TURN ON CAPTIONS FOR FULL ENGLISH SUBTITLES! A man who just wants a relationship with his son, but he is being denied by the mother. An emotional episode that will shift your perspective on why some say “Not All Men”. I’d appreciate if you’d subscribe, leave an encouraging comment and like this episode as we work towards 100k lives changed.
I love how he goes, "uboy"! So endearing!! May God grant both of you (you and your boy) access to each other, and healing! You deserve each other's love!!
Lungelo, thank you very much for doing this work. It speaks to my heart. Too many good men are denied access to their children coz of evil women and evil maternal families. Courts favour women. Women need therapy Women need to heal Women need to to the right thing It's not by accident that most criminals are raised by single mothers... many of these women bleed on their children.
@@Penuelism I couldn't help but think about you when I watched this. You are always in my heart and I am hoping that your story will have a positive ending. Sending you lots of hugs and best wishes. Your older sis from 🇭🇲🇭🇲🐨🐨🦘🦘.
This was so so emotional. My heart breaks for these two parents. I pray the Lord mends this family for the sake of this precious child, may this little boy be protected and shielded for any form of harm.
Oh Sizwe😭May you find strength in the Lord.. Don’t give up on yourself and your son.. One day he will grow up and watch all this videos, he will most def come back to you.. Sending you all the love and light my brother❤️
My baby daddy its been 11 years now without seeing his son, he doesn't do anything for him😢, this is rare but one day your son will know the truth, okumnandi family yakhabo mama have witness your truth.
Your boy will choose you one day as a parent ngoba uzokhula and decide for himself that he wants you to be in his life full time...uNkulunkulu uzokwenzela lokho just be still in prayer❤
Keep trusting God to fight for you... A boy child nje can never ever be split from his father even if it means he'll come of age azibuyele... Keep all the evidence of your fight for him... You're so wise kuzolunga
Abantu besifazane bangcolile kodwa I feel Sizwe's pain, Us we are crying for the father's who don't want to be part of their children's life. I respect Sizwe❤ shame he tried and when lt doesn't work you leave it because sana he's losing himself in this process. So glad he found a woman who makes sure she reminds him all of this it's not his fault and he's a good man
The courts can help... but how do you fix a toxic mother? He could win access but she'll still be angry and take it out on him and the child. Why can't she and her family do the right thing?
@@Penuelism vert true. The court can help but unfortunately he will still deal with the toxicity of the other parent and it's very daunting especially when they not willing to change. I wish him all the best 🙏
@Penuelism Get her arrested for not sticking to the parental agreement. Your relationship with your kids is important. It is unfortunate that the families fail to reprimand their daughters. There's nothing you can do about a bitter person, let them be sour on their own. A friend of mine got to celebrate Christmas with his daughter for the first time in 8 years, the daughter is 9. He made it clear that he is tired of being excluded from his daughter's life, that he will have her arrested if she doesn't stick to the agreement. The funny part about women is that they get to play happy families with their new boyfriends whilst denying biological fathers access.
@ The focus is the child and not the toxic mother, hopefully, they will have a custody agreement in place and someone to mediate drop-offs and other specifics so that there is less interaction between them.
This is the sad story that most black kids go through. Kodwa ke your respect Sizwe is on another level, the way you speak about ugogo nomama, ayyy uJehova engathi angangenelela.
