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  • 32-year old Capetonian Alexander is a spiritual being walking this earth in search of meaning. A guitar teacher by day, he wants a woman who appreciates his soul over his material offerings. Kelly is walking her own path of discovery. Copywriter by day, she is now learning about holistic health and healing. On paper they tick each others boxes. Will Alex's views on modern woman's roles overstep feminist Kelly's sensibilities?
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  • @ianfin
    @ianfin 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1183

    Women are too independent but he still split the bill 😂. You want a submissive wife but not showing that you're an alpha/provider, how does that make sense?

    • @blahblahblah7551
      @blahblahblah7551 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

      I think when they split the bill they are not interested

    • @Idgjfho
      @Idgjfho 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Exactly!

    • @PROVOCATEURSK
      @PROVOCATEURSK 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      You shouldn´t pay for first few dates even when you are getting to know a traditional woman. Your money and times has to be earned.

    • @TomNook.
      @TomNook. 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      Poor logic. Guys want to be the provider...for their partner. Not a date.

    • @ryantucker2166
      @ryantucker2166 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      She's not his wife or girlfriend.

  • @christianelila3374
    @christianelila3374 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +890

    The fact that he is a teacher and might transfer these stereotypes onto the children is awful.

    • @katella
      @katella 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      "might" ?

    • @traceyarnaud8433
      @traceyarnaud8433 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

      Thank god it’s just guitar lessons. He probably can’t expose them to his verbal diarrhea in such limited time constraints 😊

    • @elizabethmenegon8057
      @elizabethmenegon8057 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @traceyarnaud8433
      🤣🤣🤣💯

    • @richgreeeat8736
      @richgreeeat8736 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Much better than the nonsense of feminism which is slowly destroying civilisation in the west.

    • @tonimaestre96
      @tonimaestre96 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      like it is better those teachers who tell the kids it is okay to change your gender like you can exchange your drinks

  • @artapothecary53
    @artapothecary53 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1211

    'Clearly you're not smarter than me because you aren't smart enough to know that you shouldn't have said that!' - good for her for being able to stomach the rest of that date

    • @JoshPhoenix11
      @JoshPhoenix11 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      On the contrary, he's coming from an entirely different level. A level that she isn't aware exists.
      And to those people, higher intelligence looks like foolishness.

    • @artapothecary53
      @artapothecary53 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      On the contrary, I am aware of what he believes he is speaking of. It is the path he thinks is required to obtain that and the continued division he believes should exist in order to maintain it. It is foolish. It is more nuanced and beautiful than 0010

    • @johnnyboy123211
      @johnnyboy123211 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Actions speak louder than words, he is very vocal! Sorry

    • @hannahlou3406
      @hannahlou3406 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      @@JoshPhoenix11 I think you mean delusion not "higher intelligence"

    • @zbridgjpxupzm
      @zbridgjpxupzm 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      He didn't say that. He said he uses his mind (will power) more versus women who mostly go with their emotions. IMO none is "better", it is just a different way of operating. They both need each other.

  • @Supamav11
    @Supamav11 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +713

    As a guy, I commend her for keeping her cool, being respectful, and finishing the date even though he basically said he believes women are intellectually inferior to men.

    • @gaildavis8004
      @gaildavis8004 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      I think you completely misunderstood what he was saying…..

    • @mechloe8528
      @mechloe8528 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

      ​@@gaildavis8004 - I think uv missed understood what this guy is saying??

    • @Supamav11
      @Supamav11 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

      @@gaildavis8004 He said when he meets a woman he assumes he’s smarter. I don’t know how else to interpret that.

    • @PV-pu5iu
      @PV-pu5iu 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

      I would've gotten up, and left. I'm too old for this garbage.

    • @crusadersofthesea
      @crusadersofthesea 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      BETA

  • @pepper1188
    @pepper1188 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +384

    Funny how he thinks he's so unique, actually there are millions like him.

    • @glosske
      @glosske 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Everyone is unique, duh

    • @katella
      @katella 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      ​@@glosskekeep telling yourself that. 😂

    • @LottieJ-fq6es
      @LottieJ-fq6es 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      "I'm not like the other guys"
      That's what the other guys said!

    • @Littlemouse884
      @Littlemouse884 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Exactly he's a dime a dozen...yawn🥱 😴

    • @malenahernandez9377
      @malenahernandez9377 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And I’m glad. Because they world would be destroyed by now if the feminists do really something significant but complain.

  • @GAYKEEPDEEZNUTZ
    @GAYKEEPDEEZNUTZ 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +280

    Bro thinks he explained feminism to a woman by saying it’s a bunch of confused women. This is how little some men have actually ever even interacted with actual women or even understand feminism. Insane, absolutely insane thing to say to a person on a blind date. Let alone actually believing.

