Things introverts say
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This video features the things introverts say. It's funny how close to home this hits. I don't need to take a personality test to figure that out, but it is interesting to see how far one can go with the different types of people out there. Bubba chubs.
How to starve an introvert: strangers in the kitchen.
True,but i always find a way out. I would ask someone to bring me my food to my room.
Bojana K M Lucky U. I’m not allowed to eat in my room:(
@@bojanav.7051 Yeah I always ask my sister if she enters my dungeon.
i get PISSED when ppl come over at our house bc i cant go out of my room 😂
U could single hand-edly wipe out us
Introverts: “But I texted him...why does he keep calling me?”
I FELT that.
Okay, it's not our fault we love talking to people ~w~ It feels more social
I'm sorry
Freeha a.k.a Free The fact that it’s more social is the problem....
@@jaxusr235 Yep.
Ugh. Me and my Family.
Solution - It's easier when you have a set schedule, whether or not it's absolutely true, you can state to certain people:
"Hey, I'll be busy between X:XX to Y:YY due to work or other preparations for work. Preferably, if you must call, (consider a specific day and time frame) do so in the hours of 5-7pm on Tues and Thurs."
This way, you can begin gaining more control over certain people's... phone habits against you.
Simply stating "Text me before you call me to see if I'm free. If I don't reply, it means I'm busy." doesn't always work and people tend to forget who this applies to. People tend to remember the specified restrictions more.
Hope this helps somewhat! Good luck with controlling your schedule and other environmental factors.
@@freeha6128 Damn right! I love talking on the phone too cuz im an extrovert too and i eventually get bored when i text for long periods of time and then i wanna switch for a phone call instead
I'm not antisocial.
I'm *selectively* social.
Me too. I just feel people's energy fdom the moment i meet them. I notice everything about that person that could make us good friends,i found one girl i feel that can be my bff. Sadly she lives in another city. All the "friends"(schhol friends) are hella not my type,i don't like them because our energies do not match.
@@bojanav.7051 I can feel that but you still can be somewhat social and keep the distance at the same time or at least not be an asshole to them
@@groberti I do exactly that. I am kind to everyone.
@@bojanav.7051 That's cool! Not everybody is like that
😂😂😂
"I love having hypothetical arguments, those are fun"
Dude I felt so called out why you gotta do that
They are quite fun though...
@@thehamlad Yeah, I mean just earlier today I was imagining how a conversation with a therapist would go... hmm perhaps that's not a good sign lol
Lmao same, it usually happens the most when I'm in the shower
@@soph.b6054 I was cooking yesterday and went on this long discussion with a hypothetically other party about how I came to have my current interests lol
Yes
"I don't hate _all_ people, there are a select few that I can trust."
Yes.
Sameee
0:53 for anyone wondering
and even fewer people that we can thrust
I read this while he was saying it! 😆
Elisha So I trust no one ever since my falling out w my ex best friend
Its called Natural selection...
"i'm pretty quiet with the people i don't know. but i'm an absolute freak with the people i do."
i felt that
musical.losers I felt that too 😎
So true right?
And online
Lexie Foxx online I’m sensational 🥶
Me too... 100 percent...I'm crazy with my friends...like dumb ass crazy..
“I am fully aware of how awkward I am, I just don’t know how not to be that”-
I feel you
Right!!
I feel so seen
Sameee
Therapy has helped me. Even though everybody has your own way of being, too much introversion is not healthy. Relationships, as tiring as they are most of the times, are important for personal growth. Gotta step out of that comfort zone.
And it gets worse when they ask you "Why are you so awkward with me/us?" And then there's the panick so you'd be left with a response like "... I... don't know."
"i texted him,...... why does he keep calling me-" is me asf
Lol I do this almost everyday
I let it just ring while staring at my phone(i feel guilty asf too)
Lmao
Oh God, you're not the only one😀😀
Yup lol
I feel comforted and attacked at the same time.
I think we’d get along well
same...
Same
yeah me too
also AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH
Me too, kinda uncomfortable but comfortable at the same time.
“I dont like all people, just selected ones.”
*Reasons why Introverts and Cats are of the same species*
No, my cat doesn't like anyone either except the scratch pole
@@fbilovesyou8285 That's why introverts and cats get along so well
hate* hahaha and cats are lovelyyy
So that's why I love my cat so much
K that was edgy
Thats why I like cats so much
"Introduce yourself to the class" still gives me anxiety even after not being in school for 15 years.
Same
same, i hate pronouncing my name because i know white ppl will get it wrong
Same except now it’s at work lol. “Let’s go around the room and introduce ourselves!”
*Can we not, instead?*
hahahaha
i remember practicing in my head what i’m gonna say and how i’m gonna say it
"i'm not bad talking with people, i just don't care to"
Wow, spot on
Me who's bad at talking to people:
@@desislavapalikova4383 cool name girl
@@desislavapalikova4383 i snorted
@@arshdeepsinghmalhi4554 for real tho.
