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  • Today, we're looking at the definitive top 10 ways for introverts to avoid people, ranked!
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  • @FrankJames
    @FrankJames  2 ปีที่แล้ว +389

    what other ways could crack the top 10??
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    • @noralaithy649
      @noralaithy649 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Love ur video i am an infp btw

    • @cosmo4288
      @cosmo4288 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Ok but there are some people who do not even care when i am making it aware that i am really trying to avoid them but they would not catch on it?? What do i do then?? I am thinking of sending them this video so that they do understand

    • @rachelhenriques2054
      @rachelhenriques2054 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm not an introvert , but thanks 😂😂 I'll use it someday

    • @emp9413
      @emp9413 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Disassociation baby 😎 You stare unseeingly into space/the inside of your head, preferably directed at a window or a wall, or at your shoes or ceiling if you don't mind standing out, clearly separated from reality itself. Works like a charm!

    • @cosmo4288
      @cosmo4288 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Um FJ keeping the bladder on full and not showering is really bad for health like what if people come and try to drag me to the hospital or something like there would be more people then

  • @CrazyCoon100
    @CrazyCoon100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1235

    “I don’t hate people. I just feel better when they aren’t around.” CB

    • @madmarlowe1422
      @madmarlowe1422 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I say this Bukowski quote at least once a month.

    • @greatwavefan397
      @greatwavefan397 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      _"I don't hate you, but you better stay out of my way..."_
      - Marionette, Five Nights at Freddy's

    • @ranroon273
      @ranroon273 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      yup.. that's me

    • @elisa4620
      @elisa4620 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Who is CB?

    • @madmarlowe1422
      @madmarlowe1422 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@elisa4620 Charles Bukowski

  • @Autom4tic
    @Autom4tic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +829

    “People - they’re not ideal, but like it or not, they’re here to stay.”
    My disappointment is immeasurable, and my day is ruined.

  • @argyrous_p
    @argyrous_p 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2258

    Books.Always carry a book with you , with custom made cover, for example:10 best places to hide a corpse or how to become brainiac by eating gifted people.These can work on t-shirts too, but book readers are generally considered peculiar and everyone avoids them.

    • @StephanieJeanne
      @StephanieJeanne 2 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      🤣🤣 Hilarious!! Those could bump the headphones out of the #1 spot!👍

    • @argyrous_p
      @argyrous_p 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      @@StephanieJeanne 😂😂 I am working on some covid themed covers now that we are asked to go back to the office.Fingers crossed they will ask me to WFH for ever 😂🤞

    • @emp9413
      @emp9413 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Its true ha ha. Nobody likes a nerd :D Plus even ruder to interrupt someone reading vs listening to music win win

    • @Meg_intheclouds
      @Meg_intheclouds 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      ENFP bookworm here, never worked at school- people will inevitably go
      “What are you reading”
      “Omg you read? I haven’t read since year 7”
      “So you’re like really smart then”
      (Depends what mood I’m in. When I get my book out it means “I’m done being in reality- I want to pretend I’m a wizard”)

    • @justastaythatwillnotbename2990
      @justastaythatwillnotbename2990 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Oop

  • @chaoticbreeze6262
    @chaoticbreeze6262 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2097

    I love how every tip is descending towards a crazier approach. 😂

    • @XSemperIdem5
      @XSemperIdem5 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      It's when the desperation increases 😅

    • @greatwavefan397
      @greatwavefan397 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      w e c o u l d m a k e a
      h o r r o r v i d e o . . .

    • @kylimantrhamdreemurr1838
      @kylimantrhamdreemurr1838 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@greatwavefan397 It'd be scary for extroverts only.

    • @SC-gp7kt
      @SC-gp7kt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Genius!

    • @nuhh69
      @nuhh69 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Did you mean *ASCENDING* ?

  • @tikent-snulfwoer
    @tikent-snulfwoer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1005

    "People. They're not ideal, but like it or not, they're here to stay."
    -Frank James, September 2021

    • @tikent-snulfwoer
      @tikent-snulfwoer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes you do :)

    • @the.ivy_trio
      @the.ivy_trio 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Oooh, I didn't expect to find two Potterheads _and_ dam Percy Jackson fans here!

    • @misswaddles155
      @misswaddles155 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@the.ivy_trio Now it's 3

    • @MaeAlessa
      @MaeAlessa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @karyn chambers Dam, now it’s 5

    • @dianalindeman1644
      @dianalindeman1644 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad for it, because we introverts are people, too

  • @otterinaballgown3703
    @otterinaballgown3703 2 ปีที่แล้ว +897

    "People are not ideal", but "relationships are the most fulfilling things in life."
    The life-long paradox.

