Man from a small town in the North of England where everyone is related to each other is shocked that another culture his different to his. He should have his passport taken off him.
He’s heading for a complete nervous breakdown. It’s already happening. The delusion is strong with Dan. Neither him nor Pete can speak Thai after years of living in the Kingdom. How’s that for entitlement …
Damaged men, not just Euros.. I met one, who thought hes keeping a bar girl pure, so didnt sleep with her, while giving her $$$ 5 k in 4 days, and was upset she never contacted him when he went back home to his wife!!!! 5555555555
I met a Thai girl in Pattaya - not a bar girl as far as what I knew - recent university graduate - from Roiet. I tried to help her find a job, but she was LAZY and did not have a serious work attitude. She wanted 1 million THB to get married, when I questioned this she gave me the “you don’t love me” statement. I soon broke up with her, avoided a headache for sure.
I was quoted 300 000 12 years ago. I said no. Got married anyways. Broke up 3 years later after I returned to Canada to work a while Within 4 weeks she met a Frenchie for fun. Lasted a whole 2 weeks going to tiger zoos and all the crap. Point is, don't give them anything worth of value. They will ( probably) break up with you or cheat eventually in the future.
Issan is wicked. Pattaya is very similar to Blackpool. But I don't think this dude is in a position to give advice with his 'cough' successful history of Thai - Farang relationships.
As long as you're a meal ticket, an upgrade or a status symbol, you'll never really know where you stand with her. It's a 50/50 russian roulette type of shot at that point. A woman has to bring something to the table and she has to have something to lose. If not, she has to suffer with you. She has to walk through the valley of "LIFE HAPPENS" with you. She has to be able to endure and survive the storms of life together with you in order to be worthy of you, to be worthy of being your queen and to be worthy of your fidelity and loyalty! WHY, because, she will have earned it!!! Ask yourself, if you lost everything, would she sell meat patties on the side of the road with you if that's what it took to rebuild???
Otherwise, protect yourself at all times because it'll be the same shit different day with a different woman and you'll continue to get your teeth knocked in!😎
The bottom line is having a relationship with any woman is going to be hard. They are a complex creature. Their main focus is the money! Always the money! It’s not about you. It’s about your bank account. How much do you have. How much do you make in a job. How much do you own. Men’s main focus is about the woman’s looks. Is she pretty. We men are extremely visual. Women care most about security. Why we see ugly fat guys with beautiful women. But they have the money. Which represents security in the woman’s eyes. I too went through a bad situation with a Vietnamese woman I met in Hong Kong. I was living in China/Manila. We were together for seven years. Almost got married. But didn’t. It was something very bizarre and unique that eventually drove us apart. So she went back to Vietnam. Luckily, she wasn’t the type that kept asking me for money. Or for her family. I did give her some but only when I offered it to her. I think picking up a bar girl for a serious relationship can be dreadful. It’s hard. Because of what she has gone through in her life vs the way you lived. Black and white here. Night and day. Difference. Use your brain more than anything. Not your heart. Not what’s in between your legs. Your brain. Think. Think. First.
Best advice I have read here. Spoken by someone who has been there, done that & used their brain. It chalk & cheese as far as cultures goes. But it still can work as long as both parties are aware of this.
You kind of contradicted yourself in your sentence. You say that they’re complex but then go on to say that all they want is money ( which I agree with btw) the fact is women are actually extremely easy to read and predictable. they’re not half as complicated as they’re made out to be. They only appear complicated to men that don’t have anything to offer them such as good looks, money or status. If you have at least one of those things then women come in abundance and nothing will be particularly complicated. For men that have nothing on offer will often feel frustrated due to the lack of attention they get from women or constant chasing they have ti do in order to find a mate and that is where the false notion comes into play that women are complex creatures. They’re absolutely not, they’re actually very predictable.
Mugs game, shows the desperation in western guys and wanting to control a girl. There is plenty of girls they all want money same as the guys go there for sex. Land and house buying or building is a certain no, no. Why get married when you can rent and live the good life without loosing everything.
what i've noticed from most of these videos is men just not being fussed about the relationship they're in. they seem to get married to these thai girls but assume the relationship will fail from the start. I can't imagine any of my western married friends talking about their western wives like these guys do - basically saying well its sort of fine, not great, but I can just leave if anything get hard. None of them seem to be in actual loving relationships. i don't think i've heard one man in any of the videos talk with any sort of affection or love about their wife. it's like they're a vague acquaintance. Seems like this is the type of man that goes to thailand in the start - people who don't seem to be able to put down roots or form long relationships with people at home so go abroad and form these superficial relationships that seem to be primarily about money and sex rather than actually knowing the person they've apparently decided to spend the rest of their life with. I don't know, each to their own, but it doesn't seem like these guys are going to be able to keep a happy relationship going anywhere in the world. If you're going to walk in to a bar anywhere in the world and try to start long term relationships with sex workers there you can't honestly think it's going to work.
To be fair i’ve met plenty of men who adore their wives in Thailand. I am one of them. We’ve been married nearly 2 years. Been in a relationship since 2016. She is my world. Also I didn’t meet her in a bar and I think that’s where many men choose the wrong partner.
@@ThairishTimes fair enough. I'm probably painting very broad strokes as that tends to be the stories you hear/watch on here - because of course it makes for an interesting story. Not much drama in a happily married couple just living a normal life I suppose. I guess I just don't understand why a Brit would think getting together with a drug addict sex worker in Thailand would work out any better than a drug addict sex worker in the UK (I do appreciate not all bar girls are into drugs etc, and the bar girl scene is a little different to the UK sex industry)
Ive watched Dan's channel pretty much from the start. I sort of stopped watching mainly because it became tiresome listening to the same stories over and over. I think he's a genuine person sincerely trying to guide newbies to Thailand who specifically are looking for a relationship with unrealistic expectations.He even had a subscriber visit him one time who he helped out but the guy, in my opinion, was just another dolt who likes to frequent pattaya. His intentions are good but at the end of the day its all just entertainment.
