Insulting His Own Child in Court

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  • @millissentflemmings2216
    @millissentflemmings2216 ปีที่แล้ว +811

    Yes! The defendant is NOT supposed to eat if the decision is him eating or his child eating!!! When I was a single mom, there were times (I’m not proud of) that I didn’t eat a meal so that my son could have food! That’s what parents do! Our children didn’t ask to brought here!! 😢

    • @terrancesmith4352
      @terrancesmith4352 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Grind harder

    • @eph2vv89only1way
      @eph2vv89only1way ปีที่แล้ว +82

      Yup. I was married, but I also skipped meals so my kids could eat. That's what parents do if they can't afford to feed both the kids and themselves

    • @kgames1748
      @kgames1748 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      🎯🎯🎯

    • @abac4512
      @abac4512 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      @@terrancesmith4352 Let us hope that you are never poverty stricken.

    • @coldasdecember4930
      @coldasdecember4930 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      THIS

  • @raewilliams3284
    @raewilliams3284 ปีที่แล้ว +480

    He told her when SHE feels like putting in effort to have a relationship she knows where he is… after telling her it’s not her fault.
    Truly a dead beat dad.

    • @iMr.Jetpacks
      @iMr.Jetpacks ปีที่แล้ว +6

      *Best comment*

    • @lislortega2610
      @lislortega2610 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yep, got an ex like this so know one when I see one…🤬

    • @RoughJustice2k18
      @RoughJustice2k18 ปีที่แล้ว

      He is an UNEMPLOYED deadbeat dad!🙄

    • @ebonyqueen7954
      @ebonyqueen7954 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@lislortega2610 Same here and he was super abusive. He said that same exact line.

    • @Howaboutyes11
      @Howaboutyes11 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fr

  • @whitneyunique2418
    @whitneyunique2418 ปีที่แล้ว +421

    I hate parents like him.... where the child has to make the effort after THE PARENT has done all the wrong to them😤

    • @NellieKAdaba
      @NellieKAdaba ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I also hate dead beat parents.

    • @Jaskeona
      @Jaskeona ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Yes, it’s crazy. I cut my dad off because he’s the same way. I’m the child! Everyone says “he will always be your Dad”… what is that suppose to mean? I’m his child and that didn’t make a difference to him

    • @singalingalongaling
      @singalingalongaling ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree with you!

    • @marianneprice4919
      @marianneprice4919 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have zero tolerance for parents who don't take care of their children..it's not left up to the child to come see their so called dead beat dad..and his azz not supposed to eat selfish SOB 🤬 There's a special place in hell for parents like that so called pear of pants 👖😈

    • @piinkam0r
      @piinkam0r 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      My life currently everyone telling me “
      He’s your dad “ but all these years he didn’t want to be in my life now I’m an adult he wants to talk to me and I’m supposed to act like everything’s all good. I’m good without him in my life I’ve forgiven and forgotten and moved on

  • @halosane4170
    @halosane4170 ปีที่แล้ว +529

    He has other children to take care of, so his firstborn doesn't matter apparently. She didn't deserve to hear him say that, and he's a piss poor excuse for a father.

    • @misterbee66
      @misterbee66 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Seriously.

    • @GrumpySmurf0813
      @GrumpySmurf0813 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      For real though

    • @trekgirl65
      @trekgirl65 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      but he too does not take of them either.

    • @user-xe9lq1dg6i
      @user-xe9lq1dg6i ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I personally know how she feels. I thought my father loved me he told me he shouldn't have to pay child support because his mother, my loving grandmother, provided everything I needed! He adopted 3 stepchildren, and they became number one I never fully recovered after hearing those words. I am 60 + now, and it still hurts. I'm his only biological child ,my grandma was everything to me, we loved each other so much, she died in May of 2005 I miss her 💔 so much...

    • @heidicrimmings9615
      @heidicrimmings9615 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@user-xe9lq1dg6i she's still keeping an eye on you, little girl.⚘⚘⚘⚘

  • @j.g.3719
    @j.g.3719 ปีที่แล้ว +447

    Y'all are defending him when this man has contributed less than $2k to his child in 16 years, told his kid he doesn't want her, and beat on the mother. Smh who defends dead beat parents??

