Actually, with regard to the tears 'going back in', that doesn't happen. What's actually happening is there's a small duct in the corner of your eye that drains into your nose, and it's the reason crying makes you all sniffly. So it's not that you're not crying, you're just not crying fast enough to overwhelm you tear ducts.
im bawling my eyes out while I do the breathing...I was like.." nope it wont work.." tryed it.then booom!! Crying and it feels really good..Thankyou! Its people like you on this planet who restore my faith in human kindness..thanks so much!!
dill mann I can’t wait to feel that I need to release repressed emotions I have. Causing me so much depression and anxiety! Good to know it’s possible to release them and feel good.
about the past 10 months i’ve been feeling so depressed and i’ve been crying all the time every night but the past 3 weeks or so i literally can’t cry. my eyes water a lot but the tears just go back in
1 breath pattern 60min 2 autobiography journal. Memories Lena of now. 3 face fear consciously. Project in future of past. 4 ezefxisw. Intense. Shift energy.
I like that you're pushing the notion of actually going into the emotion and moving past them. Some people are pushing the notion that they can remove people's trapped emotions without having to express them, which I'm highly sceptical of. I had a very powerful breathwork experience yesterday where I cried out and released some deep stuff, related to the trauma of me being put in an incubator for 10 days at birth, without being held by a human being in that time, which imprinted on my a deep sense of isolation and alienation from other people, and closing myself of. I also had some exposure to Holotropic Breathwork, but it was difficult for me to get into it with groups of people at the time.
Sorry. Dont mean this as a mockery but genuine curiosity, how can you be so certain youre crying about something so far back? It feels extra to me but tbh, I lack the experience and am not into minimizing unknown experiences. Do you just have spontaneous thoughts or just s feeling like, when you fall in love you can tell for who it is, like you feel it
I'm curious which type of breahtwork you used. Looking for avenues to release my trapped emotions from abuse, neglectful and harsh upbringing on so many fronts. All I can feel is sadness in small doses or emotionally flat.
You can do holotropic breathwork yourself, actually that's usually required for the real emotional cleansing, trauma purging stuff I've noticed. Wim Hof usually just gives me a burst of energy and clear mind. When I do holotropic breathwork I have the exact same experience of mind-blowing stuff coming out, like purging emotions, things I didn't even consciously know. I did it in a group once and still teared up silently and the facilitators came (everyone had eyes closed). But when I do it completely alone I can absolutely purge it out. Just breathe super deep, and play around with the rhyhtm/speed, going for 30-90 breaths then retention. Same as Wim Hof really, just laying down and deeper and gets faster usually is how I do my version.
When I was a child, my parents told me that children don't have feelings. My mother use to punish me because I cried in school. It wasn't until later in life that I realized how damaging this was.
I did the breath work and it was amazing. First I was sceptical because I kind of hate meditating and never can focus on my breath for even 5 minutes. But I recently stopped with some drugs, a guy i liked didn't want me, and these things have triggered my very well known feeling of sadness, emptiness and abandonment. I almost never cry and this time I also wasn't able to. The pain I felt was just too much, so I gave the breathwork a chance. And let me say it was WILD. I have never experienced anything like this. I haven't felt this calm and complete for so long and I'm wondering - Is it really so simple?!? I've been caring this feeling for 15+ years, struggling with addictions so I do not feel it, 5+years in therapy - while all I needed to do was an hour of breath work?! :D Anyway, THANK YOU so much!
I tried the breathwork one for about 10 minutes and this is how I’ll explain what I felt: you know when you have a glow stick and you have to break it to release the fluid and make it light up? I swear I heard and felt that in my chest and it scared me right away but then I realized I felt a lot lighter. It helps a ton! Thank you!
@Jay H there are many different techniques, with different purposes… just as there is technology in the external world, we have access to technology of the inner world…
I'm mind blown. I recently came across all this information and then you popped up on my feed. Prior to finding your channel, I have already been releasing trapped emotions. Thanks for more tips. Hopefully now I can release them all. Thank you so much.
