Not just for dating, but what the introvert needs is someone who really understands them and puts in the time to get to know them. Just making friends with someone at work who is a very sensitive HSP/empath is an interesting experience. I'm a borderline HSP/borderline empath with a strong personality (I've come out of that quiet, reserved space but still totally understand it) and I'm just making them feel comfortable and drawing them out slowly. Even though we have an almost telepathic ability to understand each other and look out for each other it's coming up to 8 months now and they're just starting to feel comfortable enough to have a more personal conversation.
How do you humans do it?! I live in a damn vacuum! There are no dates, no one wants me, everything I do is a failure, and I need to eat a bullet, but everyone brags about their success that just happens without even thinking. Billions of you all finding each other, and I've spent almost my whole life alone. This must end.
I’m also an introvert, and I’ve never been formally asked out on a date. Well, it may have something to do with the fact that I’m still a coward when it comes to things like this. I’m just casually taking my time, and that’s perfectly okay. There’s just a lot of creeps either offline or online, and so I do find this whole dating thing quite risky, even though it may also seem harmless on the outside.
@@PrgressiveHouse if it's not for you, that's great. I've also never had any issues, but that doesn't mean that it isn't for everyone. It depends on so many factors like where you're from, your age, your gender, etc.
Bar scene is thee worst option for a date. Especially for an introvert 🙄. Its an over-stimulating environment full of distractions. I prefer somewhere less noisy and more intimate if your trying to get to know one another. Also, I dont give it up on the 1st few dates. Showing that I am interested in more than a hookup. Even if there is a ton of chemistry and sparks are flying everywhere, I don't want to rush or force things anymore. I used to think I was anti-social because, I don't like big crowds but, I was taught that I may be a little socially awkward however, I am definitely social. I am just introverted. Which is an individual who does not like over-stimulating environments or rooms with too much energy. I am trying to lower my expectations and have more tolerance without compromising my integrity too much.
1. try not to assume how your date sees you 0:52 2. do things your way 1:20 3. wear something comfortable and familiar 1:45 4. prep a little on conversational topics 2:09 5. focus on yourself 2:37 6. be well fed 3:04 7. don't make tips from movies or tv shows 3:28 8. listen to some music before you step out the door 4:00 9. allow yourself to express things 4:24 10. date someone who gets you 4:56 I hope I could help!
I'm an introvert, I wish I had known this sooner...but then again, we live and we learn. I'm glad I saw this and I'm really looking forward for more advise like this to help me change for the better.
me and my boyfriend are both introverts and really shy, but we're getting along very well. It was a bit hard and difficult to have conversations at the beginning, but now we're together for 8 months and we feel very comfortable around each other
If you don’t mind me asking, how did you guys meet? I’m an introvert and I’d like to find new people in my life, love life even, but I have no idea where to start lol
@@Lilachristiina we are very interested in games and we both played a vr game. We also are both playing VRML which is short for VR master league. I asked if I could join his team and I didn’t knew he had a crush on me that time. After we spent some time together I started falling in love with him and he confessed his love to me by accident 😅
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Um not really,the best because you will both act the same so who is gonna bring up the fun 🤣 better to go with an extrovert person and explain you are an introvert.
Thank you!! I need this. I'm such a deep thinker and always see the world through an artistic lens and through genuine eyes. Meeting another person like that is rare and I feel as though me being thoughtful and *usually* quiet doesn't make me exactly the kind of guy girls go for lol. But I do have more confidence these days even though I'm unsure about getting into a relationship even though I'd love to. I just have an intense fear of messing up.
Hey Tristan, thanks for sharing :) Have confidence in yourself because there are so many others like you out there :) and one of them will love you for who you are :)
Well...I used to say things which can be interpred this way. I used to be very shy and never engaged in conversations with unfamiliar people. And I changed that by participating in different things whose encourages talking - like literature club, movies club, English speaking club or talking in anonymous chat in web. Talking to strangers felt weird at first but over time it become more natural. Most people I meet don't believe me then I say I actually introvert. And that made me question introvertion itself.
@@iivanov6006 introversion is not a personality and is totally unrelated to not liking to talk with strangers. like extroverts love talking to strangers?? i think that the whole introvert extrovert thing are 2 overused lables who are not precise enough to describe anything about you.
This is so me. Sometimes, my boyfriend and I had some arguments where to eat or go since we already know some places to go when we're together. In the end, he lets me decide what and where we should eat or go. 😭💕 Thank you for always bringing joy in my mental health, Psych2Go! 💖
3 Quotes to Live By: 1) "Don't compare yourself to someone else, compare yourself to your yesterday's self." 2) “You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending” 3) "Once you decide your lifes purpose, you will only have to pack one thing: "Your Heart." Love from a small TH-camr💙
1. People compare themselves to others that have things they don't have. If you hadn't achieved something in your past and you still haven't achieved it to this day - stop comparing yourself to others (including your past self). Accept yourself, be kind to yourself, and make changes as you go. 2. We don't know our ending, nor should we have an ending in mind. Accept the past and live for today. (Not saying you can't have goals!) 3. I agree. Also, your life purpose does not need to be big. Your life purpose can consists of simple things in life that you might already be doing; like caring for family, creating new/maintaining friendships, travelling the world, and keeping your body and mind healthy. Just my perspective. Have a nice day :)
1) Everyday try to become better than yesterday 2)The past is freeze in the ice, the present is not cold yet so don't think about it 3)We have to find our trueselves and be purely genuine, our actions respect our values. All of this 3 quotes are one of the keys for happiness.
