Why Do Men Hold On To Women, They Don't Actually Want To Commit To

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  • @Snow-l9r
    @Snow-l9r 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +74

    This is what I'm slowly getting myself out of .
    To all women don't let nobody take away your shine.

  • @Jamesclout
    @Jamesclout 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +264

    Great video. These past few months has been an eye opener for me, the one I love, the one i cherish still Left me, I lost alot of friends because of her, she often said they were bad influence on me, and she still left me, i still love her and that is what hurts the most. Love sometimes is unexplainable and cruel

    • @andrejmartha
      @andrejmartha 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      I feel your pain, Believe me I do, i was in a similar position, he left me, but i couldnt just let him go because i knew i was the cause of it, i chose my work over him and the kids, I didnt want to loose him, so i contacted a spiritual counsellor for advice on how to get him back and to my greatest surprise it worked out, she brought him back to me, and its been over a year and half, i have never been this happy

    • @Jamesclout
      @Jamesclout 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you for this, I know i wasnt alone on this i often sit and think what i will become without her because i have no one else, I think i might just give this a try,how did you get in touch with him/her, if you do not mind me asking.

    • @andrejmartha
      @andrejmartha 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @Jamesclout
      @Jamesclout 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

  • @erichines1017
    @erichines1017 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +62

    That is so true, but women realize it too late, most times.

  • @barbara7557
    @barbara7557 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +65

    OMG my life's story, was I this weak to let someone steal my youth, middle age and now the later part of my life ?

  • @louisademetrio4408
    @louisademetrio4408 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +41

    These words are so damn True - "You're worth more than someone's Convenience"!

  • @Taylor086
    @Taylor086 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +38

    Men want a MOMMY to cook & clean up after them. They want a good woman to have their kids, be faithful to them, be their emotional support in life. But they also not want to give up their 304 lifestyle of not commiting to one person.
    This goes both ways, women do the same with a man who provides looking for a sugar daddy but is still a 304 with men she is attracted to

  • @SHerit-q3v
    @SHerit-q3v 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +38

    It’s called “narcissism “… ( that’s why )

  • @lorisunshine81
    @lorisunshine81 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +28

    Mine went from a narcissist father to a narcissist husband. Too many lost years. Now at 61 I'm still young at heart because they did not break me. Divorced and ready for a new chapter of self-love and peace.🤗🙏💖😁👍

    • @RachelMorton-g5i
      @RachelMorton-g5i วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      61 and been there too. One way trip out of it. Never looking for another.

    • @sheelabalpande4422
      @sheelabalpande4422 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Congratulations! 😊 for ur new beginning, don't care for ur age, its no. only n U young at heart despite narcissist ur own men around U? Ur innocence saved U dear bcoz its Divine's responsibility to look after U, nothing else 💚

    • @AT-pw9dx
      @AT-pw9dx 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Yess lady!!

  • @kristineroethle5028
    @kristineroethle5028 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    ❤ It's very sad when men steel away your precious time holding onto you, playing games, messing with your mind is so cruel. Spirituality is a woman's strength and opens heart to value and wisdom in her life.🙏❤🕊💯

  • @tanyamontgomery3172
    @tanyamontgomery3172 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    So true learn your value and worth

  • @Abbot-g1m
    @Abbot-g1m 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    So true... how some of us women choose wrong relationships during the prime of our lives allowing ourselves to be abused - used for our intellect, skills, resources, our bodies...only to dumped...and for one to hopefully 'finally wake up...sane and in one piece' and realise it was never worth all the pain, hurt, self doubt you put youself through for years somtimes decades. God have mercy on us!!!

