This coaching video, without a doubt, is the best of this young lady's Truthful offerings to us men. I commend her on her knowledge, wisdom, and wish I would have seen/heard this many yrs. Ago. I honestly believe that my good friend/Coach Tony Robbins, would agree with me on my comments. Thankyou Ms..Apollonia. I am a fan.
This woman is right in some ways....What is missing? Most young girls, sit on Daddy's Lap and they are told from a very, very young age by their Daddy, " Girls are Sugar and spice and everything nice" Hence, the superior attitude, many young woman have.Most Young men must "Battle" through the indifference shown to them,when they are young..Strong men =Battle....Many entitled woman= Daddy's Girl......
NAH .... you dont ask a fish how to fish genius............... the only reason abudance works is because you dont look desperate. simple as that. women dont know what they want. thats why they hate you one day and love you the other.
@@youtubevideos3963 Truth spoken..abdundant mentality saves a man from being desperate. It makes a man relaxed, happier, fulfilled and let go when she isn't making effort.
I learned about this after my last break up, I saw my flaws and insecurities and took responsibility for where I had weak mentalities. This is too true.🙌🏾
-Tom - If she rejected you disrespectfully you should just leave her and continue to move on positively to you’re goals or etc. Don’t do the same thing of what she did to you continue to respect other people with a positive mindset.
Have an abundance mentality men. That means, stop caring what women want from you because there's always another one that will expect less and still want to be with you.
It's not about NOT CARING, or GIVING LESS unless YOU want less. It's about having abundance enough to know your standards and also appreciating someone who has standards for herself too.
Anthony M I agree with you. The less you care, the more they do. Women DO NOT value men that pursue unless you’re a 10 or rich. Also dating is a numbers game. Men generally have to approach more women since majority of women only give chances to a select few.
12:24 Start of Seven Habit to Cultivate Abundance Mindset 01. Shift your brain to positivity 02. Know your standards and take pride for it 03. Practice gratitude on what you have in life 04. Your personal journey is different, stop comparing to others 05. Stop hiding in bubbles, live with purpose and build social momentum 06. Having emotional balance and control with abundance mindset, not scarcity mindset 07. Learn and understand attraction, invest in making yourself better physically, mentally, and emotionally
Thanks for this summary. Though it wasn't a walk in the park, but a testament as i appreciate a lot that I could figure these out on my own when i was still very young. Today, my woman crave me like an addict.
Even before I began achieving, I was broke but working towards my dreams, it was still enough to attract some amazing women. I truly believe it is a mindset. But a man must actually be willing to make the self-sacrifice and develop self-discipline. To actually find a man who is willing to do the work to change is rare. Most suffer from the greatest sin, Pride. See all the broke guys driving those leased BMR's? A self-made man isn't trying to impress anyone. Why would he? He doesn't need to prove anything to anyone. It's reflected in how he lives.
Where I live, guys don't lease BMRs. They buy Ferraris. Which means they buy women, as all men do. Great for those who can buy real beauty while it's fresh. The rest of us are learning not to be suckers any more. No gold diggers, but no fatties, either. Good luck, ladies.
This is me now I attract some amazing women while chasing my dreams running a business but I fuck it up Everytime which leaves me forever single. The dating stage doesn’t go anywhere. They end up losing interest because of me. I overthink too much. I move to fast.
She's not "one in a million", she's "one of a million," don't be afraid to be your own man without her. So when you do find her, she appreciates the man you've become on your own.
Let her be "one in a million"... With the world population being 7.8 Billion, (falsely) assuming a 50/50 male / female split and assuming 50 % being of legal age, there's still 1950 more than her even if she was "one in a million". So almost 2000 other "one in a million" available is enough for abundance :D
exactly !!! by dating, in the relationship, do 1 mistake and you are out of the game. why would you want to invest into a person that is not even able to love you ???
@@ApolloniaPonti Let's keep it real here: Most women aren't exactly into "struggle love". Very few are seemingly willing to get down in the trenches with a man and help him build from scratch, so I'll have to concur with Fernando on this one.
To have the scarcity mentality and then overcome it is beautiful!! Always remember: " The one who falls and gets up is so much stronger than the one who never fell" ;)
I finally get it its better to say there are more things that can make you happy than being mad over something you can not change just accept it and move forward love yourself more then anyone else
Love this! I'm 46 now and single. I'm finding myself in a constant state of nostalgia realizing all these little 'one-liner' perspectives I preached in the 90's haven't changed. I used to impress my friend's with my fearless approach to women, and my #1 saying was, "IT'S ALL IN THE NUMBERS"!!! I would say, if I get 10 phone numbers a weak, inevitably one of them will get me what I want, which, the goals have changed somewhat from hit and run to higher aspirations, but the mentality still makes sense. That's my takeaway but of course I'm writing instead of listening, guilty, but it's in this abundance I choose to have it all, some call it multi tasking, right now, i'm just being abundant. I love this word. I'm going to exploit it to gather all the positivity I can and then abundantly distribute this to others cause in-so-doing, my 'abundant value' skyrockets! 'The more abundance you give, the more abundance you keep' abundance as energy. Abundant joy, abundant gratitude. Is that your abundance, or are you happy to see me? I am independent, frugal and abundant, a living legend in my own mind, king of my own domain, volunteer, available between a given set of hours. Only on the market for a limited time. Chop chop ladies. If you want me at the finish line, make yourself seen. Abundant perspective. Abundant vibration, abundant love
Great video! Very truthful! I have finally found someone at my level! She is 8 years older but is successful in her own business. If it wasn't for my abundance mentality I wouldn't have attracted her into my life. Thank you for the video!