Thankyou so very very much! I did the breath work meditation and managed to release a lot of trapped emotions. I felt very emotional and an intense tingle sensation started at the top of my face and went down to my arms and chest. I have never felt anything like it and it lasted for the first part of the meditation. Feel truly blessed to be able to release it. I have been having talking therapy for 6 months and releasing them in there has been difficult and have only somewhat felt a sense of what I felt today. Thank you once again for this video and sharing your knowledge! Peace Out, and good luck on your journey! Good on you for facing your fears in doing so you have done so good! Much Love, Charlie
Only recently started watching your videos and I can't believe how much it has helped..my body had and has alot of trapped emotions .. keeping me in a certain addiction..but now I'm seeing real change
Check out my recent video elaborating on this one: th-cam.com/video/thwGTelkz64/w-d-xo.html It's got four ways to release trapped emotions as opposed to one.
Thank you so much for sharing! Just wanted to say I'm so proud of everyone on their healing and self discovery journey. Always remember you're so loved and you got this! ❤😊
I’m only 14 and I’m emotionally numb. It’s so frustrating it feels like a weird empty stone feeling in my chest that I can’t get rid of. Idk how I got in this place, I wasn’t really depressed or anything. I can’t feel nostalgia like I used to and my childhood stuff. I feel like it’s ruining my childhood.
I don't know what your qualifications are on print. But you've articulated and broken down so many things in this video that therapists have introduced to me over the years but I never really understood well until now. Thank you very much for sharing!
Got a choking sensation in my throat when I tried to find the place in my body where my grief for my beloved cat, who was deliberately killed, is stored. I thought it would be my heart, I often put my arms over my heart and remember what it was like to hold him, try to contact him by saying his name over and over. I still cry about him even though it's been two and a half years since he died. Maybe the choking sensation I experienced was because he died by being grabbed by the jaws of a Greyhound and shaken so that his airways were damaged. He died around five hours later in the lashing rain and darkness in an alley beside my house. When I found his cold and rigid body next day his gums had turned yellow from Jaundice caused by lack of oxygen to his liver. The jaundice and the fact that there were no bite marks or blood puzzled me for months and I thought that even though I'd heard dogs barking it couldn't have been them and he must have been poisoned. I'd heard the commotion with dogs and then the man next doors voice as he walked them in to his yard on leads around 5pm. He'd been shouting something to the neighbour who lives on the other side of the alley. I'd been about to go out, had been recovering from a foot operation and was slow. I hadn't gone fully out because it all stopped as I was about to go from the back door to the front. It didn't occur to me that my cat could have been killed, I didn't know that my neighbours were that bad and the anaesthetic was still in my system causing a stupefying effect. The man who killed him was a mentally ill man married to a dominating woman who has an obsessive hatred of me. The man killed himself five months later but she is still there and as malicious as ever, sometimes in cohorts with the neighbour her husband spoke to after using his Greyhounds to kill my cat. None of them told me what had happened and I feel so sad that my cat lay suffering in the rain for hours afterwards. He was a uniquely beautiful ginger cat, highly intelligent and gentle, I rarely fall in love but I did with him.
How often have you shared this? It sounds like you would benefit from talking about this to someone who is willing to just listen to you without judgement
@@OliverCowlishaw Thanks for your reply. I told a few people what happened. After I'd written on your comment section a short while ago I experienced a fluttering sensation on my left side, a few inches below the ribs. It was similar to that upset feeling of having sobbed uncontrollably and calming down even though I hadn't been sobbing, just silent tears. I was able to barely feel a primitive feeling of shock and horror, a realisation that my neighbour killed my cat who was like part of me, ( by using her husband. He was a bit simple and followed her orders in everything. When I say that my cat was like part of me, I mean that he was my baby and it gave me joy to hold him, even to look at him, and he'd sort of hug me back. I realised that it felt like murder because it was like an attack on me and indeed on two occasions prior to that she looked as though she was tempted to kill me using her car. I've never done anything to her or to anyone, all I wanted was to be left alone. There's no one to talk to about it but I think that it helped to find where the feeling was stored. There must be a reason that I haven't been able to let go of the sadness I feel about this, I never realised that there was also a sense of horror and deep down inner child type terror that people would do this.
You should try writing in as much vivid detail as you can about an event in childhood it doesn’t necessarily have to be a really bad event, but just choose something what you might of felt a little awkward or something that you could not quite understand in your past. Some of the stuff that comes up is incredible. Don’t bother with meditating it only serves usually to suppress emotions.
Not sure how else to show appreciation for this video (besides subscribing, which I obviously have!) but just want to say that your explanation really resonated with me and I’m super grateful I found it :)
Hey bro thanks for this. I think I have got emotions trapped mostly in my head and they relate to frustration and anger when they surface. The problem is my brain has sort of built a mechanism to not let out these emotions no matter how hard I try, they tightness and pain only increases
Very useful information thank you so much!! i have always felt very emotional after doing intense exercises like a strong need to cry and scream. i have always wondered why was that happening to me..
