Stay Out of My Life

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 6 ต.ค. 2024
  • The plaintiff is suing her ex-husband, the father of her four children, for emotional distress after she claims he became an abusive addict and cheater who walked out on them. The defendant claims that after he sobered up, he tried to reconcile with their children, but they wanted nothing to do with him.

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  • @denisheunjackson
    @denisheunjackson 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2472

    Dead beats love to "change" once their kids are already adults lol pathetic

    • @NellieKAdaba
      @NellieKAdaba 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      True

    • @brandipegues8671
      @brandipegues8671 4 ปีที่แล้ว +133

      No lies here. And they expect you to forgive and forget

    • @relaxinginpeace1310
      @relaxinginpeace1310 3 ปีที่แล้ว +130

      That's bc they're getting older and will need someone to care for them one day. They're hoping it'll be the kids they abandoned that will support them in their latter years

    • @shonda79able
      @shonda79able 3 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      That's because the kids are grown and they no longer require responsibility.

    • @SerpentFire
      @SerpentFire 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      That's men period!

  • @bonka_iitsavibe6550
    @bonka_iitsavibe6550 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1534

    “I see where this is going”..😭🤦🏾‍♀️ Everyone knows Judge Mathis DOES NOT play about Child Support😂🤣🤷🏾‍♀️...

    • @amdanger4740
      @amdanger4740 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Or crack!

    • @sbss924
      @sbss924 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Or paying folks back "when they get their tax refunds"!!!

    • @TheChelsiWaters
      @TheChelsiWaters 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Or crackheads!

    • @derrolharris9378
      @derrolharris9378 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      The GOOD LORD and Judge Mathis helped me quit crack and I paid my child support...every time I went to child support court all the Judge's respected me very well ...Praise GOD!!!

    • @herecomesdatrain
      @herecomesdatrain 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sbss924 never believe that shit when someone ask me money and say when they get their support I won't do it because it's a con move they may not get all the money they expect to get anyway

  • @CyborgNS6NL
    @CyborgNS6NL 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1587

    Judge Mathis bout to have this man smoking crack soon as court is over...

    • @krystalwilliams8065
      @krystalwilliams8065 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Lol, I thought the same thing!!!! Yo you might be so right!

    • @nadiamccray321
      @nadiamccray321 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Absolutely

    • @sanjmo3260
      @sanjmo3260 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      CyborgNS6NL I know he went home and smoked😱🤣🤣

    • @kalidoll8032
      @kalidoll8032 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @ssunshyne9479
      @ssunshyne9479 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Lol!!!! U aint lying!! He bout to relapse!!

  • @taylorwilliams9893
    @taylorwilliams9893 3 ปีที่แล้ว +712

    “You abandoned the family to become a crackhead”😂😂

  • @desireenicole1320
    @desireenicole1320 3 ปีที่แล้ว +306

    The way she crossed her arms like she subconsciously comforting herself 😢

    • @mochs62512
      @mochs62512 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I picked up on that too

    • @ThisIsJ.Nicole
      @ThisIsJ.Nicole 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Oh wow. The amount of hurt that brings up.

    • @ReignThePain_
      @ReignThePain_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      🥺 girl she is wearing that pain like a jacket. So sad

    • @KEESHWASH
      @KEESHWASH 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lawd! That was heavy

    • @TOOTIELUV87
      @TOOTIELUV87 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      For you to notice that brought tears to my eyes. I saw it too but reading this comment made me tear up 😢 because I did in fact see it but it didn’t process until you said it.

  • @ljgil850
    @ljgil850 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2464

    Judge Mathis is the most entertaining judge show bruh! when he get irritated and hyped up..it's a wrap lol

    • @blessed1ne
      @blessed1ne 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      gil hell yea! The only judge show I watch.

    • @conniemoore1786
      @conniemoore1786 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      It's gotten old tho🙄

    • @badseedent4827
      @badseedent4827 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hyped aka effeminate

    • @knowitallnyc3241
      @knowitallnyc3241 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      gil Lol yo fr once he has his bias case over
      th-cam.com/video/2DGf6gcbp0M/w-d-xo.html

    • @ljgil850
      @ljgil850 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @@conniemoore1786na it's good tv, never gets old

  • @jazs2300
    @jazs2300 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2101

    His daughter is standing there crying, and he’s just looking like he has no care in the world. The least you could’ve done was go over and hug her, and then he had the nerve to say they didn’t ask. This is one of the most disgusting cases I’ve ever seen

    • @rashadtaylor4279
      @rashadtaylor4279 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I agree!👍😎

    • @jplaya2023
      @jplaya2023 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      She wouldn't let him touch her and mathis would've said "Crackhead don't move that ain't crack over there"

    • @blackreacher
      @blackreacher 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Y'all act like you don't know someone or related to someone similar to this dude. Stop faking

    • @jazs2300
      @jazs2300 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      j playa that’s not my point. Showing effort Is the least he could’ve done

    • @jazs2300
      @jazs2300 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Amen is Hidden you act i ima you know me. It wouldn’t matter if i DID know someone like him, that person would still be just as much as a piece of trash. So what’s you’re point.

  • @tmelanie2815
    @tmelanie2815 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1321

    This man is so full of himself. So cold and heartless at the end.

    • @ayana188
      @ayana188 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      A real pos!!!!

    • @reddbyrde
      @reddbyrde 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      And had the audacity to tell the mother of the children he failed to help raise and provide for to stay out of his life!! Bitch please!! She has to be in your life to get out of it!! You have grown children and grandchildren you need to be caring for instead of being a childish blowhard!!!

    • @ThePlutoandMarsEffectofTarot
      @ThePlutoandMarsEffectofTarot 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Okay! His puxxy ass ran away from his "Family" & has the nerve to be mad.

