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Most important part on a female is that she is not toxic/narcissistic. Her looks wont matter if she is insane 😂
Correct. I'm 53, single. I've seen several hot women, very attractive BUT had awful attitudes, - behavior or had emotional problems. As they say: "the juice ain't worth the squeeze". Lol.
Yupp. There needs to be we're here to live or even enjoy life and ourselves not competitiveness and scheming to try and get more than you're receiving.
@@Bawkr A person that is greedy= Think they are entiteled to more than their fair market value, is never going to feel content in life. it`s the biggest toxit red flag of them all= Auto fail
@@BB-xx3dv The narcissistic female will be in the same mindset even at 50+ years old. They still think they are 18 and hot and entitled to more than their fair market value. That is they will still cheat of they can with a " better catch".
It`s highly irrational. It`s like if you buy a gold ring to 1000$ and maby now you want a artisan made ring to 10 000$. The fallacy is that the first ring maby gave you some joy ( from zero ring to a ring). But the jump from 1000-10 000$ is not going to give 10X in joy. In fact the joy will maby give 10% in the first week, then it`s back to a baseline of maby 3% growt in joy from the orginal 1000$.
This is the insanity of the modern female narcissist. They are fool`s. Because the risk of tradeing and then loseing ( the new man can be crazy, abuseiv, a idiot and so on) is HIGH. That is the downside is ALOT higher than the upside in Joy.
They think they will get 10X in better feelings. But in reality they risk it all for maby just 3-5% gains at MAX ha ha ha
This guy strikes me as a very jaded middle-aged man who thinks all of his baggage is nothing but he’s highly judgmental towards women his own age. I bet he hasn’t dated a woman his own age in 100 years. To refer to older women as low hanging fruit, and they age rapidly, well, how about men? Men generally die before women, so obviously they age much more rapidly than women.
Low hanging fruit often has bugs in it, or bites from other animals. If you need quick fun, it's easy work, but not for dating.
Lol, not fun. More of an annoyance.
Back in my day we called them sportfucks.
Quick fun is dating. Dating doesn't necessarily mean commitment. Being in a relationship does.
Easy work for some, great practice for others. Everything in life has a reason and a purpose, it is always best to recognize what things are and use them accordingly.
Well said!
Been there, done that. In my early 30s had a GF who was almost 10 years older. Divorced, with 2 teen sons. A couple months into the relationship she had the balls to suggest I get a vasectomy, even though she had already had a hysterectomy. So I wouldn't be able to knock up another woman. She was a super jealous type - Scorpio if you believe in signs. Anyway, I said no, not happening. We split up. I found another, younger GF shortly after. A few months later the ex saw me with her replacement and went insane. Begged me to take her back. Literally said she would do anything. I said no, it was too late. Glad I dodged that bullet.
The good thing about being an older guy (I'm 59 now, retired for 2 years) is that you come to realize that sex isn't the most important thing in your life. For me, a relaxing ride on my Harley, walking my 5 acres, planning my retirement home, catching a movie in the middle of the day. Would a good GF be nice? Sure. I continue to look. But there are few classy women out there these days, that one would call ladies. Most are trash, in my opinion. But a lot of guys are losers too, so I guess they deserve each other.
You are right. Most women are trash. They don't offer anything and/or have bad taste in their cars, clothes, etc. Classy women are extremely rare.
Your whole story is so true... Damn that last sentence is a big truth bomb
you summed it up so well. I am a 56 year old woman, widowed at 33 raised my two children. Met a man my age 10 years ago….terrible mistake…..cheated on me at 56! I dumped him….and looking for an older men who has integrity..just like me. Thank you for sharing
Well damn, why don't you tell us how you really feel? LMAO!!
58, 6 months separated, 36 married, last 5 years were a lie. I got sick, she gave up. However, I beat it. Now I’m fit & well, working and stable. My positive Tude. Sex is something that is less important now, yet most significant with someone who matters. Ya, the Harley ride. A Partner tho…… somewhere, she is out there. Got the agreement today. Under 20 & free. Goin’ to buy another Harley.
Truth. When women hit the wall, they hit it HARD. The universe beats them with the ooglay tree and destroys whatever looks they had.
Father time always claims the gifts that mother nature gave them.
It is the natural order, you don't get to keep what you did not earn...
@@timmyhiggins5220you would not believe me if I tell you, how many women I have spoken to who do not “believe” in the wall. Even when I point out the older women in the room. The answer is always they are gorgeous. It’s like a mass delusion or something.
@@stannone7272 They ve been drinking that feminist Kool-Aid for far too long, most of them are off their rockers now.
What about men with their pancake asses and flabby, skinny, arms and legs, and no muscle? Yeah, they age well better than women.😂
@@stannone7272lol there was an awkward moment at my job where a woman in her early 30’s was kinda implying she was aging like fine wine and she happened to have picture of herself during her college soccer days on her desk and you could tell she looked way hotter back then and in way better shape 😂 she looked like she packed on maybe 30 pounds since that picture too lol. I was like “oh the irony of that comment” in my mind while staring at her college picture lmao. Women are delusional about the wall
If you want to look hot, just hit the gym, lose fat and tone the muscles.
Women spend huge money on everything, but many won’t bother with the gym.
