[ADVICE] MY-PHILOSOPHY: "INNER-STRENGTH" I have found that simply "loving myself" (inner-child) is a powerful tool against most types of social-dependency/vulnerability. Example: In my mind, I visualise a picture of my younger self (family albums might help). And I 'remember' what the emotion of genuine love felt like. And then I project those emotions onto the mental visualization of my younger self. I meditate and hold that 'state of mind' for as long as I can. The result? I feel my conscious energy resignating with positivity and renewed strength. And my anxiety immediately evaporates away. At the very least, depending on my levels of anxiety, this mediation practice aids to 'evaporate' much of it. You can do the same thing with "trying to 'remember' temperatures, e.g. hot or cold. And then project that memory onto a visualised heat source (all within your minds eye). You will 'feel' the effects immediately." I hope this proved helpful.
............................. "Evil" is the antithesis to the virtue: 'humanity'. Humanity is the characteristic that defines the human spirit. Humanity is symbiosis across humans and society. 'Humanity' exceeds 'social-darwinism'. ............................. NEURO-PERSONALITY ............................. "SENSORY-FEELERS" ARE LARGELY RESPONSIBLE FOR SPREADING DISINFORMATION AND HATE TOWARDS ENTJ/INTJ (AGAINST "THINKERS" IN GENERAL)-BOTH IRL AND ON THE INTERNET; DESPITE THOSE NEURO-PERSONALITY TYPES BEING A BLESSING TO SOCIETY AND ALL OF MANKIND! THEY DESERVE BETTER! 😤 'ESFJ', 'ESFP', ISFP and ISFJ are a pathogen to humanity, and 'then' Cluster-B (depending on they neuro-personality). THEIR "FEELINGS 'IS' THEIR REALITY", THEY ALSO HAVE A MALICIOUS-MIND BY DEFAULT (excluding normal ISFJ). DESPITE HAVING MALICIOUS INTENT THEY ARE ALL EMOTIONALLY-WEAK AND PRONE TO COVERT/VULNERABLE-NARCISSISM. ............................... Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality'). I recommend researching 'narcissistic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissist'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)! European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!! They are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-r@pe, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim/damsel in distress, creating "flying-monkeys", and 'bribing' others (with money or BJ) to attack, or at times, kill someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Emmett Till. xSFP and ISFJ (2W1) are the most complicit, narcissistic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependents' (look up the definition). Like ESFJ, XSFP's "feelings 'is' their reality." Most are covert/vulnerable-narcissists. ISFJ often perceive things only on the surface level (even by sensor standards), are suckers for a “pretty face", and their neuro-psychology makes them the ideal narcissitic-codependent and pawn to the ESFJ (blind-loyalty, surface level perception, susceptibility to covert-narcissism). Lastly, ISFJ are notorious for impersonating other people's identities IRL and on the internet; while ESFJ-9W1 superficially appears like an ENFJ, they have different 'neurology' and psychology. Both XSFJ are superficial by nature and perceive reality at face-value/surface level. SUMMARY Evil personality: 'ESFJ' (ALL), ESTJ (Cluster-b), ISFJ-2W1 (covert-narc/enabler). ESFJ-9W1 superficially resembles ENFJ; different 'neurology' and psychology. [Secretly] Evil and narcissist-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL), and ISFJ (2W1 enable ESFJ). ☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict as a distraction (at other people's expense, truly evil). Spread the word! Thank you. ___________ Research ref: Raudha Athif, Ghislaine Maxwell, Marilyn Monroe, Karen, ESFJ-narcissists, ESFJ-neurology, Gaslighting, Amber Heard, Fake feminism, Rising of a shield hero (Malty-'ESFJ'; XSFX spread disinformation online. ISFJ is the main culprit; ISFJ largely perceive things on the surface level), 'Brood-parasitism’- XSFJ natural psychology. __
FEMALE-ATTRACTION/ATTRACTION/ROMANTIC-ATTRACTION/FEMALE-PSYCHOLOGY/HOW-TO-ATTRACT-FEMALES/FEMALE-MANIPULATORS/MANIPULATE-FEMALES/FEMALE-DATING-FEMALES Answer: 1) 'Emotional Appeal'; how you make a female "feel" is the key to her everything. Give her 'emotional-thrills' via manipulation.
2) Physical Attraction; even this is connected to emotional appeal/attraction. Both points connect the strange stereotype between women "fucking" psychopaths, "bad-boys"; and ESTP/Chad, ENFP, etc. [I strongly believe that most women cannot differentiate between the sensation of "emotional-thrills" (including 'lust') and [genuine] "love"]. Love-definition. What is "love"? Answer: Excessive humanity for an individual. Since most women are emotionally immature (they are good at masking it; do not confuse the two), they are exceedingly susceptible to emotional manipulation/exploitation. Since society over-values and over protects the human female, the female can afford not to develop their sentience, intelligence, emotional residency and self-control. This makes them both unintelligent/narcissitic and emotionally-vulnerable. Of the MBTI, most females are "feelers" and unintelligent-feelers, i.e. "sensor-feelers" (population density), no less. They are more vulnerable to this realization/exploit, i.e. that physical attraction and emotional manipulation (via "thrills") is the key to attracting the female. NOTE: Most women monitor and prey on the emotions of a man. They attempt to corrode the emotional resiliency of a male child; thus making the male child susceptible to her "whining", narcissitic-complaints (self-serving and emotionally abusive [whims]); psychological manipulation via emotional abusing their sons will make them a dull, and disposable pawn (who exists solely to serve women and lay down their lives, as thought and conditioned via social norms). _
📍 "ENXP cannot naturally differentiate between 'LUST' and 'love'. Their values is naturally different to that of INXJ. External influence is responsible for seeming deviation. ENXP view relationships like "food-samples". Like all sensor-feelers, ENXP have neurology for PROMISCUITY!" The MBTI compatibility chart is rigged by 'ENTP' and ENFP. The "manipulative" chart is tailored and authored by 'ENTP'! With their expansive "social" capabilities (and promiscuity), they are able to spread information and disinformation far and wide. ENTP are the archetypical clown/jester and they have the consciousness of one too. Most are unhealthy, matter of factly, and even with so-called "healthy" ENTP (lacking cluster-b) they are not naturally moral and their level of humanity is surprisingly low-they still have it; however it is initially low. Case in point, ENXP 'naturally' view romantic relationships and dating in a manner that is akin to "sampling food". ENXP and INXJ are NOT compatible!!!! Please understand that the [rampant spread of] MBTI chart is baseless (the smarter ones among them already know this-willful creatures, i.e. ENTP)! It's viral spread is nothing more than a 'global, generational trolling' and "ethical-rape". It's goal is large scaled attempt to violate other people's romantic-fate/experiences, while violating their instinctual romantic preference! MBTI compatibility chart has the psychological finger-print of ENTP. It aids the miserable romantic experience of INXJ; the clown's attempt to violate their fated destiny! ENTP are naturally unethical and promiscous. Cluster-B (add-on) furthers this. Look past the surface and you will realize that the MBTI chart is 'rigged' and tailored for ENTP (morality/humanity is not instinctual for them; healthy ones can understand it's value once seen, however it is not an instinct for the promiscous Jesters and archetypical-clowns [ENTP]). They've even screwed over most sensors, e.g. trying to "encourage" ESFP x ISTJ. *×Facepalm×* Any deviation is solely due to external influence (referring to ENxP neuro-psychology). ENxP are the archetypical thots/hoe of the intuitives. And sensor-feelers are 'naturally' promiscuous. Again, external factors are responsible for seeming deviations, e.g. parents influence, religion, INXJ instinctual moral influence. "Tell a lie loud enough and long enough and people will believe it." - Adolf Hitler The quote is likely the compounding inspiration for the collective ENTP's creating and spreading this generational lie and ethical-rape (violating INXJ's natural, instinctual romantic standards and requirements). Cluster-B [ENTP] is another contributing factor. In the end, a relationship between ENXP and INxJ ends at the introverts expense. While ENXP have the neurology for promiscuity (like sensor-feelers, ... And ESTP, to a surprisely lesser extent), INXJ risk so much more and they do suffer a miserable ["romance"] existence due to those types; their promiscous-neurology, and low levels of self-control. What's worse, is that most ENTP have cluster-B. They add to the miserable existence of INFJ (and INTJ, albeit to a lesser extent). INFJ instinctual/subconscious romantic standards is literally other [genuine] 'INFJ', and then ENFJ. The natural associate and partner for the ENTP and ENFP is 'ESFP' and ESTP. This is matter of fact. INXJ is only the ENXP's favourite "food"/'essence' to sample. PS: If nothing else, please investigate this (and you will find that it is true). You can expect the ENTP thot-network to attempt to hide the evidence. Please spread this information. It helps! The MBTI is rigged (and most ENTP have cluster-B). Willful, narcissitic clowns.
Indeed. My ex narc was in contact with her first bf (who she’s now with) pretty much our entire relationship from Feb 2019 to October 2022. I didn’t know it at the time, found out post relationship.
CORRECT! Go no contact and don’t respond to their creepy taunts. Even negative responses are fuel for those degenerates. Ignore them that will hurt them.
I know now, but how could a person like that make such an empact and leave you worse off when they gave Zero, and I do mean 0!!! Someone, please 🙏🏾 tell me something. Does my life suck that bad??
@@samothom7333it means you have to love yourself more my friend. Yourself is and should always be number 1. Love is blind. Be strong and never have someone disrespect you in every way. Love yourself and sho that to everyone and your life will be better and more peaceful.
@@samothom7333No. It is not. They made you feel boring. Because they are boring. They made you feel ugly. Because they are ugly. Remember their cruelty. They made you feel worthless. Because they are worthless. Their jealousy of us all drives them. Reject their toxicity. This stuff is theirs. Not yours. You'll feel better over time. You deserve better than their con games.❤
Complete No Contact. Zero Dark Thirty! I blocked anyone associated with her. I will never speak to anyone close to her. They have nothing I want or need
they think they are teaching You a lesson by being gone and you will behave now and follow suit and toe the line this time, sometimes they are just checking in to see if you have changed your tune yet and disappear rapidly again.
This is so true. Just recently there was 10 months of no contact from me after I confronted them on their abusive behavior and explained their mistreatment to them. Out of the blue after ten months a two word text message to me with a vague question. I responded against my better judgement because it's a family member then they stopped communicating with me. My genuine feeling is that they just wanted to see if I would respond and when I did they thought "ok I'm winning" and then decided to try to pretend they don't care about me by giving me the silent treatment. These people are the definition of immature. And all they accomplished by doing this was harden my decision not to respond next time.
I divorced him, embarrassed him by revealing his secrets, cut off all mutual friends and he is now with someone else. I don't think I will ever hear from him again.
I had a narcissist contact me a few months after a discard, she came back with some sob story and fake apology playing on my sympathy. I forgave her and let her back into my life only to be discarded again for someone else after 5 months.
I’m so sorry 😢this happened but they do circle back and hook you in and because we want to believe they have changed and they are better towards us we go back. But it takes time to come to the realisation that it’s not true
FEMALE-ATTRACTION/ATTRACTION/ROMANTIC-ATTRACTION/FEMALE-PSYCHOLOGY/HOW-TO-ATTRACT-FEMALES/FEMALE-MANIPULATORS/MANIPULATE-FEMALES/FEMALE-DATING-FEMALES Answer: 1) 'Emotional Appeal'; how you make a female "feel" is the key to her everything. Give her 'emotional-thrills' via manipulation.
2) Physical Attraction; even this is connected to emotional appeal/attraction. Both points connect the strange stereotype between women "fucking" psychopaths, "bad-boys"; and ESTP/Chad, ENFP, etc. [I strongly believe that most women cannot differentiate between the sensation of "emotional-thrills" (including 'lust') and [genuine] "love"]. Love-definition. What is "love"? Answer: Excessive humanity for an individual. Since most women are emotionally immature (they are good at masking it; do not confuse the two), they are exceedingly susceptible to emotional manipulation/exploitation. Since society over-values and over protects the human female, the female can afford not to develop their sentience, intelligence, emotional residency and self-control. This makes them both unintelligent/narcissitic and emotionally-vulnerable. Of the MBTI, most females are "feelers" and unintelligent-feelers, i.e. "sensor-feelers" (population density), no less. They are more vulnerable to this realization/exploit, i.e. that physical attraction and emotional manipulation (via "thrills") is the key to attracting the female. NOTE: Most women monitor and prey on the emotions of a man. They attempt to corrode the emotional resiliency of a male child; thus making the male child susceptible to her "whining", narcissitic-complaints (self-serving and emotionally abusive [whims]); psychological manipulation via emotional abusing their sons will make them a dull, and disposable pawn (who exists solely to serve women and lay down their lives, as thought and conditioned via social norms). _
I was in this same situation with my narcissist ex. He use and discard me and block me on his phone. I felt bad at first, feeling better now but he is a manipulative player. Sorry for the next person, but good riddance to old rubbish.
After 7 yrs no contact with ex narc boyfriend, up pops a Facebook message from him! When I saw that face in the circle I immediately swiped it off my phone WITHOUT reading the message! Went to my settings and re blocked him l. The next day I got 3 hang up calls in a row from him! Now THAT'S the true narc reacting to my rejection!
*words of wisdom* FEMALE-ATTRACTION/ATTRACTION/ROMANTIC-ATTRACTION/FEMALE-PSYCHOLOGY/HOW-TO-ATTRACT-FEMALES/FEMALE-MANIPULATORS/MANIPULATE-FEMALES/FEMALE-DATING-FEMALES Answer: 1) 'Emotional Appeal'; how you make a female "feel" is the key to her everything. Give her 'emotional-thrills' via manipulation.
2) Physical Attraction; even this is connected to emotional appeal/attraction. Both points connect the strange stereotype between women "fucking" psychopaths, "bad-boys"; and ESTP/Chad, ENFP, etc. [I strongly believe that most women cannot differentiate between the sensation of "emotional-thrills" (including 'lust') and [genuine] "love"]. Love-definition. What is "love"? Answer: Excessive humanity for an individual. Since most women are emotionally immature (they are good at masking it; do not confuse the two), they are exceedingly susceptible to emotional manipulation/exploitation. Since society over-values and over protects the human female, the female can afford not to develop their sentience, intelligence, emotional residency and self-control. This makes them both unintelligent/narcissitic and emotionally-vulnerable. Of the MBTI, most females are "feelers" and unintelligent-feelers, i.e. "sensor-feelers" (population density), no less. They are more vulnerable to this realization/exploit, i.e. that physical attraction and emotional manipulation (via "thrills") is the key to attracting the female. NOTE: Most women monitor and prey on the emotions of a man. They attempt to corrode the emotional resiliency of a male child; thus making the male child susceptible to her "whining", narcissitic-complaints (self-serving and emotionally abusive [whims]); psychological manipulation via emotional abusing their sons will make them a dull, and disposable pawn (who exists solely to serve women and lay down their lives, as thought and conditioned via social norms).