Any body who needs to told that a 60 year old man and an 18 year old thai girl are going to have a successful relationship needs brain surgery i lived in Thailand 12 years been with my thai wife 17 years she.s younger than me but never worked in a bar and has worked every day since i met her i was in thailand 6 years before i even met her❤😂
Dan talks about the fact that normal women also can trick the naive foreigner...Stupid guys with big wallets will always attract manipulative women..its not a unique Thai thing..Its not hard to find a good honest middle class Thai women but you got to know what NOT to do...Set your rules and standards( its called having a frame) early on..Most women,regardless of where they are from, will respect you for it...
I agree. A guy has to maintain frame. The issue nowadays, theres just too many beta males. Then when they go to Thailand, their messing with woman who have more experience then them. There paying woman right from the start; sponsoring them or paying them to be with them.
also, if you lead with your wallet - that is what you'll attract. cultures may differ, but whoman are whoman all over the world. and 100%, maintain your boundaries, backtrack and you're fooked.
Yeah honestly don't get these guys. Here in the Philippines met dozens of women not a single one has ever asked me for 300 pesos. They have pride and are ashamed and refuse when i offer them $2 for their bus ride home. Every other girl i need here is putting in 10 times more into the relationship than i am. Loyal, honest, submissive, and generally simple and a pleasure to be around. I honestly think these guys are trolling because i couldn't find a manipulative woman or a woman who ask me for money even if i tried.
I agree with both of you. But. I'm 44. If I book a vacation to athailand and see a hot 22 year old sure. The hormones will rise. But I say but. Keep your head. Do I honestly think a 22 year old model will love me? Nooooo. Thailand or the Philippines. I don't feel sorry for these men to be honest. When you're retired unless you meet someone close to you're age and dont splash money and make false promises maybe sure. Like the saying goes. Men think with their small brain.
I don’t think the issues are exclusive to Thailand. The issues that Dan describes is easily observed in the Western world also. Just try and choose carefully and take your time doing it. Also ask yourself if you are really ready and mature enough to have and hold a good relationship.
Agreed, plus a lot of men go to places like Pattaya, etc and are told by bargirls, "hello handsome man" They need to carry a mirror with them to bring them back to reality 😄
I stumbled upon Dan's channel a few months ago and I thoroughly enjoy it. Some days I'll listen to a few stories. Instead of having the radio on. Loved the story he mentioned about the Irish bloke with a wife and four kids. Feel sorry for his wife but it had me in stitches at times.
Came to the comments section expecting a host of anti-Thai, anti-woman sentiments. Pleasantly surprised to see well-balanced and reasoned people. Kudos to your viewers and you for the viewers you attract!
He's right though about Thai gals who r ruthless that are not just from the red light district but they are some normal Thai gals who can be worse then ruthless, I dated a Thai teacher many years ago..she turned out to be a nightmare within a month of us being together, luckily I showed her the door after 3 months.
I have a Thai friends and married with a foreigner the other one when she’s mad to the husband she threw a knife at him and the other one shoot the husband on one of their arguments and she have to spent time in prison somewhere in Europe but some are good wives too.
Im 82 qnd just married my 22 year old thai girlfriend. We have a very good relationship and great sex everyday. She use to work as a bar girl but has not quit to be with me , she said i was the love of her life. I am so lucky
As an old far-east Sailor. I can totally agree with what has changed in 25 years. Yes, it's the internet and the ego's that makes things different. Sometimes, when I feel bad about a topic, it's because I know it's true. It's fun to believe and fantasize that you're the exception to common sense. Yes, I'm 60, but I'm so cool and young at heart. That's why my 19-year-old Thia girlfriend loves me !!! Hahaha!!!
Listening about Thai girl mentality, I recently heard a story of a Thai lady in need of money so she went and prayed to Budda explaining her situation. The next day she met a farang who was besotted with her and offered her 30000 a month to stay with him. In his mind she was more than greatful of his generosity. In her mind it was nothing to do with the farang kind act, it was Buddha whom she was praising.
The way to work is the home test. Would I go out with an 18 year old at home? Would I buy a house or land for someone I really don't know? If I was a home would I buy an iPhone or gold for a call girl at home? The guys think everything is going to be happy ever after with a 20 year old. Would a relationship with a 20 year at home? This was an honest interview.
This guy doesn't seem to understand that you don't need to live in Isaan to find the quiet life in Thailand. I spent years in the Nong Chok district of Bangkok which is full of rice fields and village life. Then I moved to a quiet inland Phuket moobahn with mountain views and only one bar within the local neighborhood. I'm only 15 minutes from the beaches and tourist nightlife if I want that though.
100% agree, me and the wife live in Lat Phrao and just feels like any city suburb and a million miles away from the tourist side of BKK. Find it so strange the people from the west have relationships with women with a 30 year age difference and then wonder why it goes wrong. They wouldn't start a relationship with someone that works in the sex industry back home so why here? All seams very bizarre to me
Didn't "lose" the houses. He traded houses for attention. He's a crap negotiator, not a victim. Extremely low self-esteem is a serious issue many men going to SE Asia have. Sad, but ya can't tell them anything. Given enough money these men will give away 1000's of house. Only constraint is the amount of money they have. No different from a gambler's addiction. People talk about these men like they're dumb instead of the extreme low self-esteem problem. That only traps other low self-esteem men who think they'll be smarter rather than facing the actual issue. So this just keeps happening over and over.
100% they have picked the wrong woman, most guys simply have zero radar when it comes to woman and Thailand simply amplifies these issues due to the access you are afforded via money. I live in a nice area here and I have been with my wife for 11 years, I have been able to provide her with a pretty luxurious lifestyle despite not needing to work she has chosen to go out and sell real estate as she wants to create a career for herself. I offer to buy her things like Louis Vuitton handbags even a BMW and she is simply not interested, its refreshing. I have quite a lot of friends with similar relationships, but you never hear anything about these type of Thai girls because they are very uninteresting, we just live normal lives. I believe you reap what you sow, and bar girls are a very poor starting point and so is a forty + year age gap.
