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  • @scottblankenship2852
    @scottblankenship2852 2 ปีที่แล้ว +595

    Here in the US, cancer doctors tend to avoid terms like 'cancer free' for patients. (I have colon cancer). We use terms like 'No Evidence of Disease (NED)'. I've been NED for 1.5 years now, but every 6 months, more scans, more tests, and more waiting to see what's next on my journey. I love your content, keep it up. Know that you are in our hearts.

    • @mbsbrown7838
      @mbsbrown7838 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Prayers be with you! I just started my journey with melanomia, I am with her, most of the time just numb waiting on results.

    • @nacasgitt1513
      @nacasgitt1513 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      In sweden they only say that your cancer free after 5 years with no evidence of disease

    • @lynnmahan154
      @lynnmahan154 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @Scott Blankenship we are on exactly the same path!! Same cancer, same time NED... same 6 months testing..... Best to you.

    • @teresakryvenchuk6205
      @teresakryvenchuk6205 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      🙏 for you scott.i had breast cancer in 2018.

    • @spiderblackwidow8747
      @spiderblackwidow8747 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Have you hard the positve anti cancer ability of bolied water 💧 mixed with grapefruit skins n 🍋 skins .I strain and take a tablespoon first thing in the A.M. look it up

  • @tiffanythinks
    @tiffanythinks 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    You’re the strongest girl!! WE GOT THIS💙 I was diagnosed in September and I’ve been following your journey! Thank you for being so strong and for being so open and honest with us. I’m vlogging my journey too so I hope I can help others and my youtube family is getting me through this tough time. Lots of love xxx if you ever need to chat, I’m here for you 💙 we got this 💙

    • @karenkane3220
      @karenkane3220 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Love you, Tiff!

    • @stacycamacho59
      @stacycamacho59 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Been watching your journey as well!

    • @bigmakeuplove
      @bigmakeuplove 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So nice to see Tiffany here too. Thinking of you both x

    • @angelafernandez9927
      @angelafernandez9927 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I ve been following both of you and you girls are the strongest💪💪💪💪

  • @ickiedeer-lamb7282
    @ickiedeer-lamb7282 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Romee I've only started watching you a few months ago but have come to care for you very much dear. I had brain cancer at 16 and almost died, it's not about me but I have been in remission for 36 years and am praying the same for you Dear. 🙏. Let me know if you need someone to talk to and I'll give you my contact information give you a shoulder to lean on. God bless you my friend. my heart is with you.🇨🇦

  • @dawnlovescouture2644
    @dawnlovescouture2644 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Romee, I’m so sorry you are going through this. I had endometrial carcinocarcinoma. After I had my hysterectomy, the surgeon said all looked good, but she wasn’t sure if one lymph node showed cancer or if it was a fat cell. It turned out to be a fat cell. I had a CAT scan after chemo, and that scan showed a small spot and it wasn’t clear if it was cancer or scar tissue from radiation. It was too small to biopsy. My doctor felt certain it was scar tissue, but I had to wait three more months for another scan to know for sure. It was determined to be scar tissue in the next scan in April. I finally had my chemo port removed two weeks ago. Stay strong. In hindsight I am glad that my doctor paid such close attention to everything. I am hoping you get good news with your biopsy.

    • @carolinagurl22
      @carolinagurl22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So glad you are doing well. My s-i-l just found out she has endometrial carcinocarcinoma. She has had symptoms for over a year and is now waiting to receive hysterectomy.

    • @dawnlovescouture2644
      @dawnlovescouture2644 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@carolinagurl22 I am so sorry to hear that! It’s a very scary diagnosis. Does she know how advanced it is? I was very lucky that mine was stage 1b and I had chemo and radiation and am currently disease free. I hope to stay that way! I made a video about what happened to me if you want to watch and share it with her. I wish her the best of luck and I will keep her in my prayers.

  • @irgendwelchedinge
    @irgendwelchedinge 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I’m glad they are being EXTRA careful and suspicious about your scan. It’s better than the docs thinking you’re cancer free and then months down the line having to go into treatment again!

    • @berryblueswirl
      @berryblueswirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Or worse, as a close friend of mine was diagnosed as extensive stage 4 in spring 2020 during pandemic lockdown. After being told in November and December 2019 everything was fine and within normal limits.

  • @kurtcraig3421
    @kurtcraig3421 2 ปีที่แล้ว +245

    sounds like their being extra cautious with you, because of how you've been delt with so far and the problems in comunications you have had. instead of telling you that you're cancer free "maybe" he's double checking. WHICH IS A GOOD THING. this limits the possibility of a false negative. i know it's more time and stress for you but be strong Romee, it's better this way. xox

    • @zaixai9441
      @zaixai9441 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I understand what you are saying but that's absolutely not acceptable. This is a person's life. Yes, being told you are cancer free then them saying they got it wrong is a horrible experience, but these are professionals paid good money. They shouldn't be making mistakes and that's not a good enough excuse.