So an older woman who has been ran through, been around the block and decides to settle is now at your level? Common man.. Have some dignity and look for a woman who's 8 yrs younger. I mean when you were 20 she was 28.. I'd rather you be 28 and date a 20 yr old and mold her to become the woman you want.
A woman should never be your main focus. She is welcome in your life, and should be contributing to your well being. But DO NOT make her your main focus. Then you will be fine.
Giving a woman too much too quick is a bad thing. A woman only appreciates what she feel she deserves. She will never appreciate being put on a pedestal when she knows she doesn’t deserve it. That’s where I’ve gone wrong. Giving too much too quick.
There's this guy I almost dated. He explained that the main reason his past relationships didn't work was because they were disrespectful and they never valued him. As we started hanging out I realised this guy didn't even respect himself. I understood why it was soo hard for him to be respected by other women. I decided to break things off coz if I stayed I would have disrespected him too. Well, I was honest with him and told him why I couldn't be with him
@@taolang603 Well, 1. He had friends who didn't respect him (even publicly) but he still kept them and tolerated it 2. He couldn't express his opinion or stand on certain things (never figured whether it was due to lack of confidence, I don't know) 3. The guy would literally never stand up for himself. He wasn't assertive. 4. It was quite clear he didn't believe in himself and really insecure abt his potential and would sometimes make jokes like 'not everyone (referring to himself) can succeed in this world.' 5.he would not speak up and express his emotions when 'hurt' and would make excuses abt him not even attempting to go for his goals. Honestly it was EXTREMELY emasculating. It's very easy for a quality woman to respect a masculine guy regardless of his current social status.
Thank you for this!!! Looking back on some women I dealt with, I definitely had the scarcity mindset at times. I’m going to keep listening to you as a dating coach! Again, Thanks so much!
I am out there in public and at work where I have lots of contacts. These are all contacts through which I can talk and address things. People are drawn to my level of standards and I am very grateful to the people I meet. However, there is a problem. At my age of 64 years, it is hard to find a woman who could be my companion. It is very easy to talk to women, but it is more difficult to have her become my friend. It is almost impossible to have her on a date or become my girlfriend. They think I might be that creepy old guy.
You are amazing! I've learned so much from you today and now feel I have a real shot of attracting the woman of my dreams... P.S. Your hubby is truly a blessed man.
Another video full of wisdom, thanks Apollonia. Wouldn't the world be a different place if these teachings were taught in school, as part of the curriculum. Imagine how much smoother the world would be, people understanding other people.
I just subscribed to your channel because I see you for who you are. I watched a few of your videos and saw that you are genuine and honest. Qualities that I can align with. Thank you
Hey, trust me, you're doing a great job. I'm always happy listen to you. My suggestion.... Try to always *subtitle* ur videos in english for better understanding of your viewers.
Really good video it reminded me of some things that it took some time for me to learn. Some us men need time to grow and develop. One thing that I have learned is to be open to constructive counsel especially when it apply to you, it will help you to be a better person in many ways. This video helps men to do this. This is a video worth coming back and playing again to help stay on track. Thank you Apollonia
Apollonia when first learning and practicing Reiki, all the masters are female.When in a group session I was the only guy out of 8 or 9 participating.I found that females are more intuitive and are great to work with on spiritual level
Geeesh I feel attacked lmao you explained me and my situation right now. This is totally me and I hate it. I’m always pushing good women away and I’m very selective. So when one comes around that I really like I get obsessive, I start overthinking, I want all her attention, I want her to only talk to me and not date anyone else. I get very territorial it’s bad. I start planning things in my head. I start seeing a future with them so soon when I’m just getting to know them. And what makes this worst is that I haven’t dated in a year so feel the need to lock this woman down because she seems so perfect and different from others. I screw up everytime. I lose them every time. I’m starting to notice I am the problem. I’m almost 30. I still have more to learn smh.
Dating coaching, life coaching, between men and women is difficult. Our brains are different. The word abundance implies abundance of resources ie rich. Scarcity implies a scarcity of resources or poor. Yes, we all know that women like a driven, rich man. 50 shades of grey. Be more honest and direct. Don't beat around the bush. Say directly and brutally honestly what you mean.