This has to be one heart breaking video 😢kanti guys umuntu wesifazane uyakwazi ukuba mubi kanje 😮,sizwe bhuti Ncese mfe2 Ncese kakhulu May The Good Lord Continuously heal you and may he continuously give you strength to keep going aphinde akwenzele umusa to reunite you with your son you deserve that ,syabonga bhuti nobuhlakani nje onabo to prepare for your son engekho nawe manje but you preparing for his return one day honestly that has to be the wisest thing to do angazi kuningi nje okuhle engakusho But nje ngyathanda ukusho ukuthi syabonga ukubona ubaba osazisele ngokuba khona empilweni yomtwana wakhe ❤uthole bhuti
Some of us just wish our child could get a phone call that says happy birthday from their father and we never get it….and yet here is a man crying for his child 😢
It is sad that children are used to deprive their father contact. Words that the child spoke are not from him, this child was coached to say those. This is called alienation, the child's mother is denying this child an opportunity to be a child😢she is not supporting his identity and emotional development, it is sad😢
@@hlelatuluma1494 EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!! The notion that women are always favored in court needs to be reconsidered. The justice system is actually quite fair to fathers who are genuinely committed to being a part of their children’s lives, especially when the father is the one who takes the initiative to open the case. It's time to take action and show up for your child.
Sizwe ukwenzile konke my brother let it go now before this thing kills you..ubaby mama uzokudinga ngenye imini naye uboy usezomtshela amaqiniso ukuthi kunjenje mama nguwe owangihlukanisa nobaba..all the best my brother✌
This is exactly what my sister is doing to his ex-husband, yena even worse he raised the child until she was 1 year old after she behaves exactly as this women so it does happened. It is not even about him, she has her demons that she need to deal with some of us live this world without healing those wound and blame other people for them and they have nothing to do with them. The child always suffer in all this, my niece luckily she is full aware of the story so when she is grown she will choose. A child first love is mom so when they grown sometimes they try to please everyone but later in stage they will get it.
Men really need to man the f up. How do you allow someone who is bitter and angry to keep you away from your child. Fight for your child, go to court, involve the police, this is your flesh and blood. It's not easy yes, it's emotionally draining but don't just give up. And this whole thing of saying women are always favored in court needs to stop. The justice system is actually quite fair to fathers who are honestly willing to be a part of their kids life especially if it's the man who opens the case.
It's imperative to listen to both sides, sometimes women uses uses the kids to fight as its not easy to raise a child a lone maybe she needed him from day one and he was not there now he thinks cause he can maintain financially he should be granted access kanti it doesn't work like that ,after giving birth a woman goes through postnatal depression they need support from daddy he should humble himself and wait until the girl is ready
She must go for therapy and stop denying the child his father. Babydaddies are not trained therapists, just as babymamas aren't either. If you're not okay, maybe you shouldn't even be looking after a child during that period.
Most cases a woman will give birth and daddy disappear afterwards come back emva kweminyaka and a woman wont give u access coz u missed the crucial stage ilapho ozokhala khona coz usuke engasakudngi duze nengane,lapho uyokhalela izwe lonke@Penuelism
Our justice system has failed our brothers for so long, the leniency shown to women instead is just unfair. Ncese Sizwe, don’t stop fighting for custody of u child, that’s ur right by law
I agree with you 🎯🎯. Courts do not care about the kids at all. Every parent has a right to the child. But somehow a lot of women always think they have more right than the father. A father should NEVER have to fight for access. It should never be a fight, coz that's his child too.
I get sometimes that some women became resentful especially when they get pregnant young usually men go on with their lives and they might feel left out. They became so angry and want to make your life miserable ending up using the child. Very sad
Sizwe you are genuinely a great individual you will get your son one day even if God turns him to turn against his mom ngokukuncisha ithuba lokukhulisa ingane yakho. Your 1st baby mama is a vile human being inkinga uyena not you...keep praying and trust God ukuthi uzokunqobela
My brother is in the same situation. He’s maintaining the child financially kodwa no access to the child,the last time he saw the baby was on the day she was born. Been 3 years now but ke….
What I know is that men like Sizwe tend to suffer from amnesia once they start wanting to be in their child's life and they pick and choose what they forget. Oh, and njengoba ekhala kanje, he wholeheartedly believes in his version of events and genuinely doesn't think there was a point him and his family did anything wrong towards that woman. I would have been more inclined to believe him had he taken some accountability and acknowledged his part in how things turned out but all he did was just blame that poor woman. Sometimes all it takes to fix this is admitting your wrongs and acknowledging the hurt you caused while you were young and stupid. You didn't have a father to teach you how to be a man and were bound to make these mistakes. Uyibhimbi Sizwe shem. He can talk but doesn't know how to use his words.
