It’s a difference between narcissism and self-love. She loves herself and has confidence. As long as she’s happy, that’s all that matters. Hating her won’t make you a better person.
But a wedding? That's narcissism. You're happy with yourself and love yourself, you just continue to exist happily. You can't marry yourself. It's just a sad cry for attention. And the fact that she said a wedding is about the woman, further shows that she's a narcissist.
But no one is desperate enough to marry themself 😭and marrying somone doesn’t mean your desperate …that’s actually a big step that a lot of ppl are scared to take …
@@kuzonsembewe4654 I never said she was hurting anyone but look up desperate and what comes with it 😭cause how u love yourself but still going in a date ?that makes no sense how is she happy with herself but still wants somone else company …it’s obvious if u don’t get it u don’t have it’s my opinion 🤷🏽♀️
@@pink1237480 how common is it to marry yourself ….y’all need too wake up and be for real with yourself…if she truly loved herself why tf is she dating ?and seeking company or affection from somone else it makes no sense…now. If she married herself and didn’t date that’s a different situation I would applaud her but obviously she still not happy with herself trying to find love in the world 😭
It's funny as hell to most ppl who couldn't n wouldn't get it, I feel like single ppl in tune with themselves will kinda get it. If she is or thinking on the page I am abt it... if you're single you're basically taking care of yourself all types of things. From masturbation to so why not marry yourself. You're supposed to be one with yourself before you can Love somebody else anyway. To some people it will be beautiful & understanding but to some creepy and weird... I think it's dope that u can go this far with ya self n be 1. But no I don't understand y marry yourself if u gonna go on dates .....kinda lost me there!! Everybody has their opinion n Everybody are entitled to say their peace. N I guess she's saying hers for sure. ❤❤❤❤ all I can say, u go girl!!! N instead of putting somebody down because of their weight and you're calling her obese take a look in the mirror without any filters on sometimes bc we all got flaws. Sickenings my soul when it comes to ass munchers talking about ppl weight, height, race n etc grow tf up already Once again u go queen celebrate ya world
@@tazzakagoldie You are sick as hell, Just because she loves herself don't mean she has to pleasure herself that's what your corrupt mind thinking about and that is sickening how come it can't be to the point she loves herself enough not to be taken advantage of far as being with men she don't actually know or allowing men to play with her mind or for a man to use her in any type of way and how come it can't be to the point that she loves herself enough to wait and take her time to find the right person and love herself enough to enjoy her life first there are so many good thing that she can do within that realm than to do that sick ish you talking about that must be your hobby. And there is nothing wrong loving you and what i mean putting you first before some one else learning how to live with you learning how to find your true happiness within you and that don't mean doing that freak off ish like you talking about either and some of you that are on here are A HOLES ANY WAY WE COULD HAVE DID WITHOUT YOUR COMMENT FOR SURE. AND ONE MORE THING SEX ISN'T EVERYTHING AND EVERY ANSWER TO LIFE ITS ALL ABOUT MAKING THE BEST OF YOUR LIFE DO YOU GET IT.
This is not narcissism. I’m so glad I’m not a hater. Happy people make me happy. When people get threatened by happy people, it simply means they secretly ( not so secretly) hate themselves. It’s a cry for help. 😂
She’s obviously still very insecure ..marrying herself was just a coverup id commend her if she didn’t date but why date if you “love yourself” obviously your looking for somthing u can’t provide lmao so weird to even date after doing all of that 😭
I love her!!! If someone spent the same amount on a birthday party no one would batter an eye. By marrying yourself, you are essentially saying that you commit to putting you first… that’s soo wholesome ❤
I can’t lie, I don’t understand this personally, but if she’s happy then great. She only has to please herself anyways! I hate that her doing this has made her unsafe. Side note, she looked beautiful at the wedding!
It's CRAZY how people are having an issue that she spent 4000$ on herself and her event but when a rich celebrity does it, it's considered normal. Can we grow up.
I say good for her. Years ago I spent 4 times that amount to marry a complete jackass that I left within a year. If she'd have called it a "self affirmation ceremony", there wouldn't have been a word said about it. She's still hoping to find love with a partner... loving herself will help her to find a good person & not just settle for whoever comes along.
You are so right she is preparing herself for the right man and she is beginning with herself first. And like the ole saying how can you love some one else until you love you first. And how can you live with someone until you learn how to live with you first and i truly get it YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS.
If I was a man dating this young woman, I'd be intimidated. I'd be in a competition with someone who loves herself. You can see how happy she is being herself. That's not narcissism. That's self love.
@@akbeatz5021you have a lot to live up to. Anyone who is always putting themselves down, always cares what others think, etc are easier to control and treated negatively. Now, a man trying to get with her is in competition because he knows, she can hold her own. She’s not running around looking for a man to make her feel beautiful. I know people see a big girl and automatically think she is self conscious and hates herself. I would call when she had a self love ceremony and I think that’s beautiful.