    • @Sabrina-sx9fl
      @Sabrina-sx9fl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@zaixai9441 but they DO make mistakes just like everybody else and in every single other profession, they are people too and not robots. It is extremely unfortunate if mistakes do happen but it's inevitable. I would rather have them check it again to be sure than to be happy l'm cancer free and then get told I'm not. How can you say this is "unacceptable" when he literally just can't say if she is cancer free because the pet scan just doesn not indicate that and they need to test it further? It's none of the doctors fault that there is more activeness on the scans than before and thus they need to further look into it

    • @zaixai9441
      @zaixai9441 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Sabrina-sx9fl yeah mistakes happen, doesn't mean it's acceptable. How can 2 or 3 doctors make the same "mistake"? That's not an accident that's just incompetents.

    • @zaixai9441
      @zaixai9441 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Sabrina-sx9fl also, the whole procedure for scans is weird. Why go for a scan then wait for weeks to then get told its not a clear scan? They should have a doctor present when the scans are performed so they can check on them and if they aren't happy with the scan then they go straight back to get another one.

    • @neurotika
      @neurotika 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@zaixai9441 sounds like you have this idealistic notion of how you think doctors and hospitals should be.
      Doctors…hell, anyone for that matter, are only capable of doing so many things at the same time. I find it amazing that folks like you don’t pause for a single moment to even consider why things happen the way they do or what another person (in this case, a doctor) could possibly doing else while she gets her scans. I’m not remotely associated with oncology but I would imagine that her doctor has to TAKE TIME to thoroughly analyze the scans, compare them to previous ones, re examine her medical
      History, possibly confer with any number of her other doctors, then write up his analysis on her file. All this to ensure that out of the hundreds of patients he likely sees in a month, he doesn’t do her a disservice and make a major mistake. It sounds like you’d rather the doctor be there when the scans are done so he can rush a verdict he has not adequately examined. What you’re suggesting simply does not and cannot exists for the way the medical system must operate. It is far more efficient for a person do a scan and return when the doctor has thoroughly reviewed them.
      Mistakes can and do happen. But it’s rather arrogant to assume that any unsatisfactory outcome must be the result of incompetence.

  • @horsecrazykrissy
    @horsecrazykrissy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    Beautiful Romee, we are with you. Sending you so many hugs. When life feels crap, please remember that you have so many people out here who love you.

    • @zoranmaksic123
      @zoranmaksic123 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I've had a few pet scans. It's both exciting and scary at the same time. Your are young and you are going to be a strong amazing woman

  • @annmariemerlino3102
    @annmariemerlino3102 2 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    I am a breast cancer survivor and oh girl do I feel your pain waiting for those damn test results -- it's cruel to make you wait. Sending you tons of hugs and subscribing to get you to 100k!!!! Good things are coming!

    • @glendagrant9042
      @glendagrant9042 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I am very lucky to go to a breast cancer center whose policy it is to have a Dr look at the mamogram and or ultrasound and give you the results before you leave the building that day. I am 5 years out now and finally just do yearly and see my oncologist yearly. Leaving that building knowing one way or the other is a wonderful thing. I know with your PET scan it is not that simple. My husband had colon cancer surgery this year. He had a spot on his lung and a biopsy inconclusive so PET scan was done and it found his colon cancer luckily at a stage 2. The spot on his lung shrunk and is now not believed to have been cancer. He still will see oncology every 6 months and CTs of his lung and abdomen. He also may have another PET coming up too. It is a waiting game. I hope everyone affected by cancer could have more answers. Bless you all as you go through this journey.

    • @judi7282
      @judi7282 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @judi7282
      @judi7282 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@glendagrant9042 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @eileendoherty2836
      @eileendoherty2836 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m a breast cancer survivor and it’s 16 yrs later caused me insomnia

  • @Shannononly
    @Shannononly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +245

    You’ll get there Romee! You are so strong, and though it’s not been easy, I totally believe it’ll work out. ❤️❤️

  • @dorisirving2270
    @dorisirving2270 2 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    I’m so sorry Romee that you still have to play the waiting game. I pray in the end you will finally get the good news you deserve. 🤞❤️🇨🇦

  • @francisjohnson665
    @francisjohnson665 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I feel like you will get good news from this . My cancer doctor told me to never say that I am cancer free , just say that I am in remission. Been 13 years and I still say remission. I am hoping and praying for healing for you. Love and hugs .💖💖🤗🤗

    • @kristenbuckland2041
      @kristenbuckland2041 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I guess you could say free from active cancer. I've heard that comment a few times.

