Why Being Cold Is Exactly What He Needs To Realize His Mistakes And Regret Leaving

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  • Guides And Coaching: liinks.co/elli...
    My name is Elliot Scott and I am a dating coach that is going to teach you how to get a boyfriend and attract the guy you like. I am going to teach you numerous ways to attract your crush and get him to fall for you. I have helped thousands of women all over get the guy of their dreams. I am going to tell you how to find out if a guy likes you and the signs that a guy likes you. I also will teach you why men pull away and what to do if they pull away.
    I am going to give you a ton of free dating and relationship advice. Everything you need on how to make a guy fall for you is in my guides and videos. Don’t worry about men pulling away or losing interest. I show you how to get a guy to like you again. I show you how to get a guy back once and for all. If you have any topic or question on attraction and getting guys to desire you then you will find it here. I have been doing this for a long time and I don’t plan on stopping. I love what I do.
    I cover a lot of the following: How to get a guy to like you, signs a guy likes you, how to get a guy back, how to get your ex back, how to get him to like you again, how to get a guy to text back or text faster, and many more.
    I am no way a professional or licensed. This is all just my experience, knowledge, and opinion.
    One more thing: I don’t want you to ever think I am trying to blame you or gaslight you into thinking something that isn’t true or actually happening. My intentions are to give you another way of looking at things and to help you question what is actually going on. My intention is to give clarity and insight. You don’t have to agree with that is being said.

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  • @ElliotScottDating
    @ElliotScottDating  หลายเดือนก่อน

    Guides and Coaching: liinks.co/elliotscott

  • @RG-hf4et
    @RG-hf4et หลายเดือนก่อน +85

    If a guy acts disinterested, he's disinterested. Let him go. Be done with him.

    • @DivestedConfessions
      @DivestedConfessions หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      This is true💯
      yet unfortunately some dudes are into games because they know insecure women will chase them🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @mademoisellemsc
      @mademoisellemsc หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you

    • @PetitHibou72
      @PetitHibou72 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Don’t mess with Mr. In-Between, as the old Johnny Mercer song says.

    • @1crafter408
      @1crafter408 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@DivestedConfessions😢

  • @jrwheeler81
    @jrwheeler81 หลายเดือนก่อน +80

    It's so important to maintain your dignity and self-respect in these situations. If a guy is pulling away, acting distant, is always hot/cold, or is clearly taking advantage of you, you NEED to pull back and turn into an ice princess. Be high value and never settle for anything less than you want, need, and deserve in a relationship. We need to teach people how we expect to be treated in any relationship. These types of guys need to understand that this sort of behavior is simply unacceptable and will not be tolerated. If you go cold and he doesn't come running back and realize he screwed up, then he did you a huge favor by weeding himself out and saving you time, energy, and emotion.

    • @graceperez1281
      @graceperez1281 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I agree,,,him not coming back was the best thing he ever did for me..literally! Got a text for Thanksgiving from him, I responded a short , response.. thanks and same to you. I'm done!

    • @1crafter408
      @1crafter408 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Agreed

    • @Nectarine333
      @Nectarine333 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yup. Walking away is a win win for you!

  • @reginamarie123
    @reginamarie123 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Great advice and delivery! Mirror their energy!!!

  • @lak1294
    @lak1294 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    If you feel them pull away or start to be distant - become icy cold and distant yourself! 🥶 🥶 🥶
    I've learned to do this recently and will ALWAYS apply it to any potential relationship in future. I think many men, no matter what their native attachment style is, have a touch of Avoidant in them.
    Acting warm and caring (aka an anxious response that I've mistakenly done in the past) is the female equivalent of "Nice guys finish last." Maybe the phrase should be: "Lovey dovey gals get jilted"?
    Women often look down on a "nice guy" as being wimpish and unappealing. Similarly, if a woman rushes towards a man who is actively pulling away, he's going to run farther! Moving in too close to him is exactly what he DOESN'T want.
    Instead, you have to back away and become distant and neutral yourself. If he has genuine feelings for you, he will calm down and eventually move towards you. Stay rooted where you are, or even continue go move slightly away so that he chases you!
    Men are more comfortable chasing than being chased. They're the ones with the hunter instinct (masculine energy).
    And for us women, isn't it much better to be pursued by someone we like rather than we chasing them and they losing interest?

    • @1crafter408
      @1crafter408 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This was one of the best answers I ever heard.

    • @lak1294
      @lak1294 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks @1crafter408! Seems anti-intuitive, but it's absolutely true.

  • @DivestedConfessions
    @DivestedConfessions หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Elliot you’re really helping women because some women are stubborn and or they weren’t socialized around men so they don’t really know how men operate romantically

  • @Itspaolatina
    @Itspaolatina หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Girls there is a third party, another girl who is smiling and flirting with him

  • @eaf888
    @eaf888 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Binge watching every video today. I'm going no contact and this helps me to let go. Eventually I will focus on not thinking of him. Last night was easier I put on many girlie movies.

  • @claracruz9066
    @claracruz9066 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I have learned so much from Elliott.
    God bless❤

  • @mint_soup9743
    @mint_soup9743 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Youre looking extra fine today does that mean I'm getting over my ex?? Lol

  • @verarobinson6759
    @verarobinson6759 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Yes I did that he is coming back now 😂u are so funny love u

    • @Turquoisefire
      @Turquoisefire หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Can u share your story?

  • @ST-r1c
    @ST-r1c หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Love your videos ❤❤❤

  • @cytavares
    @cytavares หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Game, play, game, play... we don't need it. Next!

  • @katarzynarajska7608
    @katarzynarajska7608 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Please don't waste your time on this bullshit. If he doesn't care already, he won't. Find someone who cares.

  • @1crafter408
    @1crafter408 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yeah we allow trashy behavior… guys don’t do anything we don’t allow

  • @marijkee719
    @marijkee719 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    WTH a dating coach telling people to play games. what a joke.