Fantastic video My five-year relationship ended a month ago. The decision to part ways with the love of my life is something that truly consumes me. Though it's all in vain, I've tried everything to get him back, and I can't fathom my life with anyone else. Even though I've made every effort to quit thinking about him, I can't help but miss him and can't stop thinking about him. Why I am stating this here is beyond me.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
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Just yesterday, a narc I used to know liked my FB post (first time in forever), a couple hours later I got a text from them. I just sighed. Needless to say I never replied.
I love you so much, been with my wife 45 years married 42. She wanted a separation at 40 years. Nothing but hell ever since. You hit everything spot on. You are the best by far. Keep helping people, it's a little to late for me at 63 but I hope it helps all the younger couples. Thanks again for all the knowledge. You're awesome.
It's not the length of time you spent with someone, it's the quality of that time. Be truthful with yourself, understand the dynamics of the relationship was always stacked against you. Thank you for your insight Anoushka
You’re absolutely right-it’s not about the length of time but the quality and how that time impacts you emotionally and mentally. Recognizing that the dynamics were unfair is such an important step toward healing. Being truthful with yourself, even when it hurts, is a powerful way to reclaim your strength and begin to let go of what no longer serves you. Thank you for sharing this wisdom and for your kind words. Sending you love and support on your journey! 💕
@@anoushkamarcin radical acceptance is the key to pushing forward. I don't feel I wasted my time at all, I achieved so much in my life I'm proud of despite his interference!!! It has been a journey of discovery. I love me and so does my son. Thanks for your guidance through this quagmire...
Doesn't work on me very well anymore, it's just enlightenment, understanding and being aware, not just of the narcissist but also yourself. I've noticed other factors though, especially low self-esteem, lack of friends, loneliness and a depedency on certain feelings, not sure if I felt hope at times though, but ultimately, you just need to understand that you're better off without them.
It sounds like you’ve done a lot of deep reflection, and that awareness is so empowering. 🌟 Understanding not only the narcissist’s behaviors but also your own vulnerabilities is such a key part of breaking free from their grip. Recognizing factors like low self-esteem or loneliness shows incredible self-awareness, and that’s where true healing begins. Hope can be tricky in these situations-it often keeps us stuck, but it can also push us toward something better once we realize we deserve more. You’re absolutely right: you are better off without them. Keep holding onto that clarity, and thank you for sharing your journey-it’s inspiring! 💪✨
Best podcast yet!! ❤ Oh my, Anoushka. I needed to hear this so badly! I am living exactly everything that you spoke about in this podcast. I know deep down that his feelings for me are not genuine, the way mine are genuine for him and that hurts just so much. I know that he is toxic and I need to leave him and I have tried a few times already. I hope I have the strength soon to leave this damaging relationship permanently. 😢
Be strong and leave out of self love ❤️. I know it’s tough , so tough as I’ve been where you are. But trust me it’ll only get far worse if you stay and he’ll destroy your soul and may even leave you with a chronic health condition as occurred to me and many heaven forbid as you absorb all his toxic and abusive energy. Please leave for your peace and sanity. Find self love and healing and peace. Try meditation and journaling and prayer and hobbies and self care. Get therapy if you need it and can afford it. Find a support group if you can. Once you heal then you can think about meeting someone new and empathetic like yourself. Just walk away and don’t ever look back. Cut him off and block him before he destroys your spirit. These people are demon possessed and pure evil. Stay strong and stay blessed. Love and peace ❤❤❤
Be strong and leave out of self love ❤️. I know it’s tough , so tough as I’ve been where you are. But trust me it’ll only get far worse if you stay and he’ll destroy your soul and may even leave you with a chronic health condition as occurred to me and many heaven forbid as you absorb all his toxic and abusive energy. Please leave for your peace and sanity. Find self love and healing and peace. Try meditation and journaling and prayer and hobbies and self care. Get therapy if you need it and can afford it. Find a support group if you can. Once you heal then you can think about meeting someone new and empathetic like yourself. Just walk away and don’t ever look back. Cut him off and block him before he destroys your spirit. These people are demon possessed and pure evil. Stay strong and stay blessed. Love and peace ❤❤❤