this actually really helped me. i stress myself a lot about dating since i have no experience, so i got a lot of tips from this. their voice is really soothing too, so it calmed me down. thank you
Im an introvert who likes someone more introverted than me actually. When they are struggling w social interaction, I used to think it was because they didn’t want to talk but then i realised that I do it too and I always tell people not to take it personally. So in a way I guess it does help when both people are either introverted or extroverted
Today me and my gf (soon to be wife, our little secret wink wink ;P ) are completing 4 years and 5 months of dating and honestly, EVERYTHING HERE HELPS. I know I speak for the both of us since we are rock loving introvert geeks who love to be alone with each other bingewatching our favorite movies and shows together ^ ^ Tip 10 is essencial, it trully gives life into the relationship
To all the dreamers out there, don't ever let the world's negativity disenchant you or your spirit. If you surround yourself with love and right people, ANYTHING is possible. Love from a small TH-camr🙏🖤
Hi iam INFJ. Well idk who and if anyone is ever going to see this but I just wanted to say thank you for all the videos and posts and stuff youre doing. When i didnt kow about this personality and psychologie stuff round it, it has always been really hard for me to understand why i feel or think so diffrent in certain situations because i dont really have any friends or people round me that can relate to me or understand me in a way. It always felt i had to apologize or justify for everything. I overthink so much even if its just a "Hi" I focus on the ton the person said it. I sometimes dont even say thinks i want to say cause i know the people dont understand me. Beeing 16 and in puperty doesnt really help then. Your contant helps me to understand why i might feel, think or act diffrently in situations and gives me tipps like this video. I didnt want to say with that, that i am not happy with myself it just can be really frustrating sometimes. I love helping or understand things/persons the way i do. I just wanted to say thanks for that. Ps: My english might be not the best so idk if I sometimes wrote weird lines or stuff.
Hi! I am an INFJ and older than you are. I felt the same way when I was a teen. I gravitated towards people older than me (safe people) who understood where I was coming from when I was in college. My peers finally understood me once they were married and with children, because they had to be interested in the topics I had been interested in all along (politics, history, economics, etc.). Once you’re out of high school you will have the opportunity to meet a variety of people, so it will be easier for you to find “your tribe,” people that understand you for who you are without having to explain yourself all the time and fear being judged. Even if they don’t understand you at first, you can find some very receptive people who deeply care about you. Don’t lose hope-a wonderful world of new friends await you. Peace friend ♥️
@@duckbacon3117 Cant really help you there. Importent for you is just to know that you have to see it as a spectrum so might also have something of other personally typ. Just do the test once maybe that helps you.
1. try not to assume how your date sees you 0:52 🐥 2. do things your way 1:20 🐥 3. wear something comfortable and familiar 1:45 🐥 4. prep a little on conversational topics 2:09🐥 5. focus on yourself 2:37 🐥 6. be well fed 3:04 🐥 7. don't make tips from movies or tv shows 3:28🐥 8. listen to some music before you step out the door 4:00🐥 9. allow yourself to express things 4:24 🐥 10. date someone who gets you 4:56 🐥 Ilysm 💜️
The thought of dating honestly scares me 😂 probably also doesn't help that my last relationship was pretty toxic either, but I just feel heebie jeebies of some kind at the thought of dating
I always felt like an extrovert but with limited quotas, I can overstep my boundaries until it runs out, and when it does, I risk snapping and exploding spontaneously.
How about "yes". Well fed doesn't mean overeating. I'm in Overeaters Anonyomous because I have an eating disorder, too. The video explained if you get too hungry you can't concentrate on the things you need to concentrate on. Eating a small healthy snack keeps your stomach from grumbling and your blood sugar from getting too low. I used to make the mistake of starving myself thinking food was the enemy. I do understand our disorder is different for each of us. In my case, I've learned getting too hungry makes my blood sugar too low (no I'm not diabetic), messes up my concentration, messes up my head, almost always causes a migraine, and then I get too hungry and I eat too much. BTW, I belong to an atheist/agnostic OA group, for those of us out there who don't believe in a deity, please know you are not alone, there are plenty of us out here.
@@queenpangaea3325 Sorry, but food is always the enemy in my book. I'm sorry, but I don't think it's going to get better. I try to eat a snack, and then I think even THAT is the enemy. Sorry, but your not convincing me...
One thing that helps a lot with not over analyzing every little mistake and problem you make is trying to remember what others have done. You don't remember/notice every little mistake or problem about other ppl, so why would other people notice everything about you? This helps me not worry about those things as much.
Hey! Since this was a introvert related video that pointed the fact of "overthinking" i just wanted to know a few things that could possibly help me stop doing it because it constantly makes things to me like sleeping or relaxing hard
My mom has always been an extrovert, while my father is extremely introverted, that made it hard in school, work and dating. My mom always wanted me to do something, but my day was fine if I stayed home or just had friends come over. Thanks for the video!! PS. I'm a introvert.
Good people of TH-cam, I would like to make an announcement. Using this advice, I did it. I am no longer single!!!!! Yoooo!!!! Me and my gf are as happy as can be thanks to you guys, Ty fam!
