What? My Christian grandmother had 3 different baby daddies. Didn’t find that out til I was 30. My dad side had two different dudes 3kids in her life. Ain’t shit changed but time
Made a baby with a man that ain't good enough. How dumb you gotta be to do that. And then have the audacity to think there shouldn't be a penalty for it.
Thats like a fat ugly poor guy wanting to be with a super model, everybody agrees he has no chance and is delusional, but women still think they can be fat and have been ran through and still deserve the top 10% guy xD
Because he was hot and or good in bed. I've met some women that talk about how much they did to save their relationship with their broke cheating bf because he did them good. It's fascinating.
So many of these women's problems could be solved if they were just willing to admit that their bad life situations are a consequence of their own actions.
Just like a woman has a right to do whatever she wants with her body without criticism, well men should have the right to decide not to deal with them and their kids without criticism. It's that simple. Your body your choice, my income my choice.
@@DeADvElOciRaPtorI had a stepfather the majority of my childhood. While I respect that he came to help my mom and such ...me and my siblings would always side with my mom If my steldad and mom got into arguments . He can be right and it didn't matter. No win situation as a step father.
She said that she is old school and that she grew up around women who date high quality “MEN”. But yet she had a baby by someone who she said wasn’t good enough for her. 🤔🤔🤔 so she doesn’t learn by watching
@@asowerofseed4896 I feel you on that she probably is capping but still to know that this is going on TH-cam to be dissected by everyone no matter the point of view and still come on with this energy and spew emotional wild shit is bewildering to me lol.
Doesn’t it stand to reason if everything *libertine* is permitted, then moral condemnation of 𝘢𝘯𝘺𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 doesn’t hold weight? Societal shame (having ethical grounding) keeps social order…
@@Supersquishyawesomeness, I am *agreeing* with you in the form of a rhetorical question. [we can't 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘳 tone over txt, might not have translated well] ♡
I didn't get straight A's in school, get into my dream college at 16, graduate, work my way up the corporate ladder, eat crap, take a risk and start my successful business to raise some hooodrat's kids with Ray Ray, Pookie and Jamarquavious. They love having kids with men who aren't "good enough" to marry. They always think we should accept their bad life choices because they were "young". I was "young" once and now I'm 32 and somehow I don't have any kids running around. Imagine that.
"I was young, I was stupid." "I made a bad decision." "Everyone does it." "He wasnt mature enough." "I made a baby with a man that wasnt good enough." "It's your fault I cant get a good man." "There are no good men out there." "Don't dare shame me." When a guy hears this from ONE woman, every red flag in the world pops up. A man who examines this see's an emotional, physical and financial pit with little or no return. If a woman cannot grow up and out of this mind set, then her problems are bigger than the issues she's built up for herself.
@Kano I wonder if a lot of times a single mother lures in a well off man then drops their children on their lap then blames the men for leading them on when the man runs.
@@_marie2536 It's one thing to take accountability for our bad decision. It's a whole another thing to fix the issues as the result of the consequences of our bad decisions. I made bad financial decisions that caught up to me when I was 22. Taking accountability my bad financial choices isn't good enough. Fixing my credit, knowing how to use credit, learn to invest, budget and manage money is what actually makes changes.That isn't good quality. That's what you should do.
@@johnvoelker2035 You are one of those all lives matter people aren’t you? 😂 I’m talking about women. How can you say “wrong” if what i said was right and you even reiterated what i said? 🤦🏽♀️
@@christinog742 Really I'm not! I believe in live by it and die by it. And I practice that. I'm onboard with setting and holding a standard. I won't past judgement on who or what you are Christin OG, but I enjoy your wise comments and you sharing them! You help keep me sharp! Keep up the great fight! Thanks!
@@justyoshi7135 yea but it still ain’t the same we don’t try to make our kids your burden or bill like y’all try to do us Nd likely the kids don’t even stay with us so it ain’t the same
My wife was 14 and I was 17 when we started going together. We got married 6 yrs later after finishing school. We had our first child 5 yrs after marriage and after we bought a home. We are both successful and live an affluent life style because we weren't selfish, undisciplined and because together we made a plan and stuck to it. Just because you are young doesn't mean you have to be a f-kup.
@@TheAlchemist1089 I'm glad you said it bc that's weird asf at the end of the day. He's almost out of high school and she's just leaving middle school. Interesting
@@jamesjohnson-rr9gp nah she's just bitter. She says she was young this & young that. Ok so even @ a young age u knew dude wasn't good enough 2 marry. But u DIDN'T KNOW that he wasn't good enough to not have a baby with? What part of the game is that?
She sound like every bitter baby mama everywhere. Had a baby with someone deemed not good enough and lowered her value but still expects mr right to come through and save her out of benevolence rather than find his own mrs right. When she doesn't get her way, suddenly there's a problem with society as a whole and not her.
"He wasn't good enough for me to marry!" No, honey, I think he realized that YOU were not good enough for HIM to marry. If you were even 1/10th as angry and bitter and nasty as you were in this video, there's no way any rational man would lock himself into a marriage with you. You're not good enough to have somebody.
She’s really mad because she slept with a bum who got her pregnant and she could have used birth control or ensure he use a condom! She controls the sexual part
They don't plan, they basically just spread for every guy and then get preggo and knowingly knew that the dude is a idiot. Then they date and sleep around and judge
yep they chose that, as they should! the abortion rate is high among black babies. they should take responsibility and face the path and not blame anyone when they don’t like the outcomes/ consequences of a certain caliber of men not wanting them because of their own decisions.
This is why our children have trauma. He wasn’t good enough for her so essentially, she’s safe from tying herself to him but she decided her child should be stuck with him as a father for life.
True. Way too emotional. She honestly sounds 16. You know Tommy Sotomayor had a theory that a woman stops mentally maturing the age she gives birth. She got pregnant at 16. Maybe he is right. Just a thought
Yup when he grows up, he's gonna take cease the opportunity to get at a white chick. Black mothers scares their sons off to get with a girl of a different race smh
“I don’t date”, “people are so nasty & disgusting” . She is a single mom 🤦♂️. Since she’s not dating, this means she’s probably getting mounted on the regular. She rose from the streets & to the streets she shall return R.I.P 🙏.
How about what the baby daddy went through that’s why he’s not there I’ve seen this scenario before I was a stepdaddy to a child or father what did one in jail and live 2 miles away and I have not seen him for the entire 10 years I don’t even know what he looks like
This is the problem! Women encouraging and motivating other women that they can get something they themselves have not obtained!! At what point do we stop and say “maybe I’m wrong because this isn’t working.”
@Donna Dupree yea i know its crazy these types of. Girls in my high school days use to find different men who look a certain way to determine how cute they baby would come out and the female friends use to push it like yall would have cute babys together when ever they see there friends together with someone or other couples together it was truly a BIG THING BACK THEN
@@cillyprodd life isn’t just black and white.. there’s blue , yellow, green etc areas. It’s all up to Gods will. Depending on what your purpose is.. that person you need in your life to get to the next life is what counts.. It’s important to date and get to know the person.. what if you do find that person, but she has a child of 15 months.. fast forward 10 years, she’s the one that help you build a multimillionaire real estate empire.. then what??? KINGS… wait on the lord.. and he will renew your strength.
Never ever ever ever ever Chris tucker voice. They never take responsibility for all their own actions drives me crazy. They are so deluded that they think they can get get a high value male to marry em when there 40 years old single with 4 babies from 4 baby fathers get the f out of here!!!!
I was a single mother due to some unfortunate events and found an amazing man but I had to be an outstanding woman to appeal to him. You have to put in more work honestly. Kevin isn’t saying it’s impossible, you just have to be a certain level of a woman to get a man after having a child by someone else.
