Do Korean Elders Want Foreigners In Korea?

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  • @KExplorer
    @KExplorer  ปีที่แล้ว +69

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    • @chloeroloson
      @chloeroloson ปีที่แล้ว +3

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    • @junctionfilms6348
      @junctionfilms6348 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It is amazing the direct response about black people and the man is speaking to a black person - it is a kind of blindness, as they have no problem talking to you, so what is the problem ?
      Sad that due to silly media, also gangster rap promoted by big record labels and media, many think all black people are gun firing gangsters and the young people, some of them like gangsterism via some silly videos - but they are so far removed from the harsh reality of say, growing up in Chicago or Detroit, there is nothing romantic about any of it and it has done a massive disservice to black people. Sad all round.
      th-cam.com/video/JnyKy-eM_OY/w-d-xo.html
      This man makes sense though , , ,

    • @Halcyon-kw8nj
      @Halcyon-kw8nj ปีที่แล้ว

      I think the elder in glasses and hat with the padded vest well spoke on the topics.

    • @HuerniaBarbata
      @HuerniaBarbata ปีที่แล้ว

      Great theme! Korea is interesting to many people. Especially the opinion of Koreans about foreigners moving to Korea. But not everyone in the world knows English well, so it's very hard to watch - the TH-cam auto-translator does not translate hardsabs, and the auto-translator defines speech as Korean and does not translate English from the voice either. It would be nice if the subs were embedded in TH-cam, and not in the video - we could listen to you in auto-translation into any language. Good luck!

    • @user-kn1iq1gt2q
      @user-kn1iq1gt2q ปีที่แล้ว +1

      한국 어른들이 참 솔직하고 화끈하시네...

  • @aisham_04
    @aisham_04 ปีที่แล้ว +478

    the last grandpa sounded so educated and well spoken!! they fact that he kept reassuring the foreigners to not be afraid and just come was so heart warming!! 🫶🏽

    • @luvbomb
      @luvbomb ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I agree! He made me smile

    • @qwertyfor5856
      @qwertyfor5856 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You can see it already from the way he dress. Not to mention he said he's been to Libya and work as engineer, no wonder he's absolutely educated

  • @Pika-Chu64
    @Pika-Chu64 ปีที่แล้ว +2265

    I like how he holds his dog like a baby 😂

    • @KExplorer
      @KExplorer  ปีที่แล้ว +218

      The dog was very cute 🥰

    • @ryeleighlawler
      @ryeleighlawler ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Same it was so cute the way he was holding his dog like a baby

    • @ds-zd9qz
      @ds-zd9qz ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Dog was jus chilllen too lol

    • @lillylilly3035
      @lillylilly3035 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It is a baby😁 furbaby

    • @Zain94336
      @Zain94336 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Saving it for dinner

  • @langdonmiller4267
    @langdonmiller4267 ปีที่แล้ว +454

    I had some apprehensions before visiting South Korea. I knew language would be a barrier but I was wondering if I will face racism too. However to my surprise people were extremely warm and helpful. During my 2 weeks trip I had a wonderful experience apart from 1 where in the shopkeeper didn't like me touching the clothes in his store and kept dusting them off. Other than that people were very helpful. Even when communication was a problem they tried their best to help us out. I did have a staring contest with some Ahjummas and Ahjussis is Busan and Jeju. But otherwise I loved the fact that Koreans were rather welcoming to foreigners. 👍

    • @sumayyahEr78
      @sumayyahEr78 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Why staring contest always became famous among foreigners who used to travel in south korea? Do you know richardo tv? He experience it too but he lose against some ajumma 🤣🤣🤣

    • @BearingMySeoul
      @BearingMySeoul ปีที่แล้ว +30

      HA! Busan people are a trip!
      Busan is the only city in Korea where I was CONSTANTLY approached by old men trying to get me to be their girlfriend. 👀
      Even so, I love that unlike Seoul, if you speak Korean in Busan, people speak Korean back.

    • @cxvii6812
      @cxvii6812 ปีที่แล้ว

      Where are tou from

    • @tiffanykim2773
      @tiffanykim2773 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yea don't touch the merchandise bruh 😂.

    • @_filifjonkan4290
      @_filifjonkan4290 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      By the way, me and my daughter, Belgians, were also surprised that several shopkeepers in Korea didn’t like it if we touched clothes while shopping. It may not be racism but just normal behaviour (in Korea)

  • @juanpAAA2059
    @juanpAAA2059 ปีที่แล้ว +474

    I really liked this video because the elders were straight forward and I loved how you interviewed them. Great job!!!

    • @KExplorer
      @KExplorer  ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Really appreciate 😊

    • @user-3aa6234fh
      @user-3aa6234fh ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @jennifer valentina better than lying and virtue signaling - so yes, imagine this, we prefer to know what people really think and who to ignore or cancel

    • @juanpAAA2059
      @juanpAAA2059 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @jennifer valentina by experience I prefer a genuine comment (negative or positive) than a fake comment. Also, some people have different opinions when there is a camera filming them. These elders were crystal clear.

  • @syekiahenderson
    @syekiahenderson ปีที่แล้ว +1252

    I am a 45 year old black woman and I took my 17 year old daughter to Seoul in September of this year. The elders were the nicest people to us. The younger generation did not try to help us at all. They either went along like we didn’t exist or stared us down. But the elders were really nice and helpful, especially the men. They would randomly call us over and talk to us. Everyone’s experience is different, but I really enjoyed our visit.

