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Great success story and refreshing to hear! I sat with a smile on my face when he found his self esteem and masculinity, wishing her well and that he deserves better - That's half the battle when moving on from being monkey branched and so many of us at stuck pining after a woman capable of doing something like that.
Amen to that. It’s always amazing to see a man pick himself up and come out stronger than ever! It’s important to learn from the experiences of others to boost your own morale and give you hope that things will be okay in the long run
Great story and a great comeback! Been in this guys situation and it really sucks, fellas stay away from these women and dont overlook any red flags. Great video yet again Christian!
Man this is an amazing video and story. Thank you for doing this. This sounds so much like what I've had to work thru since last summer. Granted my ex wasn't full of implants or going out in public dressed like a stripper, but she still monkey branched and killed me slowly for months as she was disconnecting from me. It was torture. Thus helps me feel less alone and stupid for having ignored the red flags because I was blinded by love. Two weeks after blocking me her social media was public with the new guy and they were even sharing experiences together publicly with their children from their past marriages. To hell with them both. I'm hungry in life and my career again and the deep pain is making me stronger and I've learned more about relationships and trauma / psychology / attachment and grown more than I ever have before. Thanks again man
Wooooow... yea the "Break" section of this video is exactly what happened to me. My ex told me he wanted a break to work on himself for a couple of months. And by work on himself, turns out he meant work on the coworker he'd met the month prior and began dating one week after our conversation lol
I have no respect for cheaters , and I only wished her well, like I would wish any random stranger on the streets, where she belongs. SOMEONE GET THE ALOE VERA!!
Great video my story , almost to the T there so many red flags right from the first Date that iwas conscious of but ignored and I paid from that in the end.never again
I was so late to watch this video. I got the same story last year. My ex monkey branched on me and told me the other guy is just a suitor and not her bf. Months later, her officemates (who I got closed to) confirmed that he is her bf when she was pursuing me and just sabotage her relationship with him to start a new one with me. 7 months later, same thing happens. She also sabotage the relationship to the point that I need to break up with her and then just 1 week later, she's with a new guy that she also monkey branched on. When I tried to confront her she just gaslighted me then play the victim in her social circles. I'm in the process of rebuilding myself . This story is so inspiring, we can decently recover.
My name is Romulo and this whole attitude was because I was totally unaware of the pills and I got carried away by my emotions. I dated a girl for 7 years and we were getting married. My ex asked for "some time" in May to think about "something" and said she was anxious. I told her after all this time and everything I'd done to her, she didn't deserve this break and I broke up. She's 22 now and she's been dating me since she was 15 (I was her first boyfriend) and I'm 26, I started dating her when I was 19 or 20. an idea, she was a virgin before she met me and I didn't have sex with her for 2 years at the beginning of our relationship because she didn't want to lose her virginity back then. Then, after 2 years of dating, it happened. Now back to the end. The first week she asked me if I was okay. Then I went to talk to her best friend, who is also my friend. We've been dating since we were kids and our circle of friends is pretty much the same. This friend confessed to me that a week before she asked for this break, they talked and my ex told her that she was having feelings for a guy from her work and that she went to talk to the guy during work that she liked him and that everything it started when they started having lunch together and the company people kept teasing her that they were having an affair, but she was taking it seriously and didn't want to "stop it". But I remembered that she once deleted the conversation with this guy on her cell phone, but I didn't mean that because he's too ugly and old, old enough to be her father, so I didn't mean it, I was a little jealous of a crazy handsome guy for his job. But well, something else was also the story of the IPHONE. She showed up with a used iphone 8 and said she had bought it from this guy, but I asked for the pix she bought and to this day she hasn't shown me the receipt. and there was even a day that we had a fight because i went to pick her up from work and she was with him closing the store and as she was getting in the car he took a long look at her ass and i went to charge her for this shit i started having afraid of losing, I walked into the fucking women's center, then a few weeks went by and she got cold feet and asked this time. It was her first job, she was in her second year of work, job where I went for the interview and helped her send her resume. Well, as we have always been very religious, especially her family. We were looking for a house to get married NOW. My financial situation has improved a lot in the last year, I tripled my salary after graduating. She graduated too, but earns 3x less than me. Well, 1 month later I saw her with this guy on the street together. Dude, seriously, I was outraged, I let my emotions speak louder, because in addition to my prejudice (because of my male ego) with the guy's age, he is 47 years old and she is 22 years old. They are almost 30 years apart in age. The guy is ugly as fuck and earns less than me. I realized that perhaps this generated an emotion in her that I was no longer generating. Man, I lost patience and it got really messed up. I called her on wpp and told her that "I didn't feed the feeling" "that I didn't go out with her" "that I relaxed, that my energy was bad, that I was down". After a few weeks her parents found out about everything and all hell