After marrying my husband I started learning about Islam as he made me convert to Islam, I realised that Islam is a beautiful, enriching religion, but soon after few months things changed. My in-laws and my husband changed and became so mean and I kept quoting Islamic verses to them about their behaviour, but this only seemed to aggravate all of them even more. It looks more like Islam teaches us one way of life but some of us mulsims follow something else. It's because of people like this that Muslims everywhere r classified in bad ways. If all Muslims followed the real way, the right path of Allah Thaala, the world would be a better place to live in.
I have watched a lot of his videos on facebook and here on youtube. This guy deserves a gold medal for he is changing the globe into a better world. I am not a Muslim but I love your messages. Your words are making changes in the society.
I am not a muslim in religion and in faith but I like the way you preach good news from almighty God. May God bless you and protects you and your family. Thank you Mufti Menk
The only part of Islam men following is polygamy marriages nowadays, rest of the Deen don't matter to them!... First, the Qur'an does not give men the blanket right to have more than one wife. Polygamy is not a right, but a responsibility to ensure social justice for orphans. What Allah has granted is in fact a restriction on an existing practice of that time when men could marry as many wives as they wanted. Second, because polygamy is not a right, Allah placed conditions on its practice. There is an overriding concern for justice in this short verse, and conditions are set to ensure that justice is done. Condition A: Polygyny is permitted within the context of war and orphans. It is permitted only if the men fear they would not be able to deal justly with the orphans. Condition B: The man who wants to be polygynous must have the capacity to be fair and just to all his wives. The verse is a call for just conduct towards women, not a right for men to fulfill their alleged lustful desires or their egos. And just treatment here means more than a man's financial capacity to support more than one wife: He must be fair in all ways, including in the time, support, and companionship he provides to his wives and children. Condition C: If the man fears he cannot deal justly with all his wives, then Allah advocates that he should marry only one as this will ensure equality. This is explicitly stated in the verse.
I am a christian by birth until i have grown.I got married to a muslim guy few months ago and as expected i was transformed into Muslim.I had love the religion and the teachings itself as im doing self nourishing but it frustrate me sometimes that my husband who have been a muslim since birth is someone i cannot rely on when it comes to teachings of the Quran.He only knows his right which makes me so sad of this relationship.Honestly i feel sad that i have known islam through him as i cannot see good image of Islam from him but Alhamdulillah Allah made me feel better by sustaining me with courage and patience.Thank you for this helpful videos aswell as im learning alot.
This feels so personal to me. I feel as if he's talking about my marriage. Husband gives priority to everyone and everything over me and my children. I feel so frustrated I want to leave him. Never wants to spend time with us unless it's in front of the TV watching a movie, every day! !. Mufti menk bless you for highlighting such issues. Your lectures are so relatable to modern life and young people can really learn from you because your way of explaining is unique. May Allha protect you.❤
May Allah give us subra, men have abandoned their responsibilities and they want women who are financially stable so they can take care of them. The fear of Allah has taken off from their hearts
I am truly amazed how Mufti Menk knows our deepest problems and sufferings, especially women feelings, and how he responds to it sensitively and describes all accurately. It touches soul. Thank you so much 🧡
I am not a Muslim but a Catholic and somehow I just came across this video. I watched this to the end and I just wanted to say that I really liked how you talk about the women in this video and that they are special and important and as I woman I appreciate this teaching. Thank you for sharing this. I have a very lovely husband but I believe that this video should be watched by many men, not just Muslim men! :) May God be with you and your families. We are all one in God. God bless.
Wow my X husband needs to hear this. I divorced him after 12yrs of marriage because of such but I thank Allah for blessing me with the best husband now I am more than the word happy with him. I love u Allah all praises to u.
Salaam sister-wow, 12 years?! How long were you a single wome until you found your new husband? And did you have kids with your first husband? I am very happy for you sister. How did you find the strength to leave? Did he divorce you or you asked for it? Please respond. Thanks sis.
I have got some situation in my life but I don't know what to do its been 10 years of my marriage still not happy with him we have 2 kids even kids are not happy with his behaviour..
@@daudtariq4919 As-Salaam-Alaikum thanks for replying .. it's been 10 years I am doing sabar it's really hard to deal with him we don't have understanding at all I really feel suffocated in this relationship now I don't know what to do ? Obviously you're not going to like it when your husband swearing at you and using really really bad language obviously you're not going to take it everybody need their self-respect.. he doesn't know anything about the Dean he doesn't keep fast he he doesn't read Namaz . If a person know little bit about Islam he would respect everyone ..
