Imagine you’re minding your own business and someone comes out of the blue to destroy your life in every way because they’re not content with their own. Narcs literally sign people up for a sick game and then get mad because the unsuspecting players don’t want to participate after a couple rounds. I pray I never interact with one of these creeps on a personal level ever again.
Exactly! "Minding your own business". One I unfortunately knew was hell bent on destroying me because I would not acknowledge she was the best thing to happen since sliced bread! Is it my fault she is simply an insecure jerk? I never told her this, I simply avoided her then all hell broke loose!
There’s a lot of them,7 years with my 2 “friends” some are better at mutual relationships then others but it comes down to the amount of disrespect you can take until you realize how far you’ve gone from your dreams and realize your consoling with the devil,they have words for everything except the ones you need to hear to continue with them,they’ll run you over then reset for the next day,there a constant npc, my parents are pretty bad and I have nobody but I know the battlefield now
@@anoushkamarcin What about that old 'misery loves company', is that really true, or just a cliche people use? Because they really lower your self esteem to raise their own, right?
Wow this is just mind blowing how these pathetic individuals think & act they can be so cruel. Im so glad i walked away from this toxic person 12 mnths ago. I look back now on the relationship & im so relieved that i had the strength to walk away. Great video thanx for sharing. ❤
My only solace is how hurt must someone be to want to destroy a loved one . Once you see through this does the pain go away , no never it gets worse as your guilt takes over . I wouldn’t wish this on anyone ❤it’s makes you stronger and angry at the same time .
It’s still difficult to wrap your brain around it but total acceptance will help yet not always offers the comfort you need. I used to think in terms of ‘demonic’ too but I don’t want to loose myself in negativity.
Absolutely no cure for narcissism ! It’s ingrained in their childhood ! I’ve lived the nightmare and can honestly say I’m a better person for the experience ? Life is a mystery ?
Thank you for explaining ☺️ That's why I ended the relationship after 3 years because there was no future with this person and the level of control was too much.
Gang stalking is now what I am dealing with. I moved and went no contact so here came the relatives, flying monkeys. I still keep the no contact and joined a self defence class and wear a safety alarm watch. I have moved on from them but still they are after me.
My understanding of the cause of narcissism is that as a beautiful baby glamorous teenager and very smart/ intelligent, everything has gone their way, and they have got away with murder. I have seen her talk her way out of an obvious traffic offense, almost just using her big beautiful , eyes. Nothing was the limit. And this winning way later led her into a path of total freedom as she was almost worshipped.little thought for any one else.
A lot of us here listening know but.... the first step for someone to understand is to question themselves. When it feels wrong...something is not right. Thats where I began and was shocked by all I didn't know! Also...Christmas is upon us and for those in the trama bond, I hope you find peace knowing.... Most of us have been there... I'm 7 years in...still learning from her but...Life is good once I understood.
Hi Anoushka. And everyone. This it's really important I been there. Discrediting you gaslighting interfering with family. So be aware of this. They can't handle seeing you happy. Really seek people there's not therapy for them. Running aways fast never let others into your investment intill you are really secure. Thanks Anoushka. ❤
Thanks Anoushka. Listening to this picture you paint ,is as if you were present in my home before my wife very rudely discarded me, as our relationship lost its love after 45 years of marriage. Every thing that broke the love bond ,was my perception of her activity with a changing 3 party.
Complex personality disorder OR selfish, sadistic cowards who are influenced/ possessed by SAME DEMONS? … I know what my experiences have taught me… May God keep & guide all Truthseekers 🙏💪❤️🩹🌱🌻
2 quick tips I want to highlight. First, "Gaslighting" is when I say "have you seen my purse ?" , and they reply "it's your purse, how would I know ?,, what does it look like" ? - and they've stolen it, and know exactly where it is, but enjoy watching you stressed and defeated. And, secondly,, the child that is the adult "narcissist" , was a child who stole, and lied, and instigated alot of trouble with other children - never usually the same "other children" twice, a new child each time,, bribed other children with stolen goods, "not to tell" , and were very VERY intelligent - clever - at school, got awards for top marks, etc, yet enjoyed "playing games" at another child's - or adults - expense. - much to their mothers embarrassment and humiliation ( of which they enjoyed watching play out).