Maybe you are lucky? I know some wealthy Farang guys who have 'invested' in a local lady. It's great whilst they are around but as soon as these guys 'drop their guard' the 'girls' flirt about, join the card games and go drinking at bars! Usually 'looking' for that 'bit of fun' that they are missing in their current lifestyles! Money isn't everything! If its in them, it will remain there! Just remember where they met these 'girls' --the circumstances? Should help clarify!
Hang around those types and that is what's going to happen. Not sure why this is surprising to anyone. There are many Thai women out there that do not have any of the qualities that Dan is always railing on about. Me thinks he needs to broaden his horizons and experiences in Thailand@@senianns9522
Posts like this really do clarify the need that people must do their own research before they Travel to Countries they never visited before. And part of that research needs to be into understanding what to look out for, in order to protect yourself.
I am watching these Chanel for entertaining. It is crazy how many people are living in a bubble. These men are believing that money can buy love. Very interesting…
no Anna, they don't believe that. They believe they have at last found a woman who really loves them & they are happy to invest what they have to make a good life together. It's a delusion, sure....but not the delusion you're thinking.
Not sure if it's this video or another one, but he mentioned on a dating profile that he wants to just go to coffee, and that he won't pay for everything, etc... which is a great idea! I lived in Thailand for a few years: 2004-2006. And I didn't buy into: "The Man needs to pay for Everything!" etiquette. However, if I went on a date with a Thai lady I feel obligated to pay since they are generally poor. On the other hand, I've also met Thai women who were educated in the West and adopted the Western ways of 'Women's liberation" where they even offer to pay on a date. I was confused about this social etiquette: Is it a real social expectation in the Thai culture or is it just plain BS? So I just made a judgement call case by case. Of course if you're with a bar girl, you have to pay for everything!...LOL. But outside of the bars, it's open to interpretation. If I met someone that has a job sometimes they would offer to pay, but as I stated I do feel obligated since Thais are generally poor, just don't want to be treated like a walking ATM machine! I don't recall ever asking some Thai dudes I knew there about this etiquette. They're input on this would be interesting. What are the facts behind this social etiquette?
Bad things can happen to men no matter what the age difference is and no matter what the background is of the woman. Much safer to just not allow yourself to "love" any of them. Most of them are very skilled at fleecing men of their money.
There's a myth that many Thais believe -- all 'Farangs' are walking ATM's. The Thai women who have been spurned, jilted, single mothers and young hopeful wannabees will flock to the bars , clubs and hotel lounges for salvation. Amongst the many are a few real gems! However its like walking along a beach of crushed glass looking for a 'lost diamond'!
This 😂guy has a real arrogant attitude ,with a real chip on his shoulder ,ever since he started posting his fairy stories he never fails to try humiliating any expat that are older than 30 , like they have no right to enjoy and do whatever makes them happy , because he thinks anyone 50 to 80 should be prevented from going to areas that should be reserved for people under 30 , ( in fact in a lot of his early posts he pushed that narrative very heavy ) as for his knowledge and all knowing Bs, after his 6 supposed years in Thailand ,he should realise it is a small circle of expats here and many can attest as to his verbal diarrhea , all he does is recount gossip and dresses it up to get money for BS on UT
Whatever is going on within will be the magnet of most if not all external things. Before making any life decisions and as Socrates famously scribed...." Know thyself ". 😉
I found some of these bloke damaged themselves out of arrogant. They came looks wealthy enough to cared for a daily job in weeks or months just hangout in a bar in Bangkok....well they're accumulating a desire to be scam later on...lively bait. Those bar is a den to awful lot of tiger, that's how these bloke derived it...when it's actually a 'thaigirl' performing their jobs. Anyway these farang keep coming while the tiger keep growing....cheers
Smashing chap and great story. I did a few years there and rented everything, even the minge. No complaints I found quickly what ever woman I felt in (beer) love with I’d meet one the next night hotter. So for four years I thought just rent, two at a time if you can. Never had a problem adopting that strategy. Although I only have one sperm left now, and that’s on a life support machine 😂
Dear Dan can’t even remember his own stories hahahaha the 18 year old didn’t / wasn’t getting scammed he couldn’t afford it. Dan thinks he so clever yet can’t remember what he has actually read and spoke out loud lol
If a girl has kshatriya DNA , of course she is not going to back down. They will fight and they will win. Kshatriya is the military/warrior class, this is their nature, they dont stand down. Also sex will always make the guy weaker. He loses his life force and she takes on that male life force so she will have a stronger aura than him. Then she will need to off load that energy somewhere especially if she has unresolved issues from past trauma. If she is eating hot spicy food this can also set them off.
It's funny when the negative comments are from people who expect everyone else to live according to the same tilted world views and opinions as they do.
Absolute nonsense to say it’s the guys fault - a guy has good intentions and likes a girl whereas the girl is lying and deceitful- it’s definitely poor form from the girls who do this in most cases / the guys just loose common sense and let themselves get ripped off
I disagree with Dan when he talks about a big age difference between man and a Thai lady and it never works. Well Dan look at yourself all your relationships in uk and Thailand have only been a few years but all your relationships have failed
I like that bloke. Before I remarried my Vietnamese wife I met in Australia, a friend took me to walking st in Angelas city. He took me to a bars that I felt like a predator. The doors shut behind us and all the girl's had numbers and were dancing on stage for us and 1 other. I didn't finish my beer and left. He took me up the rd to the place with the fly mesh on the corner with pool tables and the outside world could look in. Much better. I get what he says.
