Madam Speaker, a woman who creates her own table and be served from it. Love how she knows her worth.. If we can raise more daughters like her, women would be really forces to be reckoned with.
I love how Madam speaker will help you remember your boundaries! Women sit in BOILING water while their husbands turn the stove up. And just say “sorry “. It’s such a breath of fresh air… and she’s the true definition of IT GETS BETTER ‼️ Let’s fix things, stick by your man etc but ladies; please don’t make the option of leaving that boiling pot too far fetched. Women also deserve to have a happy life.
She always does, in most of her videos she mentioned his good side. Just their main problem was the way he handled his money. But seemed to be good father to his kids
2 women I love ke sana🙌 I broke up with someone because of being financial careless, I remember we went to a vacation and I found out this guy took R50 000 loan for vacation I saw ukuthi this is my future and I don't want it.
I didn't know Madam speaker until this show . What a powerhouse , highly intelligent and incredibly articulate. I watched right till the end . You have gained a fan Madam ! Top tier content.
I used to listen to MS on Tik Tok and wondering who is this lady really?? listening to and understanding her story made me have a newfound love and appreciation for her. Such a good narrator and such a brave and intelligent woman. I wish her the very best in this new season♥️♥️♥️♥️
Yooh madam speaker, we have walked the same path of loosing babies, I lost my first at 6 months, and nothing makes sense to one during that time but God is always God, I only cried when the hearse came to fetch her for her last rest yooh....I beleive I grew to this strong woman I am today because of that loss, Gosh after the funeral I will find myself lost in the Ackermans baby section only when in there I will remember that I don't have a child anymore then, but yoday I am happy again I am a mother to a rainbow child❤🕯
I was once Madam Speaker's ex husband. Unfortunately, my husband is an introvert and can't express himself. On the other hand, I'm expressive and defensive.Things were not good for almost a year, he resented me.He was paying for everything except giving me extra money that I was misusing while I was employed as well. I'll forever be grateful to God for granting me the wisdom to realise that I was taking advantage of him before he asked for a divorce. He wouldn't talk about it, but I knew what the problem was. I woke up one day and shook stubbornness and stupidity off me, and took responsibility. We worked on our marriage which had no other problems but my impulsive spending. We now put our finances on the table. I really thought there was a lot where it all came from. Taking accountability really saves relationships. Since then, we know when we have more and when we are short. When we are broke, we're broke together.
I know that for my marriage to work, I had to let go of some parts of myself that I needed to survive my childhood. Because some parts of our character may have been necessary at some point in our lives, but are not necessary in other stages of our lives! Some ppl had to "survive" as children, but are still in survival mode as adults, instead of living fully! It takes a lot of maturity and probably therapy, to recognise that, acknowledge it, and be willing to let it go! ❤❤
Listening to Madam Speaker talk about holiding her deceased baby took me back to 2021 when I was in the very same position. The nurses telling you to spend time with the baby before they take her away and you begging God to take you instead. I pray to get to the part of healing where Madam Speaker is now, it truly is inspiring.
Madam speakers dad's advise is the best ever ...I appreciate this episode very intriguing to watch. I love seeing our generation making our ancestors proud...it's amazing that we able to go through life,the good and the bad as well as be able to express our emotions with no fear what's so ever.
I am so glad that I listened to her story because I feel like I never gave myself a chance to know her well through her work. Thank you so much Promise. 🥰
This episode really helped to heal yoh I lost my 12 month old girl I have trauma of neonatal ICU praying one day I will heal and speak about it like Madam thank you Promise
Very beautiful to watch, Madam Speaker indeed is a speaker because all I wanted to do was to listen to her speak.. ❤❤❤ Thank you MrsLaw for such a beautiful episode..
With physical death, you get emotional support, but divorce is the only death where you mourn alone. A huna vhalidzi. Ndi lufu lune na lila ni nothe ra dovha ra ni judge.