    • @chocolatebar2306
      @chocolatebar2306 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      indeed.

    • @hanimoon1422
      @hanimoon1422 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      yess

    • @jordanferguson2254
      @jordanferguson2254 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      This is just me, so I'm not speaking for anyone else here, and I really do say this with peace in mind; I've found genuine happiness and fulfillment without that.

    • @xplicks3637
      @xplicks3637 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@jordanferguson2254 I have too. When it gets lonely I can go out or something, but I can go weeks alone and still feel good.

  • @cosmo4288
    @cosmo4288 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1516

    I want Harry Potter’s invisibility cloak to avoid people

    • @a_weird_mess3
      @a_weird_mess3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Don’t we all? 😩

    • @Dolores.Umbridge
      @Dolores.Umbridge 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      *pulls up wand *
      _accio invisibility cloak !!_

    • @sofycolt27
      @sofycolt27 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      This is my dream. I am thinking every time when I am sitting in the pffice

    • @alberteinstein100
      @alberteinstein100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      you can learn to become invisible... i know 2 people who can teach you that, drax and john cena.

    • @cosmo4288
      @cosmo4288 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sofycolt27 must be hard for you to do that

  • @SimoneEppler
    @SimoneEppler 2 ปีที่แล้ว +589

    Future introverts will be born with headphones. SCIENCE!

    • @SimoneEppler
      @SimoneEppler 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      A heart from Frank - May day has been made. 🥳

    • @a_weird_mess3
      @a_weird_mess3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yess

    • @SimoneEppler
      @SimoneEppler 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@a_weird_mess3 🎧👽💆‍♀️

    • @DjangoUnSkilled
      @DjangoUnSkilled 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I love that SCIENCE thing. I can't help but find it funny!

    • @stark5679
      @stark5679 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Also the natural need to stick their head in holes like a ostrich

  • @BurgundyandBlue1111
    @BurgundyandBlue1111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +271

    "People - they're not ideal."
    😂 Perfect intro

  • @fiftyfive70
    @fiftyfive70 2 ปีที่แล้ว +215

    Total introvert pro move: turn read receipts off on texts and messaging.
    Expecting a dreaded text? “I’m driving with Do Not Disturb While Driving turned on. I’ll see your message when I get where I’m going.”
    Never get to where you’re going.

    • @juliemay9295
      @juliemay9295 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      love it!

    • @codyw1
      @codyw1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      The real pro move is not to have a mobile phone at all. :p

    • @juliemay9295
      @juliemay9295 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@codyw1 ​ @codyw1 that's dangerous talk! lol

    • @kuramacabre
      @kuramacabre 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don't mind people knowing I willingly ignored them.

  • @mysticwolf6967
    @mysticwolf6967 2 ปีที่แล้ว +470

    I just bring a book, stare at it and just daydream. I don't even like reading. The only downside is when people ask what you're reading.
    Thanks for making this Frank, I'm taking notes.

    • @fiftyfive70
      @fiftyfive70 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Just make sure the book is right side up and mindlessly flip the page once in a while.

    • @helenwood8482
      @helenwood8482 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Pretending to be asleep works well on public transport.

    • @Carol_65
      @Carol_65 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Have a book (or book cover) in a foreign language.

    • @bulldogsnbunniesUK
      @bulldogsnbunniesUK 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@Carol_65 Wow, that’s brill! 🙌🏼💕

    • @shalikrox9720
      @shalikrox9720 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Just read the back of the book then you'll be know what you're reading without reading it

  • @ubacat1617
    @ubacat1617 2 ปีที่แล้ว +177

    One thing your forgot: having lunch in your car when you work in a busy office and the lunchroom is full. My excuse was always having to work on my night course assignments. Then if I didn't want other employees looking at me or coming to me in my car, I would drive off to a different place where nobody knew me and park there.

    • @ceputehching-ching1503
      @ceputehching-ching1503 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is me most of the time b4 c19....now wfh i'm in heaven...

    • @trackee2024
      @trackee2024 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I did a lot of reading lunches to avoid conversation. And of course, the classic sad desk lunch.

    • @dfre102
      @dfre102 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm blessed to live 5 minutes away from where I work. So I just go to my apartment for my lunch break.

    • @eryuu4016
      @eryuu4016 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If there's not an empty table in the lounge or just too many people, I eat outside. (I'm a CNA and I usually work graveyard shifts.