    • @annaclared_
      @annaclared_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How do you deal with that ‘never cancer free’ does it not freak you out or make you depressed? Sorry if insensitive question just suffer badly with health anxiety and it’s really interesting and inspiring to me that it’s possible to live a happy life post cancer

    • @NickUncommon
      @NickUncommon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I am wondering, if those regular pre scan anxieties will ease up with time.
      I had my cancer diagnosis July 2020 and had 3 scans in the meantime. Every time the scan date comes up, I am just a complete mess, can not think of anything else than what the scan will reveal, will the contrast blow up my veins again, and land in the tissue. Will the nurse be able to find a good spot right away, or will I be a human pincushion with 4 or more attemts atfinding a proper IV spot.
      And then, when the scan is done the days until I hear, what the tumor board had to say about it are not better.
      Those few months inbetween scans are way too short, and when I finally get "back to normal", it is about time for another round on the scanxiety wheel.

    • @valanasha1135
      @valanasha1135 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen 🙏

    • @jacqie9941
      @jacqie9941 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My husband had cancer hodgkin's lymphoma his doctor told him the same thing never say he is cancer free he has been in remission for 15 years.

  • @Lyn4817
    @Lyn4817 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I am so sorry for you at present. Anxiety leading up to scans and then waiting for the results really can't be described for anyone who hasn't been through what you are going through. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

  • @songbirds3712
    @songbirds3712 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I LOVE your hair!!!!!!! Like, YOUR hair! You look darling with short hair. And I am so sorry about the results. You’ll get there girl, you will! Prayers continue🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️ for a quickly scheduled biopsy and results. Also, invest in a weighted blanket. It will help you sleep.

  • @jademitchell9956
    @jademitchell9956 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Another young cancer and autoimmune survivor YOU ARE NOT ALONE. sometimes you need to hear it from someone else who isn't getting great news and is having a shite time with self advocacy and trying to have my voice heard. You are a strong woman. Virtual hugs. We're rooting for you and supporting you. Xx

  • @heatherjunker967
    @heatherjunker967 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Romee, I know it is frustrating but, I would rather the doctor know for sure before saying whether the spot is cancer or scar tissue. He is actually doing the right thing by you. Thanks to others here posting they or someone they know have had a similar situation and it turned out to be scar tissue, I feel a lot better and I hope them sharing that helps you to feel better about it too. One day at a time, one hour, or even one minute at a time, you will get through this.

  • @xarmi1972
    @xarmi1972 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Hold in there dear... I know what you are going through... I have been through 4 major ops in the last year... And I had hoped that the last was the last and I swore I will never go to hospital ever again... And here I am going to the Dr to schedule another op. I have my down moments but with support both you and I will get there

    • @M_K_M_K_M_K
      @M_K_M_K_M_K 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🧡

    • @sneepsnorp1404
      @sneepsnorp1404 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Take care love. You've got this! (One sick person to another ;))

  • @Talonshire2
    @Talonshire2 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Romee. You have encouraged others and fight advocacy of patients with Cancer. It is daunting and scary. You have all rights to be so. Be encouraged and positive. My prayers are with you.

  • @ga6589
    @ga6589 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so sorry that you are having to endure this. My husband is currently undergoing treatment for stage 4 prostate cancer. Although he's been in remission for a few months, his oncologists at the Mayo Clinic are careful to never say he's "free of cancer". They simply cannot know at this point. What they do say is that ongoing cancer research and trials are unfolding quickly and holding more promise than ever for patients with all types of cancer. I know they've changed his treatment plan a couple of times because of new information. Our fight lies in keeping the cancer at bay and manageable, while preserving quality of life, until we come to the point where there is a cure. Hold on to that! I do empathize about waiting for scans and blood work results, it's excruciating! God bless you!

  • @tracyrhymer6639
    @tracyrhymer6639 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Colon cancer survivor here. That numb feeling is normal. I was so tired of tests being told to wait till you could get appointment for results. My chemo was halted due to side effects, chemo was doing more harm then good. This may just be me but after the first 5 years of tests, I stopped doing the tests. I will have a tumor level blood test, but I have refused all others. I decided if I couldn’t do chemo again I was just going to live a normal life. I am 10 years cancer free, and I don’t have the stress and anxiety after I stopped letting it rule my life.

  • @jennifermoisan9914
    @jennifermoisan9914 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    You’ll get there. I can totally relate. I’m listed as a difficult patient as in my body doesn’t always react to treatments and/or meds the way they are supposed to work.
    Working towards a “healthy/stable” report can seem like such an uphill climb but it can happen. I’ve had awesome blood work results for the past year and I still can’t relax.
    Positive thoughts, always try really hard to find the positive. It’s just about the only thing that keeps me sane through all of this. My motto “chin up and eyes forward”, keep fighting

  • @maric820
    @maric820 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Let's get Romee to 100k. I subscribed!