I’m so sorry for the mindset of this woman. She said “Im allowed to make mistakes” YES YOU ARE!!! And like KS said we don’t have to pay the price for your bad choices.
She was not running away from the fact that she had a child. She took full responsibility for that but KS was not allowing her to make her point in some areas and that was frustrating her. KS stated that HVM dont accept women's kids.That is total BS!
@@sherrolthompson9004 Single man let alone have value men are not seeking to be stepfathers when they don’t even have kids of their own, plain and simple
@@bacongrits4155 What do you expect “Sherrol” to do when she’s a lonely single mother who needs you to take care of her children. That’s why she’ll be single next year and the year after that. It’s the only way she can keep her baby out of prison, she needs to believe some wealthy, educated man wants to raise her trash can baby.
@@skylarc6063 But she "turned down 2 proposals" 😂 (suuure) & she CHOSE to have a child with a man who "wasn't good enough for me". Then she defended her right "to make poor judgements".🤣 You can't make this $h!t up. She's certifiably delusional & the disconnect from reality is unbelievable. 🤯
Well since he wasn't good enough for her, why does she believe she is good enough for high value men, specially with the fact that she has a child with another man. No high value man wants to invest in another man's child, neither does he want to share his legacy with that child. It's just a terrible idea. Every succesfull accomplished man that wants a family actually wants his own kids with a woman that's his own. He can get that since his success allows him to live that normal accomplished life. People can make mistakes, but other people are not responsible for digging them out of those mistakes.
It doesn't make any kind of sense what so ever. Also as Kevin has stated she wanted the kid. But not the man who helped created the baby. I'm good on black women in mass number within the United States, especially if they were born here.
nobody prefers a single mother over childless, that's common sense...but that doesn't mean u may not meet one later in life that happens to be a great person
I could marry a widow with a child but if the baby daddy's still around then I don't care how '' great '' she is! Having another man's child works like a repellent! Taking care of another man's responsibility, someone else's SEED... Yeah Miss me with that bullshiihh
@@d.speedy5083 but who says you’d be “taking care of it” tho? A lot of these women have their own jobs with their own money, this isn’t the old days where the man is the sole breadwinner...I dated a single mother before and she never asked me for a penny for her child, she knew that child was her responsibility and hers alone.....it all depends on the mentality of the woman you’re dating
@@jeanlouis1898 you said DATING. Many of us don't have issues just DATING single moms. Dating single mothers is fine UNTIL you end up in a relationship. Then all of the sudden you have to be a fulltime daddy whether you like it or not.
Exactly, she can make poor desicions but she has to take responsibility for them and live with the results, she think she can make bad decisions and still deserve the 6ft+ good looking childless top earner xD
He wasn’t “good enough” to marry yet you birthed his child. Please make it make sense! Ladies! We as a whole MUST do better! Accountability is surely the first step!
So your son becomes an Attorney, Making 6 figures, would you tell him to go and find a woman with two kids to marry? No.... Ok then, why are you asking men to do this ?
She says, “I’ve given up on the people in today’s world. They’re so tainted and nasty.” Little does she know she’s one of those people. She’s the type of person most of us encounter on a daily basis and are the reason we have given up on people.
@J- LEETHAL Literally just has friend had this happen to him. He has the child half the time and pay medical and child care. He also provided recipes of all the payments and showed he had a room for his son and they disregarded all that and ordered him to pay 1400. It got overturned when he brought his lawyer in to speak with them smh
Every time I listen to a KS show, I say to myself, *What WOMEN say nowadays don't surprise me any more!!* Than I listen to his next show and Im surprised *ALL OVER AGAIN!* 😤😞 The delusion goes DEEP in Western Society!!🤔
As of last Thursday, Kevin was at 376,000 subscribers. He’s now at 442,000. That’s a 66,000 increase in less than 5 days. At this pace he’s going to hit a million by April-ish.
@@1439315 I wouldn’t be surprised if at least half or more of his subscribers are women. I wish we could pull that data. I think many discount just how many women are listening “in secret.”
The truth is hard to accept. I think women take Kevins constructive criticism as saying no one will ever want them. There are plenty of good men out there. As a single mom just know you aren’t able to compete with women without children.
And thats not even always the case anyway . You can have a baby and if you hold it down and am sweet and caring it will cut the difference. The problem is single motherhood and damage tend to go hand and hand.. and even worse " good enough " means money. So already you are stepping in the lane of only caring about material gains. So the pool of men she wants are going to either walk away or abuse her. I know 2 women specifically that have 2 kids and are married to a man with none . But they both were widowed and were sweethearts
I agree. A lot of these women’s lives are just messy when Kevin pulls back the layers. Being a single mother is not a romantic death sentence but having a raggedy life is.
This is one of my favorite all time KS videos. This is exactly the toxic women we run into daily. She couldn't just listen and take ownership. It was and is so obvious.
I was just listening to the original show this clip came from earlier this morning and thought the same thing. Ma'am, which is it...you're either old school and believe in bringing back shame or you're "new school foolish" thinking being a baby mama should be okay and easily looked over. You can't have it both ways.
You already know it’s about to be bullshit when you hear one of these lines: 1 - I was young. 2 - I made a mistake. 3 - You’re right, but… 4 - I feel that/like… 5 - I’ve been asked to be married before
"I'm grew up around women that dated high quality men....I'm not angry I'm frustrated for other women." - LIAR!!! If she grew up around women that knew how to date, she would have picked up tips on how to pick a man. She had a baby by Pookie, who probably put her through some things. Then she tried to date up but found out that between her attitude and her kid, no decent man would approach her, making her so angry and bitter. She's not frustrated for other women, she's frustrated that none of the men she wants will give her the time of day. She's given up on dating because no man wants to be around a woman who is so full of poison. Kevin is right! This chick needs at least a decade of therapy!!!
Woman: "I was young when I had my kid. That shouldn't be held against me." Man: "I was young and didn't take school or my future seriously. Since I didn't take my future seriously, I'm not making the kind of money in my 30's that I should be making." Woman: "You are not good enough. I need a high value man."
I blame women like OPRAH that put them thoughts in their heads ---"Single, overweight, undereducated people don't deserve anything. You got to EARN it! Thanks Kevin for bringing this up over and over again.
And besides, 17 years old is OLD enough to make smart decisions, especially when it comes to deciding if you should have a child. I am so tired to people making excuses like "I was SO young." Yeah, people back in the day were getting MARRIED by the time they were 16 or 17; let alone having fun with random Toms, Johns and Harrys.
@@Pushiii736 I NEVER said she had to be born in the old days, but she isn't old school period. She wasn't disciplined and she came across very bitter instead of having a calm adult conversation. She was never respectful. .
Yes, she wants to "go there" because she doesn't want to put marriage before parenthood and she doesn't want sterilization. She likes drama. She just doesn't like when drama and personal stupidity show up at her door with a big suitcase.
@@ricardovalentin2410 She didn't turn them down. They refused, probably and probably needed a cocktail, earplugs and a valium just to have that sexytime with her.
"We do need to bring shame back" YES, Kevin! The only women that don't like Kevin's content are the ones living it. No healthy, valuable woman with sense has a problem with this channel because it celebrates our truth and it gives us mad props and validates our life decisions. Thank you, Kevin. Good girls always get the prize....
