Your suffering becomes apparent as a result of the gaslighting and future-faking agenda. You'll realise you've fallen too deep down the rabbit hole once you've finished the charades. I was able to see clearly through the fog and run for my safety thanks to these lectures ❤
I have been away from the narcissist for some years now and I find that now I can pick out the narcissist and their victims easily and there are so MANY narcissists in America.!
I can relate to that. I'm still married to "him" trying to dig myself out of the hole he has deceitfully put me into, behind my back of course. I too, can pick out narcissists with the knowledge that I am learning how they ALL behave.
I am still married to him for over 40 years, trying to get out. We all need to heal and be whole again. We can only do that when we are away from them. I am so happy you are away and out of all the pain you endured. Enjoy your freedom and peace, I will one day be there too.
Rebecca, you are spot on, absolutely correct. I'm so outraged. My father was a narcissist. The withholding any help for me. Sickening he was a cop. A liar. A cheat, adulterer. Mom suffered the worst. She died at just 65 years of age. She's a Saint. Not recognized by the Catholic church. I and of course my brothers miss her. As a final fucking dad never made a last will and testament. Four years to settle his estate!
This is so true narcissist do not want to change as they have so much fear. My ex husband was such a monster and everyone else is less in his own mind.
You're either good or bad...malleable or not malleable. They don't know what to do with you when they can't manipulate you. Supply equals not seeing through them. Once you see it, you can't unsee it.
Never in my life did I think I would meet a narcissist at my age. I've always prided myself in having good instinct and gut feeling about people. Until I met a narcissist who I thought was a friend. When I finally realized something was wrong I did a lot of research on narcissistic people and bang there she was standing right in front of me. I couldn't believe I had been fooled for that long. To be honest it hurt my heart because I did think of her and love her as a friend.. our lives are far too short to deal with people like this. You must walk away from them but before you do please let them know you know. ❤
I had the same experience but I'm not sure letting them know you know is always the best plan. Mine became extremely aggressive in a covert manner and smeared me. It was a mistake. She's very practised at manipulation.
@notaclue822 there's nothing she can do to hurt me she has nothing to hold over my head I'm a good person I have a lot of other friends so I'm not afraid of her anymore, I'm done 😎
Thanks again…. But the worst part is this “ user” issue! That they actually make plans on how to use you! It’s not normal to think like that!!! Most people thinks about “ how can we share 50-50 TOGETHER to make the life work and protect each other and our family! They can also actually say it straight out” oh, but I cannot USE you, or you’re of no USE for me! And “ I can’t control you!” Hello??? Is that something that happens when they’ve met resistance from you, and limits and heard you say no, back off! Then their mask falls off, right? And they forget to lie for a minute?? It’s pretty scary
Yes, it is, but I've been studying up on Narcissistic Personality Disorder with all these youTube videos about NPD. I was really quite thrilled when circumstances set us up for his mask to slip & He Could Not cover up the hateful vengeance glaring out of his eyes.😂
You know how ppl say “I could write a book about all the things my parents do to embarrass or be mean to me” like I LITERALLY could, mostly about my mom but both my parents are narcs in some way
So many good points . I have to say #15 is definitely one of the most disturbing behaviors that I’ve seen they have. My ex of two years when she got to the discard phase there was nothing , no low , no scruples or sense of moral center x I found her doing thing after thing nasty to me. Each time I never thought her to stoop so low until she did the next thing . Everything from shutting my phone service off then night before an important job for an influential customer that would have made or broke the future of the brand new business I was trying to get off the ground all the way up to destroying some of her things and calling the police and said it was me. I never saw this person even capable of behaving like that until I saw it with my own eyes .
"FAKERS,FKERS,FAKERS" They can turn us into "SHAKERS"... This is a great video! This is what they are capable of... They will hack their own phone and say you did it... Unfortunately videos and laws teach them this. I know some narcisstt have the sweetest kindest children. If only a couple children. If they have more than that watch out!
Fakers!!!!!Yup. Major projection and deflecting. I know how stupid it is to cry around them b:c they get off on it but the abuse has been top shelf and it’s so damaging. What do I hear? “oh don’t play the victim” didn’t even say one word as know they’ll never take responsibility. I could’ve blurted out a dozen egregious actions that if they saw a show with a character like that they would say what a BLEEP BLEEP! But absolutely no self reflection.
I have a narc that is my direct report. She is a wreck. So nice to anyone new and tells them she knows show much. The new ones realize a fraud and tell me that they hate that liar! The narc then turns on them!
Rebecca . Why Do I think I'm the Narcissist ? I Been Trying to Heal for Years . I've Made Mistakes . I won't Disclose my Mistakes cause it Will not Serve Me with my Wife . I'm Open .Yet I Shut Down to her . Cause I'm always at Fault . So Change for me is So Hard ...
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2 younger bros, just broke away. Older brother cries to mom and dad, who are enablers. They wont watch any videos and just want peace and want us to put up with the asshole like they have. Tried compromising with them. Do we cut them off too? Is there any hope if this jerk goes to a psychiatrist?