    • @neddyconstant5816
      @neddyconstant5816 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Mean Ass idiot who never took
      Care of his 4 daughters so happy
      His ex wife won the case.
      Time 6:18AM Sat 6/13/20

    • @lifetimeskater24
      @lifetimeskater24 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yep. Exactly what I was saying! Very full of himself. You can tell just by his posture and how he is talking to the judge!

  • @Angel-zs9zb
    @Angel-zs9zb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    Daughter "he gave me $50 for my birthday"
    Judge mathis "your daughter says your a deadbeat crackhead"
    Rotfl 😂

  • @deconteeko7446
    @deconteeko7446 3 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    When he said “one day I just woke up... and never had the urge again.” I knew it was a wrap. Judge Mathis was not going to fall for that foolery.

    • @peacefaith560
      @peacefaith560 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lol

    • @dariusthepoetictruth5676
      @dariusthepoetictruth5676 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Did you see the way he went IN on Wendy Williams?

    • @suzanne26slinger
      @suzanne26slinger ปีที่แล้ว +4

      God does deliver people that is ALL GOD'S doing, everything else is his own character.

    • @minilea144
      @minilea144 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@suzanne26slingerit can't be all God's doing then it's not God. Either you honestly believe he has full control or you don't. God is an author. The character in this book was created by him. Beginning, middle and end. You can't pick and choose what God is responsible for when the whole book, with messed up characters and all were written by him eons ago.

    • @carolynyvettewright3511
      @carolynyvettewright3511 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That can definitely happen! If you don't know God then you would never understand!!

  • @25lavell
    @25lavell 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2159

    If you've ever been on drugs don't ever go to the Judge Mathis show please

    • @mike11800
      @mike11800 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @YoungLadyInRed
      @YoungLadyInRed 4 ปีที่แล้ว +205

      Especially if you’ve never paid child support.

    • @sydneyjackson9037
      @sydneyjackson9037 4 ปีที่แล้ว +114

      🤣 naw foreal cause he gone chew your ass out!

    • @TVKia
      @TVKia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      I feel like that's on the application. 😂

    • @katinaleufroy4757
      @katinaleufroy4757 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Facts! 💯💯💯

  • @TiTi_562
    @TiTi_562 4 ปีที่แล้ว +366

    😂“Your daughter said you’re a deadbeat crackhead !”
    “You’re either still a crackhead or got crack-ish ways” #icant

    • @monique4540
      @monique4540 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I cant either🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @jairenee7606
      @jairenee7606 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😂😂😂😂

    • @jonsquirrel3661
      @jonsquirrel3661 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂

  • @5Milfam
    @5Milfam 4 ปีที่แล้ว +748

    dead beat parents love it when their children are grown to try to come back around so they won’t have to give them anything, because “they’re grown” wow! what an easy way out of being a parent huh? no support. no teachings. just “they’re grown”

    • @esharenee4186
      @esharenee4186 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Shut up deadbeat ace up with all those excuses to be irresponsible and a bum daddy.

    • @janelle_111
      @janelle_111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      loveand hate OMG!! This sums UP EVERYTHING 🥺🤨 thank God that God is the head of my life & household 🙏🏼

    • @5Milfam
      @5Milfam 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      qwandiddy stop lying.

    • @ayana188
      @ayana188 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      loveand hate it’s a troll

    • @5Milfam
      @5Milfam 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Christina coles ik! i just don’t like liars

  • @stayreal5083
    @stayreal5083 3 ปีที่แล้ว +455

    The mother needs counseling because she has deep rooted issues resulting from the relationship with the father. She has not healed her scars.

    • @kawingilliam3536
      @kawingilliam3536 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I pray the good Lord above heal hear she is still hurt from that

    • @angelique707
      @angelique707 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      And she passed that victim hood to her daughters.

    • @thabsmkhize2481
      @thabsmkhize2481 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      At aaaall! Shame, she's still so heartbroken, deep down she still loves him.

    • @thabsmkhize2481
      @thabsmkhize2481 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@angelique707 Omg yes! 29 years old is old enough to put on some big girl panties and deal with the pain in a healthy way. The sobbing was a bit strange to me

    • @GateKeeperShow
      @GateKeeperShow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@thabsmkhize2481 you find crying when you've been betrayed strange?

  • @MrsJones-oj3cp
    @MrsJones-oj3cp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    I think Judge Mathis might need counseling as well for what his father did to him. He got scars too lol

    • @antoinerantful
      @antoinerantful 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Yes, he really goes overboard on many cases. Someone would think he's on dope. He did the same shit to Wendy.

    • @sarahwalls7621
      @sarahwalls7621 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@antoinerantful I saw that

    • @deon3133
      @deon3133 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@antoinerantful naw he checked her. And judge mathis wasnt liein about her drug problem cause she had to go to rehab. If you try to slander someone you need to get checked thats all he did check her

    • @toeaxn
      @toeaxn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@antoinerantful Wendy deserved every bit of it

    • @ScorpioBeauty
      @ScorpioBeauty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yeah he was a little over hyped. He was on this man’s ass. And I think this was a trigger for him

  • @msdanielledapson
    @msdanielledapson 4 ปีที่แล้ว +841

    Sad his child Is in tears and he has yet to open his arms and console her.

    • @mayj6956
      @mayj6956 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      right like what

    • @tom11zz884
      @tom11zz884 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      That is because that child have heard so many horrible things about him by the mother, he never has a chance.

    • @lissette15
      @lissette15 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      tom11zz884 she’s not a child she’s seeing for herself that he doesn’t care.

    • @blackreacher
      @blackreacher 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Folks are so divided. If it not by color of skin, it's gender. Guaranteed, you won't approach your family member with the same criticism, who is guilty of the same thing

    • @blackreacher
      @blackreacher 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Message is, mind your business

  • @dshannasanders964
    @dshannasanders964 4 ปีที่แล้ว +648

    The daughter looks very young for 29.