You've got to respect Mufti Menk, he always manages to convey inconvenient truth about our brothers and sister in order to help the ummah. May Allah bless you for all your good work, Mufti Menk. Big Respect!
If we fight with my husband after a few minutes or hours he make me feel okay or his telling me a story about quran or propet after that my heart will be more happy when he telling me about islamic coz he don't want to see me a sad or mad or angry sometimes :( so thanks to allah bcoz he give me a man who teach me to be a good person and also I love him much what ever happened 😭🌿
Wow, I'm impressed, your words really make me think. It brought tears to my eyes! Thank you! I'm a Christian American, but this is so true what you say, and a powerful message no matter what religion a person has. I just had a discussion yesterday about not being on the internet too much with my daughter, who likes to talk with her friends from school, and I told her, it's better to have a connection with them in real not over a computer. We are becoming a society of where we are losing our humanity, and addicted to technology, which is why I try to make most of my time every day to spend away from my phone and the internet all together.
@Aisha Noor I have been with my man for years, and we are married. He's not like that at all. He does not abuse me. I have the freedom to do what I want, even go out at night and hang out with some of my lady friends, because he trusts me, and knows I'd never cheat on him, and I trust him the same and he can go out with his friends, because it's called "Trust." He will call me when he's with them, because he will be missing me, and can't wait to come spend time with me, because that's how real love makes you feel. If he was after a green card, he could of done that years ago and left me, but we took things very slow, and not just hop into a relationship right away. We were strictly friends for three years, before we come together in a relationship. You're just prejudice, and you're generalizing. Do you know every single Arabian Muslim man in world personally?? If you don't, and I know you don't, then shut the heck up, your ignorance is showing. Don't take your hate and disgust out on every Muslim man, just because you hooked up with the wrong guy, and if you haven't been in a relationship with one, then you've been watching stereotyping hate videos that favor your deep rooted racism!
@@Mojosfire with all respect to you sister kindly watch on TH-cam ef dawah, sc dawah, the Muslim metaphysician channel videos regarding christianity, Islam etc
I converted to Islam in 2016 and in 2018 I met my husband to be and he loves and adore me and I am blessed that Allah have given me a wonderful husband and blessed man I am thankful for him and now it’s 2020 and we are blessed with life ❤️❤️💋
allahm-ast3mnly wlatstbdlny May allah grant u the highest of heavens without judgement and through all doors CAn you change your pic so u don’t take sins inshallah No point getting sins for something as small as this
May allah grant u the highest of heavens without judgement and through all doors CAn you change your pic so u don’t take sins inshallah No point getting sins for something as small as this
How can a person stretch out his/her thumb to press a "DISLIKE" button yet this is the best video in the entire universe!!!!!!! Will never get tired of watching your videos coz they inspire me a lot
I am not a Muslim.,,but I fallow this Man., his mindset was accepted by God's law Godbless you Sir may Almighty God in heaven continue to enlighten your soul so that you can give good advice and motivation to others....
Masha Allah! This speech will make many youngsters to correct their mistakes & to lead their life in good way .Alhamdulillah ! May Allah give all of us a satisfaction in our life. Assalamu alaikkum.
My fiance...😍 ..he is like this... Im so glad to have him in my life.... He is so cherish....he makes me happy everyday... He is the one who take me close to allah and shows me good path....he makes me laugh everyday evertime....he respect me and my family.... After 5 months we both are going to get married alhamdullilah.... Please pray for us....we get so much of love and respect from each other till eternity... And live a better 😍 give us blessings 😊
@@redlilly2584 i don't care... People what think about me... I know me and my man are happy in our relationship....and we have so strong bonding and much love with the blessings of allah and other good people....i don't need silly opinions and wish like u... ur cmnt shows what type of person u are....definitely u must be a relationship spoiler... U can't give blessings but atleast don't give bad wishes... And u r not greater than allah... He is the one who creates pairs... So just keep calm and do ur wrk...
@@farhanakhan5093 exactly before marriage every men react like angel as u describe about your fiance. my fiance was also like that now he's my husband after 6 years i know what i'm facing till now . i shocked how he change his self
Give your love to your children when they needed, Give them appreciation and applause when needed , don't be late to regret your mistakes.. May Allah bless us with a good heart to love our children...