  • @ellenh278
    @ellenh278 2 ปีที่แล้ว +299

    The voice and phrases were dead on. So much talent.

  • @altitudeiseverything3163
    @altitudeiseverything3163 2 ปีที่แล้ว +292

    Sending out a text to everyone you’ve ever met announcing that you’re moving and could really use some help with all those heavy boxes of books, and the piano, should do the trick.

    • @Izabela-ek5nh
      @Izabela-ek5nh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      They would all appear. You cannot imagine what people can do when asked....

    • @altitudeiseverything3163
      @altitudeiseverything3163 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Izabela-ek5nh 😳😱
      😂

    • @swabygames
      @swabygames 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Unless you get people that actually willing to help, then you have to move or have an awkward moment. So maybe not the best idea to do this.

    • @altitudeiseverything3163
      @altitudeiseverything3163 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@swabygames “Oh, thanks for the offer! Turns out that there’ll be a delay, though. I’ll text you when I know a date. Sorry…. gotta run now!” [Introverts need to have a prepared script ready for every possible social scenario!]
      No one who knows me will be surprised when they never actually hear from me, despite my promise to follow up. “Hmm, has she moved to Sweden? Tasmania? Maybe she was crushed to death trying to move that piano…” 😉

    • @swabygames
      @swabygames 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@altitudeiseverything3163 lol I like the having a script as backup plans. Good idea. You could also say "I have decided to donate everything, so I dont really need help anymore. But thanks for the offers".

  • @themuslimlady9509
    @themuslimlady9509 2 ปีที่แล้ว +183

    Books! At school I was so absorbed by the books' just to avoid interaction. I ended up being more mature and educated than most of my peers. Even people who liked me were intimidated to approach me. So, yeah, books double the effect of avoiding people and dying alone in peace. Recommend 100% 👍🌱

    • @spiritualsnail1584
      @spiritualsnail1584 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Unfortunately whenever I read in middle school adults would harass me and tell me to go socialize 🥲
      When you're an adult tho, it's the opposite effect. People are either curious, or have read what you read and take is as an invitation to discuss it. Even if they don't end up talking to you, you'll get a lot of attention : people contemplating the cover, trying to read the title, or literally reading with you over your shoulder, intense happy glances from old people who thought kids these days were obsessed with phones, knowing looks from people who know the book you're reading, and so on lol

    • @themuslimlady9509
      @themuslimlady9509 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@spiritualsnail1584 haha you are so on point about elederly people 😂 it's true, adulthood is the same game but on a harder level. So, you need to play it like a pro, with cheatcodes. For example, in university I would go to silent area where people chew you out for breathing louder. It's a safe haven. On the street I carry some books with me, walk with important face and high speed. If someone wants to interact with me I can just pretend to be busy and leave them just after "Hi". Also, paradoxically it may sound, but you should act like an extrovert. Because, people are more attracted and get curious about introverts as they don't reveal too much about themselves. Forbidden fruit is always sweeter huh 🙄 For example, I am INFP but sometimes need to act like ESTJ, so people wish not to deal with me lol
      Follow my advice only if you don't want any human being intervene your dying process which is sometimes labelled by extroverts as "life" 🌱

    • @trackee2024
      @trackee2024 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Except when you accidentally laugh out loud from a book or start to cry, and then people have to know what you’re reading because they’re baffled that people can have emotional reactions to books.

    • @spiritualsnail1584
      @spiritualsnail1584 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@trackee2024 Please cackling out loud while reading is a curse I can't get rid of 🤣

    • @trackee2024
      @trackee2024 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@spiritualsnail1584 Glad I’m not alone! I read “Here I Am” by JSF recently, and man was I ugly crying in public.

  • @withstarsvini
    @withstarsvini 2 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Every single video is getting one level up

  • @Carol_65
    @Carol_65 2 ปีที่แล้ว +317

    “If you ever accidentally gazed at the stars…” 😁 I REALLY like the voice over.👍 Was there a bit of Casey Kasem there?

    • @imastarboy
      @imastarboy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh Carol u ..you

    • @CaveyMoth
      @CaveyMoth 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      INFP: "Hey, in fact, I'm taking a picture of those stars."
      No U Carol U

    • @imastarboy
      @imastarboy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@CaveyMoth wait what!

