*To the girl who messaged Dylan and has been struggling lately:* Girl, I was there a couple years ago and I promise it won't always be like that. Life has so much to give you, so many crazy and fun experiences that you haven't gotten yet but you will. You just have to hold out for a while longer. And in the mean time, just know that you are valued and loved and you deserve to get to those happy experiences so keep fighting and I'll keep you in my prayers. I promise it's worth it!
@@SiennatheHuman-_- stay strong!! You are doing so well and know that there is light at the end of that tunnel! Jesus loves you and is so proud of you! Remember that you can always talk to someone who you’re comfortable with about how you may be feeling! Stay strong you are so loved!
As a househusband keep pushing keep fighting there is something better and when your anxiety is high remember the words of b.j. Blaskowicz breath in count to 4 breath out count to 4
This is one of the better comments I've seen for her. People like her & I hear the same bullshit "life is worth living!" line every single day & it's literally nauseating. This one was a really really powerful one; thank you for it.
@@NicciZelda i agree. as unhealthy as it may sound, my massive sense of responsibility and guilt for my friends and family kept me around for years. whilst there are obvious flaws to this thinking, i actually think that as last resorts go, it was good enough. even if it doesnt particularly comfort you at the time, it keeps you around until your life undergoes the inevitable change for the better. also, as im guessing shes a teenager, i hope she now knows how much better life gets after a shitty time as a 15 etc. yr old... like, unimaginably better.
@@JS-oh2dp i mean, thats not really a "plotpoint" more than just a thing that happens, and it has nothing to do with how they look like, it was all about the tattoo
I find it awesome how over thousand people who liked this comment (including me) have probably been through something and have gotten a good outcome, it certainly proves the point
@@melissam597 Really? Would you be interested in explaining how? Because I'd like to know. It's been a long time since I've seen that movie, so I mostly recall the plot and characters. I do recall the antagonist had a few mental health issues, which caused her to be fixated on certain types of people. I don't believe that should be a reason for thinking it villainizes and stigmatizes mentally ill people. In fact, I kinda remember thinking her family didn't really understand the level of help she needed. Therefore, as in real life, I believe audiences can understand that the antagonist isn't the antagonist because she's mentally ill. She's the antagonist because she's putting the protagonist's life (and others' lives) in danger. And while we feel that she needs additional help, it's not to be at the expense of someone's life. So, being aware is the best way to help both parties. That's how I see it. However, you may have a point of view I've not thought about. So, I would love to read it if you're willing to share it
To the girl: you’re definitely not alone. There are so many people who have been where you are and trust me you can make it out. You are dying and beautiful and you are so worth it.
To the girl (and anyone that needs it): I heard a quote today- “feelings are like waves, we can’t control when they are coming, but we can choose which ones to surf on.”
And it's not even some mean, nasty cat that hisses and bites--which would still have been awful--but they pick, like, the world's sweetest, most adorable fur-baeby kitten?!!! This movie can go straight to Hell.
@@lenawiesmuller2112 hey you have thousands of people to help you through whatever you are going through. you arent alone we are here for you and anyone else who might be going through the same thing
Dylan: **is genuinely committed to helping this person who's going through a rough time and encourages his fans to do so as well** Also Dylan: I want you guys to shower each other
To the DMer,please keep fighting. My mum works with suicidal people and every person has expressed how grateful they are that they didn't end things. Sending positive thoughts and spiritual hugs.
To the girl: this is not your ending, everything's gonna get better. And after it does, one in the future you're gonna look back at this and think, i am so glad I'm alive.
Your anxiety is lying to you. Your depression is lying to you. There is no shame in needing or asking for help. If you cannot love yourself right now, we will do it for you until you can. I hope the universe gives you a reason to smile today.
I really need some of those people in my life. Especially right now. Being told your worthless and nothing by the only person you have and by the ones you love the most is a very very dangerous situation and a place that feels like there's no air, and to have someone willing to love you better is the ultimate medicine for this kind of hopeless sickness , not caring about other humans is the real pandemic we should be protecting ourselves against. F a covid. Cruelty kills.
No one should feel like these emotions are wrong and that she's truly a lone. What you should know is how to fix it... I've always wanted to kill myself ever since I was very young, and even now, from time to time the feeling comes. The way I handle it is by doing what I love-- watching TH-cam and praying to God. That's it, that's the way. I'd like more people to appreciate this feeling instead of being told dumb things, and I want them to know that if Michael Bay Transformers movies exist, why shouldn't they? Like if I were Michael Bay, I'd have killed myself ages ago-- no ordinary person could make such movies. But they do exist and it's nice to know that you feel superior to them. (Not that I'm judging Michael Bay himself-- always separate art from the artist)
To the girl and to everyone who is thinking about ending their life: I was in your position at one point and I thought the whole "It gets better" was just a lie. Until I hit rock bottom. Then, I realized that there were people who loved me so much that they were willing to go into the darkest depths of the hole where I was to fetch me. They made me realize that I needed help and because I decided to get help I was able to get a proper diagnoses, which has helped me create a plan to get better. I'm not going to lie and say that it is all uphill from here. Some days I'm back at rock bottom and others I'm in cloud nine. But whenever I go back to my rock bottom place, I look up at the dark sky and look for stars. And trust me, you'll find your stars, whether they be your parents, your friends, a hobby, or a dream, you'll find something glittering in the night sky giving you hope. Just know that you are not alone. And no matter how much you feel like you will be judged, you won't be. If we can like this skinny, stick-looking Flynn Rider wannabe (Nothing but love for you Dylan; you have also helped me in my darkest moments), everyone else has a chance of finding their pack. Best Wishes and much Love, A fellow survivor in this disaster that we call life P.S. Fun Fact- Cotton Candy was invented by a Dentist. Ironic, right?!
@@michaelah9880 I just wanted to encourage you that God loves you very much, and He created you with such love and care. He is the one that will be there for you, all you have to do is ask for His help and He will come running to help you up. Trust me I know, God has always been the one to be there for me. Even if your not sure it will work, don't be afraid to just try it for yourself. I will be praying for you. Please don't give up. You have always been important, that's why Jesus died on the cross. He did it so that sin couldn't keep us out of Heaven anymore. He sees you as that important to Him that He became the sacrifice, so you could be free. You just have to believe and receive it. God bless you, I'm am so sorry for the bad things you have been through, you deserve better. Remember that God loves you
I know this is almost a year old but to the girl who reached out to Dylan and anyone else who may be feeling the same way, it gets better. If you don't have anyone in your personal life to reach out to there are so many other places you can go.
god this intro literally made me cry. u can tell he genuinely cares about this and that it means a lot to him that his fanbase is doing well. even just seeing someone online saying this and knowing they care felt so validating and wonderful, like a comforting hug. thank you dylan, for actually caring, that means a lot
To the girl: you can’t leave us. You haven’t seen every sunset, you haven’t read every book, you haven’t seen every flower bloom and most importantly you haven’t felt all the love the world has to offer you.