You know why he is mad because now he knows that its one of major sin to give importance materialistic things over family.Now He cant say to Allah on the Judgment Day that He didnt know.. You have forwarded a knowledge which his eyes will give witness on the judgement day even if he will try to make excuses.
You did right, answer him that Mufti Menk said that Parents should let the Children voice their Opinion, and not behave like Hooligans toward their Children!! Yes Children need Discipline and Guidance and Structure but also Loving and Gentle Ears and Understanding.
I respect you tremendously Brother Mufti Menk!!! 😭😭😭for speaking about our silent suffering.in times when most religious leaders try to be politically correct..they give big talks on sufferings in Islamic countries etc & conveniently avoid the topic of sufferings going in homes.how will Muslims ever prosper when their homes are cells of oppression. You are courageous & honest Mashaallah! May Allah reward u immensely & keep u & yr family in good health & Iman Inshaallah!👍👍👍
That is how I grew up....my parents always have and still do choose tv over real family time.....they call family time eating together in front of the TV. Obviously I grew up to choose family over tv.....and I converted to Islam at 17 and had alot of unanswered questions that was probably due to my parents choosing tv Instead of answering me or saying we don't know...alhamdullilah I got islam its a much better life. If you visit the middle east you learn that you don't even need tv to have fun and a real life. You just need others and Allah.
@@samshah7628 personally I will say. That is between wife and husband. No one is suppose to interfere in between their matters If required. Unbiased third person who is not directly emotionally related to the husband and wife should counsel them. And try to know exactly problem is happening. See we cannot know if the daughter is creating the problem and then son in law is getting agitated because of that. Or son in law is itself a bad person. First try to know what is the reason behind everything. Don't come to any conclusion just by hearing one side story. And ask Allah in your duas to get everything alright for them. There is nothing powerful then asking dua and praying haajat salat and tahajjud
I wish I had come across this before. Cherish and be happy and enjoy the company of your spouses n children . U know never know when u cross the line and it's all gone. I make dua for everyone.
This is very enlightening. You must spend time with your family. And build your family realationship there are people out here that will any and everything to pull you apart. Just remember like i do so often . My husband is my king and i his queen . Believe none of what you hear and half of what you see. Marriage is very sacred. AHUMDILLILAH Thank You ALLAH. FOR MY HUSBAND. BLESS MY FAMILY ON BOTH SIDES. BLESS MY HUSBAND AND I WITH MANY OF FRUIT. AMEEN
Thank you for bringing up this topic. Internet is the main culprit especially social networking sites. Gone are those days when people would sit and talk to each other, these days even two people sitting together would not leave their phones for a second.
May Allah bless you always, I have learned so much from you over the years that has made me better than I was with comedy marsha Allah I got it thank you
Assalam o alaikum Sheikh...just heard this lecture of urs today ...n it made me cry badly ...bcoz I was reminded of this same childhood...that I spent with parents...the kind that u spoke about ...the parents..who were not supposed to be parents...n I passed that whole period praying to Allah swt ...to never make me such a parent...n if I'm supposed to be such a parent...than ...don't make me a parent at all
my mother in law feels happy when her sons querl with their wives...they even cant sit with them when they cm home as they all are in army ... smtimes I feel I should quit.. bt I also strongly believe that ALLAH will do better for us ... that lecture z great
irha maryam same here...she played and took her son two years back ...mother has very strongly given rights by Islam but Islam gave preference to wife and husband for each other. If wife refuse to life with mother in law due to her insulting nature. Islam says to husband and a son to manage the responsibilities and manage the seperate places for both.
OMG..soo truly said this is what happened nowadays everywhere.. seriously if it possible you should go in every country where there are such kind of husbands to show them the right way to leave with their wife Masha Allah you are doing a very good work.. God bless you
so true & beautiful a reality check.... we now are living in a world where time and wickedness has made it easy for father's to walk away and mother's to play both roles.. yet our children are growing up in this madd world in a broken home... we need to do better. Thank you
Thank you thank you and thank you for bringing this matter to light, for validating how we feel because men get furious when wife asks them for their time, when wife asks to have some light moments, they ignore you and scold you even after waiting for whole day you have to stare at their face while they are busy on phone/ tv/ news. I have tears listening to this. Thank you
Ma sha Allah, Alhamdulillah. Keep giving these types of education because so many people need them. We thank subhanahuu wataalaah for having you in our Era.
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subhan Allah....Allah bless all of us...