You mum is right!!!! We all grew up and got to see the truth. It becomes even more real when you start having your own challenges in adulthood. If it's a character thing, it will extend to you. For instance, if either parent is manipulative, they will manipulate the kids even when they are adults. It's easy to manipulate a child, than it is an adult. When adult kids see the truth, they start to extend grace to the parent who was vilified and misrepresented. Then things start to unravel at that point. It is always unfortunate when the truth comes out and the other parent has departed this world. In that instance, children then go through secondary trauma bcos they do not have an opportunity to have conversations to get clarity and closure. I used to work in a forensic psychiatric institution. I dealt with so many people with such stories. It was heartbreaking. Till today, those stories still play in my mind like a 3D movie. If only parents could see the destruction that they cause. They sow trans-generational trauma everyday. Because those broken individuals go on to have children. The trauma cycle repeats over and over! 😢😢😢
@MommaBear52 it's sad reality.I have 3 kids and things I'm experiencing with my baby daddies(financially)akukho mnandi shame but never in one day did I ever denied them the excess to see their kids.just last week 1 of the baby daddy cut of my daughter just cause I asked for transport money,he said he want out,and there are dads like abo Sizwe dying to be with their kids.
@@slenderk21 That is very sad. Your mum's words still stand hun. There is always a way. Your babies will grow up and see for themselves. May God continue to bless you financially sis. 💖💖💖💖
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Hallo Lungelo I appreciate your hard work your channel helps a lot of us in the public. Please my brother reach out to Chris Network’s channel he’s there with you in SA help him with subtitles please he has a helpful channel as well but we cannot hear as most of the testimonies are not translated to English please my brother help us help your brother 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Shuuu. Very sad, depressing real life story.... Mara no maarn u girl (baby momma) needs to be digged deeper. Ingathi she's been brain washed by those cult churches or current husband . Ayikho lena. How can she just take a u turn and be so cruel. Ngathi we need to pray for her stru bob!!
she is still mad that the other guy left her, the one she wanted and she doesn't like Sizwe and never thought he'd amount to anything so une-anger that he flourished despite her efforts to bring him down. she's insane
Oh maan🥹🥹🥹 Sizwe is always laughing yhooooooo!! life is full of nonsense sometimes hey I didn't think that there are man who are crying for their kids while my baby Daddy is running away from his kids 🤔 yeah nhe sorry Sizwe hopefully one day you will find peace thanks for sharing your story 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹
My mother did the same with me to my father 😢 that's I don't hate my father coz he wanted to be part of my life but my own mother denied him "I never met my father mhsrip"😢
So wish we could get the other side of the story, seems like the motive was to portray the mother as the monster and a psycho, on the other side the guy is painting himself as the angel😏
Sorry bhuti about your baby drama issues, but sometimes some absent father's always says woman are toxic cause we want child maintenance and being there for their kids while they move on and marry or have girlfriend , they want to tells us how to live our lives about who to date and next you know you ask for kids maintain once in three months you are told I have needs at home that come first buy yet I have kids that are old than him partner by 10yrs by far if any man who does that stop it please be present to your kids regardless of what the other woman is then we will have less absent father's and stop wanting to control baby mama
The problem is most decisions are from a selfish place.If we all (fathers and mothers) put the child first and think about the long-term psychological impact of our actions, we would never engage in petty issues! Now, a lot of relationships do not end amicably, so kids are often used to hurt each other. Fathers are financially, emotionally and physically absent to hurt mothers, mothers deny access to hurt fathers etc. But in all this, kids are getting hurt. It's sad. Very sad. And it has been happening for decades.😢😢😢
This woman must have had secret animosity with Sizwe or maybe she didn’t really love him or maybe she got angry that his music career became successful, because why the hell are you keeping the man’s child away from him. It’s just weird! and why did she lie that the child was not his????? Sizwe was honest and stated his mistakes, but he still wanted to take care of his child. So what’s her issue??? Women need to stop playing with the emotions of good men. So sad!