Thank you so much for sharing with Oliver❤ I already know this will help me. I found this video in the moment i was in front of my computer, opening a new page to start writing my kind of autobiographical journal and today was about self-knowledge and my emotional blockages. Thank you again❤
Hey Oliver, great video. Would you consider doing a video where you would make a full 30 or 60 or 90 minute video of you doing the deep breathing exercise with the technique that you use? I'm curious to try it out but I like to see a very concrete example in front of me so I can sort of "get" it the right way the first time, also I think it would help with motivation to complete the exercise from start to finish.
I had actually managed to stop suppressing emotions but one comment from someone I was only partly opening up to. Triggered me to start again. And I don't know how to release all I may not really experience bad emotions but I also don't experience hope at all.
Not bad . There are several ways to process and access and express stuck feelings . The ones you mentioned are mechanistic as opposed to interactive which have some advantages . However good intro. Also preferable to have a support person when doing the breathwork . Good luck
This is a great video! Love the techniques you share here. Personally I prefer using the Emotion Code - I can easily release 30-50 specific trapped emotions within an hour. Have you heard of the Emotion Code? I'd be happy to gift you a session if it interests you! Just love how this conversation is becoming so much more mainstream and empowering people to experience authentic freedom! Thank you for all you do here!
When your hands cramp up it’s generally because you’re pushing the exhale. I noticed in your video when you demonstrated it you were pushing your exhale. You should just allow the exhale to flow out and pull the in breath
Loved this video. But Im surprised that you didnt mention EFT (specifically FasterEFT) or Emotion Code. I feel like these are the top techniques for releasing emotion and trauma
Both are good entry level techniques but they can only get you so far on their own. At some point you will feel called to do something different to reach a new level
My sister is always humiliatig me... she uses some things from the past and throwing back to me... she calls me names and because some events when i was defending... they do not believe me... she do not understand how humiliated i was in that siuation i was attacked phisically and i had to defwnd... now she trows that in my face and supposrts the other person... now i do not have right to defend ... people humiliate me and i do not have the right to defend because i will stay alone... People take advantage to me...i am kind and they humilate me ... i can not do this anymore... The things that my sister humiliates me i an afraid that she will humiliate me in front of other people and when i start to shout to her to defend she will tell shut up now people see how bad you are... She never allows me to defend ...whwn i defend i aa the bad person... That emotion is trapped in my leg and it hurts so bad i can not release it... I feel that if i defend me verbally i will be alone... that's why i suffer...
I think you need to start ignoring her. Maybe then she will realize how terrible she is to you. Besides people like that thrive on your suffering so don't give her any emotion and she will stop.
You can’t respond to her effectively because of your stuck emotions. Think of yourself as a target - true grit willing to EFFECTIVELY take on the situation - not a helpless victim. Willing to have a better life? Reach out on UTube to: Dr Ben Leichtling “Bullies Be Gone” Dr. Nelson “Emotion Code” Look up Narcissist - The Little Shaman, Tony Evans (Australia), (Wolf) in Sheep’s Clothing (George Simon), Ross Rosenberg... I have been living that nightmare for 34 years - but now there is a huge upwelling of help from many online communities releasing emotions so we can function and no longer be sustainable to their attacks. I urge you to go for it. It is a world wide movement and you don’t have to be isolated and alone - you can catch the wave - be part of the new journey to a wonderful life God has to offer you. Blessings, Roberta
WoW, thank you ! So well explained, new valuable insights into the human condition and although the solutions are all 'hard work' the benefits certainly outweighs the effort we need to put in to expand our consciousness. May I suggest a look into Qi Gung, which might explain why the workout releases these emotions too - everything is energy and so are trapped emotions. Namaste
i did your deep breathing exercise and it made me feel very lightheaded but also weirdly hyper aware or focused,i didn't yet exprience any emotions coming to the surface,, maybe that requires a longer time because i only did it for a couple minutes but it felt like ages.
Thank you Oliver. You makecexcellent points. Im going to look if uv posted that breathing technique but if you havent, please would you share that with us. I have cptsd and indeed drfn have trapped emotions Im really working hard to release.