    • @gabe5875
      @gabe5875 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Same here. Went with my parents, we’re African. Mostly Elders were nice and handful of younger people were nice as well. I would definitely visit again

    • @sj8892
      @sj8892 ปีที่แล้ว +137

      Nah as a south korean its just different how younger and older generations act. Elders think randomly calling people and laughing together is nice but most young people think that is SO rude. I hope you dont feel bad about younger people trying not to stare at you, since they actually think staring at others is not good maners

    • @Landon94.
      @Landon94. ปีที่แล้ว +58

      In Korea, we dont talk to stranger unless we know each other. we also dont smile at someone in the street

    • @suzieyi63
      @suzieyi63 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@Landon94. think about the impressions of Korea. As a Korean American, not impressed with ppls thought process and actions.

    • @syekiahenderson
      @syekiahenderson ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I would really like to visit again. I want to see if it’s just my interpretation of what happened or if the vibe will be the same as the first time. I’m a very friendly person so now I’m wondering if I made Koreans uncomfortable by smiling and waving? 🤔 I’m originally from Detroit which is a very violent city so we never smiled and waved. It was considered to be a sign of weakness and people would target you. But now I live in Georgia and everyone smiles and waves in my city. I definitely had to get used to it. So different areas in the world have very different customs. As a world traveler I learned that you have to be adaptable and appreciate the beauty in every place you go. Thanks for all of your comments. 💜

  • @jessv13
    @jessv13 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    He’s so calm and educated when interviewing people. He’s the biggest reason why I watch his videos

  • @parallelwooju
    @parallelwooju ปีที่แล้ว +195

    I met this old man while strolling in a park with a friend. He came to us asked us why we were in Korea right now, we answered truthfully that we came here for vacation. He thanked us so emotionally, said that we were so kind to give the country a chance. He proceeds to give advice on many thing to visit ! I think this was our best encounter, that was very special

    • @rekt-oe1eh
      @rekt-oe1eh ปีที่แล้ว +2

      did you ask for any of it or did he feel entitled to it

    • @parallelwooju
      @parallelwooju ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@rekt-oe1eh we absolutely asked nothing ! He was as happy to see us as we were happy to visit Korea !

  • @panipani_danggeun
    @panipani_danggeun ปีที่แล้ว +1931

    I liked that they were open minded and said things people would be uncomfortable to hear but were still very respectful to the host, and the host didn't get defensive even though someone understandably would get defensive then. I dunno, just seemed very admirable.

    • @Nwachukwu207
      @Nwachukwu207 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Women moment

    • @abeck0856
      @abeck0856 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      My belief is if someone is speaking the truth and from the heart then respect them even if they say things that one don't like or feel uncomfortable hearing.

    • @abeck0856
      @abeck0856 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Young man, you are awesome. The topics you address are valid worldwide. Absolutely fantastic.

    • @unknownperson..6852
      @unknownperson..6852 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@abeck0856 sometimes it’s better to be quiet then to hurt someone feelings tbh

    • @abeck0856
      @abeck0856 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@unknownperson..6852 are we adults or what?

  • @thecadeaujournals3980
    @thecadeaujournals3980 ปีที่แล้ว +728

    This is a perspective that I've been waiting to see. As foreigners, we know generally how young Koreans feel. But where the culture clash seems to exist is between the youth and elders of Korea.
    Also as a black man, i can appreciate where the prejudice comes from ..

    • @corpedatlanta
      @corpedatlanta ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Appreciate?

    • @Hayan_Yeou
      @Hayan_Yeou ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The prejudice probably came from some African American soldiers going around and began swinging. Prejudice towards blacks probably started there. Most elderlies I know spoke something about African US soldiers. I remember one telling me to even avoid them. Further, a lot of elderlies are dumb and insensitive. They think all black people are poor. They are over confident that they've helped in building a strong and wealthy nation and they think it's patriotic to just rub it on people. They lived an era where Korea was weak and no one listened. Naturally they want to show things off.
      Whatever the reason is, in modern society, we call this ultranationalism.

    • @kruzedarling9347
      @kruzedarling9347 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I think he meant “understand” maybe?

    • @winnumber101
      @winnumber101 ปีที่แล้ว

      ?

    • @TomorrowWeLive
      @TomorrowWeLive ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's not 'pre-judice' if it's based on experience. It's 'post-judice'.

  • @proudasian576
    @proudasian576 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    I really liked the fact that how genuine n humble they all are .they are presenting the view point of majority Korean Elders who are now open to connect n welcome foreigners (without being racist)..nice video..

  • @dr.moonlightttt
    @dr.moonlightttt ปีที่แล้ว +179

    These elder peoples are honest,,,and it was so good to hear those things from the elders

  • @denmarksux9951
    @denmarksux9951 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I stopped at Seoul for three days on my way back to the US from India (I'm an American of Indian descent) with my mom. What surprised me is how friendly people were even if they didn't know English. They were curious about us, and some even invited us over to hang out. Much more different from Paris or London, where people were more apathetic. The old people were some of the nicest people as well. They gave me and my mom suggestions on where to visit and usually approached us to make conversation. However, at least 5 people thought I was Indonesian ( I don't look remotely south east asian), and that was kind of funny. I was shocked because east Asia does have a bit of a racist reputation, but I think every country has its share of racists. Honestly, I kind of regret I only spent three days in Seoul and the surrounding areas. I would definitely love to return in the future. Maybe I'll do a quarter abroad during my PhD.