Be strong and leave out of self love ❤️. I know it’s tough , so tough as I’ve been where you are. But trust me it’ll only get far worse if you stay and he’ll destroy your soul and may even leave you with a chronic health condition as occurred to me and many heaven forbid as you absorb all his toxic and abusive energy. Please leave for your peace and sanity. Find self love and healing and peace. Try meditation and journaling and prayer and hobbies and self care. Get therapy if you need it and can afford it. Find a support group if you can. Once you heal then you can think about meeting someone new and empathetic like yourself. Just walk away and don’t ever look back. Cut him off and block him before he destroys your spirit. These people are demon possessed and pure evil. Stay strong and stay blessed. Love and peace ❤❤❤
Be strong and leave out of self love ❤️. I know it’s tough , so tough as I’ve been where you are. But trust me it’ll only get far worse if you stay and he’ll destroy your soul and may even leave you with a chronic health condition as occurred to me and many heaven forbid as you absorb all his toxic and abusive energy. Please leave for your peace and sanity. Find self love and healing and peace. Try meditation and journaling and prayer and hobbies and self care. Get therapy if you need it and can afford it. Find a support group if you can. Once you heal then you can think about meeting someone new and empathetic like yourself. Just walk away and don’t ever look back. Love & light❤
you’re so right about the false promises after the relationship ended badly and as I said before, she got a restraining order and got me arrested then playing with my feelings and emotions getting me and forced me to sign paperwork and she said she would take the restraining order off so we could coparent then to say that she wasn’t taking the restraining order off because she was scared of meand just constantly lies to friends and family about what she wants to do and she didn’t take Office because she went straight into another relationship with somebody she knows from where she works more worried about my son and his state of living
Thank you for sharing your experience-it sounds incredibly painful and frustrating to navigate through so much betrayal and mixed messages. False promises can be devastating, especially when they involve your emotions and your child’s well-being. It’s heartbreaking when someone uses manipulation instead of clear and honest communication, especially in situations as sensitive as co-parenting. 💔 Your concern for your son shows how much you care, and that’s what matters most. Stay focused on his well-being and on creating a stable and loving environment for him, even if the situation feels unfair or overwhelming. It might be helpful to lean on legal support or trusted allies to advocate for both you and your son during this difficult time. Sending you strength and hope as you work through this. 🙏 You’ve got this!
You may be comfortable on the eyes and ears , ( pretty / charming )but you have put the boot in where I needed it , ( knowledge ) though it not comfortable , I Thankyou for your hard work .
Well I gave him a chance AGAIN after the last vrutal way he left me, bought into his lies, then all the same things started happening, I felt low again, but this time I got we can't be friends what if I meet someone or you meet someone? We just going in circles, yeah, you just gave yourself away bog time! That's him telling on himself about him already groomed someone and he's done with me!
The narcissist caught a woman’s dream. Is that really oh so terrible? That you and him didn’t do it the way you were supposed to? Can’t you live with that? I can say what really sucks: therapists are not interchangeable. They don’t take on each other’s work, you have to start again. You think someone would mention that before you break away.
Fantastic video My five-year relationship ended a month ago. The decision to part ways with the love of my life is something that truly consumes me. Though it's all in vain, I've tried everything to get him back, and I can't fathom my life with anyone else. Even though I've made every effort to quit thinking about him, I can't help but miss him and can't stop thinking about him. Why I am stating this here is beyond me.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
Just yesterday, a narc I used to know liked my FB post (first time in forever), a couple hours later I got a text from them. I just sighed. Needless to say I never replied.