    • @admar6934
      @admar6934 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Well it kind of is they say they're strong and independent but expect men to do everything although they work they don't contribute to anything, they don't want a man but still look for one,they really font know what they want since they are constantly shifting thoughts and ideas than complain when no man wants them, yet they are strong and jndependent but not when it comes to accountability

    • @GAYKEEPDEEZNUTZ
      @GAYKEEPDEEZNUTZ 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@admar6934 strong and independent not when it comes to accountability is a hilarious sentence in it of itself. Read that one a few times and tell me why that makes sense to you.

    • @GAYKEEPDEEZNUTZ
      @GAYKEEPDEEZNUTZ 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@admar6934 was your mom like not independent and very reliant on your father or something? Did your mother work? Not all women are like that. My mother raised three kids by herself. Owned her own business for ten plus years. Traveled the world. Worked construction for 20 years. Made a ton of money without anyone’s help and bought her own home all as a single parent. There’s millions of women out there doing great things without zero input from a man. What makes you think a women is inferior?

    • @sapphirewilliams5586
      @sapphirewilliams5586 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This doesn't even represent feminism at all. Feminist fight for womens rights, to give women opportunity and freedom of choice. ​@admar6934

    • @84bravado
      @84bravado 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      In fairness there's about 4028 ways I've heard feminism be explained. Lol. But yeah, he's not doing himself any favours

  • @janebaker4912
    @janebaker4912 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +420

    So glad he showed his cards. So she doesnt waste her time. She was very classy how she turned him down.

    • @sonetgreyling5504
      @sonetgreyling5504 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      She’s not classy. At all

    • @Just_a_Lad
      @Just_a_Lad 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He also shouldn't waste his time with a feminist who doesn't know what to do with her life.

  • @shanfarco1574
    @shanfarco1574 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +184

    Most feminist I know (myself included) do not judge how a person chooses to live. If you want the traditional life, go for it. If you want the opposite, go for that. What we don't do it tell people what they should be doing. I've noticed that traditional men tend to be the ones who TELL women that they will be happier in the house. If you want a housewife, take a housewife. But stop telling all of us that thats the role we should be interested in.

    • @laraantipova389
      @laraantipova389 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      I’m not a feminist, but I have always seen my marriage as a team situation. We choose to take each other (and each other’s families) as our team. I worked then stayed at home then worked and then stayed at home again. I started at home because 1) the daycare cost 2) all the sick days and appointments that kids have the first year or so 3) my personal beliefs about children’s psychology 4) my husband has a salary of $140,000 and he is not very good with babies (so it wasn’t reasonable). When the pandemic started my husband was WFH while I was out of the home. He made a commitment to wash every dish since 2020 because he didn’t have the commute and could squeeze it into his day!
      I think the main problem is that so many men were raised traditionally, but do not have the salaries to support a woman, so they expect a woman to work, 50:50 bills, but then be more of a house slave than a teammate or partner.

    • @lunity1111
      @lunity1111 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I completely agree with you and I think it’s because not many women want that role now they have options and I guess if women don’t want that role and would be happier single than filling the role and men want a partner they will have to change slightly what they are looking for and adapt

    • @Roswell33
      @Roswell33 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@laraantipova389 I always find it confusing when women say that they are "not a feminist" when they value equality and respect from men, which it sounds like you value, so I'm curious about what it is that you're rejecting? Maybe a feminist stereotype of some sort?

    • @Just_a_Lad
      @Just_a_Lad 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I know feminists who are mocking traditional guys, there you go.

  • @Arrouba123
    @Arrouba123 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

    She was incredibly polite. I don’t think I would’ve dealt with it so graciously lol

    • @rxnnnz9698
      @rxnnnz9698 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I know! I was thinking the same thing!

    • @silentwitness536
      @silentwitness536 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Another angle: Women complain "why arent men up front and honest?" Man is up front and honest about what he wants. The female reaction? - HOW DARE HE BE SO UP FRONT AND HONEST!!!! laughable.

  • @andrewvail5458
    @andrewvail5458 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +366

    "You're not smart enough to know that you shouldn't have said that". Spot on... in the bigger picture, her statement applies to soooo many people. 😎

    • @ArtistrybyAlyssa
      @ArtistrybyAlyssa 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      💯💯💯

    • @SuperXXLULUXX
      @SuperXXLULUXX 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Yes Queen!!! 👏👏

  • @aimeebelinda6288
    @aimeebelinda6288 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +380

    What a gorgeous woman. I love that she stood her ground whilst also being respectful. He was a tool

    • @TinMan445
      @TinMan445 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She’s at least 30 pounds over weight… gorgeous is a big stretch

  • @peyote.
    @peyote. 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +335

    This dude is a perfect example of why women should continue to be strong and independent. His ego is radiating insecure and controlling. He looked pissed at the end, and I wouldn't be surprised if he was a ticking bomb so rigid and unable to let loose and ready to go off. He also wouldn't compliment her when she was talking about what seemed like similar interest and seemed like someone who would hold back appraisal to a woman he felt intimidated by. This is just my observation.

    • @OyVey-
      @OyVey- 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      vvomen are neither strong or independent

    • @ArtAffliction099
      @ArtAffliction099 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      🤡@@OyVey-

    • @Mandaxx25
      @Mandaxx25 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@ArtAffliction099 no he's not a clown just because you haven't got a clue.

