3 Ways to Avoid Getting Wrecked In Marriage

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  • @RichCooperUnplugged
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  • @danchristopher8649
    @danchristopher8649 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +62

    I’ll save everyone 15 of their time: 1- Don’t get married. 2- Don’t get married. 3- Don’t get married.

    • @Son-of-Krypton
      @Son-of-Krypton 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      That’s exactly what I thought….
      Don’t even start that chaos 🙄

    • @Detonator007
      @Detonator007 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      4th - Don’t get Married

    • @Majorhavoktv
      @Majorhavoktv 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Right to the point!

    • @stripes497
      @stripes497 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      AMEN!!!!! AMEN!!!!!

    • @maximusmeridius2060
      @maximusmeridius2060 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      100% especially in western countries we're over entitled narcissistic women have unlimited irresponsible levels of legal power

  • @stripes497
    @stripes497 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    AVOID Marriage at All Costs!!!!!!!
    AVOID The Chaos and Drama!!!!!!
    AVOID The Baggage and Misery!!!
    AVOID The Agony and Grief!!!!!!!!!!
    Take care of yourselves!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @williamthompson7829
    @williamthompson7829 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +27

    1. Don't get married.

    • @johnnyallnite1953
      @johnnyallnite1953 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I agree, Tennessee is not a common law marriage state.

  • @jamesg1974a
    @jamesg1974a 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    I’ve been married twice. The women that I fell in love with and married, became a very different people. Very different. Not slightly, but very. Extremely vicious.

    • @GBU61
      @GBU61 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I got married once and it was horrible. But I take full responsibility for that decision because I gave her “the keys to my castle.” Once a man goes through that experience wouldn’t you think he would learn his lesson?

    • @tamadeus7189
      @tamadeus7189 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      That is almost guaranteed to happen once anyone is given absolute power over another person's life and no responsibility to use it well.
      It's what marriage has become in the West, and the man has no authority in marriage whatsoever.

    • @jamesg1974a
      @jamesg1974a 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@GBU61 I thought I had. Then 14 years later I fell for it again. Never again.

  • @verborgenewahrheit1594
    @verborgenewahrheit1594 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    It’s not about love, it’s about survival.

    • @Eric-kn4yn
      @Eric-kn4yn 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Financially try living solo on low minimum wage.

  • @StudSupreme
    @StudSupreme 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Three ways:
    1. Don't get married. 😉
    2. Keep the State out of the marriage. COMPLETELY.
    3. Ironclad, lawyer-created prenup.
    4. Before tying the knot, choose wisely. That's a long discussion.

  • @smoore8
    @smoore8 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Don’t get married fellas trust me on this, don’t do it. I avoided that trap and chased dreams and freedom till at 38 I thought I found “the one”. There isn’t a “the one” or “good girl”. You’ll lose your freedom, sanity, and half your money. Wish someone would have stopped me

    • @briandavis1115
      @briandavis1115 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Sounds like my story i though I met the one at 37. After 5 years of marriage and one child she got bored and decided to divorce and almost destroyed me

    • @GBU61
      @GBU61 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      You would not be the man you are today if you hadn’t. We are who we are because of the experiences we have gone through, good and bad. The key element is that you learned your lesson and didn’t do it again.

    • @Dayinthelifewmimi
      @Dayinthelifewmimi 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@briandavis1115 Wow

  • @robparkinson8085
    @robparkinson8085 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

    Typical scenario…I was stupid too believe her when she said 1. I’ll never leave you.
    2. If I ever leave you, I won’t take anything from you.
    Guess what…going through divorce and she’s suing for half my stuff that I owned before she was in the picture. Don’t get married or live with with a woman and never believe a word she says

    • @carlosarias2011
      @carlosarias2011 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Don't worry, if you are young u can recover.

    • @GBU61
      @GBU61 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      My number one rule with women is I never trust them. Once I realized women should be viewed only as a temporary thing, it helped me immensely. Actually a woman I thought was going to be with me for a long all of a sudden decided to leave this week. Did it bother me? Not really because I knew she was going to leave eventually anyway, just not this fast.

  • @jpb9524
    @jpb9524 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    2/3rds of marriages end over a 40 year period. 50% rate underestimates

    • @m4rvinmartian
      @m4rvinmartian 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      That's because the people are dead... dude, lol.

    • @tonydiesel3444
      @tonydiesel3444 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      85%

  • @Timfrombristol
    @Timfrombristol 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Rich is right. Do you think you are marrying the unicorn? Just wait a few years everything changes.

  • @karl28560
    @karl28560 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Single men... STACK YOUR WEALTH IN SECRET and live like a poor man.
    She won't be interested, and neither will the government.

  • @andyfranks1575
    @andyfranks1575 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    My lawyer says I need a rock-solid prenup

    • @tamadeus7189
      @tamadeus7189 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Move to Kenya, become citizens & get married there.
      Men retain ALL perental & natural rights.

