why I kept my pregnancy private, why I gave birth in Singapore, and other questions answered lol
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 23 มิ.ย. 2024
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i love that you are protecting your child's identity and her choice. better safe than sorry.
So true..!
the last answer was the most heart breaking-ly honest reason. When I would write articles on cyber security, I came across a topic that I had to research about for my article. It was on how baby cams were being misused and hacked to put the clips on dark web sites, for pedophiles to access. Never knew much about this before I made my research and it shattered me for a whole week. world could be a shitty place, we must take our cautions.
I also came across articles and videos where pedophiles hacked into Google and other smart home systems to creep on young children and talk to them through the device. 😣 The world is a scary place and the parent should do whatever they can, in their capacity to protect the privacy of their children.
I agree with your last answer 100%. I use to watch a lot of family channels before my pregnancy, but now that I am a mother to a 4 month old, I completely understand the need to be protective towards our child. I will never be comfortable sharing his pictures online even if my account is private. I respect your decision as a content creator!
Enjoy those 3 month milestones 😊
wow i already liked your content but this video made me fall in love with you. agree with everything you said about family channels and mommy vloggers. please dont feel pressured to share or post your daughter because we already love your videos. i think children should be left to be children and they should only be posted until they have the mental capacity to consent and say “Yes, i want my videos on a public platform, i dont mind what happens”. whether that be at 16 years or 19
I totally agree with everything you said. I also believe that you could have us fooled by saying that you had a "daughter" when in reality you had a son and hence created the ULTIMATE identity barrier for the child to ever be harmed in any way! That would be a masterstroke imo. Wow.
its so fun to listen to her , im only 20 and yet listening through the entire video just cus its so calming to listen to her
Yesa
Protecting the privacy of your kid is very important and i agree with you completely. I've seen certain other "parents" who has every second of their child's life from birth uploaded to social media. And I've heard their explanation as that they want to document their child's every moment. Which is completely understandable but that doesnt have to be documented publicly. Its not safe for your kids considering how the internet is a scary place and we dont know what kind people are watching videos behind the safety of the anonymity. Documenting your kids life shouldn't be on social media, it doesnt have to public or for the entire world to see. I'm glad you decided to protect the privacy of your child. Its a great decision that many people/influencers need to understand. Using your child for views is not nice. There are things that should stay private in everyone's life, but at this time of the internet thats a alien topic to many people. Everything doesn't have to be on the internet.
Hey, firstly congratulations! My heartiest wishes to and your family and loads of blessings for your cutie pie. I have been following your channel for a while and I had shifted to Singapore nearly the same time as you to study, work and live with my husband. Though, I absolutely love all of your content which is meaningful sensible and superrrr funny, this particular video made me feel like expressing my thoughts about the content of the video. I feel like you have been very very impactful with what you have said about protecting the privacy of your child and have put your thoughts very intelligently together, so that people like me (who does not have a kid) can understand the larger picture of what it can turn out to be. Before watching this video I had never really thought about sharing info about kids much and I probably would have shared without understanding the repercussions fully. But you made me understand with few but efficient explanations. it was super enlightening. Thanks and all the very best for your future ahead. ❤
Bro how long this this take to write??
@@MAYASANVI haha .. lesser than what it took you to read ! 😜just kidding. I wanted to express my honest thoughts. Sorry if it's too long 😅
It’s great you brought up the point about social media and kids. We don’t need to share so much of our personal information willingly and freely. Your point on the safety aspect is so so important. We don’t live in a very safe and secure environment and our child’s safety is of prime importance
Respect for you has grown 1000 times on your decision to not reveal ur pregnancy
All the answers were so sane, socially contextualised and aware. Great
You made some valid points there @Satshya 👌🏼 Spoke like a wise human and not the influencer people expect you to be all the time.
Much respect and love ❤
Your clarity of thought is pure gold if you ask me ❤
Thanks for being sooo real!! this my first full video I have seen of yours and you not wanting to show your child... I have the same reasons... There was an investigator too that exposed this child "bad stuff" ring almost of sorts and things he told...man it chilled my blood...So yes..Amazing thing you a doing for your kid!!