    • @jubernardi23
      @jubernardi23 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      🤡

    • @malenahernandez9377
      @malenahernandez9377 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      By seeing your face, we know why you think that way. You’re on a mission of keeping men away. 😊

  • @Nomadic_psyche_
    @Nomadic_psyche_ 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    The fact that she sat that out with composure and was emotionally intelligent enough to call him out on not being ‘smart enough’ to recognise his lack of self awareness. Shows she is mentally “strong” (in his words) and (emotionally) intelligent.
    I also love that at the end she was like “uh can I go first?” 😂

  • @AKiki-ct1ro
    @AKiki-ct1ro 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +198

    That woman is great. She deserves a masculine man who can top that and isn't threatened by his woman flourishing.

    • @stratfordbaby
      @stratfordbaby 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      She's too full of herself.

    • @kittykitteh3747
      @kittykitteh3747 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Why masculine? Maybe masculine men aren't her taste. She deserves a good guy is what I think you were trying to say.

    • @StimParavane
      @StimParavane 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Arrogant boss babes are not attractive.

    • @HeBorka
      @HeBorka 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      ​@@StimParavane if you saw her as an arrogant boss babe, you must be extremely insecure.

    • @David-vq1pn
      @David-vq1pn 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah, I'll be her house-husband / stay-at-home Dad - where do I sign up! 😂

  • @TheEntryCode
    @TheEntryCode 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +71

    Here's a man who is lacking, who knows he is deep down, so needs to put women in their place to feel superior. It's actually kind of sad

    • @Just_a_Lad
      @Just_a_Lad 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So everyone who is against feminism is a bad person and lacking something. Got it. You gotta love how "tolerant" feminists are.

  • @Zeepjeliefs
    @Zeepjeliefs 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    She's very beautiful and intelligent and strong. She will not let herself be manipulated 😅

    • @Just_a_Lad
      @Just_a_Lad 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I hope that this is irony :)

    • @Zeepjeliefs
      @Zeepjeliefs 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Just_a_Lad why?

    • @F1R3EMBLEM
      @F1R3EMBLEM หลายเดือนก่อน

      Feminist though, so basically worthless

    • @Zeepjeliefs
      @Zeepjeliefs หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@F1R3EMBLEM truly wondering why you say that. Is it for the attention? Is it to put someone down it gives you a better feeling? Hope you can get over that

  • @o.h.w.6638
    @o.h.w.6638 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +291

    And he’s a teacher? For children?!?! Yikes

    • @georgeoliver349
      @georgeoliver349 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I wouldnt worry its not like hes got free reign and can teach whatever he wants

    • @richgreeeat8736
      @richgreeeat8736 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah not like with poisonous ideaology of "feminism"

    • @rose-yeah
      @rose-yeah 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I had a teacher who is like this because he is religious but he never said anything about gender roles or feminism. Maybe he is like that, or not.

    • @Samuel-hd3cp
      @Samuel-hd3cp 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      JK.
      Did they though?

    • @Just_a_Lad
      @Just_a_Lad 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      A lot better than woke/feminist teachers though.

  • @lovinmytunes05
    @lovinmytunes05 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Here's what happened: He is very intimidated by her education and strength therefore, he needed to insult her so he could feel superior.
    No wonder why he is single.

    • @campo_rojo
      @campo_rojo 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      i mean, she is the woman with 29 years and single??? she already hit the wall so, she is the one that is already miserable and alone, too late for her, he is a man so his wall is way ahead, he stil have time.

  • @karenstieglitz3443
    @karenstieglitz3443 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +89

    He's really ultimately just quite a twit. But he gave me a giggle, and I thank him for that.

    • @hal3760
      @hal3760 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Great point! 😂😂😂

  • @CannagirlGettadab
    @CannagirlGettadab 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +132

    So he is a hippie/incel? That's a new one for me.

    • @dileee44
      @dileee44 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      ISTG I HAD THE SAME EXACT WORDS IN MY MIND BAHAHHAHAHAHAHHA this guy is definitely a new one

    • @katella
      @katella 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Probably actually looking for a woman to support him.

    • @seraphilight
      @seraphilight 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      He's not a hippie, hippies get laid.

    • @jessicastephens9712
      @jessicastephens9712 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Oh it's definitely a sub-genre lol

    • @thecosmicxx
      @thecosmicxx 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Sometimes people go so far left they end up right wing. It’s bizarre

  • @BeezersFufoon
    @BeezersFufoon 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +89

    ‘You’re not smart enough to know not to have said that.’ Spot on.

  • @ashsmee
    @ashsmee 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +271

    “Women are becoming too independent” yikes buddy it’s not 1940.

    • @carolinammajp11
      @carolinammajp11 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂😂😂😂 she would have to be the breadwinner and cut her hair lol @@evalilith6703

    • @Ali-Bea
      @Ali-Bea 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      Or indeed 1840.