I love you so much, been with my wife 45 years married 42. She wanted a separation at 40 years. Nothing but hell ever since. You hit everything spot on. You are the best by far. Keep helping people, it's a little to late for me at 63 but I hope it helps all the younger couples. Thanks again for all the knowledge. You're awesome.
Awww thank you so much fro your kind words :)
It's not the length of time you spent with someone, it's the quality of that time. Be truthful with yourself, understand the dynamics of the relationship was always stacked against you. Thank you for your insight Anoushka
You’re absolutely right-it’s not about the length of time but the quality and how that time impacts you emotionally and mentally. Recognizing that the dynamics were unfair is such an important step toward healing. Being truthful with yourself, even when it hurts, is a powerful way to reclaim your strength and begin to let go of what no longer serves you. Thank you for sharing this wisdom and for your kind words. Sending you love and support on your journey! 💕
@@anoushkamarcin radical acceptance is the key to pushing forward. I don't feel I wasted my time at all, I achieved so much in my life I'm proud of despite his interference!!! It has been a journey of discovery. I love me and so does my son. Thanks for your guidance through this quagmire...
23/11/24 ♏️♏️♏️ never forget how he made you feel!!!
100% Stuck, still can’t detach but going to keep watching this video because everything you have says is true. 11 years now, I can’t do much more.
Doesn't work on me very well anymore, it's just enlightenment, understanding and being aware, not just of the narcissist but also yourself. I've noticed other factors though, especially low self-esteem, lack of friends, loneliness and a depedency on certain feelings, not sure if I felt hope at times though, but ultimately, you just need to understand that you're better off without them.
It sounds like you’ve done a lot of deep reflection, and that awareness is so empowering. 🌟 Understanding not only the narcissist’s behaviors but also your own vulnerabilities is such a key part of breaking free from their grip. Recognizing factors like low self-esteem or loneliness shows incredible self-awareness, and that’s where true healing begins.
Hope can be tricky in these situations-it often keeps us stuck, but it can also push us toward something better once we realize we deserve more. You’re absolutely right: you are better off without them. Keep holding onto that clarity, and thank you for sharing your journey-it’s inspiring! 💪✨
@@anoushkamarcin Any sense of hope from their direction is hopeless - I'm dead cert on that.
Going thru this now...goodness 😢
This is sooo bang on... wow! Thank you
Best podcast yet!! ❤
Oh my, Anoushka. I needed to hear this so badly! I am living exactly everything that you spoke about in this podcast. I know deep down that his feelings for me are not genuine, the way mine are genuine for him and that hurts just so much. I know that he is toxic and I need to leave him and I have tried a few times already. I hope I have the strength soon to leave this damaging relationship permanently. 😢
Be strong and leave out of self love ❤️. I know it’s tough , so tough as I’ve been where you are. But trust me it’ll only get far worse if you stay and he’ll destroy your soul and may even leave you with a chronic health condition as occurred to me and many heaven forbid as you absorb all his toxic and abusive energy. Please leave for your peace and sanity. Find self love and healing and peace. Try meditation and journaling and prayer and hobbies and self care. Get therapy if you need it and can afford it. Find a support group if you can. Once you heal then you can think about meeting someone new and empathetic like yourself. Just walk away and don’t ever look back. Cut him off and block him before he destroys your spirit. These people are demon possessed and pure evil. Stay strong and stay blessed. Love and peace ❤❤❤
Be strong and leave out of self love ❤️. I know it’s tough , so tough as I’ve been where you are. But trust me it’ll only get far worse if you stay and he’ll destroy your soul and may even leave you with a chronic health condition as occurred to me and many heaven forbid as you absorb all his toxic and abusive energy. Please leave for your peace and sanity. Find self love and healing and peace. Try meditation and journaling and prayer and hobbies and self care. Get therapy if you need it and can afford it. Find a support group if you can. Once you heal then you can think about meeting someone new and empathetic like yourself. Just walk away and don’t ever look back. Cut him off and block him before he destroys your spirit. These people are demon possessed and pure evil. Stay strong and stay blessed. Love and peace ❤❤❤