    • @misterbee66
      @misterbee66 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Exactly. Seriously.

    • @minae9935
      @minae9935 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      Other deadbeats

    • @neisci
      @neisci ปีที่แล้ว +68

      Deadbeats have a fan base of their own.

    • @lavinder11
      @lavinder11 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Other deadbeat and people who see deadbeat fathers as the norm.

    • @kgames1748
      @kgames1748 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      People without any

  • @alajuwonhiggins8865
    @alajuwonhiggins8865 ปีที่แล้ว +277

    How does she prevent him from paying child support? Just get a job. Any job.

    • @misterbee66
      @misterbee66 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Of course. Excuses excuses.

    • @royaldavis640
      @royaldavis640 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      That’s what the judge was trying to say, they will take what little you have as long as it’s something

    • @lavinder11
      @lavinder11 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lol right.

    • @rumeokafor475
      @rumeokafor475 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Even stripping will more than do 😂😂😂!!!!

  • @MoniquaWilliams
    @MoniquaWilliams ปีที่แล้ว +233

    Judge Mathis is shaming him on tv and I'm here for it.

  • @LeolaGlamour
    @LeolaGlamour ปีที่แล้ว +322

    It brought tears to my eyes seeing that girl hold back her tears.

    • @The4thDude
      @The4thDude ปีที่แล้ว +7

      honestly..

    • @chekers7
      @chekers7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She ain’t holding back nothing. Her face had no emotion the whole video. She doesn’t care

    • @isisdiamonique5481
      @isisdiamonique5481 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@chekers7 you know some people have a rbf right? Not everyone wears their emotions on their face

    • @sereneamani1713
      @sereneamani1713 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@chekers7 I saw emotion. Just say you didn't see it. You don't have enough ability or info to come to a conclusion that she doesn't care.

    • @Toriab
      @Toriab 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@chekers7I wouldn’t care about a deadbeat either! Why should she cry when she knows she has a piece of shit as a father

  • @The4thDude
    @The4thDude ปีที่แล้ว +336

    worst part is, children don't care about money. your presence means the world to anyone 16 an down. she just wants her farther..

    • @bruh3401
      @bruh3401 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      true... she does want her faRther

    • @kizzyrichards593
      @kizzyrichards593 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why the hell do you mean 16 and down.. You sound crazy. everyone isn't after money from their parents...

    • @johnmccree8941
      @johnmccree8941 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      No but the moms sure care about the $$$. I've seen the moms not spend child support money on no one but themselves. ...(mine included). So probably if the child don't care about the $$.... More than likely it's because it's never been there... not knowing what they are missing. I know dysfunctional...

    • @johnmccree8941
      @johnmccree8941 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And I agree with the dude about ILLINOIS.
      You can't get gainful employment without a drivers license...as these days... most decent jobs require them.

    • @locafly
      @locafly ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I don't have a FarTher...😹😹😹

  • @Vidgamechx
    @Vidgamechx ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I LOVE how baby girl was secretly enjoying her "dad" get roasted by the judge. He deserves every word! I hope she gets the healing she needs❤❤❤❤

  • @MarMarrCO
    @MarMarrCO ปีที่แล้ว +106

    😂😂I'm glad Mathis rode out on him. Not only because he's an abuser, but because he seems like the type who get mad and call you the N word.

  • @karendorsey4780
    @karendorsey4780 ปีที่แล้ว +206

    Wow! The defendant is a true Dead Beat Dad!! His daughter is better off without him in her life!! I am glad Judge Mathis went in on him!!

  • @pickleG13
    @pickleG13 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    He really said the daughter needs to make the effort to see/talk to him like… sir you are a grown man. YOU can travel to your daughter, YOU can text/call your daughter, YOU can be a better father. He’s a sad excuse for a father.

  • @theKevronHarris
    @theKevronHarris ปีที่แล้ว +28

    My heart goes out to the daughter. She doesn't deserve to be treated horribly by her "father".

  • @jonsquirrel3661
    @jonsquirrel3661 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    So sad, I feel for the daughter, she deserves better off from her deadbeat dad...I don't blame Mathis for putting the father in check.

