Responding To YOUR Hottest Medical Takes

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  • @Silentgrace11
    @Silentgrace11 ปีที่แล้ว +18412

    Hot take: insurance companies should not have the right to arbitrarily decide what is “medically necessary” for a patient when they’re not the ones actually providing patient care. Doctors should not have to constantly adapt their care services to meet the insurance company’s demands especially if that’s not the best care plan for the patient.

    • @EskChan19
      @EskChan19 ปีที่แล้ว +654

      Agreed. And they also shouldn't be generalizing things as well. This isn't a big example since the treatment wasn't very expensive, but I once went to have a wart removed that was on my butt right where I sit. It would grow for a while, harden and become very painfull, until eventually it chaved off enough to start bleeding for a while, and then the cycle would start over. Sitting was really painfull whenever the hardening phase came about. So I went to have it checked out and after making sure it wasn't a malignant thing, had it removed.
      I had to pay for that myself, because "Warts aren't a health hazard, so removing them is just for the looks and therefore plastic surgery which we don't pay". Which yes, anywhere else it would not have been a problem, but at this spot it was!

    • @mahad1203
      @mahad1203 ปีที่แล้ว +436

      Agreed, but I don’t think this is a hot take. You’re 100% right though

    • @xoxolovechristielynn
      @xoxolovechristielynn ปีที่แล้ว +273

      AGREE A MILLION TIMES OVER. I have had insurance companies even decide what doctor I can see and override my doctors prescriptions and treatments. People who have never met me, wouldn’t know how to read my medical chart if they ever saw it and have no business on the medical care side of things, and need to stick to the coding and billing side of things. Infuriating.

    • @sunsundks3891
      @sunsundks3891 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      ​@@EskChan19I think it is a problem in a lot of the places in a body

    • @bencenagy5459
      @bencenagy5459 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      It's not a hot take if it's true

  • @Snazzy16
    @Snazzy16 ปีที่แล้ว +7389

    Hot take: dental and eye insurance should fall under health insurance. They all relate to health and whats inside our body. Health insurance should provide for dental and eye necesites.

    • @Snazzy16
      @Snazzy16 ปีที่แล้ว +288

      @@Devilsadvocate23 100% I agree. Insurance is so so stupid

    • @M13
      @M13 ปีที่แล้ว +326

      In Taiwan you pay about 30 bucks a month for health insurance and it covers absolutely everything from dental to eyes to psychiatric.

    • @LuiZ-jy1pi
      @LuiZ-jy1pi ปีที่แล้ว +79

      not hot take, just obvious: the more things you add to the insurance, the higher the cost will be and worse the system becomes. There's no such thing as free lunch, the insurance companies should be free to create and offer different "bundles" of health services that are covered and price them accordingly, and then the client picks the ones that benefit them the most.
      Here in Brazil we have ludicrous regulations on private health insurances, every year some groups go to congress to lobby for more and more mandatory coverage. The health care plans can't even make distinctions between genders and ages, which is INSANE. Imagine the insurance for a competitive race car costing the same as the insurance for a car that a middle aged man drives in a small town. That's what the regulations do.
      What ends up happening is that prices are absolutely prohibitive for young and healthy people, which lead them to drop out, causing insurance companies to have more and more of the oldest and sickest people enrolled, which in turn make the cost even higher, causing more people to drop out on the other end, and then the snowball effect is set in motion.

    • @coconutstory
      @coconutstory ปีที่แล้ว +98

      Sigh. Wish my fellow Americans voted for universal healthcare.

    • @Krushx0
      @Krushx0 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      do you have any idea how much pain and inconvenience and freedom loss that introduce in your life? No sane business person would give people car insurance if your driving behavior constantly damage the car every day... or you would have to pay an insane amount. Life has many aspect don't just see from your point of view.

  • @maggiep6605
    @maggiep6605 ปีที่แล้ว +23700

    As a cancer researcher, if cancer was cured tomorrow, everyone I know would be happy to find a new area of science to work in.

    • @Absbabs88
      @Absbabs88 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's not the scientists that's the issues, it's the drug companies.

    • @agure4061
      @agure4061 ปีที่แล้ว +4583

      Cool, you don't make the money. The pharmaceutical CEO's do.

    • @maggiep6605
      @maggiep6605 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@agure4061 They don't do the research. They wouldn't be able to keep it a secret somewhere with all the testing that is required. Too many people would be involved and there would be whistleblowers.

    • @abbodabbo6863
      @abbodabbo6863 ปีที่แล้ว +940

      Oncology nurse here. I’d gladly find another nursing specialty!

    • @novamagician2425
      @novamagician2425 ปีที่แล้ว +1716

      Im pretty sure that even if a cure for cancer is found, there will still be research to be done to find cheaper or more efficient ways to administer the cure. Also, insurance companies are the ones that control the prices of drugs as they are the ones that negotiate the pricing of drugs and medical procedures

  • @rlpupdates
    @rlpupdates 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +82

    Thank you for taking on the cancer myth as a cancer survivor this conspiracy drives me crazy as it makes no sense but does such damage and could put cancer patients at risk.

    • @elijahevangarcia
      @elijahevangarcia 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Jesus loves you more than you can imagine he suffered the worst punishment to frogive are sins allow him into your life he is with you no matter what allow him into your life he is always knocking at your heart

    • @atom12015
      @atom12015 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There were no weapons of mass destruction in iraq. They had something to hide so they made up an entire war. They couldn't care less about us

    • @jessmallory6591
      @jessmallory6591 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I’m also a caner survivor and I completely agree. Makes me so mad.

    • @C0mpetable
      @C0mpetable 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@jessmallory6591so it's not true?

    • @trublacking8572
      @trublacking8572 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yeah you don't know human greed then and you are fool I'm glad you survived but still dose take from these ppl lying about it

  • @KnightSlasher
    @KnightSlasher ปีที่แล้ว +4440

    Doctor mike giving his knowledge on medical hot takes is amazing, it allows him to vent his frustration while dealing with the misconceptions

    • @BrandelSaundh-i7p
      @BrandelSaundh-i7p ปีที่แล้ว +10

      What are you talking about

    • @info0
      @info0 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cancer never being cured because it makes money, it's just common sense. No need to be medic here. It's the truth, whether doctors like to admit it or not.
      Big pharma business is probably 2nd most profitable business right after military.

    • @alexicon2006
      @alexicon2006 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      I understnad what he's saying

    • @melissasheppard6674
      @melissasheppard6674 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      ​@@omaausbeuterbasically Dr. Mike gets to vent his frustration with false information while debunking it

    • @aramenius4293
      @aramenius4293 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He's a bit wokie tho

  • @MarnieGolde7
    @MarnieGolde7 ปีที่แล้ว +3588

    The problem is that most people think cancer is this ONE thing that needs just ONE cure. And I’m just so, so tired of explaining.

    • @Views_of_Eight
      @Views_of_Eight 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +497

      I’ve always found “a cure for cancer” such a strange statement and a bit of a strange thing to focus on. First, we do have pretty effective treatments for a lot of types of cancer. Second, there ARE so many different types of cancer, it might be difficult to find a cure for ALL of them. Third, cancer isn’t the only terrible disease in the world. I get it, it’s devastating and I’ve lost family to it, but it’s not the only thing that does that. It’s always felt like a weird general statement and people act as if we’ll have “won” medicine once we beat cancer. Like, no? There are still plenty of fatal disease out there that anyone can get? It’s not the end-all be-all of medical research

    • @ethangriffiths7802
      @ethangriffiths7802 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

      @@Views_of_Eightvery well said.

    • @pnut3844able
      @pnut3844able 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

      No one wants you to explain anyways, so we're all fine with you not doing it too.

    • @bhperfig349
      @bhperfig349 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      plus theyd make TONS of money off a cure for cancer so its j a dumb conspiracy theory

    • @old-slow-and-tired
      @old-slow-and-tired 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

      So you have taken to complaining instead of explaining. That is certainly a step up for humanity. Okay smart ass remark is over....
      but to be fair, most people are not overly/well/moderately educated on the topic of cancer. And to a laymen, all cancers have one thing in common, they are all created withing the host body. Why then could it not be "one cure". If there was an underlying root cause for the cells to mutate, regardless of environment, but from within the cells then it could be one cure. Of course i get the basics, different strains of the flu require different flu shots each year etc etc. But ya still never know.

  • @CreamIceMs
    @CreamIceMs ปีที่แล้ว +1887

    The fact that DENTAL CARE is not considered in insurance, as if your teeth can't get sick! How it's separated from Healthcare like that is WILD to me.

    • @GoddoDoggo
      @GoddoDoggo ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Most health insurance plans cover one exam and cleaning per year; dental insurance is usually used for "everything else," like fillings or other treatments.

    • @Noitsbecky101
      @Noitsbecky101 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      is this just a US thing? bc i live in morocco, and dental care is covered by insurance here

    • @lamari2753
      @lamari2753 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      ⁠​⁠@@Noitsbecky101Unfortunately, a lot of health insurance companies here in the US are separate from dental. You can always get it through your employer or go the private route

    • @ShastaMusic
      @ShastaMusic ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Even with dental insurance it's wildly expensive. Physical health issues I've had caused my teeth to decay faster than normal, but my medical insurance doesn't cover anything. My dental covers 50%, which means it's only $10k for the work I need instead of $20k....yay..☠️

    • @katscratchfever3506
      @katscratchfever3506 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I completely agree. My dental insurance is so useless that letting a tooth rot and paying $60 to have it pulled is the cheapest route.

  • @datdankdj8264
    @datdankdj8264 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +499

    Dr Mike is the kind of doctor who could fix a broken heart and a broken leg with the same efficiency in the same day and you cannot tell me otherwise

    • @plp666
      @plp666 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      If you could afford to go to him I suppose 🤔

    • @datdankdj8264
      @datdankdj8264 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@plp666 he is indeed an American doctor last I checked so you’re not wrong 😂

    • @gabrielcarrasco9078
      @gabrielcarrasco9078 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You'll need chest compressions for that broken lego though.

    • @nickwoodward819
      @nickwoodward819 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      so efficient he can't answer the first question

    • @zin4hamzaadib
      @zin4hamzaadib 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Otherwise...

  • @myrawest
    @myrawest ปีที่แล้ว +513

    Ugh he is so right about not laying around too much when you're injured. I went that route with a chronic leg injury and it just stayed bad or got worse for YEARS. And it was finally moving again, slowly, but pushing through some pain that finally got myself to heal.

    • @Messup7654
      @Messup7654 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      What is too much because you shouldn’t push through pain you can work on yourself without pushing through pain that’s how you get injured ask any doctor specifically the one who likes your comment (unless your talking about mental pain😂)

    • @Messup7654
      @Messup7654 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s a big difference between breaking your leg and spraining something especially a small sprain so how chronic was your injury

    • @myrawest
      @myrawest ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Messup7654 you're talking without knowing ANYTHING about my injury

    • @Simplenotion
      @Simplenotion ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Messup7654 actually for a lot of chronic and acute injuries/issues you have to work with a certain amount of pain to make it better short and longterm - every good physiotherapist will tell you that. It doesn't mean that you ignore the pain and have to push through every kind and amount of pain but some pain cannot be avoided in treatment.

    • @CreamIceMs
      @CreamIceMs ปีที่แล้ว

      I recently learned that this is the case for you vocal cords too! Keeping your voice at total rest keeps it at a higher risk of atrophying or getting worse when you have a vocal injury.

  • @mirandarobinson6005
    @mirandarobinson6005 ปีที่แล้ว +1397

    My husband was an ICU nurse and do you know what he saw all the time in the hospital? Unhealthy healthcare workers, including ICS nurses, not recognizing their own unhealthy behaviors while passing judgement on their patients. My mom, who was also a nurse, use to say, "they did it to themselves." all the time, until she was diagnosed with diabetes. Suddenly, it's genetics or a societal problem and not just her doing it to herself.

    • @reaperzwei845
      @reaperzwei845 ปีที่แล้ว +106

      Eh, not surprising. Healthcare workers are people too.

    • @leaffinite2001
      @leaffinite2001 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Yeah that behaviors not nurse exclusive, but it can be most harmful in medical situations.

    • @rileymosman2808
      @rileymosman2808 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      I feel like a lot of people in the medical field tend to see the condition before seeing the person. I don't know if it's a coping mechanism or just because it's their job to treat conditions

    • @hamcrazy96
      @hamcrazy96 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      People are just uneducated when it comes to their own wellbeing it’s not all on them (besides the judgmental part.) America is a society where over nutrition is a problem eating and drinking empty calories, this a very new phenomenon in human history. It needs to be instilled at a young age how to actively stay healthy and that starts with sleep

    • @M13
      @M13 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Almost all health derives from food. And oddly both doctors and nurses spend almost no time studying nutrition.