Thought about this phrase abundance mentality. This is an interesting idea, but some what ambiguous. In simpler terms, men and women need to bring a healthy state of mind to the table. In all things, balance is important. If you place a women on a pedistal, you become a doormat, and vice versa. In the start of a balanced relationship, both the man and the woman bring equal energy. If it is a struggle to keep her interested, you should probably move on and find a more healthy woman who brings balance to the relationship dynamic.
It is not a woman's job to make a man happy, and it's not a man's job to make a woman happy. The number one reason why so many relationships today are failing is because of expectations. When your expectations are not being met, you start to blame the other person. In reality, you went into the relationship with unrealistic expectations in the first place. To make a relationship work, understand that you come together to create something, not expecting the other to solve your problems, whatever they may be. When you start to blame the other person for your unhappiness, you're actually being unfair. If you're not ready to commit to yourself and bring something into the relationship, you should not be in a relationship in the first place.
Dear Apollonia. A Porsche is an idolizing object. Idolatry is weakness. A women attracted to a man driving Porsche is attracted to a weakness. At first glance, he gets a women and she gets a person with abundance mentality. At second thought, a women gets an idolater, a person that lacks abundance mentality on a long run. When this becomes obvious, it is usually to late. A child is born under suboptimal, immature conditions for its childhood. We get a world with a few nice cars and many, many immature men and many, many sad women.
Was I the only one who noticed Apolonia's little gaffe in the 7th minute? No pun intended but i laughed so hard I woke my neighbors 🤣 "This is your last chance to look at this ass" 😂😂😂 Damn, I wasn't even looking... At the screen I mean 😂😂😂
I’m a pilot. I travel all over. If I’m forever showing abundance by walking away from my future wife after a hello instead of getting her number when I meet her, I’ll never actually meet my future wife. She’ll be left behind at the venue I will never be at again. As you know, it wets a woman’s panties when you walk away. It show abundance. It’s worked for me before. Well, I’m a pilot now and rarely EVER go to the same city enough to just “bump in to” the same woman twice.
I will say learning this method It really works. Think like a woman. Your emotional bonded and emotions. Can be handled more. Once you understand this u will unstannd why where or how they feel. Let's say if she ghost you I have been. It was something I said I texted her back in a few days I said I probably said something u didn't l I don't remember what . She said it ok so u want to date . What I said was Hey sexy honey come over here. Red flag. I said I'm so so sorry I said that I was wrong. See men u have to step up and own what u do wrong. Hey I own it so. I have a wonderful hi quality woman and dating and in the future of 223 getting married. It not hard.
I thank you for the videos that you do! Have you ever touched on relationships with people that have pre-existing mental conditions that makes it difficult for them to form or maintain a relationship?
I got rejected by hundreds of woman because bad behaviour, their bad behaviour and a lot of times because I am not their "type". I also had beautiful girlfriends where people said how can he have this and a very good woman too which I am befriended with now . It is not about how much or that you have but about that you find the right . ..
Hope this ""abundance mentality "" also includes later on fallout essentials, like huge payouts, creditline overspends, overborrowing to retain face, ( sort of window dressing) Later on inability to get in own monies, leading to problems with lenders penalties for late payments( if done at all), court cases in paybacks, a whole lot of abundance problems, finally to a yellow card plus ignominous exit
It sounds to me like you would attract a low quality woman that takes advantage of you. Have you experienced this in your own life, personally? If so, my suggestion to you is to look deep within yourself on why you would put yourself in these kind of circumstances in the first place. What kind of patterns would lead you to do this? An "abundance mentality" has nothing to do with reckless choices one makes in life and certainly not buying excessive material things one can't afford.... if you had an abundance mentality.... you wouldn't make such choices to compensate for something and choose a partner that would take advantage of you. An abundance mentality means you have options and you can be your genuine self and not put yourself in those kind of situations.... assess the patterns of why you would choose partners that could lead to such circumstances. And most importantly, don't attract gold diggers. Attract queens!
Hello Apolliona I have been following these sessions, some are a little of but most are very good . Could you do a session on dating a woman that has come out of an abusive relationship. Her mind is all over the place , which is to be expected.
women like a man with abundance mentality, because of pre-selection by other women, which serves as a shortcut for women to ensure youre a quality man, because womans fertility window is relatively short. I do like your content though - thank you
Dont want to just throw what I'm going through out there. But I would like some help. I'll say this. 9 years, 2 sons and I feel her slipping. And I feel I have to make a come back in our relationship.
Mrs. Apollonia, thanks for your video. My question is, what if you're mentality is that you're ok with meeting that special person, and you're ok with it not ever happening? I'm at that point that regardless of my outcome, I choose to love myself & enjoy life. Instead of chasing, I'm accepting that God has a beautiful plan. Is that a healthy outlook?