One day in church, a young member came up to me crying. She began telling me her fiancé to whom she was to marry the next week was not helping her pay for anything. She cried about how much everything was costing and she was on her own. She then proceeded to tell me he tricked another woman out of money to purchase her engagement ring. He had sex with her to get the money. This was in 2013. I told her 1. It’s okay to have cake and punch. 2. It’s okay not to get married and just have a celebration of independence and healthy decision making. She went on sobbing, crying, and hollering, “I just want a wedding. I just want to be married.” She married him anyway and was divorcing 6mo later. Just celebrate yourself.
Women want to get married and have a big party where they get to be a princess and get showered with attention and validation. But modern women don't want to be wives. And why would they? They literally get paid $$ for divorcing men. They're rewarded for cheating and breaking their vows.
Wow she was comfortable with the ring knowing how he got it? Wow I meet realllly good guys because these horror stories never happened to me. Then again I don’t put up with any bs.
It is different, but I think it's pretty cool actually. I don't think she's a narcissist at all. At least she doesn't come off that way. There's a big difference between confidence and cockiness. She seems genuine. I wish her all the best! We should all strive for such confidence and real self love. ❤️ I know I struggle with that, and lots of other people do too.
But why say you're marrying yourself? If Zendaya said she was marrying herself I'd think she was a narcissistic imbecile too. Her size has nothing to do with it. Just keep loving and celebrating yourself. Everything isn't for everyone. But you can't marry yourself. She seems like a narcissist to me. The fact that she said the wedding is all about the woman anyway is problematic.
You go girl!!!!!!! I want to marry me, myself and I. I've been abused in a relationship for 20 years and 20 years before that my mother abused me for 20 years. I'm now a single, independent lady, I feel so safe now and I understand this completely and wish people weren't so nasty to her. I have been so broken to the point that I ended up in a psychiatric hospital. Now I'm spending so much time finding me, I've never been so happy. I request that if you judge this, I do understand but please try see it from my perspective, I had no confidence in myself and people that I really loved were really cruel to me.
But why do you need anyones-least of all strangers online- to validate your decision? End of the day u have to live with yourself and if it beings u contentment and peace have at it. People really wouldn't give it much thought to be honest. Everyone has their own things happening to worry about grown adults doing what makes them joyful (needless to say that doesn't affect anyone that cannot consent or agree to it )
I am married to myself in my own mind. I actually thinks its beautiful to see her have a wedding for herself. She definitely inspired me more now. So thank you!
I stand WITH AND BESIDE YOU. Too many folks don’t understand the importance of learning yourself - apart from others - and truly loving yourself in kind and celebratory ways. It’s healthy NOT narcissistic. She’s not harming anyone.
@@Timahrantsshe had a wedding not to celebrate the day of her birth or to enjoy a party but to show herself how much she loves herself, which is perfectly fine.
I do understand the meaning behind the attitude. It's a commitment to herself that she will always come first and that she will love herself no matter what. It may seem bad but think about all the people who will rather stay in bad relationships because they don't want to be alone. Those who prefer to be abused and there are so many different ways of abuse.
I love her. You don't need to be in a relationship with anyone to be happy, you're self sufficient and gorgeous. I understand this ceremony goes beyond what smooth brains think. It's accepting and loving yourself, sticking by yourself through thick and thin. I am happy for her. Everyone who thinks she needs a partner is part of the problem. YOU need to have someone else to be happy. That's a YOU problem. You're so unstable you think you HAVE to be in a relationship to be happy and you let that define you? Fix yourself first, don't bring those problems to someone else expecting they'll fix you.
If it made her happy then I’m glad for her and it takes courage to marry yourself as people are so judgemental and like to point out how it isn’t normal or how it wrong to do it but it’s really not she’s married herself and promised to love herself which I think is great. I
It’s the $4k that had me gasping!!! Girl that’s high amount but hey, she obviously LOVES herself. And we are always told to “love yourself first”. So good for her because many folks cant even be alone with themselves for an hour😂😂she’s a vibe ❤
Marrying ones self is nothing new, as I've heard of this several times in my 52 years, and if she's happy doing it, then I'm happy for her. That being said, $4000 on her wedding? Hell, I don't like myself that much, I'd probably have a drive thru wedding at McDonalds or someplace cheap. LOL
Sista girl, YOU ARE GORGEOUS... Keep believing, loving, and honoring yourself but more importantly, do it for God and guarantee you'll receive more. I love the confidence. The first lady that came to my mind was Angie Stone... ya'll rockin' that fro. :)
Love her blind date’s reaction-that he didn’t understand it at first but was so eager to listen and have his perspective changed. He seems like a total catch. And I love her, too. I wish the same self-love she has for everyone, truly. And I think her sharing her story will open up more avenues for people to obtain exactly that. So my hats off to her. ♡
i like it, good for her🎉❤ You go, girl! I want to learn to love myself. Im married but I feel so alone. If only I can love myself and then I can gain the confidence to leave him!