📍 "ENXP cannot naturally differentiate between 'LUST' and 'love'. Their values is naturally different to that of INXJ. External influence is responsible for seeming deviation. ENXP view relationships like "food-samples". Like all sensor-feelers, ENXP have neurology for PROMISCUITY!" The MBTI compatibility chart is rigged by 'ENTP' and ENFP. The "manipulative" chart is tailored and authored by 'ENTP'! With their expansive "social" capabilities (and promiscuity), they are able to spread information and disinformation far and wide. ENTP are the archetypical clown/jester and they have the consciousness of one too. Most are unhealthy, matter of factly, and even with so-called "healthy" ENTP (lacking cluster-b) they are not naturally moral and their level of humanity is surprisingly low-they still have it; however it is initially low. Case in point, ENXP 'naturally' view romantic relationships and dating in a manner that is akin to "sampling food". ENXP and INXJ are NOT compatible!!!! Please understand that the [rampant spread of] MBTI chart is baseless (the smarter ones among them already know this-willful creatures, i.e. ENTP)! It's viral spread is nothing more than a 'global, generational trolling' and "ethical-rape". It's goal is large scaled attempt to violate other people's romantic-fate/experiences, while violating their instinctual romantic preference! MBTI compatibility chart has the psychological finger-print of ENTP. It aids the miserable romantic experience of INXJ; the clown's attempt to violate their fated destiny! ENTP are naturally unethical and promiscous. Cluster-B (add-on) furthers this. Look past the surface and you will realize that the MBTI chart is 'rigged' and tailored for ENTP (morality/humanity is not instinctual for them; healthy ones can understand it's value once seen, however it is not an instinct for the promiscous Jesters and archetypical-clowns [ENTP]). They've even screwed over most sensors, e.g. trying to "encourage" ESFP x ISTJ. *×Facepalm×* Any deviation is solely due to external influence (referring to ENxP neuro-psychology). ENxP are the archetypical thots/hoe of the intuitives. And sensor-feelers are 'naturally' promiscuous. Again, external factors are responsible for seeming deviations, e.g. parents influence, religion, INXJ instinctual moral influence. "Tell a lie loud enough and long enough and people will believe it." - Adolf Hitler The quote is likely the compounding inspiration for the collective ENTP's creating and spreading this generational lie and ethical-rape (violating INXJ's natural, instinctual romantic standards and requirements). Cluster-B [ENTP] is another contributing factor. In the end, a relationship between ENXP and INxJ ends at the introverts expense. While ENXP have the neurology for promiscuity (like sensor-feelers, ... And ESTP, to a surprisely lesser extent), INXJ risk so much more and they do suffer a miserable ["romance"] existence due to those types; their promiscous-neurology, and low levels of self-control. What's worse, is that most ENTP have cluster-B. They add to the miserable existence of INFJ (and INTJ, albeit to a lesser extent). INFJ instinctual/subconscious romantic standards is literally other [genuine] 'INFJ', and then ENFJ. The natural associate and partner for the ENTP and ENFP is 'ESFP' and ESTP. This is matter of fact. INXJ is only the ENXP's favourite "food"/'essence' to sample. PS: If nothing else, please investigate this (and you will find that it is true). You can expect the ENTP thot-network to attempt to hide the evidence. Please spread this information. It helps! The MBTI is rigged (and most ENTP have cluster-B). Willful, narcissitic clowns.
I’m still on my journey to recovery and I’m not looking back. My abuser just sent me an email this week, year and a half later, after discard. I’m not reading it, I’m not looking back.
💪🏽💪🏽 love this… no don’t look back there is nothing there to see. Of course he contacted you. Don’t take the bait. Just concentrate on you and your life 💕
FEMALE-ATTRACTION/ATTRACTION/ROMANTIC-ATTRACTION/FEMALE-PSYCHOLOGY/HOW-TO-ATTRACT-FEMALES/FEMALE-MANIPULATORS/MANIPULATE-FEMALES/FEMALE-DATING-FEMALES Answer: 1) 'Emotional Appeal'; how you make a female "feel" is the key to her everything. Give her 'emotional-thrills' via manipulation.
2) Physical Attraction; even this is connected to emotional appeal/attraction. Both points connect the strange stereotype between women "fucking" psychopaths, "bad-boys"; and ESTP/Chad, ENFP, etc. [I strongly believe that most women cannot differentiate between the sensation of "emotional-thrills" (including 'lust') and [genuine] "love"]. Love-definition. What is "love"? Answer: Excessive humanity for an individual. Since most women are emotionally immature (they are good at masking it; do not confuse the two), they are exceedingly susceptible to emotional manipulation/exploitation. Since society over-values and over protects the human female, the female can afford not to develop their sentience, intelligence, emotional residency and self-control. This makes them both unintelligent/narcissitic and emotionally-vulnerable. Of the MBTI, most females are "feelers" and unintelligent-feelers, i.e. "sensor-feelers" (population density), no less. They are more vulnerable to this realization/exploit, i.e. that physical attraction and emotional manipulation (via "thrills") is the key to attracting the female. NOTE: Most women monitor and prey on the emotions of a man. They attempt to corrode the emotional resiliency of a male child; thus making the male child susceptible to her "whining", narcissitic-complaints (self-serving and emotionally abusive [whims]); psychological manipulation via emotional abusing their sons will make them a dull, and disposable pawn (who exists solely to serve women and lay down their lives, as thought and conditioned via social norms). _
She is the past and she did derail my life, but at the time I think I needed a wake up call. Change my boundaries and got me out of the rut I found myself in that made our paths cross to begin with. Once I had enough of that drug scene I climbed back up to the life I had before only this I did it with a better more knowledgeable version of myself and ever since I've had more success then ever before. For some reason having strong consistent boundaries and learning how to be more assertive has made me more attractive to the right woman and less attractive to the wrong ones. Think about that for a second. The three times I've been hoovered I was like her kryptonite. She went from high to rejecting me in 20 seconds. Lol Those covert narc women don't mess with strong confident assertive men, they go for the weak vulnerable men that put up with their drama like I did for a little while. Could never live with her and couldn't really stand to be around her at the end. So I left her out of the blue on a date I told her this isn't my life drugs aren't the answer and I have a life waiting for me and she wasn't part of that life so I paid for dinner gave her a hug and said goodbye. It was the right way to end a relationship. I did go no contact for six weeks. Then answered one of her texts and then she went commando on my ass when I rejected her hoover. Calling the police on me calling my family saying crazing things that weren't true. Shoeing up at my work in hysterics. Trying to hack one of my bank accounts. There's more but you get the picture. I couldn't believe the behavior of this woman. It freaked me out and I started reading online cause the one friend of hers told me she was a narc. So I read and holy heck she is. Every behavior trait of a covert vulnerable narc she showed me. Psychology is amazing stuff. Coverts are down right dangerous destructive disturbed people.
I actually discarded a narcissist and politely refused to further my relationship with her. To which she replied back after few days of no contact, "Are you happy?" Which probably meant, Are you happy without me?
I’m not joking sadly. 2 weeks ago reamed me 3 voice messages for something her countries goverment did. Accused me of bothering her, she contacted me as I’ve been and will remain silent since Jan 1. Can’t do no contact yet…
NO, no contact means “no contact”. Do not fall their trick, you’ll be right back where you started. I’ve even had a phone call with no caller ID, as soon a it spoke I recognised its voice and I immediately hung up without saying a word. Somehow I do wish I had told her exactly what I think of her but nothing is the best, same as I received. Sweet bugger all.
This just happened to me for the 3rd time! I let him back him. We lasted 1 months. Had a beautiful day together, he hugged me, said he would text me. 3 days no text. I went to call & he had blocked me! Went to FB to message & he quickly blocked me on messenger! He hadn't changed! He told me he had. Told me how much he had missed me for 8 months I had been NC. They don't change!
No, they do not! Sounds like my neighbor, but I blocked 🚫 him because I didn't want him to call me. So, sorry, I know how narcissistic men can be. You cannot trust them. I have seen how this neighbor treated many women. And non of his relationships last for very long and then he kicks them out, every time! And then blames them that their the problem. Yeah, right! Although we were just neighbors, he
Contacted me 4 days ago. Listen to his story for a couple days, just letting him talk. Everything he said and all the violins were textbook and I kept listening, checking off the Hoover list. Them BOOM! Today he messaged me asking if I could take him to the hospital, talking about we can finally see each other and how we can catch up all his misfortunes for the past FIVE YEARS 🤦🏻♀️ Told him since the ‘vid, I lost everything and have limited access to transportation, and reiterated that I Lost Everything! His reply? “ Oh, I see…” Don’t expect to hear from him again, well, maybe in another five years. 😆 Why did I bite? I knew he would get 100% on the Hoover test. I had nothing, so he has no use for me as I continue on with my peaceful life! 🤗
You know Anoushka, I watched these videos for months thinking that it would never happen. But tonight she called me with her new toy taunting me, completely different number so I wouldn't recognize who it was and I exploded from the shock. The love I had has completely vanished, and all it took was one phone call for me to finally see her true demented self.
I am also waiting for him to prove that he is a sociopathic serial narcissist - 3 months no contact but its only a matter of time he rears his covert sneaky head.
My ex sent an email asking me to report my job search because of child support. I have my children. He left during our child’s chemo. I replied rejecting his request. It was so degrading. I was objectified. He also didn’t use my name. It was Hello hope all is well. He will never control me again. It’s hard for me because I loved him. He has a new supply and he wants to move on or so he says. He will never hold space in my life again. I never knew that he was this cruel.
This video is great timing! The narc prank called me last week after 6yrs of no contact. This week was a flying monkey. Baiting is real. The narc was abusive in the relationship and threatening when I left. He picked the wrong person to conform. The police have been informed as he's trying to find me. Looking forward to not letting the narc dim my shine as I distract myself with creating better, healthier habits! Binge watch as many videos to educate yourself to do better. Thanks to this video, I'm a better person 🥰🙏👊
Of course they come back!! And I’m not surprised after 6 years WOW 😮! Glad you were strong enough to blank them. That is you standing in your power 💥💥 Do you and keep going forward 🎉
Hi Grasshopper Yes I also binge watch too I'm sending you love and light and many blessings asking the Angel's to wrap their wings around you and bring you everything that you wish for 🙏🙏👼👼💐🤗
Thank you both for your kindness and wisdom. The world is a better place with you in it 🥰🥰 I appreciate the protection sent from the wings of angels and the insight as to how to react and expect what comes next. I am blessed 🙌
Most people that are not aware of true narcissism they will usually get hoovered back at least once. Once you truly become aware of the personality disorder you can inflict narcissistic injury if they try to hoover you again. It didn't have to be a romantic relationship, it can be a sibling, parent, "friend", etc. If you happen to run into them by "accident" just be calm and brief and move on quickly as if they never existed in your life. Don't be mean, rude or anxious, stay calm and say something to their response if they say "Hey, long time no see, or hey how are you doing"? you can respond without any emotions and say doing excellent. Don't ask them how they are keep the conversation brief and say something bland like, I'm in a rush got to go or something to the extent that they did not get the response they wanted from you or an extended conversation. It will inflict a narcissistic injury. All they were doing was trying to see if they still have a chance to hoover you back. Once they realize you figured them out and moved on they will NOT bother you again. They don't like to feel the shame of being invisible because it goes against everything their false ego they have created. Just know they will NEVER change and will continue to find new sources to manipulate and abuse. Idolize, devalue and discard is their mode of operation.
Amen! ............................. "Evil" is the antithesis to the virtue: 'humanity'. Humanity is the characteristic that defines the human spirit. Humanity is symbiosis across humans and society. 'Humanity' exceeds 'social-darwinism'. ............................. NEURO-PERSONALITY ............................. "SENSORY-FEELERS" ARE LARGELY RESPONSIBLE FOR SPREADING DISINFORMATION AND HATE TOWARDS ENTJ/INTJ (AGAINST "THINKERS" IN GENERAL)-BOTH IRL AND ON THE INTERNET; DESPITE THOSE NEURO-PERSONALITY TYPES BEING A BLESSING TO SOCIETY AND ALL OF MANKIND! THEY DESERVE BETTER! 😤 'ESFJ', 'ESFP', ISFP and ISFJ are a pathogen to humanity, and 'then' Cluster-B (depending on they neuro-personality). THEIR "FEELINGS 'IS' THEIR REALITY", THEY ALSO HAVE A MALICIOUS-MIND BY DEFAULT (excluding normal ISFJ). DESPITE HAVING MALICIOUS INTENT THEY ARE ALL EMOTIONALLY-WEAK AND PRONE TO COVERT/VULNERABLE-NARCISSISM. ............................... Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality'). I recommend researching 'narcissistic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissist'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)! European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!! They are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-r@pe, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim/damsel in distress, creating "flying-monkeys", and 'bribing' others (with money or BJ) to attack, or at times, kill someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Emmett Till. xSFP and ISFJ (2W1) are the most complicit, narcissistic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependents' (look up the definition). Like ESFJ, XSFP's "feelings 'is' their reality." Most are covert/vulnerable-narcissists. ISFJ often perceive things only on the surface level (even by sensor standards), are suckers for a “pretty face", and their neuro-psychology makes them the ideal narcissitic-codependent and pawn to the ESFJ (blind-loyalty, surface level perception, susceptibility to covert-narcissism). Lastly, ISFJ are notorious for impersonating other people's identities IRL and on the internet; while ESFJ-9W1 superficially appears like an ENFJ, they have different 'neurology' and psychology. Both XSFJ are superficial by nature and perceive reality at face-value/surface level. SUMMARY Evil personality: 'ESFJ' (ALL), ESTJ (Cluster-b), ISFJ-2W1 (covert-narc/enabler). ESFJ-9W1 superficially resembles ENFJ; different 'neurology' and psychology. [Secretly] Evil and narcissist-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL), and ISFJ (2W1 enable ESFJ). ☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict as a distraction (at other people's expense, truly evil). Spread the word! Thank you. ___________ Research ref: Raudha Athif, Ghislaine Maxwell, Marilyn Monroe, Karen, ESFJ-narcissists, ESFJ-neurology, Gaslighting, Amber Heard, Fake feminism, Rising of a shield hero (Malty-'ESFJ'; XSFX spread disinformation online. ISFJ is the main culprit; ISFJ largely perceive things on the surface level), 'Brood-parasitism’- XSFJ natural psychology. __
FEMALE-ATTRACTION/ATTRACTION/ROMANTIC-ATTRACTION/FEMALE-PSYCHOLOGY/HOW-TO-ATTRACT-FEMALES/FEMALE-MANIPULATORS/MANIPULATE-FEMALES/FEMALE-DATING-FEMALES Answer: 1) 'Emotional Appeal'; how you make a female "feel" is the key to her everything. Give her 'emotional-thrills' via manipulation.
2) Physical Attraction; even this is connected to emotional appeal/attraction. Both points connect the strange stereotype between women "fucking" psychopaths, "bad-boys"; and ESTP/Chad, ENFP, etc. [I strongly believe that most women cannot differentiate between the sensation of "emotional-thrills" (including 'lust') and [genuine] "love"]. Love-definition. What is "love"? Answer: Excessive humanity for an individual. Since most women are emotionally immature (they are good at masking it; do not confuse the two), they are exceedingly susceptible to emotional manipulation/exploitation. Since society over-values and over protects the human female, the female can afford not to develop their sentience, intelligence, emotional residency and self-control. This makes them both unintelligent/narcissitic and emotionally-vulnerable. Of the MBTI, most females are "feelers" and unintelligent-feelers, i.e. "sensor-feelers" (population density), no less. They are more vulnerable to this realization/exploit, i.e. that physical attraction and emotional manipulation (via "thrills") is the key to attracting the female. NOTE: Most women monitor and prey on the emotions of a man. They attempt to corrode the emotional resiliency of a male child; thus making the male child susceptible to her "whining", narcissitic-complaints (self-serving and emotionally abusive [whims]); psychological manipulation via emotional abusing their sons will make them a dull, and disposable pawn (who exists solely to serve women and lay down their lives, as thought and conditioned via social norms). _
[ADVICE] MY-PHILOSOPHY: "INNER-STRENGTH" I have found that simply "loving myself" (inner-child) is a powerful tool against most types of social-dependency/vulnerability. Example: In my mind, I visualise a picture of my younger self (family albums might help). And I 'remember' what the emotion of genuine love felt like. And then I project those emotions onto the mental visualization of my younger self. I meditate and hold that 'state of mind' for as long as I can. The result? I feel my conscious energy resignating with positivity and renewed strength. And my anxiety immediately evaporates away. At the very least, depending on my levels of anxiety, this mediation practice aids to 'evaporate' much of it. You can do the same thing with "trying to 'remember' temperatures, e.g. hot or cold. And then project that memory onto a visualised heat source (all within your minds eye). You will 'feel' the effects immediately." I hope this proved helpful.