@@desislavapalikova4383 same
The fact that he's basically talking to himself is pretty much something an introvert would do.
Lmaooo thats just me 100%
Exactly
•夏美• I talk to myself everyday..
I discuss books characters and their behavior with myself or argue with those characters....I am not an introvert...?
That's not me...tho alot of things in the video is me.. like the weather talk thing in like "pls i dont care this isnt a intresting subject talk about something else....ANYTHING"
“This sounded nice in my head, but now I regret this decision” LMFAO
Soo relatable!!
felt that....
Relatable😂
So freaking relatable 😅😂🤦🏾♀️
This is basically us at any type of social interaction when we lose the extrovert that invited us.
I hate having 1 to 1 conversations, because after talking for 20 seconds, I dont know what to say
Yeah. And if you try to come up with something right away it’s usually not interesting and they want to talk to soMe one else
Arthur376 13 :( yeah middle school
Maybe next time try talking with a topic you both like, you can learn different facts with them that you didn't know, For me things that get my head going are philosophy, Space, Neuroscience and shows that I like to watch.
I'm different. I'm alright with 1 on 1 convos, but I'm terrible in group conversation. I don't know what to say and when I do *think of something someone else says something. I just don't know when to interject.
that why I left my gf
"Im pretty quiet with the people i dont know but im an absolute freak with the people i do". Boyyyy you really did your homework
I wonder if my friends think I'm weird because of this
maybe he's an introvert himself. lol
archieese , damn you gorgeous af ngl but ikr
As an introvert, You have the most conversations with yourself not people.
It's also interesting to compare why we don't get tired of talking to ourselves compared to someone else.
I can talk to myself on and on and on and on and
@@BuizelCream I think that is because you don't have to like you. You can know what you think, but with people you can't control what they think about you. When introverts have friends is because they accept each other like they are :)
Sorry if I have mistakes, English is my 3rd lenguage :/
its true
I can live my whole life alone with my pet.
Hahaha! And our pets!
More accurately, "Things all introverts think but most of the time are too afraid to say"
i said it all the time, because people wouldn't understand my feelings if i don't
Same
True lol i say them a lot but in my head.
kaleiidospook, yep
@@uyagraph same lol
A real introvert would say this things sure,but mostly in his mind.
SO FUCKING TRUE
No? There are different types of introverted. I still say words and often I find myself speaking to myself outloud.
Yep
agreeed
@@SunnyExMusic I don't agree with that, I am quite an introvert, but I can be really comfortable if I'm just acting for example
Wow, he actually looks and sound like a real introvert. Unlike the "quirky" ones you see everywhere.
...
You have got to be kidding me. There's something called real introverts? Dont make this more of a cult than it already is
For real. People bully introverts in school and then suddenly now EVERYONE glorifies introverts and wants to say that they are one. Like... no. It’s so annoying!
@@cunningfox831 i kinda want to be an extrovert
@@bjrntykhelle2892 the comment section here is so damn weird, it really is a cult
@@bjrntykhelle2892 keep crying boy or girl, i dont care
"I'm not bad at talking to people. I just don't care to."
**nods in agreement**
1.5k likes no comments, how?
@@ZM-np8sv you say while talking
Me too..can't relate to most people.
@@tedmalley7636 me to my father keeps saying go talk to people and make relationships when I dont have a clue what im doing
*When its a introverts birthday*
Introvert: what if we just don't
“Can I sing?” “No” “Candles?” “No” “Well what if I just-“ “No”
@@ladyj.9350 When your at a restaurant and the employees start singing happy birthday to you uhh
Yes lmao why every birthday had to have big celebration, I'd rather ATTEND friend's birthday than being in center of attention, I hate that.
Thats me i hate birthdays but my family always forces me tô have some kind of celebration
@@pedrovinicius9753 is it just by dinner with families? If it is, it's fine then but I don't really like the kind of celebration where you had to make it like a huge party. I'm fine with going to my friend's but not for one myself
"but I texted him, why does he keep calling me" this should be a crime!
Damn right it should!
My anxiety can't take it.
I read this while rewatching at that part that timing
SaphiraTessa I love calling people... I feel bad now
I struggle talking to people in general, but it's even worse when I'm on the phone with them. I can't even talk to people I know over the phone with someone I know because I just struggle to formulate words into sentences. Small talk is the hardest for me, and most phone calls from my experience have always been small talk.
I hate when people do that
Big props to the friends who know we will most likely decline an invitation because of anxiety but offer anyway so we don't feel left out.
Those friends are to be cherished
No probs to people who don't get introverts at all and try to drag them to every event possible
Angels in our lives ♥.
they're tired of me by now
The disgustingly confused/scared expressions at a ringing phone has never been more accurate
Exactly man I don't call anyone and if anyone calls me I don't answer 👁️___👁️
Lol that's when you hit them back with the, "I'm not able to talk, but what's up?" Hopefully they'll tell you and establish the preferred method of communication.