Met this guy on vacation yesterday and didn't know what to do due to my shyness. Then this morning I woke up to this and I finally feel more comfortable going to talk to them
I love you guys so much! I’ve learned so much about mental health which is great because I have depression and I don’t feel as alone anymore. I’m on medication and now the good mental health days outweigh the bad ones. My road to recovery started with this channel and I couldn’t feel better. Thank you guys so much you’re truly saving lives🥰
Thank you Psych2go for this. I’m a very psychoanalytical introvert, and it is really comforting to have people out there who are willing to help others with difficult experiences. It is nice to have something in the back of your mind, while still staying engaged with said experience
My gf is an introvert, this helped me feel more confident that i'm doing right in our relationship, giving her space to share how she feels in her own time
It's not even about it you can start a conversation the way you want is just that dating apps is harder to start a conversation and even harder to keep one since most of the people there only know how to give one word answer so it does not leave many places to know people out there as a introvert and to make matters worse is easier o start and keep a conversation if you meet someone in person
I used to be more of an introvert, I thought a lot about how I should behave, which only led to the fact that I wasn't myself. At some point I met a woman who told me that she wished that I was just me. The date was so relaxed and even if I said a lot of stupid things, she just took me for who I am. Today we are married. ;0)
Bro the thumbnail is so relatable lmfao my friend wanted to pick me up and I freaked out when your expectations is they can pick you up without getting heck tech
According to the 4 types of Introverts. Can i day dream a lot, like beeing with my best friends sharing emotions and having deep talks, but also feeling anxieous and unsafe while near new people? Or am i an ambivert then. I can relate to all of them.
I feel that this video was directed toward women. You completely skipped the hardest part of dating for men.... Actually getting a date in the first place. Approach anxiety can make a guy seem nervous and that's an instant turn off. Building up attraction isn't easy for someone that is introverted or socially anxious. Showing charisma and confidence aren't easy things to do for a guy that's anxious. If a guy can't do those things, he'll never get a date in the first place. This even applies when using dating apps. Could you make a video on that aspect of dating as an well?
A few of these sound like they could be really helpful when I finally ask a certain someone out! I wouldnt have thought to listen to music beforehand, and freedom to express feelings is always a necessary reminder for me
I'm definitely an introvert and I find that when you tell people or try to explain to them that you favor more introverted actions they tend to get bored, mad, or uninterested. It's discouraging knowing that but after watching this video, I feel like I have a better idea on handle trying to be introverted and carry on a relationship.
Yyyyyeahhh love isn't what what it's cracked out to be. It's after you're together for a while. Past the lovey dovey infatuation phase. that is where love may be. Just focus on what it is you do.
@@Dave-ip7hs i always focus on my happiness but still nobody gives a shit i feel emptiness everyday and i don't NEED love cause i have everything i want but i just WANT it
@@Myda-1 Hmm have you been in a relationship before? Or are you just saying you'd like it if friends and family gave a shit about how you feel and are doing?
Nice. Can we get some dating advice for Aces as well? That's my biggest hurdle. I'm a little too intimidated by the idea that most people associate romance with ... other things.
@@RY-os9vw It's short for Asexual. I don't experience sexual attraction and don't desire a sexual relationship, even though I do desire a romantic relationship.
I like this. I don't ever plan on dating or "other" relationship but I do like when other people gets the help they need when it comes to dating Hope you get the advice you need. Wish you the best
@@jeshcar Thank you. So do I. And it's awesome that you don't feel like you need (and you don't need to either) any of that relationship stuff. You be you, and keep being awesome.
I like the idea of pregaming for a date- snack/music/discussion topics. I get so nervous then over excited when things start to go well that I often accidentally say things I almost immediately regret- going it more prepared would be nice.
4:16 i'm eating fried rice rn & i choked when i saw txt there..i'm sure the illustrator/editor is a Moa😏 love the txt cameo tho..their musics are bops & has everything that you ever wanted..their songs fits all of your mood So yes STAN TXT!!
I'm an introvert myself and I literally just started high school and I didn't feel prepared for what will come in my final 4 years of school. This helps a lot!
I was wondering if you guys can do a video on how to heal from childhood trauma and also dealing with your emotions in a healthy manner I tend to feel like I don’t really know that I’m feeling a certain way till I’m all ready blowing up and taking my emotions out on others. I also am adopted and am trying to heal from all I went through as a kid with the help of my mom but I get really scared/anxious at the thought of becoming abusive/manipulative toward my kids (if I end up having any when I’m older) like my biological parents were to me.
Therapy (w/a therapist that you connect well with and is safe) will help with address the childhood trauma and give you new skills so that you don’t repeat the old habits you learned with your adopted caregivers. Good for you for wanting to heal and for being a better person for your future kids. ♥️
Hey, your past doesn't have to define who you are or will be. You have choices and you can decide who you want to be and what kind of parent you will be. Don't be hard on yourself Check out more videos on how to heal from childhood trauma here: th-cam.com/users/Psych2gosearch?query=how%20to%20heal%20from%20childhood%20trauma And check out this video on how to deal with your emotions in a healthy way: th-cam.com/video/PAestsXAWsw/w-d-xo.html
I'm shy and an introvert. I hate dating! Especially online dating, but how else do you meet someone these days. From my experience, a lot of men want me to show affection and open up after one or two dates, I find that way too soon! I might give it a try again but for someone like me it is not fun, I'd almost rather go get a root canal!