Je m'abonne car tu es un ami de Dan. Dan est. un super gars. J'aime ses histoires sur les Thai Womens. Je bais regarder tes vidéos pour voir de quoi cela parle. Merci 🙏
I would argue men make terrible mistakes or more correctly take terrible risks when dating women. I would argue it is the the risk the men take that is the problem more than differences in ages and culture. We know that the majority of Westerner/Thai relationships fail. If we estimate 1 in 3 are successful. If I were to ask you to bet 1 to 3 on your happiness but you will certainly lose your stake how much would you wager? When asked like this most people would not wager their entire emotional well being and most of their financial assets. Most will certainly keep something back for the 2 in 3 times relationships fail. This is the manner of the risk most men are taking even relationships in the West. The men who come to Thailand for women have not had wonderful relationships in the West. Western relationships are no less risky than Thai ones but we discuss the Thai relationship failures separately from other relationship failures. Men who have not been able to have a successful relationship in the West and now have a failed relationship in Thailand we blame the difference in the women but the common element is the man. To conclude I am not saying the men are at fault but for their own sanity should limit investment in these relationships. It seems as though we say just pick that 1 out of 3 that will be successful. Like always picking the winning horse will not be possible for most men.
Been happily married to a lovely Thai lady for over 16 years in NZ. I guess if you wanna chase round eye candy 30 years younger then the odds of failure are good.
If you are a retired 65 year old who moved abroad and date a 20s years old, then don’t be surprised if you get scammed 🤦♂️ If you’re 65 years old, you should look for someone in their late 30s or 40 who are past child bearing age. They are mature and probably already had a kid or don’t want kids.
If you can't live in Thailand on a $3,000 a month pension, something is seriously wrong. I get by just fine with 40,000 baht and it's a pretty comfortable life. Now, if you are going to be drinking all the time and wanting to eat western food, it may be a different story, but you are going to have to try really hard to blow through 3K in a month. You gotta be really financially stupid and clueless for that to happen.
Damaged European man meets damaged bar girl, what could possibly go wrong?
Create a child which has the potential to be damaged.
Man from a small town in the North of England where everyone is related to each other is shocked that another culture his different to his. He should have his passport taken off him.
He’s heading for a complete nervous breakdown. It’s already happening. The delusion is strong with Dan. Neither him nor Pete can speak Thai after years of living in the Kingdom. How’s that for entitlement …
Damaged men, not just Euros.. I met one, who thought hes keeping a bar girl pure, so didnt sleep with her, while giving her $$$ 5 k in 4 days, and was upset she never contacted him when he went back home to his wife!!!! 5555555555
At least they didn't do sky fall from Pattaya condos
I met a Thai girl in Pattaya - not a bar girl as far as what I knew - recent university graduate - from Roiet. I tried to help her find a job, but she was LAZY and did not have a serious work attitude. She wanted 1 million THB to get married, when I questioned this she gave me the “you don’t love me” statement. I soon broke up with her, avoided a headache for sure.
Cuando
So love cost xxx thb lol 😂😂
Lmfao 😂 you can’t make this sh$t up. “Give me a million THB”
“Hmmm why” 🤔
“You not love me” 😢😢
Haha 😂
Sounds like you dodged a bullet
I was quoted 300 000 12 years ago.
I said no.
Got married anyways.
Broke up 3 years later after I returned to Canada to work a while
Within 4 weeks she met a Frenchie for fun. Lasted a whole 2 weeks going to tiger zoos and all the crap.
Point is, don't give them anything worth of value. They will ( probably) break up with you or cheat eventually in the future.
Issan is wicked. Pattaya is very similar to Blackpool. But I don't think this dude is in a position to give advice with his 'cough' successful history of Thai - Farang relationships.
Pattaya is the biggest shithole in south east asia
As long as you're a meal ticket, an upgrade or a status symbol, you'll never really know where you stand with her. It's a 50/50 russian roulette type of shot at that point.
A woman has to bring something to the table and she has to have something to lose.
If not, she has to suffer with you. She has to walk through the valley of "LIFE HAPPENS" with you. She has to be able to endure and survive the storms of life together with you in order to be worthy of you, to be worthy of being your queen and to be worthy of your fidelity and loyalty!
WHY, because, she will have earned it!!!
Ask yourself, if you lost everything, would she sell meat patties on the side of the road with you if that's what it took to rebuild???
Otherwise, protect yourself at all times because it'll be the same shit different day with a different woman and you'll continue to get your teeth knocked in!😎
Great comment.
Tell your Thai girlfroends wives your bank account is empty.pai laow reow
The bottom line is having a relationship with any woman is going to be hard. They are a complex creature. Their main focus is the money! Always the money! It’s not about you. It’s about your bank account. How much do you have. How much do you make in a job. How much do you own. Men’s main focus is about the woman’s looks. Is she pretty. We men are extremely visual. Women care most about security. Why we see ugly fat guys with beautiful women. But they have the money. Which represents security in the woman’s eyes. I too went through a bad situation with a Vietnamese woman I met in Hong Kong. I was living in China/Manila. We were together for seven years. Almost got married. But didn’t. It was something very bizarre and unique that eventually drove us apart. So she went back to Vietnam. Luckily, she wasn’t the type that kept asking me for money. Or for her family. I did give her some but only when I offered it to her. I think picking up a bar girl for a serious relationship can be dreadful. It’s hard. Because of what she has gone through in her life vs the way you lived. Black and white here. Night and day. Difference. Use your brain more than anything. Not your heart. Not what’s in between your legs. Your brain. Think. Think. First.
Best advice I have read here. Spoken by someone who has been there, done that & used their brain. It chalk & cheese as far as cultures goes. But it still can work as long as both parties are aware of this.
I know men are extremely visual. So do you just lose attraction to your gf or wife as they age?
You kind of contradicted yourself in your sentence. You say that they’re complex but then go on to say that all they want is money ( which I agree with btw) the fact is women are actually extremely easy to read and predictable. they’re not half as complicated as they’re made out to be. They only appear complicated to men that don’t have anything to offer them such as good looks, money or status. If you have at least one of those things then women come in abundance and nothing will be particularly complicated. For men that have nothing on offer will often feel frustrated due to the lack of attention they get from women or constant chasing they have ti do in order to find a mate and that is where the false notion comes into play that women are complex creatures. They’re absolutely not, they’re actually very predictable.