    • @michaelcavalier8750
      @michaelcavalier8750 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      My understanding is that one of the requirements for a prenuptial to be upheld is that you have to tell a woman well before the wedding. I would state the requirement as soon as possible. Another requirement is that she has to have her own lawyer. Check the laws in your state. If she says that you wouldn't ask for one if you loved her, tell her that she wouldn't refuse to sign one if she loved you.

  • @m4rvinmartian
    @m4rvinmartian 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    1. Don't get married.
    2. Don't get married.
    *3. STOP BEING STUBBORN! Don't get married.*

    • @stripes497
      @stripes497 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      AMEN!!!! AMEN!!!!!!!

  • @TriggerTravels
    @TriggerTravels 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Why are men still getting married in 2024? Stop involving the government in your personal business any more than absolutely necessary

    • @michaelcavalier8750
      @michaelcavalier8750 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Some states in the USA do not require you to sign papers to be considered married in the eyes of the state. Mine is one of them. Check your state laws!

  • @50shadesofNV
    @50shadesofNV 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Gold nuggets, agree on getting a lawyer consults pre

  • @jcnlaw
    @jcnlaw 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Great video! There has definitely been an uptick in prenup consults and pre marriage consults in my Pennsylvania and New Jersey divorce practice. You are a fool if you get married without knowing the law.

    • @elsa_nyc
      @elsa_nyc 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Anyone who marries without a pre-nup is insane. I give a consult as engagement gifts. People gave me a hard time about it, until they have the consult and then they are grateful!!

  • @Krombop.M
    @Krombop.M 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    So. Marriage and having children. Is simply too risky to get involved with.

  • @Sketch_Sesh
    @Sketch_Sesh 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Not only the laws but society and culture need to change. The moral fabric has been destroyed

  • @philnewpower
    @philnewpower 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I am married to a Finnish woman who admires my unplugged alpha attitude. We got married in Finland because here, any pre-marital assets remain static unless you have a pre-up. The women know this, and take marriage much more seriously knowing that

  • @lawrencelawrence3920
    @lawrencelawrence3920 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I worked much of my life in isolated construction camps, where i may be there from weeks to months. That is a big reason that did not marry or have kids. What was the point if i was not there to raise and enjoy them.

  • @hanandy92
    @hanandy92 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This was very informative, thank you Rich!

  • @KingLouisDaSaint
    @KingLouisDaSaint 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Moving to Kentucky for a relationship is NUTS

  • @stanlyqbrick1621
    @stanlyqbrick1621 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I have a female family member who married into a wealthy family. she came to find that all her husbands assets existed in his families trust. The result of this had her fall into his frame so that she could keep enjoying his families winter holiday chalet, summer holiday property over looking the sea, a motored yacht and even a airplane. Divorce and that all ends and she can only go half in the house she bought with her husband as he owns nothing else with her.

    • @elsa_nyc
      @elsa_nyc 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      That is how to do it. We are setting up same for our (adult) children.

    • @stanlyqbrick1621
      @stanlyqbrick1621 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@elsa_nyc Respect. i have known my family member to be controlling/dominating and i thought she would destroy any man and then the marriage. Her husband is not weak or strong just plain. But the trust and her dominant father in law makes her submissive and so family focused rather than about herself. I am amazed at how well it works on her. Those trust goodies she enjoys everyday are just to sweet to loose with feminist antics.

    • @michaelcavalier8750
      @michaelcavalier8750 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Not all heroes wear capes.

  • @user-lc2qv1dn5u
    @user-lc2qv1dn5u 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    It's alimony for life in California if it's more than 10 years or until she gets married again some cases it is up to the judges discretion and they can make it half of the time

  • @elsa_nyc
    @elsa_nyc 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Why not mention California? It gets an A. The best state for parental rights.

    • @michaelcavalier8750
      @michaelcavalier8750 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Because of lifetime spousal support if married 10 years?

  • @kmertroll5284
    @kmertroll5284 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    09:50 the footballer name's is Hakimi

  • @wanna_be_racer
    @wanna_be_racer 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My misses says she is happy to sign a prenup and pay for her own lawyer. She understands I have way more to loose. She also says if we did have a kids and separate she would never weaponise them to extract money from me and always give me access to them. Says all the right things so I’ll just 🤞and get that prenup if I want to commit further.

    • @Gavi-144
      @Gavi-144 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Don't be naive. Everyone's partner says that. My ex said she wouldn't weaponise my child and guess what, she did.

  • @bumpercoach
    @bumpercoach 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It's a LOSER to say
    "friendlier for fathers"
    ... You'll get the most
    support saying BETTER
    FOR CHILDREN since
    allowing denial of time
    with their dad is way
    worse for the sons
    AND daughters

  • @lamasimon9421
    @lamasimon9421 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So what matters more, the state you get married in or the state you get divorced in?

    • @michaelcavalier8750
      @michaelcavalier8750 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      AFAIK, you can only file for divorce where you are a resident. I recommend that you ask your lawyer.