After watching this story, i 100%agree with her blind date. It would be fun, memorable, and very meaningful to have a self wedding like this. She has a very valid point. The wedding is about the bride. I would definitely do something like this without question. No matter how much it costs. It shows self worth and self love. And who cares what haters think or say. It's on them and just a reflection of themselves to bully someone else that does something to make themself happy.
Wowsers…it’s not narcissism… This woman is just healing and loving herself unconditionally… Babe…you are beautiful… 💗 I’m so sorry you have had so much hate…
I understand her, but she needs to understand what being married is really about. There's nothing wrong in being single and just loving yourself for the rest of your life. People like this and the ones who accept them make the world dumber. We're now changing the definitions of woman, beauty, healthy, etc. Now "marriage"?!
Some people don’t even understand what self love is, how can this be a bad thing, if you have the money to spend on yourself for a wedding and the confidence to go through with it then power to you. I feel sorry and sad for the people who don’t love themself. People who think they need another person to love them in order to feel ok. Or people who don’t love their own body or who think they are less than others. You can love yourself and be a kind and compassionate person at the same time.
What happens if you wants to get married to someone ? Must she get a lawyer and get divorced 😂😂😂 and I’m all for self love the lady is gorgeous but getting married to yourself is just crazy, the 4K she used on the wedding she could’ve used it on a trip to travel at the end of the day if she is happy that is all that matters 🎉❤ congratulations to the bride
I Honestly Feel Alot Of People Men & Women Need To Learn To Love Themselves Start With Yourself Be Confident With Yourself Like You For You Love Yourself Cherish Yourself
She's very pretty. I love her personality. It doesn't sound like she'll denie dating and marrying someone else if she finds the right person but until then she's committed to herself. Her marriage to herself is basically a commitment to herself saying no matter what she'll love herself regardless of what people feel about her. She even said she's dated before and has no problem getting men and she could get married tomorrow if she wanted to. Seem like her blind date went well. At first the guy was surprised when she told him she married herself but after she explained everything he loved it. But he never had like a super bad reaction. And his first reaction was she's beautiful. You can tell they are attracted to each other both personality and looks. I hope they'll continue to see each other and maybe get married in the future. It will be a interesting love story.
I just think people have a problem with the term "marriage" or that she married herself. Had she said she is celebrating herself or making a commitment to herself, there would have been less negative comments. But marriage is a commitment and who better to commit to than one's self. It's also becoming one. I think it is her way of vowing to put herself first and although some may find it selfish, Is it really?
I was taught growing up, if you haven't got anything nice to say, don't say anything at all... Words to live by I love this lady's vibe, self love and happiness, she's a joy in this world❤
@@acidicsoul4978 are you slow?spending money on your child for a birthday party and spending money on yourself for a wedding for yourself are way 2 different things lmao !and they are wealthy …that isn’t uncommon for them lmao !
@@jasminesmith7414 I feel like you're the slow one 🤣 Rihanna, Kim, Beyonce have spent more than 10k on her own birthday party, (a party to celebrate themselves) why ya'll don't mention shit about that! This lady had a party to celebrate her self love but 4k is "mental". What makes you believe this lady isn't wealthy bruh. Get a job. Also spending 10k+ on a 1 year old birthday sounds more stupid.
You know people are committing suicide, giving up. You have chosen to appreciate yourself God bless you because you are beautifully and wonderfully made. We send ur livelihood paying bills. You did this for you and lm so proud of you. The people that supported are your strength thats so beautiful. And yes you are beautiful, you are gorgeous. God loves you just thevway you are.. Much love Susana
Stopped drinking. Abstinence from sex. Taking herself on dates. She did all this for her therapy except go to the gym. Cmon woman. There’s nothing wrong with self love. But self love is also self care, and she is not caring for her body.
Id totally marry myself in a heartbeat. Im happy for her! How can you love someone else if you cant love yourself. This might be a stepping stone for her. No need to judge people on their life journeys. We are ALL just trying to live our best life.
I wonder if she really did this because she has yet to find her person and was tired of waiting. I don't know that I would have gone this route to show and prove self-love. But, I think she is a beautiful woman, with so much light and energy, and I have no doubt that if she wanted a man she could find one tomorrow. I don't know why people are always acting like there aren't men out there who PREFER full-figured women! Shit! My uncle is a buck-75 and I don't think I've ever seen him with a woman under 400lbs. She will be just fine.
This was an awesome video. I don't get why anyone would call her narcissistic. She said herself she's on a journey of self love which honestly I think more people should do the same. Hell now I want to have a wedding for myself too!!! It seems like it'd be an awesome and a wonderful celebration of self acceptance.
