When an introvert only knows one person at a party

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  • @FrankJames
    @FrankJames  2 ปีที่แล้ว +418

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    • @RoshneeMusic
      @RoshneeMusic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

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    • @Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes
      @Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

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      @mysterygirl30011 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @ShortHax
    @ShortHax 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3332

    Step 1: Don't go

  • @madamecurious
    @madamecurious 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3167

    It’s a miracle that us introverts have not become extinct a long time ago …. Lol 😆

    • @kaydee1721
      @kaydee1721 2 ปีที่แล้ว +177

      The fact that this is true is proof that introversion is not a genetic trait 🤣

    • @arcaniaxs2408
      @arcaniaxs2408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +115

      As long as extroverts exist, they can create more introverts

    • @firespawnie537
      @firespawnie537 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Aren't you way more than extroverts?

    • @ryu7408
      @ryu7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Introverts are powerful in my opinion. I don't wonder we're still around.

    • @Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes
      @Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@firespawnie537 Introverts are more balanced than extroverts.
      Extroverts : extroverts outside, introverts inside.
      Introverts : extrovers inside, introverts outside.

  • @1Bobobo
    @1Bobobo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1188

    When I'm at a party the only thing I bond with is the trees outside or the dog/cat

    • @DiogoChris
      @DiogoChris 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Or myself 😅

    • @ravens_corner5334
      @ravens_corner5334 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      When I’m at a party I sit in the corner and stare at a wall

    • @Peonies925
      @Peonies925 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      I too have found comfort at a party…. befriending the beloved pet.

    • @chrissymarie323
      @chrissymarie323 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Yes! The only thing that can possibly save me is an animal!!!

    • @idktbh001
      @idktbh001 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      When I'm at a party I go in the car and watch anime the whole time

  • @ellenh278
    @ellenh278 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1485

    Been that extrovert. This is real. Solution: find another super introvert ."Sally meet Paula. Paula REALLY likes knitting too! Isn't that fascinating? AND she likes art history. You guys have so much in common. Excuse me I need to go grab a drink. Tickle in my throat." as you fade away into the crowd. Watch from afar to make sure your introverts are actually talking and not watching you. Bam. Win win.

    • @bodine219
      @bodine219 2 ปีที่แล้ว +275

      Actually this is a kind solution. For whatever reason, introverts tend to click with each other.

    • @Neo-Tokyo_
      @Neo-Tokyo_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      @@bodine219 so true 😂 we just understand one another

    • @DiogoChris
      @DiogoChris 2 ปีที่แล้ว +175

      @@Neo-Tokyo_ Not all the time... I've been in a situation where it got so awkward after the polite nice-to-meet-you, that I just wanted to leave, but I ju couldn't because I didn't want to hurt her feelings by making it feel as though she's not good enough to hang out with 😩
      Trust me, nothing pleasant about this

    • @-randomuser-4897
      @-randomuser-4897 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Yeah, but having a kind of extraverted person can greatly help :']

    • @HenriZwols
      @HenriZwols 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      You are kinder than I am. I can't stand clingy people. I get really blunt: "I'm going to talk to someone else now", and not even wait for a response.

  • @kensears5099
    @kensears5099 2 ปีที่แล้ว +616

    An experienced introvert NEVER just stands there talking to nobody. That is a surefire pity-magnet, guaranteed to attract mother-hen-type extroverts with a compulsive need to compel everybody into cookie-cutter, lockstep hilarity. The clever introvert keeps moving, always looking like he's on the way from one sparkling conversation to another. It's the party equivalent of looking busy at work, walking seriously down the hall with a sheaf of papers and a frown: "Sorry, can't stop. I'm on a mission...." Oh yes, extroverts have their way of "working the room." The introvert's dirty little secret is: he does, too.

    • @kensears5099
      @kensears5099 2 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      Indeed, superficially you might find it difficult to distinguish the extroverts and introverts from each other, as they both flit around the room like social butterflies. It takes closer observation to note which ones are gladhanding and chatting up everybody they can and which ones aren't stopping to talk to anybody at all.

    • @shuyen8429
      @shuyen8429 2 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      words of wisdom. I’ll keep this in mind. -inexperienced, young introvert

    • @greatwavefan397
      @greatwavefan397 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Don't forget that awkward nod and stupid smile after asking a rando what's up and walking away.

    • @AK-jt7kh
      @AK-jt7kh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      I think that advice works best for you guy introverts. Chances are good that if you’re a woman your movements are being tracked. Lol. The best I can do is to not make eye contact with anyone and hover around the snacks or alcohol, sometimes talking to the bartender because someone paid them to stand there and pretend I’m interesting so they’re trapped, and forced to be superficially kind about it.