Tada afta tada😂😂😂😂 girl you inspire me so much,we have similarities of life stories i can relate thanks for sharing your story,i lost 7 months old beautiful baby girl but when i think about her i literally cry i can't accept the will of god but youade me strong by sharing your story
Thanks Madam speaker for sharing your story. I feel like you were married to my husband. I divorced him for pretty much the same reasons, I was exhausted.
Debt is a serious problem, it can break family. That is something that everyone must be careful about. I would prefer getting married out of community of property. What is yours is yours and what is mine is mine. Antinaptual contract is the way to go. If not, your assets will be attached because of your irresponsible partner.
Madam speaker is an amazing person, She is an engineer, fashion designer, motivational speaker, owns a TH-cam channel wee kuningi nje kuningi umama wabantwana ,sister, frnd, aunt haibo konke nje 😊❤
Promise, you are a gifted interviewer. I thoroughly enjoy how you are able to effortlessly connect with people and pull honest conversations from them. Please make these interviews 2 hours, I always want more 😂
In Setswana we call what Promise was describing “sea ntlo”… the practice of a man marrying his late wife’s younger sister .. my grandad did it with my grandmother 😊
Listening to your painful journey of loosing your child and going for therapy gives me hope that one day I will also be strong like you❤Thak you for motivating me to keep ON🙏
What I’m learning here is the importance of pre-marital counselling. Most divorcees say they were red flags but they ignored them. Almost zero of them admit that a man just made a 360 change in a marriage
@@tebogolesaba9520 I can’t emphasise it more it’s like having a navigator, constantly giving you directions each time you get to an intersection. Ofcoz it’s your responsibility to follow its directions. But imagine not having navigation at all, yoh! Disaster!!
Thanks Promise for this convo with Madam Speaker.I really doubt that that ex-hubby of hers is kind at all.Jackal in a sheep's skin.All the best for 2024 ladies❤
Yeah let’s not even go there Promise, madam speaker can see the tension/beef your having with Owamie. I’m glad she didn’t choose to go there.. she knows the vile things ex husband do.
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤I've never seen such a well spoken and strong woman yho!!! When you spoke about the accident ya ngwana i was emotional but your firmness was telling me to gather myself together and listen and learn.. you are a force! You are heard and you know how to speak! LOVE AND LIGHT TO YOU ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤KEO RATA !
this was a really good sit down and i really enjoyed this session with @madams_speaker , i wish our black people can understand the importance of marrying out of community of property to avoid all the fights and drags that comes with Divorce. it is nice when they get married and when divorce hits people even fight for cups. and in the end Women always have to struggle with the Kids and its soo sad yazi.
Thank you so much for having me Promise. If felt good being a guest for a change ❤❤
You where a breath of fresh air.. thanks sisi
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Madam u r lovable
My mom passed away at 39 too 2005 but I was 14.thank you for sharing madam speaker❤love and light ❤
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Madam Speaker, a woman who creates her own table and be served from it. Love how she knows her worth.. If we can raise more daughters like her, women would be really forces to be reckoned with.
I learned a lot from ths interview ❤ur a very strong woman madam speaker 😊
Promise I really like these interviews you allow your guests to tell their stories without interrupting ❤
I love how Madam speaker will help you remember your boundaries!
Women sit in BOILING water while their husbands turn the stove up. And just say “sorry “.
It’s such a breath of fresh air… and she’s the true definition of IT GETS BETTER ‼️ Let’s fix things, stick by your man etc but ladies; please don’t make the option of leaving that boiling pot too far fetched. Women also deserve to have a happy life.
Well said Elizabeth
"Turn the stove up" has me floored 😭😭😭😭😭 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂💯💯💯💯
She is so interesting I could listen to her all day
I love how 2 of my favorite woman can come together and talk. We will have disagreements but we'll come together in the name of love❤️Maturity ❤️
❤😂😂😂zzt???😂? X
I wish you and owami can one day sit and talk.like this just share your experiences
True this pettyness amongst us women must stop let's fix each others crown.love these two ladies so mature no drama.AND classes shame
Can you referee?
Madam speaker is effortlessly funny🤣Love how she calm she is about her situation 💗💗💗💗💗💗
I love how you speak highly of your ex husband regardless of everything you want through 😊
It's my first time hearing her talking positive about her ex husband. ❤ She said he s Handsome with good heart.