Fans of Mufti Menk mashallah! Mashallah what a man mufti menk is ..how happy he might have kept his wife and children ...
Is there any way to meet Mufti Menk ?
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I'm Catholic but I think all of the stuff he is saying is great ^ thank you and happy Ramadan to all
Same
Thank you
Thanks you May Allah protect an blessed you
One love🙌🏾
Thank you
After marrying my husband I started learning about Islam as he made me convert to Islam, I realised that Islam is a beautiful, enriching religion, but soon after few months things changed. My in-laws and my husband changed and became so mean and I kept quoting Islamic verses to them about their behaviour, but this only seemed to aggravate all of them even more. It looks more like Islam teaches us one way of life but some of us mulsims follow something else. It's because of people like this that Muslims everywhere r classified in bad ways. If all Muslims followed the real way, the right path of Allah Thaala, the world would be a better place to live in.
Jacqueline Hejazeen
Islam is perfect , Muslims are not
Sister i m really sorry to hear your story first as a woman and secondly as a muslim .may God help you
Jacqueline Hejazeen don't worry my god he will help you
Jacqueline - you're one of the most blessed , I hope you're more close to Allah than ever
Sister may Allah bless you and give guidance to others.
I have watched a lot of his videos on facebook and here on youtube. This guy deserves a gold medal for he is changing the globe into a better world. I am not a Muslim but I love your messages. Your words are making changes in the society.
Jieng Bor he has from Allah
Jieng Bor
Do you read about islam
True he is really good speaker
Jazakallah khair ya Habib
I am not a muslim in religion and in faith but I like the way you preach good news from almighty God. May God bless you and protects you and your family. Thank you Mufti Menk
Ameen ya rabbi
Peace be upon you. 😊 👍🏿
Wellcome dear this religion belongs all the mankind not only islam
CHRYSLER FERNANDO Amen 🙌🏾
The only part of Islam men following is polygamy marriages nowadays, rest of the Deen don't matter to them!... First, the Qur'an does not give men the blanket right to have more than one wife. Polygamy is not a right, but a responsibility to ensure social justice for orphans. What Allah has granted is in fact a restriction on an existing practice of that time when men could marry as many wives as they wanted.
Second, because polygamy is not a right, Allah placed conditions on its practice. There is an overriding concern for justice in this short verse, and conditions are set to ensure that justice is done.
Condition A: Polygyny is permitted within the context of war and orphans. It is permitted only if the men fear they would not be able to deal justly with the orphans.
Condition B: The man who wants to be polygynous must have the capacity to be fair and just to all his wives. The verse is a call for just conduct towards women, not a right for men to fulfill their alleged lustful desires or their egos. And just treatment here means more than a man's financial capacity to support more than one wife: He must be fair in all ways, including in the time, support, and companionship he provides to his wives and children.
Condition C: If the man fears he cannot deal justly with all his wives, then Allah advocates that he should marry only one as this will ensure equality. This is explicitly stated in the verse.
I am a christian by birth until i have grown.I got married to a muslim guy few months ago and as expected i was transformed into Muslim.I had love the religion and the teachings itself as im doing self nourishing but it frustrate me sometimes that my husband who have been a muslim since birth is someone i cannot rely on when it comes to teachings of the Quran.He only knows his right which makes me so sad of this relationship.Honestly i feel sad that i have known islam through him as i cannot see good image of Islam from him but Alhamdulillah Allah made me feel better by sustaining me with courage and patience.Thank you for this helpful videos aswell as im learning alot.
"The time that we spend with our family is an act of worship." ❤
I love my wife so much and my baby boy. May Allah swt protect our marriages and loved ones and keep our imaan and deen stronger everyday Ameen x
Am not a Muslim am a Christian but I watch Mufti teachings every morning & night before sleeping it nourishes my soul. Be blessed 🙏
This feels so personal to me. I feel as if he's talking about my marriage. Husband gives priority to everyone and everything over me and my children. I feel so frustrated I want to leave him.
Never wants to spend time with us unless it's in front of the TV watching a movie, every day! !.