Joo Sizwe your story hurts buti, can the step dad atleast try talk to the mother on your behalf, Some of us will pay our baby daddies to be present in their kids'life
TURN ON CAPTIONS FOR FULL ENGLISH SUBTITLES!
A man who just wants a relationship with his son, but he is being denied by the mother. An emotional episode that will shift your perspective on why some say “Not All Men”.
I’d appreciate if you’d subscribe, leave an encouraging comment and like this episode as we work towards 100k lives changed.
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“How’s your heart” what a profound question. Even I had to pause and think about it and realised I haven’t actually been quiet and listened to me.
I love how he goes, "uboy"! So endearing!! May God grant both of you (you and your boy) access to each other, and healing! You deserve each other's love!!
Amen
I swear you would never think that things like this happen. Sizwe is always laughing but his going through so much.
Lungelo, thank you very much for doing this work. It speaks to my heart. Too many good men are denied access to their children coz of evil women and evil maternal families. Courts favour women.
Women need therapy
Women need to heal
Women need to to the right thing
It's not by accident that most criminals are raised by single mothers... many of these women bleed on their children.
@@Penuelism I couldn't help but think about you when I watched this. You are always in my heart and I am hoping that your story will have a positive ending. Sending you lots of hugs and best wishes. Your older sis from 🇭🇲🇭🇲🐨🐨🦘🦘.
@MommaBear52 thank you so much ❤️
@Penuelism You must bring the tribe to Gold Coast some day. Auntie will host all of them nephews and nieces😉😉😂😂😂.
@@Penuelism Ai man labafazi bakhohlakele man no excuse to denying your baby daddy access to his child.
@MommaBear52 whoop whoop 🔥
The untold story of present fathers who are denied the presence to their kids💔😔ewu
Mabaye ecourt and fight for their place in the child's life and not cry on podcasts.
No such thing as a present father who doesn't live with his child. You can't be a father outside the house where your child lives
@@hlelatuluma1494 did you hear the part he’s saying they’ve been to court?
Tell me about it😢
@ He must keep on fighting in court till he gets shared custody with her. Good luck to him
Sizwe's final comment was so wise and powerful. ❤💯
What a well spoken, compassionate gent bakithi.💔akaxole phela manje usisi acabangele ingane,ay. Well done on another great episode, Lungelo.
This was so so emotional. My heart breaks for these two parents. I pray the Lord mends this family for the sake of this precious child, may this little boy be protected and shielded for any form of harm.
Oh Sizwe😭May you find strength in the Lord.. Don’t give up on yourself and your son.. One day he will grow up and watch all this videos, he will most def come back to you.. Sending you all the love and light my brother❤️
My baby daddy its been 11 years now without seeing his son, he doesn't do anything for him😢, this is rare but one day your son will know the truth, okumnandi family yakhabo mama have witness your truth.
Your boy will choose you one day as a parent ngoba uzokhula and decide for himself that he wants you to be in his life full time...uNkulunkulu uzokwenzela lokho just be still in prayer❤
Sizwe's story broke my heart 💔🥺 Parent Alienation Isn't Spoken About Enough.
💯💯💯🎯🎯🎯
Size, I'm proud of you bro. I pray that your son comes back to you with no anger. I'm Soo emtional
This is so emotional, man must come up and tell their truth. Beautiful vlog
They need to. They really need to
Keep trusting God to fight for you... A boy child nje can never ever be split from his father even if it means he'll come of age azibuyele... Keep all the evidence of your fight for him... You're so wise kuzolunga
Ngoba I Ladies house iyalenza iqiniso… so touched by your story….
Abantu besifazane bangcolile kodwa I feel Sizwe's pain, Us we are crying for the father's who don't want to be part of their children's life. I respect Sizwe❤ shame he tried and when lt doesn't work you leave it because sana he's losing himself in this process.