  • @lauriestewart3700
    @lauriestewart3700 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Window advice. Clean them inside and out with shaving cream. Sounds crazy but they won't fog up anymore. Check your antifreeze level in the car. Hang in there sweetheart. Praying for strength and healing for you!

    • @ickiedeer-lamb7282
      @ickiedeer-lamb7282 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lol I've never heard of that before.

    • @lorenenoe4472
      @lorenenoe4472 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Another hack…take a bottle of hot water out with you and pour on windshield where the driver looks out, will temporarily get you going when in a rush!

    • @margostarcruiser1083
      @margostarcruiser1083 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love this hack!! In a pinch.. newspaper works too, but who reads those anymore? Lol!!

    • @barbaracilley8200
      @barbaracilley8200 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Make sure you have the air vents bringing outside in and if that doesn’t work then you need to close the outside vents and use only inside air. This always works for me. Just finding out which air works best for that particular day.

  • @katebc9148
    @katebc9148 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    As you describe your journey, Romee, it sounds like you are a medical teacher for the medical community. Their processes should improve as a result of your roller coaster. Just know that you have support worldwide. We love you and think you are so very funny, kind, diligent, patient, and a normal person going through a very stressful ordeal. 💖

  • @tinam761
    @tinam761 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your body and brain is functioning perfectly to protect you. It is difficult… I can only understand from my own cancer experience. I do not have cancer now.. I am very grateful. Some measure of concern never goes away, especially at appointments. And landmark time frames. I’m cancer free 12 years…. That seems like eternity…. You can get there too! 💕💕💕

  • @vanessamaylobo3860
    @vanessamaylobo3860 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I just want you to know that altho you’re younger than me, you inspire me and gave me strength to deal w my own cancer diagnosis. I’m in awe of your strength since the beginning as I’m struggling to find the will to even carry on. Currently dealing w the treatments side effects right now. You deserve to be cancer free and leave this all behind you. I know you will be soon. Please don’t lose faith, I’m praying for both of our healing. Lots of love and We will get there. xx

  • @kellytahmasebi9289
    @kellytahmasebi9289 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Heel sterk van je dat je dit allemaal deelt! Het zal heel erg behulpzaam zijn voor mensen die hier ook doorheen gaan. Ik wens je echt alle geluk en gezonheid toe!

  • @josavo6377
    @josavo6377 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Wishing you well, sending healings thoughts your way. After 3 years, and surgery, I finally have a clear scan. Still have a year to wait until the end and port removal. Hang in there. Each time I go for a scan, I get nervous. It is natural.

  • @hpaulson6272
    @hpaulson6272 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    God bless you. Romee - I hope when they finally do the biopsy they’ll say it’s nothing and you’re cancer free!

  • @nezdesigns6839
    @nezdesigns6839 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Romee, I understand what you're going through. I'm a cancer survivor. I was diagnosed with stage 2 nasopharyngeal carcinoma 6 years ago. I was very fortunate because the cancer I had is one of the most treatable cancers out there, so treatable that you could be diagnosed with stage 4 and you would still survive. The treatments that I had to go through were very harsh but doable. I went through 35 sessions of radiation in conjunction with chemotherapy within a month. In addition, I had to have a peg tube put in my stomach so that I could at least have some sort of nourishment while going through the treatments. Because I could not eat I went from 180lbs to 126lbs within a month. I tell you I felt like a zombie the whole time. I even had a blood transfusion because my platelets we're so low. To make long story short I survived and I guess what really got me through was my own strength and my determination to live. It has been 6 years since my last treatment and last year my doctor officially declared me cured from cancer. Now I am living my life as if nothing happened. It's all a distant memory now. If my close friends and family didn't know any better, they would never believe I had cancer. Girl you got this. Just hang in there and never give up. I hope my story will give you plenty of hope. I wish you all the best and always stay safe.

  • @tonybrain5995
    @tonybrain5995 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Romee it could be scare tissue,my husbands scan was,nt clear so he had to have a biopsy It was clear and proved to be scar tissue xx fingers crossed for you Barbara xxxx

  • @julielloyd5871
    @julielloyd5871 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just subscribed for you💙I am going to begin my 4rth year of screening cancer free from rectal cancer. I believe in you 💪

  • @jerilynwomack2012
    @jerilynwomack2012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Keep your chin up Rome you got this.Lots of hugs and prayers for your healing.