    • @PROVOCATEURSK
      @PROVOCATEURSK 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      You not liking it doesn´t mean it´s not true. People now are more single and depressed than before.

    • @ashsmee
      @ashsmee 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

      @@PROVOCATEURSK I’d rather be single then with some who degrade me lol

    • @ms-corleone
      @ms-corleone 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      ⁠@@PROVOCATEURSKstatistically it’s men who are more depressed when single. So, there is that…

  • @donaldauguston9740
    @donaldauguston9740 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    Gurl! RUN don't walk away from that.

  • @CanMoose
    @CanMoose 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Well it's pretty obvious who is the most intelligent in this couple...and it ain't him!!

  • @snicholson8884
    @snicholson8884 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

    Hey he goes 50/50 on the bill😂😂😂

    • @PV-pu5iu
      @PV-pu5iu 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Unbelievable

    • @zombiehunter1152
      @zombiehunter1152 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Why is that so shocking ? She’s a feminist she got what she wanted and that was to pay half.

    • @ASadPigeon
      @ASadPigeon 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      ⁠@@zombiehunter1152Duh, because he "believes" in traditional gender roles and women being less independent...which would mean him paying the bill.

    • @malenahernandez9377
      @malenahernandez9377 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      He’s not going to pay for a feminist. Why does she not show how a truly feminist she is?

    • @ASadPigeon
      @ASadPigeon 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      @@malenahernandez9377 Why doesn't he show how much he likes being traditional?

  • @TUHHHHHHH
    @TUHHHHHHH 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +85

    “Maybe a lot of woman do more cause some men don’t do enough “ exactly.

  • @deadeyes4626
    @deadeyes4626 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +93

    Not everyone is ‘’spiritual beings’’ these guru types are the most judgmental people going vailed in self help *it’s narcissism end of*

    • @nineteenfortyeight6762
      @nineteenfortyeight6762 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      💯

    • @nattie911
      @nattie911 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      They're so superior to everyone else 😂

    • @jennifermae134
      @jennifermae134 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      They are ironically also usually not that intelligent either 😂

    • @katella
      @katella 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      ​@@jennifermae134and are often alergic to work

    • @hannahlou3406
      @hannahlou3406 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      A lot of the worst misogynists seem to disguise themselves with new age spirituality....

  • @CorporateQueen
    @CorporateQueen 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +154

    I like how he used her opener to talk all about himself, not dive deeper into her story...
    That vegan line..😅
    He literally frames everything back to himself. Women don't want to be men...they want men to step up and many don't, and this guy is a prime example of it.

  • @JuliaStone75
    @JuliaStone75 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +309

    This woman is right on. He's so toxic.

    • @PROVOCATEURSK
      @PROVOCATEURSK 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      She should be happy that any man wants to talk to a woman that destroys her skin like that.

    • @hazar2354
      @hazar2354 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      He is insecure

    • @Shnayblay
      @Shnayblay 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@PROVOCATEURSKI don’t think they do hence having to try her luck at blind dating. Would probably find a bit more luck if the men were actually blind. Deaf too come to think of it.

    • @zombiehunter1152
      @zombiehunter1152 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      How many cats do u ladies have? Just wondering.

    • @JuliaStone75
      @JuliaStone75 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Most people have pets. Only sociopaths think that is somewhat a bad thing.@@zombiehunter1152

  • @yasminedey8612
    @yasminedey8612 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    That guy should first look up the definition of Feminism 😅

    • @BunkerWise215
      @BunkerWise215 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You're getting mixed up with modern and traditional feminism. Women have all the same rights as men so what are feminists fighting for now?

    • @yasminedey8612
      @yasminedey8612 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@BunkerWise215 for equality e.g. payment, shop items (razors etc.), promotion, leadership position etc ....

    • @BunkerWise215
      @BunkerWise215 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@yasminedey8612 Well a lot of women are driven and have goals when they are young but then when they have kids they want to stay at home for them. It's basic maternal instincts that get in the way of a full-time career. This is why men reach top more than women. But there is equality of the genders. Now a woman can become prime minister. But there are obviously pros and cons to being a man or woman. And most suicides are men.
      FYI.. Don't look now is my favourite movie 😉

    • @zombiehunter1152
      @zombiehunter1152 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@yasminedey8612wow you really are delusional if u think all that still exists.

    • @yasminedey8612
      @yasminedey8612 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@zombiehunter1152 yes, it does unfortunately

  • @GiggaBigga976
    @GiggaBigga976 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    This man is tooo based 😂

  • @juliecortes8459
    @juliecortes8459 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +94

    She handled that date like a THE CHAMP she is!!!

    • @astrid8433
      @astrid8433 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @JK-lj4vrbetter to live a happy life with cats and boxed wine than a man like that.

    • @astrid8433
      @astrid8433 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @JK-lj4vr that’s not true. There are plenty of women (and men) who are content with being single ☺️. Good luck to those happy in relationships, and those happy single.

    • @Just_a_Lad
      @Just_a_Lad 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's time for her to get cats and a gallon of chocolate.