  • @cynthiarivera185
    @cynthiarivera185 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    This is so true 💯💯💯

  • @josegonzalezmoreno2679
    @josegonzalezmoreno2679 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    This happens to men too

    • @Seraphim7
      @Seraphim7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yes, Narcissist women…

    • @moonkatmagic5599
      @moonkatmagic5599 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yes, it does

  • @peteporter9138
    @peteporter9138 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    You are absolutely right I found myself in this position and felt lost all this time I've been trying to understand why he doesn't care or at least share his caring but he does it I need to move forward and it's really been hard Thank you for sharing this and I'm hoping to get stronger from it

  • @LydiaWhitting
    @LydiaWhitting 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    I name it dogs with bones.. they keep n bury you for maybe later if they need you.. but woe betide anyone else who maybe finds and admires the bone.. then they are indignant.. even if they have moved on .. u are still their property. How primative is that i wonder.

  • @Seraphim7
    @Seraphim7 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    “ Love Should Illuminate you , Not diminish you. “🌟☀️🌅
    😭

  • @rubybigby809
    @rubybigby809 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    So true, I was in a relationship for a very long time. He kept stringing me along, saying we would get married. He passed away 2020. And we still hadn't married. Many years spent with him. I was in my twenties when we met and in my fifties when he passed. And left to start over as a middle-aged woman. Yes, I truly loved him but realized he was selfish and used me. Starting over at almost 60 is hard. 💔 🙏

  • @jonesy9035
    @jonesy9035 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Yep, sounds about right! Ladies! You CAN peel yourself away from the man you are in love with if he is as described. If I can do it, so can you. It took me 13 years to realize this and to give myself a kick in the ass! It was hard for a few months but eventually I got over him. Guess what the men lined up to be with me!😮 I have never been happier in my whole life when I was able to finally find my true self. Do it! It’s so worth it!❤

  • @TheLizziebk
    @TheLizziebk 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I’m so grateful I’m out and now I recognize and reject any of this energy. Never again

  • @kayacrowder9793
    @kayacrowder9793 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    So True

  • @Pinkdaimonddragon
    @Pinkdaimonddragon 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Bc they know that they don't respect those women. And it will be easy for them to leave those women bc they are not emotionally invested in them. And they know a lot of this women will take him back. Whenever he desides he has a use for her.

    • @Seraphim7
      @Seraphim7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Narcissists don’t Respect women Periodt.
      If they can Treat 1 woman like this….. they will Eventually Treat All women like this or Whomever Becomes their Next Target……..

    • @Seraphim7
      @Seraphim7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Narcs are misogynists……
      They only See woman as Pleasure…. To Fulfill their Lusts…….+ to Admire and Desire them……
      They Move on and Repeat the Same Cycle..

  • @janeshelswell3313
    @janeshelswell3313 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    It’s happening to me right now, I have put up with far too long, time to end it.

  • @EleanorJafta-sc5xu
    @EleanorJafta-sc5xu 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Right now I'm faced with a situation like this😢

  • @georgiamcneil1661
    @georgiamcneil1661 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I believe it is so true. It happen where don't even realize it is happening.👍🏽🙏🏽🥰❤️

  • @PeggyDreher
    @PeggyDreher 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    YES AMEN. True true. I know I've been through it.

  • @m.theresiaberger9090
    @m.theresiaberger9090 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    It is true!nothing is for granted!❤

  • @annabanzon313
    @annabanzon313 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I finally understand now why some men rush for sex then shy away from marriage. Its because some of them know they won't be able to keep that kind of stamina up long term.

  • @thoudamindibati1505
    @thoudamindibati1505 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    It happened to me...I was fool

  • @lingee2387
    @lingee2387 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Depend on no one but yourself.

  • @nishasaairabaanu4186
    @nishasaairabaanu4186 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    It's damn true.

  • @TrinaMoitra
    @TrinaMoitra 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I did fall for this bitter trap. But thankfully, I could return to more of my essence -- not less. I came to love myself unapologetically. But I do get that I am lucky. It could just as well have gone the other way. The bit that got me is - once the blinders were off, I really couldn’t answer why! There was nothing to the guy, beyond my own loneliness & self-limiting beliefs.

  • @fantasticvoyage2989
    @fantasticvoyage2989 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Ha! Called it!

  • @tanviikhar8655
    @tanviikhar8655 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This is true. Having hard time getting over

  • @Seraphim7
    @Seraphim7 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    🥀🥀 Aww Sad for the Wife.
    Yes that Sounds like a Narcissist…….