Be strong and leave out of self love ❤️. I know it’s tough , so tough as I’ve been where you are. But trust me it’ll only get far worse if you stay and he’ll destroy your soul and may even leave you with a chronic health condition as occurred to me and many heaven forbid as you absorb all his toxic and abusive energy. Please leave for your peace and sanity. Find self love and healing and peace. Try meditation and journaling and prayer and hobbies and self care. Get therapy if you need it and can afford it. Find a support group if you can. Once you heal then you can think about meeting someone new and empathetic like yourself. Just walk away and don’t ever look back. Cut him off and block him before he destroys your spirit. These people are demon possessed and pure evil. Stay strong and stay blessed. Love and peace ❤❤❤
Be strong and leave out of self love ❤️. I know it’s tough , so tough as I’ve been where you are. But trust me it’ll only get far worse if you stay and he’ll destroy your soul and may even leave you with a chronic health condition as occurred to me and many heaven forbid as you absorb all his toxic and abusive energy. Please leave for your peace and sanity. Find self love and healing and peace. Try meditation and journaling and prayer and hobbies and self care. Get therapy if you need it and can afford it. Find a support group if you can. Once you heal then you can think about meeting someone new and empathetic like yourself. Just walk away and don’t ever look back. Love & light❤
@LeslieBell-ds3en me too 😔
I’m here now. Left 3 weeks ago… so difficult.. barely functioning 😔
you’re so right about the false promises after the relationship ended badly and as I said before, she got a restraining order and got me arrested then playing with my feelings and emotions getting me and forced me to sign paperwork and she said she would take the restraining order off so we could coparent then to say that she wasn’t taking the restraining order off because she was scared of meand just constantly lies to friends and family about what she wants to do and she didn’t take Office because she went straight into another relationship with somebody she knows from where she works more worried about my son and his state of living
Thank you for sharing your experience-it sounds incredibly painful and frustrating to navigate through so much betrayal and mixed messages. False promises can be devastating, especially when they involve your emotions and your child’s well-being. It’s heartbreaking when someone uses manipulation instead of clear and honest communication, especially in situations as sensitive as co-parenting. 💔
Your concern for your son shows how much you care, and that’s what matters most. Stay focused on his well-being and on creating a stable and loving environment for him, even if the situation feels unfair or overwhelming. It might be helpful to lean on legal support or trusted allies to advocate for both you and your son during this difficult time. Sending you strength and hope as you work through this. 🙏 You’ve got this!
You may be comfortable on the eyes and ears , ( pretty / charming )but you have put the boot in where I needed it , ( knowledge ) though it not comfortable , I Thankyou for your hard work .
Thank you :)
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Well I gave him a chance AGAIN after the last vrutal way he left me, bought into his lies, then all the same things started happening, I felt low again, but this time I got we can't be friends what if I meet someone or you meet someone? We just going in circles, yeah, you just gave yourself away bog time! That's him telling on himself about him already groomed someone and he's done with me!
Hey love ur videos can u talk about narcissistic parents around holidays
Really good
Big hope
He would tell me that I was a narcissist
Was Tamsin
On love girl
Feel ok
Love you
The narcissist caught a woman’s dream. Is that really oh so terrible? That you and him didn’t do it the way you were supposed to? Can’t you live with that? I can say what really sucks: therapists are not interchangeable. They don’t take on each other’s work, you have to start again. You think someone would mention that before you break away.
IMO: Mark Brocklebank (1973) East Sussex UK 🇬🇧 covert narc - ladies please watch out
Michael Verley. American romance writer. Covert narc
Michael Verley. American romance writer on Amazon. Covert narc
If I love u then I do
I used to. Like kerry and Kym it's u though
So bad in love
God please
Woman let me get some please
Bad want
Don't say rhat
Bad want you
Big hope