Well explained. I remember a narc set up a flying monkey to be armed with a knife and to threaten me to steal my bag and phone. Narc stood there, saw the whole thing and did nothing. From that moment, I realised he is used to this type of behaviour. Planning it and executing it. Must have done it before. A healthy person would NOT get satisfaction to steal and putting someone in harms way. The knife was fake. I only found this out when I confronted the loser narc. He admitted it with a huge smile..how ugly. He then said it will COST you to get it back. I left after that. I didn't get any of my stuff back and went no contact.
IMHO, Sharks don’t have a disorder, alligators don’t have a disorder, vultures don’t have a disorder, and narcissists don’t have a disorder. They’re a different species of human, just like a shark is a different species of fish . .etc etc. etc.
They are apex predators in most cases. Humans aren't supposed to kill other humans for the thrill of it. We're not sharks. We're humans who have a plethora of disorders...... Really not sure why you are trying to compare apples to plastic bags.
@@AnnaMishel we are unique snowflakes? Ask Chuck Palaniuk to elaborate on that when he made fight club. It would be a much more interesting conversation than this one. Not trying to be rude but nobody is the same even down to our DNA. So yeah makes sense but really not sure where you're going with it. Still. Ah such is life. I'm not a unique snowflake? Damn.
Thank you for your information your kindness and your empathy. It’s been almost a year since my discard. I still love her, but I would never enter into a relationship with her again thank you for that cause that wasn’t always the case.
I was dealing with a narcissist with a demonic spirit. I saw this thing’s eyes turn the blackest black. She has a black heart. She doesn’t care who she hurts
When I look back on most of the people in my early relationships. And who I see them as of today. And I'm talking about all kinds of relationships and institutions. Then I'm amazed that many of us have survived at all. I suppose that for the most part everything we perceive is a lie. At first this was extremely painful to acknowledge.
In fact I was to the point many times where I legitimately questioned if life was worth it. So it's a matter of balance. What is there that makes it worth being in this world? To face the storm and boredom.
Same, when I look back now with a clear mind. All of it was a lie. Everything not just one thing. You then realise many people and environments operate like this. When you truly heal. You just don't care. You don't want to feel the depression you felt when being around such people and places. You do lose yourself completely so why risk that again? You got OUT.
I got hoovered back in again after 12 days no contact. Just to be blocked within hours. Because I told him I didn’t want to see him. And now he’s back to his new supply. I feel so stupid 😢
This was my family , i got rid of them all . Spending a lifetime whit them you will come to the point of ( i dont care who you are , what you say , and what your missery is , stay the f*** away from me ) .
Oh sugar, your head and heart must be all over the place! You gonna have to start all over again, it's okay you'll deal with it. Ahh, I hate reading about people who took the Hoover. However, believe me, I know 100% how hard it is to resist the Hoover. It takes everything in you to resist the temptation. But by resisting is where you win!
@asadzeethree2726 thank you for your kind words. I feel stronger this go around. Mentally. I’ve got this. I know my worth. I know what to expect each and every time I go back but that’s the trauma bond working hard
I want to share an interesting emotion i have/am experiencing I've never heard addressed in the many videos I've watched regarding narcissistic personalities. I am definitely married to (for now) to a narcissist. In the last several months, I've been having very strong thoughts of a person I had emotional feelings for, like no other. The instant I first saw him, I was emotionally impacted like none before , since or I'm sure will never again. That relationship was 60 years ago. I get mental visions of him in various situations that apparently meant a lot to me. I obviously still have very strong feelings for him. When I discussed this with my counselor, she said my mind was taking me to happier times in my life. I guess it also takes my mind away from the sick mess I am currently living in. This type of situation has never been addressed in narcissist abuse videos, and I definitely show signs of abuse since he kissed his primary love interest infront of me. If you have any thoughts to share with me, please do so. Thank you. The information in your videos is excellent. 🎉 ❤
Be careful. As Anoushka tells in in one video, if you try to please them or glorify them too much these people can turn and despise you as a weakling. And that situation can become explosive.! They need to respect you, not walk over you, and your thoughtfulness can backfire. Bruce.
