So glad you had a smooth experience. Vaginal birth is such a rarity these days Doctors scare the patients into believing c-section is the only choice and don't even provide proper care. I'm getting married next year but listening to others stories I'm already terrified of delivery.
Oh my god, so relatable! 😂 I wanted to be a hero too and did not want any epidural. The pain was so unbearable that I yelled for one, but as they say, be careful what you wish for!! Due to a minor issue spotted in my blood work, the anesthesiologist did not allow an epidural 😭. I delivered within the next hour and a half without any pain medication and everything was worth it in the end! My son just turned 2 months old today and I remember everything like it happened yesterday! ✨ Congratulations to you and best wishes to your new family 🎉
I delivered in KKH last year. And god my experience was so similar. From epidural to breastfeeding challenges to amazing nurses…sending so much love to Tara!
Such a positive birth story ❤ We need more people who are like this Everyone is making labor look like a horrible experience As a newly wed I was really afraid after watching what people are putting out in their videos Hearing this gives me strength Thank you so much
Thanku satsysha for telling the reality of labour.. Am at 36 weeks pregnant hoping for my delivery will occur soon.. After you telling I won't watch any other TH-cam videos regarding delivery.. It scared me alot.. Better to be open-minded about my own experience
God bless you! All the very best. Irrespective of whether you have a normal delivery or a C-section, whether you get an epidural or not, the common thread is, that day will be one of the best days of your life. You will always smile thinking about the moment you met the human you've been carrying all these months.
@satshya I gave birth in NUH as well on March 9th. The experience was the awesome. My gynaecologist and the staff was amazing. And shout out to Anne she is an angel.
Thank you for sharing your experience, Satshya. Most of the women I have listened to, they make motherhood seem like a curse when in reality it is a privilege, with so many women being infertile these days for some or the other reason. Listening to you made me seem like it is a wonderful and fun experience, you would be a GREAT MOTHER to your lil one. Your vibes are immaculate, and this video just changed my entire narrative on this whole birth thing. Shout out to all the mothers who go through so much just to bring us into this world❤
They don't make motherhood seem like a curse they share the raw reality of it. Not everyone's lives are the same. Curse is when you're not treated well when you also are a patient and may suffer ppd and have to also take care of baby it's not easy. Not everything is butterflies and rainbows and sharing the actual truth doesn't mean they make it out to be "curse". Also it's defined not a privilege just because some people suffer from infertility. I don't think you understand what privileged means.
Everyone is different and so is their preferences and pain tolerance, stop invalidating others and the way you worded it can be so hurtful and ignorant towards women who are literally suffering from their pregnancy horror
you dont know what they went through...just becoz they were able to have a baby , it doesn't mean they don't get to talk about their pain and suffering. pregnancies and labors come in all shades. better to be aware of the negative sides too
@@user-ml4ps5cq3v it's not their problem that you want la la land stories about pregnancy and motherhood also I think they shouldn't even share their experiences with you since you're so ready to label
Haha. It was so much fun listening to your experience. I too recently had a normal delivery for my 2nd child (with no painkillers at all) in the month of Feb... I can totally understand what you had been through. Believe me the pain during final stages is unimaginable, haha. I was literally screaming top-notch such that the whole building would hear my scream and i was really feeling embarrassed for my screams lol (after watching your video I feel better that I was not overreacting)... Poor ladies who were in the initial stage of labour, heard my scream and panicked and wanted to go for C-sec... Thank you for sharing your experience. Kudos.
Such a comforting and good video for new moms to be! You did so good and little Tara has the best parents. One question: how does it feel to not be preggo anymore?😁
This is so sweet i’m exactly the same by watching a ton of videos and getting anxious 😂 (I’m not even pregnant but I am glad you had a positive experience despite all the stress and pain❤)
I really wanted to say this sis...this was the best video i watched today cause i am planning to have a baby at the same time bit afraid also...i started watching this video out of my curiosity and in middle started feeling very scary...but finally at the end of the video was really happy that i was smiling without a reason....thanku sooo much sis for this beautiful video❤
Thank you dear dear satshya❤❤❤❤ this was the first story i listened to completely due to the exact reasons u said in the disclaimer part🎉🎉 ❤❤cheers to you and im so happy i know you😊😊congratulations 😘😘
I had the similar experience when I gave birth my son one year ago. I was in pre labor 3 days and I am in epidural team too. It’s the best thing which one has discovered ❤️
Watching your video reminds me of my delivery in NUH last year… long labor and Epidural has saved me too 😂 beautiful birthing experience after that 😊 seems revisit to my own journey. Congratulations for your baby new Mama ❤
I remember I was sure from the beginning that I want an epidural… and I was in so much pain right before they administered it that I threw up. But right after getting that epidural shot…I had the best nap of my life… team epidural all the way 🤷🏻♀️
Hi Satshya. Congratulations on your first born.. I wish all the love and good health to the little one.. ❤ Can you please make a detailed video on your 9 months pregnancy journey? Would love to know what food you had and were there any restrictions and also your routine..