  • @neighborhoodnews1233
    @neighborhoodnews1233 ปีที่แล้ว +351

    People who are in the comments defending him y’all are sick! This man told his own daughter “he didn’t want her in his life”… y’all are sad! He didn’t need to talk

    • @tom11zz884
      @tom11zz884 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Black women defending him.

    • @mielissa100ify
      @mielissa100ify ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s so stupid. They’re more mad at the judge for holding his feet to the fire. We’ve seen so many PEOPLE come in here as reformed felons who are working and turn their lives around. There is no excuse for them defending him.

    • @GrumpySmurf0813
      @GrumpySmurf0813 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@tom11zz884 I wouldn't defend him with a ten foot pole. Lol

    • @brieannqpipkins1281
      @brieannqpipkins1281 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I’m glad this is the first comment I seen. If I would’ve scrolled down and seen people defending ANYTHING I would be in this comment section going off honey … I might still do it but Chile… idk

    • @peterparker4342
      @peterparker4342 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Not defending him at all but a child no matter the situation should never speak to their father that way

  • @BigBecky25
    @BigBecky25 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    How is it her fault that he can’t make his child support payments???

    • @NellieKAdaba
      @NellieKAdaba ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Exactly. It's his fault.

    • @patmccoy8758
      @patmccoy8758 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      There's snail-mail, electronic transfers, garnishments for child support! He's trying to gaslight the judge!

  • @misspoofs
    @misspoofs 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    She said "I wish you weren't such a pos" and all he heard was pos, not the part where she wishes she had a father, "I wish you weren't such a pos so you could be in my life" that's what she meant.

  • @pineapplesplash9166
    @pineapplesplash9166 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Man it’s so unfair how people who DONT deserve kids are blessed with ‘em.

  • @chanelSHAKURR
    @chanelSHAKURR ปีที่แล้ว +89

    The daughter look like she can just punch him at the end. That has to be the worst feeling to a parent who would care. He is a pitiful axx man to say the least.

  • @eph2vv89only1way
    @eph2vv89only1way ปีที่แล้ว +60

    He can't take responsibility for his bad parenting. And it is not the daughter's responsibility to visit him. It is on him to visit her. And "It's not on the way" isn't even close to a good excuse

  • @MsVaughnKitty
    @MsVaughnKitty 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Stand tall daughter. I’m 29 and my father is the same. Best advice I can give is cherish your relationship with your mom and find a genuine network of strictly platonic male friends and mentors to help protect and support you in life.

  • @BlackMayne
    @BlackMayne ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Embarrassed to say my “father” is the exact same. He actually told me he has no children and to stop talking to him.

    • @mzfancy4767
      @mzfancy4767 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Damn really? 🥺

    • @BlackMayne
      @BlackMayne ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@mzfancy4767 yes mam.

    • @NellieKAdaba
      @NellieKAdaba ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I'm sorry to hear that, I wish you all the best and take care.

    • @mzfancy4767
      @mzfancy4767 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @Celestial Black It's definitely his lost and he has to answer for his actions and lack of with The Most High. Stay blessed brother. 🤎

    • @BlackMayne
      @BlackMayne ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mzfancy4767 thank you. Much appreciated

  • @portiajackson6104
    @portiajackson6104 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    I’m glad JM didn’t let this man speak towards the end. When he DID let him speak, it was excuses and BS. He told his own daughter he didn’t want her in his life anymore? Then after the case he put the responsibility on the kid to start a relationship with HIM? Like… if u can’t be there financially, be there physically or at least thru social media… damn. SOMETHING! He didn’t even call her on her 16th birthday? You know how much that had to hurt and harden her heart? I don’t care what else he had to say.

  • @tatiyonnagrasper8960
    @tatiyonnagrasper8960 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    He would’ve had a rude awakening fucking with me like this tbh

  • @LordCommandor
    @LordCommandor ปีที่แล้ว +80

    As a father I have no respect for men who don't do right by the kids. Deadbeats are the worst.