    • @jiminswriter4209
      @jiminswriter4209 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The “reputation” is due to some overactive TH-camrs or vloggers, but reality is very different.

  • @bemore_useful
    @bemore_useful ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I went to Korea last September and got a bit lost looking for something to do in Daegu. This older man got off his bike, asked me if i was lost then walked me to the Culture and Arts Center. He then found out that there was a free exhibit and took me to see all the showrooms. He gave me space so I wouldn't get uncomfortable or scared and let me know when the center was closing. Afterwards he walked me to my bus stop and waved goodbye. I'm not saying he'd let me marry his son but he was a very kind man who had no reason to show me around like he did outside of just being kind. You'll find uncomfortable situations no matter where you go but you'll likely also find kindness. It's up to the individual to decide what to focus on.

  • @ang4390
    @ang4390 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I love the old man at 5:35. All of his answers are very intelligent and it shows what kind of person he is ❤

  • @mapetidye
    @mapetidye ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I FREAKING LOVEEEEE THISSSSS !! I love hearing what the elders think!

  • @drewc1179
    @drewc1179 ปีที่แล้ว +255

    Tbh, Korean elders do not sugar coat their feelings and don’t care what you think of them. They are frank and tell it as it is. So, I believe you can take them at their word. In the past, racism and interracial marriages were highly frowned upon because the country was so homogenous. Today, it is still extremely homogenous, but as more exposure to foreigners have become more prevalent, elders’ views have changed pretty significantly. I, myself, am Korean and am married to a foreigner, and nobody from my family, has had a problem with it. My wife also affirms to everyone who asks that she has never experienced any racism or prejudice because of her race since we moved to Korea in 2006. Overall, I believe that Korean parents would still prefer their children to marry other Koreans but that is more out of convenience (language, food, and cultural) now than because of racism.

    • @jzhu623
      @jzhu623 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Racism and interracial marriages both being frowned upon is kind of a contradiction. I think you must have meant something else.

    • @rekt-oe1eh
      @rekt-oe1eh ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yep they are just racist.

  • @diannlewis2886
    @diannlewis2886 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    I visited Korea this past summer. A party of 7 people of color moving through Seoul and Busan. No issues. Curious eyes yes. Beautiful women who admired my daughter's box braids, yes. I do not discount some have encountered issues but we did not. Just warm people who did their very best to be polite and accommodating despite language barrier. When you travel to another country do a little research and understand where you are going and know the history.

  • @sungokpark9251
    @sungokpark9251 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    As Koreans, I was surprised that the elderly were more open-minded than I thought. Clearly, perception of polyethnicity continues to improve.
    If foreigners try to learn Korean language and culture, most Koreans will treat them warmly.

  • @stebo1024
    @stebo1024 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This made me happy to hear people are recognizing the change in the world and adapting as well

  • @linnsensuppe7433
    @linnsensuppe7433 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Great video! Scrolling through the comments I read many travel experience of people to Korea not experiencing racism or xenophobia. I am really glad! However, please keep in mind that living here as a foreigner and traveling here are two very different things. Finding work, an apartment, making friends, dating… those are all things as a foreigner in Korea that become difficult often times as there is still a lot of discrimination. There is no Anti-discrimination law in Korea. It is important to keep that in mind. Maybe a video from the opposite perspective would be great. Asking foreigners who live in Korea how they think Koreans would answer these questions.

  • @lkm2458
    @lkm2458 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    1. 인터뷰 진행자의 한국어는 상당히 예의바르며 언어구사력도 뛰어나다
    2. 한국의 젊은사람들도 궁금할 수 있는 내용을 노인들의 인터뷰를 통해 세계로 소개하는 좋은 컨텐츠를 칭찬한다
    3. 조사의 객관성과 투명성이 보장될 수 있도록 참여자들의 다양한 의견을 수렴하고 공개해서 신뢰가 된다
    Thank you showing me the video.

    • @youto8160
      @youto8160 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      좌파노인네 1명나와서 흑인차별 아프리카흑인차별 별짓다하네..그건 니 속마음에 담아둬!

  • @hswies1597
    @hswies1597 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    As a korean your korean is really good i got impressed. you have best korean i ever heared !!

  • @Sokhna_Ji-a
    @Sokhna_Ji-a ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This video is warm!
    It was a nice idea interviewing the elders of the country!! Good job 👍🏾

  • @gloriboxx
    @gloriboxx ปีที่แล้ว +16

    You did a really good job. I really enjoyed and appreciated this video. It was really nice hearing the elders perspective and I loved how honest and surprisingly open-minded they were. And you continued to be respectful and dignified even when the one elder thought you were American 🤦‍♀️😏. I'm not mad at him though, honesty is always appreciated even so he wasn't closed-minded and he was still kind. He's still growing 😁. Even if people are influenced by negative stereotypes or experiences a good person can usually alter that mindset. I definitely have biases but I try to leave them on the back burner and take each person as an individual. A good person is welcome no matter where you're from.

