BIG CHOP Q&A / PEP TALK

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ต.ค. 2024
  • FINALLY! Here you have it! All your questions answered.Thumbs up if you like this kind of content from me! Leave any questions you still have below.
    All the videos I mentioned are linked below.
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    V I D E O S
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    MakeUp: goo.gl/AZRnCB
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    ♡C O N N E C T♡
    NyMcFly.com
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    Nose Ring: Etsy

ความคิดเห็น • 51

  • @nymcfly
    @nymcfly  5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    If you big chopped, how are you feeling? Are you loving it? If you’re still debating, did I answer your questions? How are you feelingg?👀

    • @aliyahgibson1524
      @aliyahgibson1524 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ny McFly I love mine! Best decision I made!

    • @princesstesia7384
      @princesstesia7384 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Girll listen, I cut my hair yesterday & i immediately regretted it😭😭😭😭 Im starting to like it now though.

    • @_babygirlkiki
      @_babygirlkiki 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ny McFly feeling liberated, stronger within myself as a young woman, confident, more inspired, and I most importantly feel a higher rush of self love ❤️

    • @tendanisweet17
      @tendanisweet17 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I big chopped recently. I felt so free. TO FREEDOM 🙌🙌🙌

    • @alexnndder
      @alexnndder 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yesterday was my second big chop. I have been natural all my life with really long hair, but I have realized that I am not a hair person in the slightest. From 7 years of locs to a full buzz cut, to a fade, I love my hair short👌 (bwt I'm a 3c/4a mix)

  • @daviarosario3958
    @daviarosario3958 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I just big chopped. My hair was down my back. I always thought my hair was part of who I was. That it was the only thing that made me feel pretty. I don’t want to hold that insecurity anymore. So I went in my dorm and chopped 85% of it. Now I love it😭

  • @Helen-hc4ez
    @Helen-hc4ez 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I know this is a long time after your post but your video made me emotional. As a 57 year old woman, I have done battle with the idea of the big chop! I've wanted to do it but I beat myself up because I was weak and indecisive. I have had encouragement from my partner who even hooked me up with his barber! I finally am going to take the leap. I think TH-cam is less how-to but more about inspirational videos like yours. Thank you!

    • @ayoadereti365
      @ayoadereti365 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Helen O'Malley You’re so beautiful! I hope you went through with it, and if so, I hope you’re happy with the way it looks!

    • @Helen-hc4ez
      @Helen-hc4ez 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ayoadereti365 I did it! It was shocking at first but I LOVE it!

  • @xandria112
    @xandria112 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I feel like my hair holds lots of negativity & I’m always worried & insecure about how it looks.. this video really gave me hope & is a huge eye opener! I appreciate you❤️

  • @TamKam
    @TamKam 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Your hair is soooo cute short. I love short hair, I had a taper cute twice and Loved it more than longer hair. Like they say hair grows back so try whatever style you want boo boo it'll come back

  • @soriyazz
    @soriyazz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I swear to you I just 2 minutes ago on Instagram saying ladies stop letting your hair define you. Just a few min ago. You look pretty. I cut mine when I feel like it. Prob gonna cut it next spring. ITS JUST HAIR!!

  • @NajahSpringer-td2uz
    @NajahSpringer-td2uz ปีที่แล้ว

    You don’t understand how much your video inspired me to cut my hair!!! I wear my hair in an Afro all the time and I’ve gotten used to that being apart of me- because of what other people have told me! But I’ve wanted to cut it again and I feel so happy!!! I’m still alive and my hair is still growing! 💗💗

  • @anasapayne4112
    @anasapayne4112 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I have been holding onto a picture of you that I found on Pinterest because your cut is my INSPO when I do my 3rd big chop! 😂 I know.. I could use my own pictures, but the one I found of you on Pinterest is beautiful. I stumbled across your channel and I was like wait, I think that’s her and had the matching baby hair and nose ring and everything! Subscribed! So happy to have found you! 😂

  • @neshilewis
    @neshilewis 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for being honest about not wanting to tell your hair type. I think people need to really learn THEIR hair and see what style fits THEIR face. I am loving this whole look that you are serving us today!

  • @mirg2898
    @mirg2898 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I let a friend straighten my hair and let her convince me shes done natural hair before and the curls would be back. Then she burned all my curls off, and I had been natural for 4 years. 🤣😭 so instead of trying to transition again I just decided to let it all go, big chop part 2 lol. I felt so ugly, I thought I looked like a little boy. I finally started accepting it and realizing my hair doesn’t make me beautiful. I am who I am with or with out it. And then seeing you on my TL one day made me even happier. Now I’m loving it.

  • @kyeshac132
    @kyeshac132 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    You inspired me to do it! I’d been debating for months and I finally did it a few weeks ago and I LOVE it so much!

  • @denisesteward5357
    @denisesteward5357 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I Adore your short cut...looks fabulous on you!