started in her life too, her father went to her work and spoke to her boss and wanted to accuse him of harassment but he didn't "harass" her, she went to talk to him before she liked him. The father almost hurt the guy, which made him come out as a “saint” and made her even more in love, only her father talked to the boss and the boss himself said that this guy is a bit of a womanizer. But for a very religious family, it was a shock that the daughter exchanged a child “raised in the backyard” with a huge affective bond with everyone (her mother is my MOM) for an old, poor and ugly man who has a daughter. But that's it, the parents talking to the guy see that he's also in love with her, he doesn't seem to be all milk and Ghost. But even so, his parents don't like him, because according to them everything started wrong, because of a desire at work, a betrayal during a relationship that was "solid". Well, 7 months have passed, parents call me to see if I'm okay, friends send me things and pictures of her with him and the things they post, I've fought with God and the world not to send them and I've seen them leaving a very expensive hotel. They sent me pictures of the two of them drinking on the beach. Anyway. Some crap that only hinders my development and makes me more disgusted. As everything is still recent, these things still bother me. But after I found out her lie about the "time" and the guy, I went under, brother. I got really fucked up, I went out to drive drunk, I had sex with several women without a condom, I even had a threesome (which I had never done before) and I just fucked up, I hit a biker and he almost died. It could have been an eternal trauma for me if that had happened. It was a tense moment for me, I was deep in debt, I owed a lot of money... Brother, today she is having a "relationship" with this guy without exposing it to the public because all her friends and family are against it. Her parents have already warned that she doesn't want to meet this guy and she still hasn't posted any pictures with him. How I know? Close friends talk, but I stopped following her on everything. But everyone knows she's been seeing this guy. Brother, it's been hard but I'm graduating for the last 2 months, I have some women in the comb. But it's hard to forget her and my male ego just wanted revenge and to see her get screwed. But from what I can see, she is very happy, I was told that she has changed her language, is speaking differently, has changed in a short time, less shy (she was so shy and very introverted). She changed from water to wine and fuck her parents and friends annoy me with this news. Today I have a good job, a car. But I can't stop thinking about her, the shit she threw away, and mostly because my ego has been replaced by such a crazy person. So it's just a man's ego! There isn't a day that I don't dream and think about this shit, even when I date other women like me. and today she goes to church with the guy and plays the saint as if nothing had happened and what she did was "normal".
Lust was the downfall of this man. He was much too old for her, and he slept with her right away! I’m old fashioned. I do not believe women should pursue men. It’s highly predatory. I think that should have been the initial red flag 🚩Her attention stroked his ego and he fell to lust. Two hours of seduction? He played a very dangerous game going to her home alone. As a man in his 30s I find it hard to believe he’s innocent in the matter. A Godly man, or even one who has noble intentions with a woman, does NOT spend time alone in private with a woman he’s interested in unless he’s looking to fall to lust. This man may be introverted, but in how he describes himself he comes across as prideful. Pride comes before the fall. I’m not judging. We all make these painful mistakes in one way or another. It’s how we learn and help advise others. Men, a woman who reaches out to you and pursues YOU has intentions and underlying motives. A man who is open to this behavior knows he’s opening the door to the devil and likes to play with fire whether he cares to admit it or not. We all know what happens when you play with fire. I’m happy this turned out to be a positive learning experience in the end.
We all have back up careers, back up transportantion, back up jobs, back up baby sitters, back up dinner plans, back up computer storage, its seems to me its only in relationships that "having a back up relationship and emotional support" is considered wrong, i think the idea of "owning" your partner is "crazy", i think everybody should monkey branch and this ethical b*ll crap would be pointless!!!!
Yeah it’s not so much about owning the other person or a backup plan. It’s about two loving people respecting eachother and ending things when they don’t work out rather than emotionally cheat and forming a relationship with someone else when still commited to your SO. It’s a coward move because the one monkey branching shifts energy of the emotional loss of the breakup to the new relationship while the other person is suffering alone. It also shatters their ego and self worth because the person monkey branching is essentially just immediately leaving for someone “better” while you’re dealing with the grief. It’s an easy way out and it’s disgusting. People who monkey branch are too scared and weak to deal with the pain of processing the loss of the people they love and respect. They’d rather sweep them like dust and forget about their existence due to an infatuation with their new partner. It’s the ultimate disrespect and spit in the face you can do to someone why you are committed to and love. Huge L take
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Great success story and refreshing to hear! I sat with a smile on my face when he found his self esteem and masculinity, wishing her well and that he deserves better - That's half the battle when moving on from being monkey branched and so many of us at stuck pining after a woman capable of doing something like that.
Amen to that. It’s always amazing to see a man pick himself up and come out stronger than ever!
It’s important to learn from the experiences of others to boost your own morale and give you hope that things will be okay in the long run
Great story and a great comeback!