So basically women do not want any man who may need help. The man has to be financially, emotionally and physically in great shape. No wonder men like very young girls and only on a temporary basis.
Given that you're aware of how attraction works - does it still work on you? I mean, isn't part of what makes attraction work, not realizing how it works when it happens to you?
I’ve been watching these separation videos and they helped but now I decided to dig into this abundance video and I think it will be a game changer. I’m going to take her off of that pedestal with work and self care.
Ok so recently just broke up with a girl and I watched this video I used to have the abundance mentality when we met thats what drew her to me well as we dated and progressed I started to bc emotional invested and became the girl emotion wise bc I fell for her how now that she said I seemed crazy bc I didnt believe here time to time bc of the lies and times I caught her up in them when the truth wouldnt have been so hard.. what do I do what u said in this let her come back to me do me and if she loves me she'll come back even tho she got back with her ex. What is the root to get her too understand she messed up when she plays victim but when talking to me she sees somewhat of how she helped me think the way I did ... ?
What if the things you find enjoyment in doesn't include alot of people? Also what if you get accused of not being needy enough more than the opposite?
@@vaughnamir.6457 even though it may not be true, it helps with the mindset to move on easier. instead of sulking and wondering why she reject you like theres something wrong with you, its better to know that you have worth and she missed out on it. this will also help you move on quickly
Life is a relationship life is a journey a journey is a relationship believe it or not your relationship is more important than the people in the relationship just like the family the family is more important we say God country family or God family country contains you you were God country family you are the relationship plus and minus positive and negative right and left subject object
I am a woman entering a relationship with a man with an abundance mentality. It is highly attractive. I think this also works in reverse. Men appreciate a woman with an abundance mentality as well. I know myself well - my values, goals, my own very positive attitude. I am not a classic beauty, but never seem to have a difficult time attracting men. The difficulty has been finding the right one. I think I have, and we are moving forward. Men, find an abundance mentality and practice it daily. You will attract a similarly aligned woman. It may or may not be the first one you meet, but that's okay. Persevere! ♥️
This coaching video, without a doubt, is the best of this young lady's Truthful offerings to us men. I commend her on her knowledge, wisdom, and wish I would have seen/heard this many yrs. Ago. I honestly believe that my good friend/Coach Tony Robbins, would agree with me on my comments. Thankyou Ms..Apollonia. I am a fan.
This woman is right in some ways....What is missing? Most young girls, sit on Daddy's Lap and they are told from a very, very young age by their Daddy, " Girls are Sugar and spice and everything nice" Hence, the superior attitude, many young woman have.Most Young men must "Battle" through the indifference shown to them,when they are young..Strong men =Battle....Many entitled woman= Daddy's Girl......
NAH .... you dont ask a fish how to fish genius...............
the only reason abudance works is because you dont look desperate. simple as that.
women dont know what they want. thats why they hate you one day and love you the other.
@@youtubevideos3963 Truth spoken..abdundant mentality saves a man from being desperate.
It makes a man relaxed, happier, fulfilled and let go when she isn't making effort.
This one is so good .
My life has changed after watching these videos . I wish I would of known about this sooner .
I learned about this after my last break up, I saw my flaws and insecurities and took responsibility for where I had weak mentalities. This is too true.🙌🏾
She rejected me disrespectfully, I disrespected her by acting like she didn’t exist.
That’s a lil toxic but you did what was best for you. I’m proud of you Tom
Good job man
-Tom - If she rejected you disrespectfully you should just leave her and continue to move on positively to you’re goals or etc. Don’t do the same thing of what she did to you continue to respect other people with a positive mindset.
I did exactly that too and can't tell you how effective it turned out to be. She got crazy and now she is making efforts to get noticed.
Thank you all for support and positive comments, forget to mention, she is desperate for my attention and validation. I must do what I have to do.
Have an abundance mentality men. That means, stop caring what women want from you because there's always another one that will expect less and still want to be with you.
It's not about NOT CARING, or GIVING LESS unless YOU want less. It's about having abundance enough to know your standards and also appreciating someone who has standards for herself too.
Apollonia Ponti 💯
@@ApolloniaPonti ? youre waffling...''abundance enough to know......'' these are two different concepts
Anthony M I agree with you. The less you care, the more they do. Women DO NOT value men that pursue unless you’re a 10 or rich. Also dating is a numbers game. Men generally have to approach more women since majority of women only give chances to a select few.
Apollonia Ponti if you want less, you give me more. You want more, you give less. Make them crave the other pieces.
12:24 Start of Seven Habit to Cultivate Abundance Mindset
01. Shift your brain to positivity
02. Know your standards and take pride for it
03. Practice gratitude on what you have in life
04. Your personal journey is different, stop comparing to others
05. Stop hiding in bubbles, live with purpose and build social momentum
06. Having emotional balance and control with abundance mindset, not scarcity mindset
07. Learn and understand attraction, invest in making yourself better physically, mentally, and emotionally
Thanks for this summary.