A tone, fit woman can wear a burlap bag and still look hot!
They are always the grasshopper in life, trying to find the easy way to cheat the system.
Yup, they spend a bunch of money to color and style their hair. And they are 300 pounds. Crazy!
@@rbfarrell1
You forgot the nails too. They do it every single time. I currently share a house with a morbidly obese white woman who dyes her hair so often but won’t do anything to lose weight and get rid of her huge belly and extremely fat thighs 😂
Two positives of older women: can’t get pregnant and she has her own money
YEAH BUddy, you are on my side :)
Definitely
Can't get pregnant? How old are you talking lmao
For considering an LTR, ability to become pregnant is crucial.
@@fffff2521 you get all your LTRs pregnant?
I was with a woman 12 years my senior when I was 21. She aged well until she got ill. We were together for 30 years and had a son. We were still having sex lots of BJs even when she was going through chemo. She passed away a few months ago. She was the best. I’m 53 you do the math.
@frederickvee3496
Sorry for your loss.
May your beloved wife Rest In Peace.
😢
Sorry for your loss. Your story is proof that this guy is giving young kids bad advice
It’s not bad advice it’s general advice. There are times where you find a gem but in general older women have been through to many men to be able to bond properly with you
Yeah I’d hoped to have the similar I wanted to marry my ex but it came down to me competing against all her previous exes.
Andrew DICE Clay said;
You go to the used car lot ,pick out an old 280 Z and ride that thing into the dirt ,then dump it off at the junkyard and go get another one.
Jack and Jill went up the hill, they each had a buck and a quarter. Jill came down with two fifty.....
Crazy story... A woman I work with here in South Dakota is Dice's first wife...
I can’t stand fake boobs, lips, nose, eye lashes, nails. The more obvious it is the more I find it repulsive. Natural beauty wins every time.
The hemorrhoid lips are the worst. 😆😆😆😆😆😆
It's going to be interesting what the lips look like when they eventually give up on the filler, I would imagine they would be very wrinkly from being over stretched for so long.
How about when she falls apart, upgrade......kinda like vehicles.
I love fake boobs as long as they're done right and proportional. Perky trumps floppy every time. Boobs hanging down to the waist are not attractive.
@@paulh7798"Trout-pout" !!
Ive been dating a woman 8 years older than me for 5 years. Shes the nicest woman ever and treats me well. Relationships are different on a case by case basis
Its case by case by reality is most cases end up not worth the time. His advice is golden for most. You’re one of the exceptions where things are have been going great. Hope it continues.
I would love to know why people cant seem to grasp that their specific exception to a rule doesnt disprove the rule. I see it everywhere these days, its bizarre how common its become.
People need to move past thinking we have to qualify every generalized statement. It bogs down the conversation having to think of every nuance when talking about general guidelines.
@@seinfan9 Couldnt agree more, well said. What do you think is causing it? Im 45 and Ive never seen so many people do it.
@@dyshawnshine3644 His advice is b*llshite. It given through the lens of religion and misogyny. He 'advice' is that women are objects rather than people.
I’ve got interesting plot twist. Used to be in a relationship (yes, an actual relationship) with a women 7 years older than me. Don’t ask me why, it’s complicated but mostly because my insecurities when I was late 20. I was 25 when me met, she was 32. Neither me or her wanted to have any kids, she’s wasn’t a single mom. Just both not a parents material. She always looked down on me, it was more or less „you young stupid boy” attitude. It doesn’t matter what. Just don’t date women older than you. She won’t be respectful to you no matter what. Women HATE being reminded about her age and just looking at you she will remember „oh, right. I’m THE OLDER ONE”
In my mid forties a gal in her sixties was giving me goo goo eyes. I looked at her and thought to myself, why in the heck would I be romantically attracted to my grandma!!!
Absolutely. It almost always plays out this way. I had a woman that was 6.5 years older than me take strong (re: obsessive) interest two years ago, and when I referred to her once as the 'older woman', she got very angry/annoyed, yet she would condescend to me constantly, reminding me that she had more life experience etc.
It was a complete waste of time.
Ladies with lots of expensive procedures, do you realize that you can still have ugly kids? Procedures are not inheritable.
I don't blaim them for trying to deceive men, it is their nature.
However, men do not need to accept the deception.
Dudes that only care about awful enhanced boobs, ass or lips deserve it. An intelligent dude looks for a better attitude and above average looks.
They don't care. They hope the man's genes will overpower her's. Same like with women who are short. They hope to God that their tall boyfriend will give them tall kids and many of them still end up having short sons anyways. 💀
@@johnsampson6387
Ugly and short women almost always have ugly and short kids. No surprise, half their DNA is being contributed to their kids. You can’t just get all your genes from one parent. This’s not cloning 😂
Do you realize this whole conversation is total hypocrisy. This guest speaker is talking about how women look terrible as they get older, and they age fast and they look like low hanging fruit. And then he critiques them for having plastic surgery. Well, what do you thinks gonna happen When you tell half the population that once they’re over the age of 30 they look terrible?
Younger men date older women because these women are EASY.......period.
When we were 18 years old, a friend was having thing with a 36 year old women, she was double his age, we convinced him when he turned 30 years old she would be 60 years old, one night while out drinking! Math probably wasn't his thing. But to some of us she looked old at 36. Now im 50 years old and im stunned how women age, and the ones who have had work done look even stranger.