    • @relaxinginpeace1310
      @relaxinginpeace1310 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      She's beautiful. I bet they all are and he missed a great opportunity to be in their lives

    • @lovingcareheatingandair6794
      @lovingcareheatingandair6794 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Very beautiful!!!

    • @mariohill9212
      @mariohill9212 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@mattmaster2582 ya sister ugly

    • @mattmaster2582
      @mattmaster2582 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mariohill9212 yo daddy ugly!... oh wait if forgot you never met your daddy!

    • @blackspider9561
      @blackspider9561 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I thought she was a teen

  • @tywilliams5653
    @tywilliams5653 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    “Stay out of my life” like he ain’t already did that for 20+ years

  • @cheikhsarr5176
    @cheikhsarr5176 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    You could feel all the pain and suffering she has been through. She was left high and dry for drugs. And now all his kids are to pick up the pieces. His failure to pay child support has worsened his kids resentment towards himself.

  • @gabrielleelliott7388
    @gabrielleelliott7388 4 ปีที่แล้ว +306

    Judge mathis and paternity court are my addictions love these shows

    • @tonyjohnson957
      @tonyjohnson957 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Gabrielle Elliott mines too

    • @tonyjohnson957
      @tonyjohnson957 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Would love too come over and watch with you sometime

    • @gailbillups6508
      @gailbillups6508 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Gabrielle they are my drug too I can't watch it on tv because I can't read comments or fast forward

    • @Depressionmillennial
      @Depressionmillennial 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wait is paternity back on youtube?!?

    • @blackreacher
      @blackreacher 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bad news and drama is what these shows are about

  • @mom2bbygkaterad379
    @mom2bbygkaterad379 4 ปีที่แล้ว +229

    JM did NOT come to play today! I'm glad he got "clean", but his attitude is STILL arrogant & "crackish"! I hope this family finds healing someway, somehow.....

    • @kimf442
      @kimf442 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Mom2BbyG KaTeraD I agree praying for the best 🙏🏾

    • @righttoouropinionthanks4710
      @righttoouropinionthanks4710 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m sorry but the Dad couldn’t get a word in because of the mom and JM. Wow, for someone that used to be a crackhead himself, he sure likes throwing the book at former crackheads.

    • @lezwilliams3915
      @lezwilliams3915 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@righttoouropinionthanks4710 never heard that about Judge Mathis before...😯

    • @yotiep.1072
      @yotiep.1072 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @mom2bby naww I don't think he clean,especially if he didn't go to rehab..he probably sneaks and geeks

    • @mom2bbygkaterad379
      @mom2bbygkaterad379 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I was referring to the defendant/father on this particular episode. I don't recall JM being remembered as a crack addict. He admitted to selling drugs, smoking weed, involvement w/street gangs & serving time in prison. While he was incarcerated, his mother received a terminal illness diagnosis which caused JM to change his life. th-cam.com/video/yakUZIQ4R5U/w-d-xo.html

  • @AKY2011
    @AKY2011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +231

    "Get that crackhead outta here!" Damn, Judge Mathis was harsh on this one 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Justxant
      @Justxant 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      😂😂😂

    • @hotsnatchfever
      @hotsnatchfever 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      He said “your daughter said you’re a deadbeat crackhead” SIS WHEN I SAY I HOLLEREDDDDDD 💀💀💀💀

    • @ViveLaIsrael
      @ViveLaIsrael 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤣😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @ViveLaIsrael
      @ViveLaIsrael 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@hotsnatchfever 🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭

    • @ItsSierra_
      @ItsSierra_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      right 😭😭😭

  • @sachelleb4930
    @sachelleb4930 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    "You're still either a crackhead or got crackish ways"...🤣🤣 Who is he trying to fool. The kids are right there, so you could have sent money to them without them having to ask.

  • @WaterFlame957
    @WaterFlame957 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    "Sir, she says uh, you abandoned the family to become a crackhead. . ."
    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Hai_Living
    @Hai_Living 4 ปีที่แล้ว +342

    Well...that escalated quickly

  • @AddisonHaileLegobuilds
    @AddisonHaileLegobuilds 4 ปีที่แล้ว +277

    When he said ”Stay out of my life, ” while his daughter standing there hurt and crying was an extra slap in the face!! Like really dude really!

  • @jamalwinslow6159
    @jamalwinslow6159 4 ปีที่แล้ว +396

    If he didn't want to get high...he do now

    • @lynettesmith6153
      @lynettesmith6153 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Jamal Winslow 😂 lol

    • @tooprada606
      @tooprada606 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Jamal Winslow That was my exact thought 4 mins in

    • @TalkswithMellow
      @TalkswithMellow 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Right he should’ve yelled at the mom some too for knowingly sleeping with a crack head

    • @BigAsh551
      @BigAsh551 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂😂

    • @yvonnedenerson-horne877
      @yvonnedenerson-horne877 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @banjo898
    @banjo898 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    When I was working in the hospital, I would see grown men crying in the early morning hours. They would look up with tears in their eyes with regret. When other patients had visitors especially their children patting on them, phone calls, flowers and home cooked meals, they would look with regret. Why, why, why ME? I would listen to their stories. What I learned is, MAKE TIME FOR YOUR CHILDREN WHEN THEY ARE YOUNG, SO THEY WILL MAKE TIME FOR YOU WHEN YOU ARE OLD!!

    • @roses4me451
      @roses4me451 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Facts! I've heard from nurses say the same thing how a lot of BM die broke, alone, and the only visitors they see are doctors and nurses. This story is so sad, I cried. Addicts are so selfish and don't care for anyone but themselves. He's an arrogant, dead beat dad. She & her daughters need extensive therapy because they are scarred for life!