Most thais woman.not all.show me the money 💰 that's it. Lol
And remember , don't get married.
Smart guys don’t get married. Only fools do
Mugs game, shows the desperation in western guys and wanting to control a girl. There is plenty of girls they all want money same as the guys go there for sex. Land and house buying or building is a certain no, no. Why get married when you can rent and live the good life without loosing everything.
Stop looking for love in bars, stick with your bros out there you don't need to he around, birds every single night!
what i've noticed from most of these videos is men just not being fussed about the relationship they're in. they seem to get married to these thai girls but assume the relationship will fail from the start. I can't imagine any of my western married friends talking about their western wives like these guys do - basically saying well its sort of fine, not great, but I can just leave if anything get hard. None of them seem to be in actual loving relationships. i don't think i've heard one man in any of the videos talk with any sort of affection or love about their wife. it's like they're a vague acquaintance. Seems like this is the type of man that goes to thailand in the start - people who don't seem to be able to put down roots or form long relationships with people at home so go abroad and form these superficial relationships that seem to be primarily about money and sex rather than actually knowing the person they've apparently decided to spend the rest of their life with. I don't know, each to their own, but it doesn't seem like these guys are going to be able to keep a happy relationship going anywhere in the world. If you're going to walk in to a bar anywhere in the world and try to start long term relationships with sex workers there you can't honestly think it's going to work.
To be fair i’ve met plenty of men who adore their wives in Thailand. I am one of them. We’ve been married nearly 2 years. Been in a relationship since 2016. She is my world. Also I didn’t meet her in a bar and I think that’s where many men choose the wrong partner.
@@ThairishTimes fair enough. I'm probably painting very broad strokes as that tends to be the stories you hear/watch on here - because of course it makes for an interesting story. Not much drama in a happily married couple just living a normal life I suppose. I guess I just don't understand why a Brit would think getting together with a drug addict sex worker in Thailand would work out any better than a drug addict sex worker in the UK (I do appreciate not all bar girls are into drugs etc, and the bar girl scene is a little different to the UK sex industry)
Is this guy for real.
Giving advice on thai girls.
Look at his relationship.
He's a nut case 😊😊
If only we were as perfect as you Derek the world would be a better place
He can still give advise. Who say he can’t .. 🤦♀️
He's clearly speakibg from experience, who else would you expect to advice you if not someone who's going or been through it.
He's lived the life. I'd rather listen to him than someone as perfect as you mate
Ive watched Dan's channel pretty much from the start. I sort of stopped watching mainly because it became tiresome listening to the same stories over and over.
I think he's a genuine person sincerely trying to guide newbies to Thailand who specifically are looking for a relationship with unrealistic expectations.He even had a subscriber visit him one time who he helped out but the guy, in my opinion, was just another dolt who likes to frequent pattaya.
His intentions are good but at the end of the day its all just entertainment.
@spirittravels. As thai people say "same same but different" 😆
Yeh me too....
I also don't think he really offers and real valuable advice and thinks he understands Thailand when in reality, there is a lot he doesnt get.
I bet the Christian Philippinas make much better wife's 😂
Any body who needs to told that a 60 year old man and an 18 year old thai girl are going to have a successful relationship needs brain surgery i lived in Thailand 12 years been with my thai wife 17 years she.s younger than me but never worked in a bar and has worked every day since i met her i was in thailand 6 years before i even met her❤😂
Dan talks about the fact that normal women also can trick the naive foreigner...Stupid guys with big wallets will always attract manipulative women..its not a unique Thai thing..Its not hard to find a good honest middle class Thai women but you got to know what NOT to do...Set your rules and standards( its called having a frame) early on..Most women,regardless of where they are from, will respect you for it...
exactly!!! it's really female nature. and low quality behavior of these sorry excuses of men
Don’t be gullible & you’ll be fine
I agree. A guy has to maintain frame. The issue nowadays, theres just too many beta males. Then when they go to Thailand, their messing with woman who have more experience then them. There paying woman right from the start; sponsoring them or paying them to be with them.
also, if you lead with your wallet - that is what you'll attract. cultures may differ, but whoman are whoman all over the world. and 100%, maintain your boundaries, backtrack and you're fooked.
Yeah honestly don't get these guys. Here in the Philippines met dozens of women not a single one has ever asked me for 300 pesos. They have pride and are ashamed and refuse when i offer them $2 for their bus ride home. Every other girl i need here is putting in 10 times more into the relationship than i am. Loyal, honest, submissive, and generally simple and a pleasure to be around.
I honestly think these guys are trolling because i couldn't find a manipulative woman or a woman who ask me for money even if i tried.
I agree with both of you. But. I'm 44. If I book a vacation to athailand and see a hot 22 year old sure. The hormones will rise. But I say but. Keep your head. Do I honestly think a 22 year old model will love me? Nooooo. Thailand or the Philippines. I don't feel sorry for these men to be honest. When you're retired unless you meet someone close to you're age and dont splash money and make false promises maybe sure. Like the saying goes. Men think with their small brain.
Wise words Stephan
I don’t think the issues are exclusive to Thailand. The issues that Dan describes is easily observed in the Western world also. Just try and choose carefully and take your time doing it. Also ask yourself if you are really ready and mature enough to have and hold a good relationship.
Agreed, plus a lot of men go to places like Pattaya, etc and are told by bargirls, "hello handsome man"
They need to carry a mirror with them to bring them back to reality 😄
Bachelor life is best. Only fool$ want a relationship with a woman in this day and age …
@@keithd1219 One of those massage girls once called me Mbappe 😂
Yes but Thailand is out on its own as a rip off a to foreigner destination
@@kippsguitar6539it’s not if you don’t live in the tourist traps and believe me I know I’ve lived in Thailand long enough.
I stumbled upon Dan's channel a few months ago and I thoroughly enjoy it.
Some days I'll listen to a few stories. Instead of having the radio on.
Loved the story he mentioned about the Irish bloke with a wife and four kids. Feel sorry for his wife but it had me in stitches at times.