I thought that was just me
I be like: 👁👄👁 - who in the actual FUCK is calling me right now?! Nobody I actually know because they know I’m strictly a texter
And dont forget those video calls with your relatives whom you havent met in years. Gosh i hate those and struggle to look on the screen.
As a introvert, parties suck unless I can find another introvert.
Party’s do you mean like a ps4 part chat? That’s the only party’s I go to
Unless I can found my one friend , who don't want to be with me ...
@@CaptainAmericaOfficial. that hit too hard for me lol
Jared Stegman ha ha
@@CaptainAmericaOfficial. true has shit lol. I've been to like 3 real parties and each time i left before it started .but xbox party chat for 24 hours with really close friends in different places of the world is easy.i couldn't find in a crowd of people but i know that laugh anywhere lol
The WORST is when you’re having small talk and then both of you run out of topic and there is just a 10-15 second silence of awkward.
@@juliana8374 You can literally start talking about life and end talking about how bread are made
you dont need excuses to change the subject
I'm friends / not friends with this kid that goes the same church I go to and than my family and his family decided to go eat and here some context out of the way I dont talk very much and this kid is no exception sssSSSSO IT'S EVEN WORSE so here we are at the table and than we start talking about games because it's the only thing now how to talk about I talk about the games I likes he talks about the game he likes and than now we don't know what to talk about so know we're still sitting here and I'm trying to not make eye contact and eating my fries and this goes on for like 10 more minutes and what felt like forever after all that's done I can finally sit back and relax... oh and sorry if made any typos!
If there is this awkwardness. Just be random. I tried it a few times. Say things like "I ate a frog once". The other one will be suprised and mostly amused....its a nice icebreaker for introverts :)
Danny Thompson I know how it feels man, it’s the worst types of situations to be in
That's my favorite part, actually. When people I don't know/care talks to me I look for the awkwardest moments, so they go away and, hopefully, never talk to me again.
Me during groupings/paired activities be like: I'll do the researching, write the essay/thesis, and PowerPoint, YOU present it in class
OMG A FELLOW MOA HII !!
Me too XD !!
@@hello-cv9ix uwu annyeong fellow moa!
This xD except when I was in school, everyone was required to say something so we had no choice
@@crookedbuns oh, I know that feeling.. And my thoughts went like "uwaaaa what should I do? Why do I have to say something? And in front of this many people? I can't think of anything.. What if I stutter? I'll just introduce myself and read one of the PowerPoint slide, then leave the talking to someone else. I hope this will be over soon.."
"hypothetical arguments, those are fun"
Well that hit close to home
Yeah, me too. One of the reasons I have trouble sleeping. 😉
100th like, yay
I literally have to tell myself to "shut up dude" in order to escape those moments
Yes! And 2:10 to 2:17 really hit close to home for me lol
@JessikaEmerald Its having an opinion on something and pretending someone asked you about it and you think up a response. I find its a helpful way to organise my thoughts and reassess my opinions on something if I start seeing faults with my own argument
"i'm not bad at talking to people. I just dOn'T kNoW wHaT ToPiC sHoULd i TaLk AbOuT" is really me all the time
Yah! Like i literally just dont care or dont know about most of the things people talk about!
A lot of people waste breath when they talk sometimes
I tend to avoid people cause Ik I will just make them awkward cause I dont really know what to talk about to them lmao
i feel creepy when i talk to people and i dont want to annoy them
Ikr??
"I texted him, why dose he keep calling me?"
So me
I text so you will leave me alone
טוב לראות פה עוד ישראלים
@@אסתריחזקאל-נ1נ חחחחח בהחלט😊
Omg yes
The way i was just thinking this before this video
The disdain in his eyes when he says “I didn’t ask, but she told me”, I feel that.
Lmao
For God so loved world that He gave His only Son that whosoever believes in Him shall not perish but has eternal life
“I texted him....why does he keep calling me?”
Bro fucking MOOD 😂
I just fooled a friend yesterday
He said to come on voice call for today and I said YeAh OhkAYy because I knew he's stubborn so he'll keep asking that :! ... But I really knew I,m not gonna do it anyway ... he just called me 23 times already 😬
I really regret saying OhkAYy tho. 😐😬
@@haiderrizvi5057 me too, I feel so awkward on calls i hate them
calling is a lot better than texting because you can actually talk to the person and hear their tone of voice, plus it's more efficient
@@IAteFortnite Clearly you’re not an introvert then lol
@@piyalichhajed6009
I hate it tOo YeS of course even sometimes I feel like I,m allergic to it or somethin 😆
Well I,m just a TopiclesS ALIEN 😌✌🏻🙃
And also hry stranger ?
have a gOoD day or night maybe whatever you're having 🙃
The worst part of being an introvert, at least for me, are the rare times you DO try to speak up in a group and people just pretend they didn't hear you even though there's no way they didn't.
I think that's just bullying dude
thats really sad i hate this feel
Happened a lot.
Yes...
People dont really know what bullying is anymore lol
“I hope you don’t mind me following you, you’re the only person here I know.” I felt that
relate level: 💯
Bodacious Baxton me at parties
I've never ever related to anything more.