To the girl: I'm sorry the world has let you down and made you believe it's too cruel to live in. And sometimes it is. I don't know your story, and it's more likely than not that I never will. It's not fair to compare it to mine or anyone else's journey. And yeah, sometimes the world does suck. Sometimes there is more bad than good. But I need you to think about the moments where it's not bad. Again, I don't know the extent of your pain, but I know that you have moments where the world is worth living. Even if they're small, hold onto them. Because years from now, those small moments of happiness will gradually increase. I promise that if you focus on them, then you'll see that that's what makes the world worth living for. Small victories. And when you count those over the years then you'll see they're not so small afterall. Please use the resources that were left on the description, I know they probably seem like bullshit but they're not. I used them years ago when I had those same thoughts, and I'm here. And I can give you at least 20 moments I lived after I was given a second chance, and holy shit I'm so thankful that I was able to see them, experience them. The world is still cruel sometimes, and living with harsh memories is incredibly difficult, but holding onto the good is what motivates you to get through. I hope these messages from all these strangers has an impact on you, and that this comment section shows you another small, good thing that exists in the world. Please stick around because there's a lot of small moments that you're meant to experience. There's a lot of happiness that the universe has reserved for you, I promise.
All these messages mean so much to me. I tried to screenshot them all because I’m so so grateful. Thank you so much for taking the time and write this you don’t know how much this means to me. Thank you!
Lena Wiesmüller hi Lena! I’m sorry you are going though a tough time & ive been there before multiple times and didn’t think I had the strength to make it. Everyone told me that things would get better and I didn’t believe them but now everything is way better. You are not alone! This is only a bad chapter and one day you will look back at it and it will all just be a less good memory. Stay strong we are here for you!!!
Lena Wiesmüller Hiya. I’m so sorry for whatever your going through. I know that you probably feel alone and have more bad than good moments. But I just wanted to share a piece of information that helps me and may help you. When things get too stressful or too much for me I take things 1 thing at a time. Whether this is a day, an hour or a minute. Take it day by day, hour by hour, minute by minute. If you feel overwhelmed, take a deep breath and focus on what your going to do in this singular minute. That can be focusing on breathing, messaging a friend/someone , putting on a song to help you feel better etc. Take it step by step, as it may help you to think abit clearer and to also calm yourself and allow you some much needed peace. I hope your okay and that you know that you have many people who love you and care about you even if you’ve never met them or know them personally. Much love and I send many mental hugs your way! Xxx
@@lenawiesmuller2112 I'm a little late to the video, but honey, if you see this: you are loved. You are accepted. You don't have to be anyone other than yourself because that is enough, you are enough. I know that nice words don't tend to go a long way when one is going through a rough episode, but I hope that ours can at least put a smile on your face. I don't know who you are, but if you ever need to talk or for someone to just be there, please let me know. All the love honey, you can do this 💙
@@lenawiesmuller2112 I'm late as usual but please take my belated love and greetings. As Alexandra put it so well in the comment above, the world can be a lot of things and isn't always pleasant (this year being particularly difficult), but start small, with the pleasant experiences and blessings that you get every day. Sending love and hugs and support.
Can we take a moment to appreciate Dylan as the beautiful human being he is? The start and the end of the video, addressing mental health and asking the community to send some love to that person.. Thank you, Dylan! You are honestly amazing ❤
I also just love the fact that Dylan is such a nice person too. He cared about the person enough to show her that a lot of people support her and she doesn't stand alone. (Rather than just ignoring the message or pretending he didn't see it)
To the person who dmed Dylan: everything is ok and going to get better nothing stays bad forever everything always gets better you can do I know you can
It's been a month since dylan posted this video and I sincerely hope that girl knows how important she is and how loved she is, please please please be okay, please know it is going to get better, please take care and seek for help if you still feel that way, please know you deserve the world and love and happiness will come to you because you are a wonderful human being❤ even when you feel alone know that you are not!!! please stay safe and strong❤
to the girl: “Sometimes life is like this dark tunnel. You can't always see the light at the end of the tunnel, but if you just keep moving... you will come to a better place.” -Uncle Iroh
To the girl who messaged Dylan: you're not alone in this world. There are people who care about you and love you. Just think about how lucky you are to have a life. Be grateful for the little things. Now it's hard, but it will get better. Don't worry. Life is short, don't waste it. Just talk. I'm sure there will be a person who'll listen. Sending you lots of love and hugs! I hope you feel better! ❤️💞💕
to anyone who needs this to the girl: yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a gift that is why its called a present - oogway. life can be tricky and you never know how permanent anything is and it can feel like you're drowning when there is air all around but giving up is not worth it believe me ive tried, but you can't do that to yourself until you have watched the sunset, danced your ass off to your favourite song, watched your favorite movie, gone for a bike ride, eaten your favorite food, been overseas, had your first job, finale tell them you like them, wear that riskey outfit. do want you can in your short time you have left because once you do all those thing you find a tiny bit of light and when you do hold on to it because thats what makes it hard to go loving and caring about the things around you, and a small message from one broken person to you, you will always be enough and you will always be worth something.
To the girl: “Even when the dark comes crashing through When you need a friend to carry you And when you're broken on the ground You will be found.” Quoting Dear Evan Hansen’s song: You will be found.
"Have you ever felt like nobody was there? Have you ever felt forgotten, in the middle of nowhere? Have you ever felt like you could disappear? That you could fall, and nobody would hear. Well, let that lonely feeling wash away. Maybe there's a reason to believe you'll be ok And when you don't feel strong enough to stand, You reach, reach out your hand. And ohhh someone will come running and I know, They'll take you home."
To the girl and whom ever this may concern: it takes a huge amount of strength to get yourself out of a dark place, if you’ve done it once- u can do it again !!
To the girl: I know it's two years later, and I hope that you're doing better. My darling, just the fact that you were brave enough to say how you were feeling, to let people know, to give us a chance at showing you how appreciated you are, I'm so proud of you. You are amazing. You have no idea how much you mean to the people around you. If I could, I would climb through this screen to give you a big-ass hug, and tell you that every breath, every step, every day you get through, is a battle won. I don't know how long you've been fighting, but look at all the battles you've won. It makes the one laying ahead seem a lot easier, right? I know it often feels like there isn't a light at the end of the tunnel, I know it often feels like this hole has no bottom. But believe me, there is. Believe me, you'll feel better. I won't say it's easy. I won't say you'll feel better in a day, but this is a war you can win, you just have to keep fighting. You've got this girl. I love you, I believe in you. And if you ever feel like no one cares, just come take another look at this comment section. We're all fighting with you. We're all on your side. You're not alone, my dear. You never were, and you never will be. Keep going, don't give up. YOU GOT THIS! And always know, we love you, darling.
To the girl: A permanent decision isn't the solution to a temporary problem. There are people who can help you and they are people who love you, even though they don't show it. Don't let your voice be silenced.