Oliver, thanks so much for sharing your experience and creating this wonderful guide for people. I too have found breath work very effective at releasing emotions - more so in group sessions where the effect seems to be magnified somehow. I’ve also found art therapy to be highly effective too. Thanks again. ❤
You've explained this so well. I have people in my life who don't cry. They want to, but it just doesn't come from within. I saw on Instagram about brathwork and wanted to know more. And I think this might help. Thank you❤
You are the first person I found on the internet that describes the same experience I have when I do that technique you call "breathwork". Have you found any studies or anything at all that explains that?
I just found you and so glad I did. This was most helpful. I do have a question. Might it be possible to use less music or at least not as loud? The music was just one phrase that was repeated endlessly and I found myself listening to this video 3 times so I could actually concentrate on what you were saying, not the repetitiveness of the music. I kept wanting to have the music complete the song.
So happy that I've found this video! Thanks a lot for mention the book, I could feel in my body that only talking therapy isn't enough... I feel just like Ece Erdem: got here for healing and stayed for the content but those eyes and the British accent added that special thing...
Thank you very much for the breathing method! I could really feel my hands tingling and my chest trapped liked you said. I only didnt feel the emotions. I was focusing on the breathening but after half an hour I stopped because it was also a little bit exhausting. Do you think when I do it longer next time the emotions will also show up? Thx
Hi Oliver, but on that link for breathing excercize I haven't found any explanation (there's a link to 1,5 hour audio - is that the explanation?) Maybe there's a short description of the technique? Thanks!
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I wish you the very best my friend!
Yep I’m hear on my journey and I was trying to avoid it but I feel like it’s apart of my next step
Trying to level up. I'm looking at past life trauma. I'm going to do all 4 of these starting tonight. So happy I'm here.
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I can’t cry, I haven’t cried in years. My eyes water but then the tears go right back in. No tears ever roll down. I hope this works.
so ?
@Sanne Nouwens i mean did it woek?
Same! It’s awful 😢
same thing happens to me, i often try because i feel like it will help me have emotions, watching the video now
Actually, with regard to the tears 'going back in', that doesn't happen. What's actually happening is there's a small duct in the corner of your eye that drains into your nose, and it's the reason crying makes you all sniffly. So it's not that you're not crying, you're just not crying fast enough to overwhelm you tear ducts.
im bawling my eyes out while I do the breathing...I was like.." nope it wont work.." tryed it.then booom!!
Crying and it feels really good..Thankyou! Its people like you on this planet who restore my faith in human kindness..thanks so much!!
ANd its PERMANENT!!!! The downstream effect is even better!!!
dill mann I can’t wait to feel that I need to release repressed emotions I have. Causing me so much depression and anxiety! Good to know it’s possible to release them and feel good.
I just did it again, bawling my eyes out also
How long did it take you?
Did you do it?
about the past 10 months i’ve been feeling so depressed and i’ve been crying all the time every night but the past 3 weeks or so i literally can’t cry. my eyes water a lot but the tears just go back in
Hey, I found your comment today. I hope you are doing okay and if not give Osho dynamic meditation a try!
Love you
1 breath pattern 60min
2 autobiography journal. Memories Lena of now.
3 face fear consciously. Project in future of past.
4 ezefxisw. Intense. Shift energy.
I like that you're pushing the notion of actually going into the emotion and moving past them. Some people are pushing the notion that they can remove people's trapped emotions without having to express them, which I'm highly sceptical of.
I had a very powerful breathwork experience yesterday where I cried out and released some deep stuff, related to the trauma of me being put in an incubator for 10 days at birth, without being held by a human being in that time, which imprinted on my a deep sense of isolation and alienation from other people, and closing myself of.
I also had some exposure to Holotropic Breathwork, but it was difficult for me to get into it with groups of people at the time.
Sorry. Dont mean this as a mockery but genuine curiosity, how can you be so certain youre crying about something so far back? It feels extra to me but tbh, I lack the experience and am not into minimizing unknown experiences. Do you just have spontaneous thoughts or just s feeling like, when you fall in love you can tell for who it is, like you feel it
@@creepermineh It's a good question
I'm curious which type of breahtwork you used. Looking for avenues to release my trapped emotions from abuse, neglectful and harsh upbringing on so many fronts. All I can feel is sadness in small doses or emotionally flat.