    • @lamasimon9421
      @lamasimon9421 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@michaelcavalier8750 thanks I was just curious, it just amazes me that so many people get married without looking into marriage laws for the present and future

  • @jbzzey
    @jbzzey 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm an "in your face" kind of guy. So when I go talk to an attorney, I'll take the woman with me to let her hear how it works.
    I know that sounds crazy, but give me a minute....
    When she tries to bring up marriage and all that stuff, I can say:
    Look, you were there when we talked to an attorney about how family law works here. So don't try and tell me that you don't know why I don't want to do it.
    After that, if she wants to leave, she can leave.

  • @Eric-kn4yn
    @Eric-kn4yn 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I would luv a cream cake strawberry trim and pot of coffee yummy 😊.

  • @Screaming-Trees
    @Screaming-Trees 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Football player is Hakimi. The PSG guy.

  • @tonydiesel3444
    @tonydiesel3444 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Real world actually happening in your neighborhood percentages of divorce are way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way higher than 50 percent around 80% in the reality

  • @tspice11
    @tspice11 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    California also has horrible gun laws too

  • @SuperSaverPlays
    @SuperSaverPlays 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I have just one way - just don't get married

  • @ct00001
    @ct00001 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I've been divorced for 12 years. Focused on the kids. They're amazing. They're grown now and doing great. I have the best divorce ever. When you get divorced, you're not out of the relationship y'all. It just changes. It remains about raising your kids well. Marriage isn't about happiness or wealth preservation. It's not about you at all. Being divorced is just a piece of paper, just like getting married. It doesn't mean anything. Just raise your kids well, that's literally the only point. I hope my kids all have happy divorces also. The entire marriage construct is ridiculous, that's why it always falls apart. If you're not with a woman to raise kids, every relationship is disposable. Once you have them, you're linked with that woman for life, regardless of how you designate the relationship legally.

  • @Chuckbonespcola
    @Chuckbonespcola 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Millionaire by forty...i got 2 years make 997,000 bucks.

  • @Eric-kn4yn
    @Eric-kn4yn 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wheres the romance gone ?

    • @tspice11
      @tspice11 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Lol

  • @willyhwang1059
    @willyhwang1059 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    im relieved i don't have sons

  • @simhgamedev
    @simhgamedev 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Frightening.

    • @Eric-kn4yn
      @Eric-kn4yn 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      A real horror show.

    • @briandavis1115
      @briandavis1115 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      As someone who's experienced it, you can't even imagine it.

    • @simhgamedev
      @simhgamedev 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@briandavis1115 lucky me... . Critical and strategic thinking saved me.

  • @BrianWaller-qe7gr
    @BrianWaller-qe7gr 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Only one way…don’t get married

  • @peterkunley
    @peterkunley 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    7:29 Look I bet this comment won't get pinned or liked, reply and I'll do absolutely NOTHING.

  • @Eric-kn4yn
    @Eric-kn4yn 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You want marriage convert to muslim faith 🤣.

    • @globalnomad1221
      @globalnomad1221 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      In some Muslim countries, the kids divorce as a fashion

    • @naija395
      @naija395 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Muslim women still sleep around even in the Middle East

  • @karl28560
    @karl28560 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Your enemy gets divorced from being your wife...
    But your hand is loyal for the rest of your life!

  • @juliealbright5191
    @juliealbright5191 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Don't get married. Two of my cousins married loser guys. and those loser guys got half of everything when they decided to leave. Houses had to be sold so the guy could get half , cars sold, so the guys could get half, and half of their pensions are going to these dead beats. I have zero desire to get married at this point. People just don't believe that marriage is supposed to be for a lifetime, like my parents did. The went til death do you part.

    • @christopherfritz3840
      @christopherfritz3840 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I commend you for adding a girls opinion. Maybe things will.. eventually.. evolve especially when more women (younger😒) begin to intervene on MGTOW principles. Nevertheless. It sucks. My brother-in-law CASHED OUT after years of torturing my sister through divorce (her second marriage 😵‍💫). The baby years were so wonderful.. and then💥💥🧟.

    • @user-ke5md1ho8h
      @user-ke5md1ho8h 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      If it's a guy he's a deadbeat, if it's a chick she's "surviving."

    • @juliealbright5191
      @juliealbright5191 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@christopherfritz3840 I think that people in 2024 think that "Hey if it doesn't work, or I don't like it, or I met someone else, I will leave." It's become too disposable and instead of living up to vows, people leave. Men fall for the younger women, and get taken too, ...I saw that first hand with my 5 times married neighbor. He finally married someone his age, and it worked. ...anyway, I have little desire to try to find someone, because Marriage to me is like my parents' marriage was, thy stayed together through bad times and good times...and I don't see that in society today. I'm not going to risk it.

    • @bashiruddinahmad408
      @bashiruddinahmad408 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      In what state this happened?

    • @juliealbright5191
      @juliealbright5191 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@bashiruddinahmad408 One in Maryland and the other in NY state.

  • @AnyluckProduction
    @AnyluckProduction 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    First