Thank you dear for being so honest. I wish i had a epidural so that i can enjoy my delivery little more better. It feels like a horror dream. After my delivery i am scared to see a pregnant woman. Lots of love and hugs to you and your little Thara ❤❤❤
Congratulations on the arrival of your precious baby ma'am! May motherhood bring you endless joy, love, and cherished memories. This is a very informative ma'am. Thank you so much for sharing your experience this will be helpful for everyone in future.
Hey, really well elaborated. It was like going through my two pregnancies again, super nostalgic. Unfortunately I had to deliver both my babies through C-section as my first born was a breach and my during my second pregnancy I had a condition called placenta previa totalis and hence vaginal delivery wasn't possible. Just one tiny almost nothing, breast feeding is lovely..it's the best bonding and I wouldn't have it any other way but formula is equally good and I know there are so many women out there who get so stressed out, hide and feel guilty about the fact that they cannot breastfeed and it's absolutely perfect to give formula. Hence breastfeeding isn't crucial. It's your health, both mental and physical and the baby's health that's crucial. Both my babies are both breast and bottle fed and thankfully they are absolutely fine. Apparently I too was a formula baby. So it's absolutely okay to give the formula. I wish you immense love
18:56 I had a C section and I breastfed my baby. There's no relation between the kind of delivery and breastfeeding so pls just correct the misinformation
It was not related :) they were two separate things I hoped for, but I guess the way my sentence is structured it sounds like they are connected / my bad!
When we lived in Singapore in 2015, they tell it would cost $10k in KK women n children hospital 🫣 So we came to India and delivered my 1st baby. And my second baby born in 2022 the total hospital expense was 2.2Lakh in India itself 😢
Congrats ..Just curious why did you opt for delivery in Singapore as you don’t hold PR.. as by birth citizenship is not given in Singapore and also hospitals are so expensive
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All ended well finally 😀. . ❤️❤️ And what's with the citizenship of your little one. .since birthing happened in a Singaporean hospital. . 😍 Congrats on the baby girl .. 🌸❤️🎉
Thanks for sharing❤..My husband moved to Singapore and I am in Kerala, currently 37 weeks pregnant..Wish me good luck😊 and Once again thanks for your video...it was really helpful ❤ May God bless you and family
Congratulations 🎉 so so happy for you! Did u have baby shower/ gender reveal/ baby moon those kind of things.. because given this age of social media one feels pressured to plan such things. What are your views about this? (Just curious😅)
Yes as a med student.. breastfeeding and it’s correct method is very very very important both for mother and child Good breastfeeding habits help good weight gain and sleep for baby and prevent complications like mastitis and cracked nipples in mother Shoutout to you too for pointing this out All the best for your further journey
Thanks for such an awesome insight into the whole process! Post delivery, how long did they give the painkillers for? Also, during birthing was Akash allowed to with you all along?
Hi , great input ! thank you for sharing ! Can you please tell which insurance company u had your policy with ? it would really help us .. we looked at cigna and axa both were very expensive.
Congratulations Satshya! ❤ Thank you for sharing your experience. ☺️ Much love to you! I have a question: did you receive any afterbirth care? Since you're in Singapore are there facilities you opted for regarding postpartum care, you know like the 40day care that you briefly mentioned in your video? Would love to hear your experience of that too, if you received it. 😊😊
Dear for vaginal delivery, you did any exercise or something? Plz let me know, as I am also in my 8th month Please reply And if walking is enough then for how long you walked daily?
From my birthday experience in Singapore to my birthing experience… 😂 TH-cam family came a long way ..❤
So true😂
That "Oh, my little one's gonna wake up!!" was sooo cute and wholesome
So glad you had a smooth experience. Vaginal birth is such a rarity these days
Doctors scare the patients into believing c-section is the only choice and don't even provide proper care. I'm getting married next year but listening to others stories I'm already terrified of delivery.
I didn't even knew she was pregnant!!
I got to know from her Instagram stories 😅
@@pranavchandra5502oh i didn't follow her on ig😅😅😅
I dint even know
@@priyankaanil7490 now you know 😀
Knoww
you are always so genuine and real....you are being so honest here and i totally appreciate it...