You can do holotropic breathwork yourself, actually that's usually required for the real emotional cleansing, trauma purging stuff I've noticed. Wim Hof usually just gives me a burst of energy and clear mind. When I do holotropic breathwork I have the exact same experience of mind-blowing stuff coming out, like purging emotions, things I didn't even consciously know. I did it in a group once and still teared up silently and the facilitators came (everyone had eyes closed). But when I do it completely alone I can absolutely purge it out. Just breathe super deep, and play around with the rhyhtm/speed, going for 30-90 breaths then retention. Same as Wim Hof really, just laying down and deeper and gets faster usually is how I do my version.
@@sarpsaysdo you have any guided breastwork?
When I was a child, my parents told me that children don't have feelings. My mother use to punish me because I cried in school. It wasn't until later in life that I realized how damaging this was.
Breath work, autobiographical journaling, face your fears and exercise. Thank you very much
I did the breath work and it was amazing. First I was sceptical because I kind of hate meditating and never can focus on my breath for even 5 minutes. But I recently stopped with some drugs, a guy i liked didn't want me, and these things have triggered my very well known feeling of sadness, emptiness and abandonment. I almost never cry and this time I also wasn't able to. The pain I felt was just too much, so I gave the breathwork a chance. And let me say it was WILD. I have never experienced anything like this. I haven't felt this calm and complete for so long and I'm wondering - Is it really so simple?!? I've been caring this feeling for 15+ years, struggling with addictions so I do not feel it, 5+years in therapy - while all I needed to do was an hour of breath work?! :D Anyway, THANK YOU so much!
I tried the breathwork one for about 10 minutes and this is how I’ll explain what I felt: you know when you have a glow stick and you have to break it to release the fluid and make it light up? I swear I heard and felt that in my chest and it scared me right away but then I realized I felt a lot lighter. It helps a ton! Thank you!
Excellent 😂
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That’s the sound of your body expanding and filling up space!
@Jay H there are many different techniques, with different purposes… just as there is technology in the external world, we have access to technology of the inner world…
This is just what I needed at this point in my journey.
You explain things brilliantly and I have a lot of work on my unprocessed emotions.
I'm mind blown. I recently came across all this information and then you popped up on my feed. Prior to finding your channel, I have already been releasing trapped emotions. Thanks for more tips. Hopefully now I can release them all. Thank you so much.
Thankyou so very very much! I did the breath work meditation and managed to release a lot of trapped emotions. I felt very emotional and an intense tingle sensation started at the top of my face and went down to my arms and chest. I have never felt anything like it and it lasted for the first part of the meditation. Feel truly blessed to be able to release it. I have been having talking therapy for 6 months and releasing them in there has been difficult and have only somewhat felt a sense of what I felt today. Thank you once again for this video and sharing your knowledge! Peace Out, and good luck on your journey! Good on you for facing your fears in doing so you have done so good! Much Love,
Charlie
I'm so glad it helped 💚
You have a lovely aura or energy. I’m glad you’re conquering your fear of the group 💞. Sending love and appreciation from the states.
Breathe into the belly, filling it up all the way, and THEN into the chest, all in one breath, and THEN let it all out freely.
Only recently started watching your videos and I can't believe how much it has helped..my body had and has alot of trapped emotions .. keeping me in a certain addiction..but now I'm seeing real change
That's amazing.
Wow this makes sense about shame and needs
Check out my recent video elaborating on this one: th-cam.com/video/thwGTelkz64/w-d-xo.html
It's got four ways to release trapped
emotions as opposed to one.
Those green eyes hipnotize me to watch this video. Honestly, I like your content and your green eyes of course 😍
Thank you so much for sharing! Just wanted to say I'm so proud of everyone on their healing and self discovery journey. Always remember you're so loved and you got this! ❤😊
I’m only 14 and I’m emotionally numb. It’s so frustrating it feels like a weird empty stone feeling in my chest that I can’t get rid of. Idk how I got in this place, I wasn’t really depressed or anything. I can’t feel nostalgia like I used to and my childhood stuff. I feel like it’s ruining my childhood.
Samee btw i am 14 as well
Research psychedelic therapy.
I don't know what your qualifications are on print. But you've articulated and broken down so many things in this video that therapists have introduced to me over the years but I never really understood well until now. Thank you very much for sharing!
Glad it was helpful!
Got a choking sensation in my throat when I tried to find the place in my body where my grief for my beloved cat, who was deliberately killed, is stored. I thought it would be my heart, I often put my arms over my heart and remember what it was like to hold him, try to contact him by saying his name over and over.
I still cry about him even though it's been two and a half years since he died.