📍 "ENXP cannot naturally differentiate between 'LUST' and 'love'. Their values is naturally different to that of INXJ. External influence is responsible for seeming deviation. ENXP view relationships like "food-samples". Like all sensor-feelers, ENXP have neurology for PROMISCUITY!" The MBTI compatibility chart is rigged by 'ENTP' and ENFP. The "manipulative" chart is tailored and authored by 'ENTP'! With their expansive "social" capabilities (and promiscuity), they are able to spread information and disinformation far and wide. ENTP are the archetypical clown/jester and they have the consciousness of one too. Most are unhealthy, matter of factly, and even with so-called "healthy" ENTP (lacking cluster-b) they are not naturally moral and their level of humanity is surprisingly low-they still have it; however it is initially low. Case in point, ENXP 'naturally' view romantic relationships and dating in a manner that is akin to "sampling food". ENXP and INXJ are NOT compatible!!!! Please understand that the [rampant spread of] MBTI chart is baseless (the smarter ones among them already know this-willful creatures, i.e. ENTP)! It's viral spread is nothing more than a 'global, generational trolling' and "ethical-rape". It's goal is large scaled attempt to violate other people's romantic-fate/experiences, while violating their instinctual romantic preference! MBTI compatibility chart has the psychological finger-print of ENTP. It aids the miserable romantic experience of INXJ; the clown's attempt to violate their fated destiny! ENTP are naturally unethical and promiscous. Cluster-B (add-on) furthers this. Look past the surface and you will realize that the MBTI chart is 'rigged' and tailored for ENTP (morality/humanity is not instinctual for them; healthy ones can understand it's value once seen, however it is not an instinct for the promiscous Jesters and archetypical-clowns [ENTP]). They've even screwed over most sensors, e.g. trying to "encourage" ESFP x ISTJ. *×Facepalm×* Any deviation is solely due to external influence (referring to ENxP neuro-psychology). ENxP are the archetypical thots/hoe of the intuitives. And sensor-feelers are 'naturally' promiscuous. Again, external factors are responsible for seeming deviations, e.g. parents influence, religion, INXJ instinctual moral influence. "Tell a lie loud enough and long enough and people will believe it." - Adolf Hitler The quote is likely the compounding inspiration for the collective ENTP's creating and spreading this generational lie and ethical-rape (violating INXJ's natural, instinctual romantic standards and requirements). Cluster-B [ENTP] is another contributing factor. In the end, a relationship between ENXP and INxJ ends at the introverts expense. While ENXP have the neurology for promiscuity (like sensor-feelers, ... And ESTP, to a surprisely lesser extent), INXJ risk so much more and they do suffer a miserable ["romance"] existence due to those types; their promiscous-neurology, and low levels of self-control. What's worse, is that most ENTP have cluster-B. They add to the miserable existence of INFJ (and INTJ, albeit to a lesser extent). INFJ instinctual/subconscious romantic standards is literally other [genuine] 'INFJ', and then ENFJ. The natural associate and partner for the ENTP and ENFP is 'ESFP' and ESTP. This is matter of fact. INXJ is only the ENXP's favourite "food"/'essence' to sample. PS: If nothing else, please investigate this (and you will find that it is true). You can expect the ENTP thot-network to attempt to hide the evidence. Please spread this information. It helps! The MBTI is rigged (and most ENTP have cluster-B). Willful, narcissitic clowns.
Thanks for this advice the only way he could try and contact me is by bumping into me on the street by accident of course or turning up at my door everything else is blocked. He's already in hurt mode about me as he attempted multiple hoovers after my awareness of other supply, he must have not got them hooked yet as he was still breadcrumbing for a few months - no more finally I blocked 3 months ago and getting back to my old self.
Because Law of Attraction is BS. These people have unclean spirits on them and are sent by the enemy of humanity, Satan, to attempt to destroy God’s children. Don’t allow them🤍🙏
How long your ex been silent? .. me broke up with my narcissist boyfriend of 12 years. I broke up with him last week, he been cheating on me with his ex girlfriend for the entire time, I forgive him once, but I found out that they still continue, they never stopped. So I have to let him go. I'm better than that.. she's also a married woman.
Mine too been in no contact for 3 months - still silence - I am healing and the memories of all the bullshit words he used to gaslight me with are as clear as day now.
my ex discard me And blocked me everywhere ,as if I am gonna to huant him. But all I wanted was closure , and I got it finally after 33 mails until I threaten him that I will contact his friend in his country .-I did not want to do it but he blocked me everywhere before telling me how to deal my shipment from his house . I felt relieved and peace after his disappearance. When I look back there is nothing good in this relationship .his blame ,his angriness ,his selfishness,and kids and his family ,no place for me ….
Divorced after 27 years, no contact for over a year then the phone rings 10 times, she actually used 2 different phones. She wanted her source back so I let her speak then told her I moved on and hung up. Blocked both phones after I texted her never to contact me again unless it was for business and if so to go through a third party. Remember that narcs know the good stuff, my only defense is NO CONTACT and therapy/knowledge to get past 30 years of trauma.
I find it weird that they discard you, move on to new supply, block you……then they unblock you and want to chat as if nothing has happened. She’s done it to me a couple of times since I walked about five months ago. And each time when I bring up stuff and want her to take some accountability she’s blows up and blocks me again.
I got a text probably from my violent ex 2 years after going no contact. He was a violent man and started over directly after our breakup. I guess the new relationship is falling apart. I will never answer.
If he contacts me I’ve already decided he’s a narcissist no doubt. I’ve learned my lessons because he only knows this cycle Anoushka talks about. There is no solid foundation. I’ve thrown the receipt away!! Thank you Anoushka ❤
The only reason they're able to come back is because somehow you leave an opening somewhere in hopes that the narcissist eventually will find it and come through, when you authentically want them out of your life you do everything in your power to disappear forever, consciously vanish, it must be intentional on your part, otherwise it's just a way of deceiving yourself because you're just as addicted to the narc though...........
The Demon Poop returned something mundane in my shoerack , then ‘i miss you’ and .. !! Ta dah! He needs a place to crash 😂because he got kicked out . Not today, Satan
Amen! ............................. "Evil" is the antithesis to the virtue: 'humanity'. Humanity is the characteristic that defines the human spirit. Humanity is symbiosis across humans and society. 'Humanity' exceeds 'social-darwinism'. ............................. NEURO-PERSONALITY ............................. "SENSORY-FEELERS" ARE LARGELY RESPONSIBLE FOR SPREADING DISINFORMATION AND HATE TOWARDS ENTJ/INTJ (AGAINST "THINKERS" IN GENERAL)-BOTH IRL AND ON THE INTERNET; DESPITE THOSE NEURO-PERSONALITY TYPES BEING A BLESSING TO SOCIETY AND ALL OF MANKIND! THEY DESERVE BETTER! 😤 'ESFJ', 'ESFP', ISFP and ISFJ are a pathogen to humanity, and 'then' Cluster-B (depending on they neuro-personality). THEIR "FEELINGS 'IS' THEIR REALITY", THEY ALSO HAVE A MALICIOUS-MIND BY DEFAULT (excluding normal ISFJ). DESPITE HAVING MALICIOUS INTENT THEY ARE ALL EMOTIONALLY-WEAK AND PRONE TO COVERT/VULNERABLE-NARCISSISM. ............................... Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality'). I recommend researching 'narcissistic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissist'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)! European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!! They are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-r@pe, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim/damsel in distress, creating "flying-monkeys", and 'bribing' others (with money or BJ) to attack, or at times, kill someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Emmett Till. xSFP and ISFJ (2W1) are the most complicit, narcissistic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependents' (look up the definition). Like ESFJ, XSFP's "feelings 'is' their reality." Most are covert/vulnerable-narcissists. ISFJ often perceive things only on the surface level (even by sensor standards), are suckers for a “pretty face", and their neuro-psychology makes them the ideal narcissitic-codependent and pawn to the ESFJ (blind-loyalty, surface level perception, susceptibility to covert-narcissism). Lastly, ISFJ are notorious for impersonating other people's identities IRL and on the internet; while ESFJ-9W1 superficially appears like an ENFJ, they have different 'neurology' and psychology. Both XSFJ are superficial by nature and perceive reality at face-value/surface level. SUMMARY Evil personality: 'ESFJ' (ALL), ESTJ (Cluster-b), ISFJ-2W1 (covert-narc/enabler). ESFJ-9W1 superficially resembles ENFJ; different 'neurology' and psychology. [Secretly] Evil and narcissist-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL), and ISFJ (2W1 enable ESFJ). ☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict as a distraction (at other people's expense, truly evil). Spread the word! Thank you. ___________ Research ref: Raudha Athif, Ghislaine Maxwell, Marilyn Monroe, Karen, ESFJ-narcissists, ESFJ-neurology, Gaslighting, Amber Heard, Fake feminism, Rising of a shield hero (Malty-'ESFJ'; XSFX spread disinformation online. ISFJ is the main culprit; ISFJ largely perceive things on the surface level), 'Brood-parasitism’- XSFJ natural psychology. __
[ADVICE] MY-PHILOSOPHY: "INNER-STRENGTH" I have found that simply "loving myself" (inner-child) is a powerful tool against most types of social-dependency/vulnerability. Example: In my mind, I visualise a picture of my younger self (family albums might help). And I 'remember' what the emotion of genuine love felt like. And then I project those emotions onto the mental visualization of my younger self. I meditate and hold that 'state of mind' for as long as I can. The result? I feel my conscious energy resignating with positivity and renewed strength. And my anxiety immediately evaporates away. At the very least, depending on my levels of anxiety, this mediation practice aids to 'evaporate' much of it. You can do the same thing with "trying to 'remember' temperatures, e.g. hot or cold. And then project that memory onto a visualised heat source (all within your minds eye). You will 'feel' the effects immediately." I hope this proved helpful.
FEMALE-ATTRACTION/ATTRACTION/ROMANTIC-ATTRACTION/FEMALE-PSYCHOLOGY/HOW-TO-ATTRACT-FEMALES/FEMALE-MANIPULATORS/MANIPULATE-FEMALES/FEMALE-DATING-FEMALES Answer: 1) 'Emotional Appeal'; how you make a female "feel" is the key to her everything. Give her 'emotional-thrills' via manipulation.
2) Physical Attraction; even this is connected to emotional appeal/attraction. Both points connect the strange stereotype between women "fucking" psychopaths, "bad-boys"; and ESTP/Chad, ENFP, etc. [I strongly believe that most women cannot differentiate between the sensation of "emotional-thrills" (including 'lust') and [genuine] "love"]. Love-definition. What is "love"? Answer: Excessive humanity for an individual. Since most women are emotionally immature (they are good at masking it; do not confuse the two), they are exceedingly susceptible to emotional manipulation/exploitation. Since society over-values and over protects the human female, the female can afford not to develop their sentience, intelligence, emotional residency and self-control. This makes them both unintelligent/narcissitic and emotionally-vulnerable. Of the MBTI, most females are "feelers" and unintelligent-feelers, i.e. "sensor-feelers" (population density), no less. They are more vulnerable to this realization/exploit, i.e. that physical attraction and emotional manipulation (via "thrills") is the key to attracting the female. NOTE: Most women monitor and prey on the emotions of a man. They attempt to corrode the emotional resiliency of a male child; thus making the male child susceptible to her "whining", narcissitic-complaints (self-serving and emotionally abusive [whims]); psychological manipulation via emotional abusing their sons will make them a dull, and disposable pawn (who exists solely to serve women and lay down their lives, as thought and conditioned via social norms). _
📍 "ENXP cannot naturally differentiate between 'LUST' and 'love'. Their values is naturally different to that of INXJ. External influence is responsible for seeming deviation. ENXP view relationships like "food-samples". Like all sensor-feelers, ENXP have neurology for PROMISCUITY!" The MBTI compatibility chart is rigged by 'ENTP' and ENFP. The "manipulative" chart is tailored and authored by 'ENTP'! With their expansive "social" capabilities (and promiscuity), they are able to spread information and disinformation far and wide. ENTP are the archetypical clown/jester and they have the consciousness of one too. Most are unhealthy, matter of factly, and even with so-called "healthy" ENTP (lacking cluster-b) they are not naturally moral and their level of humanity is surprisingly low-they still have it; however it is initially low. Case in point, ENXP 'naturally' view romantic relationships and dating in a manner that is akin to "sampling food". ENXP and INXJ are NOT compatible!!!! Please understand that the [rampant spread of] MBTI chart is baseless (the smarter ones among them already know this-willful creatures, i.e. ENTP)! It's viral spread is nothing more than a 'global, generational trolling' and "ethical-rape". It's goal is large scaled attempt to violate other people's romantic-fate/experiences, while violating their instinctual romantic preference! MBTI compatibility chart has the psychological finger-print of ENTP. It aids the miserable romantic experience of INXJ; the clown's attempt to violate their fated destiny! ENTP are naturally unethical and promiscous. Cluster-B (add-on) furthers this. Look past the surface and you will realize that the MBTI chart is 'rigged' and tailored for ENTP (morality/humanity is not instinctual for them; healthy ones can understand it's value once seen, however it is not an instinct for the promiscous Jesters and archetypical-clowns [ENTP]). They've even screwed over most sensors, e.g. trying to "encourage" ESFP x ISTJ. *×Facepalm×* Any deviation is solely due to external influence (referring to ENxP neuro-psychology). ENxP are the archetypical thots/hoe of the intuitives. And sensor-feelers are 'naturally' promiscuous. Again, external factors are responsible for seeming deviations, e.g. parents influence, religion, INXJ instinctual moral influence. "Tell a lie loud enough and long enough and people will believe it." - Adolf Hitler The quote is likely the compounding inspiration for the collective ENTP's creating and spreading this generational lie and ethical-rape (violating INXJ's natural, instinctual romantic standards and requirements). Cluster-B [ENTP] is another contributing factor. In the end, a relationship between ENXP and INxJ ends at the introverts expense. While ENXP have the neurology for promiscuity (like sensor-feelers, ... And ESTP, to a surprisely lesser extent), INXJ risk so much more and they do suffer a miserable ["romance"] existence due to those types; their promiscous-neurology, and low levels of self-control. What's worse, is that most ENTP have cluster-B. They add to the miserable existence of INFJ (and INTJ, albeit to a lesser extent). INFJ instinctual/subconscious romantic standards is literally other [genuine] 'INFJ', and then ENFJ. The natural associate and partner for the ENTP and ENFP is 'ESFP' and ESTP. This is matter of fact. INXJ is only the ENXP's favourite "food"/'essence' to sample. PS: If nothing else, please investigate this (and you will find that it is true). You can expect the ENTP thot-network to attempt to hide the evidence. Please spread this information. It helps! The MBTI is rigged (and most ENTP have cluster-B). Willful, narcissitic clowns.
Moving forward as they disgust me. Really gross behavior and mentality I cannot engage at all. I'm good and stronger than this now and I'm so happy . They are in the past. 🎉 Thanks so much for the video anoushka ❤
Absolutely bang on. Mine uses other people to just, pop up an say hello, an then asking a question personal to me , that they wouldn’t normally know or ask. As for not doin what I’m supposed too, erm, no! I’m just getting on with my life.
@@anoushkamarcin I’ve also started askin these people, who wants to know? The Narc or the spawn of Narc? That screws them hands down bcs, they are normally decent people being used.
So on point. Narcs can be so freaking annoying! LOL!❤😂 I've been divorced for 3 years after 32 years of marriage and he STILL won't leave me alone but I let him know we're over. He still doesn't believe me. They think we are their trophy wives along with every other one of their Narc Supplies. I will never give into him and he still throws his toddler temper tantrums. It's funny now. I have to be non reactive to his BS. Thanks for your understanding and information.
Exactly! They are opportunists and he lined someone new up with greater resources and then scuttled our relationship. I have no proof but this is what I highly suspect. It’s sad reality but a smile will eventually come to you which the closure you seek is within you and not the narcissist.