It's pretty crazy. I'm 54, ugly, with all black hair and most of it left. I get so much young ass it's ridiculous.
@@MCamplol
Remember, men age like Sean Connery, but women also age like Sean Connery.
No Highlanders! Lol 🗡
Hilarious 😂
🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂🤡👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Had one that was 10 years older than me, she had a thing about the push and pull dynamic, whenever i did something negative for the relationship she came closer to me and it only lasted a few days/weeks and inevitably it would turn the relationship painful to be with her on a long term basis, it felt like a high school/party girl era environment without the intimate heat of neither.
Thank god i got myself out, she had too much emotional baggage, skeletons in the closet and one too many orbiters.
Yep. Met one like this a year ago. Thank God I never got involved with her. Push, Pull. Get closer to her, she bolts away, back again. Sees me with another female, she's back again pulling, I respond, she starts pushing away. I disappear a few weeks, see her again, she's engaging, sweet and interested again, next day or so, she gives one word answers, bad attitude..etc.. Again, thank God I never actually got involved with her.
Johnny Rotten (24) married Nora Foster (37) in 1979. They were happily married for 44 years . . .
After her death Lydon was devastated.
One rare example cool
People love to bring up exception cases. Wom3n in particular. They don't understand that we're talking about generalities and statistical facts.
Did he say that it *never* works? Why no, he didn't.
@@farmersjt Did I say that it *never* works (?) Why no, I didn't . . .
At 26, I met a very attractive woman that was 30 when I was working in NYC. A former dancer on Broadway & Atlantic City...I mean smoking hot
Sex was incredible, and she couldn't do enough for me...almost smothering/love bombing situation
Fast forward 3 months or so: I discovered/realized she was Bipolar/mental issues (explains the crazy sex)
I stopped seeing her...for a while. Over the next 3 years we'd hook up here and there...she was my guilty pleasure
Eventually she kind of disappeared and then resurfaced months and months later in awful shape physically & mentally
She had her issues, but she was a good person. Its a shame what happened to her.
I knew she was never going to be a LTR, but I did care for her
Nobody can recall wanting to be your psychiatrist mate.
Captain my captain, I thought you were soliciting for business hahaha@@TheTimeDetective42
That sounds very similar to my gf that just broke up with me .
The females with BPD are better in bed.
Anybody with issues always ends up hurting the people around them no matter how 'good' a person they may be. So just avoid people with 'issues' especially if you don't have any 'issues' yourself.
Maybe it's just me, but isn't 'dating' different than 'shacking up' anymore? I dated a couple of women twice the age of my current wife, but we never moved in together. Social events and sex a couple of times a week are very pleasant. You don't have to take full responsibility for someone just because you are dating them.
Most on this site are incels/betas/simps. That type of thinking is out of their brainpower 😂
My husband is 8 years younger than me. We have two kids and are very happy. I don't see the problem🤷
Its a phase most young men pass through. Men in their 20's and even early 30's love older women but it wears off by the time they hit around 37
Could be right! My younger partner left at 38 when I was 47 after 13 years. He still looking and single, now he's 47 years old😂.
Unfortunately I had his child at 40 and so still have to see him at times.
I'm happy and never looked back despite his lame attempts at getting back in. No 2nd chances, so if youth is on your side it don't last long. You still need a good mate!
Young people have a ton of baggage, mummy issues, low self esteem, poor financial management, poor body condition and much more. I'll take a few wrinkles any day over that mess, no matter how hot a guy might look.
I got caught by this even while knowing not to do it. I was 34 and met a smokeshow who said she was 32. She looked mid 20's (I'm not actually retarded, she was Asian). Found out after 2 years that she was actually 42 with an adult daughter. It absolutely crushed me but I immediately removed her from my life. It was insane. I'd been providing for her for 2 years, she was a perfect homemaker, and she was beyond enthusiastic with me sexually. I found out by random chance. I think this is a bigger issue once you're more established. The whole thing blasted my eyes wide open.
@@Austenfan177 She did, turns out I met this woman just a couple months after her daughter went to college.
Glad you found it out and "scram!" - ed her from your life! @@cummins24421
Kevin hart voice (damn!)
Exact same story as mine. Like a gut punch 🤢
@@HEALTHANDWEALTHCHANNEL-h6o I feel you bro. You'll get through it. Rich had some great advice recently: get a dog. You're never alone and you always have responsibilities when you have a dog.
warning to younger guys from an older guy: i dated a woman that was 15 years older than me when i was 29....she had a ton of money and we did a lot of fun things...a lot of traveling and things i wouldnt have been able to do on my salary alone....she had 2 kids. I agree with 95% of the things Rich Cooper says.....his advice is very good i wish i had someone to have told me this along time ago....this is very good fatherly advice to young men
I am 29 as well, however i do not fall in love with no woman.
I got standarts:
She must be 18, not less, not more, she must have bodycount of a 0, she must be hot, 0 bad habits.
So... knowing this standart of mine, i will never fall in love with a woman who has not these 3 qualities.
Pump and dump is funnier.
Damn, you were living off another man’s money? 😂
@@kiuk_kiks What I was thinking.