  • @svetlanazhigalina
    @svetlanazhigalina ปีที่แล้ว +1197

    "To hurt someone who's already hurting"... Such profoundly kind and empathetic words ♥

    • @Tina-stick
      @Tina-stick ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Yeaaa! I was like “that’s a great idea at first” but after hearing his opinion it was an immediate no for me, damn

    • @martinmarkov9707
      @martinmarkov9707 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Killing dead people. No, wait, that's grave robbing and a sign of necrophilia..
      Will never understand why ppl smoke or drink alchohol. Even less when it comes to drugs.
      I'd rather go into a food coma than any of those. And forget gambling or courtisans.

    • @tkrause1116
      @tkrause1116 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes!

    • @triv4555
      @triv4555 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@martinmarkov9707 J.Cole's album KOD said it best: "Life can bring much pain...there are many ways to deal with this pain." Some people just choose lower-quality methods like smoking, drinking, drugs, etc.. because it's an easier/cheaper way out than ways that require a more active commitment, like therapy/counseling and so on.

    • @DrahcirII
      @DrahcirII ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@martinmarkov9707 Maybe they've had too many bad days and it's easier for them to chase indulgences or some other nuance

  • @DeathsHood
    @DeathsHood 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +102

    Regarding the guy who sprained his shoulder: I had a similar injury when I did Muay Thai.
    Training against a heavy bag, and it swung back at me more than I expected, which seriously sprained my shoulder.
    The doctor who checked me out gave me a sling, but explained that it wasn't to be used 100% of the time, and that I should only actually use it, basically, as a reminder that I was injured and shouldn't be overworking the joint by training hard or lifting heavy.
    Very helpful and informative doctor. Loved him.

  • @h3llr4iser1
    @h3llr4iser1 ปีที่แล้ว +580

    Hot take:
    Relatively young and otherwise healthy patients often aren't given the due consideration when they first report encountering health issues; many doctors and nurses automatically assume complaints about not feeling well to be borne out of stress, panic attacks, bad habits and so on. This is especially true when it's something intermittent and that has cleared up / is not happening when you get to the doctor's office.
    Personal experience: had paroxysmal Afib for years and it was always blamed on stress or "panic attacks". It took an hours-long episode and it being caught on EKG at the ER to finally convince everyone I was not making it up - and even in the ER, the nurses kinda went "tut-tut" at me when I described my symptoms - until the EKG machine spat the printout.

    • @KMx108
      @KMx108 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      You don't have to be young to get that treatment. My bladder was not squeezing properly. I was in my 40s and was treated like I just needed to be reminded how to pee properly. When I kept complaining, I was told I probably wasn't potty trained properly as a child. I was also told i could simply be stressed. The reality was I had a B12 deficiency. My parents got a good laugh out of being blamed for causing a problem after decades of zero trouble.

    • @Bookluver29
      @Bookluver29 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      There are big issues globally with women being disregarded by the healthcare community when reporting symptoms as well. This goes back to not only societal misogyny, but the evolution of medicine being based primarily on the study of male patients, who can often have very different presentations of the same issues.
      Youth and age bias also exist, as does weight bias. I, personally, have struggled with the healthcare system most of my life, and it's only recently that I've been able to get solid diagnosis and consideration - and that's only because I was able to get enough therapy for my depression from being societally gaslit into thinking that everything I experienced was 'in my head' to finally make the effort to find a GP that would actually listen to me and trust that I wasn't making things up or just get to the end of the diagnostic road and give up.
      Silent and Chronic Illnesses, too, make things even more difficult. I was diagnosed when I was still in middle school with Chronic Fatigue Syndrome - which is what you get diagnosed with when every test comes back 'within normal range' but you still have undeniable and tangible symptoms. It's only now, with the emergence of Long Covid that the medical community at large are finally realising that Chronic Fatigue is a valid issue.
      Facing the scepticism of doctors, friends, family, teachers and peers for most of my adolescence was absolutely shattering to my self esteem and ability to form relationships. Being accused of faking it, being lazy or disrespectful became deeply internalised and while I can finally see what happened with that, the damage is something I now have to live with and put an unfair amount of effort into trying to heal so that I can try to move on and develop a healthy life.
      It's hard, in the face of all that, to try and see it from the other side. I still think, even given ongoing unrelated struggles my family faces with getting recognition and support from the healthcare community, that it's important to remember that healthcare workers are people. They are going to make judgement calls based on experience and personal bias, and it's not malicious. It's not fair, and it does cause harm, and it does need to be brought to attention that this does happen, and it happens every day, but we as a community also need to remember to have compassion and understanding so we don't end up alienating and demonising people just like we were.

    • @alice45-fgd-456drt
      @alice45-fgd-456drt ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@Bookluver29 The fact that the science is biased is one thing, but honestly yeah I will judge a so called medical professional who refuses to listen to their patient because of their own made up bias. No doctor is told that fat people don't get ill with anything other than things relating to their weight, or that women only suffer from mental disorders and not physical illness, yet that's the way we're often treated. I've had several actual physical diagnosable medical issues be diagnosed as "stress" or "depression" before seeking a second, third, fourth opinion to get someone to actually run tests to find out what the problem is. With that in mind, I have zero compassion for people who are put in a position of power and wealth to provide a service but refuse to do so because of personal bias. These "doctors" are killing people with their negligence and should be stripped of their license.

    • @tollkirschearkham3508
      @tollkirschearkham3508 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I've had experience with this, too. I have reported to a hospital a few times with a severe pain in my stomach area (I was about 20 at the time). It would start out relatively minor and over time would become bad enough to leave me in tears. It felt like contractions. I was accused of everything from drug-seeking to lying about a pregnancy (I weighed about 130 at the time, if I was far enough along to have contractions, I would have had a beach ball sized lump under my shirt). I never found out what was wrong, all tests came back normal and ultimately they couldn't determine what it was.
      I know now that I have GERD, but I don't experience this anymore and I don't know if GERD had anything to do with it.

    • @kid-ava
      @kid-ava 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@Bookluver29I love this comment. I am sorry about your experiences though and I'm glad you're in a better place now

  • @AymenDZA
    @AymenDZA ปีที่แล้ว +621

    The thing with genetic testing also is that saying "10 time more likely" doesn't mean 1000%, it mean that... Let's say the average chance of getting a disease is 0.5%, then your chances are now 5%.
    Results like these scare people especially if it's a serious life altering/threatening condition.

    • @RogerLackman
      @RogerLackman ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Great point!

    • @Darkspoon1506
      @Darkspoon1506 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Unfortunately Alzheimer’s is quite a common disease, so an increase in relative risk is actually quite bad.

    • @Gods_Real
      @Gods_Real ปีที่แล้ว

      They alter our DNA without our consent.

    • @nischay4760
      @nischay4760 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      yeah, when I heard him just say 8-10 times, the first question in my mind was what is the statistical chance of getting Alzheimer's? Im sure that scene was scripted that way to raise the tension of that show or whatever it was.

    • @user-AstroVespers
      @user-AstroVespers 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      As someone with health anxiety this was really helpful,thanks!

  • @ChristerGilbert
    @ChristerGilbert ปีที่แล้ว +418

    Hearing how you responded to the comment about having to pay more if you live an unhealthy life style made me happy. Mentally healthy people dont understand the range of challenges that less mentally healthy people go through. So thank you for that.

    • @tinntinnamp
      @tinntinnamp ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Yes, that was such a messed up take from that supposed Nurse. Clearly she has a biased opinion, which you shouldn't have in the medical field, and Dr. Mike is such a great example of that. Of course he's not perfect but he clearly tries very hard to understand every aspect of people and the medical field.

    • @ShareenHo
      @ShareenHo ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Man it took me years to quit smoking and went to vaping, and I WISH I could give it up but my vices are what gets me through things daily. I managed to quit caffeine, quit cigarettes, cut down on drinking by a lot... so Im making progress, slow progress , but it would be horrible to hear me not being worth helping just because I have vices that get me through the day.

    • @ChristofferLund6
      @ChristofferLund6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I believe we're discussing USA here. The country has higher taxes on alcohol and cigarettes, and some states even levy small taxes on items like fats and sugars. Additionally, a portion of federal tax contributes to programs like the Children’s Health Insurance Program (CHIP) and the Affordable Care Act (ACA). This means the less fortunate can benefit from programs like the ACA. Please note that this is just a cursory overview based on my brief online research, so take it with a grain of salt

    • @pininja4981
      @pininja4981 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@tinntinnampt wasn't a biased view. She made absolute sense but she removed emotions and cause from the equation. Thats why its not a good idea to do that. But she had the right ideal in mind. That if we make life easier for healthy people, more people will want to be healthier. Its true. Not all people obviously. But many will improve their lives. But she removed important factors from the equation so the idea isn't the best

    • @DragonNexus
      @DragonNexus ปีที่แล้ว +19

      ​@@pininja4981thoroughly anime avatar take there.
      The reason people aren't healthy is they don't want it enough?
      What about low wages leading to limited food choices, meaning worse quality food full of fat and sugar?
      What about long work hours meaning you don't have the time to prepare food yourself and have to rely on quick calories to keep going?
      What about just so many different kinds of mental illnesses?
      Grow some damn empathy, my guy.

  • @adriennedoughertylogan3743
    @adriennedoughertylogan3743 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I appreciate Dr. Mike’s take on charging higher insurance premiums. I would’ve felt the same way as that nurse, but I watch my aunt, deep in depression, and terribly overweight with miss managed diabetes sink under medical bills. Hearing Dr. Mike say that people who let go of their bodies and don’t take care of themselves are already in a dark place is a stark reminder to approach this understanding with grace and kindness…. A.k.a. the least harmful assumption.❤

  • @MEStrahm
    @MEStrahm ปีที่แล้ว +595

    As a nurse who is also a recovering addict, the misconceptions so many healthcare professionals have about addiction is very sad

    • @rdizzy1
      @rdizzy1 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      And this includes pharmacists. They also don't know the difference between chemical dependence, and addiction. (Difference in behaviors) I have been physically dependent on prescriptions of opioids for 17 years, for instance, but have never once taken more than prescribed, have never once engaged in risky or negative behaviors, it has never effected my life negatively, have never sought out drugs on the street, etc,etc. I am chemically dependent, however, I am not an addict.

    • @jeff4762
      @jeff4762 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Not even a healthcare professional not an addict but that take made me so sad. What so many people don’t understand is that addiction truly is a societal issue and they believed it could be fixed by decreasing healthcare accessibility rather than increasing it.

    • @wobblestone3148
      @wobblestone3148 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@jeff4762 well, that person's probably thinking that increasing the negative consequences for being an addict will make people less likely to become one, although that's not always the case

    • @rdizzy1
      @rdizzy1 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jeff4762 It is similar to the delusions they have about keeping drugs illegal or making even more drugs illegal. In drugs that people want to use, legality has no effect on usage, it only has a negative effect on society via throwing addicts into prisons.
      All street drugs should be decriminalized on a federal level, at the very least, if not made fully legal, so addicts have sources of untainted drugs of known doses. Making heroin or cocaine legal will not increase usage to any significant amount. This will result in a decrease in deaths by 50+%, and put a huge portion of the cartels and dealers out of business. But they will not do this, because the puritans masturbate furiously over punishing others for perceived wrong doings, they truly think that addicts deserve to die for their behaviors.

    • @jonboy9734
      @jonboy9734 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@rdizzy1there is a negative connotation to addict. It’s not negative, it is, what it is.

  • @eline_van_dijk
    @eline_van_dijk ปีที่แล้ว +910

    Fun fact: in The Netherlands you actually are a donor when you turn 18 and it's the default to list that you're not. They did it because often people forget to become a donor. But your direct family can still choose not to make you a donor after you've deceased

    • @Misshughestrm
      @Misshughestrm ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Organ donation is mortifying to me, fyi, you can't donate a heart that doesn't beat, they consider you "dead" so there is no anesthesia. Many coma patients that wake up recall things that happened around them I can only imagine you'd know your heart is getting torn out of your chest and you can't tell them to stop because you're still in there.

    • @noahbrown6970
      @noahbrown6970 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      Same in the UK, and you're even given a list on a special card so that if you want to stay on the register, you can choose which organs will be donated. Which is quite good tbh, cause I feel like its a public service everyone can take part in (one of the few that has no genuine risk to you as a person as well), but I also didn't like the idea of having no control whatsoever! :)

    • @TheNotoriousDUDE
      @TheNotoriousDUDE ปีที่แล้ว +75

      What's awful is that it's not just that people "forget" to sign up as donors, they literally just don't care enough to remember, which is just sad.

