“Never regret the love you gave anyone, even if it wasn't reciprocated, love always comes back full circle and will come back in some beautiful form. Keep putting your love out into the universe, cause it's coming back with interest baby” 🙏💜
The conclusion is perfect. Be wise and don’t go back. He didn’t appreciate you the first time. He won’t at anytime. Keep it moving. Everything he’s dealing with is a personal problem. Perhaps if he gets another chance with someone else, he would have learned his lesson and will love, respect, and let her know that he wants her.
Absolutely! It’s so important to recognize your worth and not settle for someone who didn’t appreciate you the first time. Moving forward is the best decision-you deserve someone who values you from the start. Sometimes, people only learn after losing something truly special. Keep going, and the right love will come your way! 🙌💪
Unfortunatelly this will not work with narcisist man, I'm married to one for the last 41 years, I'm ready to let him go for good, he has done a lot of damage to me, he has not talk to me for several weeks, last time we spoke he told me he want to be by himself. I'm ready to give him his freedom for good, I'm tired and want to be happy at 62 years old.
That’s why I don’t live with my partner… He misses me; our passion for each other burns still after 2 years together. I get lots of affection, attention and compliments. We play often. I can’t I imagine this would be possible seeing each other day in day out…. I enjoy my own company and I’m not codependent, which I guess helps…
Why be in a relationship then if you need to maintain distance to make your partner understand or "realise" the "impact" of you being in their life!!!!
I am like a cat, if we are distant it does not make my heart grow fonder! I use the power of silence! He begins to lose me, and I do not miss him. I do not have selective memory, I do not long for the past when I have moved on! Once I have made the decision to walk, it truly is over! I start self-improvement! I never return place where I was disrespected ,
I love this mindset! Knowing your worth and sticking to your boundaries is so empowering. When you choose to move forward, there’s no looking back, especially when you’ve been disrespected. Self-improvement is the best way to keep growing and healing. Keep going, you’re doing great! 🙌💪
Absence makes the heart grow fonder, but it’s about more than just distance-it’s about creating space for respect, admiration, and curiosity to thrive. As Friedrich Nietzsche said, 'It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.' 🌟
This is great info. Sadly the last person I dated has so much hurt and pain from past relationships that he absolutely “hates” those women with a passion . He is so angry and not forgiving on any level. It’s too bad because he’s such an incredible man but he stands in his own way. It greatly impacted our friendship/relationship.
Great video. These past few months has been an eye opener for me, the one I love, the one i cherish still Left me, I lost alot of friends because of her, she often said they were bad influence on me, and she still left me, i still love her and that is what hurts the most. Love sometimes is unexplainable and cruel
I feel your pain, Believe me I do, i was in a similar position, he left me, but i couldnt just let him go because i knew i was the cause of it, i chose my work over him and the kids, I didnt want to loose him, so i contacted a spiritual counsellor for advice on how to get him back and to my greatest surprise it worked out, she brought him back to me, and its been over a year and half, i have never been this happy
Thank you for this, I know i wasnt alone on this i often sit and think what i will become without her because i have no one else, I think i might just give this a try,how did you get in touch with him/her, if you do not mind me asking.
If a woman needs to be more confident , advance in career , self improving , start dating another man to get someone’s attention then he is just not worth it. If making available , waiting cannot transpire her care and love for her man then he is not worth it . Rest of the point re dignity and self respect - agreed . Love should start and end with creating memories - TOGETHER
Thank you for this post. I really identified with the statement about not returning to a place where you were disrespected. Many people even the ex asked if we could be friends That was a BIG NO for me Because he could have chosen to be honest but he chose otherwise
likewise here, its a BIG NO for me as well to be friends with ex’s.. why give them chance to be part of ur life again even as friend.. im not bitter but i’d rather choose not to be associated with someone who hurt u or dump u
You're so right! Respect is key, and it's admirable that you're standing firm in your boundaries. If someone couldn’t honor you when it mattered, there’s no reason to settle for anything less than what you deserve. Staying true to yourself and not going back to that place is the best decision. You're stronger for it! Keep moving forward with confidence! 💪💙
All of this is true I experience all of what you are saying this is hard on both of us we have a soul connection it’s hard because we are apart not by chose but to better him we will be together agin. This is spot on so true all of this
First they will miss you because they are now doing everything on their own. And se men don't appreciate what you do. And sometimes men think housework is not a job And that they are the only bread winner
Thank you my partner kept making one mistake over and again until i got tired of it andi distance my self from hi at first he was quite but now he keep on calling me and i ignore his calls although i think of him but i can't go back to resolve the unresolving issue
How I deal with man is not easy to break up but once I had enough that's it never change my mind even when he tried hard to change his way will never change when am done.