I think people are so focused in on her marrying herself and are missing the message of self love and not settling for the wrong someone. Mya also did this. It’s not for me but I’m loving the self love!
At 42 years of age never been married never had the opportunity to have children maybe I would look into marrying myself in never alone with me so this makes sense. Not everyone will find someone not everyone will know that one person and have that true love and not saying she won’t cause she’s beautiful I always wanted to get married and have kids but as I got older I’m realizing it may never happen she seems very happy
I think this is a wonderful idea and what Danni is showing future romantic partners is they are not responsible for her happiness , which takes a lot of burden off of the love partner she's done the inside work of loving and honoring herself!
@@esthercummings7228 if YOU don't like your weight then do something about it. If SHE LIKES hers then it's absolutely okay. There is nothing wrong with feeling good about yourself. This should not depend on other people's opinions.
Not a lot going on in her life, when the first thing she says to her date is “I married myself”, I feel sorry for Adam, he seemed like a nice guy, that he didn’t even run away screaming is impressive!
I like her energy her self esteem is her story she cool spirit of person kind wired but it's crazy world today it's complicated I'm in feelings about my very own life
The real important question coming out of all this is, WHY tell people about the Self-marriage in the first place? Just keep it private and only tell your family and friends.
It’s a difference between narcissism and self-love. She loves herself and has confidence. As long as she’s happy, that’s all that matters. Hating her won’t make you a better person.
Periodt💅🏾😜
But a wedding? That's narcissism. You're happy with yourself and love yourself, you just continue to exist happily. You can't marry yourself. It's just a sad cry for attention. And the fact that she said a wedding is about the woman, further shows that she's a narcissist.
The Bible says time will come when people will be lovers of themselves
And here we go
@@JayJay12_ i agree
She's crazy. That's not self love.
At least she wasn’t desperate enough to marry anyone.
But no one is desperate enough to marry themself 😭and marrying somone doesn’t mean your desperate …that’s actually a big step that a lot of ppl are scared to take …
@jasminesmith7414 why is marrying yourself desperate? You don't need a wedding or a ring you're just committed to yourself more.
@jasminesmith7414 She ain't hurting no one, some of yall are desperate enough to marry losers 😂
@@kuzonsembewe4654 I never said she was hurting anyone but look up desperate and what comes with it 😭cause how u love yourself but still going in a date ?that makes no sense how is she happy with herself but still wants somone else company …it’s obvious if u don’t get it u don’t have it’s my opinion 🤷🏽♀️
@@pink1237480 how common is it to marry yourself ….y’all need too wake up and be for real with yourself…if she truly loved herself why tf is she dating ?and seeking company or affection from somone else it makes no sense…now. If she married herself and didn’t date that’s a different situation I would applaud her but obviously she still not happy with herself trying to find love in the world 😭
Leave her alone
I see what you did there.
We're already doing that.
That's why she's marrying herself
😂😂😂
It's weird.
This is the internet of course she won’t be left alone. If she wanted privacy then don’t advertise your life.
This is beautiful. ✨💐
“Why shouldn’t I celebrate myself?”
FACTS: FORREAL WHY? NOT.
It's funny as hell to most ppl who couldn't n wouldn't get it, I feel like single ppl in tune with themselves will kinda get it. If she is or thinking on the page I am abt it... if you're single you're basically taking care of yourself all types of things. From masturbation to so why not marry yourself. You're supposed to be one with yourself before you can Love somebody else anyway. To some people it will be beautiful & understanding but to some creepy and weird... I think it's dope that u can go this far with ya self n be 1. But no I don't understand y marry yourself if u gonna go on dates .....kinda lost me there!! Everybody has their opinion n Everybody are entitled to say their peace. N I guess she's saying hers for sure. ❤❤❤❤ all I can say, u go girl!!!
N instead of putting somebody down because of their weight and you're calling her obese take a look in the mirror without any filters on sometimes bc we all got flaws. Sickenings my soul when it comes to ass munchers talking about ppl weight, height, race n etc grow tf up already
Once again u go queen celebrate ya world
@@tazzakagoldie You are sick as hell, Just because she loves herself don't mean she has to pleasure herself that's what your corrupt mind thinking about and that is sickening how come it can't be to the point she loves herself enough not to be taken advantage of far as being with men she don't actually know or allowing men to play with her mind or for a man to use her in any type of way and how come it can't be to the point that she loves herself enough to wait and take her time to find the right person and love herself enough to enjoy her life first there are so many good thing that she can do within that realm than to do that sick ish you talking about that must be your hobby. And there is nothing wrong loving you and what i mean putting you first before some one else learning how to live with you learning how to find your true happiness within you and that don't mean doing that freak off ish like you talking about either and some of you that are on here are A HOLES ANY WAY WE COULD HAVE DID WITHOUT YOUR COMMENT FOR SURE. AND ONE MORE THING SEX ISN'T EVERYTHING AND EVERY ANSWER TO LIFE ITS ALL ABOUT MAKING THE BEST OF YOUR LIFE DO YOU GET IT.