Though it wasn't a walk in the park, but a testament as i appreciate a lot that I could figure these out on my own when i was still very young. Today, my woman crave me like an addict.
@@fh.7287 why?
Even before I began achieving, I was broke but working towards my dreams, it was still enough to attract some amazing women. I truly believe it is a mindset. But a man must actually be willing to make the self-sacrifice and develop self-discipline. To actually find a man who is willing to do the work to change is rare. Most suffer from the greatest sin, Pride. See all the broke guys driving those leased BMR's? A self-made man isn't trying to impress anyone. Why would he? He doesn't need to prove anything to anyone. It's reflected in how he lives.
I needed to read this.
Where I live, guys don't lease BMRs. They buy Ferraris. Which means they buy women, as all men do. Great for those who can buy real beauty while it's fresh. The rest of us are learning not to be suckers any more. No gold diggers, but no fatties, either. Good luck, ladies.
This is me now I attract some amazing women while chasing my dreams running a business but I fuck it up Everytime which leaves me forever single. The dating stage doesn’t go anywhere. They end up losing interest because of me. I overthink too much. I move to fast.
Where I'm from, dudes just jack cars on a reg.
She's not "one in a million", she's "one of a million," don't be afraid to be your own man without her. So when you do find her, she appreciates the man you've become on your own.
If she is one in a million, there are still 700,000 just like her.
On Point..
@@armanddimeo6575 Your math is off. It means there's 7,000 like her. The odds don't look so great now, do they?
Let her be "one in a million"... With the world population being 7.8 Billion, (falsely) assuming a 50/50 male / female split and assuming 50 % being of legal age, there's still 1950 more than her even if she was "one in a million". So almost 2000 other "one in a million" available is enough for abundance :D
Exactly
Men do all the work, women wait at the finish line to pick the winner.
exactly !!! by dating, in the relationship, do 1 mistake and you are out of the game. why would you want to invest into a person that is not even able to love you ???
Perhaps, but in that case they still have to wait until someone seeks them out. Both sides have their challenges. Many women don't get sought.
Mostly true
Wrong mindset. Women should be doing the work as well. If you believe this you will either do the work or none at all.
@@ApolloniaPonti Let's keep it real here: Most women aren't exactly into "struggle love". Very few are seemingly willing to get down in the trenches with a man and help him build from scratch, so I'll have to concur with Fernando on this one.
To have the scarcity mentality and then overcome it is beautiful!! Always remember: " The one who falls and gets up is so much stronger than the one who never fell" ;)
I had to learn this lesson the hard way Miss A.P. What you are saying is so true. Great video.
You are so welcome
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I finally get it its better to say there are more things that can make you happy than being mad over something you can not change just accept it and move forward love yourself more then anyone else
Talk about educational, informative and timely. This is applicable to me right now and you hit it on the head. Thanks!
Awesome! Thank you for your comment. :)
Love this! I'm 46 now and single. I'm finding myself in a constant state of nostalgia realizing all these little 'one-liner' perspectives I preached in the 90's haven't changed. I used to impress my friend's with my fearless approach to women, and my #1 saying was, "IT'S ALL IN THE NUMBERS"!!! I would say, if I get 10 phone numbers a weak, inevitably one of them will get me what I want, which, the goals have changed somewhat from hit and run to higher aspirations, but the mentality still makes sense. That's my takeaway but of course I'm writing instead of listening, guilty, but it's in this abundance I choose to have it all, some call it multi tasking, right now, i'm just being abundant. I love this word. I'm going to exploit it to gather all the positivity I can and then abundantly distribute this to others cause in-so-doing, my 'abundant value' skyrockets! 'The more abundance you give, the more abundance you keep' abundance as energy. Abundant joy, abundant gratitude. Is that your abundance, or are you happy to see me? I am independent, frugal and abundant, a living legend in my own mind, king of my own domain, volunteer, available between a given set of hours. Only on the market for a limited time. Chop chop ladies. If you want me at the finish line, make yourself seen. Abundant perspective. Abundant vibration, abundant love
Great video! Very truthful! I have finally found someone at my level! She is 8 years older but is successful in her own business. If it wasn't for my abundance mentality I wouldn't have attracted her into my life. Thank you for the video!
So an older woman who has been ran through, been around the block and decides to settle is now at your level? Common man.. Have some dignity and look for a woman who's 8 yrs younger. I mean when you were 20 she was 28.. I'd rather you be 28 and date a 20 yr old and mold her to become the woman you want.
A woman should never be your main focus. She is welcome in your life, and should be contributing to your well being. But DO NOT make her your main focus. Then you will be fine.
You are so right.
This Chanel not only dating, it is also self improvement and spiritual growth🙏
This is so on time for me. 80% of what you said was all stuff that I've realized and have been meditating on for the last few days.