  • @gloriahohman2790
    @gloriahohman2790 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Yes, I agree with you.

  • @amipatelami5833
    @amipatelami5833 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    definitely i agree with you

  • @bevsalo9783
    @bevsalo9783 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    I agree

  • @supervegitok956
    @supervegitok956 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Thanks right on time💯

  • @AnnabelleAbbott-kc5ir
    @AnnabelleAbbott-kc5ir 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I don't want to be drainedi have been drained i won't let this keep happening

  • @kerri-anncollier2295
    @kerri-anncollier2295 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Facts👍👌

  • @rupamtiwari2137
    @rupamtiwari2137 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    True

  • @valeriemontano7806
    @valeriemontano7806 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I needed to hear this❤

  • @sherriehoward9826
    @sherriehoward9826 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I am just letting go of a relationship like this. Not easy because I still love him. He has done so much hurting to myself and disrespect. He said he has no baggage. He has tons. I can only fix me. Pray for all of the women hurting. God bless and protect you. God will get your light to shine again.

  • @stylish_tarotqueen777
    @stylish_tarotqueen777 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    💯 percent. 😊

  • @denitawade9094
    @denitawade9094 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Good advice

  • @Summermp2
    @Summermp2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    amazing truth eye opening messages for all those women who are used.

  • @jennifermaker7764
    @jennifermaker7764 18 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

    ABSOLUTELY 💯❤

  • @AmandaPryar
    @AmandaPryar 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    I have just blocked someone who has been doing exactly that and I have no intentions of going back on my silence.

  • @LotusFish
    @LotusFish 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    When the Love sprouts... It will be the upliftment only. Whether the other person reciprocates it or not. It's always a gain. Being in love means it is your own life energy's ability to flourish on its own. it is not flourishing because of others. But that natural energy will be doubled tripled quatrapled. Or rise upto infinite number of level based on the intensity you can perceive from the other one. The other person is just the pretext only. Just the little spark only.
    At first, the love should be there in one's ownself. ❤🎉

  • @shabreidavis7790
    @shabreidavis7790 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Amen!!.... I agree.

  • @Blessed_Eternity_888
    @Blessed_Eternity_888 วันที่ผ่านมา

    YES EXACTLY TRUE💔💔😭😭

  • @RachelMorton-g5i
    @RachelMorton-g5i วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @La-di-da-e6l
    @La-di-da-e6l 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Agree

  • @SHAMIKII
    @SHAMIKII 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    TRUE

  • @michelleross1197
    @michelleross1197 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    This is true I am that woman I was a convenience to him I wasn't even a priority to him so this is why I am staying single now love doesn't work out for me

  • @neekneek588
    @neekneek588 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Facts

  • @Rachel-i9y
    @Rachel-i9y 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Evil and manipulative

  • @AlejandraCastro-yo5lz
    @AlejandraCastro-yo5lz 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I agree ❤

  • @morganreigns1984
    @morganreigns1984 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    So there not alone and have a "backup" plan

  • @stephanie54
    @stephanie54 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    100%

  • @PavithraHp-sz4ge
    @PavithraHp-sz4ge 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Experienced well 😂

  • @RoshinVarghese-yt6so
    @RoshinVarghese-yt6so 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Well, my family had married me to such a creature. I call them energy vampires. My family blew the roof off when I left him eight years later. So, I chose to leave my family and live on my own. The society of ONE BILLION harassed me for being an IMMORAL and distanced themselves from me. That was 28 years ago. My child is almost 33, she works and earns her livelihood. I ignore the society that tortured me to save their lies. Life goes on.

  • @ClaireFeltsman-ou8zy
    @ClaireFeltsman-ou8zy 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I’m not interested in you or what you hold on to
    Just move on

  • @deanamcdougall7192
    @deanamcdougall7192 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Yep

  • @RedPhoenix-bp5hf
    @RedPhoenix-bp5hf 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Placeholders! Or you know what else if your gullible!!!!