She tried to manipulate me and i straight called her out on her bs. She is so entiteled she really thinks she is chosen by universe and everything is there just for her. Thats what she told me on our third and last date. My answer was ofc FY. I never imagined it is possible such people even exist.
He decides whether my boy goes bike riding or not, and the lies he comes out with when he doesnot take him makes me so mad. He controls my boy by withholding his bike, he doesnot want to take him riding but he won't let me take him and he won't give my boy his bike, my boy is too soft to stand up to him😢
It involves both genders just as much as the other. It was thought to be mainly men in the past but nowadays with tech such as social media, it’s just as many women if not more. The narrative needs to change and get upto date, other than that, perfect 👌
How can you help the wife if you refuse to see the husband and the pain that is involved? Are you “being the professional”. Are you “looking out for her”. Or do you just want to push the narrative of how caring of a doctor or psychologist you are, which must remain a secret?
Always record crazy things, might be handy in court 😂😂😂❤😎✊👍 thank me later 😂 they will try to destroy everything in your life... Hard to deceive is called a difficult person..😂Djinkouje ❤😂😂😂🙈
He had a recording of me reacting to his dreadful behaviour, my reaction was crazy and I threw his clothes out, anyway through our seperation he made it known he had a recording of me. Months went by and my daughter (adult) and me went to his garage begging for money and he went ballistic, Bingo, my daughter recorded him lol
Believe me, I wish that I did and I never saw it over 10 years for her to do the opposite thing and get me arrested and get a restraining order then to have somebody else from my house within two weeks and a couple of months moving with my kid to them and just messing about trying to mess up my whole life and then everybody tells you that never liked her in the first place but love is blind that’s what they want you to think I worked and nice family provide everything that they needed just to get it off and back in my facerebound or whatever you want it to be a definite downgrade from me but samosas are taking my son which I don’t think he’s getting the care that he needs. I’m worried about him still have a court case to go to.
Imagine you’re minding your own business and someone comes out of the blue to destroy your life in every way because they’re not content with their own. Narcs literally sign people up for a sick game and then get mad because the unsuspecting players don’t want to participate after a couple rounds. I pray I never interact with one of these creeps on a personal level ever again.
Amen
Exactly! "Minding your own business". One I unfortunately knew was hell bent on destroying me because I would not acknowledge she was the best thing to happen since sliced bread! Is it my fault she is simply an insecure jerk? I never told her this, I simply avoided her then all hell broke loose!
I'm dealing with this now. It's horrible
There’s a lot of them,7 years with my 2 “friends” some are better at mutual relationships then others but it comes down to the amount of disrespect you can take until you realize how far you’ve gone from your dreams and realize your consoling with the devil,they have words for everything except the ones you need to hear to continue with them,they’ll run you over then reset for the next day,there a constant npc, my parents are pretty bad and I have nobody but I know the battlefield now
@Solossandytime will heal and reveal,your reap what you sow
Yes. That is what they do. Very pathetic individuals. They need to destroy you if they can’t control you.
💯
Pathetic in their own way, but sadly, also very dangerous.
Yes they have to hurt you so that you do not rise above them 😮
@@anoushkamarcin What about that old 'misery loves company', is that really true, or just a cliche people use? Because they really lower your self esteem to raise their own, right?
So on point.
Wow this is just mind blowing how these pathetic individuals think & act they can be so cruel. Im so glad i walked away from this toxic person 12 mnths ago. I look back now on the relationship & im so relieved that i had the strength to walk away.
Great video thanx for sharing. ❤
My only solace is how hurt must someone be to want to destroy a loved one . Once you see through this does the pain go away , no never it gets worse as your guilt takes over . I wouldn’t wish this on anyone ❤it’s makes you stronger and angry at the same time .
It’s still difficult to wrap your brain around it but total acceptance will help yet not always offers the comfort you need. I used to think in terms of ‘demonic’ too but I don’t want to loose myself in negativity.