Came to the comments section expecting a host of anti-Thai, anti-woman sentiments. Pleasantly surprised to see well-balanced and reasoned people. Kudos to your viewers and you for the viewers you attract!
A lot of simps watch this channel.
He's right though about Thai gals who r ruthless that are not just from the red light district but they are some normal Thai gals who can be worse then ruthless, I dated a Thai teacher many years ago..she turned out to be a nightmare within a month of us being together, luckily I showed her the door after 3 months.
I dated 4 girls from Norwich in the U.K. All were unhinged and drank too much… does it mean all women from Norwich are the same ????
@@apuestasfutbolbest you ask anyone that is actually from Norwich I suppose..
Exactly. Thai girls are toxic. All of them.
Only rent for an hour, a night at most. Never make it serious.
@@Somerset976 So should I ask the people actually from Norwich or the migrants who moved there? 🤔
@@apuestasfutbol if it helps to answer your question that u asked me.. go for it son 🤷🏻♂️
there is an old saying never bet the farm.
Great Interview! They both match well on the podcast
Thanks!
Feel like you are in Blackpool in Pattaya? I feel like I am in Jaipur
Some people expect too much from a relationship 🕶
My missus is 41 and I just turned 51. Thats OK. 25yrs or more is a no go with Thai women.
Or any other women
I have a Thai friends and married with a foreigner the other one when she’s mad to the husband she threw a knife
at him and the other one shoot the husband on one of their arguments and she have to spent time in prison somewhere in Europe but some are good wives too.
Im 82 qnd just married my 22 year old thai girlfriend. We have a very good relationship and great sex everyday. She use to work as a bar girl but has not quit to be with me , she said i was the love of her life. I am so lucky
Cmon man really 😃 😀 😄
😂😂😂😂
Thanks for the wind up 😂
As an old far-east Sailor. I can totally agree with what has changed in 25 years. Yes, it's the internet and the ego's that makes things different. Sometimes, when I feel bad about a topic, it's because I know it's true. It's fun to believe and fantasize that you're the exception to common sense. Yes, I'm 60, but I'm so cool and young at heart. That's why my 19-year-old Thia girlfriend loves me !!! Hahaha!!!
Loves Your Small Change. No Teen Will Naturally Loves Grandpa.
Dan is like the Dear Deidre for soppy falangs. Who cry and complain about Thai women … and how dangerous they are. 😂😂😂
Pretty much 🤣
... yes, self-pity is self-distruction!
YES!!
His opinion is skewed against Thai women because malcontents are attracted to his channel
Listening about Thai girl mentality, I recently heard a story of a Thai lady in need of money so she went and prayed to Budda explaining her situation.
The next day she met a farang who was besotted with her and offered her 30000 a month to stay with him.
In his mind she was more than greatful of his generosity.
In her mind it was nothing to do with the farang kind act, it was Buddha whom she was praising.
Both parties were equally deluded … 😅
-----And low and behold , the temple was soon swamped with Thai ladies queuing up for an appointment with Buddha! TIT!
Yes, no one is grateful to the fish for allowing itself to be caught. It's just a fine, fat fish that will be good eating
You have a quote for the ages there. @@ferney2936
The way to work is the home test.
Would I go out with an 18 year old at home?
Would I buy a house or land for someone I really don't know?
If I was a home would I buy an iPhone or gold for a call girl at home?
The guys think everything is going to be happy ever after with a 20 year old.
Would a relationship with a 20 year at home?
This was an honest interview.
This guy doesn't seem to understand that you don't need to live in Isaan to find the quiet life in Thailand. I spent years in the Nong Chok district of Bangkok which is full of rice fields and village life. Then I moved to a quiet inland Phuket moobahn with mountain views and only one bar within the local neighborhood. I'm only 15 minutes from the beaches and tourist nightlife if I want that though.
Ive lived here in Phuket for 25 years mate Dan knows very little,
100% agree, me and the wife live in Lat Phrao and just feels like any city suburb and a million miles away from the tourist side of BKK. Find it so strange the people from the west have relationships with women with a 30 year age difference and then wonder why it goes wrong. They wouldn't start a relationship with someone that works in the sex industry back home so why here? All seams very bizarre to me
He complains about the roosters and constant noise, but remains there. He’s a complete battler for punishment. A real sad fuq …
He has obviously never visited the gated communities that litter Bangkok, a world away from the madness of the Suk ghetto.
@@athitaya6898 the gated communities of phuket are much better. I'm within walking distance of both a supermarket and a waterfall-filled hilly jungle.
Lol kinda funny the Khmer
people have the same stereotypes about Thai girls for hundreds of years...
Didn't "lose" the houses. He traded houses for attention. He's a crap negotiator, not a victim. Extremely low self-esteem is a serious issue many men going to SE Asia have. Sad, but ya can't tell them anything. Given enough money these men will give away 1000's of house. Only constraint is the amount of money they have. No different from a gambler's addiction.
People talk about these men like they're dumb instead of the extreme low self-esteem problem. That only traps other low self-esteem men who think they'll be smarter rather than facing the actual issue. So this just keeps happening over and over.
he is way to negative for me, obviously had some major relationship problems in his past.
only negative sad storys...there are plenty of positive ...like everywhere
I noticed the younger lads in their 20s and 30s who meet similar age women do actually have love.
🎉 An equally as interesting ‘Part Two’, Pete. Really good stuff. Your video content is always so interesting. Well done 🎉
100% they have picked the wrong woman, most guys simply have zero radar when it comes to woman and Thailand simply amplifies these issues due to the access you are afforded via money.
I live in a nice area here and I have been with my wife for 11 years, I have been able to provide her with a pretty luxurious lifestyle despite not needing to work she has chosen to go out and sell real estate as she wants to create a career for herself. I offer to buy her things like Louis Vuitton handbags even a BMW and she is simply not interested, its refreshing.
I have quite a lot of friends with similar relationships, but you never hear anything about these type of Thai girls because they are very uninteresting, we just live normal lives.