Maybe the choking sensation I experienced was because he died by being grabbed by the jaws of a Greyhound and shaken so that his airways were damaged.
He died around five hours later in the lashing rain and darkness in an alley beside my house.
When I found his cold and rigid body next day his gums had turned yellow from Jaundice caused by lack of oxygen to his liver.
The jaundice and the fact that there were no bite marks or blood puzzled me for months and I thought that even though I'd heard dogs barking it couldn't have been them and he must have been poisoned.
I'd heard the commotion with dogs and then the man next doors voice as he walked them in to his yard on leads around 5pm. He'd been shouting something to the neighbour who lives on the other side of the alley.
I'd been about to go out, had been recovering from a foot operation and was slow. I hadn't gone fully out because it all stopped as I was about to go from the back door to the front.
It didn't occur to me that my cat could have been killed, I didn't know that my neighbours were that bad and the anaesthetic was still in my system causing a stupefying effect.
The man who killed him was a mentally ill man married to a dominating woman who has an obsessive hatred of me.
The man killed himself five months later but she is still there and as malicious as ever, sometimes in cohorts with the neighbour her husband spoke to after using his Greyhounds to kill my cat.
None of them told me what had happened and I feel so sad that my cat lay suffering in the rain for hours afterwards.
He was a uniquely beautiful ginger cat, highly intelligent and gentle, I rarely fall in love but I did with him.
How often have you shared this? It sounds like you would benefit from talking about this to someone who is willing to just listen to you without judgement
@@OliverCowlishaw
Thanks for your reply.
I told a few people what happened.
After I'd written on your comment section a short while ago I experienced a fluttering sensation on my left side, a few inches below the ribs.
It was similar to that upset feeling of having sobbed uncontrollably and calming down even though I hadn't been sobbing, just silent tears.
I was able to barely feel a primitive feeling of shock and horror, a realisation that my neighbour killed my cat who was like part of me, ( by using her husband.
He was a bit simple and followed her orders in everything.
When I say that my cat was like part of me, I mean that he was my baby and it gave me joy to hold him, even to look at him, and he'd sort of hug me back.
I realised that it felt like murder because it was like an attack on me and indeed on two occasions prior to that she looked as though she was tempted to kill me using her car.
I've never done anything to her or to anyone, all I wanted was to be left alone.
There's no one to talk to about it but I think that it helped to find where the feeling was stored.
There must be a reason that I haven't been able to let go of the sadness I feel about this, I never realised that there was also a sense of horror and deep down inner child type terror that people would do this.
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when he talked about not having needs met i just started crying haha (i felt nothing but at least there where tears)
You should try writing in as much vivid detail as you can about an event in childhood it doesn’t necessarily have to be a really bad event, but just choose something what you might of felt a little awkward or something that you could not quite understand in your past. Some of the stuff that comes up is incredible.
Don’t bother with meditating it only serves usually to suppress emotions.
Just want to say a massive thank you for the like to the breathwork clip, amazing!!!!
Anytime :)
Not sure how else to show appreciation for this video (besides subscribing, which I obviously have!) but just want to say that your explanation really resonated with me and I’m super grateful I found it :)
That's so sweet Sarah. Thankyou.
Just listen to music to trigger the feelings you felt in that experience and then figure out a solution to heal
This is agreat video Thank you ! I've been suppresing my emotions from my childhood until adulthood
An excellent practical guide, love your longer videos
much love to you from the group ,cheers mate
Thank you!! This was so helpful and straight to the point.
Hey bro thanks for this. I think I have got emotions trapped mostly in my head and they relate to frustration and anger when they surface. The problem is my brain has sort of built a mechanism to not let out these emotions no matter how hard I try, they tightness and pain only increases
Everybody's body mind has some resistance to resolving trauma. There generally needs to be a strategy of sorts.
Very useful information thank you so much!! i have always felt very emotional after doing intense exercises like a strong need to cry and scream. i have always wondered why was that happening to me..
Thank you so much for sharing with Oliver❤ I already know this will help me. I found this video in the moment i was in front of my computer, opening a new page to start writing my kind of autobiographical journal and today was about self-knowledge and my emotional blockages. Thank you again❤
Anytime. I did a video of a few months ago which is an expansion of this one so take a look at that one too if you like 💚
Hey Oliver, great video. Would you consider doing a video where you would make a full 30 or 60 or 90 minute video of you doing the deep breathing exercise with the technique that you use? I'm curious to try it out but I like to see a very concrete example in front of me so I can sort of "get" it the right way the first time, also I think it would help with motivation to complete the exercise from start to finish.