This is the best video you’ve ever made. Very informative. I need to practice what you taught. Thank you Apollonian
Giving a woman too much too quick is a bad thing. A woman only appreciates what she feel she deserves. She will never appreciate being put on a pedestal when she knows she doesn’t deserve it. That’s where I’ve gone wrong. Giving too much too quick.
There's this guy I almost dated. He explained that the main reason his past relationships didn't work was because they were disrespectful and they never valued him. As we started hanging out I realised this guy didn't even respect himself. I understood why it was soo hard for him to be respected by other women. I decided to break things off coz if I stayed I would have disrespected him too. Well, I was honest with him and told him why I couldn't be with him
What was he doing to not respecting himself?
What do you mean by not respecting himself?
@@taolang603 Well, 1. He had friends who didn't respect him (even publicly) but he still kept them and tolerated it
2. He couldn't express his opinion or stand on certain things (never figured whether it was due to lack of confidence, I don't know)
3. The guy would literally never stand up for himself. He wasn't assertive.
4. It was quite clear he didn't believe in himself and really insecure abt his potential and would sometimes make jokes like 'not everyone (referring to himself) can succeed in this world.'
5.he would not speak up and express his emotions when 'hurt' and would make excuses abt him not even attempting to go for his goals.
Honestly it was EXTREMELY emasculating. It's very easy for a quality woman to respect a masculine guy regardless of his current social status.
Yeah like what made you think that
Hey girl, if you still know the guy, why don't you message him these videos from Apollonia?
Thank you for this!!! Looking back on some women I dealt with, I definitely had the scarcity mindset at times. I’m going to keep listening to you as a dating coach! Again, Thanks so much!
Don’t know why there are dislikes for a video that sheds nothing but light. Appreciate the content Apollonia
I am out there in public and at work where I have lots of contacts. These are all contacts through which I can talk and address things. People are drawn to my level of standards and I am very grateful to the people I meet. However, there is a problem. At my age of 64 years, it is hard to find a woman who could be my companion. It is very easy to talk to women, but it is more difficult to have her become my friend. It is almost impossible to have her on a date or become my girlfriend. They think I might be that creepy old guy.
I just want to say thank you for this! I’m in the process of getting through this mindset and this video hits the nail on the head! I appreciate you!
You are amazing! I've learned so much from you today and now feel I have a real shot of attracting the woman of my dreams...
P.S. Your hubby is truly a blessed man.
Thank you so much for your support and for watching my youtube videos!
Another video full of wisdom, thanks Apollonia. Wouldn't the world be a different place if these teachings were taught in school, as part of the curriculum. Imagine how much smoother the world would be, people understanding other people.
you make me realised who i was supposed to be, not what people expect from me. and wake me up from slumber, i need it, thks
I just subscribed to your channel because I see you for who you are. I watched a few of your videos and saw that you are genuine and honest. Qualities that I can align with. Thank you
You’re one of the most amazing and helpful person on here, I am grateful for you 🙏🏽
Apollonia, you are likely the best woman dating coach to exist in the 21rst century, thank you so much for your wisdom
Hey, trust me, you're doing a great job.
I'm always happy listen to you.
My suggestion.... Try to always *subtitle* ur videos in english for better understanding of your viewers.
This lady is underrated.
Where were you when I was 23? Great stuff. Inner game. So important.
Really good video
it reminded me of some things that it took some time for me to learn. Some us men need time to grow and develop. One thing that I have learned is to be open to constructive counsel especially when it apply to you, it will help you to be a better person in many ways. This video helps men to do this. This is a video worth coming back and playing again to help stay on track.
Thank you Apollonia
Apollonia when first learning and practicing Reiki, all the masters are female.When in a group session I was the only guy out of 8 or 9 participating.I found that females are more intuitive and are great to work with on spiritual level
Got the girl I want thank you Apollonia
Geeesh I feel attacked lmao you explained me and my situation right now. This is totally me and I hate it. I’m always pushing good women away and I’m very selective. So when one comes around that I really like I get obsessive, I start overthinking, I want all her attention, I want her to only talk to me and not date anyone else. I get very territorial it’s bad. I start planning things in my head. I start seeing a future with them so soon when I’m just getting to know them. And what makes this worst is that I haven’t dated in a year so feel the need to lock this woman down because she seems so perfect and different from others. I screw up everytime. I lose them every time. I’m starting to notice I am the problem. I’m almost 30. I still have more to learn smh.
If me or my team members can be of help, here is our link to arrange a coaching session; www.apolloniaponti.com/private-coaching/
Great stuff Apollonia 👏👏👏👍
Thanks for watching!
Dating coaching, life coaching, between men and women is difficult. Our brains are different. The word abundance implies abundance of resources ie rich. Scarcity implies a scarcity of resources or poor. Yes, we all know that women like a driven, rich man. 50 shades of grey. Be more honest and direct. Don't beat around the bush. Say directly and brutally honestly what you mean.