Relatable
Proud to be the 1000th like
"I'm fully aware of how awkward I am, I just don't know how not to be that. So, *forward I go*
"I hope you don't mind me following you by the way. It's just, you're the only person I know here"
^this one hit hard
Ruined the 69 likes
Yes yes yes same here
Until they decide to hang out with their other friends there 😅
@@trainosaurousrex4472 gosh man you just had to say that
@@choppers9909 ah yes, another classic introvert quote
“But I texted him...why does he keep calling me?” I felt that.
YESSSSS!!!! I hate that!!! Answering the phone is the worst thing😭
I never pick up the first time someone calls but some ppl don't get the hint
@@Te3time I usually text back, “did you mean to call?”. Lol
@@Te3time ikr loll
Felt.
An introverts worst nightmare is when you're at home chilling in your room and there are guests over...
So now you can't go downstairs until they leave T_T
Jimmy Gill why tf do I relate so much 😂😞
@@GhstInShadow even worse, they go into your room
THIS
AGREED.
Worst when you're hungry and the guests are at kitchen.
"I just texted him why is he calling?"
Such uncomfortable situation.
I've been there and I hate it.
ITS THE WORST
Like you put me in such an uncomfortable situation like you know I'm not happy you know that I'm trying-
Or when they try to FaceTime you💀💀💀instant panic
Its a fucking nightmare
"I like fictional characters more than I like real people. Haha, I'm just kidding. I'm not kidding." That is what I say all the time.
Do weebs count?
@@kallenlivesmatter3229 yeah
“i’m just gonna follow you cause you’re the only person i know in here”
felt that in my core
Yeah same
ARMY!! Hii 💜
oh hi!!! love your profile pic ☺️💜
YES. But like, what else are you supposed to do?? Just stand there?? I have no idea what to do at parties 😂
I literally gasped when he said that
“how do i escape this meaningless small talk” I FELT THAT
SAMEEEE AAAAAAA
I died
Am I the only introvert who loves small talk? Especially when a conversation sparks up with a strangers on the bus or street or meeting people for the first time (only when they initiate it, I don't have the guts to, though I try). Mainly because you both start on the same page, you don't really have to open up much and you're probably not gonna see them again so you can just talk about random light happy things and have no strings attached, so you got nothing to lose. It's just an instant spark of happiness of making someone's day. I guess I'm not really an introvert then, just labeled an 'introvert' alot😅
@Park Chimchim Haha yeah maybe. Though I am usually quiet and in my head alot, I do love people😂. I guess it's just my anxiety that makes me come off as an introvert. Also Hey Army!😊🖑
Same everytime with my so called "friends" so I just play along since I have no choice
Being an introvert is basically trying to disturb people as little as possible
Introvert = pushover
Sometimes ?
@@v0id_d3m0n No, I'm introverted and it's quite the opposite, however there is a grain of truth in that - Introverts will back down (me included) when a peaceful option arises. Doesn't make them a push over though, because when push comes to shove most will handle themselves fine
Right. I can't stand when people are intrusive or don't have common decency.
Wouldn't that just be socially anxious?
OOOOOH 1,000th like that feels goooooood
thank you. introversion ≠ antisocial. like, a lot of us absolutely love social interaction, its just absolutely exhausting. once we have our alone time for at least an hour, we can go right back to socializing.
welp now I have no idea if I’m introverted, extroverted, etc because I don’t often have conversations with people other than one of my relatives.
That accurately describes me too but mainly I have trust issues for reasons I don't want to talk to about because I'm afraid people will judge me for even though I fairly certain that they won't I just don't know what to say in a conversation and it's awkward and I want to form meaningful relationships with a few select people that I know but I ... I think I said too much.
@@found_it Sometimes in moments of deep thought I wonder if everyone I’m friends with is only friends with me because they pity me or because my parents made them be friends with me. It’s not an introvert thing, but hey haha funny thing that prevents me from making friends.
Well... I probably need more time than this lol
Lies. More like a week, or a month.
“I texted him. Why does he keep calling me?” *this is why I’m single*
I hate talking over the phone or FaceTiming with passion
SAME!! I forced myself to go on a few dates, and now he's whining that I don't text back enough or call. DUDE, stop being clingy LOL
I prefer texting over calling. It gives me more time to think lol
No, but seriously... why do they keep calling me when I text them?
amen
"I'm fully aware of how awkward I am. I just don't know how not to be that. So onward I go"
lmao I felt that dude
I reas this at the exact same time he said it. I love those moments
big mood
Its funny that I read this comment the same time he said it lmao
Bangtan Sonyeondan i see ur not the only one
M-E
Being an introvert I feel so much at peace while in quarantine
This is my best dream come true
I haven't talked to anybody for 2 months
Its perfect
I *_know_* but I feel so guilty for it
I feel so much less stress. I love being home.
@@PeridotFacet-FLCut-XG-og1xx why would you?
"I'm fully aware of how awkward I am, I just don't know how not to be that."