Because this dips into narcissism
This is not narcissism. I’m so glad I’m not a hater. Happy people make me happy. When people get threatened by happy people, it simply means they secretly ( not so secretly) hate themselves. It’s a cry for help. 😂
This actually might be the healthiest thing I've seen on this channel in a while😕
That's not saying much... not much at all.
@@kiyobot123 indeed!
Being obese?
Are you on drugs?
@Scifi4life, that's not what the video is about.... It's more about marying herself/ self-love 🤦♀️🤦♀️
WHY go on a date when you are ALREADY married to yourself?! Isn't that CHEATING?
Lol have u heard of adultery? Most people who are married are cheating 😂😊
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😂😂😂😂
She’s obviously still very insecure ..marrying herself was just a coverup id commend her if she didn’t date but why date if you “love yourself” obviously your looking for somthing u can’t provide lmao so weird to even date after doing all of that 😭
Did you even watch the video?? If you watched the video then you’d understand what she meant
A self love journey should be celebrated and everyone should do it, it makes you a better partner, friend, co-worker etc nothing like being at peace
Agreed ❤
😂
I love her!!!
If someone spent the same amount on a birthday party no one would batter an eye.
By marrying yourself, you are essentially saying that you commit to putting you first… that’s soo wholesome ❤
Ridiculous 😂
I can’t lie, I don’t understand this personally, but if she’s happy then great. She only has to please herself anyways! I hate that her doing this has made her unsafe.
Side note, she looked beautiful at the wedding!
It's CRAZY how people are having an issue that she spent 4000$ on herself and her event but when a rich celebrity does it, it's considered normal. Can we grow up.
Well said 👏
People are allowed an opinion when you decide to put your business out there
@@akbeatz5021And this is this person opinion. Deal with it.
@@yaya_201 But who has a problem with this opinion 😂.
I don't think you thought this through before writing.
True❤
I say good for her. Years ago I spent 4 times that amount to marry a complete jackass that I left within a year. If she'd have called it a "self affirmation ceremony", there wouldn't have been a word said about it. She's still hoping to find love with a partner... loving herself will help her to find a good person & not just settle for whoever comes along.
You are so right she is preparing herself for the right man and she is beginning with herself first. And like the ole saying how can you love some one else until you love you first. And how can you live with someone until you learn how to live with you first and i truly get it YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS.
Having a self affirmation ceremony would still look like self absorbed garbage
If I was a man dating this young woman, I'd be intimidated. I'd be in a competition with someone who loves herself. You can see how happy she is being herself. That's not narcissism. That's self love.
No one is intimidated by self centered people.
Why would you be in a competition with someone who loves themself?
Genuinely curious what's intimidating about her.
@@akbeatz5021you have a lot to live up to. Anyone who is always putting themselves down, always cares what others think, etc are easier to control and treated negatively. Now, a man trying to get with her is in competition because he knows, she can hold her own. She’s not running around looking for a man to make her feel beautiful. I know people see a big girl and automatically think she is self conscious and hates herself.
I would call when she had a self love ceremony and I think that’s beautiful.
@@Tezah89 genuinely no offense but I think you have a fundamentally flawed understanding of how men think.
Why so cynical?
Exactly. @@johnnyBrwn
Love her hair, especially with the flowers in ❤
I love this 😍 I just started my journey of loving myself you go girl 💋💝
One day in church, a young member came up to me crying. She began telling me her fiancé to whom she was to marry the next week was not helping her pay for anything. She cried about how much everything was costing and she was on her own. She then proceeded to tell me he tricked another woman out of money to purchase her engagement ring. He had sex with her to get the money.
This was in 2013. I told her 1. It’s okay to have cake and punch. 2. It’s okay not to get married and just have a celebration of independence and healthy decision making.
She went on sobbing, crying, and hollering, “I just want a wedding. I just want to be married.”
She married him anyway and was divorcing 6mo later.
Just celebrate yourself.
Women want to get married and have a big party where they get to be a princess and get showered with attention and validation.
But modern women don't want to be wives.
And why would they? They literally get paid $$ for divorcing men. They're rewarded for cheating and breaking their vows.
This story was wild to read, but your advice was solid, especially #2.
Smh that's terrible, and she had all those warnings
Or maybe don't marry an asshole
Wow she was comfortable with the ring knowing how he got it? Wow I meet realllly good guys because these horror stories never happened to me. Then again I don’t put up with any bs.
It is different, but I think it's pretty cool actually. I don't think she's a narcissist at all. At least she doesn't come off that way. There's a big difference between confidence and cockiness. She seems genuine. I wish her all the best! We should all strive for such confidence and real self love. ❤️ I know I struggle with that, and lots of other people do too.