Oh my god, so relatable! 😂 I wanted to be a hero too and did not want any epidural. The pain was so unbearable that I yelled for one, but as they say, be careful what you wish for!! Due to a minor issue spotted in my blood work, the anesthesiologist did not allow an epidural 😭.
I delivered within the next hour and a half without any pain medication and everything was worth it in the end!
My son just turned 2 months old today and I remember everything like it happened yesterday! ✨
Congratulations to you and best wishes to your new family 🎉
Is your son’s birthday on 18 February?
I delivered in KKH last year. And god my experience was so similar. From epidural to breastfeeding challenges to amazing nurses…sending so much love to Tara!
@@asmis7979 i went with doc Smita and she was great :) But for me it was more to do with KKH trust. So i guess can go with any thr.
Such a positive birth story ❤
We need more people who are like this
Everyone is making labor look like a horrible experience
As a newly wed I was really afraid after watching what people are putting out in their videos
Hearing this gives me strength
Thank you so much
this is such a sweet video! such a positive one for someone who is planning to have a baby or is pregnant and is overwhelmed by the thought of it ! 💓
Thanku satsysha for telling the reality of labour.. Am at 36 weeks pregnant hoping for my delivery will occur soon.. After you telling I won't watch any other TH-cam videos regarding delivery.. It scared me alot.. Better to be open-minded about my own experience
All will be well, god bless you!! Come comment me back after lill one’s arrival ❤
Best of luck you've got this!
God bless you! All the very best. Irrespective of whether you have a normal delivery or a C-section, whether you get an epidural or not, the common thread is, that day will be one of the best days of your life. You will always smile thinking about the moment you met the human you've been carrying all these months.
All the best 👍 God bless
Wishing you a wonderful delivery 🤗❤️ and a great time with your little one
"oh, my little one's gonna wake up!".🥺
You made me 10% less scared of childbirth and pregnancy. Thankyou for this ❤
Satahya you are literally glowing! Youre so pretty ❤❤
@satshya I gave birth in NUH as well on March 9th. The experience was the awesome. My gynaecologist and the staff was amazing. And shout out to Anne she is an angel.
Oh wow you met Anne too? Wonderful! So happy for yiu
Congratulations again, Satshya!
Thank you for sharing this with us ❤️
Thank you for sharing your experience, Satshya. Most of the women I have listened to, they make motherhood seem like a curse when in reality it is a privilege, with so many women being infertile these days for some or the other reason. Listening to you made me seem like it is a wonderful and fun experience, you would be a GREAT MOTHER to your lil one. Your vibes are immaculate, and this video just changed my entire narrative on this whole birth thing. Shout out to all the mothers who go through so much just to bring us into this world❤
They don't make motherhood seem like a curse they share the raw reality of it. Not everyone's lives are the same. Curse is when you're not treated well when you also are a patient and may suffer ppd and have to also take care of baby it's not easy. Not everything is butterflies and rainbows and sharing the actual truth doesn't mean they make it out to be "curse".
Also it's defined not a privilege just because some people suffer from infertility. I don't think you understand what privileged means.
Everyone is different and so is their preferences and pain tolerance, stop invalidating others and the way you worded it can be so hurtful and ignorant towards women who are literally suffering from their pregnancy horror
@@Hidivyanka yes the op wants mother's who have suffered soo much to be all fake positive as giving birth isn't a literal risk of your life
you dont know what they went through...just becoz they were able to have a baby , it doesn't mean they don't get to talk about their pain and suffering. pregnancies and labors come in all shades. better to be aware of the negative sides too
@@user-ml4ps5cq3v it's not their problem that you want la la land stories about pregnancy and motherhood also I think they shouldn't even share their experiences with you since you're so ready to label
Haha. It was so much fun listening to your experience. I too recently had a normal delivery for my 2nd child (with no painkillers at all) in the month of Feb... I can totally understand what you had been through. Believe me the pain during final stages is unimaginable, haha. I was literally screaming top-notch such that the whole building would hear my scream and i was really feeling embarrassed for my screams lol (after watching your video I feel better that I was not overreacting)... Poor ladies who were in the initial stage of labour, heard my scream and panicked and wanted to go for C-sec... Thank you for sharing your experience. Kudos.
Hahah oh gosh you’re a WARRIOR
Such a comforting and good video for new moms to be! You did so good and little Tara has the best parents. One question: how does it feel to not be preggo anymore?😁
Heheh thanks Ivana ❤❤ oh gosh I can finally touch my feet! And bend down properly!! Feels amazing haha
Congratulations ,Satshya!
Innocence of children 🤗🤗
Congrats Satshya you will be an amazing mother💖
Thank you so much for the likes☺
aww i never expected u to post this, you’re still 23 like a college student to me😢
Is she only 23?