    • @banjo898
      @banjo898 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@roses4me451 Not just Black Men but Men of all race, creed and color. I pray that the Mother and daughter receive spiritual and mental healing.

    • @ladyprophetofcle
      @ladyprophetofcle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@roses4me451 when my dad was in a nursing home they told me most black people came to see their elders than whites..at that facility.......its really not just a black man's issue.. it really is all types..

    • @carlaflower4183
      @carlaflower4183 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen

    • @carlaflower4183
      @carlaflower4183 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      True statement

  • @aliciamitcheax6494
    @aliciamitcheax6494 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    It’s funny how they can not take care of their kids, by any means, but still find a way to be in a relationship 🤔😡🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @sugar7195
    @sugar7195 4 ปีที่แล้ว +505

    You can still see the hurt in the daughter eyes she like a child on the inside poor girl

    • @C3D3SB3NZ
      @C3D3SB3NZ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      BECAUSE HER MOTHER IS WEAK ASF...IF SHE WAS A STRONG MOTHER AND NOT MENTION THE FAULTS OF THEY CRACK HEAD ASS DAD...SHE WOULDNT BE SO EMOTIONAL...THIS CASE WAS ILL TIMED AND FREE MONEY

    • @jahnyaf8215
      @jahnyaf8215 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@C3D3SB3NZ the mother was not weak. her momma didnt have to mention that he was a deadbeat, he did that all on his own. He probably told them every time they called that he had went a bad way when he was young and blah blah blah. Not the mothers fault, so dont say something as dumb as that bullshit. That mom is strong for taking care of them kids on her own. like you sound so damn ignorant.

    • @mimikinmiracle83
      @mimikinmiracle83 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@C3D3SB3NZ Be careful because karma could find its way to you.

    • @bella_saysitall
      @bella_saysitall 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol. They just want some damn money.

    • @abbygalerowe6775
      @abbygalerowe6775 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@C3D3SB3NZ plzzz stfu cuz u dont know what its like

  • @omarbagent9829
    @omarbagent9829 4 ปีที่แล้ว +288

    Yall see how people making this the moms fualt! The dad was a crack head and a deadbeat not her. Yall getting at her cause she loved him. He prolly was her first!!

    • @tom11zz884
      @tom11zz884 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Look Mr. SIMP
      She laid up with the crackhead and had unprotected sex with him...Not very smart.
      It's time these women start taking some accountability as well.

    • @ChrystinShorty
      @ChrystinShorty 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      It’s always the woman’s fault. Men are treated like the leaders of society, but are allowed to be sorry with no accountability.

    • @CleverAOYM
      @CleverAOYM 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I always believe ppl take up for the ones they're most alike. Clearly they're pushing more towards deadbeat side. Shows who they are as a person.

    • @MimiB1974
      @MimiB1974 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      She had 3 kids post crack.... she plays a big part in this. Being in love doesn’t mean she has no fault

    • @theunknownunknowns3196
      @theunknownunknowns3196 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@tom11zz884 You are ignorant she married him before he hit that rock sir which part of that do u not understand?

  • @MzGumby02
    @MzGumby02 4 ปีที่แล้ว +676

    I know the feeling. My father abused, starved, and neglected me when my mother was overseas. He even kept me out of school. I didn't learn to read or write until I was eight years old. Haven't seen my father since I was six, and I finally talked to him again when I was 28. The last thing he told me was "I can't talk to you anymore". I know this pain. GOd bless them.

    • @lillygirl8436
      @lillygirl8436 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      God bless u xx

    • @reneegraham8893
      @reneegraham8893 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      May you be richly blessed and may your wounds be healed.

    • @keyerrakennedy3616
      @keyerrakennedy3616 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      wow. . . don't let that horrible experience shape your future be strong and with Gods help you'll make it through🙏

    • @MbeesKnees
      @MbeesKnees 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Sorry to hear that,no child deserves that!

    • @esharenee4186
      @esharenee4186 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Awwww 😢 the Bible says that God is a Father to the fatherless and a Champion to the widows.

  • @MixxedTings
    @MixxedTings 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    This the one that got me emotional looking at the daughter.... my dad did the same sis 😭keep your head up ❤️ You have a strong and loving mother , i’ll take that over a toxic father any day

    • @marshalarocque6599
      @marshalarocque6599 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      keep your head up also. we stick with you.

  • @MissRichardsonWrites
    @MissRichardsonWrites 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    He had the nerve to say “stay out of my life!”

  • @moore_seh
    @moore_seh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +257

    Did he just say "if you don't ask me for nothing, how do I know". Since 2003 you should be sending checks to your mothers kids even if she doesn't ask. I know addiction is serious but you've been sober since 03.

    • @leslieh761
      @leslieh761 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Pitiful excuse ... Kids need food, clothing and shelter, just like him. They shouldn't have to ask. Worst excuse ever!

    • @C3D3SB3NZ
      @C3D3SB3NZ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      IT ALLOT OF MFS WHO DO WHAT HE DID...SO DO WE ALL TAKE DEAD BEATS TO COURT AFTER 10+YEARS LOL TF...THIS IS STUPID...IF U WASNT TRYIN TO GET HIS ASS IN 2003 THEN TF DO IT MATTER NOW...SHE JUSS BROKE ASF AND NEED MONEY SO SHE BRINGIN THIS SHIT UP NOW WOW

    • @yotiep.1072
      @yotiep.1072 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@C3D3SB3NZ she probably didn't want to..but at the same point,I understand what you saying too tho about bringing it up now

    • @hotsnatchfever
      @hotsnatchfever 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@C3D3SB3NZ She literally said she filed child support in 99 but he moved out of state. Just say you with a deadbeat man and stop using so many words. It don’t matter if it’s 64 years later. Child support recovery will be after him for it for LIFE if they choose to. You don’t get to just make multiple kids and not take care of them. No matter how much times passes.