Only solution is sex robots@@ViktorMudryiWise
Soooo was it good or bad? Your just talking about all her money and fun vacations
I dated older women in my 20s, was tied of the games younger women play. Guess what? Older women play them too
Facts, I have ran into that myself.
Agreed! they've also had more practice in playing their infuriating games. Before I was learn the cold, hard truth about female nature, I was foolish and dated a lady in her mid 40's, and she was by far the most manipulative, needy, unforgiving, and exhausting out of the handful the women I've dated. Granted, I haven't been in many relationships to begin with, but she still stands out in all the worst ways. I've never experienced such an emotional roller coaster than when I was with her. Everything she said or did was under the sole intent to control me, devalue me, or bend me to her will. The amount of projection & emotional games she played was non stop! I had to walk away after a few months9Which was too long). And I felt nothing but relief after ghosting her. Lesson Learned!
@@lobsterbisque7567 How old were you?
@@criostoirashtin11 I'm also in my 40's we were a yr apart in age
@@lobsterbisque7567 Thought you were Ian Garry
Im 56 and my wife will be 68 in Feb, still married
How often do people assume she's your mother?
@@VenusNouveau2005 they don't, at all
The exception doesn’t change the rule. Remember to argue in good faith with general data.
Thanks for sharing this.
@@RajeevSharma-dj5ehfacts
As a man this podcast is so refreshing got me through the year and 16 hour work tours thanks 🙏🏿 Rich
I’ll date whoever I want to date.
avoid the sun, drugs, alcohol, smoking and you can age well
it's in the genetics, lots of non said list and still age quicker than others that partied, not fair, but just how it is.
I came home from the Navy after two deployments at 23. I felt like Billy Madison when I went back to college. Nobody my age was even close on the maturity level. I made a terrible mistake and married a woman 8yrs older. Smh.
Feel for you. I married 7 years older. I am 50 now…..no bueno. Please guys… let this post my response save you.
I’m so sorry bro
Yep me too. Same scenario. I screwed up and settled.
Grow up, If she was 8 years younger you would be crying about the same thing.
@@samsiesta8749 Why do you say that? You don’t agree with the video?
Not everyone is obsessed with breeding, so "infertile" is not argument
Yeah the views about companionship coming from these guys seems to be very superficial and transactional, as if life only has meaning seen through the narrow lens of biology and survival.
I have to agree. It’s vulgar, distasteful, and shallow. Spreading one’s seed is not the sole purpose of life and/or dating. That said, Rich’s material can really benefit the young infatuated man who typically ends up in shambles
No guy gets off on granny.
@@teddyp3723fair enough, but it doesn't make your POV somehow more enlightened or better. You're willing to accept a downgrade, no need to blow copium about it.
@@tombaily29 I don’t really consider it a downgrade.
I am dating a older women that i like very much. She is 42. She is very loving and respectful towards me. And yes i have options. But so far i am very happy with her. I dont really understand this logic where you shouldn't date older women. I think older women is a great experience, especially when they are hot. At this point in my life i would rather be with her than a young woman. I literally find them more attractive. Now i understand that you might be with someone because you are just getting left overs or because you have low self esteem. But that happen with older and younger woman. There are plenty of ugly young women too.
I’d say, if she’s childless, it’s a bit more sensible. If it’s for fun, makes perfect sense. But if it’s for the rest of your life, good luck dating a granny when you’re middle aged 😂
@@kiuk_kiks go ahead and be with a young girl lol, None is forcing you to pick older women. But older women is where is at for me. Also make sure to follow advice from people who HAVE good relationships. The truth is most red pill ppl dont have good long lasting relationships. They give dating/relationship advice. But they themselves don't even have a partner. I am mostly a red piller myself, but i dont blindly follow RP people advice. I have my own experiences and reach my own conclusions due to my experiences.
@@gustavomrosas4758
I already have a girlfriend. I’ve also been with women 13 to as much as 20 years older than me. But I’m smart enough to know I just have to release and blow my load. Not actually settle down with any of them.
You say she is 42 but you don't mention your age. So how old are you? And how long have you been together?
It's biology, considering whether a man wants to father children, which is our "natural" biological role. Making a family is basically not possible once a woman is in late 30s. Pregnancy gets more dificult and has more risks to the woman and to the child. Risk of Down Syndrome increases 500 to 1000x between mothers aged 20 and 45. As a man, maybe you might want children later and in that case you would have to split and go with a younger woman. It's a matter of personal choices though and there isn't a one size fits all solution. If you're happy, stay happy.
This guy is always telling you who not to date. I wonder who is left to date after listening to Rich.
Nobody 😂
Young submissive virgins.
He is another miserable whining granny.
Rich
Men.
Older women have a couple of pluses, the eggs dried up and with menopause they can make your bed a jaccuzzi
The only people trying to convince younger men not to date or be with older women are older men. The fact that most guys haven't realized that it's to eliminate their competition is hilarious. If you see another man going hard to make you stay away from certain women chances are he doesn't want competition. Let's be honest a lot of younger men have a thing for older women and lots of older women like playing with younger guys so it's a fair exchange but older guys are gatekeeping that because they know they can't compete with stamina of young men to impress older women.
@@shanialee7361 where yo husband at??