Complex for real!!! Hope I NEVER meet One In my life again.
It's all about control and their benefits and their image and their feelings. You don't exist.just run away
Absolutely no cure for narcissism ! It’s ingrained in their childhood ! I’ve lived the nightmare and can honestly say I’m a better person for the experience ? Life is a mystery ?
Thank you for explaining ☺️ That's why I ended the relationship after 3 years because there was no future with this person and the level of control was too much.
Gang stalking is now what I am dealing with. I moved and went no contact so here came the relatives, flying monkeys. I still keep the no contact and joined a self defence class and wear a safety alarm watch. I have moved on from them but still they are after me.
Becareful, but fearless! If you let them they would worry you 2 death! So don't let them.😊
THIS IS TRUE BE CAREFUL AND STAY PRAYED UP 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
It’s the most immature waste of time. . !
It is safe to say you are a narcissist!
Deepest understanding I've been exposed to in over 3 years of listening to youtube life coaches and psychologists!!
My understanding of the cause of narcissism is that as a beautiful baby glamorous teenager and very smart/ intelligent, everything has gone their way, and they have got away with murder. I have seen her talk her way out of an obvious traffic offense, almost just using her big beautiful , eyes. Nothing was the limit. And this winning way later led her into a path of total freedom as she was almost worshipped.little thought for any one else.
A lot of us here listening know but.... the first step for someone to understand is to question themselves. When it feels wrong...something is not right.
Thats where I began and was shocked by all I didn't know! Also...Christmas is upon us and for those in the trama bond, I hope you find peace knowing....
Most of us have been there... I'm 7 years in...still learning from her but...Life is good once I understood.
Hi Anoushka. And everyone.
This it's really important
I been there. Discrediting you gaslighting interfering with family.
So be aware of this. They can't handle seeing you happy.
Really seek people there's not therapy for them.
Running aways fast never let others into your investment intill you are really secure.
Thanks Anoushka. ❤
Thanks Anoushka. Listening to this picture you paint ,is as if you were present in my home before my wife very rudely discarded me, as our relationship lost its love after 45 years of marriage. Every thing that broke the love bond ,was my perception of her activity with a changing 3 party.
I can attest to this
Narcissist is a pain.
Complex personality disorder OR selfish, sadistic cowards who are influenced/ possessed by SAME DEMONS? … I know what my experiences have taught me…
May God keep & guide all Truthseekers
🙏💪❤️🩹🌱🌻
2 quick tips I want to highlight.
First, "Gaslighting" is when I say "have you seen my purse ?" , and they reply "it's your purse, how would I know ?,, what does it look like" ?
- and they've stolen it, and know exactly where it is, but enjoy watching you stressed and defeated.
And, secondly,, the child that is the adult "narcissist" , was a child who stole, and lied, and instigated alot of trouble with other children - never usually the same "other children" twice, a new child each time,, bribed other children with stolen goods, "not to tell" , and were very VERY intelligent - clever - at school, got awards for top marks, etc, yet enjoyed "playing games" at another child's - or adults - expense. - much to their mothers embarrassment and humiliation ( of which they enjoyed watching play out).
Well explained. I remember a narc set up a flying monkey to be armed with a knife and to threaten me to steal my bag and phone. Narc stood there, saw the whole thing and did nothing. From that moment, I realised he is used to this type of behaviour. Planning it and executing it. Must have done it before. A healthy person would NOT get satisfaction to steal and putting someone in harms way. The knife was fake. I only found this out when I confronted the loser narc. He admitted it with a huge smile..how ugly. He then said it will COST you to get it back. I left after that. I didn't get any of my stuff back and went no contact.
IMHO, Sharks don’t have a disorder, alligators don’t have a disorder, vultures don’t have a disorder, and narcissists don’t have a disorder. They’re a different species of human, just like a shark is a different species of fish . .etc etc. etc.
True
They are apex predators in most cases. Humans aren't supposed to kill other humans for the thrill of it. We're not sharks. We're humans who have a plethora of disorders...... Really not sure why you are trying to compare apples to plastic bags.