Thanks for another amazing video! Definitely where I’m am at this moment. I’ve got to the stage where I’m no contact at all, they are definitely my past & they will never change, it’s a sinking ship. It was tempting to write back F off, but it wouldn’t make a blind bit of difference. I’m more focused on doing better in life, moving forwards being with people that don’t want to destroy me mentally
Good thinking, Stephen, keep these people away like I do, and once there are enough of us these sad excuses for human beings will jump in a circle desperate to get attention from anybody. That will be the happiest sight.
I’m so glad to hear that your doing better and that you made the best decision in your life to go no contact. Stay strong 💪🏽 and keep going forward all we have is now 😊
They just say I miss you. Mine 6 months after I blocked him. Reached out to me on a burner number. I miss you. This is what they say. Don’t buy their BS. Its all BS.😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫👈🏻
agreed with you..... they will still reach out no matter how many times you told them not to contact you and yet there they are. its like they are deaf or blind
They are not always benign communications. I got an email about a month ago from my ex wife - the first time she has had any communication whatsoever with me in the 3.5 years after discarding me and totally ghosting out of my life. I literally have never seen the woman again. Her email is angry, bitter and states she hates me. She also claims I have "ruined her life" and those of her children - she cant sleep, is anxious and nervous,, had to stop working, and her kids will now not be able to "fulfill their potential in life". As I said i have not been in their lives in any way for nearly 4 years. Its a load of hyperbolic nonsense designed to get a reaction out of me. Probably her latest disaster has fallen apart and shes making me a scapegoat. She didnt get a reply and wont.
The ex narc boyfriend actually made a statement about himself to me, not realizing that it demonstrated his callousness: he said: " I'm an iguana sitting on a branch of a tree above a flowing river. When the heat gets too hot I simply fall into the river and move on".
I haven't talked to my ex since about February of 2020 in 2020 she married a guy out of her past in California and move back there I'm in Texas last month she sends me a message on Facebook about time being short and things need to be sad so she wanted me to know that she forgave me for all the things that I did wrong and wanted to know if we could be friends in more words than this I told her absolutely not so why is she contacting me now after she's been so-called happily married after 2 years
it's been 2 years now since i figured it out then left the narc. and yes it is true that they will do anything just to lure you back in but there's no way she can deceive me again. so thankful you are there for the education about this matter, or i was still under the narc's grip then while losing my sanity. thank you Anoushka!
You safe the rest of us in soooo much ..p a i n , progres , confiusion at first than deeper discover etc guys we are real team in this madnees we are the winers of this nonsense
This ia valuable because I'm in that "bargaining" stage where I'm trying to convince myself we can talk this over & work it out... but no, this is part of the illusion.
he contacted me 2 wks ago 8 months after he discarded me and was seen w/ a rebound... he texted me "hi *pet name*, how are you? how's life been?" i haven't responded bc im so torn. he texted in january too, "you still have my ray bans?" and i didn't reply. he travels back and forth to his home country. he dumped me in such a cold way, i can't understand this. it hurts. i want to respond
Don’t respond. Focus on the thought that you won’t get any closure or healing from that interaction, and after some warm exchange somewhere down the road it will hurt you even worse. Stand up for yourself and ignore
Don’t give in do not text You’ve come too far Take this a victory and show him by not responding that you are not a victim anymore I made this mistake and omg the next discard was 100 times worse 😔
I haven't talked to my daughter in years, and because I didn't play the game today. I realise that my daughter is narcissistic also. That woman has no shame or dignity, our children. Is there hope for children of narcissistic mothers?
One of most controling realationship whit narsisist and kiping guard is avoiding eye contact.indeed they try to stimulat our emotions to abuse with every thing such ad eye contact...sometimes they start a roll like kindness for dealing and abuse....!!!
[ADVICE] MY-PHILOSOPHY: "INNER-STRENGTH" I have found that simply "loving myself" (inner-child) is a powerful tool against most types of social-dependency/vulnerability. Example: In my mind, I visualise a picture of my younger self (family albums might help). And I 'remember' what the emotion of genuine love felt like. And then I project those emotions onto the mental visualization of my younger self. I meditate and hold that 'state of mind' for as long as I can. The result? I feel my conscious energy resignating with positivity and renewed strength. And my anxiety immediately evaporates away. At the very least, depending on my levels of anxiety, this mediation practice aids to 'evaporate' much of it. You can do the same thing with "trying to 'remember' temperatures, e.g. hot or cold. And then project that memory onto a visualised heat source (all within your minds eye). You will 'feel' the effects immediately." I hope this proved helpful.
FEMALE-ATTRACTION/ATTRACTION/ROMANTIC-ATTRACTION/FEMALE-PSYCHOLOGY/HOW-TO-ATTRACT-FEMALES/FEMALE-MANIPULATORS/MANIPULATE-FEMALES/FEMALE-DATING-FEMALES Answer: 1) 'Emotional Appeal'; how you make a female "feel" is the key to her everything. Give her 'emotional-thrills' via manipulation.
2) Physical Attraction; even this is connected to emotional appeal/attraction. Both points connect the strange stereotype between women "fucking" psychopaths, "bad-boys"; and ESTP/Chad, ENFP, etc. [I strongly believe that most women cannot differentiate between the sensation of "emotional-thrills" (including 'lust') and [genuine] "love"]. Love-definition. What is "love"? Answer: Excessive humanity for an individual. Since most women are emotionally immature (they are good at masking it; do not confuse the two), they are exceedingly susceptible to emotional manipulation/exploitation. Since society over-values and over protects the human female, the female can afford not to develop their sentience, intelligence, emotional residency and self-control. This makes them both unintelligent/narcissitic and emotionally-vulnerable. Of the MBTI, most females are "feelers" and unintelligent-feelers, i.e. "sensor-feelers" (population density), no less. They are more vulnerable to this realization/exploit, i.e. that physical attraction and emotional manipulation (via "thrills") is the key to attracting the female. NOTE: Most women monitor and prey on the emotions of a man. They attempt to corrode the emotional resiliency of a male child; thus making the male child susceptible to her "whining", narcissitic-complaints (self-serving and emotionally abusive [whims]); psychological manipulation via emotional abusing their sons will make them a dull, and disposable pawn (who exists solely to serve women and lay down their lives, as thought and conditioned via social norms). _
Amen! ............................. "Evil" is the antithesis to the virtue: 'humanity'. Humanity is the characteristic that defines the human spirit. Humanity is symbiosis across humans and society. 'Humanity' exceeds 'social-darwinism'. ............................. NEURO-PERSONALITY ............................. "SENSORY-FEELERS" ARE LARGELY RESPONSIBLE FOR SPREADING DISINFORMATION AND HATE TOWARDS ENTJ/INTJ (AGAINST "THINKERS" IN GENERAL)-BOTH IRL AND ON THE INTERNET; DESPITE THOSE NEURO-PERSONALITY TYPES BEING A BLESSING TO SOCIETY AND ALL OF MANKIND! THEY DESERVE BETTER! 😤 'ESFJ', 'ESFP', ISFP and ISFJ are a pathogen to humanity, and 'then' Cluster-B (depending on they neuro-personality). THEIR "FEELINGS 'IS' THEIR REALITY", THEY ALSO HAVE A MALICIOUS-MIND BY DEFAULT (excluding normal ISFJ). DESPITE HAVING MALICIOUS INTENT THEY ARE ALL EMOTIONALLY-WEAK AND PRONE TO COVERT/VULNERABLE-NARCISSISM. ............................... Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality'). I recommend researching 'narcissistic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissist'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)! European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!! They are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-r@pe, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim/damsel in distress, creating "flying-monkeys", and 'bribing' others (with money or BJ) to attack, or at times, kill someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Emmett Till. xSFP and ISFJ (2W1) are the most complicit, narcissistic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependents' (look up the definition). Like ESFJ, XSFP's "feelings 'is' their reality." Most are covert/vulnerable-narcissists. ISFJ often perceive things only on the surface level (even by sensor standards), are suckers for a “pretty face", and their neuro-psychology makes them the ideal narcissitic-codependent and pawn to the ESFJ (blind-loyalty, surface level perception, susceptibility to covert-narcissism). Lastly, ISFJ are notorious for impersonating other people's identities IRL and on the internet; while ESFJ-9W1 superficially appears like an ENFJ, they have different 'neurology' and psychology. Both XSFJ are superficial by nature and perceive reality at face-value/surface level. SUMMARY Evil personality: 'ESFJ' (ALL), ESTJ (Cluster-b), ISFJ-2W1 (covert-narc/enabler). ESFJ-9W1 superficially resembles ENFJ; different 'neurology' and psychology. [Secretly] Evil and narcissist-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL), and ISFJ (2W1 enable ESFJ). ☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict as a distraction (at other people's expense, truly evil). Spread the word! Thank you. ___________ Research ref: Raudha Athif, Ghislaine Maxwell, Marilyn Monroe, Karen, ESFJ-narcissists, ESFJ-neurology, Gaslighting, Amber Heard, Fake feminism, Rising of a shield hero (Malty-'ESFJ'; XSFX spread disinformation online. ISFJ is the main culprit; ISFJ largely perceive things on the surface level), 'Brood-parasitism’- XSFJ natural psychology. __
I'm now in full No contact they are not my cup of tea. Too abusive for me. Too sick and it affects me. I batten the hatches no Instagram no messenger etc. I'm good 👍
Birthday present hoovering, and fake sunglasses i just threw from my mailbox onn the street without trying, yeaay hpb to me 😆❤️💪😂 48 springs (and bolts) 😆🤟✔️❤️💪🥳🥳🥳 party month here 😄😄😄
I’ve just had this after not seeing my daughter for 7 months my ex wife of 27 years changed he number so I had no access to my daughter my son finally gave me her number so I text her to see my daughter she text me 3 days later that she was sick so we’ll see reason I’m relating is because you need to just deal with ever you have with narcissistic partner but still stay away they don’t care at all it’s a game to them I just exercise patience if I see my daughter I will if I don’t I won’t get into arguments over it!!
FEMALE-ATTRACTION/ATTRACTION/ROMANTIC-ATTRACTION/FEMALE-PSYCHOLOGY/HOW-TO-ATTRACT-FEMALES/FEMALE-MANIPULATORS/MANIPULATE-FEMALES/FEMALE-DATING-FEMALES Answer: 1) 'Emotional Appeal'; how you make a female "feel" is the key to her everything. Give her 'emotional-thrills' via manipulation.
2) Physical Attraction; even this is connected to emotional appeal/attraction. Both points connect the strange stereotype between women "fucking" psychopaths, "bad-boys"; and ESTP/Chad, ENFP, etc. [I strongly believe that most women cannot differentiate between the sensation of "emotional-thrills" (including 'lust') and [genuine] "love"]. Love-definition. What is "love"? Answer: Excessive humanity for an individual. Since most women are emotionally immature (they are good at masking it; do not confuse the two), they are exceedingly susceptible to emotional manipulation/exploitation. Since society over-values and over protects the human female, the female can afford not to develop their sentience, intelligence, emotional residency and self-control. This makes them both unintelligent/narcissitic and emotionally-vulnerable. Of the MBTI, most females are "feelers" and unintelligent-feelers, i.e. "sensor-feelers" (population density), no less. They are more vulnerable to this realization/exploit, i.e. that physical attraction and emotional manipulation (via "thrills") is the key to attracting the female. NOTE: Most women monitor and prey on the emotions of a man. They attempt to corrode the emotional resiliency of a male child; thus making the male child susceptible to her "whining", narcissitic-complaints (self-serving and emotionally abusive [whims]); psychological manipulation via emotional abusing their sons will make them a dull, and disposable pawn (who exists solely to serve women and lay down their lives, as thought and conditioned via social norms). _
I took him on after being divorce 3 years. We remarried/ together for one year, I strongly believed he was going to stay. He left! He left again, file for divorce and picked up with his previous relationship like nothing happened. She k owe too, and she is 20 years younger than him and took him back. No kids involved with them. We had 2 boys.
Some real facts are Heart breaking .....but your words and facts that you convey is god sent......god bless u Ms Anoushka...... discarded 1 Oct 2023....going thru some real hard time......i need some insights from the community here and veterans here......my case is crazier hope all can help .....will tell my story if i am ready soon......Cheers. ooooh ya i always love British accents.
It better that I never heard from my ex again or in life because the behavior remains the same as the cycle repeat itself over again and again and I finally figure this out now and I truly thank God for light he has shown me in my heart about my ex narcissist and she knows now that I know the truth about her and her parents scared her as a child and that is straight up from heaven gates narcissist are aware what of they are doing she may not accept reality on earth and when she meets her Maker God o mighty reality will sit in real quick and believe that and she knows she can't comeback to me period or don't care hoover she does I want respond period it like I narcissist are incapable of love period and that the problem for all narcissist and period and peace ✌️
I let him in after 2 months he cheated on a :year relationship we had. 3 years later in the middle of planning the wedding: discard bcs of age gap. That was the reason he said. Never was but ok. Figured out he cheats with girls from the bar he works. It’s like a 3year-expiration date. He even triangulated with his bf, told me his bf had problems and he’s helping him. But it was me he was talking about
I don’t want a Hoover years down the line. I want the validation now, when I need it. Years down the line, I will be well over them, and it won’t provide any validation.
😊😊😊 Just a reminder to you wonderful individuals that the LIVE STREAM will be happening on Friday 7th April at 9pm BST
Hope to see you all there 🙏🏼
[ADVICE]
MY-PHILOSOPHY: "INNER-STRENGTH"
I have found that simply "loving myself" (inner-child) is a powerful tool against most types of social-dependency/vulnerability.
Example:
In my mind, I visualise a picture of my younger self (family albums might help). And I 'remember' what the emotion of genuine love felt like. And then I project those emotions onto the mental visualization of my younger self. I meditate and hold that 'state of mind' for as long as I can.
The result? I feel my conscious energy resignating with positivity and renewed strength. And my anxiety immediately evaporates away.
At the very least, depending on my levels of anxiety, this mediation practice aids to 'evaporate' much of it. You can do the same thing with "trying to 'remember' temperatures, e.g. hot or cold. And then project that memory onto a visualised heat source (all within your minds eye). You will 'feel' the effects immediately."
I hope this proved helpful.
.............................
"Evil" is the antithesis to the virtue: 'humanity'. Humanity is the characteristic that defines the human spirit. Humanity is symbiosis across humans and society. 'Humanity' exceeds 'social-darwinism'.
.............................
NEURO-PERSONALITY
.............................
"SENSORY-FEELERS" ARE LARGELY RESPONSIBLE FOR SPREADING DISINFORMATION AND HATE TOWARDS ENTJ/INTJ (AGAINST "THINKERS" IN GENERAL)-BOTH IRL AND ON THE INTERNET; DESPITE THOSE NEURO-PERSONALITY TYPES BEING A BLESSING TO SOCIETY AND ALL OF MANKIND! THEY DESERVE BETTER! 😤
'ESFJ', 'ESFP', ISFP and ISFJ are a pathogen to humanity, and 'then' Cluster-B (depending on they neuro-personality).
THEIR "FEELINGS 'IS' THEIR REALITY", THEY ALSO HAVE A MALICIOUS-MIND BY DEFAULT (excluding normal ISFJ). DESPITE HAVING MALICIOUS INTENT THEY ARE ALL EMOTIONALLY-WEAK AND PRONE TO COVERT/VULNERABLE-NARCISSISM.
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Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality').
I recommend researching 'narcissistic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissist'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)!
European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!!
They are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-r@pe, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim/damsel in distress, creating "flying-monkeys", and 'bribing' others (with money or BJ) to attack, or at times, kill someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Emmett Till.
xSFP and ISFJ (2W1) are the most complicit, narcissistic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependents' (look up the definition). Like ESFJ, XSFP's "feelings 'is' their reality." Most are covert/vulnerable-narcissists.