But why say you're marrying yourself? If Zendaya said she was marrying herself I'd think she was a narcissistic imbecile too. Her size has nothing to do with it. Just keep loving and celebrating yourself. Everything isn't for everyone. But you can't marry yourself.
She seems like a narcissist to me. The fact that she said the wedding is all about the woman anyway is problematic.
This is what self happiness looks like. A lot of people can learn a lot from her.
You go girl!!!!!!! I want to marry me, myself and I. I've been abused in a relationship for 20 years and 20 years before that my mother abused me for 20 years. I'm now a single, independent lady, I feel so safe now and I understand this completely and wish people weren't so nasty to her. I have been so broken to the point that I ended up in a psychiatric hospital. Now I'm spending so much time finding me, I've never been so happy. I request that if you judge this, I do understand but please try see it from my perspective, I had no confidence in myself and people that I really loved were really cruel to me.
But why do you need anyones-least of all strangers online- to validate your decision? End of the day u have to live with yourself and if it beings u contentment and peace have at it. People really wouldn't give it much thought to be honest. Everyone has their own things happening to worry about grown adults doing what makes them joyful (needless to say that doesn't affect anyone that cannot consent or agree to it )
@@michelletalbot2281 True x
I do too actually it looks fun!
That’s a beautiful statement and I wholeheartedly agree ❤ Being single and free to find yourself and live by your own terms…..nothin’ better!!
@@michelletalbot2281you seem like a sad human being 😂 why are you being negative 🚮 it's not that deep
I am married to myself in my own mind. I actually thinks its beautiful to see her have a wedding for herself. She definitely inspired me more now. So thank you!
I stand WITH AND BESIDE YOU.
Too many folks don’t understand the importance of learning yourself - apart from others - and truly loving yourself in kind and celebratory ways.
It’s healthy NOT narcissistic. She’s not harming anyone.
He honestly seems like a really sweet and fun guy to be around
Yes, I'd go on a date with him lol
Seems like he was just trying to get laid
Its the $4,000 that gets me
At first the money was a sticking point, but we don't know her budget. It was something to her to say she was worth spending her $4000 on herself.
I mean she could’ve just had a birthday party or just a party
@@Timahrantsshe had a wedding not to celebrate the day of her birth or to enjoy a party but to show herself how much she loves herself, which is perfectly fine.
compared to how much people spend on actual weddings, 4k$ is just a drop in the bucket
$4k on a wedding is NOTHING compared to other weddings lol
I do understand the meaning behind the attitude. It's a commitment to herself that she will always come first and that she will love herself no matter what. It may seem bad but think about all the people who will rather stay in bad relationships because they don't want to be alone. Those who prefer to be abused and there are so many different ways of abuse.
I love her. You don't need to be in a relationship with anyone to be happy, you're self sufficient and gorgeous. I understand this ceremony goes beyond what smooth brains think. It's accepting and loving yourself, sticking by yourself through thick and thin. I am happy for her. Everyone who thinks she needs a partner is part of the problem. YOU need to have someone else to be happy. That's a YOU problem. You're so unstable you think you HAVE to be in a relationship to be happy and you let that define you? Fix yourself first, don't bring those problems to someone else expecting they'll fix you.
When we say love yourself... This is not what we mean
I’m Jamaican so my family would laugh at me and make fun of me if I did this and yeah I know how Jamaicans are
If it made her happy then I’m glad for her and it takes courage to marry yourself as people are so judgemental and like to point out how it isn’t normal or how it wrong to do it but it’s really not she’s married herself and promised to love herself which I think is great. I
Self love should be celebrated ! You go gurl!❤❤❤
Why not call it a self-love ceremony?
It’s the $4k that had me gasping!!!
Girl that’s high amount but hey, she obviously LOVES herself. And we are always told to “love yourself first”. So good for her because many folks cant even be alone with themselves for an hour😂😂she’s a vibe ❤
Marrying ones self is nothing new, as I've heard of this several times in my 52 years, and if she's happy doing it, then I'm happy for her. That being said, $4000 on her wedding? Hell, I don't like myself that much, I'd probably have a drive thru wedding at McDonalds or someplace cheap. LOL
🤣🤣
😂😂😂 I’d probably use that $4000 to plan for a self-moon or a vacation lol.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😅❤
But when she filed taxes does she file joint??
Haha…oh my word.
😂❤
I can't 😂😂😂
And like she said, she's not hurting anybody.🤷♀
I would probably marry myself if all else fails but I’m not spending 4,000 on no wedding
So you are not worth spending 4000$ on yourself?!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Ouch. Be nice
Sista girl, YOU ARE GORGEOUS... Keep believing, loving, and honoring yourself but more importantly, do it for God and guarantee you'll receive more. I love the confidence. The first lady that came to my mind was Angie Stone... ya'll rockin' that fro. :)
Love her blind date’s reaction-that he didn’t understand it at first but was so eager to listen and have his perspective changed. He seems like a total catch. And I love her, too. I wish the same self-love she has for everyone, truly. And I think her sharing her story will open up more avenues for people to obtain exactly that. So my hats off to her. ♡
He sounds a lovely guy
i like it, good for her🎉❤ You go, girl! I want to learn to love myself. Im married but I feel so alone. If only I can love myself and then I can gain the confidence to leave him!
