Don't worry you will be back here and next time with a better akashic accuity, so learn this stuff and you will know intuitively how to go about dating next time you're here. You will have a new body and fresh start, unless you change your gender.
Not only do I feel more confident and better about myself, her attraction towards me has been growing exponentially. Your videos have made my relationship manageable for me. I’m divorced 3 years and was struggling with dating. I was likely gonna screw up my current relationship with my neediness and insecurities. You made me realize how much I have to offer someone and that they should offer me something as well. The relationship is approaching 6 months now and I see a future with this women. I’ve learned not to ramble on to fill in gaps and I’ve noticed she will pick up the conversation if I stop talking and take a breath. She has no idea I watch these videos, but I can tell by the way she behaves around me now that she’s excited to be with me. Thank you for these videos
It's cute how you say "we" like you're one of the guys and also when you look away from the camera for a glance. Also this is a great video! We need more TH-camrs like you
Apollonia, you are simpy super expert in explaining the mindset, behaviour and differences between the sexes. I wish that I'd have learned these advices already some decades ago from you. But, it's never too late for me. Thank you!
Challenging her is the best method I think because you don't came off as needy and you show that you are above or at same level at her and it also makes her to do work
Apollonia you yourself have great body language. Your non-verbal queues are always on point. The way you speak with your hands and convey your message by motioning even with you facial expressions is very convincing, and persuasive.
As a woman, I find it incredibly sexy when there is silence after having bonded with a joke or saying something not too serious that is bonding. A sexy glance at their eyes and mouth and sparks can definitely fly!
Excellent tips to know, Coach. I ain't finna front, sometimes I do come off too nervous, so thanks for talking through these points. As they say, knowledge is power--and wisdom is the application of knowledge. Now that I know what's up...I know what to do (and NOT do) in times future.
I am not nervous I have one brother and one sister one brother has passed away I have a mother and a father my father has passed away my mother will be here at the end of this month she is my lifeline I love her with all my heart and no one will stand in the way and no one will put her down just as I would think of the one who is my lover no one and I mean no one would put her down no one I love you Apollonia this is my story and it needs to facts
Apollonia, Thx for what you do! You are so calming... I am here to listen to you, I recently broke up with the woman of my life,, I am a divorced father of 2 young girls. I walked away, we were living together, after almost 4 yrs., but the short is that I will do anything to get her back, she “friend zoned” me....
your are very knowledgeable and I have experienced these faults..you explain how it exactly happens...you are amaizing!! hope you get rich from you tube
Wow. Very informative. I'm currently in a situation where I'm chatting to a girl from a dating site and we've been chatting for a lil over a week and she's talking bout wanting us to get our own place, which at 1st I thought, wow, I'm doing something right here because she seems like she got it all together but thinking bout it and listening to you it shows that she could be running from something. Red flag definitely picked up. Thanks for the tips as always Appolonia 👌💯
I really love your channel. Much of what you tell here I had been forgotten, and I have been falling back in old behavior. Now I have found your channel I feel myself crawling back out of the cage I have put myself in. Thank you for this.
I’m a submissive man and appreciate specific unique things from a woman. Yet I realize Apollonias methods help me accomplish capturing a woman’s love ... and then I let my fantasy’s and stuff ruin it. But actually getting the girl, this works
You've helped me an incredible amount. Thank you so much. I'll be feeling a certain way and you've got a video for it. It's like you know. Amazing lady.
Nice video, some psychology stuff being used, light negs. & even some PUA stuff. Nice video, keeping it simple, real, so easy to do! Its all about the energy you bring and reacting to her and pacing her with your energy also! Nice I just subscribed!
Huge thanks for you for making this video , I was wondering if you could talk in the future about the "sigma male" if that is possible, then again thank you for your work and time and best wishes.
As creatures dominated by their anterior cingulate gyruses, women are always on the lookout for signs of emotion from men. When delivered, they are usually grateful and respond positively.
There is something really cool about you Apolliana! I think you have a very cool grasp on psychology and how people work but the bottom line is you are teaching people how to become grounded, with that comes confidence and really owning yourself and being responsible to go with it. That is spiritual in my opinion.