As an introverto I’ve given up on dating. I’m a one man unit. I work better alone. Because when I try to date I tend to cling and become an emotional mess along with getting ahead of myself on our “status” so I’m better off alone than having to put myself and others in that.
Same here and if by some miracle I find someone that seem to get me or feel the same way I do I get scared to chase that because I've been hurt too many times. :/
@@AngellGaby you and me both. I’ve just given up on humanity as a whole really. But we’re just a grain on sand on the beaches of time; what does it matter anyway?
@@vjcrazy3335 me too, and I see them as something fun to think about when I’m bored. So def positive, don’t you worry! Thru fantasies you can learn what you like. At least if you ask me haha
Are you more of an introvert or extrovert? Comment below.
introvert!
Introvert
AMBIVERT
I’m definitely an introvert
Both
Me, an introvert who isn't interested in dating: *interesting*
lol same ima aroace
Not just for dating, but what the introvert needs is someone who really understands them and puts in the time to get to know them. Just making friends with someone at work who is a very sensitive HSP/empath is an interesting experience. I'm a borderline HSP/borderline empath with a strong personality (I've come out of that quiet, reserved space but still totally understand it) and I'm just making them feel comfortable and drawing them out slowly. Even though we have an almost telepathic ability to understand each other and look out for each other it's coming up to 8 months now and they're just starting to feel comfortable enough to have a more personal conversation.
Me a introverted extrovert and asexual who does not like dating very much and just wants friends: *interesting*
me, an introvert weeb who isn't interested in dating: *OMOSHIROI*
well i am and im not i dont rlly know...
I am surprised to say that I did most of this without thinking for the date I recently went on, it went well.
Nice
Congratulations! Will there be a second date?
@@Psych2go im happy for you that you found someone you could date congrats seriously something i cant never get
Lucky you got one but whatever at least ill be happy to be rich instead of spending money for my gf
How do you humans do it?! I live in a damn vacuum! There are no dates, no one wants me, everything I do is a failure, and I need to eat a bullet, but everyone brags about their success that just happens without even thinking. Billions of you all finding each other, and I've spent almost my whole life alone. This must end.
I’m also an introvert, and I’ve never been formally asked out on a date. Well, it may have something to do with the fact that I’m still a coward when it comes to things like this. I’m just casually taking my time, and that’s perfectly okay. There’s just a lot of creeps either offline or online, and so I do find this whole dating thing quite risky, even though it may also seem harmless on the outside.
*same*
It's not that risky though
@@PrgressiveHouse if it's not for you, that's great. I've also never had any issues, but that doesn't mean that it isn't for everyone. It depends on so many factors like where you're from, your age, your gender, etc.
@@Futurepointmusic how does that have to do with gender i meant gender is normal
@@Futurepointmusic also the part that says where you are from doesnt even apply to dating
Bar scene is thee worst option for a date. Especially for an introvert 🙄. Its an over-stimulating environment full of distractions. I prefer somewhere less noisy and more intimate if your trying to get to know one another. Also, I dont give it up on the 1st few dates. Showing that I am interested in more than a hookup. Even if there is a ton of chemistry and sparks are flying everywhere, I don't want to rush or force things anymore.
I used to think I was anti-social because, I don't like big crowds but, I was taught that I may be a little socially awkward however, I am definitely social. I am just introverted. Which is an individual who does not like over-stimulating environments or rooms with too much energy. I am trying to lower my expectations and have more tolerance without compromising my integrity too much.
Good point here, thanks for sharing
1. try not to assume how your date sees you 0:52
2. do things your way 1:20
3. wear something comfortable and familiar 1:45
4. prep a little on conversational topics 2:09
5. focus on yourself 2:37
6. be well fed 3:04
7. don't make tips from movies or tv shows 3:28
8. listen to some music before you step out the door 4:00
9. allow yourself to express things 4:24
10. date someone who gets you 4:56
I hope I could help!
Oooh, a time traveler
*confusion*
Thx
Hai
Wait- how was this 17 hours ago
I'm an introvert, I wish I had known this sooner...but then again, we live and we learn. I'm glad I saw this and I'm really looking forward for more advise like this to help me change for the better.
This is a lot like my love life
me aggressively taking notes on this advice like i’ll ever be in a relationship
Stay positive
Relatable
@@sadhanaroy1110 that's noble, and I do the same but I hope it is not futile
Looks like we're all aboard the same boat, haha!
felt
Still watching even though I’ve made no attempts to date in several years
Still watching even though I made no attempts to date for my whole life
@@aiiiia9971 Same. I hate myself.
As a socially anxious ambivert, this actually helped a lot
*scoff* normie :p
@@nexvull5911 👁👁
@TommyInnit 🅥 fake TommyInnit moment
@TommyInnit 🅥 fake british man moment. good try bud
What the fu- I mean what is a ambivert?
me and my boyfriend are both introverts and really shy, but we're getting along very well. It was a bit hard and difficult to have conversations at the beginning, but now we're together for 8 months and we feel very comfortable around each other
If you don’t mind me asking, how did you guys meet?
I’m an introvert and I’d like to find new people in my life, love life even, but I have no idea where to start lol
@@Lilachristiina we are very interested in games and we both played a vr game. We also are both playing VRML which is short for VR master league. I asked if I could join his team and I didn’t knew he had a crush on me that time. After we spent some time together I started falling in love with him and he confessed his love to me by accident 😅
@@AceBite greatttttttt
@@AceBitethats a perfect solution
K ima go sao myself lmao
Same here -- me and my girlfriend are both introverts, and that's part of the reason why we have such great chemistry!