You know this reminds me of a girl I used to work with a long time ago. She said her mom's friends once told her a little slut shaming is always necessary because it prevents women from giving it up to everybody and becoming single moms. My coworker didn't listen and ended up becoming a single mom of 2 but I always think of that story. If only she had listened 🤔
For every woman who says “He wasn’t good enough for me” must realize a man somewhere is saying the same about her. There are 3.5 billion women on earth. Many without the baggage of children, children out of wedlock, baby daddies, poor life choices, bad diets, manufactured appearances, bad attitudes, learned hate in their hearts for others. Younger women have less scars & wounds thus more potential to be groomed into a relationship. Any woman must understand a high value black man did not get there by hanging out with guys or gals. He put his nose down, got his education & skills up. He works hard & long by habit. He will not put up with the distractions of her past bad decisions. If he earns 100k a month, what to him is her 100k a year. (After taxes she’s basically working free or min wage) he needs her free from employment to work his agenda. He will get a fresh gal, a young woman, childless, fit, pretty to his liking, agreeable to his desires & start his own legacy
She tried to shame him. The anger and resentment was palpable from the get go. She is clearly emotionally unbalanced and toxic. I am so worried for her son. Consequences, Consequences Consequences, its all too much for her.
A lot of women can’t accept that poor choices have consequences, whether you was young at the time or didn’t know better...It’s millions of brothers doing decades in jail now that were young and didn’t know no better. That’s life. Men know how to shrug off our consequences and accept them, then try to make the best out of the situation we’re in.
Women tend to keep kids for their safe haven for when they die alone just like when they buy dogs its there company to the grave i see it all the time ....also back in highschool having kids was some kinda popular thing that made other girls have baby fever to wave effect until reality set in now all those girls dont have there baby daddy's WHY??? BECAUSE THEY WAS TO YOUNG 😂😂😂😂⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️
She’s so emotional and illogical. Geesh You can’t be ‘old school’ and a strong black single independent baby mother. Choose one. She’s the same age as I am and I’m embarrassed for her . Omg. She’s angry because she made her choices and are now living with the consequences. Nobody is saying you can’t find love, however from who???
she beats up all of her boyfriends!!😂 she was about to fight Kevin through the phone!!! 🙈 you can not eat from, or sleep in the company of women like these!!!
@Also Known As as painful as pregnancy and childbirth is... I don't understand why a woman would choose to do that for a man the describes as "ain't shit, a bum, worthless, toxic, immature, etc." He wasn't good enough to marry, but you chose to make a permanent attachment to him through co-parenting and the court system by having this "ain't shit" man's offspring? You hate him, but you wanted to have his baby and have a little permanent piece of him forever? A mini version and permanent reminder of a man that you clam is a piece of shit? Is the child not 50% of him? Every negative thing you say about the baby daddy is speaking indirectly about the child. Imagine what that does to a child's self-esteem. Not just that, but is shows how there is no accountability.
@@calogerocapicchioni6554 I suspect that in her teenage stupidity she was trying to force a child on a Chad/Tyron guy and got pregnant on purpose. Chad/Tyron guy dumped her and she's still angry after so many years. Now she tells things a little differently, that he wasn't good enough for her..... and she had turned down 2 marriage proposals blah blah...lies...lies....
@@donot2786 Agreed 100%. A lot of the times, when a woman is telling a story about her baby daddy, if she's putting all of the blame on him..... she's probably guilty too. Honestly, she might be even more guilty. There's a difference between being a single mother due to circumstance (widows/divorcees... depending on the reason for the divorce). And then, there's women who become single mothers by choice. I see it within my own family. We haven't had a marriage since 2014, but we've had a lot of babies being born. None of the parents were together long-term and each of my little cousins are growing up in broken households. What you say about your ex is a bigger reflection of yourself. I have a cousin who calls her baby daddy a "clown". If he's a clown, then why did you procreate with him? Your child is 50% of the clown's DNA. I know it sound screwed up to say, but a lot of these kids are just "Accidents". The child is only the collateral damage of that decision. And that's just me putting it in the nicest way possible. It's sad.
Idk...it looked like one of the controlling and manipulative things ive ever seen in my life.I imagine this is what it was like living in the R Kelly sex cult lol.
@@lordswill4503 You probably don't understand Masonry or Jewish Mysticism, so I know you don't know the bible is a spiritual (Metaphysical) story told in proverbs which means it doesn't exist in history but anthropomorphized as a non-fictional story embedded in "his-story" a way of guiding you spiritually, that's why its called a belief system...
All I heard from this woman was "I wanna do whatever I want without any consequences & you will accept them, like them & enjoy them or you're shaming me!!" Shame needs to be brought back 100%!!
Which would you rather hear? A woman such as this who basis her decisions on feelings? Or a man who takes responsibility and uses logic? Imagine if both were giving a speech to soldiers attacking a beach head. "I feel that we are each powerful. I think we can take this beach because I feel like we have the power to do so. I love my brothers and sisters and I believe to the core of my being that each of you will find your self worth as you charge up that beach." Or would you rather have someone tell you ... "#$%^ that and #$%^ them. WE are charging up this MoFo. WE are going to kill them all and WE are taking this $%^& beach." When you are talking to men, feelings ain't got a thing to do with nothing. It is about reality and determination. Not emotions and feelings. Why is it women just can't make that distinction. Men don't run on emotions. Men run on logic. Yes, their logic maybe flawed at times, but at the end of the day his feelings are ruling his actions.
" I'm allowed to make poor judgments " That is true but just because you learn from those bad judgments don't mean the consequences will stop. For reference ask any convict ever.
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Even a bird, with a small bird brain, knows enough to build a nest, before it lays the eggs.
Spittin Facts brotha!!!
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Damn bro that's going to be carried the rest of my life
@@bgrego88 hahaha
Bro that some real shit and I never looked at it like that lol, definitely gonna remember that one...
"I'm old school". Women in the old school got married before having children. Jesus.
And they knew when to keep their mouths shut
That's because "old school" to her is like 1999, which isn't old school lol
What? My Christian grandmother had 3 different baby daddies. Didn’t find that out til I was 30. My dad side had two different dudes 3kids in her life. Ain’t shit changed but time
Naw, they didnt
@@da_woo8414 exactly.
We "BLACK WOMEN" need to be shamed back into reality. My husband is not a "HVM" to most women, but, he is my "HVM."
Preach queen
Beautifully stated. :)
Stay *blessed,* sister! ♡
Wonderful.
Real one
“We do need to bring shame back” most wise statement I’ve heard in a long time.
YES! And women having babies with no husband is ABSOLUTELY SHAMEFUL!!!
Obesity is a shame! .. immorality is a damn shame! 😒
correct
We heed to bring shame back! It’s a national crisis and terrible
No we don’t. Shame is based on what other people think of you. Your life is based on what you think.
Having that mute button is like having a super power.
Facts
What if we had that in life 😄
I need one in my house. That works on everyone but me...
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Ben Nyce omg I would mute literally everyone except me of course
Her: “I’m allowed to make poor judgements.”
We’re allowed to make smart judgements and stay away from you.
💯
Amen bro
Amen!
Made a baby with a man that ain't good enough. How dumb you gotta be to do that. And then have the audacity to think there shouldn't be a penalty for it.
🤣🤣🤣🤣👍
Shaming women? More like holding women accountable.
Preach!
Something their not used to
@Rose Roberson Very well said
Thats like a fat ugly poor guy wanting to be with a super model, everybody agrees he has no chance and is delusional, but women still think they can be fat and have been ran through and still deserve the top 10% guy xD
Women and accountability are like oil and water. Let that be ingrained in your skull gentlemen.
She said her son’s father wasn’t good enough for her to marry. But he was good enough to have a child with! Wtf! How does that even make sense?! 🤦🏻♀️
Exactly my point and thought ❗️❗️❗️❗️
Because he was hot and or good in bed. I've met some women that talk about how much they did to save their relationship with their broke cheating bf because he did them good. It's fascinating.