So glad he found a woman who makes sure she reminds him all of this it's not his fault and he's a good man
Women are powerful kwi system moes🙁. What a bad time to be a man in South Africa.
Even if he denied the child, let him step up and be a father to his child. My brother please go to family court and fight for your parental rights
The courts can help... but how do you fix a toxic mother?
He could win access but she'll still be angry and take it out on him and the child.
Why can't she and her family do the right thing?
@@Penuelism vert true. The court can help but unfortunately he will still deal with the toxicity of the other parent and it's very daunting especially when they not willing to change.
I wish him all the best 🙏
@Penuelism Get her arrested for not sticking to the parental agreement. Your relationship with your kids is important. It is unfortunate that the families fail to reprimand their daughters. There's nothing you can do about a bitter person, let them be sour on their own. A friend of mine got to celebrate Christmas with his daughter for the first time in 8 years, the daughter is 9. He made it clear that he is tired of being excluded from his daughter's life, that he will have her arrested if she doesn't stick to the agreement. The funny part about women is that they get to play happy families with their new boyfriends whilst denying biological fathers access.
@ The focus is the child and not the toxic mother, hopefully, they will have a custody agreement in place and someone to mediate drop-offs and other specifics so that there is less interaction between them.
i dont have a child but i can feel Sizwe pain , but all i'm gonna say is when me for through the most the world doesnt care
Boy will grow up and come to you and apologize , he will see the truth.💯be strong for him and your new born🤍
Yoooo Kwaze kwabuhlungu,yazi obaba abangenandaba nezingane bayafuqwa ngazo,laba abafuna ukuba sempilweni yezingane zabo abavunyelwa😢😢😢😢
Yoh ibuhlungu lento lentombazane eyenzayo ku SIZWE, nami ngavele ngakhala!😭😭
Ay 😭😭😭😭
The government has to make paternity dna testing mandatory at birth, its the only sure way to protect fatherhood.
Most definitely. Especially for women who want child grants.
This is the sad story that most black kids go through. Kodwa ke your respect Sizwe is on another level, the way you speak about ugogo nomama, ayyy uJehova engathi angangenelela.
So much pain 😢😢i hope you heal Sizwe kuzalunga qhina bhuti ❤❤❤
Phola my brother, God will answer for you. Your song will touch areas you can't even imagine...keep the focus and move on one step at a time.
😢 May you find strength in the Lord my brother
I would like to hear the other side of the story 😢
@@judyphala5235 You are me, I believe in both sides of the story Sana.
Same here.
@@judyphala5235 me too and i feel like akukhona ukuthuswa ukuba famous kwa sizwe
Maybe Sizwe was not emotionally available during pregnant
This is what men often preach and get dismissed. Both sides of the story must always be heard. No matter who is crying
Izokhula Sizwe ingane,izizele yona kuwena. And izowabona wonke lama videos.
This has to be one heart breaking video 😢kanti guys umuntu wesifazane uyakwazi ukuba mubi kanje 😮,sizwe bhuti Ncese mfe2 Ncese kakhulu May The Good Lord Continuously heal you and may he continuously give you strength to keep going aphinde akwenzele umusa to reunite you with your son you deserve that ,syabonga bhuti nobuhlakani nje onabo to prepare for your son engekho nawe manje but you preparing for his return one day honestly that has to be the wisest thing to do angazi kuningi nje okuhle engakusho But nje ngyathanda ukusho ukuthi syabonga ukubona ubaba osazisele ngokuba khona empilweni yomtwana wakhe ❤uthole bhuti
Some of us just wish our child could get a phone call that says happy birthday from their father and we never get it….and yet here is a man crying for his child 😢
Imagine! Yah ne...heartbreaking.