    • @kanglee9891
      @kanglee9891 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Biggest prejudice. Overwhelming old people with different ideas

  • @Bieffe
    @Bieffe ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you to the great ppl in Korea. Is one of the best countries I've visited. I was welcomed with great hospitality and friendliness.
    Knowing the language is a great plus...like yourself. Very good speaker. And we must respect all local cultures when visiting a foreign country.

  • @jennyb4115
    @jennyb4115 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It’s comforting seeing changing attitudes toward foreign people. I wish all countries could express this as eloquently as these folks did.

  • @sushimaccheese
    @sushimaccheese ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this video! It's great and heartwarming to hear more and more Korean elders are open minded and welcoming now. Thank you for doing this interview series.

  • @coolsow4973
    @coolsow4973 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Asian and African elders are kind of alike when it comes to terms of marriage it's very hard for a parent to approve but if it's a western person let's say America or UK it's okey

  • @humanconnectionflores
    @humanconnectionflores ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Good job,and great questions especially to the elders.

  • @bettywhitelouie1868
    @bettywhitelouie1868 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello very nice interview it's good to see that people have a open minded and are accepting,thanks

  • @mogwai247
    @mogwai247 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I appreciate the video, opinions and that you’re a wonderful and respectful interviewer. The honesty so was refreshing since a lot of people seem to answer what they think would be appropriate and not what they actually think.
    My only advice would be to minimize the cuts in editing. It makes it hard to read the full interaction and reply. There’s not a need to cut when someone takes a breath or is thinking, it gives us time to read without having to pause.
    Keep up the wonderful work!

  • @selin7029
    @selin7029 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I honestly just love your videos, they are so comforting to watch🤗

  • @dewitubeX1
    @dewitubeX1 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I love this elders interview K, controversial. the first gentleman was very flexible with seeing improvement in Korea by having foreigners to live there. overall I enjoy the boldness that the elders in Korea brings, is essential for their wisdom to stay around. good people. thank you K.

  • @reneesin2xs497
    @reneesin2xs497 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this little questionnaire interview with Korean elders. It’s so interesting to hear their opinions and see how open to change many are becoming. Nice job ❤

  • @EddieHongisrandom
    @EddieHongisrandom ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Love ur content as a Korean American, keep it up man!

  • @neenee0995
    @neenee0995 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I LOVE your channel, you ask such considerate and real questions and consider different audiences!!

  • @Valentino016
    @Valentino016 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I wish I could speak Korean like you ! Im planning on visiting Korea and I love the people 💜

  • @TheBloodyKnuckle
    @TheBloodyKnuckle ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved the video! It shows that, at least some, attitudes in Korea have changed since I lived there! Thank you!!!

  • @DeeSaysHi
    @DeeSaysHi ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Loved the video and the haraboji at the end has my heart. The way his words had so much assurance made me feel happy and warm. Looking forward to more amazing content from you! :)

  • @raquelfigueroa5539
    @raquelfigueroa5539 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Excellent interviews as always!!👏🏼

  • @Smittenhamster
    @Smittenhamster ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is the first time I saw a video of yours and my god you have such a soothing voice.

  • @Forever_Jane
    @Forever_Jane ปีที่แล้ว

    I love Jerry videos! The questions be straight to the point and the people he ask are blunt, but fair about their answers ♥️♥️

  • @youneedtochange160
    @youneedtochange160 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your channel Sun. Keep putting the information out there. Great interaction with the people. Keep informed. 😁

  • @monicamendoza2844
    @monicamendoza2844 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    These type of videos are very interesting! Thanks for the content♡

  • @Lagomsoul4you
    @Lagomsoul4you ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Good to see elders are open minded.
    What i feared most is racism against my brown color.
    Hope my country people too become open minded like these elders

  • @nobantu
    @nobantu ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Enjoying this beautiful content from Kenya 🇰🇪

  • @a.k.a.b-hope1088
    @a.k.a.b-hope1088 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great insight and interview! It was interesting and enjoyable to see how the Korean elders have progressed in general. Your Korean was impressive as well.

  • @IcyTii
    @IcyTii ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I like the honest answer! Even the eldest who doesn't want his child to marry a black person too. My family is very mixed on my father's side, but my mother side is not open-minded. All my uncles and aunts are married to a BLACK person. My only uncle with a white wife is having hard time . She told me they liked to say things like "oh she can't cook because she's white" or "she can't dance because she's white" "with a black woman we would have been able to enjoy good African food" even though she tries her best. Even saying in front of her that he should have married a black woman.. etc etc... that's racism too. And I'm black btw. So yes, black people can be very racist but want the whole world to accept us. Go to Africa, "they don't want a mix kid". My sister and I are just a little lighter, not even that much, and they call us white, etc. I am very much black. So yeah, it's everywhere and every races 😉 but most Korean elders were so open and welcoming! ❤ I'm going to Korea next year 😊 💫

    • @AdrianaAdhar
      @AdrianaAdhar ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'd like to believe that is your experience in Africa and it may have been cuz of the country but to be honestly speaking, most Africans would adore mixed race kids or those lighter in general. That's what's up in most countries in Africa. Either way sorry for what you went thru with your sister

    • @IcyTii
      @IcyTii ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@AdrianaAdhar ​ I live in Europe, but they like mixed kids in Europe or anywhere else not in Africa, even if they like you, they would remind you that you are not 100% African ( with some local jokes they know you don’t understand) even for some African Americans, dating outside of your "race" can be a problem… I just had very weird exchanges with people telling me that I don't like myself because I'm open to dating outside of my race…but when other “race” don’t want to be mixed with black , it’s a problem. That’s just what I noticed 😊

    • @hungrychat7304
      @hungrychat7304 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh pls

    • @hungrychat7304
      @hungrychat7304 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@IcyTii "race"??? See yeah you're a problem.