    • @kensears5099
      @kensears5099 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@AK-jt7kh Ah yes, I see. That's enlightening. My sympathies!

  • @helenwood8482
    @helenwood8482 2 ปีที่แล้ว +367

    This is why introverts should never go to parties. Your "friend" will always abandon you.

  • @CrazyErzy
    @CrazyErzy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1313

    I only go to social gatherings because of my ESTP husband... and the food. Plus, he always says "we can leave whenever you want" and I kinda believe him everytime 😭 even when I know we'll spend hours there and I won't feel free to leave because I don't want to spoil his fun... LOL. But, to be fair with him, If I tell him I wanna leave, we leave, it's just that when I see him happy, I just can't.
    -INFP.

    • @bodine219
      @bodine219 2 ปีที่แล้ว +160

      aww that's so cute. He means it because he loves you and you don't ask because you love him. -another INFP

    • @faithb8343
      @faithb8343 2 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      100% agree. INFP here. As long as we know we can be out in a moment’s notice we’re good. It’s good to have a partner who is willing to ghost w/you.

    • @faithdarst9015
      @faithdarst9015 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      awww goalsss - another INFP

    • @ficialintelligence1869
      @ficialintelligence1869 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      You married an ESTP? And it actually _works?_ Maybe there's hope out there for me (INFP) to meet an ISTP.

    • @siaanand2189
      @siaanand2189 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      whats your type?

  • @affinity266
    @affinity266 2 ปีที่แล้ว +474

    We need "If Brian was honest with his friend" version. 😂

  • @laurafigueroa3821
    @laurafigueroa3821 2 ปีที่แล้ว +190

    omg that part of "you can barely talk to me even though you know me" i felt that

    • @greatwavefan397
      @greatwavefan397 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It's relieving when you do get to know someone you can actually talk to. Especially if you both enjoy it.
      Edit: I said "especially" twice.

  • @annabaldwin1563
    @annabaldwin1563 2 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    That's why it's better for us introverts to bring another introvert to the party just for safety lol

    • @eatyourcereal4747
      @eatyourcereal4747 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      If im going down im not gonna drag someone else with me

    • @rachelk4805
      @rachelk4805 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      No, better off with two extroverts. You can go from one to the other, and both will introduce you to other people you might otherwise not talk to. I don't mean to sound condescending, but I find the introverts in my life only need a little hand holding in the beginning, before they find a way to meaningfully engage in something interesting to them.

  • @marieindia8116
    @marieindia8116 2 ปีที่แล้ว +654

    "you really need to work on your social skills"
    Jerkiest introvert ever! So dependent and manipulative!

  • @tikent-snulfwoer
    @tikent-snulfwoer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +286

    "But you NEED to come with me!"
    Lol I have that problem too.

    • @rachelk4805
      @rachelk4805 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I am an ENFP and my response, almost always, is ok. Oh, you need to go run boring errands? Ok. I am not actively doing something else, so might as well go with the flow.
      I wouldn't tone down the flirting though... You wanna come, keep pace.

    • @sadafsayyada2058
      @sadafsayyada2058 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ya i too relate 😂

  • @micaelag487
    @micaelag487 2 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    Poor Brian. He just wants love. 🥺

  • @khunagueroagnis2558
    @khunagueroagnis2558 2 ปีที่แล้ว +520

    So true, but an even truer introvert would never go to a party in the first place

    • @sansnitizer
      @sansnitizer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I guess more like at school gatherings for example.

    • @1jediwitch
      @1jediwitch 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yep.

    • @StaceyAudreyStaMaria
      @StaceyAudreyStaMaria 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      or would even get invited to a party

    • @armypedia7
      @armypedia7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      May be its his or her own birthday party ...lol..

    • @mafumafuisakitty3498
      @mafumafuisakitty3498 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yeah parties and people are nightmares 💔👁👄👁

  • @panlis6243
    @panlis6243 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    "I gotta go to the bathroom"
    "No, don't leave me. You're the only one keeping me alive"

  • @lonedragon7061
    @lonedragon7061 2 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    An introvert at a party is like a yeti.
    A legend says, someone once saw it.

    • @VinnesRC
      @VinnesRC 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Legend says, the school made it mandatory.
      Now that is something I would hate to actually happen in the real world.
      Oh wait, that's exactly what they did!

    • @ApplePi._.
      @ApplePi._. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@VinnesRC visible anger

    • @greatwavefan397
      @greatwavefan397 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@VinnesRC
      School: You know what? Now it's mandatory. Yup! Mandatory for having fun at karaoke night. You don't come, and you're suspended, SO DEAL WITH IT!

