BIG CHOP | 6 years natural

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  • I think the time has come that we go our separate ways.
    Dear hair, we’ve laughed, we’ve cried, you’ve seen as I saw and felt more than I’ve felt. You hold all my thoughts all my emotions a lot of my/and others energy. You were my first lesson in self-care, you opened my eyes &it caused me to strip myself of all the lye. You are what has bonded me and my grandmothers, my mother and father. You have been a way for me to express my creativity and share my love for me and those who look like me. 6 years no heat and whole lotta lessons in between. Time to embark on a new journey. I love you, I am connected to you but I am not you.
    Here is when we go our separate ways.
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    Love & Support Via FaceTime: My close friend Damia
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ความคิดเห็น • 163

  • @auraoptics
    @auraoptics 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I shaved my waist- length natural hair off after escaping an abusive relationship. It was a very emotional experience . It’s bravery and a chance for a new start. I do miss my hair but l know it will come back with time. This is beautiful.

    • @nymcfly
      @nymcfly  5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Wow, you go girl! Fresh starts feel beautiful. & Congratulations❤️

  • @Ashlitaylorr
    @Ashlitaylorr 6 ปีที่แล้ว +196

    If you friend don't hype you like this she ain't your friend!

  • @neutralnutella5574
    @neutralnutella5574 6 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    "who the baddest in this beech?!"😂😂😂😂she is me

  • @Karlisa
    @Karlisa 6 ปีที่แล้ว +200

    This was so beautiful😩❤️ you look gorgeous! Your friend is a real one

    • @SassyPrincessify
      @SassyPrincessify 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kay Alex hey just found your channel hopefully you can subscribe back

  • @TearraLyn
    @TearraLyn 6 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    awww your friend on the phone we all need one of those friends , seriously amazing; I need to borrow her for when I’m doing my big chop 😭😩 ❤️😩

  • @dsdbeaute
    @dsdbeaute 6 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    not sure what I love more, your friend's supportive words, the message in the description box or the cut itself! This is everything, you are stunning 👏😍😍

    • @doriannhamer284
      @doriannhamer284 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dominique Dacres dido it’s awesome that we can as black women look great with short and long. For instance Halle looks better with short hair then long. So long isn’t always better. My mom would have killed me if I cut so much an inch and that’s just old school thinking you look great. Now next time get a professional😘

    • @SassyPrincessify
      @SassyPrincessify 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dominique Dacres hey just found your channel hopefully you can subscribe back

  • @lifestyle.of.danika
    @lifestyle.of.danika 6 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Your friend is goals!

  • @kayjanel95
    @kayjanel95 6 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    What an amazing friend! Holy shit I need me one of those!!

  • @dominiquewright906
    @dominiquewright906 6 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Y'all..that message in the description box tho..beautiful and soooo true.👏😍😍

  • @Simply0981
    @Simply0981 6 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    The supportive words from your friend tho #friendgoals

  • @ilyssag2812
    @ilyssag2812 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Ur friend is so supportive omg. I love it. You look amazing !!

  • @_shekayla
    @_shekayla 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You’re an inspiration girl💛 proud of you!🌹

  • @faithsanders5088
    @faithsanders5088 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omfg she’s such a great friend!! Love the relationship

  • @shaneg8584
    @shaneg8584 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I absolutely adore you! And you and your hair looks absolutely gorgeous 💗 I am happy that you are sharing a new beginning with us

  • @manassiewilson4678
    @manassiewilson4678 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You look gorgeous! I’m here for this look! Much love 💕 God bless!

  • @yasminheath5058
    @yasminheath5058 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow I cried with you. I loved this. I’m ready.

  • @brittbrat567889
    @brittbrat567889 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You look stunning!!

  • @1toyebat71
    @1toyebat71 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    precious!!!so precious!!