@@mpumelelobeyers957 Not having ED and balding
@@shanialee7361 Older women only get younger men in the west because of distortions in the dating market. In healthier markets, it rarely happens.
Most men bald eventually. You can't avoid it forever. You aren't going to be dating 30 year olds at 60.
@@lamentate07 Umm, dude what? Younger men have been messing with older women since the dawn of time in all places of the world. In some cultures, it's even a right of passage for younger men to get trained by older women. There is a reason why even in corn categories the top most searchers including milf should tell you all about it. At every point in a young man’s life, he has fantasized about getting it with an older woman. Men especially the young ones will always be attracted to beautiful women regardless of age. Also not all men bald; some age gracefully.
I was trapped by a woman 8 years older than me. Why, loneliness , I was lonely and she was company. It was a huge mistake, once I was Grapple Hooked her true nature and emotional baggage made me unhappy, the games she played are not discussed on videos.
What games?
@@ZhekaTrololo Plenty of manipulation dirty dishonest tricks played for drama. Best example, she disappeared for a week, expecting me to frantically search for her, and she wanted me to find her and cry and beg her to return. I used that time to move out, and when she returned I was gone, it was her that begged me for months to come back. Next phase, when she finally realised that it was over, REVENGE games.
@@johnsmith-ht3sy Thanks for answering! I see she was very dysfunctional. Please, tell more. I especially interested to read what were the revenge games and what happened next, because safety is my first concern.
Trapped. What country was this is in? Did she drug you and chain you in the basement or how does this work? Or is 'Trapped' a euphemism for "I made a bad decision but it feels better to blame someone else"
@@johnsmith-ht3syPlease, tell what her revenge games were. I was waiting for your answer since yesterday.
also older women believe they have authority over you in a relationship, even one that is one day older then you feels this way.
That's cuz you're a beta. Mine is 11 yrs older and calls me daddy and master.
Yeah for sure
Another comment off topic nobody ever talks about. Medical industry. So so many nurses, doctors are out of shape. way to heavy. so unhealthy. Why are these people allowed to tell you what you need to do? Would any of you hire a personal trainer that was 300 pounds and had fast food in their hands? So why are nurses, doctors, specialists. 8 out of 10 at any dr office just look like they should be on the biggest loser. I CANNOT BE THE ONLY ONE THAT HAS EVER NOTICED THIS ISSUE.
Guys once you stop pedestalizing women and accept them for who they are you will never get your hear broken. And women have to do the same with men-its a cold game at times but it aint that serious. You can survive a lot worse that a shitty relationship
I am married to a woman 4 years senior, and I definitely agree that's not for everyone.
The compensation I found in her was that she was very established in our common business field and she helped me professionally at the beginning of my career.
Rarely any woman wants to do that, that's how she bought me (besides her beauty) and afterwards we married.
There is no playing fools with woman of her status and experience, I can handle that, but it's not what I recommend to any of my friends.
Plus now we're in our mid 30s and started to work on kids, there is a fear we won't be able to have them.
These problems don't exist with younger women
She's just waiting till you make enough money to divorce you.🤦
4 years is nothing, so your saying you shouldn't date any one 4 years younger then you? I know lots of successful relationships both ways with age gaps.
@@susanwentworth6098 Typical Western woman thinking. Those 4 years could make a world of difference.
For women 35 and beyond it is considered 𝗚𝗘𝗥𝗜𝗔𝗧𝗥𝗜𝗖 pregnancy per medical community. This is considered a high-risk pregnancy and the risk of miscarriage, a baby born with Down syndrome, etc, etc raises dramatically. Not saying that a woman at 22 can't have a miscarriage, but that is NOT the norm.
Typically the younger the woman is the more fertile she is and fewer problems arise. As you can tell a pregnancy of a 25 y/o and a 35 y/o is dramatic. The MEDICAL community marks 35 and beyond as GERIATRIC pregnancy for a reason it is a DOWNWARD spiral as the OLDER a woman gets the less chance of conception.
The decline in fertility for women as they age is a well-documented phenomenon. While individual experiences may vary, it is generally understood that female fertility gradually decreases over time. It is important to note that fertility is a complex topic influenced by various factors, including individual health, genetics, and lifestyle choices.
The specific percentage drop in fertility from age 25 to 35 can vary depending on the source and study referenced. However, I can provide you with some general information based on available research. According to a widely cited study conducted by David Dunson et al. and published in the journal Human Reproduction, the probability of conception per menstrual cycle among healthy, regularly menstruating couples is as follows:
- At age 25: Approximately 25% to 30% chance of conception per menstrual cycle.
- At 35: Approximately 15% to 20% chance of conception per menstrual cycle.
This indicates a decline in fertility of around 5% per year between the ages of 25 and 35, based on the study's findings. It is worth mentioning that these percentages are approximate and can vary between individuals.
It's also important to note that fertility decline becomes more significant as women approach their late 30s and early 40s, with a steeper decline after the age of 35. After the age of 35, fertility decline becomes more pronounced, and the chances of experiencing age-related fertility issues, such as infertility and pregnancy complications, increase.
How ridiculous 30s are Young to have children I had mine at 32 and 34, now 53 abd and they have both left home with careers, before contraception women had children until the menopause my grandmother and aunts had 6-8 children well into there 40s, it's not like your partner is 50!