Hits way too hard how accurate this is.
*"There are too many people here. We need a new plague."*
- Dwight Schrute
I literally repeat this in my head every time I;m in a crowd
Dollstylist041 Poll well the Corona virus just hit the USA so 😳😬😂😭
Sophia DeGregoris I’m leaving to Canada bye sisters😳✋✋ anyways let’s go introverts
its already happening though 😂
Would I rather be feared or loved? Easy, both. I want people to be afraid of how much they love me.
-Michael Scott
I posted it on the wrong fn comment
*seeing a familiar face in the crowd*
Extrovert: Heyyy, I know that dude
Introvert: Shittt, I know that dude
This is social anxiety not introversion.
I'm a weird mix of both
@@rashedulkabir6227 not necessarily, sometimes I just prefer being undisturbed and going with my solo-plans without wasting time talking about weather
Rashedul Kabir no, i do that because i just dont want to talk to people if i am out and about. Even if it is people i know. Nothing to do with social anxiety for me. I am in sales so talking to people is a nonstop thing for me. I like to not talk to a soul outside of work lol. It’s exhausting.
I go through like a wave first its "heyyy, i know that dude" to "oh fuck he spotted me, i can't run away now, we just made eye contact, dammit no going back now"
I like being alone, but I don't like being lonely
So real
Fr
I can relate
I'm 14 and this is deep
My motto in life.
"I'll come back tomorrow" I feel this in the depths of my soul
"I'm really hungry but Mia's downstairs. Not going down there."
Damn I felt that
Ikr :0 Also ur pfp made me uwu
Same rtho OMG HEY ARMY
Same here,army
Kookies.and. Mochi agree armys
I do that oh god.
We don't say anything unless people are talking about a topic we know alot about
True and also we talk alot to people we relate heavily to
Yes this is me lol
Me
This is me all the time
Emphasis on the words "a lot about"
Saw this somewhere
How introverts make friends:
1% They talked to people and made a friend
99% An extrovert found and adopted them
Very true lol
So..like..wanna be friends 😆
I feel like most introverts are friends with other introverts
Yes all of my friends except one is an extrovert
God bless those
Being incredibly socially anxious, I'd rather be hanging out with a smaller group so I dont feel as much tension and feel "required" to talk so much...
I hate my life, and wasted so much holed up in anxiety... I am 26 and missed so much...
Just started taking medication for social anxiety and it's starting to help. If you can access it is something to look into.
Ignore the other guy, try meditation before committing to some chemical dependency
It's not like we could change anything if we transferred back in time with our current brain...
@@acat63 meditation is therapeutic, try it with others more experienced
we re the same age then.
this is like an introvert personality test. the more of these lines you've spoken out loud, the closer you are to figuring out your myers-briggs type
Actually the Myers Briggs test is very inaccurate. I asked the craetwe themselves, and they said theyvwoudlnt even use it.
@@braxtyboi123 Does craetwe mean creators? The last of the two died 40 years ago, so I doubt you spoke to them lol. I do agree that the test lacks accuracy though.
I've said almost everything in this video out loud at some point in my live.
Safe to say I'm a introvert.
@@dizzydiddle123 you saw through my lie....but the creators say in an interview they wouldn't even use it....
@@braxtyboi123 bro that's so embarrassing wtf. You lose all credibility immediately
Them: "You overthink things."
Me: "Someone has to."
Oh, I'm stealing that. Great answer !
Overthinking by definition is thinking TOO much about something. To the degree that the thinking becomes more harmful than helpful. So I just explain this definition to the people who say these things. Because by overthinking they basically just mean that I am analyzing the situation more than they themselves would. I think it would make sense to them if you explain for example with an analogy like a robot has to "overthink" emotions, because they don't just happen naturally on their own. Or with whatever the social aspect is, that requires a lot of analysis. Everyone tends to assume others are like them, so they think too much analysis is pointless because it would be for them.
@@Desimere this !!!
@@Desimere no kidding genius
S.A.M. overthinking has saved me a lot of times though
"I'm fully aware of how awkward I am, I just don't know how not to be..." This speaks to my soul...
Me me and me
So painfully true 😭
"Why can't you just be more brave when meeting new people?"
*Oh gee, why didn't I think of that? What a wonderful idea!*
FORWARD WE GO
Oh this one’s deep *deep*
When all your friends are talking about how isolation sucks and your just vibing in fricking paradise.
Update- I'm back in the real world. Focking sucks
Long live isolation, would love it to last a few more months. You agree too?
@@intj_5398 hell yeah!! I'm so sad that school is coming back...
@@caillienotcali4701 look at Germany, they eased their lockdown and now they have new cases of covid 19. This wont go away any time soon, its like a trial and error except there is no vaccine. Its likely that more countries will have the same problem. So lockdown will be longer or it will be frequently on and off. I believe it would be set longer. Nothing is official so dont believe the news when they say schools "could" open.
@@intj_5398 Nah we got it solid, my sisters are at school rn and im going back next week
My school literally ends in 3 days, but next school year is going to feel like an eternity...