Thought about this phrase abundance mentality. This is an interesting idea, but some what ambiguous. In simpler terms, men and women need to bring a healthy state of mind to the table. In all things, balance is important. If you place a women on a pedistal, you become a doormat, and vice versa. In the start of a balanced relationship, both the man and the woman bring equal energy. If it is a struggle to keep her interested, you should probably move on and find a more healthy woman who brings balance to the relationship dynamic.
Once again this tip along with your other secrets have given me an ABUNDANT MINDSET . Gracias Chilendrina
It is not a woman's job to make a man happy, and it's not a man's job to make a woman happy. The number one reason why so many relationships today are failing is because of expectations. When your expectations are not being met, you start to blame the other person. In reality, you went into the relationship with unrealistic expectations in the first place. To make a relationship work, understand that you come together to create something, not expecting the other to solve your problems, whatever they may be. When you start to blame the other person for your unhappiness, you're actually being unfair. If you're not ready to commit to yourself and bring something into the relationship, you should not be in a relationship in the first place.
Thank you Ms. Ponti
Dear Apollonia. A Porsche is an idolizing object. Idolatry is weakness. A women attracted to a man driving Porsche is attracted to a weakness. At first glance, he gets a women and she gets a person with abundance mentality. At second thought, a women gets an idolater, a person that lacks abundance mentality on a long run. When this becomes obvious, it is usually to late. A child is born under suboptimal, immature conditions for its childhood. We get a world with a few nice cars and many, many immature men and many, many sad women.
Was I the only one who noticed Apolonia's little gaffe in the 7th minute? No pun intended but i laughed so hard I woke my neighbors 🤣
"This is your last chance to look at this ass" 😂😂😂
Damn, I wasn't even looking...
At the screen I mean 😂😂😂
I’m a pilot. I travel all over. If I’m forever showing abundance by walking away from my future wife after a hello instead of getting her number when I meet her, I’ll never actually meet my future wife. She’ll be left behind at the venue I will never be at again. As you know, it wets a woman’s panties when you walk away. It show abundance. It’s worked for me before. Well, I’m a pilot now and rarely EVER go to the same city enough to just “bump in to” the same woman twice.
thank you again Apollonia
I will say learning this method
It really works. Think like a woman. Your emotional bonded and emotions. Can be handled more. Once you understand this u will unstannd why where or how they feel. Let's say if she ghost you I have been. It was something I said
I texted her back in a few days I said I probably said something u didn't l I don't remember what . She said it ok so u want to date . What I said was Hey sexy honey come over here. Red flag. I said I'm so so sorry I said that I was wrong. See men u have to step up and own what u do wrong. Hey I own it so. I have a wonderful hi quality woman and dating and in the future of 223 getting married. It not hard.
As a businessman I heard 'customer' whenever you said 'woman'. And I thought I am listening how to do business.
You must decide on the cost of serving a customer. Let her go if she is no longer cost effective.
I thank you for the videos that you do! Have you ever touched on relationships with people that have pre-existing mental conditions that makes it difficult for them to form or maintain a relationship?
Great material! I'm learning a lot. Thank you.
Hi Apollonia very good advices, keep up the good work, looking good by the way.
Thank you!
I got rejected by hundreds of woman because bad behaviour, their bad behaviour and a lot of times because I am not their "type". I also had beautiful girlfriends where people said how can he have this and a very good woman too which I am befriended with now . It is not about how much or that you have but about that you find the right .
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Hope this ""abundance mentality "" also includes later on fallout essentials, like huge payouts, creditline overspends, overborrowing to retain face, ( sort of window dressing)
Later on inability to get in own monies, leading to problems with lenders penalties for late payments( if done at all), court cases in paybacks, a whole lot of abundance problems, finally to a yellow card plus ignominous exit
It sounds to me like you would attract a low quality woman that takes advantage of you. Have you experienced this in your own life, personally? If so, my suggestion to you is to look deep within yourself on why you would put yourself in these kind of circumstances in the first place. What kind of patterns would lead you to do this? An "abundance mentality" has nothing to do with reckless choices one makes in life and certainly not buying excessive material things one can't afford.... if you had an abundance mentality.... you wouldn't make such choices to compensate for something and choose a partner that would take advantage of you. An abundance mentality means you have options and you can be your genuine self and not put yourself in those kind of situations.... assess the patterns of why you would choose partners that could lead to such circumstances. And most importantly, don't attract gold diggers. Attract queens!
Great vid! More guys needs needs to watch this.
You are an extremely intelligent person. Thank you for this
I fear that once I get to that point of mentality that I'm going to reject and resent any woman that tries to get at me
This is the best video you ever made
🤯 Very powerful!!!
Yes
On this channel to understand my gf , sometimes feel like she pulling away and sometimes pulling in , she might be testing me , but I hate that -_-
Hello Apolliona
I have been following these sessions, some are a little of but most are very good .