Makes perfect sense to a woman
This logic makes sense for most women
He was good enough for her to give her body to but….?????
So many of these women's problems could be solved if they were just willing to admit that their bad life situations are a consequence of their own actions.
But that’s merely... stating the obvious
Accountability?!?! It burns Arggh it burns 🥵 👿
This the last place I expected to see you. Red pill conservatism it's all connected isn't it?
This is the way
Ah man that would mean they would be held accountable for their actions for the majority of them that won't happen.
You in the wrong place.
Just like a woman has a right to do whatever she wants with her body without criticism, well men should have the right to decide not to deal with them and their kids without criticism. It's that simple. Your body your choice, my income my choice.
Bro! This is Top 10 comments on TH-cam lbvs
YEP.
Exactly.
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Round of applause for this comment
“ Your children are important to you, not important to us” he was giving advice to every parent with that line.
Even if men married woman who had prior kids ..they wasn't ecstatic about that part at first impression.
@@michaelwashington4408 even your own family don’t think your kids are important in some cases.
@@DeADvElOciRaPtor lol right
@@DeADvElOciRaPtorI had a stepfather the majority of my childhood.
While I respect that he came to help my mom and such ...me and my siblings would always side with my mom If my steldad and mom got into arguments . He can be right and it didn't matter. No win situation as a step father.
Most children should hear that, too.
Emotional as hell . Yelling , frustration. You can tell she's overwhelming. Soon as I hear that tone of energy I bounce .
The only reason she’s upset is because she falls into this category.
Fr💯💯💯
At the end of the day that’s all it is. There’s no insult that can make a person feel worse than the truth
@@ColonelHoganStalag13 or maybe she'll join the Cat Lady Crew
@@KingComp67_-io3iz bingo
B I N G O and bingo was her name oh🤣🤣🤣
She said that she is old school and that she grew up around women who date high quality “MEN”. But yet she had a baby by someone who she said wasn’t good enough for her. 🤔🤔🤔 so she doesn’t learn by watching
She was bullshitting.. Especially when she switched up talking 'bout, "...they're married actually."
Fefes, and lies... Smh...
Delusion X 12
Insanity.
@@asowerofseed4896 I feel you on that she probably is capping but still to know that this is going on TH-cam to be dissected by everyone no matter the point of view and still come on with this energy and spew emotional wild shit is bewildering to me lol.
Sounds like she grew up around women who are married to the state welfare
Bring shame back. Absolutely. There is a healthy amount of shame that should be associated with certain behaviors.
Now you are a perfect example of a reasonable woman.
Doesn’t it stand to reason if everything *libertine* is permitted, then moral condemnation of 𝘢𝘯𝘺𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 doesn’t hold weight? Societal shame (having ethical grounding) keeps social order…
@@jhnxavier Are you trying to ask me a legitimate question?
Yeah I’ve always been pro-shame. Shaming is just being called out on a person’s crap.
@@Supersquishyawesomeness, I am *agreeing* with you in the form of a rhetorical question.
[we can't 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘳 tone over txt, might not have translated well] ♡
We ABSOLUTELY need to bring shame back. 100%.
This shit crazy how these single. Mothers wanna shame a man into taking care of another man’s responsibility gtfoh
Real talk
Can't make it up...
Don't worry there plenty of SIMPS , Beta males and thugs that would be happy to step in.
No lies... 💯
🎯🎯🎯
I didn't get straight A's in school, get into my dream college at 16, graduate, work my way up the corporate ladder, eat crap, take a risk and start my successful business to raise some hooodrat's kids with Ray Ray, Pookie and Jamarquavious. They love having kids with men who aren't "good enough" to marry. They always think we should accept their bad life choices because they were "young". I was "young" once and now I'm 32 and somehow I don't have any kids running around. Imagine that.
"Jamarquavious" LOL !
Indeed
EXACTLY!!! THANK YOU BROTHA!!!👌🏾💯💪🏾
Right!
Bars and Facts!
She has not developed emotionally since she was 17 years old. She is so unaware how unchecked anger has robbed her of a good life.
facts
EXACTLY 💯
This! Nail on the head 🔨
Yep thats my mother.
@@uplayulay That’s all of our mothers... aunts and cousins too 😢
They should be shamed for having kids out of wedlock .
"I was young, I was stupid."
"I made a bad decision."
"Everyone does it."
"He wasnt mature enough."
"I made a baby with a man that wasnt good enough."
"It's your fault I cant get a good man."
"There are no good men out there."
"Don't dare shame me."
When a guy hears this from ONE woman, every red flag in the world pops up. A man who examines this see's an emotional, physical and financial pit with little or no return. If a woman cannot grow up and out of this mind set, then her problems are bigger than the issues she's built up for herself.
@Kano I wonder if a lot of times a single mother lures in a well off man then drops their children on their lap then blames the men for leading them on when the man runs.
There broken woman. A sea of LIES
Yeah can't blame the world. Must own up to your ways.
If she admits she “made a bad decision” then proceeds to take accountability for the results of said decision, wouldn’t that be a good quality?
@@_marie2536 It's one thing to take accountability for our bad decision. It's a whole another thing to fix the issues as the result of the consequences of our bad decisions. I made bad financial decisions that caught up to me when I was 22. Taking accountability my bad financial choices isn't good enough. Fixing my credit, knowing how to use credit, learn to invest, budget and manage money is what actually makes changes.That isn't good quality. That's what you should do.
Women we have to start being accountable for our actions.
Thank you
@UBI lol I prove it to my husband on a regular basis ☺️
Wrong Christin OG! We men and women both must start being accountable for our actions!
@@johnvoelker2035 You are one of those all lives matter people aren’t you? 😂 I’m talking about women. How can you say “wrong” if what i said was right and you even reiterated what i said? 🤦🏽♀️
@@christinog742 Really I'm not! I believe in live by it and die by it. And I practice that. I'm onboard with setting and holding a standard. I won't past judgement on who or what you are Christin OG, but I enjoy your wise comments and you sharing them! You help keep me sharp! Keep up the great fight! Thanks!
No man wants no kid that’s not theirs to be screaming, your not my daddy, because you know it’s coming when they get in their teenage years.....
Facts I been through it!
We not going to act like these men don’t have all these kids out here! 3 or 4 baby moms come on!
@@justyoshi7135 The same apply to the men that do have a bunch of kids. I would steer clear as well of that situation.
@@justyoshi7135 yea but it still ain’t the same we don’t try to make our kids your burden or bill like y’all try to do us Nd likely the kids don’t even stay with us so it ain’t the same
@@longlivemklonglivemk4027 facts, I had to pay for my biological kids and provide for step children!
My wife was 14 and I was 17 when we started going together. We got married 6 yrs later after finishing school. We had our first child 5 yrs after marriage and after we bought a home. We are both successful and live an affluent life style because we weren't selfish, undisciplined and because together we made a plan and stuck to it. Just because you are young doesn't mean you have to be a f-kup.
This is beautiful I pray to be ready for a woman who is ready for me
Score one for the good guys!
So she was 15 when you were practically a adult.
Naughty
You Catholic 😂
But thats whats being promoted by media, thats why they are that way. Actually this is on purpose, but not going to elaborate that now.
@@TheAlchemist1089 I'm glad you said it bc that's weird asf at the end of the day. He's almost out of high school and she's just leaving middle school. Interesting
“I am not angry”
“Can I tell you why I’m angry?”
Oxymoron!
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lol omgg
Cant make this up
"I'm paradox , no I'm not" - Tyler the Creator
She's literally frustrated because her actions have consequences lol
Women aren't used to that.
