This 1 Thing Will Help You Get Over Oneitis
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“Crazy can look like love” - that needs to be taught to every teenage boy
crazy can look like lust more like - usually crazy hot sex but yeah -crazy .....
Men, always remember. When dating a woman . Master controlling your emotions. Always focus on your path and purpose. Keep busy.
the good thing about oneitis is, the more you had it, the less it impacts you till you get imune to it. Nice clip rich. Some men really need to hear the truth
This happens to most men! It sucks!! Just have learn from it.
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If she says she's bisexual and her ethics are that of consentual non-monogamy, she is very serious, honest. Take it literally. She laid her cards on the table. She was speaking her truth. What more could you ask?
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Type B cluster personality disorders are good starters, but bad stickers. They have an extraordinary high level of charisma and energy of the soul. But it will get unstable very soon. It's their internal struggle. (The best sex you could possibly get on this planet is with a borderline personality in her idealization phase.) Personality disorders are forged in childhood. Always take a very close look at that phase in her life!
At the core of a type B personality there is always very low self-esteem. That's why they're into acting, seeking attention ... Their pattern in intimacy will always be: you love them, they disregard you; the logic being that someone who loves a unworthy person like themselves must himself be unworthy. You distance yourself, they come after you in fear of loosing you; the logic being that by distancing yourself you confirm her negative self image what she ironically validates and wants to hold on to. You are wired on her frequency then.
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If you fall for type B personalities you (the caller) must have a corresponding psychological pattern. This might be that you are conscientious having everything under control in your live. You sound very structured, logical and - yes - dry. You're probably a type C personality disorder seeking what's lacking in your life, which is excitement, in a relevant other. Type B personalities are kings and queens in providing that. In psychology this is called collusion: two disorders complementing each other. Collusion relationships are much more emotional than normal ones but highly frictional. It's like whiskey compared to beer. (Type Bs seek in conscientious persons the structures they need in order to keep their life from spiraling out of control.)
You ride a tiger, it will be adventurous. You ride a donkey, it won't.
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What happened in your (caller) childhood? Why has everything in your life to be down to law and constantly under control?
Parents threatening to give the child away to a reformatory if the child would not behave like they expect, like observe two dozen rules in every day life, behave like this when relatives visit, behave like that in school, in church ... Be a that "good" child or we will ...! Something like that.
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Personality disorders or at least personality styles leaning strongly towards a pattern are very common. You will find them in 75 % of the population. The only questions are which pattern it is and how strongly it is expressed.
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The long term solution for the caller might be to generate more excitement out of himself not having to seek it that much in the relevant other; a change of life style. Be more adventurous in other activities. He might start with little things like putting on more daring clothing, more latest style, more vivid colors or have more changes in his daily routine ... you name it.
Wow
how do i find the different types of personalities?
@@pinkpanther5200 You meet them all the time, but you don't choose them. You don't have the feeling of love and affection towards them. It's your subconscious choice. You have to change yourself first by changing the way you live.
Nice explanation. You and Rich literally described my ex. The one caveat though is she’s actually talented with her acting, singing, modeling, etc., crazy work-ethic, beautiful and has lots of sex appeal, so as her fame grows, so does her pretty-privilege. Definitely some narcissistic traits, but probably better described by a Borderline Personality Disorder. Shit, maybe NPD too. Quite charismatic in public, but a chameleon, as behind closed doors she’s disrespectful, hypocritical, gaslighty and unappreciative, particularly when things dont go her way. She takes little to no accountability for anything. There’s no incentive for a woman like her to change when she has hundreds of men chasing her for next dibs, and again, charasmatic and talented enough she can reach all her goals in the entertainment industry, as well as her entrepreneurship in the spirituality industry 🙄 (google spiritual narcissists) and her self-proclaimed title of being an “empath”🙄🙄🙄. Note: watch out for alot of these “empaths”, as they will shift blame back on you for not being able to regulate their own emotions, claiming you dont “vibrate high enough” and have “bad energy”. Her promiscuous past, including the bisexuality, was something I foolishly allowed her positives to outweigh. Despite her flaws, when it was good it was great and she gave me the most feminine, calming energy. Incredible sex. We also made incredible projects together too, as I work in the entertainment industry as well. We were friends/business associates at first for a couple years where her poor traits would sometimes peek, but her talent and our goals of working together made me forgive her. I always kept it professional and one day she made a move on me. Next thing you know we’re “dating”, fucking like rabbits, and still working together, me thinking we could be something akin to the next Jay-Z and Beyonce 🤦🏽♂️. Well, she wanted exclusivity and all the benefits of it from my end, but would make the disclaimer that we were “just dating” so she couldnt be held accountable for the possible outcomes of her constantly interacting with other men, all in the name of “networking”. It was an intense roller-coaster ride that fucked me up in as little as 6 months. I was love-bombed hard at the beginning and here I am a year later after she dumped me on my own birthday still picking up the pieces. I’ve been with lots of women, but when i love i love hard, definitely get the oneitis and refuse to “downgrade”. She had me questioning my existence the way she ran game on me. If you’ve ever dated someone with a Personality Disorder you can probably relate. I wasn’t perfect, but I treated her good and tried to lead, but you cant lead someone with these disorders. You may have a better chance if you’re rich and famous, but im not, and it shouldn’t take all that. Most these women, personality disorders or not, have warped values anyways. You can try to maintain boundaries and stick to the code and ethics of being a Man, but again, especially with a girl that has a Personality Disorder AND pretty-privilege, they’re gonna guilt-trip you regardless and the “shit-tests” are exacerbated. Even if you pass em, they know they can date dudes in Hollywood. And this society of “keeping up with the Joneses”, boy your game, your spirit, better be on God-level, cus its otherwise futile. Again, if it has to be all that then it’s not even worth it. It all hurt, but I will be better than ever sooner or later.