    • @CaveyMoth
      @CaveyMoth 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@imastarboy INFPs are said to love taking pictures of the sky

  • @linndale6767
    @linndale6767 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Problem with headphones is that some people STILL try and talk to me even when I'm wearing them and I clearly don't want to talk

    • @nightowl257
      @nightowl257 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yeah, sometimes they don't notice mine, but still try to talk to me anyway even after they realize (i.e. I point to them) and it's such a hassel to turn of the noise counselation and pause the music all the time

    • @merenwen4495
      @merenwen4495 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I just pretend I don’t see them or hear them

    • @brauliozt8754
      @brauliozt8754 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Oh I know that very well. I used to wear headphones in HS, and some guys would literally take them off my head just to talk to me.

    • @NuiYabuko
      @NuiYabuko 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@brauliozt8754 Rude. They could just show that they want to say something.

    • @merenwen4495
      @merenwen4495 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@brauliozt8754 I would probably have punched them in the face if they did that 🤣

  • @Crysta1986
    @Crysta1986 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    "I wonder if those aren't stars up there at all, but a map to get out of this place" - Erin Van Buren

  • @effiethefey
    @effiethefey 2 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    Well, well, well.... You, Frank, have just provided me and other contact-craving extroverts with a complete list of places to look for introverts to adopt! **evil laughter**

    • @evobrand1210
      @evobrand1210 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Nah, adopting is to much work and I would forget feedibg them, but hugging would be nice

    • @user-mc5vy2vk5n
      @user-mc5vy2vk5n 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@evobrand1210 don't worry, we are cautious folks anyway, not accepting food from everyone who offers it.
      Edit: I was so focused on the food that I forgot the hugging part. If you have to, do it fast and don't squeeze us too much. Some us behave like cats when squeezed.

    • @evobrand1210
      @evobrand1210 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@user-mc5vy2vk5n i once had an introvert INFP trying to hug my cat, such a hilarious sitiuation

    • @kaliah1494
      @kaliah1494 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Time to hunt for an introverted boyfriend to adopt.

    • @evobrand1210
      @evobrand1210 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kaliah1494 good luck

  • @Gintoki881
    @Gintoki881 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    This parody of “Top (…)” is so genius and accurate 👏👌

  • @calebchen4988
    @calebchen4988 2 ปีที่แล้ว +213

    "Live with the wolves"
    Me, an introvert and a furry: *I see this as an absolute win.*

    • @joon-young9589
      @joon-young9589 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      we can’t expect the god to do all the work 🔫

    • @Zabulus
      @Zabulus 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@joon-young9589 why not? if god is all powerful, he can do all the work effortlessly, unlike us, therefor, we can expect god to do all the work imaginable

    • @HandleDisliker
      @HandleDisliker 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Zabulus You... you do realize that what you suggest would be like if we made a toy and suddenly the toy started commanding us to make his life more comfortable, right? I really don't think most of us would obey like a servant.
      Why He gave His life for us though, is beyond me.

    • @june.w.1288
      @june.w.1288 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      There are people who actually did this. I watched a docu about it. Now I googled it again, here are the facts: a man called Werner Freund lives with 29 wolves on his estate in Merzig, Germany. It is called Werner Freund Wolf park. Gotta visit it sometime.

    • @Zabulus
      @Zabulus 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@HandleDisliker I'm just saying he has the power to make anything happen, therefor we can expect him to shape the world and people as he wills = "doing all the work".

  • @lebronjames9904
    @lebronjames9904 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m currently hiding in my room with headphones, avoiding my moms friends.
    You know sometimes i think I’m my own unique person, but then some random TH-cam video perfectly describes my situation while millions of people comment on how this is “so relatable” . I’ve come to realise that while we are so unique in many ways, at our core we are just the same as everyone else.
    And that’s okay.

  • @silver-jc4ix
    @silver-jc4ix 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    The absolute combo for me is headphones and a book, sometimes someone will ask you "how can you read and listen to music at the same time?" but you can just answer them with a nonchalant "I don't know, it works for me" and keep reading the same paragraph eight times more

  • @ArtistIntuiting
    @ArtistIntuiting 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    ''It's always nice to stop and smell the roses while you're knee deep in a cactus field'' 😂 I like the way you did the ostrich one too 😄 clever lol

    • @Izabela-ek5nh
      @Izabela-ek5nh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I loved those too :)

    • @ArtistIntuiting
      @ArtistIntuiting 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Izabela-ek5nh He comes up with some good ideas lol 😊

    • @Izabela-ek5nh
      @Izabela-ek5nh 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ArtistIntuiting good. I know all about the mbti now and some life hacks can be more useful 😂

    • @greatwavefan397
      @greatwavefan397 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What about that Japanese island with all the cats?