She always does, in most of her videos she mentioned his good side. Just their main problem was the way he handled his money. But seemed to be good father to his kids
Madam speaker's voice is rich and commands respect. I can listen to her the whole day. So glad you don't pretend. You are beautiful dark chocolate.
The way promise carried this interview… Chef kiss 👌🏿👌🏿
Financial Abuse is real guys! Most of us are in such marriages sadly😢😢 Big ups that you escaped the trap. The good heart neh....😢😢😢😢
2 women I love ke sana🙌 I broke up with someone because of being financial careless, I remember we went to a vacation and I found out this guy took R50 000 loan for vacation I saw ukuthi this is my future and I don't want it.
I know what you're talking about I was in that kind of situation but I decided that I'm living this guys because he doesn't want to grow up
I didn't know Madam speaker until this show . What a powerhouse , highly intelligent and incredibly articulate. I watched right till the end . You have gained a fan Madam ! Top tier content.
Oh my God, bless her, I'm literally bowling over regarding the baby, it's so painful. 😭😭😭
One thing about madam speaker she articulate very well❤
Finance is a deal breaker in a relationship 💯
Madam speaker is a very strong lady❤
I used to listen to MS on Tik Tok and wondering who is this lady really?? listening to and understanding her story made me have a newfound love and appreciation for her. Such a good narrator and such a brave and intelligent woman. I wish her the very best in this new season♥️♥️♥️♥️
Yooh madam speaker, we have walked the same path of loosing babies, I lost my first at 6 months, and nothing makes sense to one during that time but God is always God, I only cried when the hearse came to fetch her for her last rest yooh....I beleive I grew to this strong woman I am today because of that loss, Gosh after the funeral I will find myself lost in the Ackermans baby section only when in there I will remember that I don't have a child anymore then, but yoday I am happy again I am a mother to a rainbow child❤🕯
AMEN!!! Halleluujah! He is the King of Glory!!!
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I have so much respect for madam speaker, great interview as always❤
The bread and butter must be Eskom mmmmh. Beautiful conversation. Love from 🇸🇿
😅I thought the same thing.
What I love about madam speaker is that she is truly a speaker ❤
Her voice is commanding, you are fierce madam 🫶🏽
I was once Madam Speaker's ex husband. Unfortunately, my husband is an introvert and can't express himself. On the other hand, I'm expressive and defensive.Things were not good for almost a year, he resented me.He was paying for everything except giving me extra money that I was misusing while I was employed as well.
I'll forever be grateful to God for granting me the wisdom to realise that I was taking advantage of him before he asked for a divorce. He wouldn't talk about it, but I knew what the problem was. I woke up one day and shook stubbornness and stupidity off me, and took responsibility. We worked on our marriage which had no other problems but my impulsive spending. We now put our finances on the table. I really thought there was a lot where it all came from. Taking accountability really saves relationships. Since then, we know when we have more and when we are short. When we are broke, we're broke together.
I know that for my marriage to work, I had to let go of some parts of myself that I needed to survive my childhood. Because some parts of our character may have been necessary at some point in our lives, but are not necessary in other stages of our lives! Some ppl had to "survive" as children, but are still in survival mode as adults, instead of living fully! It takes a lot of maturity and probably therapy, to recognise that, acknowledge it, and be willing to let it go! ❤❤
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Listening to Madam Speaker talk about holiding her deceased baby took me back to 2021 when I was in the very same position. The nurses telling you to spend time with the baby before they take her away and you begging God to take you instead. I pray to get to the part of healing where Madam Speaker is now, it truly is inspiring.
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Madam speaker, keep on speaking and empower woman
You intelligent, brave and courageous
*Life happens to the living* powerful words. I really enjoyed this interview.
Madam speakers dad's advise is the best ever ...I appreciate this episode very intriguing to watch. I love seeing our generation making our ancestors proud...it's amazing that we able to go through life,the good and the bad as well as be able to express our emotions with no fear what's so ever.