Also I know many men and women with fertility issues of all ages.
Did the same thing . I was like challenged excepted . Learned never do that again . Stay strong 💪
So men dont work out, have baldness treatments, take viagra? Go to the gym? Take vitamins etc, its not just women.
Any woman over 50 is a no go zone!
Do you mean, any woman over 50 is “no man’s land”?
He literally hit the nail on the head I'm 27 being seeing a smoke show 41 yrs old woman for a few months now but just having fun the s*x is incredible!
Don’t beat yourself up about it, it happens. I had a few runs with these types, it’s a good time but don’t invest a commitment.
53 here, no wife no children making six figures and enjoying life!
snorting coke. Snorting coke. What else?
Sure, rub it in!
Idk I've only had positive experiences with older women. Lots of sex and they do anything to please me. I never plan on having children of living with a woman though. If older women look down on you and you can't lead them it's about you I think. What keeps me from moving on is mostly her personality though.
Rich is right on this one
I was 46 when I met my second wife when she was 50. She did not have children. I dated an a woman who had kids. Got along well with the children but after awhile there were issues
Older women are low hanging fruit? We are high on the tree limb :) We have our own money, know our values, and how to communicate, When my husband and I met the attraction was powerful. A few weeks later we learned he was 25. I was 40. We married 2 years later then for 13 years the deepest partnership we created music, art, and theater. The idea the woman will become old and physically deteriorate is an assumption.We always thought I would die first however he died in my arms on his 35th birthday. Embrace love when it happens we do not know who will be around no matter what their ages. :)
What a touching story. I'm sorry for your loss. Sounds like you enjoyed a magical time together.
I met a woman out one night, who claimed to be 10 years older than me. I was 28.
We hit it off, and she wanted me to come to her place for dinner. But apparently I had to be vetted by her friend first.
I met the two out one night, and she kissed me when departing. I saw all the wrinkles around her mouth, and had the fear of God. No way was she only 38.
The whole walk to my car I'm thinking to myself, "I can't do this, I can't do this..."
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lol damn, some women at that age still look good. Most don’t though.
She was a reptilian
Let me guess… you still did it.
@@FreedomFox1 I bailed actually. I couldn't go through with it. But she was the typical divorced woman, with two kids, took the husband to the cleaners got the house.
Most women in their 50s want peace and quiet . No drama with people younger or older
Really? One of the best relationships I had was with this lady 8 year older than me, and one of the best women on the bed I ever experienced. She took very good care of her body. I highly recommend date a few, very enriched experience.
How'd that go? Sounds like it failed so your point is shit.
Very frustrated with a family member who just moved in with a single mom. He is only 30 years old.
Those type of guys are losers
I've experienced that. The older women condescend to younger guys. It's a dead-end. It's ok to have your Maggie Mays once in a while when you're young and playing the field, but then there's a time to stop that nonsense. I'm glad I ain't doing that anymore.
They even talk down to men their age or slightly older than them. It's not worth the headache. Focus on being the best version of yourself, and find a woman who will your program.
Wise words 👏
I've refused to date anyone under 35 since I was 22 or so (54 now). I just can't stand to be around a girl much younger than that for even 5 minutes. They're truly awful and almost always bad in the sack. I've been with a wide variety of women, and women in their 40s just always appealed to me. I've always assumed guys liked young women to show off to other men - whereas I've just always been ZFG and think for myself.
Respect.
Strange . That is NOT THE TRUTH
im 39 and recently looked on a dating site at women 40+, i can't believe how poor everyone looked, the decline at 40 is astonishing, maybe a lot of them were lying about their age, idk. It seems like 8/10 can't even keep themselves in basic shape.
every man loves to show off his woman, thats why we love to have it young, hot.
Who doesn´t understand human nature, is a fool. grow up @@rODIUMuk
@@lesb-fe2jf I'm a 40 year old woman, and I can't believe how horrible men in their 50s look. No thanks. I'd rather stay single.
never dated a women older than me. The oldest was always my age. I noticed that women tend to be better in bed when they are a little older. Yet wrinkles and gray hair are a huge turnoff for me😢
So everything he’s describing here about an older woman is exactly how you would describe an older man dating a 20 year old woman. The hypocrisy is amazing. The only problem with dating an older woman is that yes, come at a certain point she will not have more children. But not all men want children. And not all men can have children. And there’s a lot of 50 year old guys who have suddenly woken up to the fact that a lot of 20-year-old girls don’t want to date them so they waited too long to have children too.
We're not here to only spread our seed. We have goals and that's our purpose.
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I'm in my early 30s, and I generally date younger women, but my current girlfriend is 44. She lied to me at first and said she was 27, and I'm shocked she isn't. She was never married, has no kids, and is a nerdy, hipster, Zooey Deschanel type. I still can't believe she is 44 because she looks and acts way younger. My mind is still genuinely blown.
So long as your 🐓 is getting blown as often as your mind.🤣🤣
RUN
You need to be thinking of long term and a family. Don't waste your good years on her. She may be fun for you now, but really, do you want to be with a 50 year old in 6 years? Even if you don't want kids, Sex will drop off like a rock in the not too distant future, even if it's great now. Acting younger at 44 isn't really a positive either.
@OOOOOOOOOOOM great advice... but its on him to figure out to RUN. It's all about the sex but he can get that elsewhere.