  • @aliisy9194
    @aliisy9194 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Frank : quiet confines in bedroom as number 2
    Me in a shared bedroom with 3 other siblings: 👁👄👁

    • @emmjh
      @emmjh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      My condolences 🤜🤛

    • @matthewgibbs6961
      @matthewgibbs6961 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm in the same boat as you, i also share a bedroom with my three siblings.

    • @ridirih9807
      @ridirih9807 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow, even though I was the youngest kid, I was soooo messy that I always got my own room. No one wanted to share with me! Only an option if a separate room is available though, sorry 😢

    • @ridirih9807
      @ridirih9807 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Here’s what we did for our 3 daughters when they had to share a rather large room. Everyone got a loft bed and underneath there was a desk, chair, bookcase, and I made curtains that you could pull across on a tension rod. If the curtains were pulled, you couldn’t bother them. Luckily, all 3 were introverted, so worked pretty well. When we moved, gave everyone her own room annually and the other 2 had to share. It can be hard when your house is small.

    • @aliisy9194
      @aliisy9194 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ridirih9807 indeed. I have a guest bedroom. There's a bed there, so I use it and making it my new sleeping place. Since it's COVID season, and no one is coming home and sleep for the night, this is my place now lol...

  • @SophieBird07
    @SophieBird07 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Might I add, surround yourself with cats. Brave being the crazy cat lady in the neighborhood.
    Faking hearing loss, forcing people to repeat themselves works well too.

  • @lost9050
    @lost9050 2 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    KKKKKKKKKKKKK OH my god, this video is pure art.
    The transition of images with a lot of funny faces and the video style messing with top 10 videos (it could tag so many channels), and the escalation of absurdities (in the first two I said ''ok, I do that every day'', and when said ''buy an island'' I was almost on the floor laughing) makes the whole thing a masterpiece.
    This is one of the best videos I've seen on TH-cam lately, and it's not lip service

    • @HandleDisliker
      @HandleDisliker 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ... I feel like a lot of people will disagree with you in that this type of editing and format is actually really easy to pull off.
      Don't get me wrong, it's fine in that (a) it's easier on (in this case) Frank James, (b) a lot of bigger channels do this format, and (c) people tend to love this format anyway, but it's at this stage where I begin to drift away from these TH-cam channels. They just lose their spark as TH-cam becomes a job instead of a hobby, and I really don't like it when it inevitably happens.
      Not saying that Frank James is losing the spark yet though. This looks like a "probing" video to test people's reactions to the change.

    • @lost9050
      @lost9050 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@HandleDisliker Hi James, how are you?
      I don't know, I could be wrong, but I didn't feel that he was testing the model to use on the channel, seems like he used the format to, at the same time, joke about this type of video (no disrespect) and using the creative process to laugh at what we as an introvert do to avoid contact with other people (and the ending shows how unhealthy this can be)
      And on the contrary, I don't think it's easy, so that's why that I stated how creative the video was, a compliment from the heart, because I thought it was brilliant, that kind of soft irony, finesse, and elegance, you know? Top-notch humor, Monty Python would be proud
      Cause if he would truly intend to put this format in this channel, he wouldn't use so many funny faces as mocking with it. But it could be a type of video, not the whole channel, just like 16 Personalities doing xxxxxxx.

    • @lost9050
      @lost9050 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@HandleDisliker And I agree with you, a lot of channel get lost over time to offer something more commercial.
      But I haven't seen it yet (and I hope never) here. Frank has changed a lot over time, both in terms of work (acting, lighting, script etc) and personal apparently, and that makes me happy and proud.
      Do I miss the old videos just with long conversations about philosophy, life, religion, etc? Yes, they were my favourites, they made me feel like I was sitting in a chair talking to him in the cafeteria. But I also support him to evolve and discover new facets within himself. So let it be, let it be, let it be

    • @Izabela-ek5nh
      @Izabela-ek5nh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You laughed on "buy an island" but the "no shower part" before was perfectly fine...? :)

    • @lost9050
      @lost9050 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Izabela-ek5nh at this point I was shaking on my chair as a pinscher being tickled kkkkkkkkkkkkk
      And the next one get me on my floor

  • @gongoozleriam9783
    @gongoozleriam9783 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    This is hilarious, I especially loved him taking the long way in the forest and desert to get to the mailbox or other places avoiding people lol

  • @333invitado
    @333invitado 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    This was hilarious. The voice over and the expressions 😂😂😂👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👌🏻 Omg!!! So. On. Point!!! 😂😂😂 I really needed this today. Thanks FJ! You truly get us introverts

  • @Nina21_
    @Nina21_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    The fact that you did the voice over in the ''Bright Side'' style (and those channels who give life hacks) made it even funnier 😂 i'm loving the creativity & we want a video about what to do in Dallas airport please 😂

    • @Carol_65
      @Carol_65 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He has an old video taken 'at' the Helsinki airport.🙂😉

  • @znep2751
    @znep2751 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It never ceases to amaze me how many people just DON'T GET THE MESSAGE that headphones are supposed to send.