    • @SonicBoomC98
      @SonicBoomC98 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      If that's the case every man who had a long absence from their kids or one who didn't even know about kids should just start sending checks

  • @a.a.7594
    @a.a.7594 4 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    Those poor babies, Mom at the end was everything. Tell him again.

    • @smj124
      @smj124 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      When I tell you how far my jaw slacked when he told them to stay out of his life! The gall! Dude definitely has crackish ways! Looks all nice, clean, and put together but just CRACKISH in his attitude! Just wow! Kudos to mom and daughter.

    • @gjohnson6884
      @gjohnson6884 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not babies anymore ...but just eat healthy ladies Iʻm just saying!

  • @lovemymiyah
    @lovemymiyah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +188

    I think Judge Mathis took it a little far here. 😂 I'm about to find my daddy that left me and sue his ass too. 😂 Im otw Judge Mathis.

    • @yotiep.1072
      @yotiep.1072 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Naww no he didn't..he was a crackhead,,end of story..do you know how serious that drug is!!?I definitely have plenty of time to definitely change your mind, about plenty of true stories

    • @wordplay1415
      @wordplay1415 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Neglecting 4 children is serious. Yes he may have changed but those years will never come back for those children

    • @williebenning4750
      @williebenning4750 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@wordplay1415 yes that is true how ever the man is trying to make things right for his daughters . I bet you if it was the women on crack and she abandon her kids they would come up with all excuses in the world for her amd I'm not being sexest. This is the truth. Ive seen umfair situations like this numerous of times.

    • @NYBK82
      @NYBK82 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@williebenning4750 💯...I seen judge mathis act different towards Woman on crack.. he'll dog them out but he won't say anything about child support.

    • @samoraescott8206
      @samoraescott8206 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Nah he didn’t! Judge Mathis been through a lot as a child and abandonment was one of them

  • @awinkelmann48
    @awinkelmann48 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "Yeah I know that's a crack head move" 🤣 that shit had me 💀

  • @jcee6886
    @jcee6886 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    She's surrounded by daughters, in laws and grandchildren. She's a matriarchal queen.

  • @reginalda.bellsr.249
    @reginalda.bellsr.249 4 ปีที่แล้ว +259

    DAMN...... When baby girl started crying, my heart broke. Smh.....

    • @ScorpioBeauty
      @ScorpioBeauty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Me too 😭😭😭😭

    • @thatlsk
      @thatlsk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Meanwhile bruh don't look like he give a damn.

    • @wadilotus
      @wadilotus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@thatlsk he was like "la-de-da-da-dah." That broke my heart. I wanted to hug his poor daughter

  • @rafaelbenyisrael144
    @rafaelbenyisrael144 4 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    “In 1986 James also decided to do CRACK” 😭😭😭😭😭

    • @MimiB1974
      @MimiB1974 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      And her dumb ass has 3 more kids with him 🙄

    • @shaminkacargile4991
      @shaminkacargile4991 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀

    • @rafaelbenyisrael144
      @rafaelbenyisrael144 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shaminka Cargile 😩😩😭😭😭😭

    • @misstbull
      @misstbull 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@MimiB1974 YEZZZZ!! WHY??? HOW COULD YOU ....1.2.3. MORE! WITH A CRACK HEAD! LUCKY ITS NOT AIDS SHE AND THE KIDS GOT..INSTEAD THEY GOT NOTHING.

    • @lydia4280
      @lydia4280 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😩

  • @CainaanDC
    @CainaanDC 4 ปีที่แล้ว +227

    damm she remembers every detail

    • @keyerrakennedy3616
      @keyerrakennedy3616 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      because shes still holding on to all that hurt he caused her in the past I know it's hard but she really needs to move on

    • @Zen-cx5tc
      @Zen-cx5tc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@keyerrakennedy3616 easier said than done.

    • @ayana188
      @ayana188 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      That man tore her down

    • @jasonr.9863
      @jasonr.9863 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      When somebody hurts your kids, you never forget it. He’s a coward and it seems the mother did a good job without him.

    • @shamarab4632
      @shamarab4632 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Cause it was painful

  • @GeorgeMaster-xg7lg
    @GeorgeMaster-xg7lg ปีที่แล้ว +5

    WHOO! The judge RIPPED the defendant apart!!

  • @kennishabell8315
    @kennishabell8315 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This is a sign that the father is not ready to take accountability for his behavior and he's still in denial about his addiction. He is doomed to repeat his mistakes if he does not own up to his behavior. Coming from one recovering addict to another.

  • @solomoncooper6491
    @solomoncooper6491 4 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    This cycle is so devastating to watch smh

    • @mike11800
      @mike11800 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yes it is been there and still don't have a relationship with my dad

    • @mysticdeloach5647
      @mysticdeloach5647 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agreed

  • @peggysueusa2946
    @peggysueusa2946 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    Judge Mathis calls it as it T- I- S, CRACKISH WAYS. $500.00 in more than 18 years man go somewhere!!! And why they gotta call you for you to take care of your parental responsibility. Man kick rocks!!!

    • @jacksonernie484
      @jacksonernie484 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      He has the unmitigated gall to keep count of his little pocket change of $500.00. How trifling of him ...

    • @leslieh761
      @leslieh761 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jacksonernie484 I agree

    • @doretani
      @doretani 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      $125 for each child for their entire 18yrs is alot lol

  • @mashondaknight9132
    @mashondaknight9132 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    This man is pathetic ,I really hate when addicts keep making excuses for their behavior.