@@barcster2003 exactly, they became equal and now want special privileges
“I was young when I did that” literally translates to “I made a mistake and I don’t want to own up to the consequences”
Facts
Bw just need to own it and accept it was what it's worth. Men who are valuable refuse to marry single mothers end of story
This women is emotionally distressed. She’s literally toxic
She needs therapy
DAMAGED GOODS
she sound a little slow
@@jamesjohnson-rr9gp nah she's just bitter. She says she was young this & young that. Ok so even @ a young age u knew dude wasn't good enough 2 marry. But u DIDN'T KNOW that he wasn't good enough to not have a baby with? What part of the game is that?
She sound like every bitter baby mama everywhere. Had a baby with someone deemed not good enough and lowered her value but still expects mr right to come through and save her out of benevolence rather than find his own mrs right. When she doesn't get her way, suddenly there's a problem with society as a whole and not her.
"He wasn't good enough for me to marry!"
No, honey, I think he realized that YOU were not good enough for HIM to marry. If you were even 1/10th as angry and bitter and nasty as you were in this video, there's no way any rational man would lock himself into a marriage with you. You're not good enough to have somebody.
Thank U. He's not there to tell his side. Not many women admit they screwed up a relationship
Yes, let's hear his side of the story!
That's what I said 📠💯💯
🎯🚮
She’s really mad because she slept with a bum who got her pregnant and she could have used birth control or ensure he use a condom! She controls the sexual part
These women really want us to believe all of these children were unplanned or accidental... Ma’am, you CHOSE that
None of em were by mistake.
They don't plan, they basically just spread for every guy and then get preggo and knowingly knew that the dude is a idiot. Then they date and sleep around and judge
I know and someone said to me "women who don't want kids guess what they don't have kids"
Amazing how so many of them will never accept that
yep they chose that, as they should! the abortion rate is high among black babies. they should take responsibility and face the path and not blame anyone when they don’t like the outcomes/ consequences of a certain caliber of men not wanting them because of their own decisions.
This is why our children have trauma. He wasn’t good enough for her so essentially, she’s safe from tying herself to him but she decided her child should be stuck with him as a father for life.
Exactly. He wasn't good enough you but good enough to be in your child's life?????
She's still stuck to him until death because of that child technically lol
Always follow the money. The greatest, personality, barometer known to man.
@@leelee5593 Only for the money for the first 18 years of the child's life. She told the whole world to side step her. Good job.
It boils down to choices,the more accidents less chances.
You can’t have this angry energy with raising a black boy because that’s why he is gonna hate black women in his latter years
True. Way too emotional. She honestly sounds 16. You know Tommy Sotomayor had a theory that a woman stops mentally maturing the age she gives birth. She got pregnant at 16. Maybe he is right. Just a thought
@@kathryneprickett2083 yea we stop mentally where the trauma or something life changing happens in our lives
Yup when he grows up, he's gonna take cease the opportunity to get at a white chick. Black mothers scares their sons off to get with a girl of a different race smh
@@junoturner4092 scary thought. That means some stopped at 5
@@kathryneprickett2083 😬😬😬😬
This man has done a great service for both men and women
Woman: “He wasn’t good enough for me to marry”
Also woman: “I have kids with him” 🤦🏾
How is it possible for a man be good enough to have a kid with and not be good enough to marry.
😂😂😂😂😂💀💀💀💀💀
she wants the Bugatti price for her 99 civic
Woman: "I'm not angry!"
Also woman seconds later: " let me tell you what i'm angry at...."
Insanity at its finest
“I don’t date”, “people are so nasty & disgusting” . She is a single mom 🤦♂️. Since she’s not dating, this means she’s probably getting mounted on the regular. She rose from the streets & to the streets she shall return R.I.P 🙏.
Streets🛣: "tell her hurr-up, I'm outside waiting". 🤭
I see you my guy 😆😆😆🙌🙌👌👌🤜🏽🤜🏽🤜🏽
@@AM-ri9ut bruh I'm fuckin dead🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️
Dude sounded like a pastor 😂
Lmaooooooooo 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
This women gave me anxiety, Can only imagine what her son goes through
Please send a prayer up for her son.
She doesn't care...
Good luck and God speed to that kid. He's gonna need it
How about what the baby daddy went through that’s why he’s not there I’ve seen this scenario before I was a stepdaddy to a child or father what did one in jail and live 2 miles away and I have not seen him for the entire 10 years I don’t even know what he looks like
@ALPO YAO You're a goof troop
She sounds so bitter and miserable. Like Precious mom
That lady was nuts! She couldn’t even control her temper when she knows everyone is listening!!!
Quite a shame.
High testosterone woman. Zero femininity.
This is the problem! Women encouraging and motivating other women that they can get something they themselves have not obtained!! At what point do we stop and say “maybe I’m wrong because this isn’t working.”
Ain't that amazing? Smh...lol
Good observation
That Was A Word. I SALUTE U
@Donna Dupree yea i know its crazy these types of. Girls in my high school days use to find different men who look a certain way to determine how cute they baby would come out and the female friends use to push it like yall would have cute babys together when ever they see there friends together with someone or other couples together it was truly a BIG THING BACK THEN
Great comment
An "old school" woman will never have a child without marrying.
And the "my friends date/married high value men" is a weird emotional way to lie about her dog ass companions trying to distance herself from them.
You have no idea what your talking about
@@goldmine3007 ? How
@@cillyprodd life isn’t just black and white.. there’s blue , yellow, green etc areas. It’s all up to Gods will. Depending on what your purpose is.. that person you need in your life to get to the next life is what counts.. It’s important to date and get to know the person.. what if you do find that person, but she has a child of 15 months.. fast forward 10 years, she’s the one that help you build a multimillionaire real estate empire.. then what??? KINGS… wait on the lord.. and he will renew your strength.
@@cillyprodd God will bring you the right person… have faith.. don’t be worried about silly things you can’t control.
It's amaaaaaaaaaaazing how women NEVER want to hold themselves accountable.
We have taught them to be children.
Because men are too nice its always “ Your amazing QUEEN “ but alot of them just aint shit really
Emotions
Astounding how universal it is
Never ever ever ever ever Chris tucker voice. They never take responsibility for all their own actions drives me crazy. They are so deluded that they think they can get get a high value male to marry em when there 40 years old single with 4 babies from 4 baby fathers get the f out of here!!!!
I was a single mother due to some unfortunate events and found an amazing man but I had to be an outstanding woman to appeal to him. You have to put in more work honestly. Kevin isn’t saying it’s impossible, you just have to be a certain level of a woman to get a man after having a child by someone else.
And you have to keep up the work as well. You don't have to relax after getting him.
She mad mad because she’s living the reality Kevin talks about.
Yes.
Facts... he describes these women so well it hits close to home and they call in angrily
Yep, a hit dog howls.
Exactly
You watch haha Davis?
I’m so sorry for the mindset of this woman. She said “Im allowed to make mistakes” YES YOU ARE!!! And like KS said we don’t have to pay the price for your bad choices.
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Correct, she should have to pay for her own choices/decisions/choices/not anybody else
She was not running away from the fact that she had a child. She took full responsibility for that but KS was not allowing her to make her point in some areas and that was frustrating her. KS stated that HVM dont accept women's kids.That is total BS!
@@sherrolthompson9004 Single man let alone have value men are not seeking to be stepfathers when they don’t even have kids of their own, plain and simple
@@bacongrits4155 What do you expect “Sherrol” to do when she’s a lonely single mother who needs you to take care of her children. That’s why she’ll be single next year and the year after that. It’s the only way she can keep her baby out of prison, she needs to believe some wealthy, educated man wants to raise her trash can baby.
Sis was super-combative and defensive. Her anger was serious.