  • @teresakryvenchuk6205
    @teresakryvenchuk6205 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are a fighter and I am so proud of you. My life is so different after cancer. I am praying for you dear one. May the peace of Christ surround you.

  • @2boysmom943
    @2boysmom943 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    you are so loved Romee. My son was 7 when he was diagnosed with cancer. He is currently 15 months off of chemo and has no evidence of disease (NED). Just wanted to tell you that it seems like there is ALWAYS something on the scans that is inconclusive... to this point it has been nothing major but the not knowing for sure is so so hard! You are doing a wonderful job with an awful situation.

  • @ItsBumblebri
    @ItsBumblebri 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I can't imagine how frustrating and emotionally exhausting this all must be :( Thank you for being so vulnerable and open with us ❤ I'm so sorry that you didn't get any clear answers, especially after all you went through with these scans. I know we don't see all your worst moments but the strength and positivity you show is genuinely inspiring ❤ Hopefully they get you booked in for that biopsy asap and you can get the clear answers that you deserve. Here's to mission remission!!

  • @janettamcgee8124
    @janettamcgee8124 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm sorry that you have to go through all of this tension. Please know that you have a lot of people who care about you. May I add that your nails, your knit top and your hat coordinated perfectly together. That is a great color for you. You are simply lovely.

  • @Coito907
    @Coito907 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Romee, I'm sending prayers and light and hope to you! You are such a light and you encourage me in my own depression and recent loss of my mom who had parkinsons disease to keep moving forward! Thankyou! I'm thinking about all the people that you are helping right now who maybe are going through the same thing. Here's a verse that I pray will give you comfort." I will never leave you nor forsake you" Hebrews 13:5. He's with you every step of the way.

  • @thefightingfelter6456
    @thefightingfelter6456 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Aw Romee , I’m sorry you didn’t get the news you wanted 😔, sending you strength and love , from another cancer warrior 💪🏼❤️(sadly terminal) .
    Hopefully you’ll get the good news you deserve very soon 🤞🏼xx

    • @susanhogg5601
      @susanhogg5601 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hugs and prayers for you!!!

    • @cindyalkhasawneh3175
      @cindyalkhasawneh3175 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Even terminal I pray that you have a lot of years left.🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤

    • @thefightingfelter6456
      @thefightingfelter6456 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@susanhogg5601 aw thank you 🙏 ❤️

  • @privateuser3859
    @privateuser3859 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Romee, hang in there girl. Sending all positive energy your way. Love from Sydney, Australia x

  • @joannegollsneider6349
    @joannegollsneider6349 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I feel he's being cautious and doing the other tests to know for sure. Last time you saw him he looked the fool didn't even know you had radaition he does not want to mess this up. I think you will get good news I feel it.

  • @kl-yp3xi
    @kl-yp3xi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Hang in there honey. I’ve been living with stage 3c Ovarian cancer for 4 years now. I know you can do this! One day at a time! #cancersucks Karen 💙

    • @CharlotteElbourne
      @CharlotteElbourne 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm with you there. Ive had stage 3c OC for 2 years now. I thought I was NED, but I have a biopsy on a new tiny spot to see if its cancer in two weeks... I have a sneaky suspicion it is. I just have to not think about it or I would go crazy!

    • @ellik1817
      @ellik1817 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@CharlotteElbourne Wishing you all the best & hoping things go well.. Let me know. I’m a survivor too - Ov/can stage 2 God help us all..💛✨

    • @ellik1817
      @ellik1817 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She is sooo brave.. Well done to you too Karen . Im a teal survivor too.. Very hard…💛✨

  • @felizong3597
    @felizong3597 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    God be with you, beautiful. Praying that you eventually become a sure cancer free. You’re wonderful!

  • @annnicholson9304
    @annnicholson9304 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm so sorry you're stuck in waiting mode again, Romee. Waiting is the worst! I'm praying for you that all will be clear, and that what has shown up on your latest PET scan is artifact. You are incredibly brave sharing your journey with honest, raw emotion. I'll be watching out for your progress, and hoping for a clear answer for you. You are a beautiful and intelligent woman, Romee. Thanks for sharing. By the way, I'm a retired Oncology RN, so I can relate. Hugs and love to you, dear lady.

  • @kdog9104
    @kdog9104 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Hi Boo, Just wanted to leave a comment and let you know how much I appreciate you letting us into your life and continuing to film during this fight. You are so inspirational to me and many others. Sending so much healing to you and praying your cancer free very soon, much love.

  • @whatadayrose1244
    @whatadayrose1244 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You sharing this will help so many others. Your open and honest sharing is so valuable and appreciated. You show strength in sharing your vulnerability and the reality of what you are experiencing. You are a precious soul. Sending positive thoughts and appreciation for you.