The first point you say. Fake yourself. Show yourself as more than what you're. Is this what a man should do from start to get her? Fake it? What do you as a women find out when the man you met does not have the quality that he did when you first met? ATTRACTION DIES. doesn't it? BE REAL IF YOU WANT TO LAST is what I think is the best.
Hi Apollonia, I jave been following you channel for a bit and I am very happy that I found your channel. I am in a situation where I am a bit lost and I am wondering if I can talk to you about it in private?
I trust no ones opinion. If anyone thinks im weak. They just looking at their self and not me. Besides i dont care what they perceive. Ive still yet seen any woman that fits 100 percent of what i want.#Dont need your sympathy#
That awkward pause happened to me recently... I sly smiled, turned around, as I was walking away, I stopped, turned around facing her, and looked into her eyes and said: "say hello sometime... Don't be a stranger..." , and continued walking... When I turned around, she was still smiling... The problem was, this quarantine started shortly after and I didn't even have the chance to see her again...
Sometimes it is not that we talk a lot , problem is that if she's not talking You have to talk a little bit more or she will just feel bored and leave , We can't seem to win on this One , especially if You're one of the Good/Nice Men because if You don't talk You're boring and if You talk You talk too much and will use that as an excuse not to like You , Then she goes to the Bad Boy .
Nah boi, you just got no game. Focus on creating a connection and being your genuine self. Try going on a date doing things you like; E.G. I like video games and she does too so we hit the arcade and had a blast; first date we smoked a blunt talked about bud then talked about music on our way to dinner. Easy. Ask questions when she gives you cues like, She likes goth music, ask her about concerts she’s been too, etc. Be a nice guy, but be assertive.
Tugssanaa I’m jealous because you beat me to it. Apollonia is gonna make me an administrator once I prove how committed I am to helping her create all that great content she produces!
Hi Apollonia, I just don't like to talk to beautiful women, having self doubt and lacking confidence.😔 I realized I assume beautiful women won't be interested in me, as I may not be as good looking as a man to compare to her. Some good looking women usually go for good looking men, as they want their kids to be good looking too! Not all couples have great looking kids, if one parent is not that great looking themselves. 😭
Hi, Apollonia. Your videos help me a lot. I need your advice. Should I call her out on her hot and cold behaviour and other games or should I just do the same?
khriseagle Why would she do that bro? We are not here to be manipulative. We are here to have compassion for each other. Men should trust women and women should trust men.
You have to always remember that coaching advice may work, but there's always things that they won't tell you and will leave out. You have to dig into female nature and learn from it, then you can tweak certain advice/methods that coaches are putting out. One thing that will not change, is a woman's nature. She will always use hypergamy to her advantage! Not to discredit her advice, or say it won't be effective, just pointing out there's another side to the token.
You're doing well. Please don't fall for the comments done by mgtow and anti women guys who comment here asking you to address this or that. Majority of the men love women and don't want to one up with them.
Apollinia thank you for amazing advices, im using them in my daily basis , howeverI NEED YOUR HELP! :D What to do , when there is nothing to talk about? LIKE LITERALLY NOTHING, we have talked about anything , nd now we r stuck in the momentum of what to talk bout next...
2 things to do, 1. find new inspiration (job, career, journey) take new risk. This will give you something new and exciting to talk about 2. Disappear until she reach out to you and when it text or call keep it short
Every time I hear you, I wish I had known these things 40 or 50 years ago. You make me laugh at myself, what a gift you are. Thanks.
Mother nature is a mystery it can give second chances
Hello hope you are OK
Dang pops better holla at Miss Gladys
Don't worry you will be back here and next time with a better akashic accuity, so learn this stuff and you will know intuitively how to go about dating next time you're here. You will have a new body and fresh start, unless you change your gender.
@@kannanvramesh1985 p
"Don't give a mile if she wont give an inch"
That really hit hard. I need to work on that more
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I'm certainly working on that!