Shes upset that all the men who would have been happy to marry her if she didn't have a kid didn't want to since she has a kid.
@@skylarc6063 But she "turned down 2 proposals" 😂 (suuure) & she CHOSE to have a child with a man who "wasn't good enough for me". Then she defended her right "to make poor judgements".🤣 You can't make this $h!t up. She's certifiably delusional & the disconnect from reality is unbelievable. 🤯
@@darrylrevok9936 aka cognitive dissonance
She is pissed off because of her bad decisions
I think she also is low quality because she has anger issues and poor sense of vision
“Your children are important to you, not us.” 🥶😂😂👊🏿!!
My own mother who was a single mother told me,” do not date a women with children. If they are not your kids stay away.”
smart mom
was she a widow?
@@Omar_Facio no
I mean women have pretty much the same rule "I won't date a man whos' got kids." plenty of those around.
Yeah. If you want to raise other people's kids become a foster parent. We need more foster parents.
"I'm not angry! But can I tell you why I'm angry?!" That sums it all up. Wow.
You can't be both at the same time. Lol
She contradicted herself in the same sentence! That is not an easy thing to do unless you’re bat shit crazy!
You can't make this shit up.
She doesn’t know what emotion she has!
Makes you wonder how much anger does her 13 year old son have to deal with from her 🤔
"I'm old school" but I have a child out of wedlock - the lengths these crazy chicks go through
They say they’re old school cus they feel (not think) that it makes them seem classy and bring to mind traditional wives.
That happens all the time...
Facts!!
You not old school if you raising unwed kids
@@TheSanctifiedMusic facts!!!
You can practically hear her crying over the phone lol 😆
He's not lieing im 26 with no kids every time I meet girl with kid/baby I'm like nooooope no thanks. Expect to get under the sheets though lol
Lol same with dudes , almost every dude has a kid and they want to talk to me I’m like yeaaah no, I’m not being no ones step mom lol
You both are very smart!
@@KunoichiZel you'll gladly be a step mom once your value decreases with age
@@Music-yq8qc I’m not being no ones step mom if I don’t kids and they do
@@Music-yq8qc damn man chill
“He wasn’t good enough for me” but you still let him put his seed inside you, doesn’t make sense 🤷🏽♂️
Poor self esteem makes you do this kind of things
@@lkjp07 why date a person with poor self esteem
Well since he wasn't good enough for her, why does she believe she is good enough for high value men, specially with the fact that she has a child with another man.
No high value man wants to invest in another man's child, neither does he want to share his legacy with that child.
It's just a terrible idea. Every succesfull accomplished man that wants a family actually wants his own kids with a woman that's his own. He can get that since his success allows him to live that normal accomplished life.
People can make mistakes, but other people are not responsible for digging them out of those mistakes.
It doesn't make any kind of sense what so ever. Also as Kevin has stated she wanted the kid. But not the man who helped created the baby. I'm good on black women in mass number within the United States, especially if they were born here.
She likes the sex period.
It's not about later it's about now.
I havent met a single man that said he preferred a single mother over a single woman.. My father even made that clear to me..
nobody prefers a single mother over childless, that's common sense...but that doesn't mean u may not meet one later in life that happens to be a great person
@@jeanlouis1898
For some people, being "great" is not enough.
I could marry a widow with a child but if the baby daddy's still around then I don't care how '' great '' she is! Having another man's child works like a repellent! Taking care of another man's responsibility, someone else's SEED... Yeah Miss me with that bullshiihh
@@d.speedy5083 but who says you’d be “taking care of it” tho? A lot of these women have their own jobs with their own money, this isn’t the old days where the man is the sole breadwinner...I dated a single mother before and she never asked me for a penny for her child, she knew that child was her responsibility and hers alone.....it all depends on the mentality of the woman you’re dating
@@jeanlouis1898 you said DATING. Many of us don't have issues just DATING single moms. Dating single mothers is fine UNTIL you end up in a relationship. Then all of the sudden you have to be a fulltime daddy whether you like it or not.
Right on as usual Me. Sanuels. I wish you were alive. R.I.P.
She is allowed to make poor decisions and mistakes, but she fails to realize that men and society don't have to subsidize her poor decisions.
100%
True
Exactly, she can make poor desicions but she has to take responsibility for them and live with the results, she think she can make bad decisions and still deserve the 6ft+ good looking childless top earner xD
It is really that simple but complex when get in your feelings. She definitely need therapy.
She’s allowed to make all the poor decisions she wants and men are also allowed to not have to deal with her poor decisions
"From the streets she rose, and to the streets she shall return" -some dude.
😂😂
hahahahaha
I like that quote! Well Said
Some Dude is a wise man lol
@@roodick85
Modern day philosopher
He wasn’t “good enough” to marry yet you birthed his child. Please make it make sense! Ladies! We as a whole MUST do better! Accountability is surely the first step!
Exactly it dont make sense
I never understood this .
@Disciples Of GMS 777 kan
Indeed.
Big Facts
Her attitude is horrendous! That’s why she’s single! Good grief.
“I’m not angry”
“Sir can I tell you why I’m angry?” 🙄
Delusional
🤔 SHEEEEE WAS ANGRY
😂😂😂
Where do these women come from??? If you step to him, you gotta come with respect because he'll respect you.
@@theoldschooldiva374 from the Streets
So your son becomes an Attorney,
Making 6 figures, would you tell him to go and find a woman with two kids to marry?
No....
Ok then, why are you asking men to do this ?
She feels entitled.
That kid is in a hell of a trouble...destined for poor outcomes
She's one of them. That's why
She Cap
Xander
Please don't be too logical. You'll give these women a migraine.
She says, “I’ve given up on the people in today’s world. They’re so tainted and nasty.”
Little does she know she’s one of those people. She’s the type of person most of us encounter on a daily basis and are the reason we have given up on people.
"tainted and nasty" ... says the woman who got pregnant at 16 o.O
Facts!
Trash trash already she has ran into the wall ha!
"I'm not angry. You want me to tell you why I'm angry?" My brain just exploded.
Tell ne about it.
She said "I'm far from angry". Then I don't even wanna hear what you sound like when you are close to it.
"You're allowed to make mistakes, but the world doesn't owe you understanding." That stuck with me💯
Dropping 💎
Life makes no exceptions.
Sometimes I can't believe this is real. It's scary how delusional some people are 😳.
It's real...
It’s crazy out for a responsible black man 🧔🏿.
@J- LEETHAL Literally just has friend had this happen to him. He has the child half the time and pay medical and child care. He also provided recipes of all the payments and showed he had a room for his son and they disregarded all that and ordered him to pay 1400. It got overturned when he brought his lawyer in to speak with them smh
My head start hurting when hearing her talk.
Every time I listen to a KS show, I say to myself, *What WOMEN say nowadays don't surprise me any more!!* Than I listen to his next show and Im surprised *ALL OVER AGAIN!* 😤😞
The delusion goes DEEP in Western Society!!🤔
These types of women take their men issues out on that black boy. Don’t let him look like the father.
Or use their sons as husbands. It's a sick dichotomy.
@@pulloutsange yup!
could i blame dad cuz he left me?wish he would have hugged me/too much like him,so my momma dont love me/ 2pac "nothing 2 lose"
@@FlipRothstein 🔥🔥🔥
Or mannerisms.
"The world does not owe you understanding". Might be one of the wisest things the late Godfather said. RIP brother!
As of last Thursday, Kevin was at 376,000 subscribers. He’s now at 442,000. That’s a 66,000 increase in less than 5 days. At this pace he’s going to hit a million by April-ish.
During the "average at best" days, he did over 100k.