Mufti menk bless you for highlighting such issues. Your lectures are so relatable to modern life and young people can really learn from you because your way of explaining is unique. May Allha protect you.❤
It's not funny bro
You're not alone and it depresses me
May Allah make it easy for you sister
Same problem 😪
May Allah give us subra, men have abandoned their responsibilities and they want women who are financially stable so they can take care of them. The fear of Allah has taken off from their hearts
I am truly amazed how Mufti Menk knows our deepest problems and sufferings, especially women feelings, and how he responds to it sensitively and describes all accurately. It touches soul. Thank you so much 🧡
I am not a Muslim but a Catholic and somehow I just came across this video. I watched this to the end and I just wanted to say that I really liked how you talk about the women in this video and that they are special and important and as I woman I appreciate this teaching. Thank you for sharing this. I have a very lovely husband but I believe that this video should be watched by many men, not just Muslim men! :) May God be with you and your families. We are all one in God. God bless.
Wow my X husband needs to hear this. I divorced him after 12yrs of marriage because of such but I thank Allah for blessing me with the best husband now I am more than the word happy with him. I love u Allah all praises to u.
Salaam sister-wow, 12 years?! How long were you a single wome until you found your new husband? And did you have kids with your first husband? I am very happy for you sister. How did you find the strength to leave? Did he divorce you or you asked for it? Please respond. Thanks sis.
Amie Cham god bless you
I have got some situation in my life but I don't know what to do its been 10 years of my marriage still not happy with him we have 2 kids even kids are not happy with his behaviour..
@@bestgamerbro5061 Plz try to manage with your husband , take advice from salah Mufti and do Sabar for the sake of your children
@@daudtariq4919 As-Salaam-Alaikum thanks for replying .. it's been 10 years I am doing sabar it's really hard to deal with him we don't have understanding at all I really feel suffocated in this relationship now I don't know what to do ? Obviously you're not going to like it when your husband swearing at you and using really really bad language obviously you're not going to take it everybody need their self-respect.. he doesn't know anything about the Dean he doesn't keep fast he he doesn't read Namaz . If a person know little bit about Islam he would respect everyone ..
May Allah bless Mufti Menk for this beautiful speech!
Most of ur speeches make me cry allhumdulillah all that u are and have said are all true.. may Allah talla give u barak aameen
Ahmeen ya Rabb
I adore how Islam holds women and wives in such great respect.
Sure it does!
I always doubt there great guys out there but then I hear mufti menk sermon and ya Allah find good things I should look for in a spouse
Tiana Fuller Salam 👋
Tiana Fuller
May God help you whatever u wish
Tiana where are you from?
Tiana where are you from? Are you married?
Mashaallah tiana
You've got to respect Mufti Menk, he always manages to convey inconvenient truth about our brothers and sister in order to help the ummah. May Allah bless you for all your good work, Mufti Menk. Big Respect!
If we fight with my husband after a few minutes or hours he make me feel okay or his telling me a story about quran or propet after that my heart will be more happy when he telling me about islamic coz he don't want to see me a sad or mad or angry sometimes :( so thanks to allah bcoz he give me a man who teach me to be a good person and also I love him much what ever happened 😭🌿
Mashalah. You are lucky sister
How lucky u r sister
Mashallah... you are so lucky
Ok sub to you Mustafa jan dont watch me ok
I thang you not gonna good kind of like seek
May Allah blessed every Muslim man with a pious Muslim wife and every Muslim woman with a pious Muslim man, Ameen
Tariq Dau I'm sorry, I don't mean to be rude, but I genuinely don't understand what you're trying to say
Ahmeen ya Rabb
AMEN
I am not Islamic, we see two side's of Islam that which fills the news. And this, this is real Islam. What you say is so true. God bless you.
Wow, I'm impressed, your words really make me think. It brought tears to my eyes! Thank you! I'm a Christian American, but this is so true what you say, and a powerful message no matter what religion a person has. I just had a discussion yesterday about not being on the internet too much with my daughter, who likes to talk with her friends from school, and I told her, it's better to have a connection with them in real not over a computer. We are becoming a society of where we are losing our humanity, and addicted to technology, which is why I try to make most of my time every day to spend away from my phone and the internet all together.
@Aisha Noor I have been with my man for years, and we are married. He's not like that at all. He does not abuse me. I have the freedom to do what I want, even go out at night and hang out with some of my lady friends, because he trusts me, and knows I'd never cheat on him, and I trust him the same and he can go out with his friends, because it's called "Trust." He will call me when he's with them, because he will be missing me, and can't wait to come spend time with me, because that's how real love makes you feel. If he was after a green card, he could of done that years ago and left me, but we took things very slow, and not just hop into a relationship right away. We were strictly friends for three years, before we come together in a relationship. You're just prejudice, and you're generalizing. Do you know every single Arabian Muslim man in world personally?? If you don't, and I know you don't, then shut the heck up, your ignorance is showing. Don't take your hate and disgust out on every Muslim man, just because you hooked up with the wrong guy, and if you haven't been in a relationship with one, then you've been watching stereotyping hate videos that favor your deep rooted racism!