So do i
Not only do I feel more confident and better about myself, her attraction towards me has been growing exponentially. Your videos have made my relationship manageable for me. I’m divorced 3 years and was struggling with dating. I was likely gonna screw up my current relationship with my neediness and insecurities. You made me realize how much I have to offer someone and that they should offer me something as well. The relationship is approaching 6 months now and I see a future with this women. I’ve learned not to ramble on to fill in gaps and I’ve noticed she will pick up the conversation if I stop talking and take a breath. She has no idea I watch these videos, but I can tell by the way she behaves around me now that she’s excited to be with me. Thank you for these videos
Kudos mate for your happy relationship, I used to think we (men) don't need these kind of videos but I am also learning lots of things
Apolliana is like the sister we never had, giving us advice on life and relationships...
xoxoxo
💣
Tbh 😭😭
@@ApolloniaPonti he just put you in sisterzone
That's very true. Listening to her feels like I have a sister to talk to every day. Feels good. Cheers @Apollonia Ponti.
Don't tell women your life story on a first date, be a bit of a mystery and let them do more of the talking.
I can tell this is gonna work because when you became silent and was just looking at the views I uncontrollably smiled and felt comfortable
You never stop to teach us in regards to raise our values.way to go missi.keep sharing Apollonia.
Challenge herself, self integrity, banter, pacing yourself, confident mindset, you dont have to prove yourself
I appreciate these concise videos more than the hour long live videos. It's like going shopping and men have a list because it's concise
Mean listening all the time
It's cute how you say "we" like you're one of the guys and also when you look away from the camera for a glance. Also this is a great video! We need more TH-camrs like you
Apollonia, you are simpy super expert in explaining the mindset, behaviour and differences between the sexes. I wish that I'd have learned these advices already some decades ago from you. But, it's never too late for me. Thank you!
Defiantly bro
Apollonia - There is something about your delivery I enjoy...this is the second video I've watched of yours.
I can’t believe this is a free video! Thank you so much!
I’m glad I’m learning all of this at 18, thank you
Rock on!
Listen and question everything!
Tell her whats up and put it down with confidence, i love being straight up with women!!! Take control like a man and have fun!!!🤘❤🔥🤘
Challenging her is the best method I think because you don't came off as needy and you show that you are above or at same level at her and it also makes her to do work
Apollonia you yourself have great body language. Your non-verbal queues are always on point. The way you speak with your hands and convey your message by motioning even with you facial expressions is very convincing, and persuasive.
I struggle with the second point - working with silence
As a woman, I find it incredibly sexy when there is silence after having bonded with a joke or saying something not too serious that is bonding. A sexy glance at their eyes and mouth and sparks can definitely fly!
@@tricialn9317 😎
From Dating Coach to Dating Coach, much respect you !!! -Black Book Basics-
Excellent tips to know, Coach. I ain't finna front, sometimes I do come off too nervous, so thanks for talking through these points. As they say, knowledge is power--and wisdom is the application of knowledge. Now that I know what's up...I know what to do (and NOT do) in times future.
yeah your right, too many guys are scared to challenge a woman, really can't understand why
I am not nervous I have one brother and one sister one brother has passed away I have a mother and a father my father has passed away my mother will be here at the end of this month she is my lifeline I love her with all my heart and no one will stand in the way and no one will put her down just as I would think of the one who is my lover no one and I mean no one would put her down no one I love you Apollonia this is my story and it needs to facts
I’m actually a gay woman and I still don’t understand women sometimes Apolliana helps me too. Thank you
Oh thats cool, I love it that she does this for us its life changing
Have of the time I don't understand myself (:
More facts to y'all being crazy
Awesome video! Proud of your growth, authority and authenticity. You are an inspiration form many, love to interview you on a podcast. Greetings!
She does have a awesome video
Thank you so much for the video I lost many good women now I will be ready on the right time
Apollonia, Thx for what you do! You are so calming... I am here to listen to you, I recently broke up with the woman of my life,, I am a divorced father of 2 young girls. I walked away, we were living together, after almost 4 yrs., but the short is that I will do anything to get her back, she “friend zoned” me....
your are very knowledgeable and I have experienced these faults..you explain how it exactly happens...you are amaizing!! hope you get rich from you tube
Wow. Very informative. I'm currently in a situation where I'm chatting to a girl from a dating site and we've been chatting for a lil over a week and she's talking bout wanting us to get our own place, which at 1st I thought, wow, I'm doing something right here because she seems like she got it all together but thinking bout it and listening to you it shows that she could be running from something. Red flag definitely picked up. Thanks for the tips as always Appolonia 👌💯
I really love your channel. Much of what you tell here I had been forgotten, and I have been falling back in old behavior. Now I have found your channel I feel myself crawling back out of the cage I have put myself in. Thank you for this.