One of the physical therapist is a guy and he has been asking personal questions and I warmed up to him finally I said I appreciate him and gave him a mug and he loved it and he saw me shivering and asked I’m I’m cold and now he disappeared and now I’m just going to sit back be quiet and focus on me….my mom is going to ask where he is this time ,does anyone know what this whole thing means ? When I laugh he laughs and we smile at each other and he says hi to me first I didn’t see him last Thursday and today since before Christmas we saw each other
Thank God for your insight 🙏 encouragement. I really appreciate everything you have said because I am going through tough times right now. But it is Christ who strengthens me and gives me the courage to move on in life 💯 ❤
if you’re going through hell in your relationship, pray and ask God for answers. Marriage and relationships must have endurance, tolerance patience and transcendence through the years. I know we all are complicated and bring many issues into a relationship. We all have baggage from childhood and past relationships so it’s impossible to get rid of them before we move onto a new person. Men need a LOT of time to decompress. Women don’t get it. I also need a lot of time bc I have to much I want to do. After fighting my way through marriage, I can honestly say, he’s better if I drop my topic and let him chew on it before I need a reply. I try to give him time to watch his own shows as if he has a choice. too many women think relationships should be constant showing them with attention. Nope, Attention is over rated. I can pay myself attention. I’m not sayin I don’t like a comment about how I look but I don’t need to have company with anybody all the time. I believe in freedom to be each other. Can’t keep someone if they don’t want to be kept. Him and I know cheating is a waste of time and breaking their heart is a horrific choice
He doesn't miss you now because he is busy meeting other suitors but even if he settles down with someone he will surely miss those good aspects and things that only you did to him in the relationship and in the back of his mind he might compare all those good things you did for him when some lady will do something bad with him. Just focus on your life. 😊 You will surely do much better without him and I know this.
@@popod177 true mine Is same he is talking with multiple women from last 3 months and we are in no contact haven't heard from him now it's impossible.. we were not in a relationship but we met for marriage purpose and talked with 8 month
I strongly claim and accept this positive energy in divine guidance and protection. 🙏🏻❤️🌸 Thank you Divine 🙏🏻❤️🌸 Thank you Angels 🙏🏻❤️🌸 Thank you Ancestors 🙏🏻❤️🌸 Thank you Universe 🙏🏻❤️🌸
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other. It seems like it's impossible for men and women to emotionally connect with each other. Women do emotionally connect with other women, better than men do. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone.
@sayarasami Men and women are different, and so they can't understand each other very well because they function differently. Men and women aren't meant to be together. I have a question. Do women actually long for male companionship?
@@alchemicalsoul Men and women are wired very differently from each other, and they think very differently from each other. They have different brain structures from each other. Women have been proven to bond with other women more. Men are usually much lonelier than women are. Men don't often talk about their personal problems with their male friends like how women do with their female friends. Females produce a lot more oxytocin than males do. And that's a reason why women tend to hug a lot more and be a lot more physically affectionate than men do. Wouldn't make it hard for them to bond with each other?
I blocked him days ago😢, I have never loved and at the same time felt so used like he did to me, he ghosted me from no where for 2 and full months hmmmmmmmm, I tried reaching out until I got tired and blocked him, why am I even still hurt mstweeeee
My dear companion for many years left me suddenly when a "past love" appeared on the scene. I thing this new love will compensate for loss if he did not have someone else to "take my place." I don't think he will miss me. I miss him so much.
If someone who is dating me only for 2 months, but happy in his own world without me, dont call and message me, only replies when i do text. Often doesn't reply at all. Does he really loves me?or using me, How can i know.? He sometimes make future plans with me though, isn't it tough to understand?
The same thing is happening with me, knew him since for almost 4 months, sometimes he behaves like I mean the world to him and sometimes he acts as a total stranger by totally ignoring my messages. Just don't know what to do
“Never regret the love you gave anyone, even if it wasn't reciprocated, love always comes back full circle and will come back in some beautiful form. Keep putting your love out into the universe, cause it's coming back with interest baby” 🙏💜
❤❤❤
Am praying for that love back to me.
Thank you😢u have real encouraged me 🥺❤️ l was regretting it 🙌
Awww that's so convincing
Thank you dear 😢🥰❤
The conclusion is perfect. Be wise and don’t go back. He didn’t appreciate you the first time. He won’t at anytime. Keep it moving. Everything he’s dealing with is a personal problem. Perhaps if he gets another chance with someone else, he would have learned his lesson and will love, respect, and let her know that he wants her.