  • @LyRiCss718
    @LyRiCss718 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You're beautiful. That makes cutting your hair easier. God bless keep the videos rocking

  • @raesrebornluv
    @raesrebornluv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yessss my hair is the same texture as yours and it’s thick. I love the ease of the short hair

  • @shenieces7839
    @shenieces7839 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm a new subscriber, and I really enjoy your videos, and you're gorgeous! I've big chopped twice and prefer having short hair because it's freeing.

  • @_babygirlkiki
    @_babygirlkiki 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ny I just wanna thank you so so much I recently watched your video of you cutting your own hair yourself in the mirror. I’ve been wanting to big chop for the longest, and I can finally say at 21 years old on November 3, 2018!! I Big Chopped ans it felt so so good, it was absolutely amazing and liberating. I feel like a brand new me, any negativity i just easily listen and not feel a way. I feel as if I can do anything I truly am passionate about without caring what anyone who has anything negative to say. I thank you in advance for that. PS: To anyone who’s considering, or second guessing themselves hunny think real heavy and quick know this is what you want truly, because once you start cutting there’s no going back. Not to sound scary, but just know this it’ll be the absolute best decision you’ll ever make. ❤️

  • @devvylonglegz
    @devvylonglegz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've been looking at pics, videos, ig posts of big chops lol. I've been natural for years, and while my hair has grown back nice and full, I want to see how much longer it will get. And I want it to be very healthy, most importantly! I want to start fresh!

  • @carmenitac
    @carmenitac 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Soooooo I had my second big chop on August 16th ( for numerous reasons not to be named) lol and I actually loved it at first. Now that it’s grown a bit I’m not feeling it anymore. I want to cut it again but I want some braids so now I’m confused lol. You look great!

  • @shawshaw9404
    @shawshaw9404 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're so beautiful 😩 Thanks for inspiring me to big chop

  • @curlswithnae2892
    @curlswithnae2892 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I big chopped in july with no regrets! Got alot of mixed opinions but I am enjoying my third big chop. Everyone should try it once.

  • @TerriTV
    @TerriTV 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    OMG I needed to see this video. I uploaded my big chop today and I had been regretting it

  • @trinityalexis8605
    @trinityalexis8605 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video & listening to the Care Package just made me cut my hair

  • @charderenee7008
    @charderenee7008 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I big chopped 2 days ago .. super low like you did. I honestly feel so much better now that I don’t have to deal with the stress of damage. Although I like it, I’m still trying to get use to my face with it lol & I’m still so nervous of what everyone around me will think & if it will grow back how I want.

  • @pytshamanie1058
    @pytshamanie1058 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love you 😭♥️

  • @JazminJayne
    @JazminJayne 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I did it!! For tooo long I've felt like my hair was a big part of my identity and honestly I wanted to be more than that. I was taking out my braids and they were taking so long so I decided now was the time to cut it all off. Honestly I feel weird. I thought I was feeling more confident and good, but (I know this isn't a measure of anything but still..) for the first time in my life I'm losing instagram followers by the hundreds as I'm putting pictures up, I feel like I can't look pretty without makeup...I feel kinda ugly honestly and like maybe I needed my hair. I wish I felt better about it! It's gonna be a while before it grows back so hopefully I can learn to love it in time!

  • @jennbazile7313
    @jennbazile7313 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Where is your chain from also ? Can you link it as well plsss so pretty

  • @someonesometimesnamedsims4323
    @someonesometimesnamedsims4323 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So beautiful. I love the indian nose ring. ❤❤

  • @nakeemcgary1704
    @nakeemcgary1704 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You know I use to trim my hair but I did not go floating inside the ocean I once went swimming inside an ocean the Pacific the Pacific ya l.p. at alki in Seattle just on the other side of the space needle ya lo ya lo ya lo but I would not swim in the ocean after trimming my lute

  • @sheryljosephs
    @sheryljosephs 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am loving your hair. Your beautiful 😘😍😘

  • @exoticbutterfly1
    @exoticbutterfly1 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Girl you spoke to me!

  • @rhaiajackson9544
    @rhaiajackson9544 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m debating if I have to face to pull of short hair though. My face is long and skinny. And idk if it will look right on me head shape.

  • @100huket
    @100huket 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    What kinda of lashes are those??

  • @rosemarywalker6856
    @rosemarywalker6856 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where’d you get your nose ring?

  • @jadathornton9199
    @jadathornton9199 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I big chopped in July and it’s been growing back so thick but it’s also very kinky and very tight curls so it’s been very hard to do like if I don’t do it it shrinks up and gets really nappy and extremely dry so I don’t know whet to do with it most of the time so I’ve been deep conditioning with lukewarm water it helps but if i think my hair products aren’t working Bc it’s still very dry

  • @kekeboo255
    @kekeboo255 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    But my head shape

  • @Jiiimmyneutronn
    @Jiiimmyneutronn 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your hair type, it’s kind of similar to mine in a way, I kind of have a looser curl pattern, like my hair gets super curly, but it’s coarse which kind of makes it the best of both worlds