  • @tamiadta
    @tamiadta 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    this was absolutely beautiful when you started crying it made me so emotional cause i know the feeling i big chopped almost 2 years ago i love the look & how supportive your friend was 😭😍

  • @youinmybusiness1388
    @youinmybusiness1388 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Her friend is EVERYTHING!!! 😍

  • @nylan.7882
    @nylan.7882 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You look so gorgeous with itt❤️ your subbies are happy that you did it for your happiness ❣️

  • @Barbie517828
    @Barbie517828 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your friend needs to be a motivational speaker. She was SOOO supportive. I big chopped in February of last year and it was amazing. I’m currently on a growth journey until August 28th 2019 (my 21st birthday) and I’m cutting it allllll off again and I can’t wait 😍. It looks wonderful on you and your face is so beautiful ❣️

  • @ajahnaeshand6
    @ajahnaeshand6 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I cried with you girl 😭. I just recently went through the same experience after growing my hair out since the 10th grade (4 yrs ago) and it was just a huge part of my spiritual journey that I’m on rn. I say this to say the universe sent me to this video and sent you to me and I am unspeakably grateful 💕 thank you for sharing this experience beautiful!

  • @maxiej6756
    @maxiej6756 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow what a change! You are beautiful either way.💕

  • @bolualaba7785
    @bolualaba7785 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    love your motivation and how you look with it.....i really do hope you love and enjoy this journey you are starting on

  • @tulip324
    @tulip324 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such an emotional moment! I completely feel you! I remember when I cut most of my hair off and transitioned the last 2-3 inches. The liberation. You look beautiful!

  • @sierrakendrick2832
    @sierrakendrick2832 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your friend is amazing

  • @zidikiyahmorrison4841
    @zidikiyahmorrison4841 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I like ...no wait love how her friend supported her thru the process!!!#realfriends❤❤❤❤❤

  • @VintageAfro91
    @VintageAfro91 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your video helped me so much when I did my own big chop! You are so gorgeous! It's definitely an emotional ride cutting your hair, but it's so worth it!

  • @jenaybrown280
    @jenaybrown280 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the new cut!! You look beautiful

  • @misskcrenshaw
    @misskcrenshaw 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    beautiful!!! you and your friend are amazing!!!

  • @ndjobet
    @ndjobet 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    It turned out so beautiful 😍

  • @londonmckamey1604
    @londonmckamey1604 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Truly inspiring

  • @angellovvee
    @angellovvee 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    So proud of you

  • @victoriaphili
    @victoriaphili 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love your friend, so supportive! we all need one of those lol. and you look gorgeous!

  • @jdunc1567
    @jdunc1567 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Lol your friend is the best ♥ , you're beautiful!

  • @lorealmoore1140
    @lorealmoore1140 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Best video of 2018! I love your confidence and your gorgeous cut. You can rock anything! I'm inspired.😍

  • @rebeArebel
    @rebeArebel 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful just beautiful!

  • @Vibewithbriana
    @Vibewithbriana 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is beautiful! YAS!❤️

  • @MsSoapify
    @MsSoapify 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    gorgeous either way!

  • @ryecustard7687
    @ryecustard7687 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You being happy is what matters!

  • @MIYAABDUL
    @MIYAABDUL 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You have a very good friend!

  • @aunestibreauna1563
    @aunestibreauna1563 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    omgg😍 i just big chopped last weekend lol , at least i have someone on this journey with me😭 your cut really suits youu

  • @JanelleAsha
    @JanelleAsha 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've been putting this off for so long but you've inspired me. I'm cutting my hair TODAY!!

  • @quaybay1609
    @quaybay1609 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    OMG, i’ve been natural for 5 years my hair is very similar texture to yours but i just want it gone. Everyone is criticizing me about doing it because they say “people wish to have hair like you” but i’ve been going through a lot of inner term oil and i feel like chopping my hair is a step to my healing process. I’ve been following you on Instagram just inspired and had no idea you have youtube lol but Anyway i love that you inserted a clip of yourself cutting your hair and getting emotional. it made me realize that i AM ready to do it because i didn’t want to face the fact that i would get all worked up over cutting it even though i know it’s what i want. So thank you for that. you have really helped me with my journey ❤️

  • @Anerial15
    @Anerial15 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    😱😱😱 it looks so good on you!!