  • @wish9495
    @wish9495 2 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    If I knew that only one person I knew was going to be at a party I wouldn’t even attend 😂

    • @grassfedmilkmomma
      @grassfedmilkmomma 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same!

    • @bigowen6789
      @bigowen6789 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I would just go there for the food

    • @bigowen6789
      @bigowen6789 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      if nobody was there that is

    • @bodine219
      @bodine219 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I might if they really wanted to go and were nervous. Introvert mom mode is real -- sudden social powers.

  • @ceilinh6004
    @ceilinh6004 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Weird.
    I'm an introvert, but for some reason, in this situation, most of my sympathy is for Brian.
    Poor Brian.

  • @joanarc3369
    @joanarc3369 2 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    Intj here. A friend that im not quite close to invited me to his party with other people who i rarely talk to. I invited my infp and enfp friend to go with me, but enfp couldnt go. So on that day of the party, infp and i got ready to go. As we passed by his house, we saw that the party is outside (we were hoping the party was inside cause we wanted AC), so we left somewhere and decided to come back until the sun goes down. Hours later, we never bothered to go to the party cause we both dont know the people very well and we just simply didnt feel like going 😆

  • @Ace_Maus
    @Ace_Maus 2 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Always: Try to confirm beforehand whether the house you're going to has entertainment for introverts (videogames that are not FIFA, books/magazines, pets, etc.) or is introvert-friendly (I know the places where I can go and take over a desk to draw or something and no one will bother me).
    You can also opt to drown your nerves with finger foods; there has to be some, otherwise it's not a good party at all.

  • @SamirCCat
    @SamirCCat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    My life became SO MUCH BETTER when I stopped pushing myself to be "normal" and stopped going to parties or gatherings with unknown people. My life with social anxiety AND introversion is a lot better now!

    • @marlo2919
      @marlo2919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Same. I stopped forcing myself and I don't miss crappy party's that have a ton of people I don't know.

    • @louisejoel
      @louisejoel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I don't mind costume parties, must be an INTP thing

    • @nomadicgamer9466
      @nomadicgamer9466 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That sounds like torture. I'm so glad you stopped doing that.

    • @SamirCCat
      @SamirCCat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@nomadicgamer9466 Me too!! Now people say I'm too isolated, but I rather have only 2 friends that I see once a month and a few close family members, than really ever meeting people I don't know. I have a lot of other mental illness too, so I cannot relate at all to "normal" people. I have my little bubble of people where I'm happy. It doesn't drain me and is WORTH putting my limited energy on it. I got NOTHING out of parties or meeting unknown people, so I don't do that any more. So freeing to listen to yourself and not what society tells you!

    • @SamirCCat
      @SamirCCat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@louisejoel Maybe because you can hide behind the costume? You may not feel as vulnerable then?

  • @nurainiarsad7395
    @nurainiarsad7395 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    This is why I actually prefer more old fashioned dinner parties or events in cultures where there is an expectation that the host/person who invites has duties. In that context it’s on the host to host a successful party and that includes knowing everyone who was invited at least enough to introduce people to each other so that they’d have a good conversation, recognising the awkwardness of intruding into the space of someone you have not been introduced to. It’s not the guest’s fault if they don’t have a good time, and people who are good at hosting become known as that. It’s a legit skill set. It’s also normal in this context, if you are invited and you bring someone else, to first introduce them to the host, and then the host would briefly learn something about them and decide where in the party to match them into, otherwise you as the person who brought them in the first place should take them around.

    • @danferrusquia2819
      @danferrusquia2819 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is that not how contemporary American parties are supposed to work? At least, that’s how I would host one. I thought that was just basic social etiquette

    • @vanessamelanson4111
      @vanessamelanson4111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I used to know someone who was absolutely wonderful at this! He would host parties for Japanese visitors to mingle with canadian locals, and would match you with people, do introductions, and start the conversation off for you. He was so good at it, and it helped IMMENSELY!

  • @rainstreet78
    @rainstreet78 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Hands down my worst nightmare is walking into a party by myself and seeing no one I know. It's pretty much a "fight-or-flight" moment and "flight" usually wins.

    • @mariotheundying
      @mariotheundying 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Usually? You mean sometimes fight wins and you start punching people for no reason?