    • @dominicjohnson310
      @dominicjohnson310 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@IcyTii some light skinned black people should be called mixed race, Africans are the real blacks

  • @ekkim5091
    @ekkim5091 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    인터뷰 하시는 분 한국어 톤이 되게 조심스럽고 따듯하네요 ㅎㅎ nice interviews!

  • @alexmacdonald2644
    @alexmacdonald2644 ปีที่แล้ว

    Astonishing conversation ( and gesture) skills there. Lovely job.

  • @OhVictoria
    @OhVictoria ปีที่แล้ว

    I really enjoyed and appreciated this interview. Thank you for capturing this perspective, I hadn’t seen an interview specifically on elder’s views of foreigners until this one.

  • @mwilson5763
    @mwilson5763 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I appreciate this insight, I want to travel very soon and I love how you asked specific and respectful questions to the elders. Also how did you learn Korean? you’re doing great!

  • @michelleforte8669
    @michelleforte8669 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I have heard a video from Japan - As long as it is a black U.S.A. person, they are kind of ok. Otherwise they prefer their own or white people mostly.

    • @user-qn7dy4sp4k
      @user-qn7dy4sp4k ปีที่แล้ว

      Tbh I think many elders won't approve it even he/her is from the US. But also, many young people would just neglect their parents or grandparents and just marry.

  • @tkdgamerdavid
    @tkdgamerdavid ปีที่แล้ว

    Glad to see some changes in the people here. Excellent job my man 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @olgavenfolo6270
    @olgavenfolo6270 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Been following you for a while now...love how well you speak Korean👍 will be looking out for you in the streets of SK soon😄 looove your hair🤜🤛

  • @Mpp-7
    @Mpp-7 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    It’s so beautiful to see all these elderly people being so open minded and clear in their views

    • @testcalibre2507
      @testcalibre2507 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ask indian parents such such questions and you will get how communal and racists they are.

    • @Mpp-7
      @Mpp-7 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@testcalibre2507 as an Indian myself I totally agree

  • @px9ik
    @px9ik ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Omg you have the nicest interviewer voice and attitude. 말투가 너무 예의 바르고 누구라도 마음을 열고 이야기하고 싶을 것 같아요. 인종차별적인 태도, 타인의 출신 국가의 재력에 따라 달라지는 태도를 보는 건 너무 맘 아프네요.

  • @haribo8080
    @haribo8080 ปีที่แล้ว +184

    I guess that old man's preference on US(nationality) is offsetting or overwhelming the other side of race. I can see the uncomfortable view on foreigners from somewhere he's not familiar with(like Africa as he said). Basically every hatred or prejudice starts from ignorance.
    Visiting abroad, stepping outside the comfort zone and being a foreigner is an experience of changing your viewpoint. It was interesting that the more they have visited foreign countries, and assumingly experienced racism as Asian, the more they seem to be sensitive to racism in Korea as well. Some of them are frustrated or worried if Korea is viewed as a place with low awareness regarding racism and therefore portraited as an unwelcoming country towards foreigners. Some of them are just blaming Korean themselves admitting that they are lack of awareness as a developed country.
    I can assume that it was filmed in Seoul, cuz all of them sound like Seoul locals. I was pretty surprised that elder people in Seoul are more open minded than I expected. As a Korean from other side of Korea, I was expecting more ignorant words. I reckon Seoul people encounter foreigners on the street on a daily basis, or they are relatively wealthy enough to visit abroad, highly educated, and sophisticated ones in general.
    One thing is, they don't "hate" black people but they are just "afraid" of. I guess the main reason is unfamiliarity or lack of experience of encountering. This has a room of improvement. When ignorance is the cause, then education can solve much of the problem. In that sense I find it optimistic that Korea becoming a place that every ethnic and race can be welcomed and feel comfortable to live in. 😀 Thank you for putting out this interview, these were the questions we need at this moment.

    • @memrman8331
      @memrman8331 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      yeah but the problem with that is Africa’s explosion in population meaning that they are going to be the largest ethnicity in the world, combined with the rapid declining birth rates of South Korea and soon it could be filled with people who arent korean having half black kids…is that really korea anymore?

    • @yukichan177
      @yukichan177 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@memrman8331 ye plus based on genetic... africans have stronger genes so kids would be more african than korean, just like korean have stonger genes that most white ppl thats why the kids will come out looking more korean. like i think it has to do more about genetics than hate, which is understandable cuz every race wants to preserve their looks

    • @memrman8331
      @memrman8331 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@yukichan177 yeah and races evolved over a very long time, so once they’re gone, its basically impossible to replicate which is a bit sad to me if in the far future everyone looks the same. If u have seen what the average person in 1000 years looks like, they have darker skin and look middle eastern. I have no hate for them but its kinda sad to see the cultural diversity in the world being destroyed by this kind of woke culture. Look at the UK already, London’s population is 37% British and 63% foreigner

    • @TomorrowWeLive
      @TomorrowWeLive ปีที่แล้ว

      @@memrman8331 exactly

    • @solmoman
      @solmoman ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@memrman8331 you worry about that in Korea..?
      *laughs and cries in european*

  • @user-je2cm2gg5p
    @user-je2cm2gg5p ปีที่แล้ว +3

    엄청 예의있게 잘 말하시네여
    멋있습니다

  • @nibrasso
    @nibrasso ปีที่แล้ว +11

    What a great idea of an opinion poll. Really enjoyed the insight into elders mindsets, which was surprisingly open and honest. Keep up to great work!