I love her channel too
You really hit the nail on the head. I have learned a lot from you. You are a God send
Great advice Apollonia especially your last tip. Allah bless you Apollonia.
I’m a submissive man and appreciate specific unique things from a woman. Yet I realize Apollonias methods help me accomplish capturing a woman’s love ... and then I let my fantasy’s and stuff ruin it. But actually getting the girl, this works
You are incredible love! These 9 ways to spark romantic tension are SPOT ON :)
If I’m not there, I am close. Fun to watch. Thanks!
Glad you enjoyed it!
You've helped me an incredible amount. Thank you so much. I'll be feeling a certain way and you've got a video for it. It's like you know. Amazing lady.
xoxoxo
Im using this tips that she gave me
@@ApolloniaPonti xoxoxo Apollonia point
Thanks Apolonia for your wonderful good advice.
Nice video, some psychology stuff being used, light negs. & even some PUA stuff. Nice video, keeping it simple, real, so easy to do! Its all about the energy you bring and reacting to her and pacing her with your energy also! Nice I just subscribed!
Happy Sunday HomeGirl !!
Really enjoyed the video!!! Thank you Apollonia...
Wow! This topic is so wonderful,thanks ponti.
She needs to show she's worth my time. Had too much false hope after all these years 🥱
Love your advice! Your a TRUE gem ❤
Im watching this you tube video twice.!
You are fantastic...I watch many of your presentations multiple times...I always learn something or reinforce an idea...thank you 😊
Huge thanks for you for making this video , I was wondering if you could talk in the future about the "sigma male" if that is possible, then again thank you for your work and time and best wishes.
As creatures dominated by their anterior cingulate gyruses, women are always on the lookout for signs of emotion from men. When delivered, they are usually grateful and respond positively.
Good stuff apollonia.
Excellent tips, Apollonia.
Love your content Apollonia!
this channel is great! Awesome advice for self improvement
Happy to hear that!
@@ApolloniaPonti Good morning sweetheart .I hope your day is good .You look real nice today ..
There is something really cool about you Apolliana! I think you have a very cool grasp on psychology and how people work but the bottom line is you are teaching people how to become grounded, with that comes confidence and really owning yourself and being responsible to go with it. That is spiritual in my opinion.
Fact
great .thanks apollonia
The first point you say. Fake yourself. Show yourself as more than what you're. Is this what a man should do from start to get her? Fake it? What do you as a women find out when the man you met does not have the quality that he did when you first met? ATTRACTION DIES. doesn't it? BE REAL IF YOU WANT TO LAST is what I think is the best.
Apollonia you are a very sweet woman in mind body and soul, you so sweet with virtue.
Wow I do everything you spoke on in this video
Confidence is the key
Awesome as usual...👍thanks ms, ponti.
I have a problem with having nothing to say.
great content and the deepest insight I've heard from anyone on this subject..... sub'd. Many thanks Apollonia
That is a good point
Such good advise!
Hi Apollonia, I jave been following you channel for a bit and I am very happy that I found your channel. I am in a situation where I am a bit lost and I am wondering if I can talk to you about it in private?
1.5x saves you time and gets you wise faster.
Thank you
Straight and on point!
You are extreme with politeness 👌
I trust no ones opinion. If anyone thinks im weak. They just looking at their self and not me. Besides i dont care what they perceive. Ive still yet seen any woman that fits 100 percent of what i want.#Dont need your sympathy#
That awkward pause happened to me recently... I sly smiled, turned around, as I was walking away, I stopped, turned around facing her, and looked into her eyes and said: "say hello sometime... Don't be a stranger..." , and continued walking... When I turned around, she was still smiling...