Preach, babe! Yes mam💯💯💯💯A little LOUDER for the people depending upon their wishy washy emotions, which are very deceptive! 🎯
True , actually that's the fear
Absolutely! It’s so important to recognize your worth and not settle for someone who didn’t appreciate you the first time. Moving forward is the best decision-you deserve someone who values you from the start. Sometimes, people only learn after losing something truly special. Keep going, and the right love will come your way! 🙌💪
Unfortunatelly this will not work with narcisist man, I'm married to one for the last 41 years, I'm ready to let him go for good, he has done a lot of damage to me, he has not talk to me for several weeks, last time we spoke he told me he want to be by himself. I'm ready to give him his freedom for good, I'm tired and want to be happy at 62 years old.
It's time to let go of what no longer serves you. Enjoy the rest of your life. Have gratitude for the time spent and the lessons learned.
Right
@@alchemicalsoul boy buy .... get that coin go.... boy you have some tolerance.... use that in the future to benefit you .....
Narcissistic men won't miss you only whatever they benefited from you n will find another victim to control n treat bad!
Most women suffer from egoistic narcisist men roaming around the planet. They must be living in hell! 😠
I like the way you wind it up. It is never wise to return back to people who hurt and despise you for no reason
That’s why I don’t live with my partner… He misses me; our passion for each other burns still after 2 years together. I get lots of affection, attention and compliments. We play often. I can’t I imagine this would be possible seeing each other day in day out…. I enjoy my own company and I’m not codependent, which I guess helps…
That's.... idk if you guys are in an open relationship that's fine... but honestly one side is cheating for sure.. statistically...
@@RC-ud4qo😀true🤔
True100/100
Why be in a relationship then if you need to maintain distance to make your partner understand or "realise" the "impact" of you being in their life!!!!
So you never plan to get married & live in the same house/or even have a live in relationship?
absence makes you vulnerable but builds more connection
I am like a cat, if we are distant it does not make my heart grow fonder! I use the power of silence! He begins to lose me, and I do not miss him. I do not have selective memory, I do not long for the past when I have moved on! Once I have made the decision to walk, it truly is over! I start self-improvement! I never return place where I was disrespected ,
Dang it i wish i was STRONG as u! You know i was once upon a time when i was younger. But much harder as u get older 😩😫
You are strong undoubtedly and amazing at the same time ❤
I love this mindset! Knowing your worth and sticking to your boundaries is so empowering. When you choose to move forward, there’s no looking back, especially when you’ve been disrespected. Self-improvement is the best way to keep growing and healing. Keep going, you’re doing great! 🙌💪
Absence makes the heart grow fonder, but it’s about more than just distance-it’s about creating space for respect, admiration, and curiosity to thrive. As Friedrich Nietzsche said, 'It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.' 🌟
Sometimes, less is more. This video reminds me to focus on being present in my own life instead of seeking constant attention.
This is great info. Sadly the last person I dated has so much hurt and pain from past relationships that he absolutely “hates” those women with a passion . He is so angry and not forgiving on any level. It’s too bad because he’s such an incredible man but he stands in his own way. It greatly impacted our friendship/relationship.
I feel you..
Great video. These past few months has been an eye opener for me, the one I love, the one i cherish still Left me, I lost alot of friends because of her, she often said they were bad influence on me, and she still left me, i still love her and that is what hurts the most. Love sometimes is unexplainable and cruel
I feel your pain, Believe me I do, i was in a similar position, he left me, but i couldnt just let him go because i knew i was the cause of it, i chose my work over him and the kids, I didnt want to loose him, so i contacted a spiritual counsellor for advice on how to get him back and to my greatest surprise it worked out, she brought him back to me, and its been over a year and half, i have never been this happy
Thank you for this, I know i wasnt alone on this i often sit and think what i will become without her because i have no one else, I think i might just give this a try,how did you get in touch with him/her, if you do not mind me asking.
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Please start love yourself first
If a woman needs to be more confident , advance in career , self improving , start dating another man to get someone’s attention then he is just not worth it. If making available , waiting cannot transpire her care and love for her man then he is not worth it . Rest of the point re dignity and self respect - agreed . Love should start and end with creating memories - TOGETHER
SAD! BUT TRUE! I feel like crying!