Two intelligent women having a healthy conversation ❤
Oh Madam speaker it's first time hearing your baby story,so heartbreaking,it's true God revives you such a great woman,God bless you more sisi
😂 lol and she once mentioned that her ex is handsome
I am so glad that I listened to her story because I feel like I never gave myself a chance to know her well through her work. Thank you so much Promise. 🥰
same same❤
You go girl, it is very true what you said about that Man you are my colleague🤝❤❤
Love you both.. Strong beautiful women! I'm sorry for the loss of your baby Madam speaker❤
This episode really helped to heal yoh I lost my 12 month old girl I have trauma of neonatal ICU praying one day I will heal and speak about it like Madam thank you Promise
Me too ...I hate hospitals my newborn died in Nicu after 28days as well😢
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enjoyed this episode.... oooh how i love Madam Speaker, they way she conduct herself👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽
"Sometimes the things that you wanna work on, are things thats gonna kill you"
Thanks to madam speaker for opening my eyes. I'm in the process of leaving my toxic marriage, I was in denial all along
I know it might not be easy. I hope God gives you the strength and protects you ❤
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Very beautiful to watch, Madam Speaker indeed is a speaker because all I wanted to do was to listen to her speak.. ❤❤❤ Thank you MrsLaw for such a beautiful episode..
I loved loved loved this conversation…. Am obsessed ❤️
With physical death, you get emotional support, but divorce is the only death where you mourn alone. A huna vhalidzi.
Ndi lufu lune na lila ni nothe ra dovha ra ni judge.
My two favorite ladies in one video,I love you madam speaker you are such a strong woman and that's my type woman.
Tada afta tada😂😂😂😂 girl you inspire me so much,we have similarities of life stories i can relate thanks for sharing your story,i lost 7 months old beautiful baby girl but when i think about her i literally cry i can't accept the will of god but youade me strong by sharing your story
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Thoroughly enjoyed the interview, my only complaint is that it was too short, wished it was longer, she has so much to say. I love Madam Speaker
Promise i like how you handled this interview...very good
Addressing issues in a relationship is a must,most people hold on to nothing hoping things will mericulously change.
Thanks Madam speaker for sharing your story. I feel like you were married to my husband. I divorced him for pretty much the same reasons, I was exhausted.
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Debt is a serious problem, it can break family. That is something that everyone must be careful about. I would prefer getting married out of community of property. What is yours is yours and what is mine is mine. Antinaptual contract is the way to go. If not, your assets will be attached because of your irresponsible partner.
Sent studio is super amazing
Madam Speaker you are strong, i was gon tell my baby's story crying
Love you madam speaker , you are so brave . You didn’t wanna please people or Ps by staying in dysfunctional merriage.
Madam speaker is an amazing person, She is an engineer, fashion designer, motivational speaker, owns a TH-cam channel wee kuningi nje kuningi umama wabantwana ,sister, frnd, aunt haibo konke nje 😊❤
Thank you so much madam spreaker for sharing your story. I am touched in so many ways.
Jooog I learned a lot from this...this woman is intelligent
Madam Speaker is very funny😂😂😂.. I just love her ❤
Yoh madam speaker you such a strong soul, i dont think i will get back to life after i lost my first child❤, more strength to you sis
My favorite episode. You are doing very well and growing Mrs Law. Keep it to your own lane always❤️❤️Love and light Madam Speaker
Beautiful soul. Beautiful mind. Well spoken.
Shuuuuuuu I think I love Madam speaker even more now❤❤❤❤❤And also you Sesi Promise you captured my heart
Madam speaker thank you so much my dear for sharing you are a strong woman I love you ❤❤I wish you all the best ladies
I really enjoyed the interview big up ladies
Limpopo weeh.. basadi ba go godiswa botse.. I am loving this promise.. Re tlo mo shapa ex husband deacon
The studio is so beautiful❤❤...a great interview.
Loved this, madamspeaker has a new fan❤.
This was done so well Promise🎉
The interview is Very Informative and Honest. It's a Great Eye Opener. The interview ers sitting positions are too disruptive to my concentration.