@@Mojosfire with all respect to you sister kindly watch on TH-cam ef dawah, sc dawah, the Muslim metaphysician channel videos regarding christianity, Islam etc
wow this was the best speech i have ever heard of a muslim .
I converted to Islam in 2016 and in 2018 I met my husband to be and he loves and adore me and I am blessed that Allah have given me a wonderful husband and blessed man I am thankful for him and now it’s 2020 and we are blessed with life ❤️❤️💋
allahm-ast3mnly wlatstbdlny
May allah grant u the highest of heavens without judgement and through all doors
CAn you change your pic so u don’t take sins inshallah No point getting sins for something as small as this
I know Jesse Lolo when he wanted to 5uk you off.
Alhamdulilah may Allah bless you sister
I was crying when I watch this video. Islam ☪️ is so meaningful and so beautiful religion. SubhanAllah!!!!
Sir mufti menk may Allah bless you always
I have just spent 14mins of my time watching and listening to this very important message over the internet!
i love when you speak soooo good about this, wifes/womens need more help about marriage 😢
Really
May allah grant u the highest of heavens without judgement and through all doors
CAn you change your pic so u don’t take sins inshallah No point getting sins for something as small as this
This has me in tears as it’s very relatable 🌻
Jessica D iam tearful too I can relate to this
Me too
Not me 🤣
Me 2 😒
I think i need to send this to my husband and mother in law !!!
May Allah give countless love to every husband and wife and protect them evil eye Aameen
🤲🤲🤲
My dia ,don't bother
May Allah (SWT) have mercy on you and perfect your marriage! 🤲🏽
And also to Your own mother
every wife should :)
Massha allahu I have not been listening to shelk mufkt menk but I think ever since I have confirmed him I have become more flesible in islam
Am not Muslim but MoftiMenk ,I like your messages. Allah bless you.
May Allah SWT make life easier for all married women and bring them joy in their lives. Amen ya rabb
Ameen inshallah
Ameen
Aameen 🤲🤲
Ameen
Amin
I wil nver ever stop watching and listening to his messages.he's wise Ma-shaa-Allah
How can a person stretch out his/her thumb to press a "DISLIKE" button yet this is the best video in the entire universe!!!!!!! Will never get tired of watching your videos coz they inspire me a lot
Not all who love you some will some will not
There are some people who are sick
That must have come from the men
Mufti is straightforward person he doesn't beat around the bush straight to the point don't oppress anyone whether its your wife or anybody.
I am not a Muslim.,,but I fallow this Man., his mindset was accepted by God's law Godbless you Sir may Almighty God in heaven continue to enlighten your soul so that you can give good advice and motivation to others....
Masha Allah! This speech will make many youngsters to correct their mistakes & to lead their life in good way .Alhamdulillah ! May Allah give all of us a satisfaction in our life. Assalamu alaikkum.
Nazee Malik to be
So many people need to watch this I’m only 17 and completely agree 💕
Awesome lecture by an Awesome Scholar, Subhan Allah
Awesome!!!!!
sheena Ali manshaAllah
Im not even muslim but i find myself listening to your wisdom a lot .
My fiance...😍 ..he is like this... Im so glad to have him in my life.... He is so cherish....he makes me happy everyday... He is the one who take me close to allah and shows me good path....he makes me laugh everyday evertime....he respect me and my family.... After 5 months we both are going to get married alhamdullilah.... Please pray for us....we get so much of love and respect from each other till eternity... And live a better 😍 give us blessings 😊
Farhana Khan I wish divorce on u instead.
@@redlilly2584 why?
He would have thought you of ur dp is prohibited in Islam
@@redlilly2584 i don't care... People what think about me... I know me and my man are happy in our relationship....and we have so strong bonding and much love with the blessings of allah and other good people....i don't need silly opinions and wish like u... ur cmnt shows what type of person u are....definitely u must be a relationship spoiler... U can't give blessings but atleast don't give bad wishes... And u r not greater than allah... He is the one who creates pairs... So just keep calm and do ur wrk...