Thank you for this post. I really identified with the statement about not returning to a place where you were disrespected. Many people even the ex asked if we could be friends
That was a BIG NO for me
Because he could have chosen to be honest but he chose otherwise
likewise here, its a BIG NO for me as well to be friends with ex’s.. why give them chance to be part of ur life again even as friend.. im not bitter but i’d rather choose not to be associated with someone who hurt u or dump u
I don't even speak to them afterwards bc they simply try & worm their way back in my life.
NOPE 😊
You're so right! Respect is key, and it's admirable that you're standing firm in your boundaries. If someone couldn’t honor you when it mattered, there’s no reason to settle for anything less than what you deserve. Staying true to yourself and not going back to that place is the best decision. You're stronger for it! Keep moving forward with confidence! 💪💙
All of this is true I experience all of what you are saying this is hard on both of us we have a soul connection it’s hard because we are apart not by chose but to better him we will be together agin. This is spot on so true all of this
Thank you.❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏 While typing, teardrops on my cheek uncontrol. These words helps me to heal and move on silently. 😭😭😭
Take care ❤ hope u are doing fine ❤
Love is interesting when you meet the right person
The fact that I know what i want it make me end my relationships.
Majority of them still long for me.
But I bless God for the lessons so far.
I appreciate how you break things down, love it!
Married tot a narricissist who broke my heart and hurt me to the core and put my children against me spreading lies
First they will miss you because they are now doing everything on their own. And se men don't appreciate what you do. And sometimes men think housework is not a job
And that they are the only bread winner
Thank you my partner kept making one mistake over and again until i got tired of it andi distance my self from hi at first he was quite but now he keep on calling me and i ignore his calls although i think of him but i can't go back to resolve the unresolving issue
My story currently dear he became abusive
7:48 loved it ❤❤❤❤
How I deal with man is not easy to break up but once I had enough that's it never change my mind even when he tried hard to change his way will never change when am done.
It's really make me uncomfortable if someone misses me... I love being in a happy surrounding.
Nothing to miss but just the truth always felt that
One of the physical therapist is a guy and he has been asking personal questions and I warmed up to him finally I said I appreciate him and gave him a mug and he loved it and he saw me shivering and asked I’m I’m cold and now he disappeared and now I’m just going to sit back be quiet and focus on me….my mom is going to ask where he is this time ,does anyone know what this whole thing means ? When I laugh he laughs and we smile at each other and he says hi to me first I didn’t see him last Thursday and today since before Christmas we saw each other
I needed this today!
So did I.
I'm respect my self because no tick to it's another
Excellent points🎉❤
Yes everything your saying in this video is so true
Very insightful video! Thank you! ❤🙏
So true thank you
This is not about real love, which always requires sacrifice. Which is something a lot of people today are clueless.
Thank God for your insight 🙏 encouragement. I really appreciate everything you have said because I am going through tough times right now. But it is Christ who strengthens me and gives me the courage to move on in life 💯 ❤
if you’re going through hell in your relationship, pray and ask God for answers. Marriage and relationships must have endurance, tolerance patience and transcendence through the years.
I know we all are complicated and bring many issues into a relationship. We all have baggage from childhood and past relationships so it’s impossible to get rid of them before we move onto a new person.
Men need a LOT of time to decompress. Women don’t get it. I also need a lot of time bc I have to much I want to do. After fighting my way through marriage, I can honestly say, he’s better if I drop my topic and let him chew on it before I need a reply. I try to give him time to watch his own shows as if he has a choice. too many women think relationships should be constant showing them with attention. Nope, Attention is over rated. I can pay myself attention. I’m not sayin I don’t like a comment about how I look but I don’t need to have company with anybody all the time. I believe in freedom to be each other.
Can’t keep someone if they don’t want to be kept. Him and I know cheating is a waste of time and breaking their heart is a horrific choice
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Mine doesn't miss me cuz he got so many suitors..😢im done but God is my only friend..
He doesn't miss you now because he is busy meeting other suitors but even if he settles down with someone he will surely miss those good aspects and things that only you did to him in the relationship and in the back of his mind he might compare all those good things you did for him when some lady will do something bad with him.
Just focus on your life. 😊 You will surely do much better without him and I know this.
@@jinalishah4521 🙂
@@jinalishah4521do they come back if they are talking with multiple women i was serious for him and he knows that thing will he miss me
Don't worry ❤ stay happy ❤
@@popod177 true mine Is same he is talking with multiple women from last 3 months and we are in no contact haven't heard from him now it's impossible.. we were not in a relationship but we met for marriage purpose and talked with 8 month
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Thank you for your advice❤
1 million % AGREE with everything said in this video! It definitely sounds like my ex indeed wow! 👍🏼👌👍🏼👌
Thankyou so mucy sir for your motivation I really liked it and also agree with that🎉🎉😇💯
Oh nice nice. Proud Ugandan is grateful
Thank you. Realized a lot.