You can say that again yoh ... this is so heartbreaking
some women are so mean and Cruel💔
It is sad that children are used to deprive their father contact. Words that the child spoke are not from him, this child was coached to say those. This is called alienation, the child's mother is denying this child an opportunity to be a child😢she is not supporting his identity and emotional development, it is sad😢
Mabaye ecourt and fight for their place in the child's life and not cry on podcasts
@@hlelatuluma1494 EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!! The notion that women are always favored in court needs to be reconsidered. The justice system is actually quite fair to fathers who are genuinely committed to being a part of their children’s lives, especially when the father is the one who takes the initiative to open the case. It's time to take action and show up for your child.
Sizwe ukwenzile konke my brother let it go now before this thing kills you..ubaby mama uzokudinga ngenye imini naye uboy usezomtshela amaqiniso ukuthi kunjenje mama nguwe owangihlukanisa nobaba..all the best my brother✌
This is exactly what my sister is doing to his ex-husband, yena even worse he raised the child until she was 1 year old after she behaves exactly as this women so it does happened. It is not even about him, she has her demons that she need to deal with some of us live this world without healing those wound and blame other people for them and they have nothing to do with them. The child always suffer in all this, my niece luckily she is full aware of the story so when she is grown she will choose. A child first love is mom so when they grown sometimes they try to please everyone but later in stage they will get it.
Wishing uBhut' Sizwe strength during this difficult season🫂🫂🫂
Men really need to man the f up. How do you allow someone who is bitter and angry to keep you away from your child. Fight for your child, go to court, involve the police, this is your flesh and blood. It's not easy yes, it's emotionally draining but don't just give up. And this whole thing of saying women are always favored in court needs to stop. The justice system is actually quite fair to fathers who are honestly willing to be a part of their kids life especially if it's the man who opens the case.
I hope one day the boy sees this.
Iyoh Sizwe bhuti 😢this is too deep, too painful 😢may God one day change this situation cz every kids deserve love from both parents 🙏🫂
Yoh bandla😢😢
Hope in due time father and son will be reunited ❤❤
We Sizwe wayeyigosa kanti maka Nqoba😂😂
Lungelo you are doing so well my guy,keep it up❤
Oh poor Sizwe😢
Inyembezi zakho ngeke ziwele phantsi Mfowethu 😮❤
Ungasalwi manje, Give it to God for He will fight for you. Ezakho izinyembezi zizokulwela aziweli phansi😢😢😢
It's imperative to listen to both sides, sometimes women uses uses the kids to fight as its not easy to raise a child a lone maybe she needed him from day one and he was not there now he thinks cause he can maintain financially he should be granted access kanti it doesn't work like that ,after giving birth a woman goes through postnatal depression they need support from daddy he should humble himself and wait until the girl is ready
She must go for therapy and stop denying the child his father.
Babydaddies are not trained therapists, just as babymamas aren't either.
If you're not okay, maybe you shouldn't even be looking after a child during that period.
Most cases a woman will give birth and daddy disappear afterwards come back emva kweminyaka and a woman wont give u access coz u missed the crucial stage ilapho ozokhala khona coz usuke engasakudngi duze nengane,lapho uyokhalela izwe lonke@Penuelism
Bengiztshela ukuthi ubafo udlalela lenye team yazi. Sengyazi kuthi ushaya isinqa. Learnt something new.
Our justice system has failed our brothers for so long, the leniency shown to women instead is just unfair. Ncese Sizwe, don’t stop fighting for custody of u child, that’s ur right by law
I agree with you 🎯🎯. Courts do not care about the kids at all. Every parent has a right to the child. But somehow a lot of women always think they have more right than the father. A father should NEVER have to fight for access. It should never be a fight, coz that's his child too.
This episode really broke me😢😢
😢May the Lord heal you and help you
Iztori ezikanje zingenza very emotional 😢
Women....... Abafazi....... Fear us. Masesizibopha izinhliziyo. We become the devil himself🤞
@@thabi_a I have been saying this ! Its very sad that from nurtures we became the pain givers for free !