  • @siamesedreamsx
    @siamesedreamsx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    "PEOPLE:
    they're not _ideal_ ,
    but like it or not,
    _they're here to stay_ "
    Swiper the fox 🦊:
    _"Awwwwww maaaaaaaaan!"_

  • @jonesasher9240
    @jonesasher9240 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    "AVOID running into people that you went to middle school with"
    -Frank James

  • @maggieizaya465
    @maggieizaya465 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    #2-hiding in your room. This works untill the people just BARGE INTO YOUR ROOM UNANNOUNCED and think that is a perfectly normal thing for people to do

  • @nityapallavi3126
    @nityapallavi3126 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I think "living with the wolves" will use all of my energy. I mean we have to hunt in PACK , recite forest rules TOGETHER, always have to run after mowgli to see what he's up to. It's pretty much demanding. I pass

  • @julianagrantzmusic
    @julianagrantzmusic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    After binge-watching bad American Idol/X-Factor audition videos…I think you should do 16 Personalities On American Idol! As an ENFP I am very concerned/excited about what that would look like. Anyways, I love your channel so much (and you’re really cute and absolutely hilarious).

    • @audraviolin1715
      @audraviolin1715 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yesss that's a great idea!!! -A random ISFP

    • @k-poppers7505
      @k-poppers7505 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      im an enfp

  • @janag4996
    @janag4996 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    that explains why I don't entirely manage to keep everyone away from me: because I still do number 10 too often. Thank you for the tip I will try to avoid this even more and concentrate more on tips 1 to 4.

  • @animatorireenie8319
    @animatorireenie8319 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Finally an actually useful "Top 10" video.

  • @fortune_roses
    @fortune_roses 2 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    INTJ... instead of getting to know people, literally I do tarot readings for people based on MBTI :) *getting to know people* but from an introverted distance and based on their "classification" :D

    • @piccolopagalingling6284
      @piccolopagalingling6284 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      as an intp, analyzing people's mbti from a distance is pretty much the only way i get to know them too😅 and yesh it's the superior way to do so

    • @fortune_roses
      @fortune_roses 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@piccolopagalingling6284 yes! Haha agreed :)

    • @sybrandwoudstra9236
      @sybrandwoudstra9236 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      1. Has these traits.
      2. must be this type.
      3. Shit, lost the manual, well fuck.

    • @abbiehudson4481
      @abbiehudson4481 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That rocks. Will you do mine?!

  • @madmarlowe1422
    @madmarlowe1422 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Does anyone else feel a sense of terror when there is a knock at the door?

  • @janettebiggs4550
    @janettebiggs4550 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I love the end. We are created for relationship with each other. Loving those around you, even if they are different is difficult but important. Even though it is draining to interact with people it is beneficial. We can’t stay hidden away forever. Frank, you should consider doing a small video on the different types of love there are and how different personality types interact. I am talking about the four types of love, the ones the Greeks defined, not the love languages we talk about today.

  • @INFPinnerg
    @INFPinnerg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Headphones are such a part of me. When I pick a profile pic sometimes I chuckle at the thought/myself that I have no “good” pics where I’m not wearing them 🤷🏽‍♀️😅💜🎧

  • @ry8880
    @ry8880 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Number 2 & 4 are the best options for me.
    My room is always the safest and the most comfortable place to spend time all day 🤣 Drink lots of water is the best to do to make an excuse to get another safest place when I'm not home or in public 🤣

  • @jennifermartinez8550
    @jennifermartinez8550 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sometimes I think I'm invisible, or at least, unapproachable. We had a meeting today and someone was coming down the aisle on the left greeting people. He greeted the two rows in front of me, skipped my row (and I was seating all the way on the left, so he definitely ignored me) and then proceeded to greet the row in back of me. I was like "there goes my invisibility cloak again". Most of the time I don't mind it and am glad for it, but sometimes it saddens me a little.