So eveb if i have to block I should just to distance myself right?
Excellent explanation🙏❤❤🙏
Amazing ❤
👍🙏🙏🎊🎊🎊
Self respect is more valuable than emotions…..
Great video!❤❤❤
Fantastic job
Thank you Bern!Your video helps so much 🙏🙏 🙏
Merci thank you so much!
Thank you for your help❤❤
Vry mch informative
Thanks
Thank you.
Excellent words and insight!!
My baby missing me a lottt.... I started realising the pain of his
I strongly claim and accept this positive energy in divine guidance and protection. 🙏🏻❤️🌸
Thank you Divine 🙏🏻❤️🌸
Thank you Angels 🙏🏻❤️🌸
Thank you Ancestors 🙏🏻❤️🌸
Thank you Universe 🙏🏻❤️🌸
Ending is a awesome and you make me realize that I made a right decision❤
It's true seprate its good in all relationships
So true 😢❤
Absolutely!
This is so good
True❤❤❤God bless
Good one.
Thank you❤
...... when they feel alone
Painful but reality
I like every thing that you said. Keep it' s so helpful to females .
So to all the ladies out there! We gotta shut up and let him do all the work 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
Good insight 💯💞
Sad. Just be apart for a great relationship. Pathetic.
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other. It seems like it's impossible for men and women to emotionally connect with each other.
Women do emotionally connect with other women, better than men do. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone.
@sayarasami Men and women are different, and so they can't understand each other very well because they function differently. Men and women aren't meant to be together. I have a question. Do women actually long for male companionship?
The ego blocks authenticity which prevents the magnetism between masculine and feminine energy. Opposites do attract because we are energy.
@@icysnow57cold64If we aren't meant to be together, how would the species continue? No aspect of that thought is logical.
@@alchemicalsoul Men and women are wired very differently from each other, and they think very differently from each other. They have different brain structures from each other. Women have been proven to bond with other women more.
Men are usually much lonelier than women are. Men don't often talk about their personal problems with their male friends like how women do with their female friends.
Females produce a lot more oxytocin than males do. And that's a reason why women tend to hug a lot more and be a lot more physically affectionate than men do.
Wouldn't make it hard for them to bond with each other?
Men and women can bond emotionally through shared experiences, trust, communication, and empathy, despite their differences in thinking.
100% true
I blocked him days ago😢, I have never loved and at the same time felt so used like he did to me, he ghosted me from no where for 2 and full months hmmmmmmmm, I tried reaching out until I got tired and blocked him, why am I even still hurt mstweeeee
Stay strong. He does not deserve you
What if the relationship is extra marital and he suddenly stops talking. Will he still miss and think about the other partner??
Leave that married man alone and find your own.
If he loves his family more then he won’t think about the other woman often
True words
My dear companion for many years left me suddenly when a "past love" appeared on the scene. I thing this new love will compensate for loss if he did not have someone else to "take my place." I don't think he will miss me. I miss him so much.
Thank you
Thank you God ❤
So Wonderful
Best video
Thanks 😊
Absolutely great video.
He ghosted me and I ghosted him Done 😅
😂
Shiii aww wut that be that hurt 😭😭😭
Good info but im worried the wrong people will use this info to their advantage and hurt someone.
Kya har insaan yaad krta hoga after cheating... Bond bahut accha rha ho but all of sudden he cheated kya miss krta hoga
Thank you, good advice!!
Interesting 🎉
Magnifique so man need scenario ...films 😂 thank you
This is 💯 true!
We are apart from a month he didn’t make a call and enjoying his life before he was anxious for me do you know this behavior
It seems the video is only for me❤
Everything Is On Point ❤❤❤❤❤
If someone who is dating me only for 2 months, but happy in his own world without me, dont call and message me, only replies when i do text. Often doesn't reply at all. Does he really loves me?or using me, How can i know.? He sometimes make future plans with me though, isn't it tough to understand?
The same thing is happening with me, knew him since for almost 4 months, sometimes he behaves like I mean the world to him and sometimes he acts as a total stranger by totally ignoring my messages. Just don't know what to do
Very impressive
Wow
Don't worry I'm safe
Why these are all happening to me😞🥺🙍🏻
He moved in with another woman and hated me