    • @djamalwendy2872
      @djamalwendy2872 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      mashonda Knight how he’s making excuses loll did you hear him say something ? I didn’t the judge didn’t let me

    • @shinebrightlikeadiamond5329
      @shinebrightlikeadiamond5329 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He was on crack got recovered. Now attend to ur family. It’s no accuse

    • @shinebrightlikeadiamond5329
      @shinebrightlikeadiamond5329 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I need Greg Mathis.

  • @crystalbelle2732
    @crystalbelle2732 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "Have a good day,get that crack head outta here!"😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 boy judge mathis you is something else! Lol

  • @Itsdimmee
    @Itsdimmee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Once I heard “crack addict” I just busted out laughin bc I just Mathis was gone Turn Up

  • @TJWC
    @TJWC 4 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    She's still broken. Hopefully she can move on now.

  • @5Milfam
    @5Milfam 4 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    wow the girl who spoke i thought she was 18. so beautiful!

  • @blkmaverick03
    @blkmaverick03 4 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    Whew chiiiii! This got intense quickly! I was looking for a little joke from Doyle but I guess he knew to keep quiet this time...

    • @BigAsh551
      @BigAsh551 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nerdy Teddy 😂😂😂😂

    • @biancaf.1361
      @biancaf.1361 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂😂😂

    • @shamarab4632
      @shamarab4632 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      There's been a time or two when he said a joke and it was bad timing in other cases......it's so hilarious but terrible 😂

    • @NuB82
      @NuB82 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Doyle was busy setting up a back child support meeting

  • @higher_pwr8178
    @higher_pwr8178 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Defendant had the nerve to tell her stay out of my life. Plaintiff shut him down "I haven't been in your life"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @BrandiCodyDavid
    @BrandiCodyDavid 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I love JM it’s takes a man to call another man on his manipulative BS

    • @mermaidprettymuch
      @mermaidprettymuch 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I swear Judge Mathis teaches me how to straighten sh^t out!

    • @jairenee7606
      @jairenee7606 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      👏🏼💯

  • @HoneyBeeLuv22
    @HoneyBeeLuv22 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    This mother & daughter are unfortunately in pain. I can relate to their story. I hope they heal from this.

  • @AriesAllDay414-mv6ci
    @AriesAllDay414-mv6ci 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    They shouldn’t have had to call him for anything! jus come through with something dang

  • @BygSexyToy1
    @BygSexyToy1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +712

    WHY DO THESE MEN FEEL LIKE THE MOTHERS AND THE CHILDREN HAVE TO ASK OR NOTIFY THEM FOR WHAT'S NEEDED OR FOR SUPPORT??? BE PROACTIVE AND JUST SEND IT BECAUSE THERE IS AND WILL ALWAYS BE A NEED!! OR SEND IT BECAUSE IT IS OWED TO THE CHILD!!

    • @noble78b
      @noble78b 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      True, I feel if men were just proactive they could avoid being put on child support. Just communicate and put in the effort.

    • @drshrimppuertorico8894
      @drshrimppuertorico8894 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Let’s not act like some of these women don’t use that money for the child but on themselves

    • @BygSexyToy1
      @BygSexyToy1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      @@drshrimppuertorico8894 If mom has full custody of their children 24/7, use their own funds to care for the children as well, and their dad's don't take care of therm so what! It doesn't matter where the money goes as long as the father provides it for their children. What I am saying is that as long as these fathers keep their own records of provision to show that they have done or paid what the law requires them to do, that's all that matters because they've done their part. The mom has to answer to the court for abuse of funds. So men shouldn't handle their responsibilities out of fear of what the mother will do?

    • @keyerrakennedy3616
      @keyerrakennedy3616 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I disagree with the avoiding child support comment. . . the men or women should be put on child support, so that way their is legal documentation proving that he or she is paying child support so that way no body cant lie and say the mother or father wasnt helping or never gave them anything for the child. . . trust me I've seen this happened before where the girl lied and said my cousin wasnt doing anything for their kids and he was

    • @BygSexyToy1
      @BygSexyToy1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@keyerrakennedy3616 Thats right!

  • @MsLeonalove
    @MsLeonalove 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    3 mins in i'm in tears. God bless that strong mother. Seems like she did an amazing job due to the circumstances

  • @kashabrown2692
    @kashabrown2692 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you Judge Mathis. These addicts think just because they get clean that the sleight is wiped clean. After they done ruined everybody’s lives & fucked them over. They need to be held accountable for their past.

  • @itsabeautifulday6306
    @itsabeautifulday6306 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I cannot believe he just stood their Instead of consoling his daughter as tears poured down, then had the audacity to say “stay out of my life”... This is truly a cold blooded deadbeat at his finest. I mean, my god, he was even disrespecting the judge. I think the best thing he could’ve done was say away from his daughters. The mother has done a fantastic job

    • @d820m
      @d820m 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because if he did try to console her, people like you would say that he "only did it just for show and that he still didn't care"

  • @chandrekamason5020
    @chandrekamason5020 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Halfway through this episode I had to rewind it to see what she was suing for.😂

    • @TalkswithMellow
      @TalkswithMellow 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Cause she laid down with a crackhead and wanted sympathy after poppin out 4 babies

    • @amandabuffin8539
      @amandabuffin8539 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TalkswithMellow ..wow!!

  • @jessicasoldcolumbia8943
    @jessicasoldcolumbia8943 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Thank you Judge Mathis for reading him like you did! You handled that!

  • @thebojieepair
    @thebojieepair 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The guy in the blue shirt behind her as soon as she said "physical abuse" looked at the defendant like he wanted to jump across the partition! We feel ya brotha. Hate guys who hit women.

  • @aprilstone31
    @aprilstone31 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    The mom is still heartbroken over this after all these years and the children are grown. It's unhealthy for her and she passed those feelings of abandonment off to her daughter. They need counseling.

