The Number 1 Problem With Marriage
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Let me think....I can be a faithful guy, provide and caring and she gets a whim and leaves. Now I OWE her half? I can tell you from experience DO NOT DO THIS.
Never enter into a contract where the other person is financially incentivized to break it with gov't backing.
Never live with a woman.
I have been married 33 years and I have seen what the court system has done to my buddies during a divorce. I would not recommend marriage until laws change.
You don't recommend marriage but have been married for over 30 years...
@@JJ-mh3hb... Getting married today was certainly different 33 years ago.....I met my wife through her brother whom I worked with at a summer job. Today people meet thru dating apps and the b.s. that comes with that.... catfish, pictures that are 10 years old, single mothers etc. ..
@@JJ-mh3hbyeah, that still makes sense… I have a girlfriend but generally wouldn’t advise monogamy
Im happy for anyone whos got a decent marriage. Its rare these days
@@JJ-mh3hb when mickey got married it was your family or a family friend who vetted the person they introduced you to, those are people who care about you and more importantly they care about themselves and their reputation, they aren't going to set you up with the town ho bag or lazy loudmouth
Any single man who is living in the United States today. Getting married is a hard no. Too much to risk and nothing to gain. Our civil courts systems will make you feel like a criminal and all you have done your whole life is work hard pay your taxes and build wealth.
For a man today, getting married is like holding an unpinned grenade. It's just a matter of time 💥💥💥
She takes the pin out anytime 🙄
yeah, holding the grenade in between your upper thighs
@@troysmith5749Ouch 😂
Damn 😂
Marriage is like signing up for involuntary charity.
That's hilarious!😂
involuntary charity = slavery
Better vacation in Thailand's social-security office ... it's called 'Pattaya' ... try the 'nurses' in minis on soi 6, hehe ... drippy-dick cures included!
As long as divorce is an option, marriage doesn’t exist
That was a very good comment 👍🏻
Do you drive a car? As long as an accident is possible driving isn’t possible
@@jackspinner4727 what a terrible analogy. Driving is almost a necessity rather than an option….
@@terrodar19 false. Bikes trains walking, horses, kayaks. Nowhere near necessity. Cars do not exist.
@@jackspinner4727Marriage = trust, if there is an option for distrust, the marriage loses value. A car with the real possibility of having no wheels, engine,… loses the value of a real car.
Being taken for a ride right now. We have a business that is loaded with debt. Has never shown a profit. Technically we’ve been married for 10 years, but we have been separated for the last four with zero contact. And she is trying to get a lot of money. she has zero dollars invested in the business while my other partner and I have hundreds of thousands invested. And she will get money. There’s no two ways about it.
My bother is set to be married next August. That spent time at my camp and they were fighting at 03:30 which woke me up. We I was upset, I tried to get them to stop, she wasn’t having it. He ended up sleeping on the couch.
Off to a bad start.
but the makeup sex was amazing!!!! when she did it with another guy after the argument
He needs to run😮
It's the only prison you can never escape.
Without watching the video and just going off the title the number one problem with marriage. Well I’ll answer that without watching the video. The answer is marriage. The number one problem with marriage is marriage. Don’t get married guys, it’s just not worth it.
the problem with marriage is that it can only be accomplished with a woman and we all know it goes down hill from there
My ex working her ass off on minimum wage , and after my child support, barely gets to 22k a year.
That's how you teach them a lesson.
Don't be stupid, and always consider what's right for YOU.
I have not and will not get married because of Divorce Laws, Govt sponsored Fraud against men. I’m not going to put myself in that legal/financial liability. Too much exposure/costly.
Thanks! Finishing your book and wish I would have known this stuff 50 years ago. I have made most all the mistakes you warn followers about. Now, at 70, I was about to make another dumb move by wanting to marry a girl (73) with a couple obvious red flags. Please consider a video series on how to get OUT of relationships and maintaining focus, dignity and confidence.
I’m agree with you in an individual level, absolutely. But he is right. To have any chance at saving society (which is slim) we must change things, not just check out of marriage.
People generally don't like politicians but you involve them in your relationship when you get married, and most people don't like lawyers either but you need them to get the politicians you don't like out of your marriage when you get divorced.
From my experience as a divorced and never to be married again guy, the #1 problem is that when married women want to cheat, they can do it with ZERO accountability and get paid. It's just a bad contract for guys to sign.
Do not understand this statement, if you have kids with a woman the state is always going to be involved, married or not.
Marriage is a sacred contract between a man & and a woman ; keep the state out of your personal affairs.
Men walking away...
Every marriage has a prenup. It's just a question of do you let the Feds decide the terms, or do you decide.
Marriage is the only endeavor where you need to prioritze another person to be successful. Yes, it's a sacrifice in the strictest sense, but the return is unmatched when its functioning properly. No reason to get married in your 20s, early to mid 30s allows you to figure out what you want out of life. Then find a SO focused on the same life long goals problem solve together.
Put all your assets (financial & property) into another trusted person's name. State can't touch what legally belongs to someone else.
And hope they don’t get married….
@@markgadsby5568 Oh, that too!!!
Would you get on an airplane if you knew your chances were only 50/50 that you would make it to your destination? … there’s your answer.
100% agreed on everything here. It's sad but the reality is that there is just no benefit in it for the average guy to be married these days. It's all work, all risk, zero rewards. Unles you happen to hit the jackpot and find the perfect wife (i.e., does not exist) and you get perfect offspring (i.e., does not exist) and manage to maintain perfect living conditions (i.e., does not exist). Even then, there's still the risk of her finding someone she thinks is better and taking off. The thing is, for the average guy, being left and losing everything is always going to be on the back of your mind, even in "fair" states. It's just an unappealing situation all the way around for men.