Been in this guys situation and it really sucks, fellas stay away from these women and dont overlook any red flags.
Great video yet again Christian!
Appreciate your support Sherav!
Literally my story now I’m on your channel
Man this is an amazing video and story. Thank you for doing this. This sounds so much like what I've had to work thru since last summer. Granted my ex wasn't full of implants or going out in public dressed like a stripper, but she still monkey branched and killed me slowly for months as she was disconnecting from me. It was torture. Thus helps me feel less alone and stupid for having ignored the red flags because I was blinded by love. Two weeks after blocking me her social media was public with the new guy and they were even sharing experiences together publicly with their children from their past marriages. To hell with them both. I'm hungry in life and my career again and the deep pain is making me stronger and I've learned more about relationships and trauma / psychology / attachment and grown more than I ever have before. Thanks again man
You’re more than welcome Mike! Stay strong.
You get blind sided and they are flaunting a new guy...scummy thing to do.
Wooooow... yea the "Break" section of this video is exactly what happened to me. My ex told me he wanted a break to work on himself for a couple of months. And by work on himself, turns out he meant work on the coworker he'd met the month prior and began dating one week after our conversation lol
I love you man your awesome you really opening my eyes to things
I have no respect for cheaters , and I only wished her well, like I would wish any random stranger on the streets, where she belongs. SOMEONE GET THE ALOE VERA!!
Love your content 🙌🏻 SO on point.
I appreciate that!
Great video my story , almost to the T there so many red flags right from the first Date that iwas conscious of but ignored and I paid from that in the end.never again
5 min in and I love the story. My story has tons of nuances like this one. Yikes
Abrazos Christian! 👊🏾
Typing it up now
Tengo muchas ganas de escuchar tu experiencia. Te responderé en cuanto pueda!
Un saludo Benito!
My last chapter in my life💡
I was so late to watch this video. I got the same story last year. My ex monkey branched on me and told me the other guy is just a suitor and not her bf. Months later, her officemates (who I got closed to) confirmed that he is her bf when she was pursuing me and just sabotage her relationship with him to start a new one with me. 7 months later, same thing happens. She also sabotage the relationship to the point that I need to break up with her and then just 1 week later, she's with a new guy that she also monkey branched on. When I tried to confront her she just gaslighted me then play the victim in her social circles.
I'm in the process of rebuilding myself . This story is so inspiring, we can decently recover.
dont shy away from shooting me an email. If you believe your story can help other men and women, send it my way.
She blamed me for the break up dumping me
My name is Romulo and this whole attitude was because I was totally unaware of the pills and I got carried away by my emotions.
I dated a girl for 7 years and we were getting married. My ex asked for "some time" in May to think about "something" and said she was anxious. I told her after all this time and everything I'd done to her, she didn't deserve this break and I broke up.
She's 22 now and she's been dating me since she was 15 (I was her first boyfriend) and I'm 26, I started dating her when I was 19 or 20. an idea, she was a virgin before she met me and I didn't have sex with her for 2 years at the beginning of our relationship because she didn't want to lose her virginity back then. Then, after 2 years of dating, it happened. Now back to the end.
The first week she asked me if I was okay. Then I went to talk to her best friend, who is also my friend. We've been dating since we were kids and our circle of friends is pretty much the same. This friend confessed to me that a week before she asked for this break, they talked and my ex told her that she was having feelings for a guy from her work and that she went to talk to the guy during work that she liked him and that everything it started when they started having lunch together and the company people kept teasing her that they were having an affair, but she was taking it seriously and didn't want to "stop it". But I remembered that she once deleted the conversation with this guy on her cell phone, but I didn't mean that because he's too ugly and old, old enough to be her father, so I didn't mean it, I was a little jealous of a crazy handsome guy for his job. But well, something else was also the story of the IPHONE. She showed up with a used iphone 8 and said she had bought it from this guy, but I asked for the pix she bought and to this day she hasn't shown me the receipt. and there was even a day that we had a fight because i went to pick her up from work and she was with him closing the store and as she was getting in the car he took a long look at her ass and i went to charge her for this shit i started having afraid of losing, I walked into the fucking women's center, then a few weeks went by and she got cold feet and asked this time. It was her first job, she was in her second year of work, job where I went for the interview and helped her send her resume. Well, as we have always been very religious, especially her family. We were looking for a house to get married NOW. My financial situation has improved a lot in the last year, I tripled my salary after graduating. She graduated too, but earns 3x less than me.
Well, 1 month later I saw her with this guy on the street together. Dude, seriously, I was outraged, I let my emotions speak louder, because in addition to my prejudice (because of my male ego) with the guy's age, he is 47 years old and she is 22 years old. They are almost 30 years apart in age. The guy is ugly as fuck and earns less than me. I realized that perhaps this generated an emotion in her that I was no longer generating.