*“You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending”* 💙
Yessss thanks
The fact that 6 million people is a small percentage of people that watches Psych2Go, wow
almost 7 mil
They don't get a lot of sub views tho.
@@bendavis6457 tru
It would be nice if all 6 million subscribers watched our videos at the same time :) You can always help by sharing our content so more people can see it :D
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If you an introvert, seek friendship from other intros. Because they are more likely to understand you.
I have and we've been a group for years now
And most likely not gonna talk either.
I was somehow adopted by a group of extroverts
Um not really,the best because you will both act the same so who is gonna bring up the fun 🤣 better to go with an extrovert person and explain you are an introvert.
What is intros? If you don't mind me asking.
"I have a date today"
Burnout Syndromes: Alright boys, its showtime.
Me when i try do do anything productive in my life
i wanted to like it but it's at 69 so imma leave it
What are burnout syndromes
@@Kinghassz Its actually a band
@@Empathywastaken you can like it now 👍
Thank you!! I need this. I'm such a deep thinker and always see the world through an artistic lens and through genuine eyes. Meeting another person like that is rare and I feel as though me being thoughtful and *usually* quiet doesn't make me exactly the kind of guy girls go for lol. But I do have more confidence these days even though I'm unsure about getting into a relationship even though I'd love to. I just have an intense fear of messing up.
Hey Tristan, thanks for sharing :) Have confidence in yourself because there are so many others like you out there :) and one of them will love you for who you are :)
Intense fear Ha!!! i mess up before i can fear anything :)
I feel just like you
@@Psych2go That means a lot, thanks Psych2Go ❤
Same here lol this could not have come at a better time!
The last person i dated said introverts don't exist and it isn't a real thing. He was an extreme extrovert.
He's depressing. One can't exist without the other
And he’s a narrow minded person who never wanted to understand about anything.
Well...I used to say things which can be interpred this way.
I used to be very shy and never engaged in conversations with unfamiliar people. And I changed that by participating in different things whose encourages talking - like literature club, movies club, English speaking club or talking in anonymous chat in web.
Talking to strangers felt weird at first but over time it become more natural. Most people I meet don't believe me then I say I actually introvert. And that made me question introvertion itself.
@@iivanov6006 introversion is not a personality and is totally unrelated to not liking to talk with strangers. like extroverts love talking to strangers?? i think that the whole introvert extrovert thing are 2 overused lables who are not precise enough to describe anything about you.
Me an introvert: Baby I don't exist, I'm just a hallucination.
Listening to music really helps me! All I need to do is put on any rock music or metal! The tips really helped and I hope they help you as well!
Facts! Metal for life. Introverts for life!!!
@@QueenFrisky hell yeah
yeah, listening to napalm sticks to kids really helps.
I recommend creo because he has intense and calming music
seriously tho give it a shot
@@fwflygon14 Sabaton is good too
You hit the point..feel-good music !!
I abslutely can't go on a date after listening to my playlist of sad ballads ! that'd be drama
The whole list of songs I listen to contains only metal (metalcore, heavy, black), sad rap instrumentals and house music(I very rarely listen to it)
This is so me. Sometimes, my boyfriend and I had some arguments where to eat or go since we already know some places to go when we're together. In the end, he lets me decide what and where we should eat or go. 😭💕
Thank you for always bringing joy in my mental health, Psych2Go! 💖
Thanks for sharing
3 Quotes to Live By:
1) "Don't compare yourself to someone else, compare yourself to your yesterday's self."
2) “You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending”
3) "Once you decide your lifes purpose, you will only have to pack one thing: "Your Heart."
Love from a small TH-camr💙
1. People compare themselves to others that have things they don't have. If you hadn't achieved something in your past and you still haven't achieved it to this day - stop comparing yourself to others (including your past self). Accept yourself, be kind to yourself, and make changes as you go.
2. We don't know our ending, nor should we have an ending in mind. Accept the past and live for today. (Not saying you can't have goals!)
3. I agree. Also, your life purpose does not need to be big. Your life purpose can consists of simple things in life that you might already be doing; like caring for family, creating new/maintaining friendships, travelling the world, and keeping your body and mind healthy.
Just my perspective. Have a nice day :)
1) Everyday try to become better than yesterday
2)The past is freeze in the ice, the present is not cold yet so don't think about it
3)We have to find our trueselves and be purely genuine, our actions respect our values.
All of this 3 quotes are one of the keys for happiness.
"Like thats ever gonna happen"
-Shrek
Somebody once told me the world was gonna roll me
@@idontknowwhattoputhere7017 I ain't the sharpest tool in the shed
This, is THE most based opinion in this comments section
yes
Thank you for being in my crazy upside down world
This girl has the most beautiful and soothing voice.
I feel like this was made for me, just asked a Girl out on a date and she said yes
Best of luck my friend
@@johnv4994 thank you, this means a lot
Noice
I'm sure that everything is gonna be perfect! ALL the luck for you
Awesome! Good luck! Keep us updated will 'ya? :D
this actually really helped me. i stress myself a lot about dating since i have no experience, so i got a lot of tips from this. their voice is really soothing too, so it calmed me down. thank you
We're happy to help
Not gonna lie her voice is really nice ✨
It helps me get calm while listening to whatever the topic is...