    • @PaulJones-br6uv
      @PaulJones-br6uv ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Same here in Wales. We have presumed consent. Means transplant coordinators will be notified if a suitable person is about to die. They will then ask the family for permission.

    • @Mohdaman13
      @Mohdaman13 ปีที่แล้ว +107

      ​@@Misshughestrmpeople in comas still get some brain activity, so thankfully that's not possible unless the doctors don't check for brain activity

  • @MayonnaiseJane
    @MayonnaiseJane ปีที่แล้ว +403

    My husband was once misdiagnosed with Lyme. They told him to stay off his feet for like a week. Turns out it was his first Rheumatoid Arthritis flare, and the worst thing you can do for that is stop moving your joints for a whole week... that was a rough recovery.

    • @RSainman
      @RSainman ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So sorry that you had to go through this.
      May God give you and your family strength ❤️

    • @ordenax
      @ordenax ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Those giving such advices and charging for it, should be liable

    • @JohnDoe-qz1ql
      @JohnDoe-qz1ql ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Did you sue??

    • @MayonnaiseJane
      @MayonnaiseJane ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@JohnDoe-qz1ql Not every misdiagnosis is malpractice my dude. We had a rough few months of recovery and he's fine now.

    • @JohnDoe-qz1ql
      @JohnDoe-qz1ql ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@MayonnaiseJane No. If it caused Harm, I'm quite sure you can receive compensation. That said, I know not everyone will readily sue a Dr.

  • @mattdoa2
    @mattdoa2 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    7:23 in Australia, we tax the alcohol and cigarette very highly for those associated health care costs - they pay the extra cost at time of purchase, job done.

  • @ridgewalker2010
    @ridgewalker2010 ปีที่แล้ว +165

    So glad Lyme Diseas was mentioned! My brother nearly died (not typical, I know) from a bad case. 2 weeks after being bitten, he went into heart failure. Our tiny little local E.R. doc kept on top of him like a hawk, and saved his life twice in 24 hours. My brother was then transferred to a bigger hospital and was about 4 hours away from being given a pacemaker at age 39, when his Lyme test result came in, positive off the charts. He never had a visible bullseye rash. Several weeks of IV antibiotics later, and his heart has been healthy as a horse ever since. Scared the living bejeesus out of me, though.

    • @1mol_wAter
      @1mol_wAter ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Holy moly that’s crazy. Props to everyone in the story and I’m so so so glad everything turned out well for your brother.

    • @gracetanner4132
      @gracetanner4132 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That’s such a terrifying experience so thankful he is doing okay now
      I have a question what symptoms did he have before his hospitalization?

    • @ridgewalker2010
      @ridgewalker2010 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @gracetanner4132 thank you! The symptoms came on very suddenly and got worse shockingly fast. He got very, very pale, short of breath, sweating, severe muscle weakness to the point of it being difficult to walk, dizziness, and confusion. His heartbeat was erratic. I've seen severe panic attacks (which are awful, for sure), and this wasn't like that. It all got that severe in the span of maybe 15 minutes.

  • @maggierex5675
    @maggierex5675 ปีที่แล้ว +292

    Note to the Editors: I really like how the orange line moves on the bottom of the screen to show how long each of his takes are. It was very satisfying!!

    • @stargazer-elite
      @stargazer-elite ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes

    • @tami3456
      @tami3456 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      What an odd thing to point out

    • @cuckoos_
      @cuckoos_ ปีที่แล้ว +19

      ​@@tami3456I mean, not really?

    • @tami3456
      @tami3456 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@cuckoos_ I mean, yeah it kind of is 😂

    • @SMTRodent
      @SMTRodent ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I appreciated that as well! I thought it was nifty.

  • @emmyd811
    @emmyd811 ปีที่แล้ว +1498

    Fun little fact about the first hot take: Wales actually has the default of being an organ donor and you actually have to opt out instead of in, this was made because they noticed how many people actually wanted to be organ donors but obviously we don’t know when we die so they just don’t get round to like opting in

    • @cassandram5232
      @cassandram5232 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Same in France

    • @margodphd
      @margodphd ปีที่แล้ว +94

      As should be. Life of a person is worth so much more than a rotting piece of meat.

    • @Oddballkane
      @Oddballkane 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      It's a thing in England as well.

    • @alaskacosplay
      @alaskacosplay 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      @@margodphdis there a form I could sign that says “I am not giving permission on harvesting my organs, even after death for personal reasons.” ? Mostly because I feel like I would feel incomplete in the afterlife if I was gutted like a fish.

    • @CynthiaNephew
      @CynthiaNephew 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Same in the Netherlands

  • @gokuuzumaki70
    @gokuuzumaki70 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    "The people at these corporations are people still"
    Never underestimate human greed and cruelty

  • @parallelpinkparakeet
    @parallelpinkparakeet 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +870

    Thank you for addressing the "all cancer can be cured if it wasn't for big pharma greed" take. I work for a research company that does verification studies on drugs and treatments, and so so so much of our work is on cancer treatments. Cancer is an extremely complex and varied disease that there's no one simple cure. Also it is a spit in the face to all that do work on these treatments. Many of us have family that ends up needing these treatments, and in some cases our own coworkers do, too.

    • @tartantulakid666
      @tartantulakid666 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Out of curiosity, what is your opinion of the Warburg Effect and viewing cancer as a metabolic disease instead of a genetic disease? The model makes a lot of sense considering the correlation between people consuming more sugar AND exercising less with the increase in cancer. Mitochondrial dysfunction causing cell replecation makes a lot of sense.😊

    • @parallelpinkparakeet
      @parallelpinkparakeet 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      @@tartantulakid666 Truthfully it's been a long time since I've been in the lab (I work on the financial side now.) That's something I haven't looked into to have a really informed opinion, but that does sound intriguing!

    • @youtubehandlesareridiculous
      @youtubehandlesareridiculous 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I hate the big pharma conspiracy theories. It's like the left wing version of QANON or talking about "the gays and trans are trying to convert our kids ." Yes a lot of pharma exists to make money and is greedy, but this is so reductionist.

    • @AgentK-im8ke
      @AgentK-im8ke 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You guys should focus more on genetics the answer for a cure is there, we should be able to modify or enhance our own genetics

    • @parallelpinkparakeet
      @parallelpinkparakeet 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      @@AgentK-im8ke It's up to our clients for what we work on, but I do see a lot of genetics work coming from them

  • @melissamorley8099
    @melissamorley8099 ปีที่แล้ว +350

    As a person with a disability, I disagree with what was said here about group homes, and what is now called long-term care. Unfortunately, sometimes people do get miss treated in these environments but that is not always the case. I live in a group home right now and it’s not perfect but my needs do get met and for the most part, the people who work here are extremely caring individuals and I have rapport and friendship with them 😊 I have a physical disability and my parents wouldn’t have been able to take care of my needs safely for much longer. It was my choice to move out and I don’t regret that decision. It was the best option for me.

    • @peterDcontact
      @peterDcontact ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I am sorry that are going through that but you are in a different position that a lot of elderly people. Some of them can't even talk so they end up being abused and there is nothing they could do..

    • @laurao3274
      @laurao3274 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      ​@peterDcontact That certainly does happen, unfortunately. However, most people who work in those places are caring individuals who are doing the best they can with the resources and staffing they are given. The problem is usually with the people funding the facilities, and something I've witnessed personally, which is the family members themselves. Oftentimes, the family members aren't willing to say goodbye when the inevitable happens, so they push for interventions that in the end are harmful to the patient.
      For example, when I worked in one such facility, there was a woman who was dying. She had been in and out of hospice for months. It was the very end, and she had stopped eating. Her daughter was demanding that we force-feed her, so she'll get something in her. The staff calmly explained to her that we don't do that. The daughter tried to say we were killing her by not force-feeding her. So yeah, it was a pretty crappy situation all around.

    • @prettybyte6513
      @prettybyte6513 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      My Aunt was badly injured and none of my family lived in her area. None of us could take almost a year off work to live with her. So she had to go to a long term facility who also took in PT and hospitalized people who need recovery time. She was delighted with her help but she noticed some patients who were mistreated when they tried to speak about their own frustrations. I am sure it’s frustrating when trying to accept their current life and increasing disabilities. When they try to express it, the nurses often shut down the patient to avoid a scene instead of talking. The long-term-patients then became upset and acted out more. They wanted to be “heard” but were instead sedated. She saw this over and over and begged us to take her home even though she knew she wasn’t up to moving around on her own yet. She did recover and looks forward to every farmers market.

    • @stevepest4143
      @stevepest4143 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@@peterDcontactyou only hear about the bad so you get tge impression that all are bad. Makes more money for the media. You click on such stories more..

    • @josephdahdouh2725
      @josephdahdouh2725 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@laurao3274 I think "most" is an exaggeration. If you follow up, you'll find out that many that work there are actually evil. There is even video camera footage on youtube on how the elderly are treated in some nursing homes. As they are being abused, drugged... They were taken by the family of the abused elderly as they were suspecting that the elderly's personality completely changed after entering the nursing home. When they viewed the footage, the family felt embarrassed to have placed their parents in a home full of evil workers and took her out of that place. There is nothing better than devoting some time every day to taking care of those that took care of us for a long time since our birth.

  • @xxkildarxx
    @xxkildarxx ปีที่แล้ว +3336

    Its crazy how dismissive people are of mental health. Even a supposed ICU-Nurse overlooks it in some desire for the myth off meritocracy.

    • @Teal_Blastoise
      @Teal_Blastoise ปีที่แล้ว +144

      I *_hate_* people are like that with mental health.

    • @jrmckim
      @jrmckim ปีที่แล้ว +194

      Yeah not sure they are a nurse... they would know that insurance companies usually make smokers or heavy drinkers pay more for insurance. That is widely known.

    • @sharonsangel2
      @sharonsangel2 ปีที่แล้ว +141

      Yeah a nurse saying that is scary and shameful smh

    • @KateSc722
      @KateSc722 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      Actually, they may be dismissing it with the male of the species, but if you are female and walk into an ER or clinic, most of your symptoms will be dismissed as anxiety and/or a panic attack or anxiety-induced migraine.

    • @sleepyote
      @sleepyote ปีที่แล้ว +55

      People like that shouldn't be nurses.

  • @omg1tsGriff
    @omg1tsGriff 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    As a Brit, the NHS is very close to my heart. The very short section on how the NHS/public healthcare is funded or how education for medicine is funded is a whole litany of issues in the UK right now and framing it as "there isn't enough money" is disingenuous and wrong. Other than that, great and informative video

  • @TomHollandEdits
    @TomHollandEdits ปีที่แล้ว +1424

    Hot take: therapy should been available for anyone who needs it and anything mental health related should be included in health insurance because it is just as important as our physical health!

    • @Agioia1-
      @Agioia1- ปีที่แล้ว

      The brain is an organ just like the rest of your body organs, so when the brain is sick people deserve to be covered. Mental illness can be just as devastating to an individual as a physical illness.

    • @paulettemart
      @paulettemart ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I believe mental health is included in insurance. I do therapy trough my insurance

    • @Agioia1-
      @Agioia1- ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@paulettemart it is me too, only issue is a lot of insurance companies won’t cover you a certain amount of visits depending on your plans. I’m lucky enough to have a top tier insurance through my job but I know a lot of friends who struggle to find a therapist that their insurance will cover.

    • @ellav9022
      @ellav9022 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It’s free in the UK

    • @Swordsman99k
      @Swordsman99k ปีที่แล้ว +22

      This is unfortunately an insurance issue. Insurance is allowed to decide so many factors in healthcare, it's absolutely disgusting.

  • @terryboyd4352
    @terryboyd4352 ปีที่แล้ว +290

    I recently was assigned to a different doctor, because mine retired. This doctor says he treat the whole person, physically AND mentally. I like him much better than my previous doctor. He's helping me handle my Type 2 diabetes, and wants me to get off most of my meds. (8) by eating better and just plain living better. I hope to be his patient for a long time.

    • @jesusofbullets
      @jesusofbullets ปีที่แล้ว +17

      That is the sign of a true medical professional. Glad you have a great doc.