@@VROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOMThings have been going well, so I'm going to stick with her until she gives me a reason not to. You make a good point regarding the long-term and family. That is definitely something I will need to consider.
You've got the Coolidge effect etc but that doesn't adequately describe the following: attraction often turns on like flipping a switch with initially meeting, then golly-gee, 2-18 months later,with a particular gender, attraction can turn off like flipping a switch to off. Then, as a result, the gender who has been involuntarily put into a deep-freeze can 😢 loose all interest in the one who closed-up-shop.
What's your thoughts on the UFC fighter Ian Garry? He's married with a 40 year old woman while he is 26 years old. She made a book on how to be a "WAG". She also DM other fighters before being with Garry. The whole MMA community is basically bullying him. It's messed up that this is happening to him, he is very talented too.
Cuckado
He deserves it for being a simp
He deserves it for being a simp
Brooooooo 😂 I was 25 when I started dating older women! They were between the ages of 40-45.. Honestly it was a Fetish 😂 it had its pros and cons! But today I would tell these younger guys don't do... Stick with ur age group... Older women can be possessive.
Any age woman can be possessive
- I always tell my wife if she dies or leaves me I would be very conscious of exactly who I date. Most women are just in it to enjoy the fruits of your past labor. I would rather do without.
I told my wife she ruined me for any woman , in other words, I will never get into another relationshit
Psycho Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz is a great book...read it back in the 60s and I still think about its lessons.
Everyone says a woman’s greatest asset is her fertility. My question is why anyone’s right mind when they want to bring children into the western world when the state can simply decide whether you get to have a relationship with your children or not if the woman decides one day she’s up and outya here? To me, her fertility is a liability
Bingo
I would say it is ok to see the older woman if the young guy knows he doesnt want any kids doesnt become too emotionally attatched to the woman just wants to have fun for awhile and then move on after awhile also if the older woman doesnt cost too much to maintain pays for a lot of things you do together
The only thing older women bring to the table is more baggage.
That's something guys need to strongly consider because there will be some. Looks or not.
It depends. I was always dating younger women but it is not a good idea when you emigrate to a new country and you have to learn a lot quick. You are better off dating a girl that has a lot of experience. It will avoid you loads of mistakes. Now when it is time to make a family and you are finally established in your new environment, yes, it is better to take a younger partner to make a family because of fertility and energy issues.
"the who's who of Tampa!" lol! sounds like the "luxury department of Walmart."
Ladies will get with the drug dealer, not thinking that they will ever fall for him, but then they will fall for him. Just like men will get with the older woman thinking that there’s no way that she will ever get him but then he’s stuck forever or until divorce.
LOL!
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An older women once told me of their advantages: they won't tell, they won't swell (get pregnant), and they're grateful as hell.
MAXWELL MALTZ reference. That is golden.
Totally agree,grow old gracefully.
You nailed it with the plastic surgery freaks. I met two sisters from Toronto. The one sister owned a clinic and looked like a side show act gone wrong. She probably would have been pretty but was in turn hideous; meanwhile her sister had none of that garbage done and was very beautiful. There was no need for any of that crap on the first sister. She was bored.
were their names Katarina and Ana?
It doesn't matter if a woman is 18 or 88 years old, a man is still subject to the same nonsense dealing with her. I've seen attractive women in their 40's and 50's and I've seen a woman that was 22 that was completely WASHED. You kind of have to make the best out of any woman you talk to and hopefully you're not just tolerating her.
Exactly, older women let you take lead when you are young. They just have to trust that you can lead. To me older women are less problematic more secure in themself and don’t play games. Yes fertility is less likely but its not impossible. Of course older women with NO KIDS that is.
Tolerated in the past for sex but I couldn't really stand her she was insufferable
Great video! "Look like a fish!" 😂😂😂😂😂😂
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I can't for the life of me understand why guys marry older women, sometimes 10+ years older. You'll be hitting your stride and she'll be damn near menopause. And almost all women past 50 start looking pretty rough no matter how much they've tried to maintain. I believe it's nature's cue telling you this woman is not worth your time if you're a younger guy.
Those women are probably phenomenal in the bedroom ( at least before the marriage). Guys are easy. We love sex and it can (shouldn't) make us blind to red flags.
Have you heard about mommy's issues, same thing with daddy's issues for women
Have you ever heard of this thing called “love”? Do you realize that people with disabilities, unattractive, old, short, etc can also be loved by others?
seriously, these are all just teenagers though who watch these videos who can’t get women lol
@@TruStoogeDrew.lmao gotta be
Love this!
Rich, if we followed ytour advice we'd never date anyone....
"Older" is a matter of perspective. Through much of my years I dated women 2-4 years older than me. When in my 20s and 30s that was the case.
I didn't do it strategically. It just happened that way. I wasn't a Chad so chicks my age or younger weren't into me during those years. My qualities that I'm most proud of meant nothing to them.
My qualities were something that required maturity on the woman's part to see. They saw those qualities while the my-age-or-younger ones did not.
The only time I dated women my age or younger, was when I moved to Florida and met Latinas. They were different and I never dated American woman again. My qualities resonated with them in a big way. It started around the turn of the century.