  • @Mac90820
    @Mac90820 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This guy really made his niche in introvert skits. Not sure if I’m concerned, annoyed, or impressed he pulled it off

  • @wgv929
    @wgv929 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How are you not on a sitcom, in the movies or otherwise famous? With your good looks, nice voice and excellent delivery, you can go wherever you want.

  • @crisscross180
    @crisscross180 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omg I kept trying to drink my coffee while watching this, but I had to stop too many times because I was legit laughing out loud at all of these 🤣

  • @BustedGiant
    @BustedGiant 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The thing that really makes me laugh is all the cheesy stills Frank took of himself in front of a green screen! 😂

  • @ryuzakihideki6851
    @ryuzakihideki6851 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My teacher used to tell me this phrase:
    "There's no amount of telling people what to do when they have to discover it for themselves."
    I guess, the long and inconvenient route is a gold mine :) 🏆

  • @rachaelbarnes7093
    @rachaelbarnes7093 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "hide in your room" literally me rn lol

  • @withstarsvini
    @withstarsvini 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    After binge watching this for 10 more times, I will head to my kdrama

  • @linndale6767
    @linndale6767 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Sticking my head in the sand like an ostrich! Brilliant! Why why hadn't I thought of that?

  • @KingcoleIIV
    @KingcoleIIV 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The keeping the bladder topped off until it's ready to explode had me cracked up. I used to do this without even realizing it.

  • @halfbloodprince2610
    @halfbloodprince2610 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Gazing at the stars, thinking about our existence... Seems like a deja vu to me

  • @TheFelixverse
    @TheFelixverse 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The tips start typical and then descend into chaos, 10/10

  • @katmgorska
    @katmgorska 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I got new headphones just today 🙂🎧
    editing here is great!

  • @LeoSunScorpioMoon
    @LeoSunScorpioMoon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I absolutely love spending the 3 minutes (or less) interacting with people that comes through our store’s drive thru! Absolutely enjoy our conversations.

  • @dani83red
    @dani83red 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "People, they're not ideal" 😆

  • @jrsydvl7218
    @jrsydvl7218 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You could also pull the ol' switcheroo and practice the opening chords to Wonderwall and watch the room clear out to leave you alone.

  • @cherry03512
    @cherry03512 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    headphones are basically glued to my ears, i spend pretty much all of the time i'm not in school in my room/at home and once i've wandered around in some town i didn't even know for half an hour because i didn't want to be early to an appointment... it worked.

  • @wendyg.2664
    @wendyg.2664 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Frank, I adore you. 😍 This video just made my day! Loved your poses, voiceovers, and of course, these 10 very helpful tips! 💜

  • @Aurora-rs9lj
    @Aurora-rs9lj 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Haha, I love this! Different style of video than you usually do and it's great!

  • @sunniharrison9639
    @sunniharrison9639 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow i just thought about number ten today. I struggle between, "talking to people takes some work, but what if i actually like the other person and they become my new best friend? Or what if i dont and i end up regretting making an effort talking to them?" The struggle is real

  • @timotheegoulet1511
    @timotheegoulet1511 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Frank James, I've been watching your Content for a few years now, and you Know What? You're a Complete Nut bro - Kudos!!!

  • @Dolores.Umbridge
    @Dolores.Umbridge 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "we don't recommend abstaining from showers for more than a couple years" 👌👌👍

  • @Chierushi
    @Chierushi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dude, Frank James, I saw you in an ad that played on a Wenzes (INFJ life coach) video and I was so delighted! Congrats!

  • @withstarsvini
    @withstarsvini 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow 😳 Frank you are frankly my favourite TH-camr from the day I visited your channel

  • @uncarbonated
    @uncarbonated 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Honestly, he could be a voice actor for an infomercial.

  • @overhaul360
    @overhaul360 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    half the time I'm just staring at my phone, doing nothing, because I don't want anyone to greet me or try to start a conversation with me, even worse make accidental eye contact with me.

  • @Tumpz
    @Tumpz 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Reminds me of the last year of school, everyone knew what they were going to do, overwhelming amount of extroverts, I ended up always answering their annoying "so, what are you going to be?" questions with simply saying "Hitman", quite effective and made some of them avoid me for some time.

  • @Wesda
    @Wesda 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    another tip - if you ever feel obliged to catch up with a friend, invite them to hang out at the very last moment so they will more likely have other plans and say no

  • @heatherholt4136
    @heatherholt4136 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved this! Also your word of the week was amazing and made me think of you because you have been like tweezers pulling out a splinter I have been dealing with for years since I was in grade school as well as what I have been dealing with for the past year I felt like I was frozen! I also know your not a licensed doctor but you have helped me so much more than any doctor ever has so I don’t feel like I need to talk to a doctor anymore although things will never be perfect they are so much better now! So thank you!