ISFJ often perceive things only on the surface level (even by sensor standards), are suckers for a “pretty face", and their neuro-psychology makes them the ideal narcissitic-codependent and pawn to the ESFJ (blind-loyalty, surface level perception, susceptibility to covert-narcissism).
Lastly, ISFJ are notorious for impersonating other people's identities IRL and on the internet; while ESFJ-9W1 superficially appears like an ENFJ, they have different 'neurology' and psychology. Both XSFJ are superficial by nature and perceive reality at face-value/surface level.
SUMMARY
Evil personality: 'ESFJ' (ALL), ESTJ (Cluster-b), ISFJ-2W1 (covert-narc/enabler). ESFJ-9W1 superficially resembles ENFJ; different 'neurology' and psychology.
[Secretly] Evil and narcissist-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL), and ISFJ (2W1 enable ESFJ).
☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict as a distraction (at other people's expense, truly evil).
Spread the word! Thank you.
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Research ref: Raudha Athif, Ghislaine Maxwell, Marilyn Monroe, Karen, ESFJ-narcissists, ESFJ-neurology, Gaslighting, Amber Heard, Fake feminism, Rising of a shield hero (Malty-'ESFJ'; XSFX spread disinformation online. ISFJ is the main culprit; ISFJ largely perceive things on the surface level), 'Brood-parasitism’- XSFJ natural psychology.
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Answer:
1) 'Emotional Appeal'; how you make a female "feel" is the key to her everything. Give her 'emotional-thrills' via manipulation.
2) Physical Attraction; even this is connected to emotional appeal/attraction. Both points connect the strange stereotype between women "fucking" psychopaths, "bad-boys"; and ESTP/Chad, ENFP, etc.
[I strongly believe that most women cannot differentiate between the sensation of "emotional-thrills" (including 'lust') and [genuine] "love"].
Love-definition. What is "love"? Answer: Excessive humanity for an individual.
Since most women are emotionally immature (they are good at masking it; do not confuse the two), they are exceedingly susceptible to emotional manipulation/exploitation.
Since society over-values and over protects the human female, the female can afford not to develop their sentience, intelligence, emotional residency and self-control. This makes them both unintelligent/narcissitic and emotionally-vulnerable.
Of the MBTI, most females are "feelers" and unintelligent-feelers, i.e. "sensor-feelers" (population density), no less. They are more vulnerable to this realization/exploit, i.e. that physical attraction and emotional manipulation (via "thrills") is the key to attracting the female.
NOTE: Most women monitor and prey on the emotions of a man. They attempt to corrode the emotional resiliency of a male child; thus making the male child susceptible to her "whining", narcissitic-complaints (self-serving and emotionally abusive [whims]); psychological manipulation via emotional abusing their sons will make them a dull, and disposable pawn (who exists solely to serve women and lay down their lives, as thought and conditioned via social norms).
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"ENXP cannot naturally differentiate between 'LUST' and 'love'. Their values is naturally different to that of INXJ. External influence is responsible for seeming deviation. ENXP view relationships like "food-samples". Like all sensor-feelers, ENXP have neurology for PROMISCUITY!"
The MBTI compatibility chart is rigged by 'ENTP' and ENFP. The "manipulative" chart is tailored and authored by 'ENTP'! With their expansive "social" capabilities (and promiscuity), they are able to spread information and disinformation far and wide. ENTP are the archetypical clown/jester and they have the consciousness of one too.
Most are unhealthy, matter of factly, and even with so-called "healthy" ENTP (lacking cluster-b) they are not naturally moral and their level of humanity is surprisingly low-they still have it; however it is initially low. Case in point, ENXP 'naturally' view romantic relationships and dating in a manner that is akin to "sampling food". ENXP and INXJ are NOT compatible!!!! Please understand that the [rampant spread of] MBTI chart is baseless (the smarter ones among them already know this-willful creatures, i.e. ENTP)! It's viral spread is nothing more than a 'global, generational trolling' and "ethical-rape". It's goal is large scaled attempt to violate other people's romantic-fate/experiences, while violating their instinctual romantic preference! MBTI compatibility chart has the psychological finger-print of ENTP. It aids the miserable romantic experience of INXJ; the clown's attempt to violate their fated destiny! ENTP are naturally unethical and promiscous. Cluster-B (add-on) furthers this.
Look past the surface and you will realize that the MBTI chart is 'rigged' and tailored for ENTP (morality/humanity is not instinctual for them; healthy ones can understand it's value once seen, however it is not an instinct for the promiscous Jesters and archetypical-clowns [ENTP]). They've even screwed over most sensors, e.g. trying to "encourage" ESFP x ISTJ. *×Facepalm×*
Any deviation is solely due to external influence (referring to ENxP neuro-psychology). ENxP are the archetypical thots/hoe of the intuitives. And sensor-feelers are 'naturally' promiscuous. Again, external factors are responsible for seeming deviations, e.g. parents influence, religion, INXJ instinctual moral influence.
"Tell a lie loud enough and long enough and people will believe it."
- Adolf Hitler
The quote is likely the compounding inspiration for the collective ENTP's creating and spreading this generational lie and ethical-rape (violating INXJ's natural, instinctual romantic standards and requirements). Cluster-B [ENTP] is another contributing factor.
In the end, a relationship between ENXP and INxJ ends at the introverts expense. While ENXP have the neurology for promiscuity (like sensor-feelers, ... And ESTP, to a surprisely lesser extent), INXJ risk so much more and they do suffer a miserable ["romance"] existence due to those types; their promiscous-neurology, and low levels of self-control. What's worse, is that most ENTP have cluster-B. They add to the miserable existence of INFJ (and INTJ, albeit to a lesser extent). INFJ instinctual/subconscious romantic standards is literally other [genuine] 'INFJ', and then ENFJ.
The natural associate and partner for the ENTP and ENFP is 'ESFP' and ESTP. This is matter of fact. INXJ is only the ENXP's favourite "food"/'essence' to sample.
PS: If nothing else, please investigate this (and you will find that it is true). You can expect the ENTP thot-network to attempt to hide the evidence. Please spread this information. It helps! The MBTI is rigged (and most ENTP have cluster-B). Willful, narcissitic clowns.
How come I don't know about this event?
Don't ask why, just ignore them. You already know how it ends.
Always remember, insanity is doing the same thing over and over again expecting a different result.
😢😢❤❤❤ Thank you for the reminder..
Always remember that you won't be the only one from their past that they will be trying to contact
Exactly they are doing it to all of there exes..trying to get energy validation and ego boost..
Indeed. My ex narc was in contact with her first bf (who she’s now with) pretty much our entire relationship from Feb 2019 to October 2022. I didn’t know it at the time, found out post relationship.
Exactly let him be gone and keep no contact..they dobit to all theor supplies they are playing they are disturbed
Exactly
Definitely
CORRECT! Go no contact and don’t respond to their creepy taunts. Even negative responses are fuel for those degenerates. Ignore them that will hurt them.
“They are your past. There is nothing there for you anymore”. Thank you 🙏
I know now, but how could a person like that make such an empact and leave you worse off when they gave Zero, and I do mean 0!!! Someone, please 🙏🏾 tell me something. Does my life suck that bad??
@@samothom7333it means you have to love yourself more my friend. Yourself is and should always be number 1. Love is blind. Be strong and never have someone disrespect you in every way. Love yourself and sho that to everyone and your life will be better and more peaceful.
@@samothom7333No. It is not. They made you feel boring. Because they are boring. They made you feel ugly. Because they are ugly. Remember their cruelty. They made you feel worthless. Because they are worthless. Their jealousy of us all drives them. Reject their toxicity. This stuff is theirs. Not yours. You'll feel better over time. You deserve better than their con games.❤
A vampire will not come in your house until you invite them in. Your choice!
Don’t have the devil on speed dial….
YOU CANNOT HEAL UNTIL YOU GO NO CONTACT. FACT
Complete No Contact. Zero Dark Thirty! I blocked anyone associated with her. I will never speak to anyone close to her. They have nothing I want or need
they think they are teaching You a lesson by being gone and you will behave now and follow suit and toe the line this time, sometimes they are just checking in to see if you have changed your tune yet and disappear rapidly again.
This is so true. Just recently there was 10 months of no contact from me after I confronted them on their abusive behavior and explained their mistreatment to them. Out of the blue after ten months a two word text message to me with a vague question. I responded against my better judgement because it's a family member then they stopped communicating with me. My genuine feeling is that they just wanted to see if I would respond and when I did they thought "ok I'm winning" and then decided to try to pretend they don't care about me by giving me the silent treatment. These people are the definition of immature. And all they accomplished by doing this was harden my decision not to respond next time.
I divorced him, embarrassed him by revealing his secrets, cut off all mutual friends and he is now with someone else. I don't think I will ever hear from him again.
That’s the best thing that could happen ❤
I had a narcissist contact me a few months after a discard, she came back with some sob story and fake apology playing on my sympathy. I forgave her and let her back into my life only to be discarded again for someone else after 5 months.
Sounds a lot like what I was dealing with 😵💫
Mine came back 2 years later. Acted like literally no time passed. Insane. I just blocked without reply.
I’m so sorry 😢this happened but they do circle back and hook you in and because we want to believe they have changed and they are better towards us we go back. But it takes time to come to the realisation that it’s not true
I'd honestly waterboard her for that. I've been done over 4 times. I was an idiot. I'm still hurt. But now, I hold a grudge. Thanks for video ❤
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Answer:
1) 'Emotional Appeal'; how you make a female "feel" is the key to her everything. Give her 'emotional-thrills' via manipulation.
2) Physical Attraction; even this is connected to emotional appeal/attraction. Both points connect the strange stereotype between women "fucking" psychopaths, "bad-boys"; and ESTP/Chad, ENFP, etc.
[I strongly believe that most women cannot differentiate between the sensation of "emotional-thrills" (including 'lust') and [genuine] "love"].
Love-definition. What is "love"? Answer: Excessive humanity for an individual.
Since most women are emotionally immature (they are good at masking it; do not confuse the two), they are exceedingly susceptible to emotional manipulation/exploitation.
Since society over-values and over protects the human female, the female can afford not to develop their sentience, intelligence, emotional residency and self-control. This makes them both unintelligent/narcissitic and emotionally-vulnerable.
Of the MBTI, most females are "feelers" and unintelligent-feelers, i.e. "sensor-feelers" (population density), no less. They are more vulnerable to this realization/exploit, i.e. that physical attraction and emotional manipulation (via "thrills") is the key to attracting the female.
NOTE: Most women monitor and prey on the emotions of a man. They attempt to corrode the emotional resiliency of a male child; thus making the male child susceptible to her "whining", narcissitic-complaints (self-serving and emotionally abusive [whims]); psychological manipulation via emotional abusing their sons will make them a dull, and disposable pawn (who exists solely to serve women and lay down their lives, as thought and conditioned via social norms).
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I hope I never see mine again ! He a player a user and will never ever change !
I was in this same situation with my narcissist ex. He use and discard me and block me on his phone. I felt bad at first, feeling better now but he is a manipulative player. Sorry for the next person, but good riddance to old rubbish.
If the narcissist who emotionally abused me contacts me again
I mite go to prison !!
I didn’t deserve what she did to me !
After 7 yrs no contact with ex narc boyfriend, up pops a Facebook message from him! When I saw that face in the circle I immediately swiped it off my phone WITHOUT reading the message! Went to my settings and re blocked him l. The next day I got 3 hang up calls in a row from him! Now THAT'S the true narc reacting to my rejection!
If they contact you via phone call, greet them with; "What the FU*K do you want now". This statement instantly shuts them up, permanently.
Mine would say..... Now don't be like that
I have been no contact for 6 months
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*words of wisdom*
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Answer:
1) 'Emotional Appeal'; how you make a female "feel" is the key to her everything. Give her 'emotional-thrills' via manipulation.
2) Physical Attraction; even this is connected to emotional appeal/attraction. Both points connect the strange stereotype between women "fucking" psychopaths, "bad-boys"; and ESTP/Chad, ENFP, etc.
[I strongly believe that most women cannot differentiate between the sensation of "emotional-thrills" (including 'lust') and [genuine] "love"].
Love-definition. What is "love"? Answer: Excessive humanity for an individual.
Since most women are emotionally immature (they are good at masking it; do not confuse the two), they are exceedingly susceptible to emotional manipulation/exploitation.
Since society over-values and over protects the human female, the female can afford not to develop their sentience, intelligence, emotional residency and self-control. This makes them both unintelligent/narcissitic and emotionally-vulnerable.
Of the MBTI, most females are "feelers" and unintelligent-feelers, i.e. "sensor-feelers" (population density), no less. They are more vulnerable to this realization/exploit, i.e. that physical attraction and emotional manipulation (via "thrills") is the key to attracting the female.
NOTE: Most women monitor and prey on the emotions of a man. They attempt to corrode the emotional resiliency of a male child; thus making the male child susceptible to her "whining", narcissitic-complaints (self-serving and emotionally abusive [whims]); psychological manipulation via emotional abusing their sons will make them a dull, and disposable pawn (who exists solely to serve women and lay down their lives, as thought and conditioned via social norms).
📍
"ENXP cannot naturally differentiate between 'LUST' and 'love'. Their values is naturally different to that of INXJ. External influence is responsible for seeming deviation. ENXP view relationships like "food-samples". Like all sensor-feelers, ENXP have neurology for PROMISCUITY!"
The MBTI compatibility chart is rigged by 'ENTP' and ENFP. The "manipulative" chart is tailored and authored by 'ENTP'! With their expansive "social" capabilities (and promiscuity), they are able to spread information and disinformation far and wide. ENTP are the archetypical clown/jester and they have the consciousness of one too.
Most are unhealthy, matter of factly, and even with so-called "healthy" ENTP (lacking cluster-b) they are not naturally moral and their level of humanity is surprisingly low-they still have it; however it is initially low. Case in point, ENXP 'naturally' view romantic relationships and dating in a manner that is akin to "sampling food". ENXP and INXJ are NOT compatible!!!! Please understand that the [rampant spread of] MBTI chart is baseless (the smarter ones among them already know this-willful creatures, i.e. ENTP)! It's viral spread is nothing more than a 'global, generational trolling' and "ethical-rape". It's goal is large scaled attempt to violate other people's romantic-fate/experiences, while violating their instinctual romantic preference! MBTI compatibility chart has the psychological finger-print of ENTP. It aids the miserable romantic experience of INXJ; the clown's attempt to violate their fated destiny! ENTP are naturally unethical and promiscous. Cluster-B (add-on) furthers this.
Look past the surface and you will realize that the MBTI chart is 'rigged' and tailored for ENTP (morality/humanity is not instinctual for them; healthy ones can understand it's value once seen, however it is not an instinct for the promiscous Jesters and archetypical-clowns [ENTP]). They've even screwed over most sensors, e.g. trying to "encourage" ESFP x ISTJ. *×Facepalm×*
Any deviation is solely due to external influence (referring to ENxP neuro-psychology). ENxP are the archetypical thots/hoe of the intuitives. And sensor-feelers are 'naturally' promiscuous. Again, external factors are responsible for seeming deviations, e.g. parents influence, religion, INXJ instinctual moral influence.
"Tell a lie loud enough and long enough and people will believe it."
- Adolf Hitler
The quote is likely the compounding inspiration for the collective ENTP's creating and spreading this generational lie and ethical-rape (violating INXJ's natural, instinctual romantic standards and requirements). Cluster-B [ENTP] is another contributing factor.
In the end, a relationship between ENXP and INxJ ends at the introverts expense. While ENXP have the neurology for promiscuity (like sensor-feelers, ... And ESTP, to a surprisely lesser extent), INXJ risk so much more and they do suffer a miserable ["romance"] existence due to those types; their promiscous-neurology, and low levels of self-control. What's worse, is that most ENTP have cluster-B. They add to the miserable existence of INFJ (and INTJ, albeit to a lesser extent). INFJ instinctual/subconscious romantic standards is literally other [genuine] 'INFJ', and then ENFJ.