To our troubled Troublemaker: life really sucks sometimes. But you're not alone. People love you, even when it seems like they don't. And people will love you in the future. Please keep that in mind, and be sure to reach out to any of us (and professionals) for help.
To the girl: always know there is someone here for you. You're amazing and strong and brave. It's easier said then done but please remember to talk to people around you as it helps.❤
To the girl: the fact you messaged someone is a start! Just know, no matter how much your brain tries to deny it, you're loved and it's worth the wait- you will feel better, and find amazing people and experiences in life.
Someone once told me once, The worst thing about life is good things don't last forever. And the best thing about life is bad things don't last forever.
To that girl and to everyone in the comment section who struggle with depression and suicide: I struggled with depression for 16 years. I had to drop out of school because of it. It took a massive toll on me and made it hard for me to shape myself because it was going on all through my childhood and teen years but I've made it through. I have been out of depression steadily for 4 years almost 5 with only one small relapse 3 years ago (who just lasted 2 months). I made it through. It's possible. You often here about people struggle with depression but you don't often here about people who made it through. I did. So you can make it and things do and will look and be better. It's possible for the pain and suffering to end and to have a somewhat normal happier life, to be able to enjoy little things and see the positive. I promise it's possible and you can achieve it. If I did you can do it too, I'm not special. Sometimes it's still hard because life has its up and down but not having depression is a very different outlook and the hardships are so much easier to go through because you can focus and imagine what happiness, confidence and being healthy looks like.
Anything out of the box that really helped you? I've been struggling with severe depression for seventeen consecutive years now and I'm exhausted. Not giving up yet, but I'm absolutely sick and tired of the standard well-intentioned advices (talk to friends, sports, eat fruits, standard shrink things).
@@merry_christmas Hmm beside the standard shrinks, friend, eating healthier, drinking more water and go out in the sun more that are things that do help a lot...I'd say focus on confidence and getting a creative outlet/passion. Confidence is something that I built up only after getting out of depression but that I wish I could have earlier because it may have helped me more. So for that I recommend self-compassion a lot, being gentle with yourself and switch to positive thoughts instead of negative. Obviously it's not easy but it does wonder if you manage at one point to switch that little voice in your head telling you that you're trash and useless because you're doing nothing with your day into "So what...just because I wasn't able to get out of day doesn't mean I haven't done anything. I looked at videos and it made me laugh and that is genuine valid or I learnt something on wikipedia..might seem uninteresting and stupid right now but maybe trivia facts about idk penguins can actually help me later on". Tough love and intimidation to accomplish things do not work and that's science. Positive Reinforcement works better so maybe don't do positive affirmation in front of the mirror (that never worked for me but it's a thing) but you can still celebrate small accomplishment and praise yourself for even just managing to take a shower instead of bashing yourself for other things. Oh also resolutions. Resolutions helped me and still helps me a lot. Because it's easy to be stuck into our small perspective and feel like we're doing nothing with our life but in the span of a year it's actually huge. Resolutions can be really helpful but you need to do it right. So I can't stress that enough, start small and it's important to be extremely specific (so like exercice for 1 hour, do 40 pumps, have 1 hour where I don't feel sad). If you're not specific and does something vague, the meaning will change over the year and you'll end up with nothing being accomplished because you keep pushing your objective. So if you have the objective "Be Fit" instead of specific well you might feel like that's losing 3 pounds when you write it but in 7 months you might have lost 5 pounds and feel like you're still not fit so you can't check the resolution when if you had specific it would have been done. But if you stay specific and put achievable goals. Resolutions does wonder and give you something to focus on. Also it's important to see that at the end the resolutions you haven't completed aren't failures but just ones that you'll re-use for the next year with more time to do them until you either do or they're no longer relevant. In one of the more standard advice but I'll still elaborate because it's important: Check your nutrients. Having nutrients deficiency like Vitamin D or Iron Deficiency can make you feel more tired than you already are and add to your depression a lot. I had Iron and Magnesium deficiency, I took supplements for it and it helped a bit. Obviously it's not what made me get out of depression but it made me feel lighter. I don't get depressive episodes but I do have periods of feeling very tired and bummed after a long time of not taking the supplements (I take them once a year, prescribed by a doctor of course). Now last thing. Passion and Creative Outlet. Creative Outlet literally saved me because it's a great way to somewhat healthily get outside of yourself what you feel inside. So instead of self-harm, write a novel, play guitar, freestyle a dance or a rap. Design clothes, Paint something. Idk what you like but something creative. It's super important and helped me and my friends who went through that so much. Don't be scared of being bad, it doesn't matter, it's just for you. No one is gonna judge or see it, it's just the process of turning what's dark inside of you into something that's structured and artistic. If you're really not creative maybe write letters to yourself or a diary. Don't maintain it everyday because damn that's a pain. But from time to time it can be good to write down what you're feeling.
To the girl: I hope you're in an okay spot now. There's so much you haven't accomplished yet. Also, I cried reading all the commentaries directed to you, these people are angels
This is really long but stay with me. To that girl: I have also struggled with suicidal thoughts even going as far to attempting to kill myself twice. I got myself into a negative circle where I hated myself even more for trying to end myself because I wasn’t abused, I wasn’t starving, I wasn’t being bullied at the moment. I was “fine”. But I wasn’t fine, my feelings were valid and I needed help. So I reached out and it was hard to do so I thought my family and friends would get mad or think I was sick or lying. Instead I saw how much other people cared for me. I found support and now go to therapy, Dylan also helped me a lot, so I do relate to that. It was nice to have the source(Dylan) of happiness and laughter. But what truly helped me was the support I found when I reached out. So know I support you and I would recommend you to reach out. I was shocked by the support I got and you will too.
to that girl: you have a whole community who is here and would love to talk to you!! i’m up for making a gc on instagram so we can talk if you need to 💖 please don’t ever think you don’t have myself or others to talk to. s*icide is not the easy way out, it’s the hard way out. you can’t take it back. ever. you are loved i promise.
I've watched this video many times, but this is the first time I've actually resonated with the message in the beginning. We've all been going through a pretty tough time for the past year. The only thing I can count on to make me happy are Dylan's videos. When I'm watching them, it is the only time I don't stress about anything, or when I don't think sad thoughts. Dylan's videos are truly one of the only things that help me get up in the morning.
To the girl: There's so much to look forward to, even if it's doesn't seem like it now! You would miss so much if you weren't here and we would miss you so much too, the people who love you now and the people who are waiting to love you in the future. If you were gone you'd never see a puppy ever again. You wouldn't get to see Dylan's new videos. You would never have a popsicle on a hot day and hot chocolate on a cold day. You would never wake up again to realize it's Sunday and you can keep sleeping. You wouldn't get to see new episodes of shows you like and listen to songs your favourite musicians will make. You wouldn't see another sunrise, sunset, nightfall. You would never get to see a falling star again. Please stay with us here, we love you and the world still has so much more to show you! ❤
to the girl and anyone else in the same spot as her: life is worth living. you have a purpose. you don’t see it now, but you’re going to do so well in life. i already know all of you have the potential to thrive in the world. easier said than done, but shut out all the negativity. realize that one day you’ll wake up to your significant other or your kids laughing or crying or running. you’ll see their faces and just light up. you wont be able to contain the joy because for once you have everything you ever wanted. that day will come. but it won’t if you give up. god wouldn’t have put you here if there wasn’t going to be something bright in your life. your purpose is there. you just have to find it. evetyone has a reason to live. you’re beautiful/handsome. we’re all different and all beautiful in our own ways. and we all are here for you or anyone else. i love you so much. don’t ever give up. theres so much ahead of you. stay strong for me.