  • @LolLol-j7g
    @LolLol-j7g 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Women allow these types of men to hang around them nobody is obligated to stay people stay around this type of behavior for there own selfish reasons

  • @abdullahjaan4721
    @abdullahjaan4721 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I agree I am going crazy

  • @Simon-q5d
    @Simon-q5d 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    I know more Woman who do this than I do Men

  • @Aria-nl3xp
    @Aria-nl3xp 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    That's not true when you try and they show nothing in return what you supposed to do

  • @dubaifatimaali
    @dubaifatimaali วันที่ผ่านมา

    Look if a man has x and a wife , he still goes looking for his x or keep bothering her, it is a clear sign he doesn't love his new wife and has guilt and shame so he keeps looking back for what he did..
    So if your man has an x and keeps going back to look at her or whatsoever , gas light or stalks. It means he has some issues with you (current wife) keep an eye on your man.
    Thankfully my man loves me ❤

  • @sarah.j.777
    @sarah.j.777 วันที่ผ่านมา

    sex, companionship, kids, social clout, coddling etc..

  • @janettesessarago4690
    @janettesessarago4690 วันที่ผ่านมา

    🏃‍♀️🏃🏃‍♀️🏃🏃‍♀️run if you can🏃🏃‍♀️🏃

  • @Flossboss-r2j
    @Flossboss-r2j 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Believe in Karma! It scientific!

  • @gailwomack2990
    @gailwomack2990 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I agree. 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

  • @scorpiored3871
    @scorpiored3871 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    This is what happened to me

  • @TurtelGammer
    @TurtelGammer 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    You are telling about narcissistic men

  • @crazedvole
    @crazedvole 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Another example of something that is a " people" thing. Not man or woman.

  • @sarahs4759
    @sarahs4759 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Important information. ..make this vedio .reach many . Many many. Are affected by such stupidity.

  • @danielcann
    @danielcann 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Better yet, why do they hold on to women that reject them?

    • @calloduty8630
      @calloduty8630 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It also can be loneliness like me,don't judge a book by it's cover bro one thing is made up of 10 more things soo dont stick to one conclusion

  • @AngelFaceGem
    @AngelFaceGem 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    They all blocked now thanks ❤

  • @ressab.5193
    @ressab.5193 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Becoming very selective from now on 💯

  • @sheelabalpande4422
    @sheelabalpande4422 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    💯👍

  • @Aria-nl3xp
    @Aria-nl3xp 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    They run play games we God damn adults I'd you like me you like me if not then i guess that's why she doing what she doing because she not interested but then again nobody talks to me......😂😞fuck it

  • @Fragolizia-r1b
    @Fragolizia-r1b 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Infatti!!

  • @ressab.5193
    @ressab.5193 วันที่ผ่านมา

    That’s why I started nipping it in the bud now. Lost and wasted too much time and energy

  • @anitanash7777
    @anitanash7777 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Very true 😢🙏💪❤️‍🩹🌱🌻

  • @Fragolizia-r1b
    @Fragolizia-r1b 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Forse qualcuno ha pensato che io gli stessi credendo. So perfettamente di chi si tratta ed anch'io come lui ci ho marciato un po' sopra come ha fatto lui.

  • @godess4993
    @godess4993 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    No men can't hold on to no women think is toy they can leave anytime if a men hold on to a woman he love her nobody wouldn't hold on to something they don't like the women's doesn't want him either both way hold on who meanwhile she have other man don't want him either but is not me holding on though Is him why people's believe men is that important you don't want her she don't want you either simply

  • @calloduty8630
    @calloduty8630 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    It also can be loneliness like me,don't judge a book by it's cover bro one thing is made up of 10 more things soo dont stick to one conclusion

  • @Fragolizia-r1b
    @Fragolizia-r1b 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Bye bye

  • @terriNCCC
    @terriNCCC 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Because men don’t want the drama of emotionally hurting women.

  • @gordanaprvulovic4660
    @gordanaprvulovic4660 วันที่ผ่านมา

    misli sta hoces....nebitno.
    iskren pozdrav.