      @sotonjohnbull3522 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      What exactly is questioning God's decision? The FGM or the reconstruction surgery?

    • @christineom-tiz8793
      @christineom-tiz8793 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@sotonjohnbull3522 perhaps questioning the men put on earth wanting to mutilate women/children for their sexual pleasure.

    • @maibege761
      @maibege761 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@sotonjohnbull3522 let me add this question: or those responsible for these heinous crimes? What exactly is God's decision on this matter? Smh

  • @SuperGreatSphinx
    @SuperGreatSphinx 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    OUR LADY OF AFRICA
    THE BLESSED VIRGIN MARY

  • @deadscenedotcom
    @deadscenedotcom 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Bravo! I'm glad to see this subject get more attention, and I pray for the end of genital mutilation.

    • @Bell_plejdo568p
      @Bell_plejdo568p 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      She's lying and she's funded, to demonize the country she claims to be from