Men can be very dishonest at times. Women don’t just wake up and get divorced its a planned process. If men actually observed their women they could see this coming but they just blame her.
Prenup
The raw deal of marriages
Even if your not married but she lives with you, your seen as married to the state and your screwed. No Cohabitation
There is a cohabitation agreement you need to have her signed before letting her moving in with you.
Depends on where you live. Most people are stupid and assume this is the case everywhere, it is not. If you have to move to live in a place that does not have common law marriage do it.
@@webbezzy a cohabitation agreement? I've never heard of that b4. Can u elaborate on what that agreement entails/it's purpose?
@@reallue I heard it from a coworker who divorced twice before. He started dating again and she wanted to move in with him. He talked to a lawyer before letting her in. The lawyer said never let anyone move in with you before having her signing the cohabitation agreement. It is a fairly detailed agreement including, everyone is responsible for their own financial support, talks about earnings, their assets must be remained their own, financial supports, debts, expenses, even vacations, health insurance, income tax returns, termination of relationship, etc.
Just as there’s a risk of divorce laws changing in your state, there’s also a chance the financial dynamic between two people will change over time. A man often loses his woman after losing his employment if he can’t scramble quickly enough to find an income as good as the one he lost. The hypergamy of so many women and their tendency to value men as resource objects makes LTRs incredibly risky. That was the slap in the face wake up moment for me about 7 years ago and why I’ve chosen to remain single. With these new eyes, I haven’t yet met a woman I’d want to date. Sad but true. I meet more compatible women abroad in countries where the values are more traditional and laws are better for men. It’s enough reason to relocate. Cheaper and safer lifestyle as well. Easier for men of modest means to be attractive success objects in poorer countries. Like it or not, that’s reality.
Thank you
GET RID OF THE MARRIAGE LICENSE!!!!!!!!
Absolutely
The #1 problem with marriage is body count, marriage is supposed to be between a man and a virgin, not a man and a leftover.
There r not many virgins after 18, those days r over,
@@brando7266 so don't get married.
Recently saw a BMO ad with the title “Divorce-proof your assets”. I find it surprising that a large mainstream institution is even talking about this
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First
The issue isn’t as much the marriage as it is the having of the kids. The state will be involved in your life much more as an unmarried person with children then if you have no children, but are married or “living in a way that looks like marriage.”
This seems to be the case depending on the state
How?
Divorce = alimony, child support, >50% of assets & retirement, losing the house and kids
Not married = child support, losing kids
Asset protection lawyer. It is a unique aspect of law. 🎉
Getting married in the first place.
The thought of it
Prenaptual. The problem I had is that I was already married for years overseas
Not trying to be a contrarian, but I am not understanding the options for men that want to sire children and raise those children in his own house. There seems to be no way to do it without some form of cohabitation.
Surrogacy and being a single Dad. Full legal control of your children. Hire help (nannies, tutors) to raise and educate. This is for men that have a bit more money.
It’s simple. Do a very good job vetting who you marry. That simple. Don’t listen to a jaded divorced single dude on TH-cam. Find people who do make marriage work and learn from them.
Move to a Africa or Asia and use common sense. That is the only realistic option until the Western Matriarchy collapses.
Move to Africa or Asia and use common sense. That is the only realistic option until the matriarchal Western shIth@le countries collapse. Works great.
@@jackspinner4727Yes, but you need to vet not only her but her family and friends and anyone who has influence over her or him.
The state sticks its nose in your business and then does whatever it has to do to avoid paying any money to the a spouse that does not have any or does not have much money.
Smart men understand the true meaning of relevance
Why we do not get married?? Who wants a tatted 500 lbs side of mess.
Fast food is so expensive now, people around are getting noticeably slimmer!
@@te1ephraqha! I was just speaking about this to someone earlier today.
That even when dying if you are facing it, they ask why are you crying. And send yoy to your room. Men do r have time for that. That's way worse.
Single fathers increasing but are small %.
marriage isn't inherently undesirable or damaging to men.
it's the divorce law practice in the West that are ruining it.
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True, my two Cousins married guys who basically did nothing...One was a part-time carpenter, when he could get work, the other worked at Home Depot, while he was trying to get into the state police, and looking at him you knew that would never happen. The girls were the bread winners. When the husbands took off, they got half of everything.. One cousin had to sell her car to give him half of that , had to sell the house, she bought, and he's getting half of her pension. Same with the other cousin...Guy got half, and part of her pension.
Yeah Julie, that sucks, but that is the exception, not the rule. Statistics don’t lie. Men pay WAY more than women in divorce. Be honest, don’t just use your own narcissistic reduction.
@@rwtindallman hater fake news.
@@rwtindall Wow, that's Harsh. I just wrote a couple of scenarios. I'm not saying that men don't taken more often....But they do go for the hot young pieces of ass, and get taken. Now that I have seen over and over. A lot of men will move on to a younger Piece of ass, and many of those girls are not going to stay with those guys, and will use them an toss the guys away. It's a vicious cycle.
My wife makes 1/6 what I make.
1st Dammit
You win a billion $ 😎
Look at the law passed in Nigeria because of us they are using our western women as an example of what not to do.
Why take advice about marriage from a jaded divorced guy named rich. Understand his subscribers probably went through the same thing now they are bitter. But
Why take advice about marriage from guys who survived it?
Marriage is when America decides socialism is ok
What?
@@jackspinner4727 Socialism is when resources are shared "equally" not based on merit. That's essentially how divorces in the US are.
@@SuperMBARutgers2013 ah ok that makes sense.