  • @vitalysantana1329
    @vitalysantana1329 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your hair looks beautiful 😍😍😍

  • @latoyaedwards5418
    @latoyaedwards5418 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yesss! I love the hair. I came across your instagram just scrolling through inspiration videos to do my 5th big chop. A big chop is like a rebirth for me every time! I cry every time but it feels like rejuvenation. New subscriber! I’m about to binge watch. Keep growing, and prospering my sister. ❤

  • @breeeasley7332
    @breeeasley7332 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was beautiful asf

  • @NikkiNichelle.
    @NikkiNichelle. 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    *I Love It, I literally think about big chopping my hair again like every week, you look beautiful*

  • @Uhhitschan
    @Uhhitschan 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You look absolutely gorgeous 💛👑

  • @taj8956
    @taj8956 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    So inspirational ❤️❤️❤️

  • @YaGirlJhordyn
    @YaGirlJhordyn 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Girl you already saw me all on your Instagram but I gotta let you know again I AM HERE FOR IT !!!✨

  • @Itsaubae
    @Itsaubae 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yaaaasss to her FRIEND THOUGH!😍😍

  • @peachfuzz466
    @peachfuzz466 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You look wonderful

  • @jadeevonne
    @jadeevonne 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You look so pretty with your hair cut!

  • @maellerusso7013
    @maellerusso7013 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You’re excessively beautiful I can’t handle it

    • @nymcfly
      @nymcfly  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ahhh Thank youu

  • @itsshayeveryday
    @itsshayeveryday 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You look so different. Okay 21 yasss girl 90s vibes and all! 💜💜💜 I love it! So freaking cuteee!

  • @butterflyladyd
    @butterflyladyd 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    You are not your hair..and you are gorgeous long or short and sassy! I love it ..luvu 2 Dyymond's mom..

  • @adeola.59
    @adeola.59 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this!! You look beautiful x

  • @JusticeLove407
    @JusticeLove407 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awwwwww don’t cryyyyy. It’s crazy because I’ve been wanting to do a big chop since I turned 25 last month and I’ve been sitting on it, thinking about it and not doing it. I just feel like letting go of everything from thus pass year. Thank you for this video ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @SamoraLewis
    @SamoraLewis 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You look amazing xx

  • @kelseywlliamson3386
    @kelseywlliamson3386 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I love this soooo much, need a hype man just like your friend when I do a big chop.. you look beautiful 😍😭❤️

  • @bribbyy
    @bribbyy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    BEAUTIFUL!!😍😍💗

    • @SassyPrincessify
      @SassyPrincessify 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bri Bbyy hey just found your channel hopefully you can subscribe back

  • @TiaraWordsfromGod
    @TiaraWordsfromGod 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I LOVE YOU AND YOUR FRIEND'S RELATIONSHIP 😍💕

  • @kjjj1
    @kjjj1 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love it! It’s super cute on you i need a friend like yours 😂😍😍😍

  • @neutralnutella5574
    @neutralnutella5574 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You look so fire😢as always. I remember when you mentioned how you had almost cut your hair a couple of months ago. I'm so glad you feel liberated 💖

    • @nymcfly
      @nymcfly  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you❤️ I really doo

    • @halimkhan1413
      @halimkhan1413 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nymcfly hii beauty full girl so cute

  • @najaa3096
    @najaa3096 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your friend a real one 😪you look absolutely beautiful 😩😩

  • @TiaraWordsfromGod
    @TiaraWordsfromGod 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You look beautiful!

  • @kristinanavette
    @kristinanavette 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    WAIT WAIT OMGGGG IM SHOOK 😍😍😍

  • @Makkyyahkyah
    @Makkyyahkyah 6 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    You look good

  • @JessicaReiskitty
    @JessicaReiskitty 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Woooow you are BEAUTIFULL✨😩❤️

  • @129cnay
    @129cnay 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You look amazing

  • @breelyn3119
    @breelyn3119 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You look so beautiful Ny ❤️❤️❤️

  • @indiadawkins5481
    @indiadawkins5481 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aweeee you’re so cute !