Omg I really appreciate the way you explained your points about the child’s privacy!!!!❤
The last answer was so thoughtful and scary in a way ( I hope you are getting it). Very well said ❤
Last answer. Nobody would have thought so deeply.
Thanks for that.❤
That article was really scary to read! I completely agree with your thought. Love the content🧡
you are really wise! i was literally nodding w you at the points in the end! love your perspective, so fresh yet creates a huge standard for social media! 💗💗💯
The last answer was on point!! Thanks Satshya 🙂
i completely agree with u..ur an amazing mother satshya....Im so glad you talked about this💗
Love your videos Satshya. Congratulations to the new parents!
U deserve more subscirbers satshya........hats off to u.....protecting your child's identity and her choice
massive respect for you satshya🫶🏼
Well said, Satshya 👏🏼 it’s your choice and as long as you’re happy with your decision for your child’s peace and security that’s all that matters. 😊
Ohk..now i know kya bolna h when everyone is asking : accidentally planned or planned accident everything is part of god's plan 😂❤
Always love hearing from you! Hope the baby and you are doing well ❤️🩹 can you please talk about your experience with mood fluctuations and just the general state of mind and thoughts during pregnancy. I am currently on my 7th month and feel extremely lonely in a house full of people. It's just hard to cope with these running emotions and would want to hear your take on it.. take care and please do make long format videos more often 🧸🤍
it's always a treat to watch you.💜
Excellent Decision and proud of you for keeping it private!!
One of the beautiful, authentic videos I recently have come across! :)
The last part about ur 2 reasons as to why you wont share your child pictures and details are exactly what I have in my mind for future when I have a kid.❤ I feel you are doing absolutely right considering how the world is changing :/
Your decision is great don't even think about changing it 😅❤ lots of love to you ❤❤
You were so mature and a responsible adult about this. You absolutely did the right thing
So comforting listening to you. When I'm on this type of a journey I'm going to watch this video again. Especially if I'm going to be alone....😊
You are actually great mom already! 💗
All your concerns and thoughts are very reasonable. All the love for your little munchkin ❤
Having following you fr a quite sometime.. And my no. 1 reason was -you felt so genuine..
❤congratulations on motherhood.. Lots of gd wishes❤
Hey Satshya,
About the last portion of the video, I really liked your approach and how you are handling things with knowledge and not impulse. However, I still would say please don't share any photo of the baby, we are in an era of AI that some photos also can be morphed to a grown up version, ik accuracy is always a question but I genuinely want you to be safe. Even if she grows up and insists to be on camera, I just want you to ensure you don't include her in until she is mature enough to have socials. I am no one but an internet stranger but I work in IT, I have heard some stuff on cybersecurity seminars and it has scared me so much that even though I am turning 22, I don't like being on social media.
No one should share baby pics online unless your baby is now an adult. The world is scary af. Good move 👏🏽
It literally scares the soul out of me to hear the entire thing what women go through during pregnancy....Idk why but I love children but again I feel it's really hard for me to think about that journey of those entire things one goes through one's pregnancy 😪 ....It shakes my soul I believe U & every mother out there whosoever has given birth must be so strong both mentally & physically .....More power & blessings to u & ur child Satshya & all new mothers out there😊
Raw, bold and fantastic as always❤
Such a real talk.. whatever you said about C section without demeaning anyone as anyways "its not a easy way of giving birth" and about postpartum, cyber security... superb 👏
All the pts were valid! U made a right move ,its a wise choice am happy for u❤
Finally i saw a matured content creator ❤ hat's off to you ❤️
Protect your child❤ you're doing the right thing❤
Amazing I really appreciate your sense of responsibility as a parent despite being a content creator ❤❤
👏👏awesome satshya.. U are doing a great job.
all your answers were very smart love that abut you lots of love to you ❤😊
you are such a protective momma...lucky baby...
You took a great decision for your daughter ❤
I wanted to put timestamp of things I liked in this video but I agree n loved everything u have said in this video and the way u have put "my thought process"
When it comes to posting about children, its not just parents, but even friends and family that need to be careful. If you want to post, maybe blur or hide their faces with an emoji. Or keep it a story with their faces hidden. Internet is a very scary place and subjecting little babies and kids to it requires careful consideration.