I wonder will she divorce herself, when she’s sick and tired of herself
😂
She seems genuinely happy. How could I judge that?
After watching this story, i 100%agree with her blind date. It would be fun, memorable, and very meaningful to have a self wedding like this. She has a very valid point. The wedding is about the bride. I would definitely do something like this without question. No matter how much it costs. It shows self worth and self love. And who cares what haters think or say. It's on them and just a reflection of themselves to bully someone else that does something to make themself happy.
Wowsers…it’s not narcissism…
This woman is just healing and loving herself unconditionally…
Babe…you are beautiful…
💗
I’m so sorry you have had so much hate…
Y’all people will make excuses for all types of strange behavior.
This is actually how all Woman feel the truth and nothing but the truth.
She’s truly gorgeous
This is so beautiful! Go girl! ❤
She must be so lonely ABSOLUTELY NOT, I HAVE ME
I understand her, but she needs to understand what being married is really about. There's nothing wrong in being single and just loving yourself for the rest of your life. People like this and the ones who accept them make the world dumber. We're now changing the definitions of woman, beauty, healthy, etc. Now "marriage"?!
Some people don’t even understand what self love is, how can this be a bad thing, if you have the money to spend on yourself for a wedding and the confidence to go through with it then power to you. I feel sorry and sad for the people who don’t love themself. People who think they need another person to love them in order to feel ok. Or people who don’t love their own body or who think they are less than others. You can love yourself and be a kind and compassionate person at the same time.
What happens if you wants to get married to someone ? Must she get a lawyer and get divorced 😂😂😂 and I’m all for self love the lady is gorgeous but getting married to yourself is just crazy, the 4K she used on the wedding she could’ve used it on a trip to travel at the end of the day if she is happy that is all that matters 🎉❤ congratulations to the bride
I Honestly Feel Alot Of People Men & Women Need To Learn To Love Themselves
Start With Yourself
Be Confident With Yourself
Like You For You
Love Yourself
Cherish Yourself
So proud of you girl xxx
She's very pretty. I love her personality. It doesn't sound like she'll denie dating and marrying someone else if she finds the right person but until then she's committed to herself. Her marriage to herself is basically a commitment to herself saying no matter what she'll love herself regardless of what people feel about her. She even said she's dated before and has no problem getting men and she could get married tomorrow if she wanted to.
Seem like her blind date went well. At first the guy was surprised when she told him she married herself but after she explained everything he loved it. But he never had like a super bad reaction. And his first reaction was she's beautiful. You can tell they are attracted to each other both personality and looks. I hope they'll continue to see each other and maybe get married in the future. It will be a interesting love story.
I just think people have a problem with the term "marriage" or that she married herself. Had she said she is celebrating herself or making a commitment to herself, there would have been less negative comments. But marriage is a commitment and who better to commit to than one's self. It's also becoming one. I think it is her way of vowing to put herself first and although some may find it selfish, Is it really?
Omg. Her HAIR 😍
I love it ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I was taught growing up, if you haven't got anything nice to say, don't say anything at all...
Words to live by
I love this lady's vibe, self love and happiness, she's a joy in this world❤
I love how fun she seems
I don't understand the whole purpose of marrying yourself if you're gonna be by yourself, spending 4k on a one day event is a waste imo
Mental
It's her money her life.
But when Rihanna spent 10k+ on her sons birthday party, that was normal, what about Kim Kardashian or nicki minaj. You never say anything about that 🤔
@@acidicsoul4978 are you slow?spending money on your child for a birthday party and spending money on yourself for a wedding for yourself are way 2 different things lmao !and they are wealthy …that isn’t uncommon for them lmao !
@@jasminesmith7414 I feel like you're the slow one 🤣 Rihanna, Kim, Beyonce have spent more than 10k on her own birthday party, (a party to celebrate themselves) why ya'll don't mention shit about that! This lady had a party to celebrate her self love but 4k is "mental". What makes you believe this lady isn't wealthy bruh. Get a job.
Also spending 10k+ on a 1 year old birthday sounds more stupid.
Now, this is ridiculous 😂🤣😂💜💛💜💛💜… congratulations on your wedding 💒 🍾🥂
She said she could get a man tomorrow? 😂😂
If that was the case wouldn't she have married one by now
Very true people have to stop lying to these people its not ok to be out of shape who would feel comfortable with that
@@esthercummings7228 Very true the fact is she can't get a man and probably did this to build her confidence ( illusion)
This is what you call confidence!.. Someone who knows their worth. People who watch to comment didnt understand.