  • @coreypatrick7230
    @coreypatrick7230 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Anytime she’s ready to make an honest effort??? That kid doesn’t have to do a damn thing!!!! I’m sooooo sick of dudes making babies and leaving then expect the child to chase them to get any attention, advice, or support for dozens of years . And then when the kid makes it in life successfully or the father gets old and sick... then all of a sudden, they wanna claim you as their child after years of neglect-

  • @jessicalennon1799
    @jessicalennon1799 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    The amount of times I watched JM go in on this man over and over and over ❤ he went in on this raggedy individual

  • @carolharris5455
    @carolharris5455 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    The daughter is gorgeous I almost put my fist through TH-cam when he said when you are willing to make a effort 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬😡😡

  • @daimonmarioperez9501
    @daimonmarioperez9501 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Wow, he's nothing of a father. Defendant, I have to take care of my own kids. Like his daughter is not one of his own . Pitiful excuse of a father .

  • @missmona9731
    @missmona9731 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    This is really sad. Broken people raise broken children. We have to keep trying to do better. 🙏🏾💜

    • @MzKeetaBurrow
      @MzKeetaBurrow ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's the truth, I have 3 of my grandkids cuz of a broken person. It's sad and I'm thankful that I got them b4 they got totally broken... Ppl need to do better, u can't move forward if u can't get the past straightened out...

    • @nowirehangers2815
      @nowirehangers2815 ปีที่แล้ว

      What a joke pathetic excuse

  • @burgerbish
    @burgerbish ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Damn her and her daughter are twins

    • @AngelRaeeee
      @AngelRaeeee ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank god.

    • @Pixie2499
      @Pixie2499 ปีที่แล้ว

      Spit her right out!

    • @herecomesdatrain
      @herecomesdatrain 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm not into skinny chicks but they're beautiful AF

  • @LMFM
    @LMFM ปีที่แล้ว +20

    He sounds like my ex husband. Taking care of his step kids and treat our kids like they aren’t important. Sad sad sad

  • @Fannyyyyy_
    @Fannyyyyy_ ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This man sounds like my daddy boy! I swear I feel this baby's heart ❤️

  • @antares3097
    @antares3097 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Yes! He's terrible; telling the daughter to find him when she ready to talk.

  • @caramama1731
    @caramama1731 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Wow ya'll talking about JM didn't let him speak, THIS is the time the litigant didn't have anything to say. What he did say that was true was "January 9th to be exact" when he told her he didn't want her in his life!🤬

  • @markpolice3585
    @markpolice3585 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    He's been a deadbeat for sixteen years and he wants to get onto her for saying "shit"? Please spare me. 🙄

    • @lkb-il8iy
      @lkb-il8iy 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I understand her frustration but if I were in the situation I would’ve kept it classy without cuss words. Ijs 🤷‍♀️

    • @naia1362
      @naia1362 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@lkb-il8iy..ok?

    • @ZKitty29
      @ZKitty29 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@lkb-il8iythat’s you? Y’all aren’t the same

    • @lkb-il8iy
      @lkb-il8iy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ⁠@@ZKitty29I can express myself without using profanity. Ijs

    • @kawaiionee-chan9557
      @kawaiionee-chan9557 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lkb-il8iygood for you

  • @regina805
    @regina805 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    His Beautiful Daughter is Better Off Without Him.

  • @Whatshaname
    @Whatshaname ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I like how he put the responsibility on his child. Classic deadbeat dad behavior.

    • @myyuh99
      @myyuh99 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Smhhhh

  • @MsBizzyRae
    @MsBizzyRae ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I hate that the daughter is there to hear this case. 🙁

    • @PrincessZaire100
      @PrincessZaire100 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Who’s to say she didn’t want to be there

  • @Maddluv4eric
    @Maddluv4eric ปีที่แล้ว +26

    He was definitely a JOCK in highschool

    • @IDFK__
      @IDFK__ ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂

  • @janedougherty3327
    @janedougherty3327 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I'm so proud that this woman wanted better for her child and left her abuser. This man needs counseling for himself before he can have a relationship. I don't think their daughter should be listening to this. She already knows what is going on. This is what happens to people who play house before they are mature.

  • @Denise-g3u
    @Denise-g3u ปีที่แล้ว +5

    A beautiful, beautiful daughter.

  • @rashidareeves78
    @rashidareeves78 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I literally understand the child’s angle but it is a BLESSING that that man is not in her life. He needs to to pay up for sure but his presence (and attitude) are not necessary and he could end up doing more damage.