    • @markwright3161
      @markwright3161 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm imagining how 'fight' would work in that situation, perhaps if approached when really not expecting it and with no escape route at all it would be an attempt to karate-chop the air molecules coming out of their mouth in an attempt to not hear their small talk :)

    • @melisaarteaga3110
      @melisaarteaga3110 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lmaooo, I'm an extrovert and sometimes I feel the same. Gotta "flight"! 🤣

  • @lauriemartin490
    @lauriemartin490 2 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    That is so me, but I would never stop my friend from talking to the girl. I would pretend to be fine, while slowly dying inside. And then, wishing I had the courage to talk to someone, I would take a stroll outside for "fresh air" hoping someone else would magically decide to do the same thing and take a walk with me. But they wouldn't because they would be busy talking to people. So I would just go home and determine to never go to a party again. But, honestly . . . this has never happened to me. I'm totally making it up.

    • @FG011
      @FG011 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Lol, this thought process itself is way more relatable for me than the video itself.

    • @ashley1872
      @ashley1872 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Are you me? Because what you just said has literally happened to me before so many times

  • @thatguyreiji1045
    @thatguyreiji1045 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Brian seemed more like the introvert in this setting😂😂

    • @kupa121
      @kupa121 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wait, I thought Brian *is* the introvert

    • @-randomuser-4897
      @-randomuser-4897 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kupa121 Nah, he's an extravert/ambivert. Or at least more extraverted then the guy ; i think de mixed them up because the guy speaks his mind (and also being toxic :/)

    • @kupa121
      @kupa121 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@-randomuser-4897 yeah, maybe you're right. I thought Brian is an introvert, who is trying to escape from the other guy.

  • @jhsil224
    @jhsil224 2 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    The most friend guy ever, he never gonna give Brian up

    • @missrobinhoodie
      @missrobinhoodie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      But tbh he could’ve given Brian a break and go to the bathroom for a while…

    • @sonoffrey777
      @sonoffrey777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And he never gonna let Brian down either

    • @greatwavefan397
      @greatwavefan397 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sonoffrey777 He's never gonna run around and desert Brian.
      Even when Brian wants to do that to him.

  • @danerysstormborn7719
    @danerysstormborn7719 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Feels so good that I get to watch these awkward introvert sketches. One place where I don't have to explain why my behavior is different, thank you Frank James

  • @esthergaby4913
    @esthergaby4913 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Frank you totally get me😂😂.......it's exactly how i feel in such situations and usually that friend wants to talk to other people and you just feel like you could literally glue yourself to them, not to feel left out

  • @sid9882
    @sid9882 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I've been so sad and depressed for quite a while now but your videos have helped me out a lot man. Thanks a lot for all the videos.

    • @Sree9805
      @Sree9805 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I hope you get over your sadness and depression soon.😊

    • @noemirodriguez9137
      @noemirodriguez9137 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey. I just prayed for you. I hope you're doing better now. But know that God is real and that He cares for you ❤️🙏

  • @MetalLP
    @MetalLP 2 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    My extroverted friend: walks up to a group of girls*
    Me: standing on the side lines, but yet decides to join*
    He: "Dude, why did you go with me? I could have handled that on my own."
    Me: "Wtf"

    • @danisob3633
      @danisob3633 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      how is that your friend

    • @Sam-es2gf
      @Sam-es2gf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Not your friend.

    • @rachelk4805
      @rachelk4805 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      "Handled that," what, the orgy that is happening only in his imagination? One on one, I could understand wanting a private conversation, but when there is a group of girls? Idk, it sounds like a c*ckblock to me.

    • @MetalLP
      @MetalLP 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@rachelk4805 well, he’s ENFP, so he’s doing particularly well in those situations. But don't take it all too seriously. He's not toxic, as you might think.

    • @martinusv7433
      @martinusv7433 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@rachelk4805 Those "private conversations" are super annoying 🙄 I never really get engaged in those myself, and I generally get quite irritated when I see others being busy with such conversations, lol 😓🤔

  • @markoman5267
    @markoman5267 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The only thing scarier than being in room with a bunch of total strangers,
    is being in a room with people I sort of know.

  • @grassfedmilkmomma
    @grassfedmilkmomma 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Im the person that jumps on a task, usually one that requires a lot of work and running around so i can just stay busy. It keeps the chitchat down to the essentials like: "whens the food done?"

  • @LeonaJPierce
    @LeonaJPierce 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It's a beautiful thing that you understand me so well lmao. "The monumental task of pretending like I give a sh**" tears in my eyes bro...

  • @spn_girl73
    @spn_girl73 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    When you get a "Ur My Type" advertisement before watching a Frank James video. What a Frank James thing to do.

  • @weshaan0.114
    @weshaan0.114 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I give you one better: why on earth would he go to a party

    • @cosmo4288
      @cosmo4288 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      he probably needed to feel more humane

  • @greatwavefan397
    @greatwavefan397 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    As an introvert, I actually regret not attending many events or hanging out much in my teen years. I just made assumptions and focused too much on my work so I wouldn't get in trouble, I was too comfortable doing my own thing, or I felt discouraged because of my parents' beliefs and lack of freedom.
    Please do yourself a favor and try experimenting with your inner extrovert. You may not like every event, but you may find something very special.
    And save every contact you enjoyed talking to so you can cultivate friendships online.

