The quality of men today is just not worth all this. In the past it used to be: guy meets girl….they like each other…they get into a relationship…they get married. Nowadays it’s like having to have blueprints, strategies, hire dating coaches and all sorts of other accessories that is just flat out absurd. I quit dating and have given up on modern day men.
Yes I agree!!! It’s a waste of time now. They have too many options and always looking for the next newest shiniest thing. They won’t put in effort, all they want is hook ups or getting their rocks off to online s*xting! Apps have made it easy for them, they feel there are always other options if a high value woman puts boundaries in place, they’re like ‘whatever, I’ll find someone that puts up with my low effort’ and they do find them.
Lol, I agree but what you missed out is that we don't have quality women too these days, you may not agree but that's our truth. So generally, our generation is getting more confused by each day.
@@ayokunle9424There's a lot of quality women out there. I know because I'm one of them. I think it's just mema and women need to appreciate each other again like back in the older days. Also, on another note, social media has completely ruined relationships and dating...just my opinion...
@@ssilinia lot of women have zero to low standards. Bt from MY experience. High value men with wealth always seem to double back on the woman who sets her standards & walks away if he can’t comply. So all you have to do is keep dating & working on yourself, working out & leveling up your self care & beauty regime. When he comes back stand your ground because he KNOWS you will walk away . I’m literally going through this now. My guy is a tech CEO & millionaire. Has options bt always comes back after a disagreement. This last time we had a huge fall out over trying to set my allowance, we couldn’t agree & haven’t spoken since July. I will be going No contact indefinitely. He will have to reach out first . Until then I hit the gym m, yoga DAILY. Finishing nursing school & my roster is thriving ( currently going on a date with a doctor) when he comes back I’ll be at my BEST. Hang in their babes! ❤
In my experience it’s best to be upfront if you’re looking for a committed relationship, so nobody wastes time. & you don’t want to come across like you want a relationship with ANYONE, but that you’re looking for a certain special connection. Don’t be too sappy or into him in the beginning bc it comes across as fake or makes you seem shallow, since how much can u like somebody u just let? Take it slow, like 1-2 dates per week. Don’t blowup his phone in the interim. Men fall in love in the spaces between contact, women fall in love during contact
He's right. I hate to say it but it's true. Don't go too eager at first. It gives you time to find out if there's (another girl in the picture) that he didn't mention. Give it some more time to see if there's any skeletons out there. I've had guys who don't mention things until after we've been together for a year. It's frustrating. You've put in a year and then "boom" he confesses something. You then are sitting there while he's figuring out what YOUR going to do.
Great advice. My ex messed me about and I chased but now I’m like… adios. If someone doesn’t value you… value yourself and realise what a gem you really are
My main issue seems to be that after the first dates guys always seem to lose interest immediately even though they asked me out first, I don't even get to know them 😅
Ud have to say how u interacted on the date and what conversations cos and this is hard to hear its not always thr guy sometimes it's us as well. But to know what the dynamic was and then to change it for the future
When you learn your value you will do these things naturally without having to research. Women, there are thousands of men out there. Know your worth and please don’t be desperate.
Then what I am supposed to say to the guy. I am supposed to have a secret life against my date? What if he knows my games that I am being with other guys. I did tell my date and he asked me if I was sleeping with other men. Are we supposed to create trust in a loving healthy relationship?
Do married men ever come back? He was hooking up with me and I only found out his actually getting married?! Now his blocked me not even saying his getting married?!
Wait are you being serious? So you're still wanting to be with him after finding out he's married? I say this as respectfully as possible....please seek therapy. That's extremely destructive and disrespectful, behavior. But I do hope you can find his fiancee and tell her. At least save her a lifetime of potential hell ..
No I don't want to be with him.. I'm just curious will I ever hear from him again? I don't intend to be a homewrecker, I only found about her a few days ago, he didn't tell me his getting married, we was hooking up all this time
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The quality of men today is just not worth all this. In the past it used to be: guy meets girl….they like each other…they get into a relationship…they get married.
Nowadays it’s like having to have blueprints, strategies, hire dating coaches and all sorts of other accessories that is just flat out absurd. I quit dating and have given up on modern day men.