  • @brown_recidivist
    @brown_recidivist 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

    he let his intrusivve thoughts win lol

  • @ffreshfields5211
    @ffreshfields5211 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    It's clear straight away that she is miles ahead of him and that he is only scratching the surface of her level of self-awareness. Funny how he said "women are becoming far too independent and in a way it diminishes the traditional male role". So he is more concerned about how other people's freedom and independence could negatively affect himself instead of caring about how it supports them and their lives equally to how his freedom supports his own. Ah men with control issues and internal confidence issues.... Same old same old.
    She handled it really well and graciously, and it is clear that she is way too smart for him and has too great an understanding of mutual respect as well as personal accountability.

  • @erics670
    @erics670 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    She was such a pro. I love her emotional maturity. Plus so gorgeous.

  • @itsmememene8953
    @itsmememene8953 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    He’s never stuck at anything by his own admission and he’s now a teacher. He’s very uneducated. It’s cute and funny . He knows a little about a lot and it’s gotten him nowhere so far. He should read a book from the front to the back and not the other way around x

  • @thefirm4606
    @thefirm4606 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    The manosphere has a lot to answer for

    • @Just_a_Lad
      @Just_a_Lad 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What the hell are you talking about :D

  • @aissdiouf9624
    @aissdiouf9624 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    Wanting a traditional woman as your partner does NOT align with splitting the bill! Traditionally the man should be the provider and pay for the expenses Alexander. You can’t have it both ways.

    • @user-nv2wt4hi8t
      @user-nv2wt4hi8t 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      At the same time, neither can you for wanting him to split the bill in such an obviously tense and disagreeable context. They clearly differed massively on a fundamental perspective and it was causing immediate tension to the point where things were turning closer into an argument than the kind of happy date where a man looking for a traditional woman would do what many women mistake as the 'traditional' thing and pay the bill, given we're not at all in traditional times, nor is she a 'traditional' woman. Why, based on the energy of the date, would you still expect him to pay the bill, in this context?

    • @irondasgr
      @irondasgr 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Clearly he didn;t. He had it HER way.

    • @Davechappelle445
      @Davechappelle445 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah but she said she’s a feminist. If she didn’t say that I’m sure he would’ve paid for the whole bill

    • @NicLuz
      @NicLuz 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I believe its a rule of the show, when they are not interested they share the bill

  • @hekkeh5427
    @hekkeh5427 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    a water??? mate even if you don't drink i would order a double rum coke after that interaction 🤣🤣 🤯🤯

  • @brandysewell8295
    @brandysewell8295 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    I don't think any self respecting woman would go on a 2nd date with him, given what he said. If he respects women and wants a good relationship at all, he needs to find a different way of explaining his ideologies.

    • @ffreshfields5211
      @ffreshfields5211 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      He will need to change his ideologies and learn mutual respect in order to have any good relationships

  • @corkandi
    @corkandi 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Her... I was a vegetarian for a long time but I do eat meat now. Him... I was a vegan last year. It's like they're point scoring and jumping from one bandwagon to the next - Yawn!

    • @durusan4839
      @durusan4839 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      How can someone quit eating animals and then eat again after a long time 😮

    • @sd7785
      @sd7785 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@durusan4839Yeah, feels a bit flip-flopping. Maybe it's something to do with the guy's "spirituality"

    • @julesc1665
      @julesc1665 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@durusan4839they were never vegan they just tried a 'diet' as a fad. A true vegan who actually cares about the suffering of other sentient beings would never eat animals again after they'd given up doing so

    • @durusan4839
      @durusan4839 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@julesc1665 Exactly agree with you, i am a vegan and i can never go back to eating animals , it is a promise given for a life time for me it is not a game, innocents are dying 🥺

  • @SongBillong
    @SongBillong 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Fair play to her. He's a complete tool!

  • @kyliejones8890
    @kyliejones8890 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    He's not even Alpha...he needs to practise what he preaches.

    • @miam1074
      @miam1074 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      and that is why he is insecure

    • @Just_a_Lad
      @Just_a_Lad 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He doesn't have to be

  • @kittykitteh3747
    @kittykitteh3747 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I can't fathom how she was able to hug that guy goodbye after what he said. He was Yiiikes

  • @mhinim
    @mhinim 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    She is an amazing human for being that cool and respectful in that situation. I wanna be her friend!

    • @Just_a_Lad
      @Just_a_Lad 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She would have a lot of friends , of those who say meow :D haha

  • @raymondmuller6072
    @raymondmuller6072 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    As a South African male I have to apologize for this doos!

    • @StimParavane
      @StimParavane 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Stop simping.

    • @portcontainer9727
      @portcontainer9727 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@StimParavane Well said!

  • @LeandroVelez7
    @LeandroVelez7 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    The minute he said he was a “spiritual being” big red flag. This guy is a great example of when you use jargon to hide an inner wound. His lack of self awareness was breathtaking. 🚩

  • @desmondfransen5588
    @desmondfransen5588 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I understand what he was saying. But it was not the girl to have this kind of conversation with.