  • @leyoncedavis7704
    @leyoncedavis7704 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I want to do this sooo bad this video came just in time! I love it on you beautiful😍❤️

  • @lifewithlessie
    @lifewithlessie 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You still look beautiful hun ❤️😍

  • @neutralnutella5574
    @neutralnutella5574 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    "shawty has the buuundles"😂😂

  • @essamb949
    @essamb949 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful 💕

  • @dominiquemarshall8259
    @dominiquemarshall8259 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I cut my hair yesterday. You look beautiful!

  • @Orbt_
    @Orbt_ 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    NEW SUBBIE. I ABSOLUTELY LOVE IT!!! YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL!!

    • @nymcfly
      @nymcfly  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you❤️

  • @tawannacobb4144
    @tawannacobb4144 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am so proud of you because when I was your age I was too caught up in what everyone thought was cute and I felt like I couldn't be free now that I'm 30 I just did my big chop and my second time around going natural and you have to get your expression out whatever it is that is black women have with our hair out you know don't worry about what looks good to black men and I'm proud that you didn't even look at it like that that you not try being what everybody wants you to be 🏋️‍♂️💪

    • @cymandedrake8884
      @cymandedrake8884 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your words i felt through the phone girl😍

    • @nymcfly
      @nymcfly  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow. Thank you for seeing me! Yes it was exactly what I needed! Not anyone else🖤

  • @tarshanewson
    @tarshanewson 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Woww U Had Beautiful Hair But This Look Is Sharp On U Welcome To Your New Natural Hair Journey💞💞💞💞

  • @vmitch1018
    @vmitch1018 ปีที่แล้ว

    😮 congratulations on your cut. I know this is old. But I love the look 😍.

  •  6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You look so cute!!!

  • @melanielaura111
    @melanielaura111 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi there, this was so beautiful to watch! Thank you so much for sharing the whole experience with us. I know this video is old, but if you see this comment, any tips on how to get it even? It looks gorgeous and was so healing to watch. Thanks again.

  • @shawnetteamarie
    @shawnetteamarie 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I know I'm late to the party, but your hype girl is EVERYTHING 😍😍😍 & love the cut. You are too precious😊 Big chopping after 7 years myself tomorrow ❤

  • @LoreleiDream
    @LoreleiDream 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Ny, I just found your videos after looking up TWA. I was specifically looking for someone who had cut their hair after being natural for some time at a similar length. I feel like your reasons for cutting your hair are similar to why I'd like to do it as well. Watching this video is a semi-confirmation because I recently turned 21 and have had my hair natural since 10th grade too! So I just wanted to say thanks and that I'll continue to look to your videos for inspiration.

  • @96HollywoodPotential
    @96HollywoodPotential 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wasn’t even looking for a hair journey video but this popped up and I just cut my natural hair after 6 years this past feb lol. I had a little bit of heat damage on my ends but I also wondered how I would look with short hair so I just cut it randomly one night. It’s been a process already but I’m just now starting to like it kind of lol. Anyways I love your personality and glad I came across this vid.

  • @Tyequighae
    @Tyequighae 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You’re beautiful ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @kendradouglas9941
    @kendradouglas9941 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wait I need a supportive friend like Ny’s 🙌🏾😭

  • @ebonisykes861
    @ebonisykes861 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ayee you wild asf rn🤣 but it’s cute! I’m here for it, I’ve been wanting to cut mine too but Ik I’ll look like a lil boy fr😭

  • @islandgirl6885
    @islandgirl6885 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    To have a friend like yours though ❤

  • @Randomhumanbeing00
    @Randomhumanbeing00 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    OMG! I absolutely just love your farewell letter to your hair!! Beautifully put. I want to put it on my Facebook, obviously I give you credit, may I please?

  • @renryssen3485
    @renryssen3485 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    beautiful

  • @deletedchannelo
    @deletedchannelo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your friend 🥺

  • @KristennDawn
    @KristennDawn 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Girl I’m honestly about to do the exact same thing !!!

  • @sandraow3539
    @sandraow3539 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Short hair suits you soooo much gurl 😍😍❤️😩

  • @itskaiijaii9288
    @itskaiijaii9288 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg I cried with you in this video I just cut my hair two nights ago.

  • @shaina4751
    @shaina4751 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gorgeous 😍