    • @NEPtune-fy1ug
      @NEPtune-fy1ug ปีที่แล้ว +9

      thats exactly how it should be! diabetes control comes down to weight management, diet, exercise and finally medications. if diet is too hard to change, or exercise is difficult to fit into one's schedules, then medications need to be used. but if one is willing to put in the work to change up their diet and lifestyle, medications aren't necessary at all

    • @SuzanneIYN
      @SuzanneIYN ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I completely trust my obgyn with my health. Two years ago I was having a hard time with my mental health, I happened to have my annual with her. She spoke with me for an extra hour and gave me a list of about 7 therapists who took my insurance. My last therapy session is next month ❤
      She also acknowledges how the medical field treats women of color espeically with childbirth. I told her she has to stay working for about 5 more years so she can be my midwife 😂

    • @godfredprempeh6809
      @godfredprempeh6809 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That doctor is a DO. DO typically treat patients in a holistic way compare to MD

    • @musthaf9
      @musthaf9 ปีที่แล้ว

      A good doctor treats the disease. A great doctor treats the patient who has the disease.

  • @joshuawolfe7526
    @joshuawolfe7526 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    When I was young I got really sick. Could not keep anything down. After almost a week of this my mother, who was a nurse, took me to the ER. They said it was the flu, gave me fluids via IV, and sent me home a few hours later. Two days later I was in the same state. My mother took me to the family doctor who took one look at me and said I had Lyme. No targets on me or any other outward signs so my mother was not sure that was the correct diagnosis. He put me on med and a few days later I was feeling much better. Close to 30 years later and I still see that same doctor. He is now over an hour drive but I told him I will continue to have him as my PC doctor until he retires.

    • @khaotictrash
      @khaotictrash ปีที่แล้ว +4

      If I was you I wouldn’t see any other doctor either, he saved your life. Hope you’re doing better now! ❤

    • @elzhTlqkf
      @elzhTlqkf 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm glad to hear you're doing better, but how do you know whether you had lyme and recovered thanks to the treatment, or whether the issue was already resolving by itself over time and just happened to occur after the lyme treatment?

  • @dannyo7421
    @dannyo7421 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    2:06 my circadian rhythm has me tired at about 2am and wake up around noon. Ive never felt more rested and happy on a "regular" sleep schedule.

  • @duhnay
    @duhnay ปีที่แล้ว +154

    As someone with Lyme disease that's struggled for about 13 years despite antibiotics (oral and IV), thank you for talking about this issue repeatedly. If a doctor had believed me immediately instead of given me the "it's all in your head, Lyme disease isn't in this area" take, my life would be DRASTICALLY different now. Awareness, prevention, early detection, and early treatment is absolutely KEY 💚

    • @phil1500
      @phil1500 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thankfully the 'in your head' trend is reversing, thanks to some good research over the past five years. But cases are also skyrocketing. I just finished my doxy cycle a week ago and my back is more useless than before and the random brain fog is utterly crippling when it crops up for a few minutes every few hours. Had the rash on the back of my thigh for who knows how long before I luckily got another one on the front of my left thigh. Awareness is going up and research is getting funded with the increase in cases (though they haven't pinpointed the source of it beyond global warming, whether its due to tick life, deer migration, or rat/vermin longevity, probably all of them tbh). I think Ren has really helped awareness too.
      Wishing you all the best in your struggles

    • @TherealDanielleNelson
      @TherealDanielleNelson ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes! I thankfully had the red bullseye all over my body before I went in, because I really though it was just a rash. Took antibiotics its went away but came back a year later. Took more antibiotics and it went away, but now when it's really cold my joints ache. They told me it's nothing. I'm telling them it's arthritis from Lyme disease.

    • @RachelKay528
      @RachelKay528 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I do think it's important that Dr. Mike is talking about Lyme, but I also haven't seen him acknowledge that Chronic Lyme is real. If you go years without being diagnosed properly, so don't do treatment until like 10 years later, one course of doxy may not cure it. This is what they don't seem to understand. Sure, it works for some people, but for some people the Lyme doesn't go away and it keeps spreading. It can be really hard to get rid of.

    • @diablominero
      @diablominero 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@RachelKay528one course of doxycycline will almost certainly kill all the Lyme bacteria in your body. Leaving an infection untreated for years can do permanent damage to your body, but adding more courses of doxycycline isn't going to fix that (even though the antiinflammatory side effect of doxycycline might provide temporary symptom relief).

    • @RachelKay528
      @RachelKay528 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@diablominero you are absolutely wrong. Ask anyone in the chronic Lyme community.

  • @colinekszczecin
    @colinekszczecin ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Problems with NHS funding are often related to the government underfunding it, while pumping money into private health care facilities (often benefiting from it). Not to mention bureaucracy that cranks up costs. If a cost of pack of painkillers is 10 x of what the same medication costs in a supermarket, something is wrong there. But while as a society we don't pay specific bills for our treatement, it is still very much a business for people in charge.

  • @summitdrift8117
    @summitdrift8117 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    I have to say I've been watching a lot of your videos lately and your patients are INCREDIBLY lucky to have such an intelligent, tactful, and empathetic doctor. You are a shining example of what is RIGHT in the medical system ❤️

  • @Peach_Basket_Catch_It_Up
    @Peach_Basket_Catch_It_Up 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you for telling the truth about Lyme Disease! I was also misdiagnosed when it was really Lyme (they don’t call it “the great imitator” for nothing) as a teenager & by the time I was correctly diagnosed, I was already dealing with a lot of neurological symptoms. I don’t feel like I’ve ever fully healed from it, even though I know I no longer have the disease. I also have a genetic disease though and I think that made me more vulnerable to permanent damage from the unchecked Lyme. I often wonder how different my life could have turned out if the bullseye rash hadn’t been called a cellulitis infection & brushed off. If I had known then, what I know now, I would’ve pushed so much harder to be correctly diagnosed and treated early.

  • @crow_feather
    @crow_feather ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Thank you, Dr.Mike, for your compassion and understanding towards those struggling with addiction. As someone with friends I love dearly who struggle with it, hearing a doctor as influential as you show them love and help spread awareness about the root causes of addiction truly means a lot. This is how understanding and awareness is spread.

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku ปีที่แล้ว +6

      i genuinely burst into tears when he talked about how that would hurt people who are already hurting. i don't drink alcohol, smoke or use any kind of recreational drugs. but i'm not in good health and you can't punish people into eating healthier or exercising or taking better care of themselves. i quite frankly do not have the spoons, the psycho-socio-emotional resources, to go on a diet, forfeit all my favorite foods, take up running or cycling or whatever, the whole health rigamarole. i am psychologically falling apart and my physical health is a reflection of that. adding financial punishment on top of that is just going to (a) drive me away from seeking any kind of healthcare at all, which will (b) worsen my condition, hasten my physical and mental disintegration and (c) result in a death sentence. killing people to punish them for being unwell in the first place?

  • @candymoor
    @candymoor ปีที่แล้ว +134

    This is completely out of the topic of the video but, I wanted to say that you inspired me to learn about medicine, especially about family medicine. I'm 15, and your videos inspired me so much, I can't stop watching your videos. Thank you, Dr. Mike ♡

    • @sethstile1201
      @sethstile1201 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      All the best for your future.. be a good doctor

    • @candymoor
      @candymoor ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@sethstile1201Thank you, I will try my full best to be a good doctor

    • @Flow-Fi-
      @Flow-Fi- ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I’m sure you’ll be a wonderful doctor, especially with all the advancements being made in the medical field everyday. I’m betting you could be one to make a huge discovery :)

    • @candymoor
      @candymoor ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @eFlowFiNet That's very sweet of you, thank you so much! ♡

  • @catisyellen9877
    @catisyellen9877 ปีที่แล้ว +268

    About the sleep thing: I can be sleepy as Hell all day but after 9 pm my body wakes up as if I got enough sleep. This happens so often, and no matter how many times I try to “fix” my insomnia, it always circles back.

    • @Legendary_Starlight
      @Legendary_Starlight ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I’m usually tired all day and sometimes have energy to do something like make a bracelet, draw something, clean up something, etc before bed but then around 12am-1am I’m exhausted

    • @Moraenil
      @Moraenil ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Same here, though for me it's as soon as it gets dark, which changes depending on the time of year. I'm like a zombie all day (regardless of how much sleep I may have gotten), then as soon as it gets dark my body and brain wake up, and I'm wide awake until the sun starts coming up. Bright lights even put me to sleep because my eyes just want to close to hide from the light. I have dim lighting in my house that doesn't do this to me. I'm the exact opposite of "normal" people. Of course most people get depressed in the winter because of the lack of sunlight....that's when I'm happiest.

    • @oiseaufeu
      @oiseaufeu ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@MoraenilLook up on seasonal deptession. It's a real thing. I have that and I'm mostly affected by it in late fall. I feel more tired in October than I am in May. I also feel a lot more tired when it's dark cloudy outside.

    • @theredhunter4997
      @theredhunter4997 ปีที่แล้ว

      How you are describing the tiredness is possibility adhd as I’m fairly certain their circadian rhythms work differently. However, there are probably a lot of other causes, but I just thought I’d put it out there.

    • @MarchOnRome
      @MarchOnRome ปีที่แล้ว

      Have you tried Seroquel at nighttime? It’s the only non-habit forming/addictive drug that works for my insomnia. Also none of the side effects of drugs like Ambien

  • @TreehuggingLiberal
    @TreehuggingLiberal 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Dr Mike, it is clear you are kind soul and your patients are so very lucky to have you :).

  • @bleachnbones7107
    @bleachnbones7107 ปีที่แล้ว +1245

    I absolutely hate when people shame others for deciding to put a disabled or elderly family member in a care home, saying they're abandoning them or that they're a horrible parent/son/daughter/sibling. Because the vast majority of times they clearly have absolutely no idea of what it means for a family to deal with that kind of situation, where everyone, and I mean truly everyone, has to step in and dedicate a good portion of their life to caring for that person. It's not just hanging out and spending some quality time with grandma, it's having no day off, it's washing them and cleaning them and feeding them and keeping them busy, happy and entertained 24/7, organizing meds, doctor visits and planning care turns, physically moving them if they're unable to, depending on the severity of their situation also dealing with violent outbursts and temper tantrums, getting insulted and pushed around, seeing their mental state deteriorate in front of your eyes while knowing you can do nothing to help them. It's feeling guilty and powerless, and constantly wondering if you're doing it right or making things worse.
    It's hell. You love them with all your heart but it's hell. And I will never blame anyone for deciding to take a step back and prioritize their own wellbeing and mental health. Because if I ever got to the point of being unable to take care of myself I would want my relatives to do the same

    • @tollkirschearkham3508
      @tollkirschearkham3508 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      In a situation like this, I would also be worried that I don't have the stomach or the nerves to help with a person's care. I would be constantly stressed out about whether I gave them the right pill if any of them look similar, I absolutely could not give injections or do anything related to stuff like colostomy bags because I'd be afraid that I'd somehow hurt them or mess it up, etc. And it's got to be so embarrassing to have a close relative bathe you or wipe you.

    • @margodphd
      @margodphd ปีที่แล้ว +18

      100% agree.

    • @bleachnbones7107
      @bleachnbones7107 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tollkirschearkham3508 after a while you get used to the physical things. The hardest to deal with is the psychological stuff. Because not only are you dealing 24/7 with the regular hardships and challenges of things like dementia or other mental issues, but the person who's experiencing it is someone you love so it can get extremely difficult emotionally speaking. You eventually adapt and learn how to behave but you never truly get over it, especially when it's a degenerative kind of disease and you know it can only progressively get worse

    • @galeforce3192
      @galeforce3192 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

      I work in assisted living. I don't work at a home for geriatric residents, but even based on what higher-functioning residents might need, I refuse to judge anyone for making the decision for putting a family member into a care home. I imagine that it sucks making that decision, but if caring for this family member is affecting the quality of life of everyone else in the family, then it's probably time to leave this person's care to someone who's specifically trained to take on that sort of thing.

    • @TeacherMaycol
      @TeacherMaycol 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      I've been going through something like this. My mom is 62 years old and she's got a plethora of things. She has rheumatoid arthritis (which we have been dealing with since I can remember) she's a pre-diabetic, hypertension and last year unfortunately she got the shingles which has been her decline. I'm a 28 year old guy and I'm pretty tough for any scenario but this last year has been hell for me. She needs help with mostly everything, not only do I care for her and take care of everything in the house I also have a job to support us. I'm lucky enough to work from home (I teach English and Spanish online through zoom) which I'm extremely grateful for because all of my students understand sometimes if I have to step out for a couple of minutes or if sometimes I'm just mentally drained. These past two weeks I've been considering taking her to an assisted medical facility where she can get 24 hour care and all of her needs are met. It's a struggle with my mental health because I wish she could be better or I wish I could give her a better life. I'm exhausted sometimes and I don't have family to lean on so all I can do is just work my ass off and hope that tomorrow is a better day. I truly wish things were different, it's my mom, she raised me as a single mom and gave me an education for me to be able to support her but sometimes it's too much. It's sad seeing your parent who you believed to be a super hero, seeing them all down and just sucked up by illness. Parents can't last forever but I wish she didn't have to suffer so much, I wish I could take some of the pain away, I wish she were happy and resting pain free. I agree with what was said and anyone going through something similar, sometimes we are dealt bad hands, it's not your fault or anyone's, sometimes life is just cruel that way.