Men love the reality of truth.
@@1439315 I wouldn’t be surprised if at least half or more of his subscribers are women. I wish we could pull that data. I think many discount just how many women are listening “in secret.”
Yet his haters...can't make these numbers. The truth is in numbers
That one video when he was rating that lady went viral that's why...
& that's why I'm here 😌
The reason why so many people are giving up on people is because they forget to include themselves as a part of the problem.
Wow someone said it.
fac
Real shit
I also find it odd I've given up on people because.... And I just want all the single ladies to know that there man is out there! Wtf?
The truth is hard to accept. I think women take Kevins constructive criticism as saying no one will ever want them. There are plenty of good men out there. As a single mom just know you aren’t able to compete with women without children.
And thats not even always the case anyway . You can have a baby and if you hold it down and am sweet and caring it will cut the difference. The problem is single motherhood and damage tend to go hand and hand.. and even worse " good enough " means money. So already you are stepping in the lane of only caring about material gains. So the pool of men she wants are going to either walk away or abuse her. I know 2 women specifically that have 2 kids and are married to a man with none . But they both were widowed and were sweethearts
Facts..
Thanks for keeping it real, much love
I agree. A lot of these women’s lives are just messy when Kevin pulls back the layers. Being a single mother is not a romantic death sentence but having a raggedy life is.
Truth
This is one of my favorite all time KS videos. This is exactly the toxic women we run into daily.
She couldn't just listen and take ownership. It was and is so obvious.
“I’m a 30 year old baby mama by choice.”
“I’m old school.”
Well which is it?
loool u made that choice because u dont know your worth
@@andrebolt3323 naw they think having a baseball team of experience is just adding to the value.
I was just listening to the original show this clip came from earlier this morning and thought the same thing. Ma'am, which is it...you're either old school and believe in bringing back shame or you're "new school foolish" thinking being a baby mama should be okay and easily looked over. You can't have it both ways.
You already know it’s about to be bullshit when you hear one of these lines:
1 - I was young.
2 - I made a mistake.
3 - You’re right, but…
4 - I feel that/like…
5 - I’ve been asked to be married before
"I'm grew up around women that dated high quality men....I'm not angry I'm frustrated for other women." - LIAR!!! If she grew up around women that knew how to date, she would have picked up tips on how to pick a man. She had a baby by Pookie, who probably put her through some things. Then she tried to date up but found out that between her attitude and her kid, no decent man would approach her, making her so angry and bitter. She's not frustrated for other women, she's frustrated that none of the men she wants will give her the time of day. She's given up on dating because no man wants to be around a woman who is so full of poison. Kevin is right! This chick needs at least a decade of therapy!!!
amen to that she mad cause no dude don't want deal with her angry side
nailed it.
thats what i said 😆😆😆😆😆
@Rick. your analysis is like a knife. love it 👏
Perfectly splendid! No thing else needs to be said, this should be pinned.
My god I cannot be the only one here completely mesmerized by that swinging desk sculpture
Had me Enchanted for a Swell Spell 😁
That's an Astonishing Piece'uh Work 😎
Mad Unpredictable Too - Hoot Hoot 🙃
Always my bother i just watch it and listen
It’s Amazing
Lol yes! It's so mesmerizing indeed!
Im an engineer, its better than watching porn...just thinking about the vectors and angular momentum is erotica...its so logical..
Mr Samuels,Rest in peace.
You did a lot of good,you are missed.
❤️❤️❤️
Caller: "Am not angry"
*few seconds later*
Caller: "I'll tell you why am angry"
You can't make this thing up 🤦🏾♂️
Lol right
Shes a emotional wreck
How about this one:
“I’ve given up on dating”
4 minutes later
“Ladies don’t give up you can find love”
🥴
“I feel like”= “ I have no argument but need you to know I’m offended”...
Facts
Or just women.
WOW this is Spot on❗❗❗😮😮
True indeed
Perfect
Woman: "I was young when I had my kid. That shouldn't be held against me."
Man: "I was young and didn't take school or my future seriously. Since I didn't take my future seriously, I'm not making the kind of money in my 30's that I should be making."
Woman: "You are not good enough. I need a high value man."
Ding ding ding. Amazing how they want to hold men accountable for everything, but won’t hold themselves accountable.
Spot on! Lol
This is the first time, I heard this, but it's so true.
When you put it like that .. damn haha true
@@cnelly749 yes man need to know this choices matter its your fault if you not a HVM its not racists etc
I blame women like OPRAH that put them thoughts in their heads ---"Single, overweight, undereducated people don't deserve anything. You got to EARN it! Thanks Kevin for bringing this up over and over again.
Don't forget Ricky Lake, Montel Williams, Sally Jesse Rafeal!!!
Oprah is educated and hardworking
@@simrenbajaj6000and childless
@@Jai8959 her baby DIED show some compassion
So she’s given up on men because everyone is tainted, but she wants other women to know there is love out there???🤦🏾♀️
😂
It makes all the sense in the World doesn't it?
Shontell Blake - Exactly
THIS!!!
Translation: "I'm drowning ladies, save yourselves. The water is too deep out here"
These women want us to ignore red flags and just take baggage.
No way she's old school at 30yrs old. She act like an immature teenager. She has a lot of growing up to do.
Bingo🎰
And besides, 17 years old is OLD enough to make smart decisions, especially when it comes to deciding if you should have a child. I am so tired to people making excuses like "I was SO young." Yeah, people back in the day were getting MARRIED by the time they were 16 or 17; let alone having fun with random Toms, Johns and Harrys.
You don’t have to be born in the old days to be old school your views and beliefs and actions very have to match
@Franca Wong never said she was old school I said you don’t have to born in the old days to be old school your views,actions and beliefs”
@@Pushiii736 I NEVER said she had to be born in the old days, but she isn't old school period. She wasn't disciplined and she came across very bitter instead of having a calm adult conversation. She was never respectful. .
I listen to everything you say. I’m learning a lot from you, Kevin. I won’t be so stupid anymore. And I will NOT budge. God bless you.
"ladies you can find love..."
Kevin: Shut that shit up! 😂🤣😭
LOOOOOL
11:27
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You're zip darn crazy 🤣🔥💯
I almost choked 😭😭🤣🤣
“I’ve turned down 2 proposals because omg I don’t even wanna go there” remember what she said fellas.
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She did those men the biggest favor of their lives by turning them down. They just dodged a giant bullet
She 🧢
Yes, she wants to "go there" because she doesn't want to put marriage before parenthood and she doesn't want sterilization. She likes drama. She just doesn't like when drama and personal stupidity show up at her door with a big suitcase.
@@ricardovalentin2410 She didn't turn them down. They refused, probably and probably needed a cocktail, earplugs and a valium just to have that sexytime with her.
"We do need to bring shame back" YES, Kevin! The only women that don't like Kevin's content are the ones living it. No healthy, valuable woman with sense has a problem with this channel because it celebrates our truth and it gives us mad props and validates our life decisions. Thank you, Kevin. Good girls always get the prize....
@ALPO YAO how do you know that’s she’s a single mom? You must know her personally.
@ALPO YAO wow you must be Omniscient since you seem to know her personality
@ALPO YAO God is that you?
You know this reminds me of a girl I used to work with a long time ago. She said her mom's friends once told her a little slut shaming is always necessary because it prevents women from giving it up to everybody and becoming single moms. My coworker didn't listen and ended up becoming a single mom of 2 but I always think of that story. If only she had listened 🤔
Exactly, you go girl☝🏾❤
For every woman who says “He wasn’t good enough for me” must realize a man somewhere is saying the same about her. There are 3.5 billion women on earth. Many without the baggage of children, children out of wedlock, baby daddies, poor life choices, bad diets, manufactured appearances, bad attitudes, learned hate in their hearts for others. Younger women have less scars & wounds thus more potential to be groomed into a relationship.