I believe you reap what you sow, and bar girls are a very poor starting point and so is a forty + year age gap.
Maybe you are lucky? I know some wealthy Farang guys who have 'invested' in a local lady. It's great whilst they are around but as soon as these guys 'drop their guard' the 'girls' flirt about, join the card games and go drinking at bars! Usually 'looking' for that 'bit of fun' that they are missing in their current lifestyles! Money isn't everything! If its in them, it will remain there! Just remember where they met these 'girls' --the circumstances? Should help clarify!
Hang around those types and that is what's going to happen. Not sure why this is surprising to anyone. There are many Thai women out there that do not have any of the qualities that Dan is always railing on about. Me thinks he needs to broaden his horizons and experiences in Thailand@@senianns9522
Stay single my homies...
I've been single since March 2023 it's Dec 2023 Now still not caring about a relationship right now 😮
A wise man there - stayed away from the pathetic sad Pattaya scene
Posts like this really do clarify the need that people must do their own research before they Travel to Countries they never visited before.
And part of that research needs to be into understanding what to look out for, in order to protect yourself.
Not at all , just need basic common sense but unfortunately many people don't have any
I am watching these Chanel for entertaining. It is crazy how many people are living in a bubble. These men are believing that money can buy love. Very interesting…
no Anna, they don't believe that. They believe they have at last found a woman who really loves them & they are happy to invest what they have to make a good life together. It's a delusion, sure....but not the delusion you're thinking.
Not sure if it's this video or another one, but he mentioned on a dating profile that he wants to just go to coffee, and that he won't pay for everything, etc... which is a great idea!
I lived in Thailand for a few years: 2004-2006. And I didn't buy into: "The Man needs to pay for Everything!" etiquette. However, if I went on a date with a Thai lady I feel obligated to pay since they are generally poor. On the other hand, I've also met Thai women who were educated in the West and adopted the Western ways of 'Women's liberation" where they even offer to pay on a date.
I was confused about this social etiquette: Is it a real social expectation in the Thai culture or is it just plain BS? So I just made a judgement call case by case. Of course if you're with a bar girl, you have to pay for everything!...LOL. But outside of the bars, it's open to interpretation. If I met someone that has a job sometimes they would offer to pay, but as I stated I do feel obligated since Thais are generally poor, just don't want to be treated like a walking ATM machine!
I don't recall ever asking some Thai dudes I knew there about this etiquette. They're input on this would be interesting.
What are the facts behind this social etiquette?
Bad things can happen to men no matter what the age difference is and no matter what the background is of the woman. Much safer to just not allow yourself to "love" any of them. Most of them are very skilled at fleecing men of their money.
The problem is these guys are all blue pilled betas, with little experience with woemen …
Dan one of my favs.. next to you brother 😀
Thanks mate 🙏🙏🙏
There's a myth that many Thais believe -- all 'Farangs' are walking ATM's. The Thai women who have been spurned, jilted, single mothers and young hopeful wannabees will flock to the bars , clubs and hotel lounges for salvation. Amongst the many are a few real gems! However its like walking along a beach of crushed glass looking for a 'lost diamond'!
Dan is the Man! best wishes to you mate!
Tried watching Dans channel but, hearing him drone on in his monotone accent feeding off other people's mistakes...not for me.
Same.
Should rename his channel “Hooker talk with Dan” there’s no real Thai talk
Same
This 😂guy has a real arrogant attitude ,with a real chip on his shoulder ,ever since he started posting his fairy stories he never fails to try humiliating any expat that are older than 30 , like they have no right to enjoy and do whatever makes them happy , because he thinks anyone 50 to 80 should be prevented from going to areas that should be reserved for people under 30 , ( in fact in a lot of his early posts he pushed that narrative very heavy ) as for his knowledge and all knowing Bs, after his 6 supposed years in Thailand ,he should realise it is a small circle of expats here and many can attest as to his verbal diarrhea , all he does is recount gossip and dresses it up to get money for BS on UT
Whatever is going on within will be the magnet of most if not all external things. Before making any life decisions and as Socrates famously scribed...." Know thyself ". 😉
There is no problem loving theses girls just not give them all your money.
I married a 19.year old when i was 45. Hilarity ensued 😅
She Married You Her Father. Dirty Old Man. You Have Nothing In Common.
"splashing the cash" buzz phrase no1 in thailand
Dan the real deal...No BS straight to the point💪💪💪I like his channel..but the bargirls in Thailand don.t😂😂
He's a muppet.
@@nwils6944That sums him up perfectly. Should name the channel Deluded Dan … 😅
I hope his son doesn't watch this and find out he only stays with his mother because of him
I really keen on the stories like these :) l never hear any bad situation with slavic guys and Thai girls :)
This was such a wonderful video of how people move in the world. Thank you for being so honest.
I found some of these bloke damaged themselves out of arrogant. They came looks wealthy enough to cared for a daily job in weeks or months just hangout in a bar in Bangkok....well they're accumulating a desire to be scam later on...lively bait. Those bar is a den to awful lot of tiger, that's how these bloke derived it...when it's actually a 'thaigirl' performing their jobs. Anyway these farang keep coming while the tiger keep growing....cheers
Smashing chap and great story. I did a few years there and rented everything, even the minge. No complaints
I found quickly what ever woman I felt in (beer) love with I’d meet one the next night hotter.
So for four years I thought just rent, two at a time if you can. Never had a problem adopting that strategy. Although I only have one sperm left now, and that’s on a life support machine 😂
... Dan, he's great, going into his channel, seldom do. w/all that excitement, love the beat intro. ... need the 3 can Guinness. Cheers.
Dear Dan can’t even remember his own stories hahahaha the 18 year old didn’t / wasn’t getting scammed he couldn’t afford it. Dan thinks he so clever yet can’t remember what he has actually read and spoke out loud lol
I enjoy both your and Dan's channel. I spent a few years in Thailand in the early 90s...pre internet. I don't know if I'd survive there these days.
