Being Authentic In A Filtered World | Rachel DeAlto | TEDxHartford

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 ธ.ค. 2018
  • We filter how we are seen on social media. It gives an incorrect version of who we really are. How can we be self confident if we share a different version of who we really are? In a world where we wear a limitless number of masks, authenticity can be the difference between success and mediocrity. Relationship expert Rachel DeAlto reveals how her success was created and will share how you can connect with others and reach your professional potential through self-awareness, vulnerability, and confidence in being exactly who you are. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @suebakernottly
    @suebakernottly 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This showed up in our group today, I wasn't going to watch it, and I am so glad I did. Yes those moments of kindness, I am going to write them down now.

    • @janetpannel
      @janetpannel 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for sharing Sue, and oh yes this is good.

    • @dpesca
      @dpesca 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh yeah Sue, thanks for sending too.

    • @margiesvanmori
      @margiesvanmori 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love that

  • @michaelhunt635
    @michaelhunt635 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    “You can never be true to others, if you keep on lying to yourself.”
    ― Gift Gugu Mona

    • @lisa-lio
      @lisa-lio 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      great quote

    • @nadiaferchichi
      @nadiaferchichi 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      oh wow that is so true

    • @michaelhunt635
      @michaelhunt635 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@leonardotlucas yes it is

    • @margiesvanmori
      @margiesvanmori 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      yes. This is gold. Pure GOLD

  • @margiesvanmori
    @margiesvanmori 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is beautiful. It is so hard to stay true to the authentic self when there is so much social media influence. I deleted my instagram and Facebook and I have seen SO MUCH growth in how I feel about authenticity and joy in the present moment. Life is beautiful and meant to be lived fully. Not lived through a lense. You don't need the permission of viewers to enjoy your life

  • @timmymckinley
    @timmymckinley 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Isn't this true, lately I have been hearing what I am saying about myself to others, always the golden version.

  • @luizantoniomachado
    @luizantoniomachado 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Now this moved me, a lot of authenticity here.

  • @akshaya2580
    @akshaya2580 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Need to hear for those who live in social media.

    • @margiesvanmori
      @margiesvanmori 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree. I had to give up instagram and Facebook this year bc something about those platforms specifically disrupted so much authenticity. I found they were robbing me of being able to fully show up as my authentic self and I wanted to live life as fully present in the moment as I possibly can. Cheers and blessings to you!

  • @myfavoritestuff
    @myfavoritestuff 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Wow she is telling my story, or lack of it. Really really true all of this.

  • @josephtein3835
    @josephtein3835 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really appreciate this lady's honesty and openness here. It's the best way to teach what she is saying. Thank you!

  • @celebrity_rooster7488
    @celebrity_rooster7488 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Stay away from anyone who tells you "to succeed, you have to be fake".

  • @SummerBlake
    @SummerBlake 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yes. THIS. So much. I’ve been going through some deep realizations this week, and the desire to consciously move toward greater authenticity has been a huge part of what’s been occurring for me. This talk resonates powerfully. Thank you for sharing your journey and your insights.

    • @margiesvanmori
      @margiesvanmori 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Even just the pursuit of showing up authentically in each moment is powerful stuff. blessings!

  • @ponktiaddrita6274
    @ponktiaddrita6274 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I feel somehow relaxed to listen!
    Gives inspiration!
    Thank you.

  • @annmerrychristmas
    @annmerrychristmas 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    One word - Authentic.

  • @jessedurham5312
    @jessedurham5312 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is a clever talk, very honest.

  • @pennyhooker
    @pennyhooker 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brilliant talk!!!

  • @zacksuchodolska
    @zacksuchodolska 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Smart presentation.

  • @ulisseditaque
    @ulisseditaque 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brilliant!!!

  • @dvendii
    @dvendii 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brilliant & authentic...

  • @bernicebailes9394
    @bernicebailes9394 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am not sure which mask to take off after watching this, good talk good subject.

  • @mansiupadhyay711
    @mansiupadhyay711 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wisdom decked!

  • @dariasotnykova
    @dariasotnykova 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good talk, explained me to me.

  • @tinatuvalle
    @tinatuvalle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I felt like you were talking about me and how I sugar coat everything.

  • @phyllismknapp6038
    @phyllismknapp6038 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't go in for all that authentic stuff, the new buzz word. But this is!!!

  • @jamiewilliams8107
    @jamiewilliams8107 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A lot ofpeople dont live their truth

  • @berkadsiz2905
    @berkadsiz2905 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Dersten gelenler +1

  • @lisa-lio
    @lisa-lio 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yeah thats me the filter queen, lol.

  • @berkadsiz2905
    @berkadsiz2905 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Konu ne?

    • @cayan6466
      @cayan6466 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      kanka ciddi misin sdgfjhaghsajddsgajh

    • @berkadsiz2905
      @berkadsiz2905 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cayan6466 kanka kadın kendini övdü full takip edemedim snjhdjhjsh

    • @iremcanbolat4225
      @iremcanbolat4225 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      şaşırtıcı bir konu

    • @berkadsiz2905
      @berkadsiz2905 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@iremcanbolat4225 kesinlikle öyle

  • @eniask.5292
    @eniask.5292 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    so fake