Any woman must understand a high value black man did not get there by hanging out with guys or gals. He put his nose down, got his education & skills up. He works hard & long by habit. He will not put up with the distractions of her past bad decisions. If he earns 100k a month, what to him is her 100k a year. (After taxes she’s basically working free or min wage) he needs her free from employment to work his agenda. He will get a fresh gal, a young woman, childless, fit, pretty to his liking, agreeable to his desires & start his own legacy
If I had money I’d buy a female
Right now I can only afford to rent on weekends
She tried to shame him. The anger and resentment was palpable from the get go. She is clearly emotionally unbalanced and toxic. I am so worried for her son. Consequences, Consequences Consequences, its all too much for her.
Sign language
Shame insults guilt and the need to be right
She had an attitude from the moment this video started
The ole “I was young and dumb” will not get you a get out of jail free card anymore.
They use that often
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That’s the only vocabulary they have
A lot of women can’t accept that poor choices have consequences, whether you was young at the time or didn’t know better...It’s millions of brothers doing decades in jail now that were young and didn’t know no better. That’s life.
Men know how to shrug off our consequences and accept them, then try to make the best out of the situation we’re in.
Well put big dawg
I agree
Well said 👊🏽
Women tend to keep kids for their safe haven for when they die alone just like when they buy dogs its there company to the grave i see it all the time ....also back in highschool having kids was some kinda popular thing that made other girls have baby fever to wave effect until reality set in now all those girls dont have there baby daddy's WHY??? BECAUSE THEY WAS TO YOUNG 😂😂😂😂⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️
Right brother
"why are you shaming women...."
mutes, clears throat and takes a sip of Red Bull lmao
She's literally mad because her actions have consequences. Lol
But she doesn’t want to take accountability
Yup
Exactly
@@cameronevans9516 typical She will never be wifed
"How old is your child?"
"My child is 13."
"And you're still this angry?"
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Angry and angrier
And she said she turned down two proposals?
'I'm nott Angggrrry!' ahahahah
@@donaldpowell6725 sounds like she should’ve turned down more of the food. That was some labored breathing and voice.
I just bussed out laughing reading this. My fucking chest hurts now 😆 he’s ask all the right questions 😭😭😭😭
She’s so emotional and illogical. Geesh
You can’t be ‘old school’ and a strong black single independent baby mother. Choose one.
She’s the same age as I am and I’m embarrassed for her . Omg. She’s angry because she made her choices and are now living with the consequences. Nobody is saying you can’t find love, however from who???
@@jaylow57 lol
Amen
She's jumpy. Joyless voice.
she beats up all of her boyfriends!!😂
she was about to fight Kevin through the phone!!! 🙈
you can not eat from, or sleep in the company of women like these!!!
Someone should ask them what is this LOVE they are trying to find. Seriously
I loved it when you said, “you not going to talk over me” check. Lol. Wow. Love it.
I use that line now myself
"He wasn't good enough for me".
That says a lot about how she feels about her child.
And what she feels about herself.
@Also Known As as painful as pregnancy and childbirth is... I don't understand why a woman would choose to do that for a man the describes as "ain't shit, a bum, worthless, toxic, immature, etc." He wasn't good enough to marry, but you chose to make a permanent attachment to him through co-parenting and the court system by having this "ain't shit" man's offspring? You hate him, but you wanted to have his baby and have a little permanent piece of him forever? A mini version and permanent reminder of a man that you clam is a piece of shit? Is the child not 50% of him? Every negative thing you say about the baby daddy is speaking indirectly about the child. Imagine what that does to a child's self-esteem. Not just that, but is shows how there is no accountability.
@@calogerocapicchioni6554 I suspect that in her teenage stupidity she was trying to force a child on a Chad/Tyron guy and got pregnant on purpose. Chad/Tyron guy dumped her and she's still angry after so many years. Now she tells things a little differently, that he wasn't good enough for her..... and she had turned down 2 marriage proposals blah blah...lies...lies....
@@donot2786 Agreed 100%. A lot of the times, when a woman is telling a story about her baby daddy, if she's putting all of the blame on him..... she's probably guilty too. Honestly, she might be even more guilty. There's a difference between being a single mother due to circumstance (widows/divorcees... depending on the reason for the divorce). And then, there's women who become single mothers by choice. I see it within my own family. We haven't had a marriage since 2014, but we've had a lot of babies being born. None of the parents were together long-term and each of my little cousins are growing up in broken households. What you say about your ex is a bigger reflection of yourself.
I have a cousin who calls her baby daddy a "clown". If he's a clown, then why did you procreate with him? Your child is 50% of the clown's DNA. I know it sound screwed up to say, but a lot of these kids are just "Accidents". The child is only the collateral damage of that decision. And that's just me putting it in the nicest way possible. It's sad.
Right!!! When women talk bad about their bd, I always thought they couldn’t stand the kids too 🤷🏽♀️
He was extremely patient with this woman. She makes poor life choices, and she is upset with the truth.
Lie to me that's all they want.
Idk...it looked like one of the controlling and manipulative things ive ever seen in my life.I imagine this is what it was like living in the R Kelly sex cult lol.
No woman can handle the truth
She slept with a bum
This man is literally speaking biblical FACTS
No facts in the bible but I get what your saying
@@FlowaMan you’re a fool
@@FlowaMan what is not fact is it the having children outside marriage, or sex before marriage.
@@lordswill4503 You probably don't understand Masonry or Jewish Mysticism, so I know you don't know the bible is a spiritual (Metaphysical) story told in proverbs which means it doesn't exist in history but anthropomorphized as a non-fictional story embedded in "his-story" a way of guiding you spiritually, that's why its called a belief system...
@@lordswill4503 A fool thinks himself to be wise, but a wise man thinks himself to be a fool - William Shakespear Safe for dat g!
All I heard from this woman was "I wanna do whatever I want without any consequences & you will accept them, like them & enjoy them or you're shaming me!!" Shame needs to be brought back 100%!!
“Date me.”
“No.”
“You’re shaming women.”
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And in so few words this sums it all up!!! REAL TALK!
Lol literally
😂😂😂😂😂
The hypocrisy of these women is astounding. She can tell her ex he is not good enough but the minute a man says no to her it becomes a problem
She mad that she too ain't good enough like the baby daddy.
Facts
Which would you rather hear? A woman such as this who basis her decisions on feelings? Or a man who takes responsibility and uses logic?
Imagine if both were giving a speech to soldiers attacking a beach head.
"I feel that we are each powerful. I think we can take this beach because I feel like we have the power to do so. I love my brothers and sisters and I believe to the core of my being that each of you will find your self worth as you charge up that beach."
Or would you rather have someone tell you ...
"#$%^ that and #$%^ them. WE are charging up this MoFo. WE are going to kill them all and WE are taking this $%^& beach."
When you are talking to men, feelings ain't got a thing to do with nothing. It is about reality and determination. Not emotions and feelings. Why is it women just can't make that distinction. Men don't run on emotions. Men run on logic. Yes, their logic maybe flawed at times, but at the end of the day his feelings are ruling his actions.
" I'm allowed to make poor judgments " That is true but just because you learn from those bad judgments don't mean the consequences will stop. For reference ask any convict ever.
There you go👏🏿
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Exactly! God helps a person through but the consequences don’t always stop.
"I'm allowed to make poor judgements!"
Yeah kiddo, and I'm allowed to mock you for it.
11:07 " I'm far from angry, Can I tell you why I'm Angry" 😂😂