  • @kareencifuentes1201
    @kareencifuentes1201 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    One step at the time Romee, keep strong, God will listen my prayers for you and for everyone who is in the same situation including me, hugs from Guatemala 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @queentinadoire6931
    @queentinadoire6931 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sweetheart, I am praying for you. We love you and you will beat this illness.❤️❤️❤️

  • @kimberlymarshall3977
    @kimberlymarshall3977 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sweet Romee, I am so very sorry about what you are going through. I will keep saying a special prayer for you. God bless you my dear. 🙏🏿💜

  • @stacieclark-benson688
    @stacieclark-benson688 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The waiting is the worst! It just eats @ you! Im not dealing with cancer, but I am chronically ill & have issues with medications not working. I also just had a 6 month follow up CT that did not bring the good news we all expected. So I get to start the waiting game for the tests & biopsies again. So I do get your frustration. Even though mines not cancer, there is a life expectancy slapped on it depending on how well you respond to treatment. So this last CT was devastating!
    My prayers are with you daily Romee. Something that helps me is trying to be as positive as possible. Yes I have my moments, but I let them happen & then I make it a better day. We've got this girl! Hang in there my friend! 💗Lots of love from Las Vegas!💗

  • @helenfunk6385
    @helenfunk6385 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You hang in there Honey we are with you in spirit. Positive thoughts sent your way❤️

  • @ana-letitiarotaru5438
    @ana-letitiarotaru5438 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Romee, I am really preaying for you, and I really want to encourage you to feel grateful and be positive, because when you mind is healty your body will follow to, this is basic knowledge, so go out have fun, do all the things you will like to do, thinking that soon you ll be healthy and follow your dreams.
    Praying for you from Romania.

  • @michetrue-aspoonielife4me389
    @michetrue-aspoonielife4me389 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Romee 👋 my first visit to your page. I'm hoping for all things good with future testing & results. I'm a 2x cancer survivor however, I now have incurables diseases. When I was hearing you talk, I couldn't help but smile because you sound a lot like me except I'm much older. All my teams of doctors call me the anomaly. What's supposed to happen in my body doesn't & what's not does. I laugh & say it's just me. I'm a hard poke as well. I completely understand, I was labeled a Sisu & you beautiful warrior are most definitely one as well! You're strong, inspirational & courageous ✌🌟💐😊

  • @annet2150
    @annet2150 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Niet te doen dit, wachten, veel onzekerheid, en ondertussen gaat het leven door, en moet je er maar mee dealen allemaal. Altijd die donkere wolk die boven je hangt is mega zwaar en je wordt zo erg op de proef gesteld.. Heel knap hoe je met alles omgaat en bijzonder dat je je leven en je verhaal met de wereld wilt delen. Respect voor jou. Heel veel sterkte met de biopt/operatie en vervolgens het wachten op de uitslag....Er is nog steeds hoop ❤ liefs ❤❤

  • @fpostma8714
    @fpostma8714 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ik hoopte zo op goed nieuws voor jou maar geef niet op. Diep respect voor jou, ook voor het delen. Alle goede wensen die ik kan bedenken wens ik jou.♥️

  • @pennysue8849
    @pennysue8849 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh no Romee ,hang in there I don't know whats going on with all the miscommunication and all this running around, I continue to keep praying for the best news ever for you ! You got this and your strength is amazing 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

  • @susanjeanwyllie5618
    @susanjeanwyllie5618 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    aw sweetheart I'm so sorry you are going through all this trauma. you are such a brave girl.

  • @lexiew6525
    @lexiew6525 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Romee,
    There is nothing I can do but sending you support behind screens.
    But please hang in there, sometimes it's not the diseases that beat you, but the mentality.
    I hope you can stay strong and I will pray for you!

  • @silviemarksilverstein3031
    @silviemarksilverstein3031 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Take one day at a time. You will get through this. We are all here for you! Sending tons of love and positive vibes❤❤❤.

  • @maysanatomy
    @maysanatomy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Romee I'm sorry because I know these weren't the results you wanted to hear. I can't even imagine how much frustration you feel but know we are all with you and hoping for the best. I think it will be good to get the biopsy. It is good the doctor wants to be extra cautious and find out what that spot is. You are so strong and I am sending you all the good vibes. A big hug from Texas.

  • @OgramRavot21
    @OgramRavot21 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Don't give up, there's still much hope and I have hope for you ♥️

  • @littlebug1026
    @littlebug1026 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless you Romee. Hang in there sweet lady. Praying and thinking of you.

  • @jaynebahler9696
    @jaynebahler9696 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dearest Romee, we don’t always understand or know what God has in store for us. In many ways it’s a good thing! But through all my prayers and pleading for you over the last year or so, I feel a peaceful calm is coming your way. You strength is amazing Romee and has taught me that’s what life takes , strength, patience and staying connected to God. Peace and Hope to you.