Promise, you are a gifted interviewer. I thoroughly enjoy how you are able to effortlessly connect with people and pull honest conversations from them.
Please make these interviews 2 hours, I always want more 😂
seconded.❤
I'm with you ❤️
She didn’t pull anything from her, madam came ready.. she’s dishing out
Madam speaker😢may God perform wonders with your life❤
Thank you for sharing your experience, love you so much ❤❤❤
Great conversation ladies! People who want to get married should listen to real life experiences. It's a survival kit homestly!
Yeah right I agree on that
In Setswana we call what Promise was describing “sea ntlo”… the practice of a man marrying his late wife’s younger sister .. my grandad did it with my grandmother 😊
Listening to your painful journey of loosing your child and going for therapy gives me hope that one day I will also be strong like you❤Thak you for motivating me to keep ON🙏
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Very nice to get to know madam speaker more ❤❤
The power in her voice yerrrrrrrrrrr
Preacher mode
My two fave❤.Beautiful interview Promise.well done mami.
Love n light to you Madam Speaker,May your baby's beautiful soul rest in eternal peace 🕯
For me the way she looks she seems like a tall lady
Thats not love,u cant pay School fees butu claim to love the kids
I really enjoyed this episode …very eye opening for those planning on getting married ❤️
Oh madam speaker you are so liberated.. i respect you so much.. i appreciate you sharing your story 🥺❤
What I’m learning here is the importance of pre-marital counselling. Most divorcees say they were red flags but they ignored them. Almost zero of them admit that a man just made a 360 change in a marriage
Pre-counselling is very critical
Financial, Spiritual and Legal councellong
@@tebogolesaba9520 I can’t emphasise it more it’s like having a navigator, constantly giving you directions each time you get to an intersection. Ofcoz it’s your responsibility to follow its directions. But imagine not having navigation at all, yoh! Disaster!!
Beautiful show indeed. I enjoyed listening to Madam Speaker. I really love her so much. Cheers 🍻 to you, Promis. ❤
I went through the same with my baby daddy, up until this day he is humble and good hearted. But the character made me leave.
Life changing episode I loved watching your podcast
Yah neh...may the good Lord carry you thru my sister
Thanks Promise for this convo with Madam Speaker.I really doubt that that ex-hubby of hers is kind at all.Jackal in a sheep's skin.All the best for 2024 ladies❤
"Go ya seantlo" when your partner marries your sister after one passes on
Seyantlo or hlatswadirope
Ah I never knew Percy has a big sis wow to think we are from the same village I love this interview actually
My love goes to you Madam speaker ❤ .Thank you so much Promise ❤
Madam speaker, you are a brilliant woman. You are elequent in expressing yourself. Thank you for helping the women out there.
The video quality is so crisp, really beautiful! Also loving the new studio. Enjoyed this conversation ladies❤️
Yeah let’s not even go there Promise, madam speaker can see the tension/beef your having with Owamie. I’m glad she didn’t choose to go there.. she knows the vile things ex husband do.
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤I've never seen such a well spoken and strong woman yho!!! When you spoke about the accident ya ngwana i was emotional but your firmness was telling me to gather myself together and listen and learn.. you are a force! You are heard and you know how to speak! LOVE AND LIGHT TO YOU ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤KEO RATA !
this was a really good sit down and i really enjoyed this session with @madams_speaker , i wish our black people can understand the importance of marrying out of community of property to avoid all the fights and drags that comes with Divorce. it is nice when they get married and when divorce hits people even fight for cups. and in the end Women always have to struggle with the Kids and its soo sad yazi.
Great, intelligent and insightful conversation ladies. Thank you.
lol I screamed watching seeing this. I love you both SM♥️
Loved every minute of this❤️
Perseverance you are so strong it seems you are having life easy. Smiling happy and positive. Everything will be OK. In God's own time.
Promise, in our pedi culture we call it Seantlo.
I love this woman ❤she is a good example of a diary of a black woman 😊
I cried when she was talking about the baby😢