Could you do a session on dating a woman that has come out of an abusive relationship.
Her mind is all over the place , which is to be expected.
It is not your job to fix her. You are better off to date a different woman.
Great video, like your passion and performance
You're intelligent and interesting and very beautiful. Above all thank you for your priceless advice.
women like a man with abundance mentality, because of pre-selection by other women, which serves as a shortcut for women to ensure youre a quality man, because womans fertility window is relatively short. I do like your content though - thank you
How to deal with girls who plays around?
Thank you
I love you Apollonia Ponti
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that was very enlightining to know !
This was really good
Thank you for being here.
She's awesomely good. Cool Video. I was curious on what she had to say.
This is good stuff thank you
Thanks 💯💯💯
Dont want to just throw what I'm going through out there. But I would like some help. I'll say this. 9 years, 2 sons and I feel her slipping. And I feel I have to make a come back in our relationship.
Thank you apollonia for all of your videos,
You are bewtiful and attractive.
God bless you...
Mrs. Apollonia, thanks for your video. My question is, what if you're mentality is that you're ok with meeting that special person, and you're ok with it not ever happening? I'm at that point that regardless of my outcome, I choose to love myself & enjoy life. Instead of chasing, I'm accepting that God has a beautiful plan. Is that a healthy outlook?
So basically women do not want any man who may need help.
The man has to be financially, emotionally and physically in great shape.
No wonder men like very young girls and only on a temporary basis.
Well it's never there when y'all say it's right below so I don't know
She snapped on this one tho
Given that you're aware of how attraction works - does it still work on you? I mean, isn't part of what makes attraction work, not realizing how it works when it happens to you?
Do you know how hunger works?
Self-love, self-improvement. be kind to yourself because who else will?
I’ve been watching these separation videos and they helped but now I decided to dig into this abundance video and I think it will be a game changer. I’m going to take her off of that pedestal with work and self care.
Im single apollonia point
Mind reader🙄. You were completely talk to me here.
xoxo
I've seen it work too.. 💎🔥💣
You are being more and more beautiful.. day by day.. video by video.. Thank you very much.
This video has life lessons too
Hi there .your electric in your energy when i listen to you and that is attractive wow!!
Great video
Glad you enjoyed it
Apollonia Ponti probably one of you best really
They want you to lie to them and act like anything in life is capable.
No one ever talks about loving yourself.
Ok so recently just broke up with a girl and I watched this video I used to have the abundance mentality when we met thats what drew her to me well as we dated and progressed I started to bc emotional invested and became the girl emotion wise bc I fell for her how now that she said I seemed crazy bc I didnt believe here time to time bc of the lies and times I caught her up in them when the truth wouldnt have been so hard.. what do I do what u said in this let her come back to me do me and if she loves me she'll come back even tho she got back with her ex. What is the root to get her too understand she messed up when she plays victim but when talking to me she sees somewhat of how she helped me think the way I did ... ?
Men don't realize there is 13 women to 1 man ratio.... Have fun men!!
“This will be the last time you’ll look at this ASS” lmao
if she confides too soon shes telling you in female language that she is not interested.
7:20 classic.*That’s right you weirdos This the Last chance! You 👀 at This ass - she had it Right 😂
99.9%? Have you really counted?
What if the things you find enjoyment in doesn't include alot of people? Also what if you get accused of not being needy enough more than the opposite?
Her rejection doesn't mean there's something wrong with me, it just means her judgment sucks.
neither statement has to be true. I don't know what leads you to believe you'd be romantically/sexually compatible with everyone
@@vaughnamir.6457 even though it may not be true, it helps with the mindset to move on easier. instead of sulking and wondering why she reject you like theres something wrong with you, its better to know that you have worth and she missed out on it. this will also help you move on quickly
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@@vaughnamir.6457 until the person wants something the other person has, ie money. Then everything goes out the window.
if a bunch of women are rejecting you... um well...
Nobody needs relationships to be happy. Once you realize that, you will automagically become more attractive.
Life is a relationship life is a journey a journey is a relationship believe it or not your relationship is more important than the people in the relationship just like the family the family is more important we say God country family or God family country contains you you were God country family you are the relationship plus and minus positive and negative right and left subject object
Ahahahahhahaaaaaaaaaaa
"automagically"...I like it
I read your comment an realized there is alot of that going on
I am a woman entering a relationship with a man with an abundance mentality. It is highly attractive. I think this also works in reverse. Men appreciate a woman with an abundance mentality as well. I know myself well - my values, goals, my own very positive attitude. I am not a classic beauty, but never seem to have a difficult time attracting men. The difficulty has been finding the right one. I think I have, and we are moving forward. Men, find an abundance mentality and practice it daily. You will attract a similarly aligned woman. It may or may not be the first one you meet, but that's okay. Persevere! ♥️