    • @maggiehemming7904
      @maggiehemming7904 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      😂 so what sort of girl is? Enlighten us please

    • @NicLuz
      @NicLuz 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​@@maggiehemming7904probably women that share the same point of view as his🤷‍♀️

  • @jleano609
    @jleano609 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Dude is one of those people who covers up being not that intelligent with a bunch of spiritual mumbo-jumbo to make him sound smarter . LARPing basically. But he can't keep it going and doesn't have sense of "shades of gray" so falls into the whole generalistic "men are this way, women are this way" nonsense. As in "men are more logical, women are more emotional. Feminism tells women to be more like men so its bad" binary thinking. The truth is of course a lot more complicated and gradational, plus he's not talking to all women. He's got an individual woman in front of him. I love her "you're not smart enough to realize you shouldn't have said that" statement. Good for her. Dude comes over like a guy who has just discovered the Red Pill but has very little actual experience of women and can't filter and sort the info and so is just parroting generalities.
    Because even if romance is the frame where women DO tend to fall into typical gender roles most because of sexual polarity you don't "explain the game" and your expectations of how things should go with a potential partner. You just play the game and see if they play with you. First Rule of Fight Club and all that.

    • @bibakroll8999
      @bibakroll8999 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I'm also doubtful that he's a teacher. Did he say something about "I teach them guitar" - something like that? I doubt he actually has the appropriate degree.

  • @reikiwarrior8888
    @reikiwarrior8888 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I think he felt intimidated and threatened by her, looking for a reaction maybe…
    I like the way she intelligently responded to his rude and arrogant assumption of women- hahah laughed so hard 😂

  • @kaputfretudy
    @kaputfretudy 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    Alex needs an education, clearly. Good on her for pushing through with the rest of the date, and changing the subject. She targeted the behaviour, not the person...kudos

  • @aoife3571
    @aoife3571 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    omg, that was extremely hard to watch. Alex, you are going to be alone for a very very long time.

  • @Dumpsterfireninja
    @Dumpsterfireninja 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Once again, I really am disappointed by this version of the show

  • @daldas1
    @daldas1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Gut health....slams a martini!

  • @huggers5733
    @huggers5733 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I’m usually NOT on the “feminist side” but this guy was ridiculous and the girl was so classy.

  • @AS-yo2uy
    @AS-yo2uy 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    I have not even finished watching the video, but this guy believes in traditional gender roles like men being a provider. But really he wants women to stay a size zero and do the cooking, cleaning, child bearing, shopping, holiday prepping, and working while he works and comes home and lounges all day, I will also bet he will ask to split the bill.

    • @basinball1
      @basinball1 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      He did!

    • @malenahernandez9377
      @malenahernandez9377 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      She claimed she was a feminist proudly. Then she has to pay. Or you just are feminist when is convenient for you but not when the bill is coming?

    • @maggiehemming7904
      @maggiehemming7904 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​@@malenahernandez9377of course you're missing the point. His ideology would suggest he should offer to pay..her perspective would then allow her to refuse and pay half.

  • @robertgelblum5154
    @robertgelblum5154 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    I was thinking he might be very sensitive, intelligent, interesting . . . until he brought up his views on feminism and gender roles and capabilities. Then I realized that he is a complete idiot with views so old-fashioned and outdated that he belongs in medieval times. Women are at least as intelligent and capable as men - period! And women deserve 100% full equality with men in all aspects of life. That is what I believe wholeheartedly, and in a female partner I would seek someone who is my total equal but who complements me (as I her). It was foolish for him to disclose his views on women so blatantly on a first date, but it was necessary for her to hear these sad and pathetic opinions voiced so unequivocally - so she could stay far clear of him!

    • @TomNook.
      @TomNook. 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Many men who get away with that attitude. They tend to be the rich, big successful and loud men. This passive guy acting alpha doesn't work.

    • @georgeoliver349
      @georgeoliver349 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Women do have 100% equality in fact have more opportunity and arent as detrimented as you may believe or think. Take trades for example look at the percentages of trades like carpenters plumbers electricians tree surgeons under water welders firepersons these to name but a few have such small numbers of women, why???? It comes down to choice a woman most of the time will hardly ever choose these industries because they are dangerous and difficult, so in terms of capability i dont fully agree. Take war for example men always have been and still sent to their deaths, viewed as surplus to requirements. And yet its men who set these to protect women and children in order to sustain humanity etc. But modern wave fwminism doesnt want to partake in the industries so heavily populated by men hmmmmm.

    • @prettymesmerizing
      @prettymesmerizing 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ⁠@@georgeoliver349Equality is often misunderstood sadly. I am a woman and have never wanted to be treated like a man. It has more to do with equality in terms of both men and women deserving to be treated humanely. Both deserve love, respect, opportunities, freedom, to be valued as we are and so on. On average most men will be better at labour work since they have a physical advantage, some women may thrive in that field too but it may be less frequent. The point is neither gender is better, both deserve to be embraced as they are and complement each other.