@@farhanakhan5093 exactly before marriage every men react like angel as u describe about your fiance. my fiance was also like that now he's my husband after 6 years i know what i'm facing till now . i shocked how he change his self
Be blessed Sheikh I like your lectures and I wish all men listen plus attending your lectures.
Check your grammar you backward.
Really proud to be a woman in Islam even if i do not get a Salih husband but expecting to get all from aahira..thank u sir for the wonderful speech.
I like your name what's the meaning
Give your love to your children when they needed, Give them appreciation and applause when needed , don't be late to regret your mistakes.. May Allah bless us with a good heart to love our children...
Aameen 🤲🤲
Some people not ready to be parent..but already have children..That is true.. may Allah help all of us..💖💖💖
Aameen 🤲🤲🤲
MAA SHAA ALLAH, what a Golden Remainder.May Allah rewards you.
I totally believe that! There's a American expression, if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all! 💙
This is very true and happened to me... May Allah grant you jannatul firdaus for raising this issue amen
Mashallah wt a beautiful lecture i was crying so much whn i lessn t ths
Muslim Girl why were you crying?
Abdul Kadir b
Jazak Allah khair brother mufti menk
I sent this to the family group chat, and now my dad is telling at me, telling me that I am a disrespectful child. 😂😂😂
Yelling*
Omg I just done the same 😂😂
You know why he is mad because now he knows that its one of major sin to give importance materialistic things over family.Now He cant say to Allah on the Judgment Day that He didnt know..
You have forwarded a knowledge which his eyes will give witness on the judgement day even if he will try to make excuses.
Lol that’s so funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣 May Allah help us all
You did right, answer him that Mufti Menk said that Parents should let the Children voice their Opinion, and not behave like Hooligans toward their Children!! Yes Children need Discipline and Guidance and Structure but also Loving and Gentle Ears and Understanding.
Thank you our sheikh good remindings
subhan allah this should be mandatory to listen to all couples before marriage
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I respect you tremendously Brother Mufti Menk!!! 😭😭😭for speaking about our silent suffering.in times when most religious leaders try to be politically correct..they give big talks on sufferings in Islamic countries etc & conveniently avoid the topic of sufferings going in homes.how will Muslims ever prosper when their homes are cells of oppression. You are courageous & honest Mashaallah! May Allah reward u immensely & keep u & yr family in good health & Iman Inshaallah!👍👍👍
my Allah make us true muslims Yarabbi
That is how I grew up....my parents always have and still do choose tv over real family time.....they call family time eating together in front of the TV. Obviously I grew up to choose family over tv.....and I converted to Islam at 17 and had alot of unanswered questions that was probably due to my parents choosing tv Instead of answering me or saying we don't know...alhamdullilah I got islam its a much better life. If you visit the middle east you learn that you don't even need tv to have fun and a real life. You just need others and Allah.
Im in the stage of my life now that im struggling of problem marital and career.. good to hear the talks and lectures from mufti menk
May Allah give countless love to every husband and wife and protect them evil eye Aameen
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Ma Sha Allah ❤ proud to be a Muslim 😊
Amazing Lecture Mufti Menk May Allah Bless you
Thank you sheikh Mufti Menk i real Apprecialte you the best
O Allah!!Subhanallah !!How beautiful lecture!!May Allah give him long life!!Amin!!
Amin
Ameen Ameen thanks may Allah bless you
All men are supposed to listen to this and think about it how will they feel if their women does the same thing to them how they treat their wife
Ameen.
I wish my future husband sees it
Yes men but women also need to
Or how if the son-in law treat your daughter badly
@@samshah7628 personally I will say. That is between wife and husband.
No one is suppose to interfere in between their matters
If required. Unbiased third person who is not directly emotionally related to the husband and wife should counsel them. And try to know exactly problem is happening.
See we cannot know if the daughter is creating the problem and then son in law is getting agitated because of that. Or son in law is itself a bad person. First try to know what is the reason behind everything. Don't come to any conclusion just by hearing one side story.
And ask Allah in your duas to get everything alright for them. There is nothing powerful then asking dua and praying haajat salat and tahajjud
All men need to listen to this and his parents and his siblings too. And the world would become very beautiful
Dosent work that way ,
He is telling the true. His words comfort me when im in difficult times
My husband have to watch this
Me too
Also women do need to watch
Mine too))
He likes internet and always silent when he is with me
I wish I had come across this before. Cherish and be happy and enjoy the company of your spouses n children . U know never know when u cross the line and it's all gone. I make dua for everyone.