Latinas can be a lot to handle emotionally, you got to be the man
Well said and done !!! My girlfriend is actually a Latina and there is NO way that I’ll ever date or be with an American woman ,is garbage ,but God is Good and have for us what we pray for if is in his will and purpose
That's cos Latinas and Asians age better.
Listen to Rod Stewart “Maggie May”. Ask yourself why older women love this song
Trust me, if older single women were wife material then they would be married already(the exception would be a widow). Big red flag......
At 23, I dated a an attractive, “sophisticated” 35 year-old with 3 kids. I “rescued” her from an asshole 6’3” athletic, older, established, banker ex husband and I taught her kids how to ride dirt bikes, drive cars, shoot guns and bodysurf. I was the cool uncle they never had.
The mom and I were close FWB’s but I never meant for it to be more. 10 seconds after I announced that we should date others, she had an airline pilot, a doctor and a CPA/business owner waiting in the wings. I thought the CPA that she settled on was a wuss. Hell of a nice guy, and we were always cordial, but he was what is now known as a simp.
I married a jealous Type-A that was 4 years my senior, with an 816 FICO, to my 817. We 0:38 built a successful business for 18 years before splitting everything 50/50 in a divorce at 58. We divorced after her son, that I’d made a partner in the business, stole from us for the 4th time and she wouldn’t let me have him arrested.
In the mean time, the 9 year-old boy that I’d taught to shoot and ride and fix motorcycles, and drive a truck, grew to 6’5” and went on to pitch for the Florida Marlins when they won the World Series in 2003. The family and I reconnected after my divorce and he and I built a carwash with his connections and my cash and credit. He’d burned through $20,000,000 in his 14 year MLB career, so I took a chance on him by staking my remaining net worth.
It was tight for nearly 3 years, but in the end, we, made money…unfortunately, he took more than his half.
It was then that I realized that I was always a simp.
For the last few years, I’ve been dating a young child-free Brazilian gal. After 4 decades of dumb dating, I would not even consider a woman with children of any age even for a fling on a cruise ship. 🤦♂️
the problem is not their kids man. problem is you getting involved with them in a financial way...
That’s a wild run man
Wow, you really got taken for a ride, but despite that I admire you. You seem to have strong character and a lot of resiliency. It also seems like you got your enjoyment along the way, with very few dull moments. All in all, not bad.
Dude! What a story!
josh becket? LOL
My ex is 43 she's married to a 27yo...they've been together coming up to 5 years...she has 3 teenage kids, he also has a kid from a previous relationship
Rich gives some great information but you have to take that information and apply it to your own needs, wants, desires, goals, ect... Rich is great explaining the red flags different women have, but lets remember the perfect women doesn't exist. I've dated women 10 years younger to 10 years older, I've dated the boss babe, the single mom, the divorcee, the the educated, the high school grad, the overweight, the wealthy and the not so wealthy, I even dated a married women. I say date these women but understand the dynamics involved. Have fun with dating, but when it comes time that your done and want to settle down choose wisely.
As a woman, I cannot imagine dating younger or even shorter. If he isn't more than me, its a waste of time. After 14 years of marriage, I cannot even imagine going through it again. If he can't get hard then I will go without.
I can imagine both. Made it a reality.
As a 65 year old guy I of course am fine with woman 40 plus. It's all about attitude and their view on life. If they act like many of the younger over privileged women out there then yea forget it.
The older they get the more bitter they get. Stay single, gents.
I’m past menopause..young men hit on me constantly..a matter of fact ..I’m giving in 😂 and going on a date with a guy 20 years younger..I said I’d never date a younger man..never say never..
Well good for you!
Always protect yourself.
Lmao soul crusher 3000 😅
I couldn't stomach watching the full video so i don't know if whoever that bald guy is came to the realization that in the long run it's the woman who chooses the man. Men have always gotten this all wrong thinking they are the ones choosing the woman whether the woman is 52 or 22. The only difference is the 52 year old will be more forgiving of your imperfections.
That’s exactly right, that’s the Blackpill, vvomen are the CHOOSERS (when it comes to relationships and s€x), and as the CHOOSERS they PRESELECT the men they want based on the man’s LOOKS.
Women choose, but the man still has the choice to take up the offer, stay, or leave.
Not necessarily true about the age thing. My ex at 48 picked on me like a bully. Far worse than anyone I’ve dated in their thirties or even twenties for that matter. She was beautiful but damaged and very cruel. Of course I only learned this a year in.
I couldn’t do anything right no matter how hard I tried. After I moved out and we broke up because she’d mad thing’s impossible she hooked up with a crack addict. He stole 10k from her in just four months. Unbelievable. Yet I was the one who wasn’t perfect enough. Sober, employed, faithful, kind, wasn’t selfish in bed.
This man is great all
Men on earth should listen to him. Guys like Kevin Samuel, rom
Wills speak nothing to benefit man but this man is great.
At 53 I’ll take casual enjoyment of women’s company over relationships.
I don’t want to endanger or ruin my life and security I worked decades for.
And I will not be the most important person so … what is the point
Real women don’t give a shit what you think or want.
The main purpose of life isn’t to spread our seed, imo. That’s a pretty narrow way of looking at life. Plenty of great men have been childless in my opinion.
Chopin?
I can't even believe this needs to be said!