Thanks for the analysis! Could you help me with something unrelated: I have a SafePal wallet with USDT, and I have the seed phrase. (alarm fetch churn bridge exercise tape speak race clerk couch crater letter). Could you explain how to move them to Binance?
So this is what happened to me I started seeing casually a guy about 20 years younger than me and it was never a relationship it was I thought a mutual understanding but I started noticing he went from liking me I thought to I guess jealous of me I am a professional empathetic people person so then came the bashing but like I said it was casual get togethers we were never committed and I never wanted that so I took a job eight hours away moved didn’t think twice about it or him. Went home to visit I was arrested for the first time in my life he had lied to the police I went to jail a year half of being on bond my case was dismissed had total evidence he lied. So definitely be careful he tried to ruin me. So narcissist most definitely maybe social path. Crazy just from hooking up here and there. Even after that not talking to him , he continued to leave voicemails wanted me to meet him he had a gift for me, I never answered by third voicemail he was so aggressive. That scared me more than jail like I thought he wanted to like harm me. Changed my number I had too . Now he is serving three years in prison for something he truly did. That’s his own fate karma whatever.
They are deeply malicious. It’s so subtle, you can feel it but you can’t prove it. That’s the scary part.
Your suffering becomes apparent as a result of the gaslighting and future-faking agenda. You'll realise you've fallen too deep down the rabbit hole once you've finished the charades. I was able to see clearly through the fog and run for my safety thanks to these lectures ❤
I have been away from the narcissist for some years now and I find that now I can pick out the narcissist and their victims easily and there are so MANY narcissists in America.!
I can relate to that. I'm still married to "him" trying to dig myself out of the hole he has deceitfully put me into, behind my back of course. I too, can pick out narcissists with the knowledge that I am learning how they ALL behave.
I deserve better. I’m open to giving and receiving healthy love xxx
Was with a covert narcissist for 48 years, married 44. What a nightmare but I’m out!!
I am still married to him for over 40 years, trying to get out. We all need to heal and be whole again. We can only do that when we are away from them. I am so happy you are away and out of all the pain you endured. Enjoy your freedom and peace, I will one day be there too.
Oh God that long
Rebecca, you are spot on, absolutely correct. I'm so outraged. My father was a narcissist. The withholding any help for me. Sickening he was a cop. A liar. A cheat, adulterer. Mom suffered the worst. She died at just 65 years of age. She's a Saint. Not recognized by the Catholic church. I and of course my brothers miss her. As a final fucking dad never made a last will and testament. Four years to settle his estate!
This is so true narcissist do not want to change as they have so much fear. My ex husband was such a monster and everyone else is less in his own mind.
Thanks
You're either good or bad...malleable or not malleable. They don't know what to do with you when they can't manipulate you.
Supply equals not seeing through them. Once you see it, you can't unsee it.
Never in my life did I think I would meet a narcissist at my age. I've always prided myself in having good instinct and gut feeling about people. Until I met a narcissist who I thought was a friend. When I finally realized something was wrong I did a lot of research on narcissistic people and bang there she was standing right in front of me. I couldn't believe I had been fooled for that long. To be honest it hurt my heart because I did think of her and love her as a friend.. our lives are far too short to deal with people like this. You must walk away from them but before you do please let them know you know. ❤
I had the same experience but I'm not sure letting them know you know is always the best plan. Mine became extremely aggressive in a covert manner and smeared me. It was a mistake. She's very practised at manipulation.
@notaclue822 there's nothing she can do to hurt me she has nothing to hold over my head I'm a good person I have a lot of other friends so I'm not afraid of her anymore, I'm done 😎
Thanks again…. But the worst part is this “ user” issue! That they actually make plans on how to use you!
It’s not normal to think like that!!!
Most people thinks about “ how can we share 50-50 TOGETHER to make the life work and protect each other and our family!
They can also actually say it straight out” oh, but I cannot USE you, or you’re of no USE for me! And “ I can’t control you!”
Hello???
Is that something that happens when they’ve met resistance from you, and limits and heard you say no, back off!
Then their mask falls off, right? And they forget to lie for a minute??
It’s pretty scary
Yes, it is, but I've been studying up on Narcissistic Personality Disorder with all these youTube videos about NPD. I was really quite thrilled when circumstances set us up for his mask to slip & He Could Not cover up the hateful vengeance glaring out of his eyes.😂
You know how ppl say “I could write a book about all the things my parents do to embarrass or be mean to me” like I LITERALLY could, mostly about my mom but both my parents are narcs in some way
For sure !! You have nailed it, Rebecca.
There’s new evidence that there is no evidence that trauma causes narcissism.
Exactly, and new evidence of it being genetic
Narcissism is not NPD.
Dropped the narc play book to perfection in first 30 minutes. Tip of the spear!