Congrats Satshyaaaa for your cutie pie!!!!!!❤
Was waiting for this video. Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉
🤗🤗 thank uuu
You are so funny!! I love your videos. All the best for this new chapter🥰Lots of love and blessings to your familyy
This is so sweet i’m exactly the same by watching a ton of videos and getting anxious 😂 (I’m not even pregnant but I am glad you had a positive experience despite all the stress and pain❤)
I really wanted to say this sis...this was the best video i watched today cause i am planning to have a baby at the same time bit afraid also...i started watching this video out of my curiosity and in middle started feeling very scary...but finally at the end of the video was really happy that i was smiling without a reason....thanku sooo much sis for this beautiful video❤
One of the most realistic and honest video on birth experience!
Women are so powerful to willingly get through this.more power ❤❤❤❤
Thank you for appreciating 🧡
Thank you dear dear satshya❤❤❤❤ this was the first story i listened to completely due to the exact reasons u said in the disclaimer part🎉🎉 ❤❤cheers to you and im so happy i know you😊😊congratulations 😘😘
This was so helpful!! (I’m not pregnant nor am I planning to have a baby anytime soon 😂)
Hahaha nvm you already have a gazillion baby goats 😉
Same
I really hope every mother to be gets such a beautiful and respectful maternity experience 💙
Congratulations Satshya !! I hope you both are doing well and so happy to see you becoming a mother!!!
Lots Of Love for u and the little one !!
Such a sweet mother you are! 🤩
Thanks for not making it sound scary! 😊
She feels like I have an elder sister 🥺❤️❤️
I had the similar experience when I gave birth my son one year ago. I was in pre labor 3 days and I am in epidural team too. It’s the best thing which one has discovered ❤️
WE NEED YOUR LIP COMBO HERE!!!
Watching your video reminds me of my delivery in NUH last year… long labor and Epidural has saved me too 😂 beautiful birthing experience after that 😊 seems revisit to my own journey. Congratulations for your baby new Mama ❤
I remember I was sure from the beginning that I want an epidural… and I was in so much pain right before they administered it that I threw up. But right after getting that epidural shot…I had the best nap of my life… team epidural all the way 🤷🏻♀️
Hey any side of epidural?
Hi Satshya. Congratulations on your first born.. I wish all the love and good health to the little one.. ❤
Can you please make a detailed video on your 9 months pregnancy journey? Would love to know what food you had and were there any restrictions and also your routine..
Thank you dear for being so honest.
I wish i had a epidural so that i can enjoy my delivery little more better. It feels like a horror dream. After my delivery i am scared to see a pregnant woman.
Lots of love and hugs to you and your little Thara ❤❤❤
Don't know if u saw or not but just wanted to inform you that you were there in the Indian Express magazine ❤
This is amazing Satshya!! Thanks for sharing this with us ❤
Congratulations Satysha and Aakash ❤🎉 26:22
Thank you so much Satshya, it was like I was hearing this from my sister or cousin. So happy ❤
Congratulations on your baby, and good luck with everything.
Congratulations on the arrival of your precious baby ma'am! May motherhood bring you endless joy, love, and cherished memories.
This is a very informative ma'am. Thank you so much for sharing your experience this will be helpful for everyone in future.
Congratulations on your beautiful birthing experience!
Omg! Still can’t believe Satshya is a MOM! Arghh😂❤️
Much love
Take care of yourself as well. Take smoll smoolll breaks in between. The coolest Amma❤
Hey, really well elaborated. It was like going through my two pregnancies again, super nostalgic. Unfortunately I had to deliver both my babies through C-section as my first born was a breach and my during my second pregnancy I had a condition called placenta previa totalis and hence vaginal delivery wasn't possible.
Just one tiny almost nothing, breast feeding is lovely..it's the best bonding and I wouldn't have it any other way but formula is equally good and I know there are so many women out there who get so stressed out, hide and feel guilty about the fact that they cannot breastfeed and it's absolutely perfect to give formula. Hence breastfeeding isn't crucial. It's your health, both mental and physical and the baby's health that's crucial. Both my babies are both breast and bottle fed and thankfully they are absolutely fine. Apparently I too was a formula baby. So it's absolutely okay to give the formula. I wish you immense love
I hope Tara would be like u!❤
18:56 I had a C section and I breastfed my baby. There's no relation between the kind of delivery and breastfeeding so pls just correct the misinformation
It was not related :) they were two separate things I hoped for, but I guess the way my sentence is structured it sounds like they are connected / my bad!
Congratulations 🥂 and god bless u and the baby. I hope i have sucha nice smooth delivery too 😊 ❤😊😊😊😊
congrats satshya!!!