To the girl: Everyday is a victory. Celebrate your wins. We all stand with you.
@@annaborbely2789 oh don't worry Anna :)
To the girl: Even the best books have bad chapters, don't give up.
I like this comment :)
Agreed.
Me not having watched the whole video yet: who's the girl xD
Terraise Legere hahahaa same i just started watching
That quote is so damn beautiful, can I use it again?
*To the girl who messaged Dylan and has been struggling lately:* Girl, I was there a couple years ago and I promise it won't always be like that. Life has so much to give you, so many crazy and fun experiences that you haven't gotten yet but you will. You just have to hold out for a while longer. And in the mean time, just know that you are valued and loved and you deserve to get to those happy experiences so keep fighting and I'll keep you in my prayers. I promise it's worth it!
To the girl: we are here I understand what your going through I am go through it too I promise you it will get better know you are loved
Sienna Sanchez, I’m confused ?
@@Rasamreet.k watch the intro
@@SiennatheHuman-_- stay strong!! You are doing so well and know that there is light at the end of that tunnel! Jesus loves you and is so proud of you! Remember that you can always talk to someone who you’re comfortable with about how you may be feeling! Stay strong you are so loved!
As a househusband keep pushing keep fighting there is something better and when your anxiety is high remember the words of b.j. Blaskowicz breath in count to 4 breath out count to 4
Killing or mistreating a Kitten in ANY way is unforgivable
Any animal really (arguably most, morally all)
you sound like you walked straight out of “don’t f**k with cats”
Yep
That is a cheap way for say someone is evil in a movie
Yeah that part made me sick. The kitten was so innocent and cute
To the girl: the troublemaker community loves you, they're are people her for you, continue fighting cuz things will get better eventually
I love you! Thank you Kathryn
@@lenawiesmuller2112 no problemo 😊
@@lenawiesmuller2112 china
@@sultanislam3385 ???
To the person who DM’d Dylan: don’t leave. The world needs what you have to offer. You have so much left to do.
This is one of the better comments I've seen for her.
People like her & I hear the same bullshit "life is worth living!" line every single day & it's literally nauseating.
This one was a really really powerful one;
thank you for it.
@@NicciZelda i agree. as unhealthy as it may sound, my massive sense of responsibility and guilt for my friends and family kept me around for years. whilst there are obvious flaws to this thinking, i actually think that as last resorts go, it was good enough. even if it doesnt particularly comfort you at the time, it keeps you around until your life undergoes the inevitable change for the better. also, as im guessing shes a teenager, i hope she now knows how much better life gets after a shitty time as a 15 etc. yr old... like, unimaginably better.
To the girl: there is always someone who loves you even if you think there isn't, please don't give up and enjoy life 🥰❤️
❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you ❤ but that also apply to Men as well ☺😘
@@wisygirlywopitty it was ment to *the girl* not to girls, but I gess it applies to everyone 😊
@@yorjenya7187 ah oops 🤣🤣🤣
Simps
“You look the same! Whyyy would you cast identical actors?!”
Dylan always accidentally foreshadows plot points lol
How is that a plot point lmao
@@JS-oh2dp i mean, thats not really a "plotpoint" more than just a thing that happens, and it has nothing to do with how they look like, it was all about the tattoo
To the girl: Your now is not your forever
A quote from John Green’s Turtles all the way down
I like this one a lot
That is such a good book
I loved the book
I loved this thank you
This is perfect
To the girl: everything will be okay, even if things may not seems like that right now, they will be. Just don’t give up and keep fighting
This is so true!
I find it awesome how over thousand people who liked this comment (including me) have probably been through something and have gotten a good outcome, it certainly proves the point
Tanya Tokareva exactly! We all felt the same way when we pressed the like button and I’m so proud of every single one of us!
To the girl: you are definitely loved. Even you don't even feel it, you are. I write when I feel down.
Why is everybody commenting to the girl: am I missing something? I mean I love the positivity, but why?
To that girl: you are NOT ALONE. know that things get better and you have people to talk to. we love you. ❤️
Yes we love you 💕 ( hi fellow louie)
Paula Arklinic hi!! ❤️
All I saw was Louisss 🥺
@@ama_nim1 hahaha yeah ❤️
Hello fellow Louies
This movie does not give me horror, its more of a lifetime movie about an obsessive roommate.
ACCURATE
That is a ZZZ movie
A great movie with this theme is Single White Female with Bridget Fonda and Jennifer Jason Leigh. A much, much better movie
LA HA I feel like these movies in general villainise & stigmatise mental illness (Fatal Attraction being another example)
@@melissam597 Really? Would you be interested in explaining how? Because I'd like to know. It's been a long time since I've seen that movie, so I mostly recall the plot and characters. I do recall the antagonist had a few mental health issues, which caused her to be fixated on certain types of people.
I don't believe that should be a reason for thinking it villainizes and stigmatizes mentally ill people. In fact, I kinda remember thinking her family didn't really understand the level of help she needed.
Therefore, as in real life, I believe audiences can understand that the antagonist isn't the antagonist because she's mentally ill. She's the antagonist because she's putting the protagonist's life (and others' lives) in danger. And while we feel that she needs additional help, it's not to be at the expense of someone's life. So, being aware is the best way to help both parties.
That's how I see it. However, you may have a point of view I've not thought about. So, I would love to read it if you're willing to share it
To the girl: What you’re going through is the worst but you can get through this. You are so loved and you are so worth it.
"I'm not afraid of Leighton Meester" says anyone who hasn't watched Gossip Girl
Uh oh, S is wearing the same dress as B for cotillion! I wonder what B and her minions are going to do when she finds out? Yikes! Xoxo Gossip Girl
blair waldorf is truly terrifying
A force to be reckoned with
Absolutely!!!😂...
she's really lovely as a person
i hope she had better roles
To the girl: you’re definitely not alone. There are so many people who have been where you are and trust me you can make it out. You are dying and beautiful and you are so worth it.
As someone who has gone through this for over 10 years, I just want this girl to know that every breath is a battle won.
that's such a good line. i'll be holding onto that
That is beautiful.
To the girl (and anyone that needs it): I heard a quote today- “feelings are like waves, we can’t control when they are coming, but we can choose which ones to surf on.”
I love this
that's very byurafle i think
To the person who dm’ed Dylan: you’re going to be okay. We are all here for you. Kisses and hugs!