  • @berthabee8647
    @berthabee8647 4 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    The daughter is so pretty they deserve better

    • @Kat89115
      @Kat89115 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes she's beautiful!

    • @ljanicelee5870
      @ljanicelee5870 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      He's no dam good... she's tried to reach out to him...
      Kids always find a way to overlook parents faults. .....even abuse. .
      Yet he didn't try to connect
      Bout God helped him!

  • @jplaya2023
    @jplaya2023 4 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    how can she sue for emotional distress? from 1990? wouldn't suing for back child support payments do even better for her. I don't get it.

    • @Bray_Jay
      @Bray_Jay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      j playa Double The pay. The laws are changing and the idea of "statue of limitations" are becoming "statue of no limits".

    • @koolking_4k
      @koolking_4k 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I’m pretty sure she doing that too

    • @oldwalt4645
      @oldwalt4645 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      The emotional distress is ongoing. It played out in court.

    • @jplaya2023
      @jplaya2023 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@oldwalt4645 then i think she should've received way more than 4k. Like 100k or something.

    • @supremegoddess5347
      @supremegoddess5347 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@jplaya2023 these TV courts can only award the max $5000...

  • @bee8923
    @bee8923 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I laughed how the guy at the back (balded headed man in the blue shirt) of the mother gave the defendant a side eye when she spoke about the physical abuse, like he wanted to smack him. I love it.

    • @abconey1052
      @abconey1052 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @1:35 lol
      I caught that too lol , but it was the only time I smiled because , this case made me pretty upset frfr lol

  • @wildbutterflytiedye
    @wildbutterflytiedye 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    *I saw this episode, and instantly thought this poor woman went through near exactly what I did. My son was 3 months old and I had two toddlers also. He abandoned us and we didnt know where he went for years. He now owes the state of Illinois and myself almost 100,000 dollars. I really feel for this woman. God bless her and her children.*

    • @jplaya2023
      @jplaya2023 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Have you been able to catch up with him?

  • @crystalsanders9294
    @crystalsanders9294 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    To me the best thing that happened to the family was him leaving. Why be in tears over someone who is not worth it. Drugs didn't have anything to do with his character or lack thereof.

  • @Wholeshowtv
    @Wholeshowtv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    "I know a crackhead when I see one"
    Vintage Mathis!!

  • @barbersavage8461
    @barbersavage8461 4 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    The man was admitting everything Damm judge give him a chance to explain the rest...he was attacked to quickly...🤣🤣🤣

    • @BigAce3000
      @BigAce3000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      He was attacked because he got caught in some lies

    • @ajdaboss2243
      @ajdaboss2243 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      He left his family to fend for themselves for all those years...take it easy for what? he been having it easy all the time he wasn't helping them..

    • @chardiepooh1
      @chardiepooh1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Barber Savage my thoughts exactly!!

    • @omarbagent9829
      @omarbagent9829 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ajdaboss2243 no fr! what they talkin about

    • @autumnsummers6599
      @autumnsummers6599 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      He didn't take care of kids. He's a pos.

  • @kaylalove540
    @kaylalove540 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    Your kids shouldn’t have to ask you for anything, they didnt ask to be here ! You do what you need to do to make sure that they’re good regardless if they’re over 18 or not ! Parenting doesn’t stop because they’re legally grown.

  • @brittanykleshay8624
    @brittanykleshay8624 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love that Judge Mathis held him accountable. He doesn't play about not taking care of your kids, his whole demeanor changes.

  • @biggboi3932
    @biggboi3932 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    As horrible as it is when a man doesn’t want anything to do with you it far better for you to except that than to keep putting yourself through hell hoping he’ll change his mind. No matter if he’s father brother husband boyfriend wife. Let god handle them all

  • @tmat2024
    @tmat2024 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Mathis said the dude has "crackish ways". Lol!

    • @gabrielleelliott7388
      @gabrielleelliott7388 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love him he always cracking jokes

    • @BlackMayne
      @BlackMayne 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Gabrielle Elliott pun intended?

    • @komalovejackson7415
      @komalovejackson7415 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭 yessss I hollaed

  • @isaackid
    @isaackid 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    Drugs is nothing but trouble and drama.

    • @sweetbeloved623
      @sweetbeloved623 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I AGREE lots of drama so sad..

    • @yotiep.1072
      @yotiep.1072 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yuup.. emotional hardships

  • @lashawnbeautiful1692
    @lashawnbeautiful1692 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    At the end when he said “ Just stay out of my life” that shit hurt me and I’m not even involved 🤷🏽‍♀️ Karma is a bitch.... he’s gonna need his children one day 💯

  • @ANGELAKCLAY
    @ANGELAKCLAY 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    NOW' I NEED to have My Honorable Judge Mathis' Moment: The Ex doesn't have to CALL You' Ever! JUST SEND HER THE 💰MONEY!💰

  • @rebeccagarcia2525
    @rebeccagarcia2525 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    ILOVE JUDGE MATHIS AND DOYLE. DEALING WITH MY DEPRESSION THEY MAKE ME LAUGH. NO MATTER WHAT IM GOING THROUGH. THANK YOU VERY MUCH.

  • @tashajones3708
    @tashajones3708 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    When she said crack at 1:13 lady in front had that 👀🙃🥴

    • @tashajones3708
      @tashajones3708 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Lol i kept looking at her too

    • @YoungLadyInRed
      @YoungLadyInRed 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m rewatching the whole thing now. 😂😂😂

    • @airamakknom
      @airamakknom 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Right? Lol she is thoroughly disgusted.

  • @blessed1ne
    @blessed1ne 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    HAHAAHHAAHAH judge never misses an opportunity to bring up Crack. 😂.

  • @t.c.5456
    @t.c.5456 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Wait. You knew he was an addict after baby 1. You had 3 more?