Added it to the list. Will do sir!
@@OliverCowlishaw Awesome, thank you very much, I look forward to it.
I had actually managed to stop suppressing emotions but one comment from someone I was only partly opening up to. Triggered me to start again. And I don't know how to release all I may not really experience bad emotions but I also don't experience hope at all.
Not bad . There are several ways to process and access and express stuck feelings . The ones you mentioned are mechanistic as opposed to interactive which have some advantages . However good intro. Also preferable to have a support person when doing the breathwork . Good luck
Roy Orbison Crying and It's over is a good place to start.
I'm here for healing but you're so cute, I can't help it. :)
Its the eyes😍
😁 same as me!
Same
Agreed.
yeah, i also fapped twice during watching this video
This is a great video! Love the techniques you share here. Personally I prefer using the Emotion Code - I can easily release 30-50 specific trapped emotions within an hour. Have you heard of the Emotion Code? I'd be happy to gift you a session if it interests you! Just love how this conversation is becoming so much more mainstream and empowering people to experience authentic freedom! Thank you for all you do here!
Wow , Mr. Oliver, you are mindblowingliy comprehensibly and intelligently explaining everything I have not up to now clearly understood.. THANK YOU
Thankyou!
Very helpful, thank you, but it's more about freeing trauma from sub-consious rather then from the body
I've read a quarter of the book (still readin it), thank you for making this video and letting me know exactly what I was searching for in the book.
When your hands cramp up it’s generally because you’re pushing the exhale. I noticed in your video when you demonstrated it you were pushing your exhale. You should just allow the exhale to flow out and pull the in breath
Thanks for the pointer 👌🏻
Very interesting! I loved hearing your perspective on this, if you have any more book recommendations on that topic i'd love to hear them!
Hey you! 💚 Yeah I might do a video on favourite books etc x
@@OliverCowlishaw fab idea 👌👌👌
Wow. What a fantastic person.
Thank you Oliver Cowlishaw for putting out this. Blessings & love to you. Namaste from Singapore.
I would just like to say thank you for making this information so simple 💓 love and light..
Anytime.
Bleeeeesss yoooou ! This greatly helped me 😆😆
Loved this video. But Im surprised that you didnt mention EFT (specifically FasterEFT) or Emotion Code. I feel like these are the top techniques for releasing emotion and trauma
Eh I don’t know about that
Both are good entry level techniques but they can only get you so far on their own. At some point you will feel called to do something different to reach a new level
I had to pause your video to right stuff down thanks for the help 🙂
breathwork
journaling
face your fears consciously (defeating the past)
very intense exercise
Thank you Ollie, so glad I've recently found your videos. May the gods shine their light upon your path.
Very well explained. Thanks
Thank you for sharing. Very interesting. I struggled to listen to you. Would be great if the lovely music could be toned down a bit. 😎😊
I've stopped using music altogether since this video really. Thanks for the feedback 💚
Makes sense, working with polyvagal theory and the vagas nerve.
This is all i needed man thank you 😢
Well done! I love it!
Nice video Oliver
Excellent presentation! You obviously know your stuff 👍
My sister is always humiliatig me... she uses some things from the past and throwing back to me... she calls me names and because some events when i was defending... they do not believe me... she do not understand how humiliated i was in that siuation i was attacked phisically and i had to defwnd... now she trows that in my face and supposrts the other person... now i do not have right to defend ... people humiliate me and i do not have the right to defend because i will stay alone... People take advantage to me...i am kind and they humilate me ... i can not do this anymore... The things that my sister humiliates me i an afraid that she will humiliate me in front of other people and when i start to shout to her to defend she will tell shut up now people see how bad you are... She never allows me to defend ...whwn i defend i aa the bad person... That emotion is trapped in my leg and it hurts so bad i can not release it... I feel that if i defend me verbally i will be alone... that's why i suffer...
I think you need to start ignoring her. Maybe then she will realize how terrible she is to you. Besides people like that thrive on your suffering so don't give her any emotion and she will stop.
You can’t respond to her effectively because of your stuck emotions. Think of yourself as a target - true grit willing to EFFECTIVELY take on the situation - not a helpless victim.
Willing to have a better life?