He tried shame🥹💔 kids grow up & they get to learn the truth, your son will come looking for you 🤞🏽 but eyyy DNA baba
Yazi DNA
I get sometimes that some women became resentful especially when they get pregnant young usually men go on with their lives and they might feel left out. They became so angry and want to make your life miserable ending up using the child. Very sad
Sizwe you are genuinely a great individual you will get your son one day even if God turns him to turn against his mom ngokukuncisha ithuba lokukhulisa ingane yakho. Your 1st baby mama is a vile human being inkinga uyena not you...keep praying and trust God ukuthi uzokunqobela
My brother is in the same situation. He’s maintaining the child financially kodwa no access to the child,the last time he saw the baby was on the day she was born. Been 3 years now but ke….
Ask your brother to the child for DNA test
@@matimbabaloyi2585 DNA was done an the child it’s his
This boy will grow up 😢 bhudi your son will come back to your life.
Sorry lm in tears 😢😢😢😢😢
Haaaai abanye abantu besifazane bakhohlakele 😢😢😢😢
Yoooooh sorry Sizwe God will heal your wounds😢
Im so sorry bhuti 😢
May God be with you❤
This women is so cruel yerrr😢 but don’t worry Sizwe ngelinye ilange uBoy uyobiza uMa wakhe nge slwane
What I know is that men like Sizwe tend to suffer from amnesia once they start wanting to be in their child's life and they pick and choose what they forget. Oh, and njengoba ekhala kanje, he wholeheartedly believes in his version of events and genuinely doesn't think there was a point him and his family did anything wrong towards that woman. I would have been more inclined to believe him had he taken some accountability and acknowledged his part in how things turned out but all he did was just blame that poor woman. Sometimes all it takes to fix this is admitting your wrongs and acknowledging the hurt you caused while you were young and stupid. You didn't have a father to teach you how to be a man and were bound to make these mistakes. Uyibhimbi Sizwe shem. He can talk but doesn't know how to use his words.
What a sad story eish. I hope kuzolunga one day.
As my mom would say "ingae iyakhula.izobona"
You mum is right!!!! We all grew up and got to see the truth. It becomes even more real when you start having your own challenges in adulthood. If it's a character thing, it will extend to you. For instance, if either parent is manipulative, they will manipulate the kids even when they are adults. It's easy to manipulate a child, than it is an adult. When adult kids see the truth, they start to extend grace to the parent who was vilified and misrepresented. Then things start to unravel at that point. It is always unfortunate when the truth comes out and the other parent has departed this world. In that instance, children then go through secondary trauma bcos they do not have an opportunity to have conversations to get clarity and closure. I used to work in a forensic psychiatric institution. I dealt with so many people with such stories. It was heartbreaking. Till today, those stories still play in my mind like a 3D movie. If only parents could see the destruction that they cause. They sow trans-generational trauma everyday. Because those broken individuals go on to have children. The trauma cycle repeats over and over! 😢😢😢
@MommaBear52 it's sad reality.I have 3 kids and things I'm experiencing with my baby daddies(financially)akukho mnandi shame but never in one day did I ever denied them the excess to see their kids.just last week 1 of the baby daddy cut of my daughter just cause I asked for transport money,he said he want out,and there are dads like abo Sizwe dying to be with their kids.
@@slenderk21 That is very sad. Your mum's words still stand hun. There is always a way. Your babies will grow up and see for themselves. May God continue to bless you financially sis. 💖💖💖💖
@MommaBear52 thank you 🙏
Lapho ezethu zifunga oyise, akafuni nokumbona...😢😢😢
Askies Swize i know the pain qina kuzondlula impilo injalo sonke siphila nameva angasukiyo
Yhoo this is painful Sizwe😢😢
Yoooooooo this is sad 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔
Eish, this is so painful 😢😢😢😢
I hope the new man is watching ukuthi hiw this evil lady moves, next it is his turn.i am so sorry bafo one day things will work out for you.blessings.