And we as men have to start taking accountability too. I should have never stooped so low. I probably would have had better retainment if I just kept her in rotation.
I hope this testimony helps someone else.
Having sex with another person will break onenitis! 😂
Person ?? Gender neutral
Hasn’t at all for me. High school level advice.
Dam, this caller was pure Cringe. Smh
what was the 1 thing that Rich said can get over onenitis in this video?
The "I don't want to lower my standards" guys are always the worst off.
You can lower your standards without banging uglies.
You can't run rotations without 6-8s - and you can still play around with the 9s and 10s when you get one on the line.
This dude will ALWAYS have oneitis, because of how he goes about chicks.
He doesn't make a move unless 'Dreamweaver' starts playing in his head. lol
Wayne’s world lollllolll
@@Tindel10 lmao yup
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what was the 1 thing that Rich said can get over onenitis in this video?
Pure gold by Rich, particularly at the end. All of your videos are good - this was fantastic
Oneitis for a 42-year old??! How do you say 'simp' in Portuguese?
💯💯💯 Absolutely excellent convo and advice for that man.
Rich, Musk has a Space X facility in Brownsville Texas. The guy will save a BOATLOAD of money plus the women are mostly feminine traditional Mexican with a Majority Mexican population. He should look into this area as there are not many downsides to it I would argue.
Of course having options is one method but don't forget that women have an exhaustive laundry list of qualifications for men which indicates men are the prize and women need to relearn how to accessorize. Definitely improve yourself so that you can have options but also keep in mind that women are what we could call a dime a dozen which means most women are commoners and they are not special
Stay on your purpose, God bless.
This guy keeps trying to cut off Rich as if he does not want to hear the truth.
It's also a very Brazilian male thing. If you know any, you'd know what I mean.
what was the 1 thing that Rich said can get over onenitis in this video?
@@andyng5321 Do The Work!
I agree. He seems like a nice guy and is smart, but never get involved with a woman. She’s just trash.
Love is an action not a feeling. Don't believe the lies that you tell yourself.
great video from 2 very different perspectives. Rich of course seeing the big picture. i constantly go over my one itis girl of years ago. what man hasn’t been there! my perception of her is now changed. i now see my lost one as “for the streets”, rather than “my princess who went away”. actually she monkey branched one day to a taller better dressed guy in front of my eyes. i was in my usual state of scarcity/no-other-options at the time & didn’t fight at all to get her back.
I havent read your book but I can see now after several videoes, why you have succes with your book, you are sharp on the different types of women out there and give straight to the point advice on what to do 👌 I would difinately buy your book if I didnt already have all the experience and knowledge that is required to know these things in your sleep or on auto pilot.
Living in Denmark 90% of all women are feminists, close to imposible to get a longterm relationship that is worth the efford.
Get bussy.
At least this guy called in to try and get help, too many guys out there with oneitis who have no idea they even have it.
Dude says Seattle is a woke city but then pursues a trash post wall woman in her 40s. Arguing like a fool. Go to Texas, Tennessee, Florida. Don’t save him, he’s not serious
"im a rocket man" lmao Legend
Dude is attracted to Cray Cray like Flies are to she.hit.
I can hear Creed Screaming at Rocky, get out of the corner! GET OUT OF THE CORNER! as Rocky is getting pummelled by Clubber.
Guy likes the abuse, you need to switch roles, you are the hunter not the prey.
Move on, bud, and if she calls, ignore her, then take her for a spin, and send her on her way. She'll be back. Just don't put a ring on it.
Dude keeps interrupting which shows he’s unhinged
Is “Oneitis” the male equivalent of “Alpha widowed” for females?
Heard this post b4
You have to be friends.
He sounds like Slavoj Zizek.
If a woman ever cuts you off be ecstatic to try your other options.
Greetings from Germany my English is very well good enough to follow a conversation and understand most of all. But what means Oneitis? Can someone tell and explain to me :D Google don't translate that! THANKS!
Hi Aryan brother, 'Oneitis' means that you are totally obsessed with someone.
Deutschland über alles. o/o/o/
The one you "can't forget"/"the one you're hung up on"="THE ONE".
@@deportedsouls3165 k called Liebeskummer dann....
This guy got whipped 😂.
Time to unplug from matrix. And take blue pill. And buy a motrocycle, the awnser my friend is blowing in the wind.
Hot women it's like a swimming pool...expensive to maintain and you expend little time in it...
Narcissist perhaps!?!?!?
This got me thinking: what is the “greatest” one-itis song of all time? Here is my nominee: th-cam.com/video/VExw77xJsBQ/w-d-xo.htmlsi=WcdJfaqUIDDJ-sXW
George Jones was actually an alpha red pilled OG, and he hated this song after he recorded it and thought it would be a bust. He was wrong. It’s in my opinion the most pathetic tale of one-itis ever recorded.
Nominate a one-itis song in the reply.
This woman was garbage. He loved her looks and her indifference.
Brother I understand you, but you think low of yourself, age doesn’t matter for a man.
Just consume more of Rich content you be way better
Not just self-esteem but also the fact that if women have such an exhaustive laundry list of qualifications for men Mama that indicates that men are the prize in women need to relearn how to accessorize therefore it isn't just how he thinks of himself, also how he should view women as well
@@drip369 you are right but blaming the woman will not serve him any good. I mean he should believe in his ability to get better than her, that way he could forget her.
This guy is really annoying
This dude keeps saying exactly… exactly but doesn’t seem to do what he thinks he knows. Also the interruptions and being really skid ish is really annoying.