To the girl: You're stronger than you think and there is so many people that love you and are there for you.
When she killed the cat I got SO ANGRYYYYY
It was the worst part of the movie in my opinion :(
And it's not even some mean, nasty cat that hisses and bites--which would still have been awful--but they pick, like, the world's sweetest, most adorable fur-baeby kitten?!!! This movie can go straight to Hell.
@@Spectra651 I literally hate cats. But when she killed that cat I got so mad. When people hurt animals or babies in horror movies I get so pissed
@@RoseTintMyWorld-cr5zo You're...horrified though. Clearly, it's fair game.
you know this is a movie right. the cat was not actually killed.
To the girl: Everthing may not seem okay at this moment but don't lose hope. You are special so don't give up.
Thank you!
@@lenawiesmuller2112 hey you have thousands of people to help you through whatever you are going through. you arent alone we are here for you and anyone else who might be going through the same thing
To the girl: you are loved. Life is hard but things get better. Don’t lose hope and don’t give up. Stay strong!! ♥️♥️
I know this wasnt to me but I really needed to hear something like this tonight so reading your comment made me feel a lot better xx thank you x
Aimee Dalton I’m so happy that this made you feel better! Hope your doing ok 💖
PERIODT 👏🏾
To the girl: reaching out to someone speaks volumes on your strength. We’re here for you and we believe in you.
I'm surprised you didn't show your reaction to the belly button piercing being ripped off. That scene traumatized me when I first saw this lol
it still traumatizes me lol
Just watched this movie last night: Scarred by that😬😬😬😬
i haven’t even seen this movie but i have a belly button piercing so just reading those words triggered a visceral reaction in me
I truly thank him for that... it scarred me 😭
just by reading it i'm HURTING
Dylan: **is genuinely committed to helping this person who's going through a rough time and encourages his fans to do so as well**
Also Dylan: I want you guys to shower each other
Dylan: In love
To the girl: there is so much of the world waiting for you. Please don’t leave this world without exploring everything it has to offer
To the girl: You matter. Don’t forget that. The world would be a worse place if you weren’t in it. Stay in it❤️❤️❤️
Amen man
Hugs and cuddles from Germany!!
Haha at first I read "You don't matter. Forget that"??
wolf cub amazing
@@excessivelyfangirlingbookw3339 Hey, I´m from Germany, too, but I´d cuddle with pretty much anyone on this channel....
To the DMer,please keep fighting. My mum works with suicidal people and every person has expressed how grateful they are that they didn't end things. Sending positive thoughts and spiritual hugs.
To the girl: this is not your ending, everything's gonna get better.
And after it does, one in the future you're gonna look back at this and think, i am so glad I'm alive.
To whomever that girl is, trust me, I’ve been there, i understand, you have so much you’re capable of keep fighting
To the girl: you’ve got this girl theres so much out there for you.
I love how when Dylan has to take a moment to be serious he has no issue doing it and bringing up the hard topics. I admire that so much.
pov: you haven’t watched the video yet and and everyone is saying “to the girl”👁👄👁
Same bruh I'm lost
finally a comment i can relate to
Same
confused the shit outta me
Was really confused at first but it’s touching once you know 💜
To the girl: You are loved and everyday is worth something.
Thank you Bailey💚
Thank You!😍🥰
Your anxiety is lying to you. Your depression is lying to you. There is no shame in needing or asking for help. If you cannot love yourself right now, we will do it for you until you can. I hope the universe gives you a reason to smile today.
Thanks I needed that lol
I really need some of those people in my life. Especially right now. Being told your worthless and nothing by the only person you have and by the ones you love the most is a very very dangerous situation and a place that feels like there's no air, and to have someone willing to love you better is the ultimate medicine for this kind of hopeless sickness , not caring about other humans is the real pandemic we should be protecting ourselves against. F a covid. Cruelty kills.
"If you cannot love yourself, we will do it for you" Jesus that is beautiful.
“The cats gonna live” 😬 yoinks
if there’s a kitten or any animal in a horror movie you already know what’s going to happen :(
Indianacat88 Tiffany I don’t know :(
To the girl: The world may seem like it’s not worth living for, but it is. We are all here for you, and care for you. You are not alone!!!❤️❤️❤️
See Teal Swan’s video on Healing Your Mind
No one should feel like these emotions are wrong and that she's truly a lone. What you should know is how to fix it...
I've always wanted to kill myself ever since I was very young, and even now, from time to time the feeling comes.
The way I handle it is by doing what I love-- watching TH-cam and praying to God.
That's it, that's the way.
I'd like more people to appreciate this feeling instead of being told dumb things, and I want them to know that if Michael Bay Transformers movies exist, why shouldn't they? Like if I were Michael Bay, I'd have killed myself ages ago-- no ordinary person could make such movies. But they do exist and it's nice to know that you feel superior to them.
(Not that I'm judging Michael Bay himself-- always separate art from the artist)
To the girl: You are strong, you are enough, you are worth it. It won’t always be like this. You do have support.
To the girl: hey you are loved and appreciated by all of us here’s a big ass hug *insert big ass hug*
*insert huge hug*
"She's kind of a badass friend"
SHE BAD WASHED A KITTEN
“You’re braver than you believe, stronger than you seem and smarter than you think.”. -Christopher Robin.
to the girl whoever she may be
To the girl and to everyone who is thinking about ending their life:
I was in your position at one point and I thought the whole "It gets better" was just a lie. Until I hit rock bottom. Then, I realized that there were people who loved me so much that they were willing to go into the darkest depths of the hole where I was to fetch me. They made me realize that I needed help and because I decided to get help I was able to get a proper diagnoses, which has helped me create a plan to get better.
I'm not going to lie and say that it is all uphill from here. Some days I'm back at rock bottom and others I'm in cloud nine. But whenever I go back to my rock bottom place, I look up at the dark sky and look for stars. And trust me, you'll find your stars, whether they be your parents, your friends, a hobby, or a dream, you'll find something glittering in the night sky giving you hope.
Just know that you are not alone. And no matter how much you feel like you will be judged, you won't be. If we can like this skinny, stick-looking Flynn Rider wannabe (Nothing but love for you Dylan; you have also helped me in my darkest moments), everyone else has a chance of finding their pack.
Best Wishes and much Love,
A fellow survivor in this disaster that we call life
P.S.
Fun Fact- Cotton Candy was invented by a Dentist. Ironic, right?!
@@AGleek98 sure
but what if nobody loves you?
@@michaelah9880 What do you mean nobody loves you? Dylan loves everyone (except himself).
@@michaelah9880 I just wanted to encourage you that God loves you very much, and He created you with such love and care. He is the one that will be there for you, all you have to do is ask for His help and He will come running to help you up. Trust me I know, God has always been the one to be there for me. Even if your not sure it will work, don't be afraid to just try it for yourself. I will be praying for you. Please don't give up. You have always been important, that's why Jesus died on the cross. He did it so that sin couldn't keep us out of Heaven anymore. He sees you as that important to Him that He became the sacrifice, so you could be free. You just have to believe and receive it. God bless you, I'm am so sorry for the bad things you have been through, you deserve better. Remember that God loves you
Ange Gascon Amen!!! 🙏🏻✝️💜
to the girl: you are stronger than you know and find that strength in the people in your life that love you.