  • @kumkum07dz34
    @kumkum07dz34 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You speak korean so effortlessly 💜

  • @chocopop01
    @chocopop01 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    This was very interesting to me. I'm glad that they were honest about their feelings about things, and I appreciate the one elder's assertion to come with an open mind. I think no matter where you go in the world, especially as a black person, one is capable of finding racism. I've experienced it from time to time, but for the most part the people that I encounter never give me any cause to feel particularly mistreated. I've been really wanting to come and see the country, and this makes me even more excited to experience the Korean culture. May I just say as a side note *your eyelashes are beautiful, LOL I found myself distracted for a brief minute looking at how long and gorgeous they are. 😆☺

  • @hunterlord101
    @hunterlord101 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    A bit of context about the Itaewon thing the ajusshi mentioned around 4:00 -ish
    On Halloween night, Itaewon is very famous for having a huge Halloween party as its the so-called Foreigner district, (and also the red-light area), and apparently the streets were so full you could hardly move. For some reason or another, people started running and ended up crushing people, and like he said about 150 or so people died.
    I later found out that even several years ago people complained that partying in Itaewon come Halloween kind of sucks because you could hardly scooch by people and getting into bars took forever.

  • @bini9893
    @bini9893 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I LOVED WATCHING THIS VIDEO! 💕 Very honest, pure and wise these older Koreans. Thank you for that.

  • @rosevrutherford2391
    @rosevrutherford2391 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm travelling to Korea in a year or so, it was an interesting video, thank you. I hope I will have a good time there!

  • @akashananigans2901
    @akashananigans2901 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome video! You asked the right questions. One of the elders mentioned that the younger generations don’t like to work hard. I would like to know why he (or other elders because I’m sure he’s not the only one) thinks that is? How have older generations played a part in that? Etc.

  • @katrinika_
    @katrinika_ ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Clear thoughts and straightforward communication, love that. Very surprised that most of the elders were open minded to more foreigners visiting Korea as well as Interracial Marriage. Quite sad that Africa is still judged harshly by most of the world though.

  • @lasithajayawardana9559
    @lasithajayawardana9559 ปีที่แล้ว +384

    I'm glad you focused on interracial dating and marriage. All the countries with a history of isolation and xenophobia are all open to foreign tourism, workers and even tolerate new business owners, but heaven forbid you fall in love with their child, want to get married and have mixed race babies. They don't think of the babies as hybrids of two difference genetic strains coming together to possibly make a "better" human, but of half breeds/contaminated blood lines. A LOT of countries, and people are still VERY FOCUSED on keeping bloodlines and linage as pure as possible.

    • @isaacsidibe1937
      @isaacsidibe1937 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You're right

    • @clorozweepvmundosalazar5153
      @clorozweepvmundosalazar5153 ปีที่แล้ว

      ginsengdroplets Yeah I think it’s actually so weird that basically when East Asians do anything, it’s all labeled racist but the same energy isn’t applied to other people groups. Like for example, I’ve actually heard some of my African American friends say that their parents would go crazy if they brought home an Asian bf. Or some of them say they are not attracted to certain races such as white people or Asian people. What are these double standards in saying some people are horrible racists for this same behavior but completely fine when others do the same exact thing?? Make it make sense

    • @Anacaona4
      @Anacaona4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@Imokayluv The problem though is from a genetics standpoint. If a culture only breeds within themselves, it will only be a matter of time when genetic diseases or disorders start to arise. This is why there are specific races and ethnicities that are more susceptible to specific diseases/disorders than others. Look up race/ethnic related illnesses/diseases.

    • @PrisTvv
      @PrisTvv ปีที่แล้ว

      Yea

    • @no40
      @no40 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@Imokayluv Your comment is one of the main reasons why I do not approve or support interracial relationships, in general. Not only are there communication problems but also cultural barriers that both sides are not able to relate.

  • @aviramiancovici93
    @aviramiancovici93 ปีที่แล้ว

    awesome channel! thanks for the cool content. my first visit to the east was a week in south korea and I pretty much fell in love. they are good honest people, I love their cool vibe and sense of humor! they are very kind and I wish I could stay more (BTW I went to Gumi, didn't get to see Seoul)

  • @anmolagrawal5358
    @anmolagrawal5358 ปีที่แล้ว

    Like the content on this channel!
    This is an interesting topic and seeing the perspective of older generation puts into perspective the going ideology even among those who are most likely to reject foreigners.

  • @introvert2023
    @introvert2023 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Education brings wisdom.Rightly said i agree there are some exceptions. I was amazed by Korean elders being so open minded which I find rather less in west.