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Maka Boy forgive him we know naye uzenzile give him the child hleee . izinyembezi zendoda azikho right yoo
Izokhula Sizwe ingane izizele yona kuwena. Nalama videos izowabona.
Iyoh ey sorry sizwe man eyie😮😢
This is so painful 😢
Trust me leyangane izozibuyela ingane masifuna ubaba wayo ayibambeki and izolaz iqiniso
What a sad situation.
The baby mom said you are not the father, she took her kid away... He says the courts favor women..... I need her side of the story.
Hallo Lungelo I appreciate your hard work your channel helps a lot of us in the public. Please my brother reach out to Chris Network’s channel he’s there with you in SA help him with subtitles please he has a helpful channel as well but we cannot hear as most of the testimonies are not translated to English please my brother help us help your brother 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Kunzima my brother but be strong
Anyone who can assist Sizwe bathong
What an episode
❤️🩹🫂
This too shall pass.
Kodwa ithuleleni indoda yaloSisi ingamtsheli enze into eRyt💔awuu
Shuuu. Very sad, depressing real life story.... Mara no maarn u girl (baby momma) needs to be digged deeper. Ingathi she's been brain washed by those cult churches or current husband . Ayikho lena. How can she just take a u turn and be so cruel. Ngathi we need to pray for her stru bob!!
she is still mad that the other guy left her, the one she wanted and she doesn't like Sizwe and never thought he'd amount to anything so une-anger that he flourished despite her efforts to bring him down. she's insane
Waze wanonya ucc😢
Oh maan🥹🥹🥹 Sizwe is always laughing yhooooooo!! life is full of nonsense sometimes hey I didn't think that there are man who are crying for their kids while my baby Daddy is running away from his kids 🤔 yeah nhe sorry Sizwe hopefully one day you will find peace thanks for sharing your story 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹
My mother did the same with me to my father 😢 that's I don't hate my father coz he wanted to be part of my life but my own mother denied him "I never met my father mhsrip"😢
Sorry 😢
Yoh 💔💔💔
So wish we could get the other side of the story, seems like the motive was to portray the mother as the monster and a psycho, on the other side the guy is painting himself as the angel😏
Sorry bhuti about your baby drama issues, but sometimes some absent father's always says woman are toxic cause we want child maintenance and being there for their kids while they move on and marry or have girlfriend , they want to tells us how to live our lives about who to date and next you know you ask for kids maintain once in three months you are told I have needs at home that come first buy yet I have kids that are old than him partner by 10yrs by far if any man who does that stop it please be present to your kids regardless of what the other woman is then we will have less absent father's and stop wanting to control baby mama
The problem is most decisions are from a selfish place.If we all (fathers and mothers) put the child first and think about the long-term psychological impact of our actions, we would never engage in petty issues! Now, a lot of relationships do not end amicably, so kids are often used to hurt each other. Fathers are financially, emotionally and physically absent to hurt mothers, mothers deny access to hurt fathers etc. But in all this, kids are getting hurt. It's sad. Very sad. And it has been happening for decades.😢😢😢
Shem the court failed you shem
Qina Skhotheni!
Into engiwaridi ngayo iyodwa, uSizwe unesho engakanani ukuthi ngeke ahlukane nalomama wengane entsha cos usangaphinde agileke futhi
This woman must have had secret animosity with Sizwe or maybe she didn’t really love him or maybe she got angry that his music career became successful, because why the hell are you keeping the man’s child away from him. It’s just weird! and why did she lie that the child was not his????? Sizwe was honest and stated his mistakes, but he still wanted to take care of his child. So what’s her issue??? Women need to stop playing with the emotions of good men. So sad!
The girl doesn't look like a mentally n emotionally stable person.
How can u be harsh kumuntu ofelwe.Ayiii! Sorry Sizwe mfethu
From tik tok to TH-cam Ur story it the same same same 🫂
Joo Sizwe your story hurts buti, can the step dad atleast try talk to the mother on your behalf, Some of us will pay our baby daddies to be present in their kids'life
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Yijaz lelo