Mya did the same thing. Only men are triggered by this.
You know people are committing suicide, giving up. You have chosen to appreciate yourself God bless you because you are beautifully and wonderfully made. We send ur livelihood paying bills. You did this for you and lm so proud of you. The people that supported are your strength thats so beautiful. And yes you are beautiful, you are gorgeous. God loves you just thevway you are.. Much love Susana
You go girl your beautiful and if your happy leave the haters to hate themselves 👊🏿
Stopped drinking. Abstinence from sex. Taking herself on dates. She did all this for her therapy except go to the gym. Cmon woman. There’s nothing wrong with self love. But self love is also self care, and she is not caring for her body.
Id totally marry myself in a heartbeat. Im happy for her!
How can you love someone else if you cant love yourself. This might be a stepping stone for her. No need to judge people on their life journeys. We are ALL just trying to live our best life.
I wonder if she really did this because she has yet to find her person and was tired of waiting. I don't know that I would have gone this route to show and prove self-love. But, I think she is a beautiful woman, with so much light and energy, and I have no doubt that if she wanted a man she could find one tomorrow. I don't know why people are always acting like there aren't men out there who PREFER full-figured women! Shit! My uncle is a buck-75 and I don't think I've ever seen him with a woman under 400lbs. She will be just fine.
If she got tired of waiting, even more of a reason so you don’t jump into the fire.
Ok, you married yourself, but did it really cost 4,000? Wow, that is a lot to marry yourself, and that is the first I have ever heard of
Its her money!
So she spends $4k on herself, and it’s a problem? But if a couple spends $10k on their wedding, it’s okay?
If she can afford it, then why not. I think it's awesome tbh.
I love the idea.. you're confident that's awesome ❤
This is the epitome of coping lol
I need people like her in my life ❤
You know what? Good for her. We all need more self love.
This is very creative! Good for her ! You go girl !
This was an awesome video. I don't get why anyone would call her narcissistic. She said herself she's on a journey of self love which honestly I think more people should do the same. Hell now I want to have a wedding for myself too!!! It seems like it'd be an awesome and a wonderful celebration of self acceptance.
U go girl 🙌🏻 (also, i think Adam is cool 😊)
Girllll you do you❤ i normally do not react to video's, but your story is just so positive that I had to. Much love!❤
I think people are so focused in on her marrying herself and are missing the message of self love and not settling for the wrong someone. Mya also did this. It’s not for me but I’m loving the self love!
At 42 years of age never been married never had the opportunity to have children maybe I would look into marrying myself in never alone with me so this makes sense. Not everyone will find someone not everyone will know that one person and have that true love and not saying she won’t cause she’s beautiful I always wanted to get married and have kids but as I got older I’m realizing it may never happen she seems very happy
Finally someone saying it,
Instead of that 'there's someone for everyone' lie 💀
Love the blind date!
As long as you are Happy who cares Bravo to you ❤❤ if people dont like it to damn bad to many judge to many people today
Stupid is as stupid does.
I think this is a wonderful idea and what Danni is showing future romantic partners is they are not responsible for her happiness , which takes a lot of burden off of the love partner she's done the inside work of loving and honoring herself!
I'm all about self love. U go girl!❤
❤❤❤ so many people don’t have self love and expect others to fulfill it for them. A lot of y’all don’t love yourselves and she does
This can't be real.
Marriage is not Possible with yourself, animals or things.
I love Danni! She’s taught me so much about fatphobia and body image. She’s a fat advocate and we need more folks like her in the world
Being fat has no benefits
I have put on weight its not doing anything for my wellbeing I hate it so much and I am smaller that her by a good bit
@@esthercummings7228 if YOU don't like your weight then do something about it. If SHE LIKES hers then it's absolutely okay. There is nothing wrong with feeling good about yourself. This should not depend on other people's opinions.
Not a lot going on in her life, when the first thing she says to her date is “I married myself”, I feel sorry for Adam, he seemed like a nice guy, that he didn’t even run away screaming is impressive!
I absolutely love this! Go sis. 😍
love it for you girlllll
Beautiful !!!!
Extremely Important message….made my day😊
You have to pay extra money to protect yourself because you married yourself. Instead you could have just kept it to yourself😂
I like her energy her self esteem is her story she cool spirit of person kind wired but it's crazy world today it's complicated I'm in feelings about my very own life
The real important question coming out of all this is, WHY tell people about the Self-marriage in the first place? Just keep it private and only tell your family and friends.
Oh my. I can’t believe she spent 4 grand for a wedding by herself
When you get married, don’t spend more than that. Own your negative comment.
She stop having sex , stopped drinking , but didn’t stop her unhealthy relationship with food 😆😆😆
Hi sis am proud of you loving your self is self value❤❤❤ beautiful