  • @kosm0814
    @kosm0814 ปีที่แล้ว +2696

    I love the fact that some of the elders kept it 100 and said they wouldn’t necessarily approve of a black person marrying their daughter. They are very honest and thats how everyone in the world should be

    • @RougeLino
      @RougeLino ปีที่แล้ว +6

      yeah they are not like white people. i respect that

    • @Minceontoast2
      @Minceontoast2 ปีที่แล้ว +239

      I agree No beat around the bush

    • @RougeLino
      @RougeLino ปีที่แล้ว +126

      @@ysworld123 you're projecting like crazy with your 1st sentence lol. What humanists have done to you?

    • @Minceontoast2
      @Minceontoast2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@RougeLino Fuck up He’s just saying he likes the honesty

    • @abeck0856
      @abeck0856 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I totally agree

  • @_theechriswilliams
    @_theechriswilliams ปีที่แล้ว

    Aside from the fact that I just love talking to older and more senior people, this video was sooooo good!

  • @emotionaldamage9894
    @emotionaldamage9894 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    now this is like a good approach they were not trying to play passive agressive with their responses they were straight to the point even it's better to know their reactions rather than some people who try to give a middle ground answers to confuse people

  • @Camillerxx
    @Camillerxx ปีที่แล้ว +3

    When I went to Korea thier were many kind elders who were curious about me but thier were also a lot who were judging. It’s varied. But most of my warmer interactions in Seoul were from elder people

  • @zeldaaugust
    @zeldaaugust ปีที่แล้ว +20

    It’s cool that they are honest, but I still don’t understand why black people are always rejected. One day I will have children and I really hope that the world will change because I don’t want them to feel lower, rejected or anything bad based on their colour..😔

    • @jay-dok2258
      @jay-dok2258 ปีที่แล้ว

      As a black person i think its because they haven't really had exposure to black people..
      Most foreigners in Korea are white and the media, films etc have all represented whites in a positive light.. my English isn't that good i hope u understand

    • @myeongwori
      @myeongwori ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think first and foremost because the lack of popular African medias in the world. Hollywood with their dominance until now already successful brainwashing people into believing white people are attractive no matter how ugly they are (especially for people with white fever). The same with East Asia, Southeast Asia, South Asia, although they aren't as big as Hollywood, they choose people with the best of the best appearance as their actors, so everyone who gets exposed to their media also gets the illusion. Africa should do the same, improve their popular medias, choose someone with unrealistic beauty standard as their representation, and slowly people's perspective will change. The thing is for majority of people in homogenous society the only time they see black people is from Hollywood movies and what Hollywood presents to the world is not attractive enough, in terms of appearance (even some contestants in Family Feud Africa are more attractive) or portrayal (gang member, violent, not cool, poor, druggie, etc), so rather than depend on Hollywood for representation, Africa should build their own medias and choose how they want to be portrayed, romantic, elegant, cool, smart, rich, etc.

    • @xcelaed
      @xcelaed ปีที่แล้ว +3

      We respect them so much too, no matter how much we admire them I feel like we’re just viewed as dirty

    • @user-mz5ft4um6f
      @user-mz5ft4um6f ปีที่แล้ว

      Terribly sorry for you to feel like that as a korean. 😢

    • @xcelaed
      @xcelaed ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@user-mz5ft4um6f Don’t apologize for her feeling that way. Apologize about the fact that it happens.

  • @circe4790
    @circe4790 ปีที่แล้ว

    great interview. also, kudos to you for allowing them to answer honestly and not reacting negatively or in a judgmental manner . that was hard to listen to.

  • @amcutiechuu
    @amcutiechuu ปีที่แล้ว +1

    besides the one man, everyone was so respectful and opened, I'm so happy being mixed that I'm generally accepted ^^

  • @PULCHRITUDE123
    @PULCHRITUDE123 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your hair is giving ❤️

  • @exo-l4742
    @exo-l4742 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    i really admire their honesty, even if we don’t have the same opinions 🫶

    • @aariachaudhary6143
      @aariachaudhary6143 ปีที่แล้ว

      Eri 😇

    • @yunjin910
      @yunjin910 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Racism is not a opinion

    • @winkle1983
      @winkle1983 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Really? If that was a white supremacist in the states, nobody would praise them for their honesty…

    • @madisonnn791
      @madisonnn791 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @jennifer valentinathe fact that you even have to bring up quite people is part of the reason why there would be no tolerance.

    • @madisonnn791
      @madisonnn791 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jennifervalentina4561 Okay but WHO is tolerating it?? Even if he is korean it's STILL racist and stereotypical. Doesn't matter the race. So just because other people are excusing it doesn't mean all are excusing it. So stop with that "now if a white person said it", cause it shouldn't have been said at all.

  • @al20031
    @al20031 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really enjoyed this video. Your Korean is amazing. You are the ideal 'foreigner' - language is everything. ⭐

    • @newjnsbby
      @newjnsbby ปีที่แล้ว

      Right? His Korean sounds soooo good!!!!

  • @teacup3064
    @teacup3064 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are an amazing interviewer! Keep up the good work

  • @deadbydaylight3168
    @deadbydaylight3168 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    you need a korean person for this. koreans will never tell you up front especially if you are black.