  • @candice6272
    @candice6272 ปีที่แล้ว

    Frank be delivering introvert social escape route alternatives like a vacation must-visit list CF 😂

  • @ammo6261
    @ammo6261 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really needed these precious informations thanks

  • @immadario9613
    @immadario9613 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    In this exact moment an old friend friend of mine invited me to hang out with and her friends, and I'm doing everything to not go, I used the excuse "I have to take my dog out for a walk"

  • @sanyayaaar
    @sanyayaaar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Is there really a video on top 10 things to do on the Airport while on your way to the mailbox?😍😍😂

  • @Den_Ekte_Troldskogen
    @Den_Ekte_Troldskogen 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks. Putting my head in the ground really worked! And as an added bonus, people say im special now too!

  • @syee797
    @syee797 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a talented infj James... I love your vo and your hillarious acting

  • @quirogatnonerrat3214
    @quirogatnonerrat3214 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hahaha, your sales person voice is amazing! 😍

  • @bunnysoo47
    @bunnysoo47 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you I needed this

  • @StefaniRd
    @StefaniRd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “People - they’re not ideal but like it or not, they’re here to stay.” lol exactly
    #10 is a hard pill to swallow. sad but true. I wish I could be happy being 100% alone but I unfortunately always miss my favorite humans eventually. they make me happier in therapeutic doses.

  • @adelinec.789
    @adelinec.789 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    A must-have I would say ! Already tested some of them of course, we must be creative in anxious situations 🤔 thanks man 👍

  • @inaivanova3345
    @inaivanova3345 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Frank, your channel is awesome! You really understand introvert nature.. Thank you so much for always making feel good. I just can't stop laughing.. 🤣😂 Sending love from Bulgaria! ❤️🙏🙃🇧🇬

  • @lety04
    @lety04 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lol love it,I needed this,thanks XD

  • @simplyme7821
    @simplyme7821 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent video! Loved it. Carly

  • @edoardodepiccoli3004
    @edoardodepiccoli3004 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this video is just pure art

  • @bluewren65
    @bluewren65 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I once had a work colleague who kept bugging me to go to her party. I just told her: I don't socialise.

  • @mohneeshsharma
    @mohneeshsharma 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank bro... really life saving

  • @edhenn9934
    @edhenn9934 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Lmao. I do all of these except the Head in the sand myth, and Wolfpack. But here’s one I utilize often. Do your homework on the crowd, and talk adamantly about those topics, that they’re against. But, with genuine emotion, to where it comes off, that you’re not trying to be mean. Or obnoxious, so they’ll make the excuse, and leave your area for the time being. It can work so well, that people will sometimes just straight up, make sure they’re no where near your conversations. The trick is, is to not get angry if someone starts trying to throw down. To talk them down, and or have the crowd remove them, without their knowing that you just used them to do so. I call it, Playing The Jester.

    • @ls_waifu2789
      @ls_waifu2789 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Love it! Thanks bro! Imma use it lol

  • @bronx5847
    @bronx5847 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow, Frank! A voiceover worthy of Mojo Travel! Bravo!

  • @palalba882
    @palalba882 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hahahhahahahah! Oh my!!! That's me!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂 Thank you Frank!!!! 😂😂😂 it was a really funny video

  • @LLL.143
    @LLL.143 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "This list saved my life! I have this problem of suddenly being into people and I don't know what to do! Fortunately, this exists. Thanks, Frank!" 😂😂😂
    Also, the list getting worse/crazier (except for the last one for me), the writing and deliverance-- so fun, i love it! xD

  • @micandrea
    @micandrea 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "Live with the wolves" I would definitely do that, thanks for your advice

  • @mariafaz9117
    @mariafaz9117 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    thank you, i will be using this everyday. frank is the one and only person who make me smile:)

  • @betz5359
    @betz5359 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Incredible👏👏😂 also this video reminded me of those videos you were complaining about years ago in your 'Stolen infj content' video. Just the style of the video of course, all these tips are 100% original and probably personally tested and guaranteed by FJ™

  • @AndersWatches
    @AndersWatches 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Spot on 😂😂

  • @user-lt4zh9cu1z
    @user-lt4zh9cu1z 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nowadays my number one excuse for not meeting people is online classes
    Everytime everywhere 24/7: SPECIAL ONLINE CLASSES

  • @snarkynsane
    @snarkynsane 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love ya FJ!