If a girl has kshatriya DNA , of course she is not going to back down. They will fight and they will win.
Kshatriya is the military/warrior class, this is their nature, they dont stand down.
Also sex will always make the guy weaker. He loses his life force and she takes on that male life force so she will have a stronger aura than him. Then she will need to off load that energy somewhere especially if she has unresolved issues from past trauma.
If she is eating hot spicy food this can also set them off.
Thai woman geared up to harvest as much money as possible using selected well tested ways .One needs to be very very careful .
It's funny when the negative comments are from people who expect everyone else to live according to the same tilted world views and opinions as they do.
6:00 He ain't lying 😂
Great video Pete & Dan very interesting i enjoyed it....spot on. Keep going lads ignore the negative ones😂
Absolute nonsense to say it’s the guys fault - a guy has good intentions and likes a girl whereas the girl is lying and deceitful- it’s definitely poor form from the girls who do this in most cases / the guys just loose common sense and let themselves get ripped off
Oh no, not the Spongebob with the cap again ...
WOW..TIM from Australia. I think I know who you mean. He's a wingnut, for sure! Very weird character.
Nice interviews Pete. I've seen a few of his vlogs and always entertaining. Looking forward to your next chat mate
I disagree with Dan when he talks about a big age difference between man and a Thai lady and it never works. Well Dan look at yourself all your relationships in uk and Thailand have only been a few years but all your relationships have failed
Dan got it right. Hence, he fits into Thailand. Many don’t and it ends up in disaster.
Many bar girls speak English but I learned a little Thai at Berkely and found a girl who owned a shop.
Thanks for the Video Thairish Times , keep up up the good work.
Once is ignorance, twice is you don't learn, three is sheer folly
Fools and money are easily parted, I don’t see Thailand as anything different.
Please prononce "Esaan" the correct way dude, you live there 😂
I like that bloke. Before I remarried my Vietnamese wife I met in Australia, a friend took me to walking st in Angelas city. He took me to a bars that I felt like a predator. The doors shut behind us and all the girl's had numbers and were dancing on stage for us and 1 other. I didn't finish my beer and left. He took me up the rd to the place with the fly mesh on the corner with pool tables and the outside world could look in. Much better. I get what he says.
Where ever you go there you are😵💫😵💫😵💫
When bills come in the door ,love fly's out the window.
I agree with Dan, I can say what I like, but then again I don’t live in Thailand!
Je m'abonne car tu es un ami de Dan. Dan est. un super gars. J'aime ses histoires sur les Thai Womens. Je bais regarder tes vidéos pour voir de quoi cela parle. Merci 🙏
Come on, guys ! We all want a bar girl in the bedroom and an Isan Girl in the house.
love watching your site & the interesting people you have on like Dan, is it just me or has your Dublin accent got stronger since you moved home.🤔🤗
A couple of people have said that so I guess it must be true 😂😂
Baggers can’t be choosers.✌️
Excellent VIDEO/Interview Pete 😊. I have watched Dan's channel from the beginning. Love it. Keep the video's comin.
I would argue men make terrible mistakes or more correctly take terrible risks when dating women. I would argue it is the the risk the men take that is the problem more than differences in ages and culture.
We know that the majority of Westerner/Thai relationships fail.
If we estimate 1 in 3 are successful.
If I were to ask you to bet 1 to 3 on your happiness but you will certainly lose your stake how much would you wager? When asked like this most people would not wager their entire emotional well being and most of their financial assets. Most will certainly keep something back for the 2 in 3 times relationships fail.
This is the manner of the risk most men are taking even relationships in the West.
The men who come to Thailand for women have not had wonderful relationships in the West.
Western relationships are no less risky than Thai ones but we discuss the Thai relationship failures separately from other relationship failures.
Men who have not been able to have a successful relationship in the West and now have a failed relationship in Thailand we blame the difference in the women but the common element is the man.
To conclude I am not saying the men are at fault but for their own sanity should limit investment in these relationships.
It seems as though we say just pick that 1 out of 3 that will be successful. Like always picking the winning horse will not be possible for most men.
Been happily married to a lovely Thai lady for over 16 years in NZ. I guess if you wanna chase round eye candy 30 years younger then the odds of failure are good.
@@Ronboy69 OK
never marry or buy property in thailand!!!!
Tim Ward lol. Ignore him. You no need go nowhere his nothing
Moral of the story.. if you want a nice life stay single and get a dog 🐕
The many bad ones make the few with common sense look bad!
Fair play to dan highlighted to fareng good man to give advise to a vurnable fareng
The answer with these women is to do nothing, but be aloof, and that is the golden rule.
aloof with a Thai lady? 🤣 She will completely forget you exist . Thais have very active social lives, you will not even be a blip on her radar.
If you are a retired 65 year old who moved abroad and date a 20s years old, then don’t be surprised if you get scammed 🤦♂️
If you’re 65 years old, you should look for someone in their late 30s or 40 who are past child bearing age.
They are mature and probably already had a kid or don’t want kids.
Really enjoyed this interview with Dan Pete. Been watching his channel for a while and yours. Keep up the good work Pete
I have no desire to live in Isan, although Khon Kaen is a nice place.
Interesting interview. Have subbed his channel 👍🏻
Cheers mate
Afer the first loss , the rest is on you .
Another problem is that men think they can retire on a 3000 dollar a month pension. Asia is not cheap anymore. Think carefully.
When you consider how much the average Thai earns $3k is a heap of money and you can have a very comfortable life depending on how you choose to live😊
If you can't live in Thailand on a $3,000 a month pension, something is seriously wrong. I get by just fine with 40,000 baht and it's a pretty comfortable life. Now, if you are going to be drinking all the time and wanting to eat western food, it may be a different story, but you are going to have to try really hard to blow through 3K in a month. You gotta be really financially stupid and clueless for that to happen.
3k a month is really a lot dude..
“Dating” a bar girl is not dating, it’s a transaction.
Not the girl's fault.
yesss big up the todd crew