I know this is almost a year old but to the girl who reached out to Dylan and anyone else who may be feeling the same way, it gets better. If you don't have anyone in your personal life to reach out to there are so many other places you can go.
god this intro literally made me cry. u can tell he genuinely cares about this and that it means a lot to him that his fanbase is doing well. even just seeing someone online saying this and knowing they care felt so validating and wonderful, like a comforting hug. thank you dylan, for actually caring, that means a lot
Yes! Exactly this!
To the girl: you can’t leave us. You haven’t seen every sunset, you haven’t read every book, you haven’t seen every flower bloom and most importantly you haven’t felt all the love the world has to offer you.
That was beautifully written ✨
Voodoo Child thank you! 💞💞
that is so beautiful you even inspired me 💕
To the girl that Dylan told us about: you're NOT alone! we got you, boo. be safe, reach out.
To the Girl:
You have accomplished so much and may not even know the people you have affected positively. You have so much to live for
To the girl: There are people in this world who love you and care about you even when you don't feel like yourself. Life is worth living
To the girl: You’re a goddess, you’re a queen, you. are. strong. You can make it through this, and we’ll support you through it!
Ya
What r u even on about
@@shigglezz684did you skip the whole beginning of the video
To the girl: I'm sorry the world has let you down and made you believe it's too cruel to live in. And sometimes it is. I don't know your story, and it's more likely than not that I never will. It's not fair to compare it to mine or anyone else's journey. And yeah, sometimes the world does suck. Sometimes there is more bad than good. But I need you to think about the moments where it's not bad. Again, I don't know the extent of your pain, but I know that you have moments where the world is worth living. Even if they're small, hold onto them. Because years from now, those small moments of happiness will gradually increase. I promise that if you focus on them, then you'll see that that's what makes the world worth living for. Small victories. And when you count those over the years then you'll see they're not so small afterall. Please use the resources that were left on the description, I know they probably seem like bullshit but they're not. I used them years ago when I had those same thoughts, and I'm here. And I can give you at least 20 moments I lived after I was given a second chance, and holy shit I'm so thankful that I was able to see them, experience them. The world is still cruel sometimes, and living with harsh memories is incredibly difficult, but holding onto the good is what motivates you to get through. I hope these messages from all these strangers has an impact on you, and that this comment section shows you another small, good thing that exists in the world. Please stick around because there's a lot of small moments that you're meant to experience. There's a lot of happiness that the universe has reserved for you, I promise.
All these messages mean so much to me. I tried to screenshot them all because I’m so so grateful. Thank you so much for taking the time and write this you don’t know how much this means to me. Thank you!
Lena Wiesmüller hi Lena! I’m sorry you are going though a tough time & ive been there before multiple times and didn’t think I had the strength to make it. Everyone told me that things would get better and I didn’t believe them but now everything is way better. You are not alone! This is only a bad chapter and one day you will look back at it and it will all just be a less good memory. Stay strong we are here for you!!!
Lena Wiesmüller Hiya. I’m so sorry for whatever your going through. I know that you probably feel alone and have more bad than good moments. But I just wanted to share a piece of information that helps me and may help you. When things get too stressful or too much for me I take things 1 thing at a time. Whether this is a day, an hour or a minute. Take it day by day, hour by hour, minute by minute. If you feel overwhelmed, take a deep breath and focus on what your going to do in this singular minute. That can be focusing on breathing, messaging a friend/someone , putting on a song to help you feel better etc. Take it step by step, as it may help you to think abit clearer and to also calm yourself and allow you some much needed peace. I hope your okay and that you know that you have many people who love you and care about you even if you’ve never met them or know them personally. Much love and I send many mental hugs your way! Xxx
@@lenawiesmuller2112 I'm a little late to the video, but honey, if you see this: you are loved. You are accepted. You don't have to be anyone other than yourself because that is enough, you are enough. I know that nice words don't tend to go a long way when one is going through a rough episode, but I hope that ours can at least put a smile on your face. I don't know who you are, but if you ever need to talk or for someone to just be there, please let me know. All the love honey, you can do this 💙
@@lenawiesmuller2112 I'm late as usual but please take my belated love and greetings. As Alexandra put it so well in the comment above, the world can be a lot of things and isn't always pleasant (this year being particularly difficult), but start small, with the pleasant experiences and blessings that you get every day. Sending love and hugs and support.
Can we take a moment to appreciate Dylan as the beautiful human being he is? The start and the end of the video, addressing mental health and asking the community to send some love to that person.. Thank you, Dylan! You are honestly amazing ❤
I just realized the art professor is the evil guy from Titanic.
Thank you omg
oh thats where i recognized him from he plays a creep in both lol
And Xehanort from Kingdom Hearts 1!
Billy Zane. Hes in The Phantom. Old school comic book movie. Freakin LEGEND
The iceberg ?
To the girl: everything will get better. Even if it seems like a lie or smth like that, it’s true. Everything does get better in the end!💙
I just love the fact that Dylan’s fans are so lovely to the person who needs It.
I also just love the fact that Dylan is such a nice person too. He cared about the person enough to show her that a lot of people support her and she doesn't stand alone. (Rather than just ignoring the message or pretending he didn't see it)
I’m a fan of Dylan, how can I help? Lol
That Cam fangirling moment was E V E R Y T H I N G
Ikr
To the unknown girl: as someone who've tried twice... sometimes life sucks but sometimes life doesn't suck very much, and those moments are worth it.
Hope you're getting better! Take care
i'm glad ure still with us
To the person who dmed Dylan: everything is ok and going to get better nothing stays bad forever everything always gets better you can do I know you can
Thank you! I appreciate that so much!!
To the girl and anyone else feeling similarly: someone is always, always listening, no matter how you feel, you are NOT alone and you ARE loved.
💕💕
Thank you 😊💕 peace and luv❤
It's been a month since dylan posted this video and I sincerely hope that girl knows how important she is and how loved she is, please please please be okay, please know it is going to get better, please take care and seek for help if you still feel that way, please know you deserve the world and love and happiness will come to you because you are a wonderful human being❤ even when you feel alone know that you are not!!! please stay safe and strong❤
"I'm not afraid of Leighton Meester"
Blair Waldorf: allow me to introduce myself
to the girl: “Sometimes life is like this dark tunnel. You can't always see the light at the end of the tunnel, but if you just keep moving... you will come to a better place.” -Uncle Iroh
I literally love you❤️ you quoted Uncle❤️
*yes*
Omg
To the girl: There is help out there. This community is wonderful and very welcoming and we're here for you!
BIG HUG
does anyone else That girl looks like Nemesii in Veritas Prince of Truth? At 4:07, 4:08
The only time I screamed was when they killed that cat. Rip that cat, he deserved to be in a better movie.