The natural associate and partner for the ENTP and ENFP is 'ESFP' and ESTP. This is matter of fact. INXJ is only the ENXP's favourite "food"/'essence' to sample.
PS: If nothing else, please investigate this (and you will find that it is true). You can expect the ENTP thot-network to attempt to hide the evidence. Please spread this information. It helps! The MBTI is rigged (and most ENTP have cluster-B). Willful, narcissitic clowns.
They get so mad when you reject them, I could only laugh at tantrum.
I’m still on my journey to recovery and I’m not looking back. My abuser just sent me an email this week, year and a half later, after discard. I’m not reading it, I’m not looking back.
Good for you
Reading that garbage would only be polluting your mind again
Best wishes, Angelica!
💪🏽💪🏽 love this… no don’t look back there is nothing there to see. Of course he contacted you. Don’t take the bait. Just concentrate on you and your life 💕
👏👏👏👏💪😉🥰
You got this my Friend ❤
I love that you didn't open it
It's all nothingness in that email anyway
Hes contacted me because he dug his own grave and he has no other options. He has been banished to the land of banned. 😂😂😂
I'm so glad that I don't care anymore. Thank you for helping me with this.
Glad I could help 😊😊
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Answer:
1) 'Emotional Appeal'; how you make a female "feel" is the key to her everything. Give her 'emotional-thrills' via manipulation.
2) Physical Attraction; even this is connected to emotional appeal/attraction. Both points connect the strange stereotype between women "fucking" psychopaths, "bad-boys"; and ESTP/Chad, ENFP, etc.
[I strongly believe that most women cannot differentiate between the sensation of "emotional-thrills" (including 'lust') and [genuine] "love"].
Love-definition. What is "love"? Answer: Excessive humanity for an individual.
Since most women are emotionally immature (they are good at masking it; do not confuse the two), they are exceedingly susceptible to emotional manipulation/exploitation.
Since society over-values and over protects the human female, the female can afford not to develop their sentience, intelligence, emotional residency and self-control. This makes them both unintelligent/narcissitic and emotionally-vulnerable.
Of the MBTI, most females are "feelers" and unintelligent-feelers, i.e. "sensor-feelers" (population density), no less. They are more vulnerable to this realization/exploit, i.e. that physical attraction and emotional manipulation (via "thrills") is the key to attracting the female.
NOTE: Most women monitor and prey on the emotions of a man. They attempt to corrode the emotional resiliency of a male child; thus making the male child susceptible to her "whining", narcissitic-complaints (self-serving and emotionally abusive [whims]); psychological manipulation via emotional abusing their sons will make them a dull, and disposable pawn (who exists solely to serve women and lay down their lives, as thought and conditioned via social norms).
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She is the past and she did derail my life, but at the time I think I needed a wake up call. Change my boundaries and got me out of the rut I found myself in that made our paths cross to begin with. Once I had enough of that drug scene I climbed back up to the life I had before only this I did it with a better more knowledgeable version of myself and ever since I've had more success then ever before. For some reason having strong consistent boundaries and learning how to be more assertive has made me more attractive to the right woman and less attractive to the wrong ones. Think about that for a second. The three times I've been hoovered I was like her kryptonite. She went from high to rejecting me in 20 seconds. Lol Those covert narc women don't mess with strong confident assertive men, they go for the weak vulnerable men that put up with their drama like I did for a little while. Could never live with her and couldn't really stand to be around her at the end. So I left her out of the blue on a date I told her this isn't my life drugs aren't the answer and I have a life waiting for me and she wasn't part of that life so I paid for dinner gave her a hug and said goodbye. It was the right way to end a relationship. I did go no contact for six weeks. Then answered one of her texts and then she went commando on my ass when I rejected her hoover. Calling the police on me calling my family saying crazing things that weren't true. Shoeing up at my work in hysterics. Trying to hack one of my bank accounts. There's more but you get the picture. I couldn't believe the behavior of this woman. It freaked me out and I started reading online cause the one friend of hers told me she was a narc. So I read and holy heck she is. Every behavior trait of a covert vulnerable narc she showed me. Psychology is amazing stuff. Coverts are down right dangerous destructive disturbed people.
I actually discarded a narcissist and politely refused to further my relationship with her. To which she replied back after few days of no contact, "Are you happy?" Which probably meant, Are you happy without me?
If she contacted me with a decent non screaming tone of voice…. I’d swear it must be a prank.. lol
😂
😂😂😂 Exactly !!
I’m not joking sadly. 2 weeks ago reamed me 3 voice messages for something her countries goverment did. Accused me of bothering her, she contacted me as I’ve been and will remain silent since Jan 1. Can’t do no contact yet…
yes that truly resonates with me emotional blitz attack
😂
NO, no contact means “no contact”. Do not fall their trick, you’ll be right back where you started.
I’ve even had a phone call with no caller ID, as soon a it spoke I recognised its voice and I immediately hung up without saying a word. Somehow I do wish I had told her exactly what I think of her but nothing is the best, same as I received.
Sweet bugger all.
"it" LOL made me laugh!
I don't answer either. I used to abuse him, but it just upset me, not him. Silence is best.
No response is best. They can go w someone else. There was a hoover trigger unless you really wounded them badly.
Those demons just never give up. Always looking for an opening 😬…….
This just happened to me for the 3rd time! I let him back him. We lasted 1 months. Had a beautiful day together, he hugged me, said he would text me. 3 days no text. I went to call & he had blocked me! Went to FB to message & he quickly blocked me on messenger! He hadn't changed! He told me he had. Told me how much he had missed me for 8 months I had been NC. They don't change!
Hahahaha it happened 3 years constantly
Please block him everywhere. Don't let him back.
No, they do not! Sounds like my neighbor, but I blocked 🚫 him because I didn't want him to call me.
So, sorry, I know how narcissistic men can be. You cannot trust them.
I have seen how this neighbor treated many women. And non of his relationships last for very long and then he kicks them out, every time!
And then blames them that their the problem. Yeah, right!
Although we were just neighbors, he
So true Four years he left After a 25 year marriage And still thinks he has me in his pocket They are mental.I have seen him for what he is
The demonic, familiar spirits inside of them are the ones letting them know what’s going on with their victims.
Contacted me 4 days ago. Listen to his story for a couple days, just letting him talk. Everything he said and all the violins were textbook and I kept listening, checking off the Hoover list. Them BOOM! Today he messaged me asking if I could take him to the hospital, talking about we can finally see each other and how we can catch up all his misfortunes for the past FIVE YEARS 🤦🏻♀️ Told him since the ‘vid, I lost everything and have limited access to transportation, and reiterated that I Lost Everything! His reply?
“ Oh, I see…” Don’t expect to hear from him again, well, maybe in another five years. 😆 Why did I bite? I knew he would get 100% on the Hoover test. I had nothing, so he has no use for me as I continue on with my peaceful life! 🤗
Good for you😂
My narcissist had it out with someone else and called me after no contact to damage control in case the other person called me.
Yeah even the exs they've hated on suddenly become buddies.....sick twisted evil scary individuals
You know Anoushka, I watched these videos for months thinking that it would never happen. But tonight she called me with her new toy taunting me, completely different number so I wouldn't recognize who it was and I exploded from the shock. The love I had has completely vanished, and all it took was one phone call for me to finally see her true demented self.
I am also waiting for him to prove that he is a sociopathic serial narcissist - 3 months no contact but its only a matter of time he rears his covert sneaky head.
That's so brutal of her that she did that.
Okay, I blocked him on everything:( I’m ready
My ex sent an email asking me to report my job search because of child support. I have my children. He left during our child’s chemo. I replied rejecting his request. It was so degrading. I was objectified. He also didn’t use my name. It was Hello hope all is well. He will never control me again. It’s hard for me because I loved him. He has a new supply and he wants to move on or so he says. He will never hold space in my life again. I never knew that he was this cruel.
This video is great timing! The narc prank called me last week after 6yrs of no contact. This week was a flying monkey. Baiting is real. The narc was abusive in the relationship and threatening when I left. He picked the wrong person to conform. The police have been informed as he's trying to find me. Looking forward to not letting the narc dim my shine as I distract myself with creating better, healthier habits! Binge watch as many videos to educate yourself to do better. Thanks to this video, I'm a better person 🥰🙏👊
Of course they come back!! And I’m not surprised after 6 years WOW 😮! Glad you were strong enough to blank them. That is you standing in your power 💥💥 Do you and keep going forward 🎉
Hi Grasshopper
Yes I also binge watch too I'm sending you love and light and many blessings asking the Angel's to wrap their wings around you and bring you everything that you wish for 🙏🙏👼👼💐🤗
Thank you both for your kindness and wisdom. The world is a better place with you in it 🥰🥰
I appreciate the protection sent from the wings of angels and the insight as to how to react and expect what comes next. I am blessed 🙌
You are a God Send. Thank you for reminding us how evil those individuals are. I have a child with one and you nail home all the points. Thank You!
I’ve stopped caring about him. Divorced, no contact for 2 years. It’s like the 16 years marriage never happened.
Most people that are not aware of true narcissism they will usually get hoovered back at least once. Once you truly become aware of the personality disorder you can inflict narcissistic injury if they try to hoover you again. It didn't have to be a romantic relationship, it can be a sibling, parent, "friend", etc. If you happen to run into them by "accident" just be calm and brief and move on quickly as if they never existed in your life. Don't be mean, rude or anxious, stay calm and say something to their response if they say "Hey, long time no see, or hey how are you doing"? you can respond without any emotions and say doing excellent. Don't ask them how they are keep the conversation brief and say something bland like, I'm in a rush got to go or something to the extent that they did not get the response they wanted from you or an extended conversation. It will inflict a narcissistic injury. All they were doing was trying to see if they still have a chance to hoover you back. Once they realize you figured them out and moved on they will NOT bother you again. They don't like to feel the shame of being invisible because it goes against everything their false ego they have created. Just know they will NEVER change and will continue to find new sources to manipulate and abuse. Idolize, devalue and discard is their mode of operation.
Amen!
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"Evil" is the antithesis to the virtue: 'humanity'. Humanity is the characteristic that defines the human spirit. Humanity is symbiosis across humans and society. 'Humanity' exceeds 'social-darwinism'.
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NEURO-PERSONALITY
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"SENSORY-FEELERS" ARE LARGELY RESPONSIBLE FOR SPREADING DISINFORMATION AND HATE TOWARDS ENTJ/INTJ (AGAINST "THINKERS" IN GENERAL)-BOTH IRL AND ON THE INTERNET; DESPITE THOSE NEURO-PERSONALITY TYPES BEING A BLESSING TO SOCIETY AND ALL OF MANKIND! THEY DESERVE BETTER! 😤
'ESFJ', 'ESFP', ISFP and ISFJ are a pathogen to humanity, and 'then' Cluster-B (depending on they neuro-personality).
THEIR "FEELINGS 'IS' THEIR REALITY", THEY ALSO HAVE A MALICIOUS-MIND BY DEFAULT (excluding normal ISFJ). DESPITE HAVING MALICIOUS INTENT THEY ARE ALL EMOTIONALLY-WEAK AND PRONE TO COVERT/VULNERABLE-NARCISSISM.
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Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality').
I recommend researching 'narcissistic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissist'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)!
European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!!
They are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-r@pe, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim/damsel in distress, creating "flying-monkeys", and 'bribing' others (with money or BJ) to attack, or at times, kill someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Emmett Till.
xSFP and ISFJ (2W1) are the most complicit, narcissistic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependents' (look up the definition). Like ESFJ, XSFP's "feelings 'is' their reality." Most are covert/vulnerable-narcissists.
ISFJ often perceive things only on the surface level (even by sensor standards), are suckers for a “pretty face", and their neuro-psychology makes them the ideal narcissitic-codependent and pawn to the ESFJ (blind-loyalty, surface level perception, susceptibility to covert-narcissism).
Lastly, ISFJ are notorious for impersonating other people's identities IRL and on the internet; while ESFJ-9W1 superficially appears like an ENFJ, they have different 'neurology' and psychology. Both XSFJ are superficial by nature and perceive reality at face-value/surface level.
SUMMARY
Evil personality: 'ESFJ' (ALL), ESTJ (Cluster-b), ISFJ-2W1 (covert-narc/enabler). ESFJ-9W1 superficially resembles ENFJ; different 'neurology' and psychology.
[Secretly] Evil and narcissist-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL), and ISFJ (2W1 enable ESFJ).
☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict as a distraction (at other people's expense, truly evil).
Spread the word! Thank you.
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Research ref: Raudha Athif, Ghislaine Maxwell, Marilyn Monroe, Karen, ESFJ-narcissists, ESFJ-neurology, Gaslighting, Amber Heard, Fake feminism, Rising of a shield hero (Malty-'ESFJ'; XSFX spread disinformation online. ISFJ is the main culprit; ISFJ largely perceive things on the surface level), 'Brood-parasitism’- XSFJ natural psychology.
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Answer:
1) 'Emotional Appeal'; how you make a female "feel" is the key to her everything. Give her 'emotional-thrills' via manipulation.
2) Physical Attraction; even this is connected to emotional appeal/attraction. Both points connect the strange stereotype between women "fucking" psychopaths, "bad-boys"; and ESTP/Chad, ENFP, etc.
[I strongly believe that most women cannot differentiate between the sensation of "emotional-thrills" (including 'lust') and [genuine] "love"].
Love-definition. What is "love"? Answer: Excessive humanity for an individual.
Since most women are emotionally immature (they are good at masking it; do not confuse the two), they are exceedingly susceptible to emotional manipulation/exploitation.
Since society over-values and over protects the human female, the female can afford not to develop their sentience, intelligence, emotional residency and self-control. This makes them both unintelligent/narcissitic and emotionally-vulnerable.
Of the MBTI, most females are "feelers" and unintelligent-feelers, i.e. "sensor-feelers" (population density), no less. They are more vulnerable to this realization/exploit, i.e. that physical attraction and emotional manipulation (via "thrills") is the key to attracting the female.
NOTE: Most women monitor and prey on the emotions of a man. They attempt to corrode the emotional resiliency of a male child; thus making the male child susceptible to her "whining", narcissitic-complaints (self-serving and emotionally abusive [whims]); psychological manipulation via emotional abusing their sons will make them a dull, and disposable pawn (who exists solely to serve women and lay down their lives, as thought and conditioned via social norms).
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[ADVICE]
MY-PHILOSOPHY: "INNER-STRENGTH"
I have found that simply "loving myself" (inner-child) is a powerful tool against most types of social-dependency/vulnerability.
Example:
In my mind, I visualise a picture of my younger self (family albums might help). And I 'remember' what the emotion of genuine love felt like. And then I project those emotions onto the mental visualization of my younger self. I meditate and hold that 'state of mind' for as long as I can.
The result? I feel my conscious energy resignating with positivity and renewed strength. And my anxiety immediately evaporates away. At the very least, depending on my levels of anxiety, this mediation practice aids to 'evaporate' much of it. You can do the same thing with "trying to 'remember' temperatures, e.g. hot or cold. And then project that memory onto a visualised heat source (all within your minds eye). You will 'feel' the effects immediately."
I hope this proved helpful.
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"ENXP cannot naturally differentiate between 'LUST' and 'love'. Their values is naturally different to that of INXJ. External influence is responsible for seeming deviation. ENXP view relationships like "food-samples". Like all sensor-feelers, ENXP have neurology for PROMISCUITY!"
The MBTI compatibility chart is rigged by 'ENTP' and ENFP. The "manipulative" chart is tailored and authored by 'ENTP'! With their expansive "social" capabilities (and promiscuity), they are able to spread information and disinformation far and wide. ENTP are the archetypical clown/jester and they have the consciousness of one too.