    • @georgeoliver349
      @georgeoliver349 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@prettymesmerizing i understand equality perfectly well but such a luxury for both sides could only be attained in a utopian world. Since the context of this video was yo do with feminism i addressed the ideal at hand and as a byproduct or sub ideal if you will comes equality. A narrative thats ran usually more by the female side than than the male side of argument. Im not picking at anyone in particular im coming at it from a males perspective on how i perceive whats going on.

  • @pizzapipeline.
    @pizzapipeline. 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    But lets be honest. This has nothing to do with dating. Producers saw a chance to mix two completly different people for some drama...

  • @user-fg3bn6nj8v
    @user-fg3bn6nj8v 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    She owned him hard lol

  • @lav7161
    @lav7161 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    He stated what he believed and that's perfectly fine. She reacted to it and that's okay as well. Nothing wrong here. We all live in our own worlds. And things should end like this as well, they met, they disagreed and they moved on with respecting each other.

    • @carolmurphy7572
      @carolmurphy7572 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      No, I don't think she respected him at all, nor he, her. She demonstrated great restraint and intelligence in chosing not to enter into a discussion with him about the subject of "feminism", a word he clearly does not comprehend. Her self-respect told her it would be a complete waste of time and effort. He doesn't respect her, obviously, as he doesn't respect women.

    • @kaycampbell8532
      @kaycampbell8532 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      You're correct....he's living in his own world. An intelligent women wouldn't want to live there with him.

    • @ladistar
      @ladistar 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Is there anything wrong with a man preferring a traditional woman? @@carolmurphy7572

    • @heuristic-cat
      @heuristic-cat 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Except that he is empirically wrong and it was dumb to say if you want a second date which further illustrates that he was wrong.

    • @kat8295
      @kat8295 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Neither one of them respected each other. There was clear disgust from her and selfishness from him. He walked away empty handed. She's pretty and sweet; she'll do fine.

  • @AA-jp9cj
    @AA-jp9cj 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Advocates for being unique, wants a traditional women XD

  • @TomNook.
    @TomNook. 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    I feel sorry for the matchmakers. On paper they thought "oh wow, both are into holistic health, this will be great!"
    They were not expecting someone debating feminism lol

  • @nlb1138
    @nlb1138 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I'd have to leave after he said "women are becoming too independent"

    • @StimParavane
      @StimParavane 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No one is independent. Only someone with an inflated ego would believe that.

  • @amyelizabeth9577
    @amyelizabeth9577 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    5:48… can he hear himself? Literally WHAT? 😭

  • @Pennybrookeify
    @Pennybrookeify 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Buddy wants to be the one in charge of everything and he doesn't have a bank account??

  • @areyouforeal
    @areyouforeal 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I don't think Kelly or First Dates knows the definition of "misogynist".

    • @KristinNirvana
      @KristinNirvana 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      He was extremely misogynistic.

    • @areyouforeal
      @areyouforeal 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@KristinNirvana How do you define misogyny?

    • @CHROMIUMHEROmusic
      @CHROMIUMHEROmusic 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@areyouforeal Oxford languages definition of misogyny:
      "a person who dislikes, despises, or is strongly prejudiced against women."
      Oxford languages definition of prejudice:
      "preconceived opinion that is not based on reason or actual experience."
      What this guy said at 6:56
      "initially, I would assume, that my mind is more capable"
      He has a very strong preconceived opinion against women, and is therefore a misogynist

    • @areyouforeal
      @areyouforeal 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@CHROMIUMHEROmusic Thanks for proving my point. He doesn't dislike or despise women. The best you have is that he might be prejudiced against them but your evidence for this is that he says "I would assume, that my mind is more capable". Why would he assume that? Obviously based on reason, or actual experience therefore not prejudice. Oops, you played yourself.

  • @rumbarumba1
    @rumbarumba1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    There is nothing wrong with a traditional marriage , my parents had 49 happy years before he passed away. As long as it is both agreed and you both respect each other my dad was the business/financial side and my mum was the emotional and disciplinarian we grew up my sister and i to be well rounded individuals and secure

    • @mamathemeat
      @mamathemeat 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No one is saying that’s wrong but to say you’re smarter than a women is not intelligent

    • @Coastpsych_fi99
      @Coastpsych_fi99 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's not traditional its simply a product of the 1950's, in certain parts of the world, wherein a certain order was maintained for the nuclear family, In many cultures there could have been multiple wives, or multiple families living under one roof.

  • @loulouedmo
    @loulouedmo 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Omg - they should marry and breed goldfish - they’re both so dull and self-centred. “I’m self aware!” “I’m more self aware than you”

    • @samanthageach3146
      @samanthageach3146 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There is nothing wrong with breeding goldfish. They are super lame tho.

  • @anetak.9494
    @anetak.9494 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    These kind of dates happened wayyy too often to me. I now have sworn myself that I would leave the moment the guy says bs like that.

    • @StimParavane
      @StimParavane 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No one likes obnoxious boss babes.