You are so mature and precise
women of character , really appreciate you Satshya
Really appreciate the last answer
Sensible QnA!! Appreciate your thoughts on sharing baby's pictures online💯
Very well explained and completely agree to what u said... I think all content creators should understand that their career shouldn't be built or moulded by kids or pets. The platform was created by them and must be developed or grown by their own talent.
Sooo happy fr u ❤❤❤i watched ur wedding outfit video.. Congratulations😊🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉fr ur 👶baby
WAIT THIS IS HOW I FOUND OUT OMG CONGRATS YOU'RE GONNA BE THE COOLEST MOTHER EVER
Lots and lots of love and respect ❤
Hi i rlly rlly love your videos , you are soo natural and btw im from SG too , and im tamil soo i luv your videos :)
That was wonderful ❤.
I'm a new mom too. Sharing it with my husband right away.
Your videos are amazing didi keep it up
I just love her. Congratulations ❤ and I wonder what few moms who earn money literally by posting about their kids and their whole content is just their kids, would feel after listening to the last few minutes of this video.
Amazing content.
satshya ji it felt good to hear about not showing ur child face on internet . I fully support you and I also suggest everyone to be like that beocz we shouldn't keep our kids life in danger and imagining that some stranger knows about our kids details is really wild and scary I wish that more influences do this. It's better be safe than sorry, your doing a great thing mam
love your skin
All points articulated so well ❤️ I need to know who asked that question about c-section, after having had one, i don't understand where they are coming from 😅
Hi when will you post the trying hyped products video 🎉❤😮
Pls share your experience of shifting with an infant and a dog
You're so brave, mama ❤
btw a question(in case you wanna answer : does epidural hurt after the delivery? As in, the area where they insert the needle? I couldn't find a answer online...
Hi hi! I answered it in the video :) it didn’t hurt for me but my friend felt a lot of soreness
No problem try next baby delivery in India easzzy.
Sorry NOT THAT MUCH EASZZY
Respect❤
Epidural for the win! Wohoo
Hii didi I'm ur no.1 fan love u soooooo much ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
omgg you saw this video so quickly!! hiii
@@SatshyaTharien ahhh u commented love u 💌💘💝💖💗💓💞💕💟❣❤🧡💛💚💙💜🤎🖤🤍
She is so cute 🤍🤍
damn this kinda sounds a burn on shrads
Hey can we eat momos noodles in first trimester
Ok I'm so worried now, I have a very private account wid only my close friends and family, where I post very lil things about me and my child.. Should i stop? Delete?? 😅😅
Agreed 👍🏻
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U r so pretty ❤❤ i just love you and your videos di 💕✨may jesus bless you and your family 💗💖
thank you 🙏
Ok, tomorrow morning gollory will cheer you up.
I was first by I didn't come in first I committed ❤❤❤
heyyyyy, first comment , obsessed
hi hi!
Private life must be kept “Private”!!!!
My mom had 3 kids through c section and I am the eldest one and due to her anemia and other health complications she opted for it and surprisingly she was just 21 at that time having go through that process at that age is commendable now at 16 when my mom talks about I just feel a bit pity for her due to these 3 c section in the span of 8 years her body is bit weak now and also her immune system is weak no matter how much she take care of her health she is not that healthy as any other 36 year old lady
I remember one father shared his 9-10 years daughter doing aerobics and many men commented she will be so flexible in bed and laughing.
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Is it a girl?
Yes
Yes her name is Tara
Yes her name is Tara
First of rude second of all yes it is she said
@@MAYASANVI what's rude in is it a girl?!!
Baby name?
Tara ⭐
You’re always in the same baggy tshirt 😢
Haha nothing fits anymore 😂😂
Phele I use to find her sooo annoying buttttt after watching a couple of her videos omggg I love her videos now she is so well spoken and sensible I could hear her talk for hours!!!!🤍🤍🤍
I am all for child's privacy 🙏🔏. May gods bless you ❤