Why You Should Take Yourself Out ✨

#TINTH Things I need to hear… Part #6
Go 👏🏼 take 👏🏼 yourself 👏🏼 on 👏🏼 a 👏🏼 date ✨ stop waiting around for someone to start treating you, b/c a) why should you 💁🏻‍♀️ and b) ain’t nobody got time for that. This was something I did a lot of when I was single (going on little dates by myself to the park, the beach, a picnic, a new cafe) to regain my sense of self and reestablish a secure bond with myself after feeling completely lost & dismayed by relationships in my life. And while it can be painful and sad, it’s also kind of exciting! You get to redefine your own version of self-love, your own personal ✨TLC✨, which looks different for everyone and can change over time. It’s a different feeling when it’s coming from you, versus someone else. Be your own lover first. The relationship you have with yourself will set the bar for how others will be relationship with you too, which is why it’s important to continue practicing and showing up for you personally, no matter what type of relationship you are in. It’s not only going to teach you how to be your own source of joy, happiness, security, confidence, etc. but also know how and what to ask of others in order to maintain that too. And spending quality time alone is really not as scary as it seems, it can honestly be more fun and a better time 😂 so get your calendars out and schedule a little something for you and yourself this weekend ✨
Pancakes from @sweetandfitmexico
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