Most are unhealthy, matter of factly, and even with so-called "healthy" ENTP (lacking cluster-b) they are not naturally moral and their level of humanity is surprisingly low-they still have it; however it is initially low. Case in point, ENXP 'naturally' view romantic relationships and dating in a manner that is akin to "sampling food". ENXP and INXJ are NOT compatible!!!! Please understand that the [rampant spread of] MBTI chart is baseless (the smarter ones among them already know this-willful creatures, i.e. ENTP)! It's viral spread is nothing more than a 'global, generational trolling' and "ethical-rape". It's goal is large scaled attempt to violate other people's romantic-fate/experiences, while violating their instinctual romantic preference! MBTI compatibility chart has the psychological finger-print of ENTP. It aids the miserable romantic experience of INXJ; the clown's attempt to violate their fated destiny! ENTP are naturally unethical and promiscous. Cluster-B (add-on) furthers this.
Look past the surface and you will realize that the MBTI chart is 'rigged' and tailored for ENTP (morality/humanity is not instinctual for them; healthy ones can understand it's value once seen, however it is not an instinct for the promiscous Jesters and archetypical-clowns [ENTP]). They've even screwed over most sensors, e.g. trying to "encourage" ESFP x ISTJ. *×Facepalm×*
Any deviation is solely due to external influence (referring to ENxP neuro-psychology). ENxP are the archetypical thots/hoe of the intuitives. And sensor-feelers are 'naturally' promiscuous. Again, external factors are responsible for seeming deviations, e.g. parents influence, religion, INXJ instinctual moral influence.
"Tell a lie loud enough and long enough and people will believe it."
- Adolf Hitler
The quote is likely the compounding inspiration for the collective ENTP's creating and spreading this generational lie and ethical-rape (violating INXJ's natural, instinctual romantic standards and requirements). Cluster-B [ENTP] is another contributing factor.
In the end, a relationship between ENXP and INxJ ends at the introverts expense. While ENXP have the neurology for promiscuity (like sensor-feelers, ... And ESTP, to a surprisely lesser extent), INXJ risk so much more and they do suffer a miserable ["romance"] existence due to those types; their promiscous-neurology, and low levels of self-control. What's worse, is that most ENTP have cluster-B. They add to the miserable existence of INFJ (and INTJ, albeit to a lesser extent). INFJ instinctual/subconscious romantic standards is literally other [genuine] 'INFJ', and then ENFJ.
The natural associate and partner for the ENTP and ENFP is 'ESFP' and ESTP. This is matter of fact. INXJ is only the ENXP's favourite "food"/'essence' to sample.
PS: If nothing else, please investigate this (and you will find that it is true). You can expect the ENTP thot-network to attempt to hide the evidence. Please spread this information. It helps! The MBTI is rigged (and most ENTP have cluster-B). Willful, narcissitic clowns.
Thanks for this advice the only way he could try and contact me is by bumping into me on the street by accident of course or turning up at my door everything else is blocked. He's already in hurt mode about me as he attempted multiple hoovers after my awareness of other supply, he must have not got them hooked yet as he was still breadcrumbing for a few months - no more finally I blocked 3 months ago and getting back to my old self.
Don't take the bait 😊 Focus on your heart. (Law of attraction stuff, why don't narcissists get with narcissists?)
Because Law of Attraction is BS. These people have unclean spirits on them and are sent by the enemy of humanity, Satan, to attempt to destroy God’s children. Don’t allow them🤍🙏
Great advice. My ex is still silent. So far so good. Getting better each day.
Wonderful!🎉🎉
How long your ex been silent? .. me broke up with my narcissist boyfriend of 12 years. I broke up with him last week, he been cheating on me with his ex girlfriend for the entire time, I forgive him once, but I found out that they still continue, they never stopped. So I have to let him go. I'm better than that.. she's also a married woman.
Mine too been in no contact for 3 months - still silence - I am healing and the memories of all the bullshit words he used to gaslight me with are as clear as day now.
Mine took 8 months and could only get through because my phone died in the ocean and wiped out my blocks.
He'll never hear from me again.
my ex discard me And blocked me everywhere ,as if I am gonna to huant him. But all I wanted was closure , and I got it finally after 33 mails until I threaten him that I will contact his friend in his country .-I did not want to do it but he blocked me everywhere before telling me how to deal my shipment from his house . I felt relieved and peace after his disappearance. When I look back there is nothing good in this relationship .his blame ,his angriness ,his selfishness,and kids and his family ,no place for me ….
Divorced after 27 years, no contact for over a year then the phone rings 10 times, she actually used 2 different phones. She wanted her source back so I let her speak then told her I moved on and hung up. Blocked both phones after I texted her never to contact me again unless it was for business and if so to go through a third party. Remember that narcs know the good stuff, my only defense is NO CONTACT and therapy/knowledge to get past 30 years of trauma.
I find it weird that they discard you, move on to new supply, block you……then they unblock you and want to chat as if nothing has happened. She’s done it to me a couple of times since I walked about five months ago. And each time when I bring up stuff and want her to take some accountability she’s blows up and blocks me again.
I’m experiencing this as I write this down he’s blowing up my phone. It’s so har because I’m not the kind of person that rejects people.
Same smh bc I know how it hurts and feels…
Teresa
It's a good idea to learn
You have to stay silent to protect your peace . Stay strong 💪🏽 you can do this 😊
Block and delete
He hasn't, and he won't but I feel for those that have this happen.
I got a text probably from my violent ex 2 years after going no contact. He was a violent man and started over directly after our breakup. I guess the new relationship is falling apart. I will never answer.
If he contacts me I’ve already decided he’s a narcissist no doubt. I’ve learned my lessons because he only knows this cycle Anoushka talks about. There is no solid foundation. I’ve thrown the receipt away!! Thank you Anoushka ❤
The only reason they're able to come back is because somehow you leave an opening somewhere in hopes that the narcissist eventually will find it and come through, when you authentically want them out of your life you do everything in your power to disappear forever, consciously vanish, it must be intentional on your part, otherwise it's just a way of deceiving yourself because you're just as addicted to the narc though...........
The Demon Poop returned something mundane in my shoerack , then ‘i miss you’ and .. !! Ta dah! He needs a place to crash 😂because he got kicked out . Not today, Satan
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Amen!
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"Evil" is the antithesis to the virtue: 'humanity'. Humanity is the characteristic that defines the human spirit. Humanity is symbiosis across humans and society. 'Humanity' exceeds 'social-darwinism'.
.............................
NEURO-PERSONALITY
.............................
"SENSORY-FEELERS" ARE LARGELY RESPONSIBLE FOR SPREADING DISINFORMATION AND HATE TOWARDS ENTJ/INTJ (AGAINST "THINKERS" IN GENERAL)-BOTH IRL AND ON THE INTERNET; DESPITE THOSE NEURO-PERSONALITY TYPES BEING A BLESSING TO SOCIETY AND ALL OF MANKIND! THEY DESERVE BETTER! 😤
'ESFJ', 'ESFP', ISFP and ISFJ are a pathogen to humanity, and 'then' Cluster-B (depending on they neuro-personality).
THEIR "FEELINGS 'IS' THEIR REALITY", THEY ALSO HAVE A MALICIOUS-MIND BY DEFAULT (excluding normal ISFJ). DESPITE HAVING MALICIOUS INTENT THEY ARE ALL EMOTIONALLY-WEAK AND PRONE TO COVERT/VULNERABLE-NARCISSISM.
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Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality').
I recommend researching 'narcissistic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissist'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)!
European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!!
They are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-r@pe, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim/damsel in distress, creating "flying-monkeys", and 'bribing' others (with money or BJ) to attack, or at times, kill someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Emmett Till.
xSFP and ISFJ (2W1) are the most complicit, narcissistic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependents' (look up the definition). Like ESFJ, XSFP's "feelings 'is' their reality." Most are covert/vulnerable-narcissists.
ISFJ often perceive things only on the surface level (even by sensor standards), are suckers for a “pretty face", and their neuro-psychology makes them the ideal narcissitic-codependent and pawn to the ESFJ (blind-loyalty, surface level perception, susceptibility to covert-narcissism).
Lastly, ISFJ are notorious for impersonating other people's identities IRL and on the internet; while ESFJ-9W1 superficially appears like an ENFJ, they have different 'neurology' and psychology. Both XSFJ are superficial by nature and perceive reality at face-value/surface level.
SUMMARY
Evil personality: 'ESFJ' (ALL), ESTJ (Cluster-b), ISFJ-2W1 (covert-narc/enabler). ESFJ-9W1 superficially resembles ENFJ; different 'neurology' and psychology.
[Secretly] Evil and narcissist-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL), and ISFJ (2W1 enable ESFJ).
☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict as a distraction (at other people's expense, truly evil).
Spread the word! Thank you.
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Research ref: Raudha Athif, Ghislaine Maxwell, Marilyn Monroe, Karen, ESFJ-narcissists, ESFJ-neurology, Gaslighting, Amber Heard, Fake feminism, Rising of a shield hero (Malty-'ESFJ'; XSFX spread disinformation online. ISFJ is the main culprit; ISFJ largely perceive things on the surface level), 'Brood-parasitism’- XSFJ natural psychology.
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[ADVICE]
MY-PHILOSOPHY: "INNER-STRENGTH"
I have found that simply "loving myself" (inner-child) is a powerful tool against most types of social-dependency/vulnerability.
Example:
In my mind, I visualise a picture of my younger self (family albums might help). And I 'remember' what the emotion of genuine love felt like. And then I project those emotions onto the mental visualization of my younger self. I meditate and hold that 'state of mind' for as long as I can.
The result? I feel my conscious energy resignating with positivity and renewed strength. And my anxiety immediately evaporates away. At the very least, depending on my levels of anxiety, this mediation practice aids to 'evaporate' much of it. You can do the same thing with "trying to 'remember' temperatures, e.g. hot or cold. And then project that memory onto a visualised heat source (all within your minds eye). You will 'feel' the effects immediately."
I hope this proved helpful.
FEMALE-ATTRACTION/ATTRACTION/ROMANTIC-ATTRACTION/FEMALE-PSYCHOLOGY/HOW-TO-ATTRACT-FEMALES/FEMALE-MANIPULATORS/MANIPULATE-FEMALES/FEMALE-DATING-FEMALES
Answer:
1) 'Emotional Appeal'; how you make a female "feel" is the key to her everything. Give her 'emotional-thrills' via manipulation.
2) Physical Attraction; even this is connected to emotional appeal/attraction. Both points connect the strange stereotype between women "fucking" psychopaths, "bad-boys"; and ESTP/Chad, ENFP, etc.
[I strongly believe that most women cannot differentiate between the sensation of "emotional-thrills" (including 'lust') and [genuine] "love"].
Love-definition. What is "love"? Answer: Excessive humanity for an individual.
Since most women are emotionally immature (they are good at masking it; do not confuse the two), they are exceedingly susceptible to emotional manipulation/exploitation.
Since society over-values and over protects the human female, the female can afford not to develop their sentience, intelligence, emotional residency and self-control. This makes them both unintelligent/narcissitic and emotionally-vulnerable.
Of the MBTI, most females are "feelers" and unintelligent-feelers, i.e. "sensor-feelers" (population density), no less. They are more vulnerable to this realization/exploit, i.e. that physical attraction and emotional manipulation (via "thrills") is the key to attracting the female.
NOTE: Most women monitor and prey on the emotions of a man. They attempt to corrode the emotional resiliency of a male child; thus making the male child susceptible to her "whining", narcissitic-complaints (self-serving and emotionally abusive [whims]); psychological manipulation via emotional abusing their sons will make them a dull, and disposable pawn (who exists solely to serve women and lay down their lives, as thought and conditioned via social norms).
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"ENXP cannot naturally differentiate between 'LUST' and 'love'. Their values is naturally different to that of INXJ. External influence is responsible for seeming deviation. ENXP view relationships like "food-samples". Like all sensor-feelers, ENXP have neurology for PROMISCUITY!"
The MBTI compatibility chart is rigged by 'ENTP' and ENFP. The "manipulative" chart is tailored and authored by 'ENTP'! With their expansive "social" capabilities (and promiscuity), they are able to spread information and disinformation far and wide. ENTP are the archetypical clown/jester and they have the consciousness of one too.
Most are unhealthy, matter of factly, and even with so-called "healthy" ENTP (lacking cluster-b) they are not naturally moral and their level of humanity is surprisingly low-they still have it; however it is initially low. Case in point, ENXP 'naturally' view romantic relationships and dating in a manner that is akin to "sampling food". ENXP and INXJ are NOT compatible!!!! Please understand that the [rampant spread of] MBTI chart is baseless (the smarter ones among them already know this-willful creatures, i.e. ENTP)! It's viral spread is nothing more than a 'global, generational trolling' and "ethical-rape". It's goal is large scaled attempt to violate other people's romantic-fate/experiences, while violating their instinctual romantic preference! MBTI compatibility chart has the psychological finger-print of ENTP. It aids the miserable romantic experience of INXJ; the clown's attempt to violate their fated destiny! ENTP are naturally unethical and promiscous. Cluster-B (add-on) furthers this.
Look past the surface and you will realize that the MBTI chart is 'rigged' and tailored for ENTP (morality/humanity is not instinctual for them; healthy ones can understand it's value once seen, however it is not an instinct for the promiscous Jesters and archetypical-clowns [ENTP]). They've even screwed over most sensors, e.g. trying to "encourage" ESFP x ISTJ. *×Facepalm×*
Any deviation is solely due to external influence (referring to ENxP neuro-psychology). ENxP are the archetypical thots/hoe of the intuitives. And sensor-feelers are 'naturally' promiscuous. Again, external factors are responsible for seeming deviations, e.g. parents influence, religion, INXJ instinctual moral influence.
"Tell a lie loud enough and long enough and people will believe it."
- Adolf Hitler
The quote is likely the compounding inspiration for the collective ENTP's creating and spreading this generational lie and ethical-rape (violating INXJ's natural, instinctual romantic standards and requirements). Cluster-B [ENTP] is another contributing factor.
In the end, a relationship between ENXP and INxJ ends at the introverts expense. While ENXP have the neurology for promiscuity (like sensor-feelers, ... And ESTP, to a surprisely lesser extent), INXJ risk so much more and they do suffer a miserable ["romance"] existence due to those types; their promiscous-neurology, and low levels of self-control. What's worse, is that most ENTP have cluster-B. They add to the miserable existence of INFJ (and INTJ, albeit to a lesser extent). INFJ instinctual/subconscious romantic standards is literally other [genuine] 'INFJ', and then ENFJ.
The natural associate and partner for the ENTP and ENFP is 'ESFP' and ESTP. This is matter of fact. INXJ is only the ENXP's favourite "food"/'essence' to sample.
PS: If nothing else, please investigate this (and you will find that it is true). You can expect the ENTP thot-network to attempt to hide the evidence. Please spread this information. It helps! The MBTI is rigged (and most ENTP have cluster-B). Willful, narcissitic clowns.
Moving forward as they disgust me. Really gross behavior and mentality I cannot engage at all. I'm good and stronger than this now and I'm so happy . They are in the past. 🎉 Thanks so much for the video anoushka ❤
That’s right keep moving forward 💪🏽💪🏽 their behaviour is not going to change. 😢
Absolutely bang on.
Mine uses other people to just, pop up an say hello, an then asking a question personal to me , that they wouldn’t normally know or ask.
As for not doin what I’m supposed too, erm, no! I’m just getting on with my life.
Yeah … they do that to get your attention and for you to talk to them. It’s all about attention 😮😮
@@anoushkamarcin I’ve also started askin these people, who wants to know? The Narc or the spawn of Narc?
That screws them hands down bcs, they are normally decent people being used.
Yep thats exactly what he wants. To know what's happening in my life. I refuse to let him know.
So on point. Narcs can be so freaking annoying! LOL!❤😂 I've been divorced for 3 years after 32 years of marriage and he STILL won't leave me alone but I let him know we're over. He still doesn't believe me. They think we are their trophy wives along with every other one of their Narc Supplies. I will never give into him and he still throws his toddler temper tantrums. It's funny now. I have to be non reactive to his BS. Thanks for your understanding and information.