Omg yes lol 😂
Yes I agree!!! It’s a waste of time now. They have too many options and always looking for the next newest shiniest thing. They won’t put in effort, all they want is hook ups or getting their rocks off to online s*xting! Apps have made it easy for them, they feel there are always other options if a high value woman puts boundaries in place, they’re like ‘whatever, I’ll find someone that puts up with my low effort’ and they do find them.
Lol, I agree but what you missed out is that we don't have quality women too these days, you may not agree but that's our truth. So generally, our generation is getting more confused by each day.
@@ayokunle9424There's a lot of quality women out there. I know because I'm one of them. I think it's just mema and women need to appreciate each other again like back in the older days. Also, on another note, social media has completely ruined relationships and dating...just my opinion...
@@ssilinia lot of women have zero to low standards. Bt from MY experience. High value men with wealth always seem to double back on the woman who sets her standards & walks away if he can’t comply. So all you have to do is keep dating & working on yourself, working out & leveling up your self care & beauty regime.
When he comes back stand your ground because he KNOWS you will walk away . I’m literally going through this now. My guy is a tech CEO & millionaire. Has options bt always comes back after a disagreement. This last time we had a huge fall out over trying to set my allowance, we couldn’t agree & haven’t spoken since July. I will be going No contact indefinitely. He will have to reach out first . Until then I hit the gym m, yoga DAILY. Finishing nursing school & my roster is thriving ( currently going on a date with a doctor) when he comes back I’ll be at my BEST. Hang in their babes! ❤
In my experience it’s best to be upfront if you’re looking for a committed relationship, so nobody wastes time. & you don’t want to come across like you want a relationship with ANYONE, but that you’re looking for a certain special connection. Don’t be too sappy or into him in the beginning bc it comes across as fake or makes you seem shallow, since how much can u like somebody u just let?
Take it slow, like 1-2 dates per week. Don’t blowup his phone in the interim. Men fall in love in the spaces between contact, women fall in love during contact
He's right. I hate to say it but it's true. Don't go too eager at first. It gives you time to find out if there's (another girl in the picture) that he didn't mention. Give it some more time to see if there's any skeletons out there. I've had guys who don't mention things until after we've been together for a year. It's frustrating. You've put in a year and then "boom" he confesses something. You then are sitting there while he's figuring out what YOUR going to do.
Great advice. My ex messed me about and I chased but now I’m like… adios. If someone doesn’t value you… value yourself and realise what a gem you really are
He needs to like to invest time and energy planning dates. One doesn't want to lose an investment.
My main issue seems to be that after the first dates guys always seem to lose interest immediately even though they asked me out first, I don't even get to know them 😅
Same!
I think it’s because they realize we are smart and they can’t fool us. The right person will stay.
Same.
@@ThirdPlanetAstrology exactly they know who they can play
Ud have to say how u interacted on the date and what conversations cos and this is hard to hear its not always thr guy sometimes it's us as well. But to know what the dynamic was and then to change it for the future
What if he is a platonic friend of 10 years do theses rules apply? We have over 100 mutual friends
This was great, thank you.
When you learn your value you will do these things naturally without having to research. Women, there are thousands of men out there. Know your worth and please don’t be desperate.
Hello Elliot, how about from Girlfriend to wife?
Then what I am supposed to say to the guy. I am supposed to have a secret life against my date? What if he knows my games that I am being with other guys. I did tell my date and he asked me if I was sleeping with other men. Are we supposed to create trust in a loving healthy relationship?
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That was taken down years ago lol
@@ElliotScottDating but liiiike, wasn't it supposed to be lifetime access?
Do married men ever come back? He was hooking up with me and I only found out his actually getting married?! Now his blocked me not even saying his getting married?!
Leave that man alone tbh
I'd anonymously try to warn the fiancee.
Homewrecker...have some shame
Wait are you being serious? So you're still wanting to be with him after finding out he's married? I say this as respectfully as possible....please seek therapy. That's extremely destructive and disrespectful, behavior. But I do hope you can find his fiancee and tell her. At least save her a lifetime of potential hell ..
No I don't want to be with him.. I'm just curious will I ever hear from him again? I don't intend to be a homewrecker, I only found about her a few days ago, he didn't tell me his getting married, we was hooking up all this time