  • @Gintoki881
    @Gintoki881 2 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    Introvert: why are you friends with other people?! Now you’re spending time with them and not me!
    Friend: come with me so you’re also gonna be friends with them and we’re gonna spend time all together
    Introvert: No way!

    • @zeemonrollin8340
      @zeemonrollin8340 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Their all off in the midst of talking to their other friends. I'm not gonna hop in during their convo. The one or two people to the side might be there just eating or drinking not really thinking about chatting.

  • @StaceyAudreyStaMaria
    @StaceyAudreyStaMaria 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Oh wow. An introvert actually saying "you really need to work on your social skills" 😂😂

  • @soundocean3765
    @soundocean3765 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "When an introvert only knows one person at a party"...they just won't appear at all

  • @sadafsayyada2058
    @sadafsayyada2058 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Being an introvert I totally relate with this😂☠️

  • @BrokenSoulConfession
    @BrokenSoulConfession 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    If I'm in this scenario, as soon as Brian decides to walk away, I would vanish from the party altogether. Head home to read books and watch movies solo.

    • @marlo2919
      @marlo2919 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same. I have left a party because that did happen.

    • @charles2241
      @charles2241 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No, I think the ideal behavior, is since you KNOW what he's up to, he will consider he's left you in the lurch, and therefore won't be more than 5-10 minutes smoozing with the girl, and then get right back to you. I think most guys in that situation, would just spend maybe 3-5 minutes with you, tell you they're going to the restroom, just to give him a cover to leave you the rest of the night.

  • @brooklyndavis9449
    @brooklyndavis9449 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Unpopular opinion: People standing alone at parties are always the coolest/funniest people.

    • @Astralzsq
      @Astralzsq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      True

    • @greatwavefan397
      @greatwavefan397 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      One time, I attended a Christmas party from my mom's job and noticed that some of the introverts would hang out in the patio.
      I found two more people with whom I've had energizing conversations.

  • @charlienotwen1528
    @charlienotwen1528 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    As an extrovert, that's so accurate. I have this introvert friend and she is glued to me like I'm a lifebelt and she's about to drown. We don't have anything to say but I can't leave or include someone else in the conversation haha

  • @AK-jt7kh
    @AK-jt7kh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I went to a social gathering a few months ago. The memories still haunt me. Not that anything went wrong - I was absolutely normal….the memories still haunt me.

  • @maxlolbits2182
    @maxlolbits2182 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As an INTJ....this feels awkwardly true. Even when there are people I know at some party, they always go off to other groups or their group is already busy doing something, so I'm pretty much just left alone. The entire thing consists of me standing around at the food area grabbing random snacks, and just sitting there.

  • @bluesteel8376
    @bluesteel8376 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is why you go with a group of friends to a party.

  • @descai10
    @descai10 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    There are two types of introverts:
    Introvert type 1 - Not very interested in other people in general. Dislikes small talk and generally only wants to talk about interesting or deep things, especially things they are personally interested in.
    Introvert type 2 - Low social confidence. Might be interested in other people, but they are to nervous to interact with them. This type often becomes an extrovert once they get enough experience in social interaction.
    It's possible and actually common to be both at the same time, though.
    Essentially, an extrovert is someone who is interested in other people and is confident enough to actively seek out interactions.

    • @pooja350
      @pooja350 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm definitely the 2nd

  • @annaash2304
    @annaash2304 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Bold of you assume I would go to a party

  • @meltingpointcreations1457
    @meltingpointcreations1457 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Me, an ENFP, at a party with my introvert friend: I’m going over there to talk to people. And maybe I’m going to drag you with me, and maybe I’ll duck out of the conversation when you’re not looking, and we’ll probably duck out of the party randomly and go have ice cream somewhere quiet.

    • @rachelk4805
      @rachelk4805 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      100%

    • @EnabiSeira
      @EnabiSeira 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are a treasure

    • @meltingpointcreations1457
      @meltingpointcreations1457 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@EnabiSeira 😆 thank you for saying so. I figure it’s good to get out of our comfort zones, but not for too long. Most of my closest people are introverts, so I’m good to go out with. I like to sneak off and be done after awhile, but I’m fun too.