We don't eat humans to survive. We may need to use humans to survive and at the other humans demise but yeah we're not sharks hunting for food.
@@laurenmahony2345 my point is. . . . there is more than 1 kind of human!
@@AnnaMishel we are unique snowflakes? Ask Chuck Palaniuk to elaborate on that when he made fight club. It would be a much more interesting conversation than this one. Not trying to be rude but nobody is the same even down to our DNA. So yeah makes sense but really not sure where you're going with it. Still.
Ah such is life. I'm not a unique snowflake? Damn.
Thank you for your information your kindness and your empathy. It’s been almost a year since my discard. I still love her, but I would never enter into a relationship with her again thank you for that cause that wasn’t always the case.
You just gave a perfect description of my current situation with my brother. Thanks for this video. 100% accurate and very helpful.
Great video
I was dealing with a narcissist with a demonic spirit. I saw this thing’s eyes turn the blackest black. She has a black heart. She doesn’t care who she hurts
Ugh don't label things as otherworldly. "demonic spirit" come on! It is all normal human stuff.
@ I know what I’m talking about. Do you believe in Satan? I’m a Christian.
Powers and principalities, the unseen.
@@phyllistouchstone7136Oh them black eyes! Let’s say I can totally relate! Stay strong! 🙌
I have noticed the black eyes truly evil
When I look back on most of the people in my early relationships. And who I see them as of today. And I'm talking about all kinds of relationships and institutions. Then I'm amazed that many of us have survived at all. I suppose that for the most part everything we perceive is a lie. At first this was extremely painful to acknowledge.
In fact I was to the point many times where I legitimately questioned if life was worth it. So it's a matter of balance. What is there that makes it worth being in this world? To face the storm and boredom.
Same, when I look back now with a clear mind. All of it was a lie. Everything not just one thing. You then realise many people and environments operate like this. When you truly heal. You just don't care. You don't want to feel the depression you felt when being around such people and places. You do lose yourself completely so why risk that again? You got OUT.
Anoushka❤ ur strength & resilience ❤
THAT'S TRUE MAAM THANK YOU SO MUCH BECAUSE AT THE END OF THE DAY I GREW UP LIKE THAT 🎉🎉🎉🎉NOW I'M GETTING HELP TH-cam VIDEOS AGAIN
Perfectly nailed it Anoushka..thank u for this video
This one is very good. I truly recommend it. Thank you
It's amuzing how clever the bird thinks it is
I got hoovered back in again after 12 days no contact. Just to be blocked within hours. Because I told him I didn’t want to see him. And now he’s back to his new supply. I feel so stupid 😢
This was my family , i got rid of them all .
Spending a lifetime whit them you will come to the point of ( i dont care who you are , what you say , and what your missery is , stay the f*** away from me ) .
Oh sugar, your head and heart must be all over the place! You gonna have to start all over again, it's okay you'll deal with it. Ahh, I hate reading about people who took the Hoover. However, believe me, I know 100% how hard it is to resist the Hoover. It takes everything in you to resist the temptation. But by resisting is where you win!
@@Smellslikenarcspirit. 👍💯
@asadzeethree2726
thank you for your kind words. I feel stronger this go around. Mentally. I’ve got this. I know my worth. I know what to expect each and every time I go back but that’s the trauma bond working hard
Good word Anoushka!
Its been a year, and this is starting up during the holidays...Trying to show up where she thinks I'll be.
Thanks Anouska for your information 🙂👍
Thank you so much I battle with a female narcissist
My question is how do you get over the brain fog?
I want to share an interesting emotion i have/am experiencing I've never heard addressed in the many videos I've watched regarding narcissistic personalities. I am definitely married to (for now) to a narcissist. In the last several months, I've been having very strong thoughts of a person I had emotional feelings for, like no other. The instant I first saw him, I was emotionally impacted like none before , since or I'm sure will never again. That relationship was 60 years ago. I get mental visions of him in various situations that apparently meant a lot to me. I obviously still have very strong feelings for him. When I discussed this with my counselor, she said my mind was taking me to happier times in my life. I guess it also takes my mind away from the sick mess I am currently living in. This type of situation has never been addressed in narcissist abuse videos, and I definitely show signs of abuse since he kissed his primary love interest infront of me. If you have any thoughts to share with me, please do so. Thank you. The information in your videos is excellent. 🎉 ❤
I start speaking to myself and easily call u out
You Are Definitely CORRECT 💯🌹🌹🌹
Your shirt / jacket is amazing !!! ☺️✨️
He actually told me he was going to ruin my reputation.