The problem was, this quarantine started shortly after and I didn't even have the chance to see her again...
You are always loved ❤️👋🏾😘
Sometimes it is not that we talk a lot , problem is that if she's not talking You have to talk a little bit more or she will just feel bored and leave , We can't seem to win on this One , especially if You're one of the Good/Nice Men because if You don't talk You're boring and if You talk You talk too much and will use that as an excuse not to like You , Then she goes to the Bad Boy .
Nah boi, you just got no game. Focus on creating a connection and being your genuine self. Try going on a date doing things you like; E.G. I like video games and she does too so we hit the arcade and had a blast; first date we smoked a blunt talked about bud then talked about music on our way to dinner. Easy. Ask questions when she gives you cues like, She likes goth music, ask her about concerts she’s been too, etc. Be a nice guy, but be assertive.
Appollonia been going hard in the paint!!! with these uploads 💯
LOL! Thank you.
6...
I’ve always been generous and try to be complimentary and kind.
Great video thank you
11:27...😀... yeah, I've done that one before...so you've talked about yourself all this time...whoa, yeah, that gets a response.
I love your smile :)
Good advice.
I never done this but.....here we go Firssttt
Tugssanaa I’m jealous because you beat me to it. Apollonia is gonna make me an administrator once I prove how committed I am to helping her create all that great content she produces!
I always go with one rule for sure , be real attract ur tribe !!
Hi Apollonia, I just don't like to talk to beautiful women, having self doubt and lacking confidence.😔
I realized I assume beautiful women won't be interested in me, as I may not be as good looking as a man to compare to her. Some good looking women usually go for good looking men, as they want their kids to be good looking too! Not all couples have great looking kids, if one parent is not that great looking themselves. 😭
You are a beautiful soul.
Thank you so much! So are you!
Good info
Hi, Apollonia. Your videos help me a lot. I need your advice. Should I call her out on her hot and cold behaviour and other games or should I just do the same?
I want to say may God bless you and your family your husband hallelujah hallelujah a man
Give me advice on how to find an older rich sugar momma
khriseagle Be careful what you wish for.
khriseagle Go where they are and be friendly. Don’t push it with them slow and steady
Nursing homes
🤣🤣🤣🤣😂
khriseagle Why would she do that bro? We are not here to be manipulative. We are here to have compassion for each other. Men should trust women and women should trust men.
Thank you coach
Waiting for someone to list the 9 things 😂
I’d be married by now if I knew about queen appolonia 15 years ago
Say things like wow that wasn't a narcissistic comment and then laugh and I guarantee she will too
You have to always remember that coaching advice may work, but there's always things that they won't tell you and will leave out. You have to dig into female nature and learn from it, then you can tweak certain advice/methods that coaches are putting out. One thing that will not change, is a woman's nature. She will always use hypergamy to her advantage! Not to discredit her advice, or say it won't be effective, just pointing out there's another side to the token.
I must say that you have been a great addition to my life, have learnt and grown from watching your videos. Love your content 👏🏽👏🏽
So am i
I was searching for this video 😂
Fan of you natalia and dan bacon
You're doing well. Please don't fall for the comments done by mgtow and anti women guys who comment here asking you to address this or that. Majority of the men love women and don't want to one up with them.
I swear im in love 😍.
Lots of love from India
Apollinia thank you for amazing advices, im using them in my daily basis , howeverI NEED YOUR HELP! :D
What to do , when there is nothing to talk about? LIKE LITERALLY NOTHING, we have talked about anything , nd now we r stuck in the momentum of what to talk bout next...
2 things to do, 1. find new inspiration (job, career, journey) take new risk. This will give you something new and exciting to talk about 2. Disappear until she reach out to you and when it text or call keep it short
Share first , ask questions later...
I love how ya videos jump right in. No dumb ass advertising videos. By the way i think ur dope.
lmao imagine going out on a date with Apollonia, NONE OF THESE TRICKS AND TIPS WOULD WORK LOL. She would catch on SOOOO FAST.
If Apollonia is with us, who can be against us!, lol.
Where’s the 35 steps?