Reach out on UTube to:
Dr Ben Leichtling “Bullies Be Gone”
Dr. Nelson “Emotion Code”
Look up Narcissist - The Little Shaman, Tony Evans (Australia), (Wolf) in Sheep’s Clothing (George Simon), Ross Rosenberg...
I have been living that nightmare for 34 years - but now there is a huge upwelling of help from many online communities releasing emotions so we can function and no longer be sustainable to their attacks.
I urge you to go for it. It is a world wide movement and you don’t have to be isolated and alone - you can catch the wave - be part of the new journey to a wonderful life God has to offer you. Blessings, Roberta
This is so helpful. Thank you very much for making this.
The most helpful video I found on the subject. Thank you!
Your background music is soothing.
That's new. I thought it was too loud.
The breathwork helped so much. Thank you❤️🙏🏽
love this video idea! Breathwork is amazing and I love the topic. People should be more educated at self healing or releasing. thank you for thr video
WoW, thank you ! So well explained, new valuable insights into the human condition and although the solutions are all 'hard work' the benefits certainly outweighs the effort we need to put in to expand our consciousness. May I suggest a look into Qi Gung, which might explain why the workout releases these emotions too - everything is energy and so are trapped emotions. Namaste
i did your deep breathing exercise and it made me feel very lightheaded but also weirdly hyper aware or focused,i didn't yet exprience any emotions coming to the surface,, maybe that requires a longer time because i only did it for a couple minutes but it felt like ages.
Great explanation, Recently I started boxing it really helpful on releasing all the negativity.
Thank you Oliver. You makecexcellent points. Im going to look if uv posted that breathing technique but if you havent, please would you share that with us. I have cptsd and indeed drfn have trapped emotions Im really working hard to release.
Here you go: yourfriendinspirit.blogspot.com/2007/11/quantum-light-breath.html?m=1
Enjoy :)
Great concise video!
You did an excellent job 👏👍👌 in this video!
Love your videos, glad I found u today…💗
Can u plz share the link for background music if possible it was so soothing.
You have ridiculously gorgeous eyes and this video helped. Ty💛
Oliver, thanks so much for sharing your experience and creating this wonderful guide for people. I too have found breath work very effective at releasing emotions - more so in group sessions where the effect seems to be magnified somehow. I’ve also found art therapy to be highly effective too. Thanks again. ❤
Excellent, helpful, concise video! Thank you so much. 🙏❤️🌿✨
Really great video! Thank you so much for making this! Really helped me out
My pleasure 🙏🏻
Thanks for the amazing explanation
No problem :)
Very great video i will try those techniques that u mentioned please do more video
I most certainly will 😉💚
Love this video!! Do more!!!
This is such a great video, thank you! I am excited to start my breathwork journey
The Completion Process - Teal Swan
You can also do Lucid dreaming for realising emotions.
Nicely explained....
You explained so well...thanx❤️
BIOENERGETICS!
You've explained this so well. I have people in my life who don't cry. They want to, but it just doesn't come from within. I saw on Instagram about brathwork and wanted to know more. And I think this might help. Thank you❤
You are the first person I found on the internet that describes the same experience I have when I do that technique you call "breathwork". Have you found any studies or anything at all that explains that?
Unfortunately not mate. If you find any let me know though.
I just found you and so glad I did. This was most helpful. I do have a question. Might it be possible to use less music or at least not as loud? The music was just one phrase that was repeated endlessly and I found myself listening to this video 3 times so I could actually concentrate on what you were saying, not the repetitiveness of the music. I kept wanting to have the music complete the song.
Yeah I screwed up with volume. Unfortunately I can't change it now. Sorry!
This are great tips! Thank you for sharing.
Good to hear your personal experience and healing.
Thankyou Parm 💚
So happy that I've found this video! Thanks a lot for mention the book, I could feel in my body that only talking therapy isn't enough... I feel just like Ece Erdem: got here for healing and stayed for the content but those eyes and the British accent added that special thing...
Thank you for this video. So helpful.
Thank you very much for the breathing method! I could really feel my hands tingling and my chest trapped liked you said. I only didnt feel the emotions. I was focusing on the breathening but after half an hour I stopped because it was also a little bit exhausting. Do you think when I do it longer next time the emotions will also show up? Thx
Hi Oliver, but on that link for breathing excercize I haven't found any explanation (there's a link to 1,5 hour audio - is that the explanation?)
Maybe there's a short description of the technique?
Thanks!
He talks you through everything on the audio :)
Thank you for this