  • @hannahs_harp
    @hannahs_harp ปีที่แล้ว +224

    this might be a tiny thing but i really appreciate the moving line at the bottom of the video to show how long your response is going to take and how far through it you are currently. I am autistic and i find it difficult to follow and process information. knowing how long/short the burst of information is really helps me gauge my interaction and energy expenditure. small thing, but thank you!

    • @nicolechai1
      @nicolechai1 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I’m not autistic but I still appreciated it also!

    • @jake8748
      @jake8748 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Oh god I was thinking I was the only one that found following the line also helped me focus on the answer and properly individualise each answer to the next.

    • @CallMeByMyMatingName
      @CallMeByMyMatingName ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Very well arTICKLEated. Similar boat.

    • @ledgaming6489
      @ledgaming6489 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I just commented saying how sad it was to have the time bar there. You might be the exception but if people need that who aren’t autistic, society is fucked

  • @clckc
    @clckc ปีที่แล้ว +171

    Doesn’t it just make you smile that Doctor Mike cares *so much,* you can see it is truly his passion and he wants to educate people and that is so amazing

    • @lillybarnett4027
      @lillybarnett4027 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love seeing him happy😊

    • @clckc
      @clckc ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lillybarnett4027 Me too :)

  • @clairhughes3083
    @clairhughes3083 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My mom actually quit smoking (a habit she had for a decade) because of a hypnotist. It was SO SURPRISING because she calls most supplements snake oil. Shes a firm believer in medicine and not really about the "hocus pocus" of alternative medicines. Idk about for pain management... But like... It did work! The only reason she knew she was open to hypnosis is because she went to see a show where they called her up on stage and she honestly doesnt remember what happened but was told she did everything the hypnotist said.

  • @ignitionfrn2223
    @ignitionfrn2223 ปีที่แล้ว +516

    0:15 - Organ donor by default
    0:35 - Knowledge update
    0:50 - Pregnancy questions
    1:05 - The patient is always right
    1:35 - An apple a day...
    1:45 - Circadian rhythms
    2:35 - Hypnosis
    2:50 - Weight biais
    3:05 - Genetic testing
    4:05 - Overdosing on pills
    4:10 - Free doctor schools
    5:05 - Immobilization
    6:30 - No nursing homes
    7:20 - Most unhealthy , pay the most
    8:15 - Celebrity doctors
    9:05 - Cancer conspiracy
    10:40 - Patient satisfaction
    11:10 - Lime disease

    • @HyperHrishiHD
      @HyperHrishiHD ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ok with the rest when your don’t watching 3:29

    • @dovesraven
      @dovesraven ปีที่แล้ว +3

      timestamp for pregnancy question is wrong btw

    • @b.c.9358
      @b.c.9358 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I think it's spelled Lyme disease

    • @patrickthomas8890
      @patrickthomas8890 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      3:51 vitamin overdosing.

    • @nguyenduchuy52
      @nguyenduchuy52 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      bias too.. but yeah thanks for timestamp

  • @AndragoniaFlash
    @AndragoniaFlash ปีที่แล้ว +318

    I feel like when Mike tried to explain the Cancer comment he really focused on not failing with his emotions for his Mother (God bless her soul) and keep it professional

    • @gavinjenkins899
      @gavinjenkins899 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      What does personally knowing someone who struggled with cancer have to do with agreeing or disagreeing with that take or it being true or not? Corporations either are or are not dragging their feet, as a point of factual reality either way. Whether you know 0 or 20 people with cancer doesn't change the conversation.

    • @patricialdv5220
      @patricialdv5220 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@gavinjenkins899 because he's human? As a cancer survivor, regardless of the facts, it's still frustrating to read it. His mother passed away, they probably didn't everything in their power, I lived, they did everything in their power.

    • @gavinjenkins899
      @gavinjenkins899 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@patricialdv5220 It makes the issue higher stakes for him, but it has nothing to do with which side is correct. It's higher stakes EITHER way. If the pharma companies are indeed dragging their feet, for example, then he should be all the more furious at them for doing so... and if they weren't, then he'd be angrier at the people claiming they were. Either way, that simply doesn't inform us about which truth is correct, though.

    • @ramteja1550
      @ramteja1550 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gavinjenkins899 you can LITERALLY Google the list of billionaires and rich people and VIPs and CEO's that died due to various cancers despite having access to the best Pharmas available... You just want to believe in a conspiracy because it makes you feel "aware" in your head

    • @durt214
      @durt214 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      ​@@gavinjenkins899Are you serious? This video is about his reactions to people's medical takes, if he agrees or disagrees with them. Of course his answer is gonna be influenced by his personal experiences. If you want cold hard statistics and results instead of someone's pure opinions, read a medical study.

  • @PaulJones-br6uv
    @PaulJones-br6uv ปีที่แล้ว +696

    The problem with our NHS are politically caused by a government that is ideologically opposed to the idea of a socialised healthcare. They started charging nurses for uni courses - now we have nurse shortages. We have a shortage of doctors so they reduce the number of training places for doctors. For 13 years they have given NHS workers below inflation pay awards. They are systematically undermining the NHS to create a demand for private healthcare.

    • @EleanorCasson
      @EleanorCasson ปีที่แล้ว +103

      I whole heartily agree. Dr Mike your take on medicine amazing. The UK health system needs a bit more study. The current government had health secretaries that made no secret on how they don't agree with the NHS. They want a system more like the US. (Err no thanks) so the health service has been under funded for years. The cheaper to run services privatise so the UK tax payer is paying private companies that are making a profit on things that used to be done in house. It's a mess but it's a mess of the current government's making.

    • @lzbgenna
      @lzbgenna ปีที่แล้ว +91

      Exactly. I felt that his description of the NHS was reductive and came from a place of ignorance of the nuances on what has been happening on the UK.

    • @norota8188
      @norota8188 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Yes! How I think about it is this:
      The NHS as a system is amazing,
      The governments handling of it makes it dogsh**.

    • @LordSStorm
      @LordSStorm ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Okay can you prove the nursing shortages are caused primarily due to the cost of the courses, or are there other factors? I have to wonder how much of this is "undermining" versus trying to actually manage such a system. In my experience, management is complex and hard, and people on the outside rarely have an appreciation for the work that goes into it and it's easy for them to come up with something like "oh someone is undermining NHS" versus it's just not that easy. I mean just based on what you are saying. If you dont have a lot of doctors you can't pay to have un-used training facilities open. IDK.

    • @bengoacher4455
      @bengoacher4455 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      The NHS is better funded now than at any point in history. The fault with the NHS is that too many people require too much health care.
      25 years ago people just died of things like heart disease and cancer. As medicine and treatment has improved, people are surviving these diseases more. Which is objectively a good thing, but that means years of expensive treatment and decades of rehabilitation and aftercare. That comes with millions of pounds of treatment, for each person. With an aging population, it means more people requiring long term rehabilitation care, and less people working and paying taxes to support that care.
      Not to mention the lifestyle choices that result in illness and injury like excessive drinking, drug abuse, obesity and smoking. It's a problem that can be solved if we fundamentally re-design the NHS. If we start charging people for missed appointments or non-essential emergency call outs. If we put money into AI technology and IT technology to massively reduce the amount of admin staff in all aspects of the NHS, from data handling to HR and finance. If we push big medical companies to make existing treatment cheaper instead of developing more expensive but more effective treatment. If we incentive living a healthy lifestyle through proper physical education in schools and targeting demographics most likely to become unhealthily fat, like middle aged men, and young minority girls in inner city locations.
      The problem with the NHS is not an ideological one, nor is it a funding issue. It's a culmination of increased demand through poor general health and an aging population, reduced workforce supply due to better opportunities in other sectors of the economy, and increased cost of treatment.
      If Dr Mike reads this, my medical hot take is that as a society we need to stop funding the development of treatment that is hideously expensive, and start making existing treatment cheaper so that it can be accessible to more people. Not just to release pressure on national health systems, but to provide cost effective solutions to private systems like the USA, and allow export to less developed nations where hospitals can't afford the latest technology and are using outdated equipment and medicine in the relatively poorer global south. More people will benefit if the cost of chemotherapy reduces by half than if the effectiveness of the treatment doubles, along with the price.

  • @rikaff-drika
    @rikaff-drika 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Hearing about cancer makes me think about my grandma that passed away not too long ago, she got lung cancer once in one of the lungs and survived it because they got it early.
    Later they found cancer in her other lung, they managed to beat it off too.
    But then she got brain cancer that they couldn’t do anything about.

  • @MediatingLeela
    @MediatingLeela ปีที่แล้ว +82

    As a physical therapist, it made me so happy to hear you say "you continue that neural activation pathway to keep good control of your muscle." I say this at least 3-4 times a day to different patients, if not more. We've moved away from following the RICE method, and so many patients are misinformed, or so scared they will only further injure themselves, and they have to be taught safe movements for proper healing. Thank you for including this!

    • @billurbh7376
      @billurbh7376 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why’d we move away from the rice method? Could you elaborate

  • @supermegaawesomeultragal7820
    @supermegaawesomeultragal7820 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    I love how empathetic and understanding of all sides, Dr. Mike is. It's such a rare, difficult thing to find in people nowadays ❤

  • @miraculoushufflepuff9526
    @miraculoushufflepuff9526 ปีที่แล้ว +1339

    Fun fact from a former insurance agent: smokers DO have to pay higher insurance premiums.

    • @20thcenturyrelic
      @20thcenturyrelic ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Yes, and every company I've worked at for the last...I'm going to say 20 years, and maybe longer...required employees to sign a statement saying they weren't smokers. I want to say that one company even required it to be notarized, but my memory may be incorrect. And if you didn't, you paid higher rates on the group plan.

    • @dalyb7555
      @dalyb7555 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Corse smokers pay more, everyone knows this

    • @billbill6094
      @billbill6094 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah, people don't understand how leeches like insruance companies love to drain you for having bad health factors. Even if it's genetic or if you have a history of disease that is completely irrelevant to lifestyle choice or any sort of non-communicable disease like addiction or obesity.

    • @Jauphrey
      @Jauphrey ปีที่แล้ว +24

      As a healthcare worker I'm aware of this, but I appreciate you spreading this fact around. It's good to know.

    • @kaimojepaslt
      @kaimojepaslt ปีที่แล้ว +4

      there is no such thing in europe.

  • @droyal93
    @droyal93 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I sleep perfectly when the sun is out. I’m more awake at night and yet I work in construction early mornings 😩

  • @peterdobos1606
    @peterdobos1606 ปีที่แล้ว +1900

    it's kinda scary when an oncology nurse thinks cancer is 1 illness that could ever have 1 cure.

    • @aliandher
      @aliandher ปีที่แล้ว +255

      As a cancer patient, I would be worried having them treat me.

    • @ladyjatheist2763
      @ladyjatheist2763 ปีที่แล้ว

      who ever said or suggested there was only 1 cure? Over generalizations and simplifications will NEVER lead to honest conversation about such matters. There are thousands if not tens of thousands of scientists working on at least as many cancer variants and their potential treatments and "cures". Nice job throwing out the red meat there.

    • @those.gamers.
      @those.gamers. ปีที่แล้ว +201

      This was my first thought; cancer comes in so many different varieties

    • @buca9696
      @buca9696 ปีที่แล้ว +118

      Nurses aren't the ones providing the treatment plan, so them believing in misconceptions is pretty irrelevant.

    • @2Different4MeOwnGood
      @2Different4MeOwnGood ปีที่แล้ว

      There are already NATURAL cures for cancer. But what big pharma does is promotes all these charities that rake in billions for "cancer research" every year and continues to do so because it's a very profitable business.

  • @jokedebock2747
    @jokedebock2747 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Thank you Dr. Mike, for your stance on people with addictions. I work in a mental hospital where patients work so hard on finding a balance between living with constant psychosis and trying to self medicate it with drugs OR listening to our arguments of the harm those drugs do on their psychosis. The only thing that keeps me from giving up is understanding their struggle! They really don’t need other worries like how to pay their bills.

  • @1983Tabbi
    @1983Tabbi ปีที่แล้ว +265

    I feel like doctors should never dismiss a possible diagnosis based on age of the patient. Or dismissing a diagnosis just because its rare. My late husband was diagnosed with Charcot foot later we moved and had to change doctors. His new podiatrist said “you don’t have Charcot foot, its too rare”

    • @bennu547
      @bennu547 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You know what rare means right?😑

    • @1983Tabbi
      @1983Tabbi ปีที่แล้ว +59

      @@bennu547 in this situation i took it as “i have never had to treat Charcot foot and don’t know enough about it”

    • @moose5413
      @moose5413 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      @@bennu547rare means rare. it doesn’t mean never. what even is the point of this reply.