  • @dothatch5147
    @dothatch5147 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You have been so strong and brave through this trying journey. Not many people would chose to live alone in these times. I pray God will keep this easy on you. Always remember even though some of us live in the US we love you and you are on our minds and in our hearts.

  • @carolwood9270
    @carolwood9270 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Even when it’s daytime you can calm down with a calming vid. At worst it’s a distraction when you’re worried.

  • @zoomla2187
    @zoomla2187 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Plz block your unlucky ex’s… u deserve someone better. Good to hear the good news. That pink sweater looks so good on u, beautiful 💕💐

  • @lorij6796
    @lorij6796 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm sorry that you are going through this nasty disease. So many people especially young people getting diagnosed. I found out this year that I have breast cancer. I hope your news is okay. Sending hugs and good wishes to you Romee. 💞

  • @darondatoole7439
    @darondatoole7439 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Understandable that you feel like you are going bananas. I wish I could take this all away for you. You continue to enrich my life; you are such a wonderful person Romee. Absolutely magnificent.

  • @Lunabird84
    @Lunabird84 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dear Romee
    I‘m exactly in the same situation as you are…
    I‘m with you in my thoughts!
    Keep on going💕

  • @kimberlyholt2241
    @kimberlyholt2241 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are SO strong! Life itself is a waiting game. Stay positive. You're superWOMAN! And you deserve TH BEST!!!!!

  • @polinaaverbukh2427
    @polinaaverbukh2427 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Rome! I am going to pray for you to finaly get good news!!! Amen!

  • @siobhanjohnson8088
    @siobhanjohnson8088 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Stick at it and keep strong. You have lots of us behind you . Sending hugs 🤗

  • @lindavenne8038
    @lindavenne8038 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm with you with all my heart sweetie! ❤
    I know it's frustrating with all the set backs you've been having, but i just know you will beat this. I'm sending you loads of love and positive energy from Québec, Canada. ❤💫❤💫❤💫 🇨🇦

  • @VanessaLPZ1
    @VanessaLPZ1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The waiting game is the worst ! ☹️ I’m sorry Romee I hope you do get the results of cancer free 🙏🏼

  • @pippakay7234
    @pippakay7234 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Romee I'm so sorry you are still left in limbo (a state of unknown). It's the not knowing 7that causes most of the stress and anxiety. You need the biggest hug ever my girl and i wish i could reach you to deliver it. I'll keep praying for you sweetheart I'm so glad your friend went with you as having that wxtra pair of ears to hear and the support would have been invaluable.🙏💜🙏

  • @krisjames4276
    @krisjames4276 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Romee, I hate that you have all this stress and worry to go through. It was horrid you couldn't have had a clearer update of your cancer. The constant waiting for results must be so hard. I send you prayers and love Romee xxx🙏❤️❤️❤️

  • @margedeogee8525
    @margedeogee8525 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have been following your journey for quite some time now and I feel for you having to wait for all your test results. There is an old saying which goes, "hurry up and wait." I know it is nerve-racking and all the hurry up and waiting you have had to do. Scream, yell, kick and shout if you need to, you are kicking cancer's butt and I pray you will continue to do so! Prayers from 🇺🇸 ! Stay strong.

  • @jackiem3950
    @jackiem3950 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really feel for you Romee. You are going through a very , very hard time. The uncertainty of your future must and I know does bring you down. But stay focused on your future. You are an amazing women.☘️

  • @karendunn3590
    @karendunn3590 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just subscribe I thought I did but didn’t. Your will get your butter and your going to be cancer free. Your story is heartfelt and helping others. Be very very proud of yourself girl and how strong you are to tell your story dealing with Cancer sooo many people cannot do. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @MelGsBackyardSquirreling
    @MelGsBackyardSquirreling 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I was thinking it must be so rough waiting for these results because it was killing me just watching this video and waiting to hear your results at the end. I hope so much too that you hear that your cancer free before the end of the year 🙏🏻

  • @MyName-bi4pt
    @MyName-bi4pt 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh Romee, I am wishing you all the luck in the world! 🍀🥰👍

  • @ljwyro
    @ljwyro 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thinking of you often. Praying you get good results. You are one brave young woman.

  • @Doesntmatter20
    @Doesntmatter20 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Thank you for the update Romee! The journey is not over yet but keep on moving (like you got no other choice I know 😃). We are here with you 🙏🏼

    • @leopardappygirl
      @leopardappygirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Be completely healed in Yeshua Hamachiach name.