    • @EnabiSeira
      @EnabiSeira 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@meltingpointcreations1457 yes, it is good from time to time to get out of our comfort zones, especially with a trusting hand as yours that know when to call the day. I have an ENFP friend that makes taxing experiences even enjoyable, followed by a calm and restorative moment

  • @MrsRubby94
    @MrsRubby94 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That feeling of a huge backpack falling off your shoulders as soon as you leave the party and breathe some fresh air 😌😌🙏

    • @ApplePi._.
      @ApplePi._. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      that backpack is the guy who is more introverted than you and latched on with a medical excuse

    • @MrsRubby94
      @MrsRubby94 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That backpack is my own low battery after being alone between extroverts dude 🤦‍♀️

  • @fortune_roses
    @fortune_roses 2 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    INTJ ● probably defying some stereotypes, but I like to throw a bunch of people together (who don't know each other) and *watch them interact* :D anyone?

    • @ananyaj8065
      @ananyaj8065 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      As an INFJ YESH I do that too

    • @NoOne-qy2yf
      @NoOne-qy2yf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Absolutely! - Intj

    • @aetherealarqusol1837
      @aetherealarqusol1837 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You are the utter definition of a Devil's Advocate to me 😐

    • @mcokayiguess3879
      @mcokayiguess3879 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Intp, and yes I want to too, in the same of Science!! 👆🏼👆🏼
      It would be even more interesting to see how the 16 personalities behave. Who will gang up? Who will adopt whom?!!

    • @Beardless-Soul
      @Beardless-Soul 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      INTJ- I mean... I usually just watch other people talk when I am in a group... I almost never actually instigate a group conversation.

  • @knownstranger2570
    @knownstranger2570 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I feel bad for that introvert, now he's gonna lose his only friend BRIAN!

    • @Isira7
      @Isira7 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      BRAIN!

  • @CT-sf8wd
    @CT-sf8wd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I avoid parties on principle

  • @Hazelangel70
    @Hazelangel70 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is why I hate parties

  • @wesnohathas1993
    @wesnohathas1993 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The worst kind of middle ground. Too introverted to handle themself at a party, but not introverted enough to avoid it altogether.

  • @forevermemorable2982
    @forevermemorable2982 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You know there is a problem when an introvert tells you to work on your social skills...

  • @rafaribeiro3310
    @rafaribeiro3310 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sad but precisely accurate

  • @kylesavage4525
    @kylesavage4525 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Video Request: ''Worst or opposite types having an argument'' or ''Hardest combination of types to communicate with each other''. Or something along these lines.

    • @greatwavefan397
      @greatwavefan397 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ExTJs would win an argument just by existing.

  • @carissaluttonmovietalk
    @carissaluttonmovietalk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I had this situation happen at church not long ago and started playing on my phone, then some super extroverted guy comes over and says really loudly "why are you never talking to anybody" yeh that makes me feel less insecure ,thanks buddy haha.

    • @bodine219
      @bodine219 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Believe it or not, he was probably trying to be nice and drag you into the conversation. Extroverts don't get that that's the worst way.

    • @greatwavefan397
      @greatwavefan397 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I had a friend who's an introvert pretending to be an extrovert.
      One day after talking to plenty of people at a camp, she turned, breathed, and droped her shoulders.
      My mom said, "I see you."
      "What?"
      "I see you."
      My friend further explained that she had to look happy so no one thought there was something wrong with her.
      "Who told you that?" Mom asked with genuine concern?
      My friend said nothing.
      Funny. Years ago, her sister said she was quiet or sad before she was prayed over at our church (I'm not a believer btw.)
      Conclusion: Church is not for introverts.

  • @amasterofone
    @amasterofone 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "the monumental task of pretending like I give a sh*t" I almost spit my coffee back into the mug.

  • @Risktaker_
    @Risktaker_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One of the reasons why I always stay in my room except for school where I'm not talking to anyone else 100% of the time and pretend I'm not there lol

  • @marierodriguez6829
    @marierodriguez6829 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1:03 "WHAT am I supposed to do? Just stand here like a total dipstick!?" 😆😅😂
    I haven't heard that word in such a long time!! 😄

  • @rastradamus1074
    @rastradamus1074 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm introvert at the party until the alcohol begins to take hold

  • @FranGuitarable
    @FranGuitarable 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    La sacó del estadio con esa frase final " you need to work on your social skills"

  • @salmerongarridomaria1069
    @salmerongarridomaria1069 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Once In highschool I went to a party full of strangers and I saw a classmate. I followed him and his friends to the store to buy beer and back. I said like five words the entire way. I still cringe at that memory.

  • @priyankaaditya3941
    @priyankaaditya3941 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This same situation is going to happen with me next week. My offline classes start, and I just know one person (face).