Thank you Anoushka. I'm in too deep and have become a lapdog (married her, kids). How in the world do I break free? Ugh!
Walk away and waste no more time . Your life is too precious and you only get one go at it
Be careful. As Anoushka tells in in one video, if you try to please them or glorify them too much these people can turn and despise you as a weakling. And that situation can become explosive.! They need to respect you, not walk over you, and your thoughtfulness can backfire. Bruce.
Amazing video big time ❤
I ignored his put downs and blame cos I knew it wasn’t true it didn’t work
She tried to manipulate me and i straight called her out on her bs. She is so entiteled she really thinks she is chosen by universe and everything is there just for her. Thats what she told me on our third and last date. My answer was ofc FY. I never imagined it is possible such people even exist.
I was told he would destroy me he promised.
It is NOT your job to fix broken, crazy or stupid - all the attributes of a narcissist! Live your life in peace by getting rid of the narc.
Thanks for this video. I m asian human. I thinking what do you said about narsistik personal disorder are really happen in here
He decides whether my boy goes bike riding or not, and the lies he comes out with when he doesnot take him makes me so mad. He controls my boy by withholding his bike, he doesnot want to take him riding but he won't let me take him and he won't give my boy his bike, my boy is too soft to stand up to him😢
It that’s your son as well, it should be a mutual agreement with your partner. I would take him out bike riding anyway.
Didn’t live with him couldn’t isolate me doesn’t know people I know
He wasn't abused as a child. He was indulged.
It involves both genders just as much as the other. It was thought to be mainly men in the past but nowadays with tech such as social media, it’s just as many women if not more. The narrative needs to change and get upto date, other than that, perfect 👌
Does a person who tells you they are NOT a narcissist probably be one?
If you think they are then most likely they are!
Yes & Yes!!
Observe their actions, often actions speak louder than words.
So how do I deal with a narcissist husband?
I am married to a narcissist and it has not been easy.All I want to do now is a divorce him.
I don’t go out now I’m mostly in the house
How can you help the wife if you refuse to see the husband and the pain that is involved? Are you “being the professional”. Are you “looking out for her”. Or do you just want to push the narrative of how caring of a doctor or psychologist you are, which must remain a secret?
Love
Most people in the comment section are narcissists.
Always record crazy things, might be handy in court 😂😂😂❤😎✊👍 thank me later 😂 they will try to destroy everything in your life... Hard to deceive is called a difficult person..😂Djinkouje ❤😂😂😂🙈
He had a recording of me reacting to his dreadful behaviour, my reaction was crazy and I threw his clothes out, anyway through our seperation he made it known he had a recording of me. Months went by and my daughter (adult) and me went to his garage begging for money and he went ballistic, Bingo, my daughter recorded him lol
And we sent it to my solicitor, we have to be as sly as them 😢
Believe me, I wish that I did and I never saw it over 10 years for her to do the opposite thing and get me arrested and get a restraining order then to have somebody else from my house within two weeks and a couple of months moving with my kid to them and just messing about trying to mess up my whole life and then everybody tells you that never liked her in the first place but love is blind that’s what they want you to think I worked and nice family provide everything that they needed just to get it off and back in my facerebound or whatever you want it to be a definite downgrade from me but samosas are taking my son which I don’t think he’s getting the care that he needs. I’m worried about him still have a court case to go to.
Baby no..!!!
Really love like the world
Don't know
Just one
Potential.
I hope the potential is good❤
Hello
I love u
Pure evil
Word salad ! ….. ?
I do love u like evil
Is it
You gotta be joking
And ig it s your mom ???
Baby no..!!!