Introverts know that if you hang out with a group of extroverts long enough one of them will just adopt you eventually
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Lol
I wish I would adopt an extrovert once and not the other way around...that's sad😭🤣
Im an introvert who likes someone more introverted than me actually. When they are struggling w social interaction, I used to think it was because they didn’t want to talk but then i realised that I do it too and I always tell people not to take it personally. So in a way I guess it does help when both people are either introverted or extroverted
Today me and my gf (soon to be wife, our little secret wink wink ;P ) are completing 4 years and 5 months of dating and honestly, EVERYTHING HERE HELPS. I know I speak for the both of us since we are rock loving introvert geeks who love to be alone with each other bingewatching our favorite movies and shows together ^ ^
Tip 10 is essencial, it trully gives life into the relationship
You got lucky my man
Best wishes
That's so sweet! Wishing you both the best!
Thanks guys ^^
This TXT reference is everything! 😫💜 I love it Psych2go
To all the dreamers out there, don't ever let the world's negativity disenchant you or your spirit. If you surround yourself with love and right people, ANYTHING is possible.
Love from a small TH-camr🙏🖤
stay small
I'm going to college next week do this is very much-needed
Hi iam INFJ.
Well idk who and if anyone is ever going to see this but I just wanted to say thank you for all the videos and posts and stuff youre doing.
When i didnt kow about this personality and psychologie stuff round it, it has always been really hard for me to understand why i feel or think so diffrent in certain situations because i dont really have any friends or people round me that can relate to me or understand me in a way. It always felt i had to apologize or justify for everything. I overthink so much even if its just a "Hi" I focus on the ton the person said it. I sometimes dont even say thinks i want to say cause i know the people dont understand me. Beeing 16 and in puperty doesnt really help then. Your contant helps me to understand why i might feel, think or act diffrently in situations and gives me tipps like this video.
I didnt want to say with that, that i am not happy with myself it just can be really frustrating sometimes. I love helping or understand things/persons the way i do.
I just wanted to say thanks for that.
Ps: My english might be not the best so idk if I sometimes wrote weird lines or stuff.
Hi! I am an INFJ and older than you are. I felt the same way when I was a teen. I gravitated towards people older than me (safe people) who understood where I was coming from when I was in college. My peers finally understood me once they were married and with children, because they had to be interested in the topics I had been interested in all along (politics, history, economics, etc.). Once you’re out of high school you will have the opportunity to meet a variety of people, so it will be easier for you to find “your tribe,” people that understand you for who you are without having to explain yourself all the time and fear being judged. Even if they don’t understand you at first, you can find some very receptive people who deeply care about you. Don’t lose hope-a wonderful world of new friends await you. Peace friend ♥️
@@RY-os9vw Feels so good too hear that thank you ❤
enfp here, just wanted to say you infjs are truly amazing people haha ❤️ sending much love to you dear!!
Im still not sure what my personality type is, I have a hard time understanding myself. I might be a ENTJ im not sure
@@duckbacon3117 Cant really help you there. Importent for you is just to know that you have to see it as a spectrum so might also have something of other personally typ.
Just do the test once maybe that helps you.
Your voice is so calming!! I also love your channel!! 😁
1. try not to assume how your date sees you 0:52 🐥
2. do things your way 1:20 🐥
3. wear something comfortable and familiar 1:45 🐥
4. prep a little on conversational topics 2:09🐥
5. focus on yourself 2:37 🐥
6. be well fed 3:04 🐥
7. don't make tips from movies or tv shows 3:28🐥
8. listen to some music before you step out the door 4:00🐥
9. allow yourself to express things 4:24 🐥
10. date someone who gets you 4:56 🐥
Ilysm 💜️
The thought of dating honestly scares me 😂 probably also doesn't help that my last relationship was pretty toxic either, but I just feel heebie jeebies of some kind at the thought of dating
I always felt like an extrovert but with limited quotas, I can overstep my boundaries until it runs out, and when it does, I risk snapping and exploding spontaneously.
You sound like a social introvert…or an ambivert.
This channel is basically just a guide to life for introverts
All of these helped me so much with my date! Thank you so much, I had to pump myself up a lot though before I could meet him
Finally, a good guide to dating.
3:03: "Be well fed"
My eating disorder: *How about no.*
How about "yes". Well fed doesn't mean overeating. I'm in Overeaters Anonyomous because I have an eating disorder, too. The video explained if you get too hungry you can't concentrate on the things you need to concentrate on. Eating a small healthy snack keeps your stomach from grumbling and your blood sugar from getting too low. I used to make the mistake of starving myself thinking food was the enemy. I do understand our disorder is different for each of us. In my case, I've learned getting too hungry makes my blood sugar too low (no I'm not diabetic), messes up my concentration, messes up my head, almost always causes a migraine, and then I get too hungry and I eat too much. BTW, I belong to an atheist/agnostic OA group, for those of us out there who don't believe in a deity, please know you are not alone, there are plenty of us out here.
@@queenpangaea3325 Sorry, but food is always the enemy in my book. I'm sorry, but I don't think it's going to get better. I try to eat a snack, and then I think even THAT is the enemy. Sorry, but your not convincing me...
Saving this one for later.
One thing that helps a lot with not over analyzing every little mistake and problem you make is trying to remember what others have done. You don't remember/notice every little mistake or problem about other ppl, so why would other people notice everything about you? This helps me not worry about those things as much.