  • @hipposapien5434
    @hipposapien5434 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Step 1: Find your introvert a friend. If you are the typical extravert, you will likely know at least a few other people at the party. Find your introvert another introvert and establish a connection between them ("wow, you both play Hollow Knight, you two have so much in common!").
    Step 2: Free yourself from the introvert. Now that your introvert has another introvert to talk to, they won't need to lean on you quite as much. You can now safely and smoothly attempt to extricate yourself from the situation. This may take more than 1 attempt, and if it doesn't work, try to bring up another possible connection between your introvert and the one you found.
    Step 3: Enjoy the party. You have now safely detached your introvert and can interact with other people 1 on 1. Float around, but be sure to check on your introvert once in a while to ensure they are doing well.

    • @strivingfornewhorizons9281
      @strivingfornewhorizons9281 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Did that multiple times at social events😂😂
      Seems to work quite well since most of the people I introduced to each other became friends😂

  • @aliisy9194
    @aliisy9194 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I don’t mind though if the ones that I usually talk to goes to another person, of course I’ll be sitting on a couch, or eating snacks in the corner, or playing games on my phone, or pretend to sleep (on the couch), or reading some books from the shelves, or maybe just leave, what the hell🤷🏼

  • @mafumafuisakitty3498
    @mafumafuisakitty3498 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I went to 2 parties in my whole life , ( I didn't want to go but i had to ) because my mother wanted me to go no matter what, and that is so accurate + I go hide anywhere for extra energy and a comfortable introverted dream life 👁👄👁👌🏻 it's been a year since I stepped a foot out of my house I'm happy like this soooo....yeah

    • @-randomuser-4897
      @-randomuser-4897 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      As an introvert, when you'll decide to go out for something vital you'll have a hard time acting normal, so i recommend practicing going outside a bit to improve your social skills, so when there's an emergency you know how to act/behave.
      And at this point, this isn't "introvertion", it's social anxiety. Please, get some help.

    • @mafumafuisakitty3498
      @mafumafuisakitty3498 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@-randomuser-4897 I'm actually sure i don't have social anxiety, I stay home because I actually hate going out so much ,it's so boring and noisy, and I don't have to go out since my family do the shopping and everything ( it's mostly because of covid and I love it 👁👄👁)I'm happy at home, but thanks anyway

    • @bodine219
      @bodine219 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Careful. It's easy for being a homebody to turn into an inability to go out. A preference is fine, just go grab a coffee or something once in a blue moon -- or even a solo walk. Also I pulled something similar during the first few months of covid (a nightmare for me actually. I'm an introvert, but not to quite that degree) and wound up with a significant vitamin D deficiency. I was shocked.

    • @mafumafuisakitty3498
      @mafumafuisakitty3498 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@bodine219 thanks you for sharing, I went to get vaccinations today so it's all good 👁👄👁👌🏻

  • @coolbeans6895
    @coolbeans6895 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    “You can barely keep up a conversation with me, and you know me.” Felt that

  • @player1641
    @player1641 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    This is a rare sight of an introvert who is SO deprived of human interaction, they actually WANT to go to a party. However, the limits of the introvert are still active, and they always will be. Unless they get drunk, I mean, idk, haven't been drunk myself so can't say for sure.

    • @greatwavefan397
      @greatwavefan397 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's me. I sometimes get tired of being an introvert.

    • @rachelkalthof492
      @rachelkalthof492 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m an Intj, but when I get drunk, the introvert in me melts away. It’s actually a pretty nice feeling in a social situation, I feel like I can be more than my usual self

    • @player1641
      @player1641 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rachelkalthof492 Hey I'm an intj too. I guess I really should try to get drunk then.

    • @rachelkalthof492
      @rachelkalthof492 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@player1641 haha sure c: just don’t over do it or you’ll be more concerned with throwing up than having a good time. Moderation is key

  • @aiavani5887
    @aiavani5887 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    And when that lone friend actually starts having good time with others..you start feeling betrayed 👽
    But only untill he/she returns back to you.and you start to feel you owe him/her a lot.😬

  • @lizziepinnock5060
    @lizziepinnock5060 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is one of your best videos yet. True comedy cold and scarily relatable.

  • @turbofanlover
    @turbofanlover ปีที่แล้ว

    This was pure gold. FJ is a very talented man.

  • @alial6658
    @alial6658 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You described the party experience so well. Unfortunately as an introvert, I got backstabbed by my only extrovert friend that I had and I learned to be more reliable on myself but I also got morr closed in myself

  • @ls_waifu2789
    @ls_waifu2789 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The end tho... 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @SoulHopper
    @SoulHopper 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    There is a reason I don't go to partys... maybe the reason is shown in the video, you will never know.