To the girl who messaged Dylan: you're not alone in this world. There are people who care about you and love you. Just think about how lucky you are to have a life. Be grateful for the little things. Now it's hard, but it will get better. Don't worry. Life is short, don't waste it. Just talk. I'm sure there will be a person who'll listen. Sending you lots of love and hugs! I hope you feel better! ❤️💞💕
i love how this community is coming together to support the girl, and Dylan for raising awareness about mental health. so proud of y'all
Troublemakers unite
To the girl: You're important and people in this world care. Right now its rough but it does get better.
“Midsommar” is a great example of a horror film that starts out dark and ends very bright
to anyone who needs this to the girl: yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a gift that is why its called a present - oogway. life can be tricky and you never know how permanent anything is and it can feel like you're drowning when there is air all around but giving up is not worth it believe me ive tried, but you can't do that to yourself until you have watched the sunset, danced your ass off to your favourite song, watched your favorite movie, gone for a bike ride, eaten your favorite food, been overseas, had your first job, finale tell them you like them, wear that riskey outfit. do want you can in your short time you have left because once you do all those thing you find a tiny bit of light and when you do hold on to it because thats what makes it hard to go loving and caring about the things around you, and a small message from one broken person to you, you will always be enough and you will always be worth something.
amen
Oogway always has the right wisdom :)
Dylan: "why would they cast 2 girls that look the same?"
plot, dylan. plot.
To that girl: we are always here for you, always know that. Your never alone, please don’t give up❤️❤️✨
if he loves cam so much, he should so watch burlesque with Cher and Christina Aguilera
That movie/musical is so good
YES
sorry guys don't recommend things ;)
@@cinthyarindilestari9570 yeah I started to watch him more after this and now I feel bad for recommending something
thats what i was thinkinggggg😫💖
To the girl: People care about and love you, never forget that. You can get through this :)
To the girl: “Even when the dark comes crashing through
When you need a friend to carry you
And when you're broken on the ground
You will be found.”
Quoting Dear Evan Hansen’s song: You will be found.
"Have you ever felt like nobody was there?
Have you ever felt forgotten, in the middle of nowhere?
Have you ever felt like you could disappear?
That you could fall, and nobody would hear.
Well, let that lonely feeling wash away.
Maybe there's a reason to believe you'll be ok
And when you don't feel strong enough to stand,
You reach, reach out your hand.
And ohhh someone will come running and I know,
They'll take you home."
I’m sorry for interrupting, but I love this song so much. It’s something I need so much, and I know everyone could use the message so much
I LOVE THIS
So let the sun come streaming in 'cause you'll reach up and you'll rise again
Lift your head and look around
You will be found
Julienne Cua You will be round...you will be found
To the girl and whom ever this may concern: it takes a huge amount of strength to get yourself out of a dark place, if you’ve done it once- u can do it again !!
To the girl:
I know it's two years later, and I hope that you're doing better.
My darling, just the fact that you were brave enough to say how you were feeling, to let people know, to give us a chance at showing you how appreciated you are, I'm so proud of you. You are amazing. You have no idea how much you mean to the people around you. If I could, I would climb through this screen to give you a big-ass hug, and tell you that every breath, every step, every day you get through, is a battle won. I don't know how long you've been fighting, but look at all the battles you've won. It makes the one laying ahead seem a lot easier, right?
I know it often feels like there isn't a light at the end of the tunnel, I know it often feels like this hole has no bottom. But believe me, there is. Believe me, you'll feel better. I won't say it's easy. I won't say you'll feel better in a day, but this is a war you can win, you just have to keep fighting.
You've got this girl. I love you, I believe in you. And if you ever feel like no one cares, just come take another look at this comment section. We're all fighting with you. We're all on your side. You're not alone, my dear. You never were, and you never will be.
Keep going, don't give up. YOU GOT THIS! And always know, we love you, darling.
I hope she's okay, I wish I had a way to check on her
@@windofzephyr6752 same. I've been worried about her. I guess all we can do is hope the best and pray for her.❤️❤️
To the girl: A permanent decision isn't the solution to a temporary problem. There are people who can help you and they are people who love you, even though they don't show it. Don't let your voice be silenced.
Nobody:
Dylan: this guy is getting murdered because he's bald.
He's getting murdered because of what he did on titanic!!
Not Funny
just a random fat cop from gta 4 in real life you’re not funny ✨✨
@@annamiaconley1865 Same
There was *Something* about the bald! Lol
To our troubled Troublemaker: life really sucks sometimes. But you're not alone. People love you, even when it seems like they don't. And people will love you in the future. Please keep that in mind, and be sure to reach out to any of us (and professionals) for help.
damn why did I think the troubled troublemaker was so clever lol
To the girl: always know there is someone here for you. You're amazing and strong and brave. It's easier said then done but please remember to talk to people around you as it helps.❤
Who ever was talked about in the beginning, you are loved
To the girl: the fact you messaged someone is a start! Just know, no matter how much your brain tries to deny it, you're loved and it's worth the wait- you will feel better, and find amazing people and experiences in life.
*touched by Dylan’s speech in the intro*
Dylan: “I want you guys to shower each other”
*SNORTS*
Dylan is so positive, glad he encourages his community to help people.
To the girl:
It won't be like this forever.
Someone once told me once,
The worst thing about life is good things don't last forever.
And the best thing about life is bad things don't last forever.
So true
Me: *looks at title*
The roommate
Me: “aNd THeY wErE RoOmaTeS” classic vine
GSHDBSBHDHHDHS IT HAS TO BE MY ALL TIME FAVORITE
I miss vine
I’ve been accused of being the bad roommate and this comment at least restored humanity.
Oh my god they were roomates
Title called: Went to Prometheus school runaway those two things
To that girl and to everyone in the comment section who struggle with depression and suicide:
I struggled with depression for 16 years. I had to drop out of school because of it. It took a massive toll on me and made it hard for me to shape myself because it was going on all through my childhood and teen years but I've made it through. I have been out of depression steadily for 4 years almost 5 with only one small relapse 3 years ago (who just lasted 2 months). I made it through. It's possible. You often here about people struggle with depression but you don't often here about people who made it through. I did. So you can make it and things do and will look and be better. It's possible for the pain and suffering to end and to have a somewhat normal happier life, to be able to enjoy little things and see the positive. I promise it's possible and you can achieve it. If I did you can do it too, I'm not special. Sometimes it's still hard because life has its up and down but not having depression is a very different outlook and the hardships are so much easier to go through because you can focus and imagine what happiness, confidence and being healthy looks like.
Anything out of the box that really helped you? I've been struggling with severe depression for seventeen consecutive years now and I'm exhausted. Not giving up yet, but I'm absolutely sick and tired of the standard well-intentioned advices (talk to friends, sports, eat fruits, standard shrink things).