"I love having hypothetical arguments"
who let you into my brain??
Did you make any good points recently?
@@admiralthrawnbar4899 I tried but the idiot I was arguing with wouldn't listen to reason
Cut to a picture of me pacing around my room at 1 in the morning, pretending to have a discussion with someone about something they said today. This hits way too close man.
@@iammaxhailme You know we could totally have such an argument right now! Name a topic lmao
(I can't promise that I won't bail tho... I sometimes do these things and then realize I have no time but with no time I mean I am bad at managing to do what I need to and entertain myself instead)
iammaxhailme right?! I have them all the time! I thought I was just odd.
Introverts talks a lot in there head or to themselves
How is 'talking in your head' any different than a thought?
@@nundzi1548 you talk in your head t to yourself and after you reply to the argument
The way of the introvert
@Keshav S about as interesting as a horoscope in your local newspaper. Its basic function, your not special.
i talk to myself....im introverted....i also talk alot in my head....
I've never cry-laughed so hard to a TH-cam video before, the accuracy in this video is just top tier 😂
*Introverts friends:*
50% *dogs count as friends*
50% *an extrovert saw them, liked them, adopted them*
> dogs count as friends
Don’t they?-
copied
My best friend adopted me
Dogs do count as friends though- they are still living creatures..
It was an ambivert with me, but that person is popular and social.
“I don't hate [people] … I just feel better when they're not around.” ― Charles Bukowski
That's just me
I actually hate people
You have great taste
@@gracielaortiz1364 🤓
I always tell my bestie that i hate ppl
"im hungry but Mia's downstairs, im not going down there" i cant express how relatable this sentence is
the worst is when you want to go to the bathroom "but mia's downstairs" lol
I had a similar experience this morning. My girlfriend had a friend from her hometown stay overnight at the apartment. I got home from work after they were both asleep but I woke up after the friend was awake and using the only bathroom in the apartment. The door was open because she was doing her hair and makeup but I really had to piss and couldn't bring myself to ask her to let me use the bathroom real quick. So I held it for like a half hour.
What does the phrase mean?
Due to the pandemic, I'm stuck back in the states until fall 2022 when my residency is approved in Norway (where my hubby is from). So now I'm back to sharing a rental with a housemate. He's perfectly fine, aside from being an alpha bro. As in he may randomly start doing pull-ups on the balcony. Or speak to me loudly about non-urgent things through my closed bedroom door instead of texting.
this may end a murder/suicide....
IKR HDSKDJSJ
My extrovert classmate: *texting me* UGHH it’s raining AGAIN I hate it I can’t go out with my frensss I hate being stuck at home
Me: *quietly enjoying the cool rain with a nice book, tea and a few scented candles*
ur pfp said it all
@chahine abdelli 💃🕺💃🕺
IM NoT lIKe OTHers girLS
so quirky!!!
Don't you just hate it when you finally join in a conversation and everyone is like "OMG YOU CAN TALK?!?" like it just makes you never want to talk again.
exacly
sugakookie with tae mochi, people used to say that to me a lot until I stared replying with "Yeah and I can kill you with a spoon too I just choose not to."
damn it story of my life
and it is just cruel when you start talking and then there just silence 😂
I relate so much
as an introvert, I talk to the people I made up in my head
Since when was Naruto introverted?
I feel you bro lolllll I do the same thing
@@Guiltyspark0801 Me too.
Same
Me too :D
"I'm not bad at talking to people, I just don't care to"
No I'm actually horrible at conversation
I love when I have to small talk with strangers and I'm internally panicking like "oshit oshit don't say anything weird alright this is going well so far oshit what do I say next ah yeah ask questions alright alright wait I wasn't listening what did they say oshi okay uhh I guess I'll just nod my head and chuckle"
That's true. But the thing is, I'm more akward at talking to the people at school then random people I don't know. Not that I don't panic but maybe it's because I see these people everyday and...I don't know why!
Hello, how are you today?
amaris tirtotaroeno same hahha. I’m sitted in between my extroverted classmates, which is the worst haha😅
Oh me too, I’ve had to do it a lot because of work but I still suck horribly. I don’t understand how it’s just so easy for some people
"OK, I don't hate all people, there's a selection of people I can trust"
So relatable.
“How many people are going? Do I know any of them” YEP
I form these questions in my head, despite the fact that I have few friends and never get invited to parties. When I get invited, I don't want to go, but if I do get invited I am offended that I didn't get invited. *_hehe_*
You should force yourself to go and you’ll find out that it’s fun
Zombie Heart
I’ve done that a lot and every time I ended up miserable and sad tbh
the thing is: i’m the extrovert when i’m with introverts but i’m the introvert when i’m with extroverts lol aka an ambivert
lotte _ ...I’m so glad you said that and I came across your comment because you just help me realized I’m the same exact way.
Yeah most introverted people are like that
and i am just not social
So your an ambervert
Same. Its like being at home then the home being somwhere with loud speaking people.