  • @Annsunshine30
    @Annsunshine30 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    God, he`s annoying. He sounds like a guy that has a lot of opinions, but no life experiences....! There is a good reason he doesn`t have a girlfriend, and he won`t get one either, before he changes hiw whole way of thinking. He needs to grow up quite a bit!

  • @ITzzDecort
    @ITzzDecort 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    where do they get these people from? lol

  • @JaneHudnell
    @JaneHudnell 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Oh wow, this guy is obnoxious. He thinks that he is smarter than women.

  • @nesigarcia7628
    @nesigarcia7628 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    @ 5:24 he knew he had fu**ed up 🤧🥴😂🤷🏻‍♀️ I thought it was going well until then

  • @coraline1503
    @coraline1503 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    alexander the great! 😂😂😂

  • @Z32spdstr
    @Z32spdstr 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    He worded things out wrong women and men are both intellectual and emotional but what he meant to say was men are logical and not so emotional and vice versa

  • @drewpeacock7465
    @drewpeacock7465 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Waterboy joke flew straight over his head

  • @Elle-vm3ge
    @Elle-vm3ge 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The guy is a failure and resents women who are more successful than he is in every way. It is so clear that is his issue. The guy scream insecure.

  • @NidaaAlShoreet
    @NidaaAlShoreet 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Woww the lady is so smart beautiful and have so much patience 😄

  • @cinnapokey
    @cinnapokey 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It's fantastic when someone has an opinion but doesn't even take the initiative to learn on the subject.

  • @karencampbell2410
    @karencampbell2410 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    In a strange way I felt quite sorry for him. He was right on one thing though. This woman was higher on emotional intelligence. Shame he probably doesn’t get the significance of that.

  • @callummccracken7565
    @callummccracken7565 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "I don't drink, I don't smoke I d-"
    Don't worry mate, I'm an alcoholic too. Happens to the best of us.

  • @ASAljamel
    @ASAljamel 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The guy didn't have the time to well explain his view... He got nervous and was critiqued that he didn't finish...... We need to listen more,

  • @mangotree2110
    @mangotree2110 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She looks about 14 yo
    Both of these people would annoy me.

  • @elsaelectra9963
    @elsaelectra9963 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Awesome, I try to escape from the fact I'm hacked by some youtuber to come here and see 2 people who have in common that they watch this youtuber and therefore what they have in common is that they are both my students and stalkers without realizing it.

  • @dangermace11
    @dangermace11 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Nothing likeable about that guy

    • @Just_a_Lad
      @Just_a_Lad 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      anything likable about her?

  • @Colin_Lawlor_Audio
    @Colin_Lawlor_Audio 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    She had to answer first at the end. In her own mind that was a victory lol
    Granted, the guy was a bit of an idiot in what he was saying, the girl just proved his point by getting emotionally charged and needing to have the last laugh.

  • @espiritualme2048
    @espiritualme2048 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    THIS DAY'S ANY CRAZY PERSON IS ....😂😂😂😂😂 ESPIRITUAL

  • @tassibee
    @tassibee 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I'll date him, I agree with his view point on feminism...its a tragic joke in society.

  • @Caucasian187
    @Caucasian187 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This woman has one big question to ask herself , do I like dogs or cats

    • @campo_rojo
      @campo_rojo 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      lonely women only have cats, dogs are not for that, easy answer

  • @GazGoodtime
    @GazGoodtime 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Run bro.

  • @cornSliceBreadDoesIt_pffft
    @cornSliceBreadDoesIt_pffft 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I use my mind you use your mind therefore i am smarter...lol

  • @vg7735
    @vg7735 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The true meaning of feminist is equality, not dominating the world like he suggested.

  • @zakikin6006
    @zakikin6006 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    How she didn’t just get u- and leave is beyond me omg

  • @jessbelen
    @jessbelen 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    She's a saint

  • @marriagecausesdivorce7540
    @marriagecausesdivorce7540 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    He definitely watches Fresh and Fit podcast.

    • @artbygilik
      @artbygilik 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Was gonna say this. A few red pill dudes in the comments defending him 👀🍿

  • @tahsina.c
    @tahsina.c 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Had the audacity to say all that and then split the bill, what a bellend 💀

    • @aremedyfrosty
      @aremedyfrosty 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      A man paying the bill is a courtesy, it was never a social obligation that women seem to think it is.

  • @meeksphatsugar7564
    @meeksphatsugar7564 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well someone thinks very highly of themselves 😂

  • @basinball1
    @basinball1 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    "I was a vegan last year" - do you expect brownie points for that?!! Massive tool alert!!

    • @pigknickers2975
      @pigknickers2975 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Got to be one of the tossiest things I've heard in a while. All vegans are self regarding bellends, this has now been scientifically proven. Are brownies even vegan though?

  • @beautronics
    @beautronics 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I wanna become her best friend

    • @zombiehunter1152
      @zombiehunter1152 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Cool then u can bring your cats over to meet hers 🤣

    • @t.78d
      @t.78d 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @beautronics She's beautiful and seems to be a nice person, i liked her

  • @waalex11
    @waalex11 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why'd they match these opposites? Lol.