  • @jessicalennon1799
    @jessicalennon1799 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Waittttttt why he hell is he putting ALL of the responsibility on his own child to talk to him!!!!!! My blood is boiling!!!!!!! This baby is better off without his stank behind!!!!

    • @heidicrimmings9615
      @heidicrimmings9615 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm hoping one day this young lady will realize that her life will be immeasurably better without this person in her life.
      🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @JessicaSmith-yd2nm
      @JessicaSmith-yd2nm ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly. Can't miss out on what you don't have

  • @lracquel9738
    @lracquel9738 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    He should be on his knees begging her for forgiveness, wrap her in his arms and give her the love and attention she deserves - instead he opts to interact with her as if she cause the malfunction in their relationship. And had the nerve to comment on the language she used when speaking to him - lucky for him it wasn't worse. She's such a beautiful girl I hope she finds the courage to overcome.

  • @bribrimimosas250
    @bribrimimosas250 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    My heart breaks for the daughter 🥺

  • @terrismith9399
    @terrismith9399 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    She’s a beautiful girl and I’m so sorry she had to hear all that man. Absent fathers really don’t understand how much it hurts

  • @michaeljenkins1491
    @michaeljenkins1491 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I drove without a license for 12 years and got caught several times, and still drove to pay that child support

  • @BlkBrd579
    @BlkBrd579 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The poor girl. My heart breaks for her.

  • @SSMarie
    @SSMarie 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    He called her kid at the end like she was a stranger. Pathetic. It’s not your fault kid. Not her name not daughter. Just sad

  • @pinklemonegg
    @pinklemonegg 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Omg this guy may not have money but he's worth millions in excuses

  • @ratchooo
    @ratchooo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i LOVE how judge mathis handled this one. poetic justice. this is what i watch this show for. one of my favorite cases i’ve seen for sure

  • @mwebb7292
    @mwebb7292 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    JUDGE MATHIS lit him up! ❤

  • @kathleen9769
    @kathleen9769 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I feel sorry for the daughter. I wanted to cry when they said he told her he didn't want her in his life. He's despicable.

  • @LeBrownGuy
    @LeBrownGuy ปีที่แล้ว +89

    Yall are saying JM should let him talk like everything he was saying wasn't BS.

    • @samiamokokay1891
      @samiamokokay1891 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Agreed

    • @a_83567
      @a_83567 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Right. They’re so eager to defend a dead beat. It’s wild.

    • @Crystal-Love
      @Crystal-Love ปีที่แล้ว +11

      After he told his daughter he didn’t want her in his life. Everything JM said about him he deserved.

    • @prettyteacher6417
      @prettyteacher6417 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      The ones saying it are probably dead beats, too, and they are feeling offended.

    • @caramama1731
      @caramama1731 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ​@@Crystal-Love exactly!!🤬

  • @loba7974
    @loba7974 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love how he has the audacity to tell her about her language. Like a big F U sir!

  • @kay22100
    @kay22100 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What am I supposed to do? Not eat? Make sure your kids eat before you do sir

  • @Lizriv1725
    @Lizriv1725 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Mom did a great job raising her daughter after being abused many times by him !

  • @shostoppah111
    @shostoppah111 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Sending the young lady soo much love 💕

  • @tamaradula1331
    @tamaradula1331 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    This had me in 😢 tears 😭 smh . I don’t understand men like this I’m currently fighting to get 70k in Child Support and My kids dad is this narcissistic as this man . My kids are 27,25,22 I’m still fighting for resolution. It’s sickening and sad 😔

    • @cbuddavis4695
      @cbuddavis4695 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Stay strong 💪 lady

    • @tamaradula1331
      @tamaradula1331 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Sharpshooterju Duh 🙄 your pretty smart of course it’s for me ! Because I’ve sacrificed and already done the job . Meaning my savings and everything else has taken the blow. Unless you’ve raised some children by yourself move around ! Because that’s a sacrifice you know nothing about . In fact it’s trickled down to our grandkids . Some men not all can be so simple in your reasoning. Child support is for both parents to provide just because you get by doesn’t mean you get away !