    • @benny_tys1644
      @benny_tys1644 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I agree. While rare certainly doesn't mean it never happens, it's also not going to be the provider's first thought. When seeking to diagnose we order tests and do procedures that are going to rule out the most common issues first and then work our way down. But to say you can never have something because of its rarity is the wrong mindset to have, I agree.

    • @youcansave15ormoreoncarins75
      @youcansave15ormoreoncarins75 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@bennu547goofy reply

  • @alishabiermann3618
    @alishabiermann3618 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm watching this in the er (I'm okay), but a nurse walked in, laughed and said they love your videos

  • @kelloggs7447
    @kelloggs7447 ปีที่แล้ว +372

    Thank you so much for your perspective about individuals who make poor lifestyle choices not having to pay more for treatment. I am a Mental Health RN, many of my clients use substances and if I had lived their lives I might use substances too. More compassion and less judgement is always the answer ❤.

    • @annacobb1140
      @annacobb1140 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      A lot of time it's mental health or economic issues that cause a lot of high risk behavior. It also struck me how similar to "pre-existing condition" that comment was, and I think we all saw how well that works

    • @juliastockhausen7173
      @juliastockhausen7173 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      You can also think about those who engage in high risk behaviors and then have accidents...should they be charged more for all those knee surgeries and concussion tx??

    • @runarandersen878
      @runarandersen878 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Thank you and true. I have read about the background of some people who have used heavy drugs or so on. It is a big possibility I might have done the same.

    • @stevepest4143
      @stevepest4143 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I think what you said needs some nuance. Compassion can hurt people. Just as judgment can help. You are judging people all the time on how well they fit in. It can help you correct behavior. Compassion can stop you from saying things they need to hear.
      Too much judgment blocks Compassion.

    • @kelloggs7447
      @kelloggs7447 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@stevepest4143 compassion for individuals with severe substance use and mental health issues is rare- trust me all they are told by society is that they are useless and a waste. Compassion to me is acknowledging the addiction but also acknowledging the pain that led to it. If you don’t deal with the trauma you can’t move past the addiction.

  • @sylviagreybe672
    @sylviagreybe672 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    The weight one! The assumption that everything is because of my weight is constant and overwhelming. Never saw this when I was thin. Also, having a chronic, debilitating illness that prevents exercise, and food allergies/sensitivities that prevent certain diets is ignored and doctors just say "You just need to exercise more", or "you're afraid of exercise", or "go on a diet and just eat fruit/veg instead of ...[insert any other food item here]", when my illnesses make this blatantly impossible and/or dangerous. It's super frustrating. No I'm not afraid of exercise. No I don't want to be overweight. But that doesn't mean that every single thing that is ever wrong with me or that I go to a doctor for can be blamed on my weight.

    • @ShintogaDeathAngel
      @ShintogaDeathAngel ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I'm not even 'heavy' and I'm really fed up of seeing overweight people being blamed for their illnesses (underweight people too, to a lesser degree).

    • @kerrylilys
      @kerrylilys ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Absolutely ❤

    • @edanagorham6757
      @edanagorham6757 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ShintogaDeathAngel The science very clearly indicates that *being underweight (re BMI) is significantly more damaging to our health* than being overweight or even obese, but the societal bias is significantly based on appearance and has now assigned an undue virtue to unhealthy levels of thinness. Underweight people have a higher all-cause mortality rate than any other group in the meta analysis of longevity( one 10 year Canadian study of 11,000 adults showed underweight were 73% more likely to die early than normal BMI, even extreme obesity only came in at 36% more risk). In fact the healthiest group re longevity is the overweight category who had 17% better longevity than the “Normal” range. For insight as to why that might be... the goalposts for the normal category were moved back in the 90s from upper being 28 to it being 25 ... in consultation with::: WeightWatchers!! The diet industry is literally controlling the concept of healthy weight and everyone fell for it hook, line, and sinker. People are damaging themselves to reach life shortening weights and society loves it cause that’s what they believe an attractive woman should look like regardless of her health.

  • @LipstickDoll
    @LipstickDoll ปีที่แล้ว +178

    "you will ultimetely create a system that will target and really hurt those who are already hurting" - Such a good statement! It sounds so easy to let a smoker or obease person pay more, but the other side of the coin could have a tremendous negative effect on everyone.

    • @suckit4669
      @suckit4669 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It would have negative effects on people who are smokers or obese, tf do you mean with everyone?

    • @Kreepie11
      @Kreepie11 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@suckit4669 Oh sorry, do you have no smokers or overweight people in your life? Do you live in a vacuum?

    • @boycrazygirllover
      @boycrazygirllover ปีที่แล้ว

      @annihilam3408from what I understood, he was basically saying it wouldn’t work in today’s system. If there were proper affordable and accessible programs of rehab (or really any kind of support system) in place, I think it could work! I just think Mike was taking the pov that it would fail in the way our system is right now. Also when it comes to obesity, a lot of it comes with genetic predisposition as does addiction. It’s a fine line between personal responsibility and things that are out of your control.

    • @suckit4669
      @suckit4669 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Kreepie11 I do have smokers and overweight people in my life, your point?

    • @Kreepie11
      @Kreepie11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@suckit4669 my point is that everyone around them will have improved experiences if they get medical help when they need it. So it does help everyone. 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @nessamae3349
    @nessamae3349 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm of course not a medical professional, but I read some general advice from a physio once - that for most musculoskeletal injuries, you should move the joint through as much of the range of motion as possible without pain. Repeat as often as possible.
    For instance, if you have a knee injury, and it hurts to weight bear, but you can move through the full range of motion lying down, you need to be bending and straightening that leg as much as possible when lying down. Likewise, if it hurts to full extend, but you can move through the rest of the range of motion, you need to just move through the rest of the range of motion. According to him, this maintains the strength of the surrounding muscles and mobility of the joint whilst increasing blood flow, similar to what Dr Mike said now

  • @sharonjohnson8406
    @sharonjohnson8406 ปีที่แล้ว +431

    That ICU nurse terrifies me. Yes let's make medical access more difficult for at risk patients. "The beatings will continue until your attitude improves."

    • @zacharykaiser5910
      @zacharykaiser5910 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I understand her sentiment somewhat but fear s/he is judgmental of his or her own patients. I also think it would create a system of lying to avoid paying bigger premiums, which could result in not the best care/outcomes.

    • @tommoore2012
      @tommoore2012 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      People love to talk. I wouldn't be surprised if the nurse has heard hundreds of stories about people with bad health that actively chose to lead lives that would inevitably lead to said bad health. It would get immensely frustrating for a lot of people the have to care for them.

    • @GoTron88
      @GoTron88 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I didn't like the examples she used such as smoking or poor lifestyles, and I know the answer should be that universal health care shouldn't be biased in that way, but then COVID made me kinda second guess that thought when it came to anti-vax versus the vaccinated, in that the anti-vax crowd literally brought the medical system right to its limit during the peak of the pandemic, causing a direct impact to my own medical care.

    • @undefined69695
      @undefined69695 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I mean smoking already does cause insurance premiums to increase this isn’t as controversial as y’all are making it sound lol

    • @tommoore2012
      @tommoore2012 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@GoTron88 collective immunity was proven to be vastly more effective at counteracting covid than the vaccine was. Not to mention all the new life-long health problems that so many people now have as a side-effect of taking an experimental vaccine.

  • @wverms
    @wverms ปีที่แล้ว +163

    In the UK, they aren't struggling to find funding, they are *being underfunded*. A slight difference.

    • @quinnquitars
      @quinnquitars ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Exactly. Crazy how he pointed to the UK unironically. The evidence supporting socialized medicine is overwhelming.

    • @jishanborno
      @jishanborno 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      ​@@quinnquitars At least you don't have to pay hundreds or even thousands of dollars for a simple hospital visit.

    • @analogueoverdigital929
      @analogueoverdigital929 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@quinnquitarssocialized medicine is not the answer😂. The UKs Healthcare system is terrible.

    • @quinnquitars
      @quinnquitars 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jishanborno wtf r u talking about that’s exactly the case under private healthcare

    • @quinnquitars
      @quinnquitars 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@analogueoverdigital929 again looking at UKs healthcare is crazy, not exactly the beacon of socialism. Tell me why countries with socialized medicine all perform way better than countries without in terms of healthcare outcomes. America is literally near the bottom of the list of best healthcare systems among developed nations

  • @dragonzord6615
    @dragonzord6615 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I'm so glad you touched on the circadian rhythm thing. I've been sleeping from 4-5am to midday for about 20 years now. Whenever I'm pushed outside of those hours for work or uni, I feel awful and struggle until get back to my normal sleeping pattern. My body and brain is comfortable with late nights, it's just what it does. I'm so over people telling me 'well just wake up at a normal time, just be normal' blah blah. This is my normal.

    • @ElMona
      @ElMona ปีที่แล้ว +9

      The people who correlate sleeping only like five hours and waking up early with morals and ethics are the ABSOLUTE worst people! I HATE that waking up early is so ingrained in society as some kind of moral superiority. I AM NOT TIRED until late at night, even when I actually DID wake up at 6 the same day.

    • @ShintogaDeathAngel
      @ShintogaDeathAngel ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Like, even with alarms and stuff you can't always easily control when you wake up or how easily you can fall asleep. Lots of people have a different sleeping pattern to what's considered the "norm".

    • @skauing
      @skauing ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm the same! When I fall asleep at 3am and wake up around noon I feel well rested and like my day will be good and productive, but shifting it to something like 11pm-8am, even if I get the same amount of sleep, makes me feel miserable and it's almost impossible for me to keep up without multiple alarms or someone to wake me up. And then I feel exhausted all day and by 5pm I can't focus because I'm desperate for some sleep...

    • @animeloveer97
      @animeloveer97 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@ElMonaI mean for some people it does work. I only need like 5hrs sleep for example but I sleep from like 4-11

  • @BensonTrent
    @BensonTrent 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    As a photographer, the lighting for this is so spot-on! Beautifully crafted work! Cheers!

  • @starchaplin3882
    @starchaplin3882 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Thank you so much for talking about how not everyone has the same sleep schedule! I'm so tired of people acting like you're lazy just because your day starts a few hours after most people's. I still put in the same amount of hours and people should be grateful we're there to hold down the fort when they need something late at night

  • @peacefulinvasion684
    @peacefulinvasion684 ปีที่แล้ว +306

    Hot Take: Medical degrees should be required to work in the health insurance industry. Id rather the people deciding if my surgery is nessisary or if the blood work i recieved was needed also have a basic understanding of how the human body works so they can understand why its needed.

    • @Kazanko28
      @Kazanko28 ปีที่แล้ว

      The ones that make those decisions I'm pretty sure are Doctors.

    • @AIHumanEquality
      @AIHumanEquality ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Easier and more logical to just abolish needing private insurance for healthcare.

    • @OutsiderLabs
      @OutsiderLabs ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@AIHumanEquality Great, now a government employee gets to control your medical care... So much better

    • @AIHumanEquality
      @AIHumanEquality ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@OutsiderLabs That's the way it works in many places who have top class healthcare and the best medical systems in the world. So framing it like it's somehow bad is hilariously ignorant.

    • @sidneyvandykeii3169
      @sidneyvandykeii3169 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      ​@@AIHumanEqualityAsk the British about their NHS system. It can months or years to get treatment for severe diseases. Same with the VA system in America.

  • @zoericketts6721
    @zoericketts6721 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    I think that Dr. Mike should make a mental health episode, he seems so sensitive and aware about the topics :)

    • @sarahmoellenberg
      @sarahmoellenberg ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I hope he does! He is a great advocate for mental health and helping to break down the stigma surrounding it.

    • @piotrdworowy183
      @piotrdworowy183 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@@sarahmoellenbergI think he does in the past ,but it was in form of inrerview with one other youtuber.

    • @sarahmoellenberg
      @sarahmoellenberg ปีที่แล้ว

      @@piotrdworowy183 He has in a bunch of videos which I love. 😁 Since I spend most of my time in the community mental health world, I am always hopeful for more voices to amplify accurate information that is destigmatizing surrounding mental health.

    • @avenged7peep958
      @avenged7peep958 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@piotrdworowy183wasn't it with Steven He?

    • @piotrdworowy183
      @piotrdworowy183 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@avenged7peep958 I remember he refered to him as Steve-O, but you might be right.