Man, I lost patience and it got really messed up. I called her on wpp and told her that "I didn't feed the feeling" "that I didn't go out with her" "that I relaxed, that my energy was bad, that I was down". After a few weeks her parents found out about everything and all hell started in her life too, her father went to her work and spoke to her boss and wanted to accuse him of harassment but he didn't "harass" her, she went to talk to him before she liked him. The father almost hurt the guy, which made him come out as a “saint” and made her even more in love, only her father talked to the boss and the boss himself said that this guy is a bit of a womanizer. But for a very religious family, it was a shock that the daughter exchanged a child “raised in the backyard” with a huge affective bond with everyone (her mother is my MOM) for an old, poor and ugly man who has a daughter. But that's it, the parents talking to the guy see that he's also in love with her, he doesn't seem to be all milk and Ghost. But even so, his parents don't like him, because according to them everything started wrong, because of a desire at work, a betrayal during a relationship that was "solid".
Well, 7 months have passed, parents call me to see if I'm okay, friends send me things and pictures of her with him and the things they post, I've fought with God and the world not to send them and I've seen them leaving a very expensive hotel. They sent me pictures of the two of them drinking on the beach. Anyway. Some crap that only hinders my development and makes me more disgusted. As everything is still recent, these things still bother me.
But after I found out her lie about the "time" and the guy, I went under, brother.
I got really fucked up, I went out to drive drunk, I had sex with several women without a condom, I even had a threesome (which I had never done before) and I just fucked up, I hit a biker and he almost died. It could have been an eternal trauma for me if that had happened. It was a tense moment for me, I was deep in debt, I owed a lot of money...
Brother, today she is having a "relationship" with this guy without exposing it to the public because all her friends and family are against it. Her parents have already warned that she doesn't want to meet this guy and she still hasn't posted any pictures with him. How I know? Close friends talk, but I stopped following her on everything. But everyone knows she's been seeing this guy. Brother, it's been hard but I'm graduating for the last 2 months, I have some women in the comb. But it's hard to forget her and my male ego just wanted revenge and to see her get screwed. But from what I can see, she is very happy, I was told that she has changed her language, is speaking differently, has changed in a short time, less shy (she was so shy and very introverted). She changed from water to wine and fuck her parents and friends annoy me with this news.
Today I have a good job, a car. But I can't stop thinking about her, the shit she threw away, and mostly because my ego has been replaced by such a crazy person. So it's just a man's ego!
There isn't a day that I don't dream and think about this shit, even when I date other women like me.
and today she goes to church with the guy and plays the saint as if nothing had happened and what she did was "normal".
Book a call with me and I’ll see if I can help you with your situation. It sounds like you have a knowledge gap regarding relationships.
Lust was the downfall of this man. He was much too old for her, and he slept with her right away! I’m old fashioned. I do not believe women should pursue men. It’s highly predatory. I think that should have been the initial red flag 🚩Her attention stroked his ego and he fell to lust. Two hours of seduction? He played a very dangerous game going to her home alone. As a man in his 30s I find it hard to believe he’s innocent in the matter. A Godly man, or even one who has noble intentions with a woman, does NOT spend time alone in private with a woman he’s interested in unless he’s looking to fall to lust. This man may be introverted, but in how he describes himself he comes across as prideful. Pride comes before the fall. I’m not judging. We all make these painful mistakes in one way or another. It’s how we learn and help advise others. Men, a woman who reaches out to you and pursues YOU has intentions and underlying motives. A man who is open to this behavior knows he’s opening the door to the devil and likes to play with fire whether he cares to admit it or not. We all know what happens when you play with fire. I’m happy this turned out to be a positive learning experience in the end.
We all have back up careers, back up transportantion, back up jobs, back up baby sitters, back up dinner plans, back up computer storage, its seems to me its only in relationships that "having a back up relationship and emotional support" is considered wrong, i think the idea of "owning" your partner is "crazy", i think everybody should monkey branch and this ethical b*ll crap would be pointless!!!!
Yeah it’s not so much about owning the other person or a backup plan. It’s about two loving people respecting eachother and ending things when they don’t work out rather than emotionally cheat and forming a relationship with someone else when still commited to your SO.
It’s a coward move because the one monkey branching shifts energy of the emotional loss of the breakup to the new relationship while the other person is suffering alone. It also shatters their ego and self worth because the person monkey branching is essentially just immediately leaving for someone “better” while you’re dealing with the grief. It’s an easy way out and it’s disgusting.
People who monkey branch are too scared and weak to deal with the pain of processing the loss of the people they love and respect. They’d rather sweep them like dust and forget about their existence due to an infatuation with their new partner.
It’s the ultimate disrespect and spit in the face you can do to someone why you are committed to and love.
Huge L take
Amen