"Why did you tell them it's my birthday?" SO RELATABLE
a devastating fact for me, my relatives know my birthday. guess whose anually experiencing hell?-,-
😂
For my birthday 1 friend new it was my birthday I told someone I was inviting to my birthday party a day before my birthday they didn't remember
Every year since I converted to being and introvert I never wanted to go to school because of people knowing my birthday. Although the teacher that did stuff for people's birthday didn't do anything for mine and I got lucky.
Sometimes I am afraid to leave my house on my birthday...
Why is this so Relatable??
*This is LITERALLY ME*
🗿
Samee
Everything he says is soooo true
"why are you always so quiet" the worst part is most of the time people just think your mean or just a bad person in general that hates everyone wich Is clearly not the case , i actually like people some of them can be really nice but man sometimes i just don't feel like talking like i'm sorry i wish i was diff too lol
In that case I talk about whatever really specific shit that cross my mind. They leave me be after a while of weird talk.
My best friend tells me all the time people think I’m a bitch because I’m quiet lol. I don’t understand the correlation.
When I'd just started university after 2 months have passed of the first semester one of the people that we practically had the same classes together told me that he was scared to even say hi to me cause I looked like I was mean... I just... :/
I had my university orientation camp and at the end of it we had some heart to heart talk and everyone pointed out and said i was too quiet. I didnt know how to answer that...
Yeah it's not that I hate everyone... I just don't wanna talk and I enjoy spending time with myself... Is that a crime?
This one’s a classic on my book:
- *Says something*
- Oh I’m sorry, I didn’t quite catch that. Could you repeat that?
- ... (Oh my god I think I’m gonna start crying.)
I never felt so understood
And when they don't get it twice, I freak out, like, they gotta be thinking I'm some kind of moron right? Like who doesn't know how to speak, you know?... ME, dude, me
@@rafasales4519 yassss
RafaSaless :/ after the third I just give up as it’s not important anymore
@@Ranger_4878 i know some people think thats funny.. I'll just silently curse them out
The absolute worst is when someone tries to FaceTime you or... shows up to your place unexpectedly. Like are you kidding me? I need at least 2 weeks to prepare for human contact
Or when you run into them on the street and they say, "oh, I'll walk with you. So, what have you been up to? What's going on?......"
AAAARRRRGGGHHHH!!!!
3*
aliyacampbell That happened to me twice and the person bumped into me was my crush
I have never been so panicked.. 😣
FaceTime should be banned from everyone’s phones
M EEE
Some of my favorite memories have been performing full length plays, or ancient military campaigns, or even intense debates, all in the shower of course.
“i’m not bad at talking to people, i’m really not. i just don’t care to.” felt that
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It's so true
Swansea S i didn’t even notice it had this much likes wtf😭😭
Nat well congrats :) it’s not everyday that you have over 1k likes on ur comment
Swansea S yeah it was just me quoting the video though 😭
Extroverts tell introverts to talk more and get out of their comfort zone, but no one tells the extroverts to shut up and make the zone comfortable enough
Ikr
Smart
I do i say gtfo of my house.
I tell them..... People hate me....
I never say that as an extrovert-
Reading the comments makes me feel less weird. There are a lot of introverts all over the world.
We could all be friends you know.
Oh right.
Sorry.
bruh
Sure man I'm down
Oh yes at least we know we are all strange, I think. I don't know. Okay.
we could all be friends in an introverted way: comfortably avoiding each other, maybe texting twice a year.
Ah ma ciao, non pensavo fossi introverso o.O
Me, sending my friend a text: hey wanna play roblox?
My friend: calls me*
Me: *anxiety*
Also me: texts* ,*ohh umm i cant talk bccc ummm iiii dont wanna wake up anyone!*
My friends dont understand me. Im usually the kid that loves to sing, but sounds like a crocodile bc im too nevous to sing. I also speak very silently, soo i always have to raise my voice so people can hear me...
Sameee it's so awkward and annoying when you have to repeat even though you really tried to say it loud and confident
"but I texted him, why does he keep calling" THIS IS ME EVERYTIME AAAA
I didn't get that one
@@cloud4015 we introverts don't like to attend voice/video calls .
@@darkseid856 I know but I just don't understand why he is confused on why the person keeps calling. We are introverted but we are not dumb, we know extroverted likes to call. My reaction would be like "oh no, I don't wanna do this, I'll just wait until he/she gives up".
Same
@@cloud4015 I'm an introvert as well but I don't understand why a person would call when you're texting (unless it's an emergency).
As an introvert with social anxiety, I hate small talk. I prefer 'real' conversations, cause with small talk I feel even more anxious and It's like I am not skilled enough to keep the conversation going so I get insecure. Someone else?
So damn true 😭😭
So me. I don't mind staying up late at night just having real conversations. The situational ones.
same
Same!
Sameee!! I hate small talk
I can totally relate to the “ How many people are going to be there ? “ me ALL the time
Same LOL
🙌
Me too
Same how many people who are they do I know anyone
same
“i didn’t ask, but she told me” sums it all up
When he kept looking at his phone ring until it stopped ringing. That is soooo me. I'm introvert for sure.