  • @dcarter455
    @dcarter455 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The little “what about me🥺?” hit hard😅

  • @aadamtx
    @aadamtx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Visiting a friend in Amsterdam, he took me to an afternoon baby shower (or something along those lines) so he could chat with a couple for a short time before we headed somewhere else. I don't speak a word of Dutch - hardly anyone else at the gathering spoke a word of English, other than "Hello!" Nothing like being an international introvert ;-)

  • @kandushullinger4257
    @kandushullinger4257 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    “And I’ll take on the monumental task of pretending like I GIVE A SHIT!”
    I relate😆

  • @Stephanie-hn3yn
    @Stephanie-hn3yn 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    “You’ll tell me what you do for a living and I’ll take on the monumental task of pretending like I give a shit!” 😂😂

  • @sunshineandrain869
    @sunshineandrain869 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If I go to a party, it’s usually a family event and nobody is surprised if I disappear soon. If it’s at a friend’s house, I never know what to do with myself, even if I know everyone. So I find their dog or cat and make friends with them until someone starts talking to me. It’s so awkward sometimes.

    • @bodine219
      @bodine219 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      At all day family events I always find an opportunity to go get a gatorade or a coffee or something -- usually buddied up with my Dad because we are so similar.

  • @animatorireenie8319
    @animatorireenie8319 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The "BƦ🇮 🇦 🇳 " always get me

  • @gamercj3682
    @gamercj3682 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Amateurs are gonna get confused about who's the introvert and who's the extrovert here🤣

  • @thomasnignan
    @thomasnignan 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The nerves he got at the end...
    "You need to work on your social skills..."😂

  • @valerielinares2068
    @valerielinares2068 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I can sooo relate. If I'm at a party where I know multiple people, I'd feel more comfortable. But if I'm at a party where I know only 1 person, I'd cling to that person the whole night, or not go to the party at all.

  • @dianalindeman1644
    @dianalindeman1644 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When I had church or school parties to attend, I stood around in miserable silence most of the time. I felt I shouldn't have been there but I had to attend.

  • @Daemonenkoenigin13
    @Daemonenkoenigin13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    And this is when I am glad about an extrovert superhero coming in to safe my introverted ass.

  • @wgv929
    @wgv929 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Frank, I look forward to seeing you and hearing you everyday. You make me feel normal. If you haven’t already done this, you might consider acting as an introvert at his/her high school reunion. I never went to any of mine and you know why.

    • @shenequakimbro5146
      @shenequakimbro5146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I feel the same way. I just subscribed abt a week ago. That would be great to do a reunion. I want him to do an introvert working from home if he haven't already

  • @Axayla
    @Axayla ปีที่แล้ว

    "From a friend to a friend, you really need to work on your social skills" 🤣

  • @illrathernot98
    @illrathernot98 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I saw an ad of him as soon as I tapped the video I think it's my calling 💀

  • @IDK-ih2oh
    @IDK-ih2oh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    And that person is talking to someone else
    Me: well it's time to go home, I'm so exhausted anyway

  • @user-oq2fm9xm3g
    @user-oq2fm9xm3g 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Maaaaan, why is it SO relatable ?!!!!!! To the point that it hurts ...

  • @Hyrulistic
    @Hyrulistic 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    "Look, there are a lot of people here."
    "Yeah, I'm aware of that, BRIAN!!"
    😄😄😄😅

  • @bamb8s436
    @bamb8s436 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    There ve been times that I acted like an extrovert to talk to a girl I like. It s super hard but it s eventually worth it

    • @melisaangela
      @melisaangela 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What's your type?

    • @bamb8s436
      @bamb8s436 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@melisaangela Ig INTJ but I ve changed a lot since when I took the test. So I rly am unsure

    • @greatwavefan397
      @greatwavefan397 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bamb8s436 Have you considered learning about common INTJ mistypes or which are your two highest cognitive functions?

    • @bamb8s436
      @bamb8s436 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@greatwavefan397 If u mean read stuff on the 16 personalities site I did a lot when I took the test. If u mean somethin else lemme know

  • @slugabug1
    @slugabug1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    "OK! Let's go!"
    Hahahahaha!!! It's so me. 🤣

  • @marcusbrennand7775
    @marcusbrennand7775 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    "When an introvert only knows one person at a party"
    Relatable.

  • @Tiffanyg21
    @Tiffanyg21 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    But why is this so accurate that it hurts?! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @dwightschrute4506
    @dwightschrute4506 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This… this did not feel like the rest of the introvert sketches. This was very different.

    • @drea4195
      @drea4195 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I think it's because the introvert was more clingy and loud than usual.

    • @dwightschrute4506
      @dwightschrute4506 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lunits I agree! I liked it