  • @jacobostudios3660
    @jacobostudios3660 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    9:30 How come EVERYONE who is close to finding a cure gets killed then?

    • @ManG1aze
      @ManG1aze 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Because you're reading conspiracy theories. If people had actually been as close as you're thinking for this long, we'd be close or have a cure by now.

  • @emmadunford6786
    @emmadunford6786 ปีที่แล้ว +316

    As someone who is currently doing CME’s for my licensure, I can confirm that continued education courses are nothing compared to actual lecture or study.

    • @patrickthomas8890
      @patrickthomas8890 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      There are plenty of them that involve lectures and study

    • @dylanmikonowicz6021
      @dylanmikonowicz6021 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      As someone who is currently in medical school, I can confirm that lectures are the most overrated piece of education. People fail to realize that as you get higher in education the teaching gets worse and you are forced to learn and teach yourself. Relicensures are perfectly acceptable forms of continued education

    • @Skjoldolfr
      @Skjoldolfr ปีที่แล้ว +13

      yuppp most of our CME's are power point slides. Not all, but a lot of them. Mike definitely oversold the effectiveness and depth of CME's

    • @TheJingles007
      @TheJingles007 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@SkjoldolfrIt’s the same problem with continuing legal education (I’m a lawyer)

    • @candicemorgan979
      @candicemorgan979 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      CMEs are kind of a joke TBH... they need to make sure docs, esp old ones are up to date on the latest techniques and treatments via training... not a class/lecture they can pretend to pay attention in

  • @Opet1027
    @Opet1027 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    Knowing what’s on your patient’s mind is actually a good practice and it should be adopted by all doctors

    • @phillipsouthard8285
      @phillipsouthard8285 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      No kidding. He said that and I was like "damn, I wish my doctor would ask me that."

    • @billbill6094
      @billbill6094 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      The doctors who actually listen to you always seem to be the ones who help you out best and in the long term. Even if you can't diagnose yourself, they use that information you give them well.

    • @phillipsouthard8285
      @phillipsouthard8285 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AsElfIsKnoT no, by asking your patients questions about how they’re feeling and actually listening 🤡

  • @daphnej4189
    @daphnej4189 ปีที่แล้ว +228

    Hot take: Hospitals should have open air windows/ decks for patients to utilize (when not contraindicated like with something like asthma during pollen season/ high pollution areas or a mental health risk). As a nurse who has worked in hospitals and then been a patient for an extended time, I have never understood why fresh outside air is so difficult to access.

    • @michaellovely6601
      @michaellovely6601 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      It would be awesome if hospitals had screened in decks for patient rooms so that patients can have access to fresh air and hear the sound of birds chirping.

    • @alliemay616
      @alliemay616 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Liability issues

    • @nikogildon117
      @nikogildon117 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      The unknown, never know the pathogens, smoke, smog, etc that could be in the air that could harm a patient, even droppings and fur/hair/dander from birds and mammals could all be a risk along with allergens. There should be a way something can be done with the money they get, most hospitals still have blood/bodily fluid stains on a lot of its linen it's absurd. What you're describing, may sound weird, but I believe it's an unalienable human right that everyone deserves even prisoners. Can GREATLY affect even the healthiest of individuals, mentally and physically.

    • @TomJakobW
      @TomJakobW 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Wait, you can’t open your windows in US hospitals? wtf??

    • @daphnej4189
      @daphnej4189 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @TomJacobW not in most. I have run across some older hospitals that they would open just enough to flick a cigarette, but as you can't smoke in most all hospitals, no longer necessary and the window open is apparently a liability (for aforementioned reasons).

  • @mjaylith5232
    @mjaylith5232 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I hear that story all the time about cancer, and it's crazy. Today there are many people dying of cancer that, no-one doesn't have a father, mother, sister, son, best friend, that hasn't been touched by this disease. I know they are trying hard to find a cure. Even the very rich succumb to it. You're right, these people are heartbroken. It's their work, and failing means not being able to help others., children, ones they love, not even themselves. They are people with families & friends too.

    • @trublacking8572
      @trublacking8572 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      We want a cure the problem is look at who controls medince come on now be real make insulin so expensive people can't afford until that got so much backlash they drop the price

  • @nicolerao7883
    @nicolerao7883 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    I appreciate the sociocultural awareness (& subsequently, compassion) in your response regarding the complexity of systemic issues that can lead to illness, obesity, addiction, etc. More of this in the world, please. 👏🏽

    • @jackd9375
      @jackd9375 ปีที่แล้ว

      Humanities major spotted

    • @nicolerao7883
      @nicolerao7883 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jackd9375 Educator 😉

  • @orca7025
    @orca7025 ปีที่แล้ว +1638

    Let me just clarify, the issue in the UK is NOT because it is universal healthcare, it's because the current leaders are running it poorly.

    • @nopressure8821
      @nopressure8821 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      That's because of the people ie Blackrock vanguard statestreet.... lining their pockets.

    • @tbone6032
      @tbone6032 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The big problem with universal healthcare is it just destroys innovation. The financial incentives are why we are so efficient and making new treatments and medicines

    • @chuckdraper7776
      @chuckdraper7776 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      What's the difference?

    • @raymondjones616
      @raymondjones616 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      Agree. But that issue also factors into the decision in the USA. Do we actually trust our politicians to make the correct decisions...and I think that is actually a bigger issue than the $$ for voters.
      We simply don't trust our government to do it right.

    • @GiuseppeGaetanoSabatelli
      @GiuseppeGaetanoSabatelli ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Welcome to all government.
      Abolish all federal government. Slash all government programs.

  • @BunniBeshara
    @BunniBeshara ปีที่แล้ว +367

    My kids’ pediatrician didn’t get the CME memo.. she missed my son’s SEVERE autism several times, despite me, non-doctor, bringing it up. “Boys will be boys, boys develop differently…” was all she said. Apparently she got her medical degree from my grandma.

    • @sparrowtakesflight
      @sparrowtakesflight ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Autism is severely underdiagnosed, that's why it's one of the few places where self-diagnosis is not only accepted but relatively common

    • @texasflood1295
      @texasflood1295 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      He didn’t say that doctors don’t make mistakes.

    • @Elvoalven
      @Elvoalven ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@sparrowtakesflight I understand that not everyone has access to proper assessments, I just hope that people who are self-diagnosed make sure to make that distinction.

    • @younglagx
      @younglagx ปีที่แล้ว +9

      ​@_Sparrow_Bailey_ you should NEVER self diagnose. Go seek a professional if you feel like you may have any sort of mental health issue. But self diagnosis should NEVER be done without consulting a mental health professional as soon as possible.

    • @sparrowtakesflight
      @sparrowtakesflight ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@younglagx self diagnosis isn’t bad so I wouldn’t necessarily say it should never be done. A lot of ND people tend to do it because neurodivergencies is such as ADHD and autism are severely undiagnosed so may be missed even if you working with a medical professional You can self-diagnose before you see a professional or while you are seeing one, you just need to make it clear that your diagnosis is just a guess (for example you can say “I probably have autism” or “I'm neurodivergent” instead of “I do have autism” and getting mad when people say you don’t)

  • @Maddyyyy3
    @Maddyyyy3 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My grandfather had bladder cancer in 2020, there was a treatment available for him; intravesical treatments that flush the bladder with cytotoxins that kill cancer cells. However, due to both the pandemic and the company manufacturing the treatments upping the price for it seemingly 10 fold, he could not get said treatment. He died on Dec 13th, 2020. Companies either not releasing drugs or upping the price to almost impossible measures absolutely happens. Maybe not cures, but treatments with very high rates of success. However, as Dr. Mike said, the companies are behind this, not the people working for them.

  • @jessicaboisabi7905
    @jessicaboisabi7905 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    “ Every decision that comes to your health is a balance of benefits and risks.” I like the way you put it

  • @sillykyle17
    @sillykyle17 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    The biggest, most obvious flaw in the "charge people more for bad health behaviors" idea is it would cause an enormous increase in patients lying to their doctors about their lifestyle and behaviors, leading to much worse health outcomes for a lot of people.

    • @oceaneo4603
      @oceaneo4603 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh yeah ! All kinds of tricks would be find to trick the system, instead of use it to be healtier.
      😶 Or may be I've around too many toxic people.. yeaaaah... nope ! 😤

    • @lonelylama5222
      @lonelylama5222 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      If I look at someone and see that they are fat I will automatically know they have poor eating habits.

    • @jeffpenst5861
      @jeffpenst5861 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      It’s probably a good thing you’re not a doctor then.

  • @rservajean
    @rservajean ปีที่แล้ว +269

    About the "who pays" take: in France, every worker contributes proportionally to his means and almost EVERY medical thing is 100% refund, whatever your situation, and whether it's surgery, physiotherapy, etc. etc. (while keeping excellence in hopistal care). And we are actually horrified when we hear about how it works in the US.

    • @SR-cc1iy
      @SR-cc1iy ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Isnt France severely short staffed and lacking medical supplies ? Could have sworn I saw a report about that recently.

    • @spideyplaysminecraft
      @spideyplaysminecraft ปีที่แล้ว +64

      ​@@SR-cc1iyUS hospitals are also severely short staffed. It's been that way for quite a while now.

    • @rservajean
      @rservajean ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@SR-cc1iy yeah but it's because of bad policies and stuff, nothing to do with the system in itself. To be even more harsh with the US, people say "the US do stuff nobody are able to, but at the same time they are unable to find a solution for something that the whole planet already solved", it's crazy.

    • @WWYD0
      @WWYD0 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      ​@@rservajean"policies and stuff" would still be the system...

    • @HeortirtheWoodwarden
      @HeortirtheWoodwarden ปีที่แล้ว +5

      "Contributing proportionally to his means" just means everyone has half of their income forcefully taken by the State.

  • @Osteonz
    @Osteonz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    About the first hot take: in Poland (and I'm guessing some other countries) being an organ donor is the default, it's honestly great

  • @rachelmarkham6286
    @rachelmarkham6286 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    The sleep topic - YES! I have been fighting my natural circadian rhythm most of my adult life. It got the point where I couldn't fall asleep until 2am and have to be up at 6:30 am. I would do this two days in a row and would pass out at 7pm on the third night and sleep for 12 hrs (I have a 9-5 job). My physician sent me to a sleep doctor and even though I am on sleep medication, I am able to fall asleep at a time needed for my work schedule.

  • @rusk3986
    @rusk3986 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Man the Lyme disease one hits close to home. I worked as a field scientist in up state NY for years and actually got infected with Lyme disease 3 separate times. My initial bullseye was always very tiny if present and doctors often wouldn’t believe me, even though I *knew* what an infected tick bite looked like for me (wasting money I didn’t have and causing stress about the untreated illness I knew was coming). By the 2nd time, I knew what it felt like for me when Lyme disease was in the incubation phase (a dull, background headache with pressure behind the eyes, mild fatigue).
    I had to just wait like that until the horrible acute flu-like symptoms would hit a month later, and then I could finally get them to give me a round of doxy and a titer. Mercifully, unlike on initial infection, systemic Lyme disease covers my body in dusky bullseyes so I at least can get them to take me seriously.
    The third time I went in and again the urgent care doctor did not take my concerns about a suspicious tick bite seriously. Again she thought she knew better than the field scientist who had been bitten by dozens of ticks and chose to complain about this one in particular. And again over the following weeks the typical incubation symptoms began to appear. I learned from that that I have too much of a stiff upper lip, I needed to overstate my symptoms and the degree they were impairing me to get the treatment I needed. Doctors hate being told a diagnosis, even when you’re certain of it because it’s central to your job, so I lied and said the tick bite I was suspicious of happened long prior, that I was having bad joint pain, whatever it took for them to just do the test when I knew I had it. And of course, it came back positive, and thankfully the third time I avoided the horrible symptoms. I wasn’t going to risk my heart and brain health with any more severe infections for a doctor’s ego or carelessness.
    Doctors should really consider *who* they’re talking to. They think it’s anxiety, or me being a hypochondriac, when I literally spent all my time in the woods getting cuts, scrapes, bruises, pulling spiders out of equipment with my bare hands and pulling ticks off like it’s nothing. I hate the doctors office (in no small part because of this). I’m not going to come to the doctor unless it’s serious. If you’re going to charge me $170 for 10 minutes of your time, the least you can do is take me seriously.

  • @maggiec5311
    @maggiec5311 ปีที่แล้ว +298

    This man is super smart and has high common sense. I wish all doctors were like that.

    • @TheMrCC21
      @TheMrCC21 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      This must be your first Doctor Mike video you've watched. He's all about fact based research, debunking myths, and such. Saying you wish all doctors are like him is ignorant. There are lots of doctors around the world who are smart and have common sense. You'll find many on TH-cam. You just have to look.