So many good points . I have to say #15 is definitely one of the most disturbing behaviors that I’ve seen they have. My ex of two years when she got to the discard phase there was nothing , no low , no scruples or sense of moral center x I found her doing thing after thing nasty to me. Each time I never thought her to stoop so low until she did the next thing . Everything from shutting my phone service off then night before an important job for an influential customer that would have made or broke the future of the brand new business I was trying to get off the ground all the way up to destroying some of her things and calling the police and said it was me. I never saw this person even capable of behaving like that until I saw it with my own eyes .
This is the most comprehensive analysis of the narcissist I have seen. . excellent video!. I have experienced most of these behaviours.
My wife of 8 years. 3 small children together. Pray for me.
I pray for your children
❤️
Your videos have really helped me understand because I never experienced this before not on this level
All so very much true, Rebecca!!❤
NOT OK VS ITS OK TO BE NOT OK …
Much Gratitude, for this informative video. ❤
A VG assessment. Avoid them like the plague as they will leave you scarred to varying extents. No thanks :)
Never knowing when hes going to go off is the scarieat part YES
"FAKERS,FKERS,FAKERS" They can turn us into "SHAKERS"... This is a great video! This is what they are capable of... They will hack their own phone and say you did it... Unfortunately videos and laws teach them this. I know some narcisstt have the sweetest kindest children. If only a couple children. If they have more than that watch out!
For sure !
"Fakers" Been dealing with one for years.
Fakers! You are one of my favorites! This is right on.
"For sure"
I feel like l have a fasle self and a true self
Its hard in a small town where everyone says Oh yourhusbands so sweet.....yeah right
For sure ❤
Fakers!!!!!Yup. Major projection and deflecting.
I know how stupid it is to cry around them b:c they get off on it but the abuse has been top shelf and it’s so damaging. What do I hear? “oh don’t play the victim” didn’t even say one word as know they’ll never take responsibility. I could’ve blurted out a dozen egregious actions that if they saw a show with a character like that they would say what a BLEEP BLEEP! But absolutely no self reflection.
I have a narc that is my direct report. She is a wreck. So nice to anyone new and tells them she knows show much. The new ones realize a fraud and tell me that they hate that liar! The narc then turns on them!
For Sure.
I got this 2 selves going on
So sad thank you
Rebecca . Why Do I think I'm the Narcissist ? I Been Trying to Heal for Years . I've Made Mistakes . I won't Disclose my Mistakes cause it Will not Serve Me with my Wife . I'm Open .Yet I Shut Down to her . Cause I'm always at Fault . So Change for me is So Hard ...
2 younger bros, just broke away. Older brother cries to mom and dad, who are enablers. They wont watch any videos and just want peace and want us to put up with the asshole like they have. Tried compromising with them. Do we cut them off too? Is there any hope if this jerk goes to a psychiatrist?
For sure
I have walked through that
"Faker!!"...
I really need help with one we have twins and I'm scared for them being with her what to do she's aways trying to call on me
Lawyers for the Arts 🎭?😂
"For sure"///
4 sure
Fakers! My cover narc is a Pastor of a church, and I’m stuck because I stayed home to raise our kids ! Help me Jesus
🙏🏼💗
For sure.
Thanks for the analysis! Could you help me with something unrelated: I have a SafePal wallet with USDT, and I have the seed phrase. (alarm fetch churn bridge exercise tape speak race clerk couch crater letter). Could you explain how to move them to Binance?
So this is what happened to me I started seeing casually a guy about 20 years younger than me and it was never a relationship it was I thought a mutual understanding but I started noticing he went from liking me I thought to I guess jealous of me I am a professional empathetic people person so then came the bashing but like I said it was casual get togethers we were never committed and I never wanted that so I took a job eight hours away moved didn’t think twice about it or him. Went home to visit I was arrested for the first time in my life he had lied to the police I went to jail a year half of being on bond my case was dismissed had total evidence he lied. So definitely be careful he tried to ruin me. So narcissist most definitely maybe social path. Crazy just from hooking up here and there. Even after that not talking to him , he continued to leave voicemails wanted me to meet him he had a gift for me, I never answered by third voicemail he was so aggressive. That scared me more than jail like I thought he wanted to like harm me. Changed my number I had too . Now he is serving three years in prison for something he truly did. That’s his own fate karma whatever.
I deserve better!!!!!!!!!
So SAD!!!
Narc looks so stupid when accused...who'll believe what crazy beast narc is
NOT OK!!!!!!!
Superwoman of municipality reality shows and Netflix exploration ❤🎉😂😮
I DESERVE BETTER!!!!!!!!!
Fakers and big frauds
Faker
Faker
Faker
This goes to my Ex NARCISSIST
Fakers!
So sad. This feedback encourages you, too.
I deserve better
Good
So sad
Love you #rebeccazung
Fakers
This prented self wish l were
I deserve better and tell that to UCLA OBGYN and the entire infrastructure of UCLA Health ❤😅
Fakers !!¡!!!!!!!!!!!!
Fakers 12:16
He wanted sex all time
For sure!
For sure
I deserve better
Fakers!
Fakers
For sure!
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