  • @lorikulstad9320
    @lorikulstad9320 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Romee, Cancer is like the toy yo yo. It's like no evidence seen and the something is seen. I have met many fortunate people who had cancer and then were free of the disease.
    I have breast cancer, stage 1. No spread but....I expect sometime in my last years it will come back. I think we all have it. It comes to many people and others are lucky. Even sweet dogs and cats get cancer. I feel so bad when I see your sadness. I understand. I hope you get great results.
    You've been through so much. Sending virtual hugs and positive thoughts. 💞

  • @newenglandcoast-b4p
    @newenglandcoast-b4p 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I will continue to pray that very soon you WILL get that clear Pet scan!!!💖💖💖💖

  • @juliettehirsch2104
    @juliettehirsch2104 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So close to 100k! Good luck Romee!

  • @delanijoubert3939
    @delanijoubert3939 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Praying that you’ll get there soon romee!! He are here for you!

  • @jeanlee1911
    @jeanlee1911 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    praying you are so strong. our hands are holding yours i hope you feel our love and prayers.

  • @archangel5395
    @archangel5395 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    We are all here for you, sending love and good feelings.

  • @moonwolfdancer1103
    @moonwolfdancer1103 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Tuesday I had a bilateral mastectomy and right lymph nodes removal. I hope that your doctors get their act together and do what they need to get you well. It's been too long. I got my results today and I am negative as far as I can read. Will wait for my oncologist to tell me, however before surgery was scheduled he said I was cancer free so I am confused as to the necessity of having the surgery. Anyway, I emphasize with you and my thoughts are with you. Unless you've been through this you cannot really understand the frustration and worry. Sometimes it's hard to be strong even when people expect you to. Looking forward to better news on your situation. Many blessings.

    • @ТамараБелка-й8с
      @ТамараБелка-й8с 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He said that you are cancer- free because he doesn’t see evidence of tumor presence. But tumor cells still can be there and eventually can give rise to new tumors. That is why he wanted a mastectomy. Double mastectomy is either you have tumors in both breasts or you are genetically predispose to get breast cancer( what is your family history of breast and ovarian cancer?)

    • @moonwolfdancer1103
      @moonwolfdancer1103 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ТамараБелка-й8с there is no history of cancer on either side of my family. Test results after surgery are negative. I chose to have the bilateral, the oncologist said it was up to me. There was no cancer in the left. I also had a PET scan, no cancer. They didn't know why I had it.

  • @judyykau
    @judyykau 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I totally understand your frustration because I am a patient too. I’m watching your video in my hospital bed because I got admitted to here yesterday again. It’s been over two decades since having my chronic illness. It’s a torture for me being a patient who suffers the ups & downs for half of my lifetime.
    My doctors said almost same thing as yours too. Many mysteries in their heads about my MRI scans even they are medical professionals. There is nothing I can control my illness. Numerous relapses made me feel hopeless. But my life still needs to go on.
    So let’s hang in there💪. Remember u are not alone. Take care & support u always. U’ve been doing a very good job❤️. Sending u love & hugs😘😍

  • @debbieroberts600
    @debbieroberts600 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sooo Sorry Romee, Praying 🙏 things will turn out To be Good News! Blessings! ❤️🙏😇🍁🍁

  • @aliciabienkowski829
    @aliciabienkowski829 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The power of your thoughts! You have to believe you are healthy! That you are cancer free! The power of manifestation. Think positively is so important!

  • @wingclipped
    @wingclipped 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hugs, Do not loose faith Romee, you will be fine ♥

  • @lreece60
    @lreece60 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are a remarkable young lady!! I know you’ll get the play button!! And maybe it is a positive thing that the tumor is rather static and not growing. Keep a smile on your face and hope in your heart. Sending you love and hugs!!

  • @CrazyCatzMom
    @CrazyCatzMom 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hugs to you Romee this roller coaster ride hopefully will be over soon & be cancer free

  • @jodeming5088
    @jodeming5088 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Romee, you have had a long year full of twists & turns. Some good & some not. Thru out this journey you have handled it with honesty, humor , grace & dignity. Fighting for yourself & others. I honestly believe you are going to be ok. Get the tests done & get the answers you need. We all love you & have your back. You have got this Beautiful.!! Sending lots of hugs & prayers your way.

  • @myramartin553
    @myramartin553 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    A true champ! Very impressed by your capabilities to explain your processes! I’m believing you will be “Cancer Free”

  • @SM-nr3nq
    @SM-nr3nq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If the path leads to the goal, its length won‘t matter in the end. You got this girl! 🍀👸🏻

  • @aliceschram1043
    @aliceschram1043 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am praying for you Rome, this is an emotional roller coaster, your feelings are understandable, just know that you have so much support here .

  • @fimdaconta178
    @fimdaconta178 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Romee, the best days will come for you!