  • @aratarivomed2868
    @aratarivomed2868 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Hey man! I've been watching your videos for a while now, and as a fellow black male that's learning Korean and about to visit SK for the first time next spring, I like how you are showing me how welcoming of an experience it can be!
    Other than that, I actually clicked on this vid as it's your most recent one, and I've been wanting to tell you that you should include an outro to your vids, since they tend to cut off rather randomly HAHA
    To my surprise, you've already done it! Glad to see it, so keep it this way! :)

  • @vanessa3033
    @vanessa3033 ปีที่แล้ว

    The last one was so sweet he wanted to confront and encourage you with his gesture

  • @hi_am_disturbia
    @hi_am_disturbia ปีที่แล้ว

    I really appreciate the one you interviewed at around 4:00. Really good man.
    Countries often have a false image of what they truly are behind the scenes.
    Fantastic video and interviews

  • @lifewithtii
    @lifewithtii ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great video 😊

  • @londekazulu2460
    @londekazulu2460 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Africa will forever be a bush to people. It’s a shame. But we will keep our beauty to ourselves😊

  • @maherzain434
    @maherzain434 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Honesty above all. It's easier to know who you're dealing with and to act accordingly when they're honest and its not hidden

  • @brookParsons
    @brookParsons ปีที่แล้ว

    This was Excellent 👍🏼 Thank You

  • @hopeclearr3592
    @hopeclearr3592 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Dude I’m so jealous of you right now. I want to speak Korean like you. I’m working on it but I don’t have anyone to work with me so it’s slow going

    • @Malalalaika
      @Malalalaika ปีที่แล้ว

      Same, no progression at all for me. I enjoy watching him speak Korean in confidence and I can’t wait to be like that 😂

  • @sandyfeet8175
    @sandyfeet8175 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    These kinds of interviews are fascinating. Even if we don’t like the answer, it’s always better to hear what someone really thinks, than what they think we want to hear. It’s a pointless exercise otherwise. The guy interviewing, I could listen to him talk all day long, what a lovely, gentle, accent.

    • @user-3aa6234fh
      @user-3aa6234fh ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I prefer this than someone pretending they aren't racist but do things behind your back. Or someone being rude than someone being physically aggressive and violent. So you can just avoid a person whose pov you don't support

    • @sandyfeet8175
      @sandyfeet8175 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@user-3aa6234fh I think in the context of being specifically asked for an opinion for the sake of this interview, the truth is what’s needed. Racists in real life can suck up their poison and keep it inside them, if it means they don’t hurt someone’s feelings.

  • @meCatH
    @meCatH ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm not crying, you are! 💜

  • @isabellaakosuafraiku
    @isabellaakosuafraiku ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I enjoyed this video. Thank you!

  • @darcycardinal6275
    @darcycardinal6275 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I lived in South Korea earlier this year and enjoyed it. I’m an indigenous Cree First Nations from Canada. I really did not pay attention to any negative things or interacted with the locals to be honest. Great country though, despite the youth issue.

  • @flovonnejohnson707
    @flovonnejohnson707 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I wonder why the one guy said that if the person is black from America than it's ok but not if they're from Africa🤔
    That's quite interesting.... I wonder what the significance of the difference is to him. I've never heard that before. It would have been interesting to know 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @xavier6887
      @xavier6887 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It’s obvious...

    • @flovonnejohnson707
      @flovonnejohnson707 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@xavier6887 OBVIOUSLY not to me if I'm making this post, I'm African American and I'm wondering what he sees in the difference that negatively effects his opinion of Africans. It's possible that it's based on stronger genes in Africans or something entirely different.......

    • @divx1001
      @divx1001 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@flovonnejohnson707 it's similar in Europe. Many ignorant people still think that black Africans are uneducated, poor and opportunist. There is also a perception of them as being too culturally different, so hard to connect to and comunicate with. Black Americans seem to share at least some of the european culture, so many people are more open to them. It's not rational to me but it's a common sentiment.

    • @flovonnejohnson707
      @flovonnejohnson707 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@divx1001 true that that is a sentiment in the US and it makes sense that that type of view would find it's way to other countries

    • @rodrigoe.gordillo2617
      @rodrigoe.gordillo2617 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think it has to do with culture

  • @FrugalFunMum
    @FrugalFunMum 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was a great interview thanks for sharing it's great to hear first hand and how open minded they are! I watched another interview where an elder said 'I wouldn't really support it as I feel there is too much culture difference, however it's not my decision at the end of the day it's my child's' I felt it was still honest and good to hear. I saw another interview of someone young 'would you marry a foreigner' and he said 'yep' gets me a ticket out of this country LOL. Gotta love honesty!

  • @xDesired12x
    @xDesired12x ปีที่แล้ว

    Love these interviews! Please keep them coming! ❤

  • @hotmesshauls
    @hotmesshauls ปีที่แล้ว +16

    These comments are wild. If you can address the honesty the least you can do is also address how still very racist it is. A little giggle and banter in a conversation doesn't change that.

    • @WastedBananas
      @WastedBananas ปีที่แล้ว +2

      There is nothing wrong with not wanting to mix, mixing means you lose culture and phenotype

    • @hotmesshauls
      @hotmesshauls ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@WastedBananas 😬 Now we both know those are not the reasons.

    • @biqilee5420
      @biqilee5420 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@WastedBananas Are you dumb ? He said that he would accept white but I know that you hate blacks so go **** your mother