We are thankful to Allah for making someone speak on these topics in such a good and informative way
This is so beautiful. I am crying.
This is very enlightening. You must spend time with your family. And build your family realationship there are people out here that will any and everything to pull you apart. Just remember like i do so often . My husband is my king and i his queen . Believe none of what you hear and half of what you see. Marriage is very sacred. AHUMDILLILAH Thank You ALLAH. FOR MY HUSBAND. BLESS MY FAMILY ON BOTH SIDES. BLESS MY HUSBAND AND I WITH MANY OF FRUIT. AMEEN
Machaalla God bless mufti menk.
May Allah grant him Janat Al Fedous
‘’Many parents are not fit to be parents’’ i felt this part
Thank you for bringing up this topic. Internet is the main culprit especially social networking sites. Gone are those days when people would sit and talk to each other, these days even two people sitting together would not leave their phones for a second.
Thank you for your preaching. ....
You are very logical and truthful towards Islam. ...
You are unbiased to the patriarchal society. ...
May Allah bless you always, I have learned so much from you over the years that has made me better than I was with comedy marsha Allah I got it thank you
MAY ALLAH PROTECT US
Assalam o alaikum Sheikh...just heard this lecture of urs today ...n it made me cry badly ...bcoz I was reminded of this same childhood...that I spent with parents...the kind that u spoke about ...the parents..who were not supposed to be parents...n I passed that whole period praying to Allah swt ...to never make me such a parent...n if I'm supposed to be such a parent...than ...don't make me a parent at all
Excellent and true speech
my mother in law feels happy when her sons querl with their wives...they even cant sit with them when they cm home as they all are in army ... smtimes I feel I should quit.. bt I also strongly believe that ALLAH will do better for us ... that lecture z great
irha maryam same here...she played and took her son two years back ...mother has very strongly given rights by Islam but Islam gave preference to wife and husband for each other. If wife refuse to life with mother in law due to her insulting nature. Islam says to husband and a son to manage the responsibilities and manage the seperate places for both.
Mashallah
irha maryam æ
Saima is right.
Only Allah has all wonderful qualities... all for a reason
Best speech. You are doing a great job.
Mufti menk are very right
I'm so so happy to hear what you said Allah bless you
Love u sheik.respect from Uganda the pearl of Africa
OMG..soo truly said
this is what happened nowadays everywhere.. seriously
if it possible you should go in every country where there are such kind of husbands to show them the right way to leave with their wife
Masha Allah you are doing a very good work.. God bless you
rouk natsu unfortunately the men that need to hear this type of advise won't be the ones attending :(
A lot of woman do this too.
May Allah continue to bless you ( Minke) to continue playing this crucial role in the life of mankind
I love you for Allah's sakes
I have seen this lecture two times now,
Every time I learn new things
Really , more more heart touching words I found in this video. Means a lots of woman . Thank you very much .
so true & beautiful a reality check.... we now are living in a world where time and wickedness has made it easy for father's to walk away and mother's to play both roles.. yet our children are growing up in this madd world in a broken home... we need to do better.
Thank you
May ALLAH bless you mufti Menk.
May Allah guide us all in the right path. Subhan'Allah.
may Allah grant us understanding
QueencutyZazu ......
AMEEN 🙏🕋🙏
Ameen inshallah
What an amazing message this transcends religion to humanity. Thank you so much
I appreciate Allah for making me a loving wife and may Allah bless my husband 🙏❤️ and family
Ma Sha Allah
Allahumma Ameen ya rabbi
Thank you thank you and thank you for bringing this matter to light, for validating how we feel because men get furious when wife asks them for their time, when wife asks to have some light moments, they ignore you and scold you even after waiting for whole day you have to stare at their face while they are busy on phone/ tv/ news. I have tears listening to this. Thank you
10:28 - 10:38
This is the best thing I’ve heard today ❤️❤️❤️
May Allah swt reward Mufti menk
May Allah swt guide us to take heed and better our selves in shaa Allah ameen
You give such relevant talks. Jazakallah khair, brother.
Subhan ALLAH..Ameen great lecture ..
Mashallah may allah agreed the efforts of mufti menk saab
Aamiyn.
Ma sha Allah, Alhamdulillah. Keep giving these types of education because so many people need them. We thank subhanahuu wataalaah for having you in our Era.
Heart touching no words to describe