    • @Sharpshooterju
      @Sharpshooterju ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@tamaradula1331 jus talkin shit do ya thang

    • @tamaradula1331
      @tamaradula1331 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Sharpshooterju Okay my apologies for coming on strong . I’m extra sensitive about this subject because it’s hurtful a literal slap in the face . But I do need to lighten up I suppose

    • @frances3829
      @frances3829 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I wish you all the best of luck cuz I'm going to tell you I'm just like you I have not gotten no child support for a long time not since they've been born but I'm over it

  • @jilldambrosio4273
    @jilldambrosio4273 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This guy doesn't take responsibility for anything.

  • @GrumpySmurf0813
    @GrumpySmurf0813 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Dude is making hella excuses. Sad

  • @YAHsaves777
    @YAHsaves777 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As soon as the defendant entered the courtroom I had a bad feeling about him.

  • @Smokeyydawg
    @Smokeyydawg ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Mann they doing they thing with the up loads today and I'm loving it😆

  • @lemar562
    @lemar562 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    This dad is a loser making excuses why you can’t take care of your daughter when you said that you got other kids in your household is full of excuses to the young lady. I hope she continues to prosper in life she don’t need no one like that in her life.

  • @sapphireraindrop6925
    @sapphireraindrop6925 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I don't know exactly when this was but to the daughter, he doesn't deserve any more of your time or effort. Go and live your best life knowing that none of this was ever on you, not to fix or build the relationship. And to the mama you are doing amazing thing for your girl.

  • @sheredajulian9154
    @sheredajulian9154 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He so sorry, he’s even putting it on her to make the effort

  • @adamtucker669
    @adamtucker669 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can't imagine what's going on in his own household.

  • @shestattedinc7333
    @shestattedinc7333 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Im glad JM chewed his ass out, he deserved every bit

  • @dontsayshannon
    @dontsayshannon ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Why do they have this sweet innocent child listening to all this? Unwise. God bless Alyssa.

  • @Treex210
    @Treex210 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    THE DEFENDANT IS A TRUE DEFINITION OF A DEAD BEAT DAD,I REST MY CASE.

  • @SandfieldBunny84
    @SandfieldBunny84 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You do the best you can, as a single mother I went without so that my kids can/could have what they need.

  • @angiela3439
    @angiela3439 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The daughter has every right to feel that way towards him

  • @DymondCrystal
    @DymondCrystal ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’ve always had my dad in my life so I can only say what I would do and I would never ever speak to my father again. Especially after saying he doesn’t want me in his life. So be it!!

  • @aprillotts2781
    @aprillotts2781 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He called her kid, not by her name; which I hope she has no parts his name.🤬🤬🤬

  • @theoblongbox4909
    @theoblongbox4909 ปีที่แล้ว

    The best thing for her is to completely cut contact with him. He is not a real father and she doesn't deserve that in her life.

  • @seanwright4319
    @seanwright4319 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The daughter looking like yeah judge Mathis get on him

  • @JesterQuinn90
    @JesterQuinn90 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    “Nice language “ baby girl I need you to just step to the side cause if I was there 👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾

  • @GoogleUser-wy2vv
    @GoogleUser-wy2vv ปีที่แล้ว +3

    First he used his ex-wife is a human punching bag... Once a week... then he turned around and talked about how he spent seven years in jail. Then he acts like paying child support is an option because he's got to eat.

  • @justincoffey2692
    @justincoffey2692 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    There’s no excuse on earth to be a deadbeat dad!

  • @Renrens-LionessofJudah
    @Renrens-LionessofJudah ปีที่แล้ว +9

    It's never too late but they can start over and build a father and daughter relationship. Hope he sees the error of his way and change for the sake of his child.

