Hi Elliot, what about if I work with the man at the same place? We’re next to each other, he’s not sure about being my boyfriend. I feel hurt and stopped talking to him, it’s so awkward. How do I get him regret not to choosing me? Please help
Exciting video, A year ago i took the no contact route, well i wouldnt say it didnt go well, but i missed her and sometimes you have to leave your comfort zone and go for what you want, Without knowing and having a huge ego, we might actually miss out on our soul mate all in the name of not settling for less, I know who i am, and at the same time i know what i want for me, so i did all i could to get her back, and I must say, it was the best decision i have ever made, we have been together again for over 7 months, yes marriage isnt always rosey, but i am lucky to have her, just as she is to have me, we compliment each other
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i am in a similar situation, and i do not know what else do to have her back, i have been dying inside, people actually think i am happy, i am not.
I feel your pain brother, after trying out the no contact experiment that failed miserably, i had to find other means, i had to reach out to a spiritual adviser, it was brilliant idea which i never thought it was, but it worked wonders for me.
Try being an avoidant dating another avoidant. We can avoid each other right out of a relationship. 🤣 But in all seriousness, if it's not working now, it's rare that it will ever work. Don't chase anyone ever. Work on yourself, your body, mind and spirit and leave dusty men in the desert. Attachment style doesn't matter. ✌️❤️
Our silence carries no echoes. We all seek that deep, authentic connection to fill the emptiness within us. When you're no longer present, a man is left with only his feelings for you as a mirror. If those feelings are sincere, he will strive to make things right; if not, he may simply exploit you for what you offer until his guilt catches up with him.
Love your style of chat and advice...makes me smile😁 If a man doesn't show enough interest, to the point that I question his investment in me, I'm gone!
Nothing matters unless he treats you the way that you want to be treated all this he might start this or that means nothing loving action is the only thing that matters
I love you too. Thanks for giving us the advice .. it’s so easy to fall into the trap of treating the guy like your his mother instead of a person who commands respect. By mother I mean, constant forgiveness, agape love, putting up w meaningless rebellion and ghosting. Etc.
My bf and I were having communication issues due to his work schedule then he got in a major car accident right when I was ready to talk about it 🙄 now i feel like i cant bring it up and guess what? the communication is still not where I need it to be. Long distance as well. I hate this.
Ive blocked my ex for stupid shit more then i can count . Then he messeges me from a fake number (app) to get me back, he knows how to reel me back in. This time im going silent..he really messed up big time.
@sassykat2000 No, I would be invested and reciprocating interest. I just respect my enough not to chase. I don't have time for silly games. I'll go work on one of my projects instead.
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Hi Elliot, what about if I work with the man at the same place? We’re next to each other, he’s not sure about being my boyfriend. I feel hurt and stopped talking to him, it’s so awkward. How do I get him regret not to choosing me? Please help
I totally relate to the part where Elliot said we feel better when we are at least talking to the guy, but we’re getting played…
Silent is powerful
Exciting video, A year ago i took the no contact route, well i wouldnt say it didnt go well, but i missed her and sometimes you have to leave your comfort zone and go for what you want, Without knowing and having a huge ego, we might actually miss out on our soul mate all in the name of not settling for less, I know who i am, and at the same time i know what i want for me, so i did all i could to get her back, and I must say, it was the best decision i have ever made, we have been together again for over 7 months, yes marriage isnt always rosey, but i am lucky to have her, just as she is to have me, we compliment each other
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i am in a similar situation, and i do not know what else do to have her back, i have been dying inside, people actually think i am happy, i am not.
I feel your pain brother, after trying out the no contact experiment that failed miserably, i had to find other means, i had to reach out to a spiritual adviser, it was brilliant idea which i never thought it was, but it worked wonders for me.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him/ her?
Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
We all need to say “see ya later!”
😂
Why?
Try being an avoidant dating another avoidant. We can avoid each other right out of a relationship. 🤣 But in all seriousness, if it's not working now, it's rare that it will ever work. Don't chase anyone ever. Work on yourself, your body, mind and spirit and leave dusty men in the desert. Attachment style doesn't matter. ✌️❤️
😂😂😂😅
Our silence carries no echoes. We all seek that deep, authentic connection to fill the emptiness within us. When you're no longer present, a man is left with only his feelings for you as a mirror. If those feelings are sincere, he will strive to make things right; if not, he may simply exploit you for what you offer until his guilt catches up with him.
Love your style of chat and advice...makes me smile😁 If a man doesn't show enough interest, to the point that I question his investment in me, I'm gone!
I stopped talking like you said and went silent, he is now unravelling whereas in the past he ignored all my boundaries.
How long were u silent for before he started to unravel?
Very good point!. Please more videos on the part that you elaborate how he thinks during silence.and probably he knows he messed up!?
What if a guy starts to realize he would loose you and then apologize for his actions? And then he starts to change. I guess that’s a good sign.
Nothing matters unless he treats you the way that you want to be treated all this he might start this or that means nothing loving action is the only thing that matters
Yes.its a good sign.just don't rush it and it will work out
@ we aren’t rushing things… we’ve been talking for 3 years and we’ve been seeing each other for 2 years.
I wish you the very best. I wish mine would have grown up.. but we are over. For good.
Just make sure it's a permanent change, not just a change for a short time to get u back, then back with the bs
I love you too. Thanks for giving us the advice .. it’s so easy to fall into the trap of treating the guy like your his mother instead of a person who commands respect.
By mother I mean, constant forgiveness, agape love, putting up w meaningless rebellion and ghosting. Etc.
It's the only way. You win 🏆
I love this. So concise and informative, thank you!
My bf and I were having communication issues due to his work schedule then he got in a major car accident right when I was ready to talk about it 🙄 now i feel like i cant bring it up and guess what? the communication is still not where I need it to be. Long distance as well. I hate this.
He blocks me ghosts me and returns because I allow it. I just blocked his number.
I did the same thing girl, run and don’t come back. It’s hard I know, but over time, we will be ok.
Yes true I am done with this childish games
Damnn I'm having a huge crush on Elliot..
Ive blocked my ex for stupid shit more then i can count . Then he messeges me from a fake number (app) to get me back, he knows how to reel me back in. This time im going silent..he really messed up big time.
He probably doesn’t care 😂
How do you communicate that your tired of it? So he understands he was lacking care and communication?
By being silent what part is that you don't get exactly? He knows what he did!
I stopped talking to him, and he did the same. I don’t know if he will reach out again. Thanks
I thought the video was pointless. Im still waiting to know how the brain reacts?!
@loyaltypisces2036 sound like you got comprehension skills 😂
I got played- trying to move on now
@@houdy5675 you should get a session with me :) I can help with all that no problem
Hmm interesting
There’s always a woman that will😉
More like f me f you, you do you you started it I will end it
Child’s play smh
This ish makes no sense. This discussion lost interest and credibility. Time I can't get back. 😢
@TPREG acting like your time matters to me haha. No one knows you
If a woman goes silent and just stops responding out of the blue, I move along.
You aren't invested so it's best she stop and you go on your way then.
@sassykat2000 No, I would be invested and reciprocating interest. I just respect my enough not to chase. I don't have time for silly games. I'll go work on one of my projects instead.
Did you even listen to the point of the video? This is not for women who are just doing this out of the blue. @@philipramsden4975