7:57 ❤🥰😘 Mom 😊
Okay you are too honest with this one 💝
so wholesome!💜
Congratulations sis, all the best to ur motherhood ❤,I'm smiling all through the video🩷✨
You are glowing!
When we lived in Singapore in 2015, they tell it would cost $10k in KK women n children hospital 🫣 So we came to India and delivered my 1st baby. And my second baby born in 2022 the total hospital expense was 2.2Lakh in India itself 😢
Firsttt❤🎉
Congratulations! ❤
Thank you so much for sharing your experience with us 🤗
This is so helpful. Thanks for posting
You look so pretty, you're glowing ✨️ thank you so much for this video especially for someone like me who is dead scared of pregnancy 😂
Loved that you shared this. Could relate to your birth plan!
That's why people should make full body videos. I didn't even know that 😮😮.
But congratulations 🎉
Wow I had literal goosebumps n almost tears when you talked bout when she came out. ❤❤❤
🥹🤗
Congrats ..Just curious why did you opt for delivery in Singapore as you don’t hold PR.. as by birth citizenship is not given in Singapore and also hospitals are so expensive
yeah most come back home to india
Thanks for sharing Satshya, congratulations!
Congratulations on baby, Sarah is it? And well done on this video too. Be blessed.
Baby Tara ❤
Didi you always glow but nowadays you are glowing even more ❤
Loved Tara's special cameo voice!
Baki maine q dekha kya pata? Na I am from Singapore, na I want to give birth.
I didn't even got married... then also... listening your story....😂
Lots of love chechi❤
God bless you Akash and the Lil one too 😊
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All ended well finally 😀. . ❤️❤️
And what's with the citizenship of your little one. .since birthing happened in a Singaporean hospital. . 😍
Congrats on the baby girl .. 🌸❤️🎉
Birthing in singapore doesn't guarantee a citizenship for the child, especially if both parents are expats/foreign nationals.
I dont think singapore has citizenship by birth.
Even I delivered in NUH my doc was Vanaja she was so nice.., mine was c section in a covid time trust me I did not even miss family ❤❤
Thanks for sharing❤..My husband moved to Singapore and I am in Kerala, currently 37 weeks pregnant..Wish me good luck😊 and Once again thanks for your video...it was really helpful ❤ May God bless you and family
Congratulations 🥳 ❤
Congratulations 🎉 so so happy for you!
Did u have baby shower/ gender reveal/ baby moon those kind of things.. because given this age of social media one feels pressured to plan such things. What are your views about this?
(Just curious😅)
Yes as a med student.. breastfeeding and it’s correct method is very very very important both for mother and child
Good breastfeeding habits help good weight gain and sleep for baby and prevent complications like mastitis and cracked nipples in mother
Shoutout to you too for pointing this out
All the best for your further journey
Such a champ ❤
I m so curious to understand why you gave birth in Singapore...any specific reasons ???
We love you so much satshya 🤍
Just listening to her gave me chills!! I don't understand how's India the most populated country considering what women go through to give birth😭😭😭
Thanks for such an awesome insight into the whole process!
Post delivery, how long did they give the painkillers for?
Also, during birthing was Akash allowed to with you all along?
Id say the meds lasted me about 5-7 days (which was more than enough) & yes akash was allowed during the birth
@@SatshyaTharien ah ok, thanks!
Congratulations satshya
My mom is a nurse after ur video i came to that nurses are so amazing hattsoff😊
They are lifesavers!! Angels!!
Congratulations ❤ Thank you for sharing your experience
Good wishes to your family ❤🎉
Thanks for sharing your experience. Would you mind sharing which gyaneocologist you saw at NUH? ☺️
How old are u satshya? Just asking out of curiosity.
Hi , great input ! thank you for sharing ! Can you please tell which insurance company u had your policy with ? it would really help us .. we looked at cigna and axa both were very expensive.
This is 1000% exactly my experience. I delivered Dec 2023, how strange is this 😁🧿
Thank you this was very helpful ❤
You go girl 😍
Congratulations Satshya! ❤ Thank you for sharing your experience. ☺️ Much love to you!
I have a question: did you receive any afterbirth care? Since you're in Singapore are there facilities you opted for regarding postpartum care, you know like the 40day care that you briefly mentioned in your video? Would love to hear your experience of that too, if you received it. 😊😊
Dear for vaginal delivery, you did any exercise or something?
Plz let me know, as I am also in my 8th month
Please reply
And if walking is enough then for how long you walked daily?
How did you maintain skin during pregnancy didn't see any pimple on your face did you use aha and bha?