Exactly! They are opportunists and he lined someone new up with greater resources and then scuttled our relationship. I have no proof but this is what I highly suspect. It’s sad reality but a smile will eventually come to you which the closure you seek is within you and not the narcissist.
Thanks for another amazing video! Definitely where I’m am at this moment.
I’ve got to the stage where I’m no contact at all, they are definitely my past & they will never change, it’s a sinking ship. It was tempting to write back F off, but it wouldn’t make a blind bit of difference. I’m more focused on doing better in life, moving forwards being with people that don’t want to destroy me mentally
Good thinking, Stephen, keep these people away like I do, and once there are enough of us these sad excuses for human beings will jump in a circle desperate to get attention from anybody. That will be the happiest sight.
I’m so glad to hear that your doing better and that you made the best decision in your life to go no contact. Stay strong 💪🏽 and keep going forward all we have is now 😊
@@anoushkamarcin Thank you so much 🙏🏼
They just say I miss you. Mine 6 months after I blocked him. Reached out to me on a burner number. I miss you. This is what they say. Don’t buy their BS. Its all BS.😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫👈🏻
Sooooooo true. They are cold as ice.
agreed with you..... they will still reach out no matter how many times you told them not to contact you and yet there they are. its like they are deaf or blind
Stay safe out there with these narcis!!! Gotta stay one step ahead or they will gobble you whole. They are real, they are sad creatures.
They are not always benign communications. I got an email about a month ago from my ex wife - the first time she has had any communication whatsoever with me in the 3.5 years after discarding me and totally ghosting out of my life. I literally have never seen the woman again. Her email is angry, bitter and states she hates me. She also claims I have "ruined her life" and those of her children - she cant sleep, is anxious and nervous,, had to stop working, and her kids will now not be able to "fulfill their potential in life".
As I said i have not been in their lives in any way for nearly 4 years. Its a load of hyperbolic nonsense designed to get a reaction out of me. Probably her latest disaster has fallen apart and shes making me a scapegoat.
She didnt get a reply and wont.
The ex narc boyfriend actually made a statement about himself to me, not realizing that it demonstrated his callousness: he said: " I'm an iguana sitting on a branch of a tree above a flowing river. When the heat gets too hot I simply fall into the river and move on".
So eye opening. My narc is doing all of this stuff. Spot on advice
I haven't talked to my ex since about February of 2020 in 2020 she married a guy out of her past in California and move back there I'm in Texas last month she sends me a message on Facebook about time being short and things need to be sad so she wanted me to know that she forgave me for all the things that I did wrong and wanted to know if we could be friends in more words than this I told her absolutely not so why is she contacting me now after she's been so-called happily married after 2 years
Always well explained thank you Anoushka ! The narcs are so predictable and consistent in their mannerisms and patterns.
it's been 2 years now since i figured it out then left the narc. and yes it is true that they will do anything just to lure you back in but there's no way she can deceive me again.
so thankful you are there for the education about this matter, or i was still under the narc's grip then while losing my sanity.
thank you Anoushka!
Its easy to forget and hard to remember!
This is great advice, they will come back in only to make sure they trash your life properly this time, go no contact period ❤
You safe the rest of us in soooo much ..p a i n , progres , confiusion at first than deeper discover etc guys we are real team in this madnees we are the winers of this nonsense
Your videos and understanding of narcissistic behaviours are second to none...Thankyou for helping me🙏
This ia valuable because I'm in that "bargaining" stage where I'm trying to convince myself we can talk this over & work it out... but no, this is part of the illusion.
He texted me and said he was sorry. He also said he hoped we could talk again soon. I just ignored the text.
he contacted me 2 wks ago 8 months after he discarded me and was seen w/ a rebound... he texted me "hi *pet name*, how are you? how's life been?" i haven't responded bc im so torn. he texted in january too, "you still have my ray bans?" and i didn't reply. he travels back and forth to his home country. he dumped me in such a cold way, i can't understand this. it hurts. i want to respond
help
Don’t respond. Focus on the thought that you won’t get any closure or healing from that interaction, and after some warm exchange somewhere down the road it will hurt you even worse. Stand up for yourself and ignore
Don’t give in do not text
You’ve come too far
Take this a victory and show him by not responding that you are not a victim anymore
I made this mistake and omg the next discard was 100 times worse 😔
Don’t respond. Block! Just happened to me, got texted me from a different #, I immediately blocked!
@@Beelove123 good for you!!!
....light blue, red, light red, clear & pink.......quite a collection there....
I haven't talked to my daughter in years, and because I didn't play the game today. I realise that my daughter is narcissistic also. That woman has no shame or dignity, our children. Is there hope for children of narcissistic mothers?
Just Ask Anoushka - 💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼
Wow, wow, wow, Awesome video! Thank you so much
Thanks for this message of support and guidance. God bless. ❤
One of most controling realationship whit narsisist and kiping guard is avoiding eye contact.indeed they try to stimulat our emotions to abuse with every thing such ad eye contact...sometimes they start a roll like kindness for dealing and abuse....!!!
After no contact, following renewed contact the answer is a confident, decisive "no" followed by no farther responses.
Much appreciation and respect for your efforts.
So nice of you 😊 thank you
Uh, uh, uh…
I wish I learned of you, a long time ago!
You are so “interpretive”.
Thank You
☮️❤️🎶
[ADVICE]
MY-PHILOSOPHY: "INNER-STRENGTH"
I have found that simply "loving myself" (inner-child) is a powerful tool against most types of social-dependency/vulnerability.
Example:
In my mind, I visualise a picture of my younger self (family albums might help). And I 'remember' what the emotion of genuine love felt like. And then I project those emotions onto the mental visualization of my younger self. I meditate and hold that 'state of mind' for as long as I can.
The result? I feel my conscious energy resignating with positivity and renewed strength. And my anxiety immediately evaporates away. At the very least, depending on my levels of anxiety, this mediation practice aids to 'evaporate' much of it. You can do the same thing with "trying to 'remember' temperatures, e.g. hot or cold. And then project that memory onto a visualised heat source (all within your minds eye). You will 'feel' the effects immediately."
I hope this proved helpful.
FEMALE-ATTRACTION/ATTRACTION/ROMANTIC-ATTRACTION/FEMALE-PSYCHOLOGY/HOW-TO-ATTRACT-FEMALES/FEMALE-MANIPULATORS/MANIPULATE-FEMALES/FEMALE-DATING-FEMALES
Answer:
1) 'Emotional Appeal'; how you make a female "feel" is the key to her everything. Give her 'emotional-thrills' via manipulation.
2) Physical Attraction; even this is connected to emotional appeal/attraction. Both points connect the strange stereotype between women "fucking" psychopaths, "bad-boys"; and ESTP/Chad, ENFP, etc.
[I strongly believe that most women cannot differentiate between the sensation of "emotional-thrills" (including 'lust') and [genuine] "love"].
Love-definition. What is "love"? Answer: Excessive humanity for an individual.
Since most women are emotionally immature (they are good at masking it; do not confuse the two), they are exceedingly susceptible to emotional manipulation/exploitation.
Since society over-values and over protects the human female, the female can afford not to develop their sentience, intelligence, emotional residency and self-control. This makes them both unintelligent/narcissitic and emotionally-vulnerable.
Of the MBTI, most females are "feelers" and unintelligent-feelers, i.e. "sensor-feelers" (population density), no less. They are more vulnerable to this realization/exploit, i.e. that physical attraction and emotional manipulation (via "thrills") is the key to attracting the female.
NOTE: Most women monitor and prey on the emotions of a man. They attempt to corrode the emotional resiliency of a male child; thus making the male child susceptible to her "whining", narcissitic-complaints (self-serving and emotionally abusive [whims]); psychological manipulation via emotional abusing their sons will make them a dull, and disposable pawn (who exists solely to serve women and lay down their lives, as thought and conditioned via social norms).
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Amen!
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"Evil" is the antithesis to the virtue: 'humanity'. Humanity is the characteristic that defines the human spirit. Humanity is symbiosis across humans and society. 'Humanity' exceeds 'social-darwinism'.
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NEURO-PERSONALITY
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"SENSORY-FEELERS" ARE LARGELY RESPONSIBLE FOR SPREADING DISINFORMATION AND HATE TOWARDS ENTJ/INTJ (AGAINST "THINKERS" IN GENERAL)-BOTH IRL AND ON THE INTERNET; DESPITE THOSE NEURO-PERSONALITY TYPES BEING A BLESSING TO SOCIETY AND ALL OF MANKIND! THEY DESERVE BETTER! 😤
'ESFJ', 'ESFP', ISFP and ISFJ are a pathogen to humanity, and 'then' Cluster-B (depending on they neuro-personality).
THEIR "FEELINGS 'IS' THEIR REALITY", THEY ALSO HAVE A MALICIOUS-MIND BY DEFAULT (excluding normal ISFJ). DESPITE HAVING MALICIOUS INTENT THEY ARE ALL EMOTIONALLY-WEAK AND PRONE TO COVERT/VULNERABLE-NARCISSISM.
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Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality').
I recommend researching 'narcissistic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissist'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)!
European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!!
They are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-r@pe, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim/damsel in distress, creating "flying-monkeys", and 'bribing' others (with money or BJ) to attack, or at times, kill someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Emmett Till.
xSFP and ISFJ (2W1) are the most complicit, narcissistic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependents' (look up the definition). Like ESFJ, XSFP's "feelings 'is' their reality." Most are covert/vulnerable-narcissists.
ISFJ often perceive things only on the surface level (even by sensor standards), are suckers for a “pretty face", and their neuro-psychology makes them the ideal narcissitic-codependent and pawn to the ESFJ (blind-loyalty, surface level perception, susceptibility to covert-narcissism).
Lastly, ISFJ are notorious for impersonating other people's identities IRL and on the internet; while ESFJ-9W1 superficially appears like an ENFJ, they have different 'neurology' and psychology. Both XSFJ are superficial by nature and perceive reality at face-value/surface level.
SUMMARY
Evil personality: 'ESFJ' (ALL), ESTJ (Cluster-b), ISFJ-2W1 (covert-narc/enabler). ESFJ-9W1 superficially resembles ENFJ; different 'neurology' and psychology.
[Secretly] Evil and narcissist-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL), and ISFJ (2W1 enable ESFJ).
☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict as a distraction (at other people's expense, truly evil).
Spread the word! Thank you.
___________
Research ref: Raudha Athif, Ghislaine Maxwell, Marilyn Monroe, Karen, ESFJ-narcissists, ESFJ-neurology, Gaslighting, Amber Heard, Fake feminism, Rising of a shield hero (Malty-'ESFJ'; XSFX spread disinformation online. ISFJ is the main culprit; ISFJ largely perceive things on the surface level), 'Brood-parasitism’- XSFJ natural psychology.
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Sent me a Spotify link today… the full moon… 😂
Too predictable.
I'm now in full No contact they are not my cup of tea. Too abusive for me. Too sick and it affects me. I batten the hatches no Instagram no messenger etc. I'm good 👍
Same as me . I’m fully done within this crap 💩 of a relationship
Birthday present hoovering, and fake sunglasses i just threw from my mailbox onn the street without trying, yeaay hpb to me 😆❤️💪😂 48 springs (and bolts) 😆🤟✔️❤️💪🥳🥳🥳 party month here 😄😄😄
I’ve just had this after not seeing my daughter for 7 months my ex wife of 27 years changed he number so I had no access to my daughter my son finally gave me her number so I text her to see my daughter she text me 3 days later that she was sick so we’ll see reason I’m relating is because you need to just deal with ever you have with narcissistic partner but still stay away they don’t care at all it’s a game to them I just exercise patience if I see my daughter I will if I don’t I won’t get into arguments over it!!
You are so spot on. It’s really boggling my mind how spot on you are.
Your Madonna Hoar Complex of Freud blew my mind!
Yep they can't perform with the spouse of their children but can perform w a person off the street.
This is one of the best channels I have found so far. It explains my whole situation ehh Thank you
It's so tempting. The drama was painful but also assured me I was alive with emotions. Good emotions preferred, so that rules out spy balloon women.
You are absolutely amazing and have helped me so much, thank you! ❤
I'm so glad! 😊😊
FEMALE-ATTRACTION/ATTRACTION/ROMANTIC-ATTRACTION/FEMALE-PSYCHOLOGY/HOW-TO-ATTRACT-FEMALES/FEMALE-MANIPULATORS/MANIPULATE-FEMALES/FEMALE-DATING-FEMALES
Answer:
1) 'Emotional Appeal'; how you make a female "feel" is the key to her everything. Give her 'emotional-thrills' via manipulation.
2) Physical Attraction; even this is connected to emotional appeal/attraction. Both points connect the strange stereotype between women "fucking" psychopaths, "bad-boys"; and ESTP/Chad, ENFP, etc.
[I strongly believe that most women cannot differentiate between the sensation of "emotional-thrills" (including 'lust') and [genuine] "love"].
Love-definition. What is "love"? Answer: Excessive humanity for an individual.
Since most women are emotionally immature (they are good at masking it; do not confuse the two), they are exceedingly susceptible to emotional manipulation/exploitation.
Since society over-values and over protects the human female, the female can afford not to develop their sentience, intelligence, emotional residency and self-control. This makes them both unintelligent/narcissitic and emotionally-vulnerable.
Of the MBTI, most females are "feelers" and unintelligent-feelers, i.e. "sensor-feelers" (population density), no less. They are more vulnerable to this realization/exploit, i.e. that physical attraction and emotional manipulation (via "thrills") is the key to attracting the female.
NOTE: Most women monitor and prey on the emotions of a man. They attempt to corrode the emotional resiliency of a male child; thus making the male child susceptible to her "whining", narcissitic-complaints (self-serving and emotionally abusive [whims]); psychological manipulation via emotional abusing their sons will make them a dull, and disposable pawn (who exists solely to serve women and lay down their lives, as thought and conditioned via social norms).
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Great advice. Been there done that. I feel great.
Excellent! 🎉
I BELONG TO GOD ❤☝️
I wish I understood what a narcissit all these years. Everything im learning is really helping me
I took him on after being divorce 3 years. We remarried/ together for one year, I strongly believed he was going to stay. He left! He left again, file for divorce and picked up with his previous relationship like nothing happened. She k owe too, and she is 20 years younger than him and took him back. No kids involved with them. We had 2 boys.
Thank you Anushka you keep me going.its been 3 years no contact still waiting on the divorce.i hope I get it in may and be done after 38 years .
Your videos have helped me in moments of weakness. Thank you for who you are.
Some real facts are Heart breaking .....but your words and facts that you convey is god sent......god bless u Ms Anoushka...... discarded 1 Oct 2023....going thru some real hard time......i need some insights from the community here and veterans here......my case is crazier hope all can help .....will tell my story if i am ready soon......Cheers. ooooh ya i always love British accents.
It better that I never heard from my ex again or in life because the behavior remains the same as the cycle repeat itself over again and again and I finally figure this out now and I truly thank God for light he has shown me in my heart about my ex narcissist and she knows now that I know the truth about her and her parents scared her as a child and that is straight up from heaven gates narcissist are aware what of they are doing she may not accept reality on earth and when she meets her Maker God o mighty reality will sit in real quick and believe that and she knows she can't comeback to me period or don't care hoover she does I want respond period it like I narcissist are incapable of love period and that the problem for all narcissist and period and peace ✌️
I gotta know the name of the background track. That shiz SLAPS!
Welcome then back in.. I Think NOT! Dam it does CUT.. Truth Does BITE!
I let him in after 2 months he cheated on a :year relationship we had. 3 years later in the middle of planning the wedding: discard bcs of age gap. That was the reason he said. Never was but ok. Figured out he cheats with girls from the bar he works.
It’s like a 3year-expiration date. He even triangulated with his bf, told me his bf had problems and he’s helping him. But it was me he was talking about
I don’t want a Hoover years down the line. I want the validation now, when I need it. Years down the line, I will be well over them, and it won’t provide any validation.