Hey! Since this was a introvert related video that pointed the fact of "overthinking" i just wanted to know a few things that could possibly help me stop doing it because it constantly makes things to me like sleeping or relaxing hard
As a introvert who want gf so bad, this video is a blessing.
agreed
Hey...
Hope you start makin' your moves soon
Same here with me!
Just don't obsess too much though :)
My mom has always been an extrovert, while my father is extremely introverted, that made it hard in school, work and dating. My mom always wanted me to do something, but my day was fine if I stayed home or just had friends come over. Thanks for the video!!
PS. I'm a introvert.
Good people of TH-cam, I would like to make an announcement. Using this advice, I did it. I am no longer single!!!!! Yoooo!!!! Me and my gf are as happy as can be thanks to you guys, Ty fam!
Psy2Go: A small percentage of you is actually subscribed.
Has 6,8 million subs, their most viewed video has around 6,1 million views.
Wait, what?
It's literally 04:30Am. I should sleep but This is more important
Its 3:30 here lol
Okay this helps alot! I've never been on one date ever. This is will help for sure I'm confident!!!
Met this guy on vacation yesterday and didn't know what to do due to my shyness. Then this morning I woke up to this and I finally feel more comfortable going to talk to them
hope it goes well!
Me an introvert talking to my crush: *malfunctioning*
Gets this video notification: 👁👄👁 thank you
Psych2go do be like that. I can't count how many times I get notifications of something I needed to know after something happens
I'm very much an extrovert. My boyfriend is an introvert. We've been together for going on 11 years this September ❤️ Knitting Psi made me so happy! 🥰
Aww that's so sweet! Wishing you both the best! And you knitted PSI? 😍
@@Psych2go I'm actually referring to your animation of PSI knitting makes me really happy to see :3
I love you guys so much! I’ve learned so much about mental health which is great because I have depression and I don’t feel as alone anymore. I’m on medication and now the good mental health days outweigh the bad ones. My road to recovery started with this channel and I couldn’t feel better. Thank you guys so much you’re truly saving lives🥰
I'm an introvert and I love music. Literally all of these are helpful, especially the music tip!
1 like 1 dislike. Perfectly balanced, as all things should be
this video is too good to be perfectly balanced. drop all the likes on one side so hard it flings the dislikes into oblivion
I thought they must stop to giving disslike
662 likes
No longer perfectly balanced, but leaning in the right direction
What libra placements do you have lol
I don't bother with dating now. Trust is earned and not given.
Noice
I am an introvert…so uhhh..I’ll have to live by this lol
Thank you Psych2go for this. I’m a very psychoanalytical introvert, and it is really comforting to have people out there who are willing to help others with difficult experiences. It is nice to have something in the back of your mind, while still staying engaged with said experience
Problem: how do I get a date?
Me an extrovert taking notes
This channel literally makes every single video a video that i need. This is amazing
Ikr
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Omggg so happy to see Lucy's album as the music recommendation. Their songs definitely make me feel at ease :)
I love how it's not a normal guide, it's a survival guide to dating
I've been waiting for this sh*t'ss since i was on the middle school.
My gf is an introvert, this helped me feel more confident that i'm doing right in our relationship, giving her space to share how she feels in her own time
As an introvert who copes by being a major kpop fan…. It greatly pleased me to see one of my favorite bands
As an introvert I think is harder to find someone to date
Basically I text a girl I like with a "Hi!".
Then I ask myself "Now what? :D"
It's not even about it you can start a conversation the way you want is just that dating apps is harder to start a conversation and even harder to keep one since most of the people there only know how to give one word answer so it does not leave many places to know people out there as a introvert and to make matters worse is easier o start and keep a conversation if you meet someone in person
I used to be more of an introvert, I thought a lot about how I should behave, which only led to the fact that I wasn't myself. At some point I met a woman who told me that she wished that I was just me. The date was so relaxed and even if I said a lot of stupid things, she just took me for who I am. Today we are married. ;0)
Wow!! This is what I needed ❤
Bro the thumbnail is so relatable lmfao my friend wanted to pick me up and I freaked out when your expectations is they can pick you up without getting heck tech
According to the 4 types of Introverts. Can i day dream a lot, like beeing with my best friends sharing emotions and having deep talks, but also feeling anxieous and unsafe while near new people? Or am i an ambivert then. I can relate to all of them.
I’m like that too and I consider myself an ambivert.
I feel that this video was directed toward women. You completely skipped the hardest part of dating for men.... Actually getting a date in the first place. Approach anxiety can make a guy seem nervous and that's an instant turn off. Building up attraction isn't easy for someone that is introverted or socially anxious. Showing charisma and confidence aren't easy things to do for a guy that's anxious. If a guy can't do those things, he'll never get a date in the first place. This even applies when using dating apps. Could you make a video on that aspect of dating as an well?
A few of these sound like they could be really helpful when I finally ask a certain someone out! I wouldnt have thought to listen to music beforehand, and freedom to express feelings is always a necessary reminder for me
If there is ever a whole audio book on these tips , I would listen to it everyday everywhere 🌍 💕 I love this
My family members are more extroverted (my mom is both but leaning towards extroverted more) and sometimes I don’t think they understand me.
Hey sorry about that. You're not alone, fellow introvert and/or ambivert :) So keep doing and being you :)
@@Psych2go thanks, that means a lot to me.