I thought it's only me, it really gives me anxiety when there's a phone call even tho I've muted my phone.
Yessssssss
@@dheaarintiara3550 Me too sometimes I got a number that I don't know who is it then I just wait the ring stop most of my contact, I just contact my mom
Me too. I do that all the time 😂
I hate people who call instead of texts. Like fucks sake man, I can read.
“I’m fully aware of how awkward I am I just don’t know how not to be”
I felt that on spiritual lvl
Exactly!
And then they tell you to stop it and you dont know how so it's like asking 4 year old deku to kill kachan
Don't you just hate it when you actually try to have a conversation with someone and actually say something and they just go like "yeah..." and then you start to suffer internally?
@Poké L thank you I think I'll try this technique for sometime and see how goes
Yeah...
EXACTLY! Like I don't talk to people I don't know that much but when I actually did and I told them like a funny story, they just said yeah..
@@leahharper3175 I hate that, like you know I'm not social and can't continue a conversation, why you gotta do that ;-;
Marilyn Kawaii I try to make conversations in my head for every scenario possible, so I can use them later on.
"I've tried to walk away 4 times now with no success" OMFGG 😭😂 literally me at work 💀
"We observe the battlefield, and then we strike."
- Sun Tzu
the art of war
Or you can be like me whos impulsive with a short attention span. Makes for great socialization
@@Parker_Lot only nerds don't do tha- wait, that means i'm one-
instructions unclear ended up farming potatoes
@@Parker_Lot yes , impulsive with short attention span is good for socialization because all the people around you are smart and cautious and doesn't want to be the target of attention .. It's not that what you are talking about (or doing) is of high value ,, but moreso that everyone around you is LITERALLY DOING NOTHING.
But imagine someone whos impulsive with a short attention span (with guilt/shame/inability about doing what it is they're going to do before even doing it), that's me :(
"I'm hungry but Mia is downstairs. I'm not going down there"
Seriously this is me everytime my brother brings his friends over☠. I'd stay in my room all day until they leave😪🤣
omg this is literally me xD
Literally me.
The kpopper must die
This is how I lost 10kg after I moved into a flat :))
That's why I keep some snacks in my room
Substitute teacher: Guys you can sit wherever you want
Me: Why would you do that
And then someone comes up to you to ask you to move
@Łiam Đwayne and you don't know anyone in the class so you don't know where to go
@@night3755 and you don't know how to say no. I'm a huge push over so I suffer a lot
but that's a good thing, you can sit alone
@Łiam Đwayne that's one of the reasons I like to stay alone :)
As an introvert I actually like when people start talking about the weather bc it usually leads to no other subject which means the talk ends faster
Me: *doesn't talk, literally just vibing*
Others: "Are you okay? You look upset, did something happen?"
"No, I was just thinking about how you have beautiful hands."
@@Josnaci0 shhh I'm trynna hide in a peaceful comment section for once 😳
No need to expose me 🤫
@@yeahspoiledmilk Sorry, please don't bite za dust me
Everyone thinks I hate them because I don’t talk 😂 Also I think I just look really depressed at school, all the time people saying “Are you okay?”
@@Josnaci0 great now gimme your hands
Fun fact: you’re an introvert laughing because this is relatable
I am but I'm not laughing. Don't know, this is somehow cringe
kak of the yoins aw :(
Correct
Actually not
...
i hate the fact that me being an introvert makes people think i have problem socializing and meeting people.
especially extroverts who feel the need to put you under their wing or "adopt" you as if you were a baby: can't defend herself, never mad, always nice, shy, and all the things that comes with it. i just gets tiring to not be taken seriously.
i am an introvert for a reason. i am very much happy with my small friend group and i just like it. you don't need to pity me.
I'm an adult male and I still have trouble looking people directly in the eyes.
Cosmic Apotheosis I’m not an adult or male but damn it makes me uncomfortable as hell
I cannot look people in the eyes, too, I'm not afraid or anything, I just feel like they're sucking out all my soul energy and then I have nothing. I'm drained and tired and don't wanna meet anyone anymore.
Klavdiya Kitanovva It just makes me super uncomfortable and I just usually look at something else and have eye contact for 1 second
Eye contact is so distracting. I mean everything is distracting unless its a really fucking good conversation, but still eyes are the worst. I try and hold eye contact for like 3 seconds to prove I’m a normal human being and bam I forgot wtf we’re talking about.
It's not that hard, takes time but it becomes easier
Government: The corona virus is a pandemic, you must practice social distancing.
Me: No problem, I'm a black belt at social distancing.
HAHAHAHAHA
Same, I actually like the quarantine part-
• AquaJasper • until you get infected if it ever happens I hope you good luck :)
@@litinupcito2044 I'm staying at home all the time and barely leave for anything, that's the part I was talking about haha
Thanks tho! You too
• AquaJasper • The thing is I like being alone way too much-