    • @fellowdanbarber3323
      @fellowdanbarber3323 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Do you have ANY idea how difficult it is to even get into Medical school??? 😂 They’re ALL smart. Hahahahha

    • @dr.rebeccamd
      @dr.rebeccamd ปีที่แล้ว

      Makes sense right?

    • @nicolad8822
      @nicolad8822 ปีที่แล้ว

      How much Doctoring do you think he really does?

    • @KeariGaming
      @KeariGaming ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheMrCC21 facts

  • @Kevo1524
    @Kevo1524 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    7:04 - The thing is, that IS already somewhat of a thing. Smokers do have higher premiums both for life and medical insurance. It may not be a higher fee (per visit) but it is more money spent. There's also plenty of company-paid-for insurances that you still have a smaller premium that is a sliding scale based on wellness. They'll take things like Weight/BMI, Blood tests, Smoking status, etc... into consideration and you get a lower premium the "better" you are. So it IS a thing, just not universally or in the way the nurse wants it.

  • @eugenianovillo4136
    @eugenianovillo4136 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    I feel that there is so much compassion and understanding about both sides of the story in your answers... What a breath of fresh air! Thank you!❤

  • @shroomyk
    @shroomyk ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Dr. Mike is always so understanding and amazing. I wish I could have him as my doctor. I love that he understands that people who might engage in physically unhealthy habits or behaviors are probably doing so from a place of mental pain and/or poor mental health. I am a smoker. I am constantly scolded by almost everyone I know. Yet I gave up drinking and other drugs, and smoking and sugar are my main crutches right now. I have suffered from depression and anxiety for most of my life, decades worth. I'm not stupid, I know excess sugar and cigarettes are bad for me. But it feels nice to have at least something that makes me feel a little better emotionally. I don't need *more* punishment in this life. I don't need to be reprimanded by loved ones and strangers alike. I don't need to be charged more for healthcare, etc.

    • @lillybarnett4027
      @lillybarnett4027 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen love. And fyi sugar is in almost everything so don't beat yourself up over it😂 AND everyone has something, whether or not they want to admit it to people is a whole situation in itself lol. Usually the ones who scold people have something they do that they're hiding😂

  • @wgwells
    @wgwells ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Thank you for being compassionate yet rational and straightforward. All doctors should aspire to be such. :)

  • @maru_lera
    @maru_lera 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    In Germany health insurance, doesn't punish the one that "dont take care of their health" but they do reward the ones that do, if you do courses, or go to the gym or take clases, you can upload that information and they give you money back.

  • @Veaeleeene
    @Veaeleeene ปีที่แล้ว +234

    Here in Argentina the donation process is exactly like they suggested. We are all donors. You can do some paperwork if you don’t want to be a donor. This was decided after the death of a young girl who never received the transplant she needed

    • @A-ds1mt
      @A-ds1mt ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Same here in Nova Scotia. I honestly don't understand why anyone would object, but they have the option to opt out if it really matters to them what happens to their corpse. I kinda wish Dr.Mike had gone into more detail about his personal objections, as I'd like to hear and try to understand.

    • @jelstone20
      @jelstone20 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@A-ds1mt There may be some religious reasons like Jehovah's Witnesses with blood transfusions but if you object just because you can you're a lowlife imo.

    • @jeniffer7799
      @jeniffer7799 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      In germany no one is a donor unsell you want to. And when you decide to become one, everyone will criticise you for it, they will say "you musn't trust the government" and stuff, its fucked up.

    • @JohnDoe-pc3uk
      @JohnDoe-pc3uk ปีที่แล้ว +13

      So it's an opt-out system, not an opt-in?

    • @beng3360
      @beng3360 ปีที่แล้ว

      Criminal is now free to kill anyone when someone they know is in need of organ.

  • @pandabytes4991
    @pandabytes4991 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    For me, being placed in a group home has not only been the best thing to have ever happen to me, but has been a literal life saver.

    • @mrbear1302
      @mrbear1302 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I am so happy this is your situation! I have worked in several facilities(through agencies) and have seen A LOT of bad things, which I tried my best to correct in the short time I was in them.

    • @MrZoomah
      @MrZoomah ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I worked in child protection group homes. For me it comes down to ratios and dynamics. When a system is under strain they put unsuitable people together. Placements are done more to benefit the system than the client. Out of the 35 kids I cared for 3 left better off mainly due to dynamics.
      I'm now a foster carer so I can choose the dynamics rather than rely on the system.

    • @melanyxace
      @melanyxace ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, it's people looking at the wrong part of the issue. Group homes are not inherently bad. it's the people that work in them, but then again that's also not the issue. often it's funding and care-related (long hours, too many patients to caregiver, insurance, etc ) at the heart of the issue.

  • @MsSmontalvo
    @MsSmontalvo ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I can relate to the group/nursing home paranoia. My grandma had Alzheimer's and we couldn't give her the 24 hr care she needed anymore. So we put her in a home. After the first visit, my mom was concerned about how it was being run and reported it. The investigation led to it being shut down! Very quickly, too. This happened 3 SEPARATE TIMES!!! We had to search so far away from our town to try to find a place that wasn't an abusive/neglectful nightmare, which only made it scarier since the farther she was from home, the harder it was to check on her often. So yes, unfortunately, for a lot of people it winds up becoming a choice, not between the lesser of two evils, but between equally bad situations. She died before we could figure out a way to bring her back home while still being able to afford to both live and take proper care of her. Those places need more regular and thorough inspections, with greater consequences for infractions. Nobody should have to go through what my family, and especially my poor grandma, went through. The system sucks.

    • @oceaneo4603
      @oceaneo4603 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm on the autistic spectrum. It's crazy how some people would show their true color to me 'cause they think they could afford it.
      So it's not only the nursing home, child care center too, and any place someone would be vulnerable.
      I've heard story of people whom realized the nursing home they placed their parents weren't good but wasn't able to get them out of there, even with videos !

    • @elliejane7821
      @elliejane7821 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      As a Certified Nursing Assistant, I agree fully with what you are saying. The system is so unfair. I am currently working at an assisted living facility, and the conditions are so heartbreaking. It’s so glaringly obvious how greedy corporate is there, and so infuriating how they are unwilling to provide enough CNA’s to staff the building. We have a ratio of 2:60…… 2 CNA’s to 60 Residents! That is completely insane and impossible to expect the best care if we don’t have enough time, and CNAs to do so. I LOVE the residents i care for, but it’s so unfair to them, and the CNA’s who work there, that we have to be deprived because corporate wants all the money to themselves.

  • @nickrivera1095
    @nickrivera1095 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Guy with Lyme's here - I'd been to a couple of various doctors for various routine issues and only after my friend who just started medical school made the suggestion did I mention the idea to my doctor. Afterwards, the doctor said, "sure, let's run some blood work, that would make sense," and lo and behold, no marking on my skin, had Lyme's. Sometimes it's just not as textbook as some people think

  • @Dyejob01
    @Dyejob01 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I have a friend who was scheduled to have left and right hip replacement, and eventually bith knees. But her doctors wanted her to loose 100lbs before they would do it. She weighed around 300 -320lbs, but she was mad, because she thought they were fat shaming her. She had 2 second opinions 2 DIFFERENT doctors confirmed the first doctors assessment, but still she thinks it's fat shaming, not the fact that replacements are never going to be as strong as what she was born with, and that weight she's carried for YEARS is what destroyed her hips and knees in the first place!!!

    • @t.l.c7481
      @t.l.c7481 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      As a woman who had knee surgery because of tearing ligaments, those doctors are not fat shaming her. After surgery, mobility is key. With the weight there, it complicates the process. Most doctors are concerned about the pressure on her heart during surgery. When you’re heavy, it overworks the heart overwork.
      I hope she rethinks their remarks.

    • @knxcholx
      @knxcholx ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Your friend just didn't wanna accept the harsh truth

  • @jessthom1016
    @jessthom1016 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    The sad thing… is that doctors are required to take continuing education… but some of them DO still operate in the past, refuse to use what they learn, and gaslight patients until they’re so broken they stop seeking help and are resolved to just deal with discomfort and pain daily for the rest of their life

    • @heatherrowles9930
      @heatherrowles9930 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      25 years ago I was told to learn to live with the pain caused by multiple surgeries. 7 years ago I was told that I would have to take pain medications for the rest of my life because LIVING WITH MY PAIN had contributed to my heart condition and had come close to killing me. Problem with telling people to live with severe pain is that we get really really good at it. I was so good at it I ignored a heart attack. Im only here because my body found a work around for the fully blocked artery. I had a bypass done during surgery to replace 2 heart valves 4 years after the original heart attack. This was not a silent (or painfree) heart attack. I knew what was happening at the time and remember it vividly....but honestly it was just more pain in a body that is always pain filled.

  • @trendasensenig6876
    @trendasensenig6876 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    The Lyme disease statement is so so true. I work with a doctor who specializes in treatment of Lyme disease and coinfections, and I've seen far too many people who come to us as a last resort and their stories are heartbreaking. It's incredible what the proper treatment does to absolutely change lives. One thing a lot of people don't seem to realize is that although you may have tested negative for Lyme doesn't mean you couldn't have a coinfection. So don't be afraid to bring this up to your doctor!

  • @Namrevlis1938
    @Namrevlis1938 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was born and raised in the USA but now I live in Turkey where there are two universities that have medical schools that are very highly rated throughout Europe. They are free of cost to all students including non-citizens. Students do need to pay for books and personal items. The medium of instruction is ENGLISH.

  • @fullshewolf
    @fullshewolf ปีที่แล้ว +12

    So, so grateful for your response regarding charging people more or less for healthcare depending on their lifestyle. You're absolutely right that a system like that would just serve to punish the people who are already suffering the most, and it's good to hear you spreading that message.
    On a somewhat lighter note, it's also great to hear you talk about how society's interpretation of what people's circadian rhythm should be isn't necessarily healthy for everyone! I really appreciate this as someone who struggles with the traditional 9-5 (aka 8-5 with an unpaid lunch) schedule because I naturally feel like going to bed later and waking up later.

  • @will9001asd
    @will9001asd 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +517

    I like this quote, that people who are addicted to a substance will want to keep taking them not because it makes them feel "good" but because it makes them feel "less bad".

    • @lonelylama5222
      @lonelylama5222 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      No, because it makes them feel good. If I take cocaine, I will feel good, even though I have a great life. If I eat an unhealthy cheese burger, I will feel good, in the moment at least.

    • @bipstymcbipste5641
      @bipstymcbipste5641 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      Many addicts do it to numb the pain, ya know

    • @Helixneek
      @Helixneek 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@lonelylama5222Sure, in the beginning you do it to feel good. But after the addiction sets in and you start getting withdrawal symptoms, you'd take it just so the symptoms stop and you feel normal again.

    • @Dwagonier
      @Dwagonier 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      ​@lonelylama5222 Then you've never done drugs, i get high all the time solely to be less "bad" why do i keep doing it? Because i feel, bad.
      Why do you think people do stuff in the first place, it may be peer pressure sure but that's not everybody. If you think your logic goes for everybody then your naive to stuff. I started it because i felt bad in life, still do it only because of that. I can go off it for weeks-months..however long but i come back whe things get bad, not because an urge.

    • @rjspiteri5758
      @rjspiteri5758 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I know its not the same, but I'm addicted to caffeine. I don't like how it makes me feel, I like how it makes me stop feeling.

  • @Swe3ets
    @Swe3ets ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Years ago, I went to a doctor about numbness on my face, I was talking about my past history, what I thought was wrong with me, what I thought may have caused it. Finally after having no clue, at the end of the visit, I said
    "Oh I do have a sore throat"
    "Open wide" said the doc,
    Now, I have never seen someones eyes roll that far to the back of their head, but it turns out I had left strep throat(I think) untreated for so long it left me with bells palsy, the numbness I went in there for in the first place! silly me!

    • @desireer6915
      @desireer6915 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Oh my goodness!! Thats WILD. Hope you're doong better now.

    • @Swe3ets
      @Swe3ets ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@desireer6915 yes full recovery

    • @juska4235
      @juska4235 ปีที่แล้ว

      Every doctor needs to know patient's symptoms, it's just the self diagnosing part that gets icky, although it helps if it allows patients to elaborate further like you kinda missed out on the symptoms there maybe if you had self diagnosed even wrongfully asking why etc could help you remember the symptoms which would help in the end but yes mainly just don't miss anything out 😅

  • @davidliu2243
    @davidliu2243 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    For the first prompt, it is so in Singapore for a few organs. You can choose to opt-out and you can also choose to opt-in to donate even more or all of your organs (which I have).