Psych2Go: Does the statistics thing
Me: *Oh god, they’re back*
I swear you read my mind. You always drop videos on things and topics that are on my mind at the time
Thanks for all the support for peoples mental health
oh holy heck this is going to be useful
Me who always loves Joey's iconic line: So I..can't ask how she's doing?😂
I'm definitely an introvert and I find that when you tell people or try to explain to them that you favor more introverted actions they tend to get bored, mad, or uninterested. It's discouraging knowing that but after watching this video, I feel like I have a better idea on handle trying to be introverted and carry on a relationship.
i'll be lucky to even have a chance to use these tips
Me knowing i'll never be loved
*clicks*
Yyyyyeahhh love isn't what what it's cracked out to be. It's after you're together for a while. Past the lovey dovey infatuation phase. that is where love may be. Just focus on what it is you do.
@@Dave-ip7hs i always focus on my happiness but still nobody gives a shit i feel emptiness everyday and i don't NEED love cause i have everything i want but i just WANT it
@@Myda-1 Hmm have you been in a relationship before? Or are you just saying you'd like it if friends and family gave a shit about how you feel and are doing?
Nice. Can we get some dating advice for Aces as well? That's my biggest hurdle. I'm a little too intimidated by the idea that most people associate romance with ... other things.
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What is an ace?
@@RY-os9vw It's short for Asexual. I don't experience sexual attraction and don't desire a sexual relationship, even though I do desire a romantic relationship.
I like this. I don't ever plan on dating or "other" relationship but I do like when other people gets the help they need when it comes to dating
Hope you get the advice you need. Wish you the best
@@jeshcar Thank you. So do I. And it's awesome that you don't feel like you need (and you don't need to either) any of that relationship stuff. You be you, and keep being awesome.
Please make more video like this 🙏
I like the idea of pregaming for a date- snack/music/discussion topics. I get so nervous then over excited when things start to go well that I often accidentally say things I almost immediately regret- going it more prepared would be nice.
Psych2Go : "Hey psych2Goer's"
What I am hearing : *"Hey psycho's"*
Also me : being personally attacked
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4:16 i'm eating fried rice rn & i choked when i saw txt there..i'm sure the illustrator/editor is a Moa😏
love the txt cameo tho..their musics are bops & has everything that you ever wanted..their songs fits all of your mood
So yes STAN TXT!!
same hhagahahaha
SAME HAHAHAHA I WAS LIKE TXT?? YESSS
Yeah, I’m ten years old but I still needed to watch this😂
I'm an introvert myself and I literally just started high school and I didn't feel prepared for what will come in my final 4 years of school. This helps a lot!
I was wondering if you guys can do a video on how to heal from childhood trauma and also dealing with your emotions in a healthy manner I tend to feel like I don’t really know that I’m feeling a certain way till I’m all ready blowing up and taking my emotions out on others. I also am adopted and am trying to heal from all I went through as a kid with the help of my mom but I get really scared/anxious at the thought of becoming abusive/manipulative toward my kids (if I end up having any when I’m older) like my biological parents were to me.
Therapy (w/a therapist that you connect well with and is safe) will help with address the childhood trauma and give you new skills so that you don’t repeat the old habits you learned with your adopted caregivers. Good for you for wanting to heal and for being a better person for your future kids. ♥️
Hey, your past doesn't have to define who you are or will be. You have choices and you can decide who you want to be and what kind of parent you will be. Don't be hard on yourself
Check out more videos on how to heal from childhood trauma here: th-cam.com/users/Psych2gosearch?query=how%20to%20heal%20from%20childhood%20trauma
And check out this video on how to deal with your emotions in a healthy way: th-cam.com/video/PAestsXAWsw/w-d-xo.html
I'm shy and an introvert. I hate dating! Especially online dating, but how else do you meet someone these days. From my experience, a lot of men want me to show affection and open up after one or two dates, I find that way too soon! I might give it a try again but for someone like me it is not fun, I'd almost rather go get a root canal!
I like your character designs, especially the two people in the thumbnail, their hairstyle, clothes and ears are so cute they speak value, yes
As an introverto I’ve given up on dating. I’m a one man unit. I work better alone. Because when I try to date I tend to cling and become an emotional mess along with getting ahead of myself on our “status” so I’m better off alone than having to put myself and others in that.
Same here and if by some miracle I find someone that seem to get me or feel the same way I do I get scared to chase that because I've been hurt too many times. :/
@@AngellGaby you and me both. I’ve just given up on humanity as a whole really. But we’re just a grain on sand on the beaches of time; what does it matter anyway?
Step 1: don't date. Thanks for watching!
I'm an introvert, and I have fantasies alright, but I'm fine with expressing them in art, I don't need a lover, HMPH
I tend to have fantasies a lot. is this a positive or negative thing?
@@vjcrazy3335 me too, and I see them as something fun to think about when I’m bored. So def positive, don’t you worry! Thru fantasies you can learn what you like. At least if you ask me haha
guys, by fantasies, I mean things that ain't happening in real life, not the "you know" get your minds outa the gutter XD
@@TheNegative69 That's what I meant. By 'learning what you like' I meant that they could learn about themselves that way u kno. Hard to explain
@@Lilachristiina Right, riiiiiiiiight, yes
You forgot the most important one: to actually have fun at the date
wow did you guys readed my comment or something? this is great as the whole channel thanks