    • @tinabethea1644
      @tinabethea1644 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You're the only one on here that made since everybody else is bashing the father if people would listen that man has his own torment it's on trauma that he went through as a kid and like he did admit he did do things to that lady and he admitted and he apologized but when you don't have a driver's license and that is what you do for a living is drive it is hard to pay the child support I don't think he don't want to pay it is just that like he said you been in and out of jail and he haven't found a job to do that but as a mother she should have just left it alone and took her her own daughter and just went on about her business and the reason why I'm saying this is because I went through the same thing you can chase a man and try to demand them to pay you money that they don't have and they don't have it because they been in jail or because they don't have a license so you know what I did I went ahead went to college and got my associate's got my bachelor's degree and I went ahead and took her out to children and they turned out fine yes he still owes me $62,000 but I'm not sweating it because at the end he's got to deal with it

    • @jessicapearson9479
      @jessicapearson9479 ปีที่แล้ว

      NO!! she is older than when he took advantage of her mother!! He is a sick monster! NO CHILDREN SHPULD BE AROUND HIM!! He should have been castrated and locked up for life!! Preferably k!lled!!

    • @thefirm4606
      @thefirm4606 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It’s not the daughter’s responsibility to mentor her father through his shit.

  • @scruumblewuumble6901
    @scruumblewuumble6901 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    "i came to see you january 10th and you blew me off..." maybe it's because you told her you didnt want her in your life on january 9th.

  • @WarGrowlmon18
    @WarGrowlmon18 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I hope that woman with him learned something today.

  • @philipdefibaugh5683
    @philipdefibaugh5683 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "What am I supposed to do not eat?" Uh YES! A true deadbeat daddy.

  • @queenstatus5521
    @queenstatus5521 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    🤣🤣🤣 once the defendant responded, with attitude and base in his voice!!!!!!!! I'm like here comes the pain , His demeanor was wayyy off and rude as soon as he part his LIPS 🤣🤣🤣 I got "GOOD LAUGH OFF MR EXCUSES"

  • @mjb1403
    @mjb1403 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That poor girl's father is more immature than she is. smh

  • @taylorcollins6090
    @taylorcollins6090 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He said “nice language” like he wasn’t beating on his mom, huh????

  • @christiandilday7543
    @christiandilday7543 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hope child support lock all men and WOMEN like this who don't make effort to pay 😤

  • @censorshipagainstthemiddle6198
    @censorshipagainstthemiddle6198 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Bruh said one lump sum of almost 900🤣🤣🤣

  • @Kyle-gj8qn
    @Kyle-gj8qn 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Anyone gonna call him out as a predator for dating her at 15-16 years old and abusing her???!! the dead beat part would only be an expected result of the prior.

    • @Aaliyah-rq4xh
      @Aaliyah-rq4xh หลายเดือนก่อน

      Straight predator who seems like he hate women. He is probably on the down low and crave men.

  • @averymartin321
    @averymartin321 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What a waste of a man

  • @kgames1748
    @kgames1748 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Poor excuse for being a man let alone a father ...

  • @KNByam
    @KNByam ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You could look at him and tell he's an abuser.

  • @mobayhottitude
    @mobayhottitude ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm sorry, I shouldn't laugh, but @ 3:30, the way Judge Mathis just summarized everything the woman said when addressing the man without any sugar coating was just funny to me

  • @babiijean11
    @babiijean11 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I hate parents like him. No matter what your relationship is like with the other parent, it never changes the fact that you're a father or mother to what you've created. I kno people who haven't worked in years and because of child support, they choose not to work. But even if that's how u roll, u can STILL spend time with ur children. That's all kids care about!!!
    I kno many broke dads that spend every available minute with their children unless the mom prevents it. My kids' dad used to be one of them and I never had to struggle for a baby sitter for work or vacation! My kids have soooo many wonderful memories with their dad that money can't buy!! That really matters!

  • @latanyahood5622
    @latanyahood5622 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You set yourself up for that one Jack

  • @deedeerogers9810
    @deedeerogers9810 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Boyyy he wanted to call judge mathis the N word sooo bad I just know it

  • @dollarmentary
    @dollarmentary ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Judge made him feel sooooo looowww 😂😂😂

  • @shannonmays5633
    @shannonmays5633 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This really hit home to me !!! My father wasn’t never really around he though he did something becaue he gave me money but not being there physically hurts !! We got into a real bad argument and this man told me I’m dead to him and to suck his private part !!! I don’t understand who would say that about they child and it’s something I will never forget and can’t put pass me !

    • @briasworld8
      @briasworld8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Smh. Disgusting & so sad to say that to you. 😟