I am happy thay you can found your happiness ❤
@@merry_christmas Hmm beside the standard shrinks, friend, eating healthier, drinking more water and go out in the sun more that are things that do help a lot...I'd say focus on confidence and getting a creative outlet/passion. Confidence is something that I built up only after getting out of depression but that I wish I could have earlier because it may have helped me more.
So for that I recommend self-compassion a lot, being gentle with yourself and switch to positive thoughts instead of negative. Obviously it's not easy but it does wonder if you manage at one point to switch that little voice in your head telling you that you're trash and useless because you're doing nothing with your day into "So what...just because I wasn't able to get out of day doesn't mean I haven't done anything. I looked at videos and it made me laugh and that is genuine valid or I learnt something on wikipedia..might seem uninteresting and stupid right now but maybe trivia facts about idk penguins can actually help me later on".
Tough love and intimidation to accomplish things do not work and that's science. Positive Reinforcement works better so maybe don't do positive affirmation in front of the mirror (that never worked for me but it's a thing) but you can still celebrate small accomplishment and praise yourself for even just managing to take a shower instead of bashing yourself for other things.
Oh also resolutions. Resolutions helped me and still helps me a lot. Because it's easy to be stuck into our small perspective and feel like we're doing nothing with our life but in the span of a year it's actually huge. Resolutions can be really helpful but you need to do it right. So I can't stress that enough, start small and it's important to be extremely specific (so like exercice for 1 hour, do 40 pumps, have 1 hour where I don't feel sad). If you're not specific and does something vague, the meaning will change over the year and you'll end up with nothing being accomplished because you keep pushing your objective. So if you have the objective "Be Fit" instead of specific well you might feel like that's losing 3 pounds when you write it but in 7 months you might have lost 5 pounds and feel like you're still not fit so you can't check the resolution when if you had specific it would have been done.
But if you stay specific and put achievable goals. Resolutions does wonder and give you something to focus on. Also it's important to see that at the end the resolutions you haven't completed aren't failures but just ones that you'll re-use for the next year with more time to do them until you either do or they're no longer relevant.
In one of the more standard advice but I'll still elaborate because it's important: Check your nutrients. Having nutrients deficiency like Vitamin D or Iron Deficiency can make you feel more tired than you already are and add to your depression a lot. I had Iron and Magnesium deficiency, I took supplements for it and it helped a bit. Obviously it's not what made me get out of depression but it made me feel lighter. I don't get depressive episodes but I do have periods of feeling very tired and bummed after a long time of not taking the supplements (I take them once a year, prescribed by a doctor of course).
Now last thing. Passion and Creative Outlet. Creative Outlet literally saved me because it's a great way to somewhat healthily get outside of yourself what you feel inside. So instead of self-harm, write a novel, play guitar, freestyle a dance or a rap. Design clothes, Paint something. Idk what you like but something creative. It's super important and helped me and my friends who went through that so much. Don't be scared of being bad, it doesn't matter, it's just for you. No one is gonna judge or see it, it's just the process of turning what's dark inside of you into something that's structured and artistic. If you're really not creative maybe write letters to yourself or a diary. Don't maintain it everyday because damn that's a pain. But from time to time it can be good to write down what you're feeling.
To the girl:
I hope you're in an okay spot now. There's so much you haven't accomplished yet.
Also, I cried reading all the commentaries directed to you, these people are angels
when he said she's not planning to stay around for too long my heart stopped. idek her but i want her to stay around:(
The fact that Nina said “Rebekah we were never friends” reminded me of the vampire diaries when she stabbed Rebekah in the back (literally).
omg yesss
SAME
Same!!
HAHA YWSSSS
I felt so bad for bekah tbh 🥺🥺🥺
This is really long but stay with me.
To that girl: I have also struggled with suicidal thoughts even going as far to attempting to kill myself twice. I got myself into a negative circle where I hated myself even more for trying to end myself because I wasn’t abused, I wasn’t starving, I wasn’t being bullied at the moment. I was “fine”. But I wasn’t fine, my feelings were valid and I needed help. So I reached out and it was hard to do so I thought my family and friends would get mad or think I was sick or lying. Instead I saw how much other people cared for me. I found support and now go to therapy, Dylan also helped me a lot, so I do relate to that. It was nice to have the source(Dylan) of happiness and laughter. But what truly helped me was the support I found when I reached out. So know I support you and I would recommend you to reach out. I was shocked by the support I got and you will too.
Thank you for sharing your story, this was such a beautiful comment and gave me hope too. Ugh, I love this entire comment section today 💖💖
this is an amazing comment ily
Dylan you are so supportive, thank you for being so positive and kind!
Who ever his talking about in the beginning we love you and we got your back 😘😘
to that girl: you have a whole community who is here and would love to talk to you!! i’m up for making a gc on instagram so we can talk if you need to 💖 please don’t ever think you don’t have myself or others to talk to. s*icide is not the easy way out, it’s the hard way out. you can’t take it back. ever. you are loved i promise.
To the girl:
Even if 99% of all people dislike you, there are still around 75.000.000 people who do like you!
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That's awesome! I hope I can remember this so I can use it myself someday
I've watched this video many times, but this is the first time I've actually resonated with the message in the beginning. We've all been going through a pretty tough time for the past year. The only thing I can count on to make me happy are Dylan's videos. When I'm watching them, it is the only time I don't stress about anything, or when I don't think sad thoughts. Dylan's videos are truly one of the only things that help me get up in the morning.
To the girl: There's so much to look forward to, even if it's doesn't seem like it now! You would miss so much if you weren't here and we would miss you so much too, the people who love you now and the people who are waiting to love you in the future. If you were gone you'd never see a puppy ever again. You wouldn't get to see Dylan's new videos. You would never have a popsicle on a hot day and hot chocolate on a cold day. You would never wake up again to realize it's Sunday and you can keep sleeping. You wouldn't get to see new episodes of shows you like and listen to songs your favourite musicians will make. You wouldn't see another sunrise, sunset, nightfall. You would never get to see a falling star again. Please stay with us here, we love you and the world still has so much more to show you! ❤
Brb someone is cutting onions
To the girl: You are not alone, don´t give up, there´s still good in the world
“Everything will be okay in the end. If it's not okay, it's not the end. ” -John Lennon
i am homered to be the 420th like on ur comment.
Truth
to the girl and anyone else in the same spot as her: life is worth living. you have a purpose. you don’t see it now, but you’re going to do so well in life. i already know all of you have the potential to thrive in the world. easier said than done, but shut out all the negativity. realize that one day you’ll wake up to your significant other or your kids laughing or crying or running. you’ll see their faces and just light up. you wont be able to contain the joy because for once you have everything you ever wanted. that day will come. but it won’t if you give up. god wouldn’t have put you here if there wasn’t going to be something bright in your life. your purpose is there. you just have to find it. evetyone has a reason to live. you’re beautiful/handsome. we’re all different and all beautiful in our own ways. and we all are here for you or anyone else. i love you so much. don’t ever give up. theres so much ahead of you. stay strong for me.