    • @TalkswithMellow
      @TalkswithMellow 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Tico Exactly!! Her ass need to be held accountable too!

    • @krystalwilliams8065
      @krystalwilliams8065 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@TalkswithMellow That's true too

    • @jeannaheard8561
      @jeannaheard8561 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Wow! They were married!!! Definitely speaks value that when things get tough folks will bounce. I’m glad she tried to save her marriage and be a family. Where is the long suffering for what you said you would commit to?!

    • @TalkswithMellow
      @TalkswithMellow 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Jeanna Heard No sweetie. This is a lot of black womens problem. Who says we have to endure struggle love? He abused cocaine, hit her, slept with other women and you talking about commitment?
      Commit to self love!
      Commit to knowing you deserve the same love you give out!

    • @jeannaheard8561
      @jeannaheard8561 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Ty Hart Good Morning,
      That isn’t a BLACK WOMAN issue first... interesting how that was made our issue?!
      Second, she married him and tried to stay together...Where is that a problem?!
      I can tell you where the problem was... she seen the signs during dating and before she said “I DO” but still decided to “endure” as you’ve stated. That’s would then prove to be her choice of acceptance. Ppl not a race in particular, make the choice to accept others for love ONLY. Which has nothing to do with the struggle etc. ****Note, she was more hurt that he left her and the girls than his lifestyle choice... **** He didn’t try to keep his family even after she accepted him for who he became****
      Proven Point - Unless you have been with an addict (and it’s clear you haven’t) then you can’t say what someone who has should or shouldn’t do! Let’s hope you won’t in turn become the “Black Woman” with that problem. By marrying a man that clearly isn’t realist for commitment etc.

  • @butta_baby3772
    @butta_baby3772 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The fact that he didn’t try to go over and hug his daughter and say he apologize for not being there cause she was crying out to him. He said stay outta his life. Wow

  • @TheeMichellesMind
    @TheeMichellesMind 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As soon as I heard the announcer say the word crack I knew it was about to be onnnn!!! Lol!

  • @rustyhornzinstrumentalist-7596
    @rustyhornzinstrumentalist-7596 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Man, I Hate The Devastion Drugs Does To Families, I've Seen it First Hand, and It's Painful For Everyone Involved.

  • @williamsrishard
    @williamsrishard 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    He BIG mad at this crackhead 🤨🤨🤨🤨 It's the lying that he's doing in court and listen to the conversation out of the Courtroom he said I had a problem excuses excuses crackhead do that to not take care of their current responsibly remember he said he's been clean since 2003 he should have started doing something for those girls then because at the beginning and end of the day those girls still have love for him that's why you see tears in her eyes he needs to be a lot more compassionate about the situation he created

    • @June2U
      @June2U 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Rishard Life he don’t play when a person is not being straight up .. & he still playing victim

  • @conniemoore1786
    @conniemoore1786 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    He was screwed the minute he said he didn't go 2 rehab🙄

    • @KPbouj
      @KPbouj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Connie Moore because it’s very rare. Millions of people can’t even quit cigarettes cold turkey let alone CRACK (Judge Mathis voice)

    • @conniemoore1786
      @conniemoore1786 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@KPbouj ... I agree 💯 but it's been obvious for some reason that it's really personal for the Judge 😉 tho imo

  • @ezell928
    @ezell928 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    “Get this crackhead out of my courtroom “ 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @peacefaith560
    @peacefaith560 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    typical narcissist..ladies press charges file child support or move on with your life..these men never change !!!

  • @johnnyrobinson8168
    @johnnyrobinson8168 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I am fine with the Judge trashing these men but I have seen women on here that are just as trifling and the judge treats them with compassion!

    • @zulu3274
      @zulu3274 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah Judge Mathis is a "Captain save a thot" some days and can be a bit of a hypocrite, Judge Mathis bragged about being in the streets himself as a gangster and Hustler while possibly dealing drugs at times yet he now wants to act like he is sinless... I like him but he needs to stop because to people who can see beyond that it makes him look extremely fake...

    • @tmat2024
      @tmat2024 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I love it how when the women are trashed, a lot of females comment on how Judge Mathis is growing old. Check out the comments now. Lol! It's all about yassss, Judge! Lol!

    • @shonda79able
      @shonda79able 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I've seen him go off on both men and women. Miss me with this.

    • @tashiaredd3421
      @tashiaredd3421 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He’s done it in both sides of the coin. Not just to men, but women as well! If a father is stepping up and doing what he’s supposed to, Judge Mathis will straight dog the woman. I’ve saw it plenty of times.

    • @BigAce3000
      @BigAce3000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not true, he goes off on trifling women as well, just go to TH-cam and type in "Judge Mathis goes off"

  • @app1mxh
    @app1mxh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Mathis let the man speak. Offer the family counseling.

  • @realhypnotica2332
    @realhypnotica2332 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Crackish ways 😂😂😂😂 I cant with judge mattis

  • @veebee9942
    @veebee9942 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That lady in gold behind the defendant, her faces are Cracking me tf up right now lmaooo😂😂🤣

  • @LuzRod923
    @LuzRod923 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    His daughters reaction at 9:42 broke my heart it’s not about the money for her and that’s all he sees

  • @anquentinwilliams2764
    @anquentinwilliams2764 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I knew Judge Mathis was finna go off about that child support.

  • @preciousgemstylez1768
    @preciousgemstylez1768 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    "How do I know if you need anything if you don't call me", children ALWAYS need something dummy. How about just give the mom money so she can get what they need. Abandoned his family, then have the nerve to say stay out of my life, sir you seem to have been out their lives for quite a while now..That's hurtful.

    • @mariyaa111
      @mariyaa111 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙏🙏

    • @yotiep.1072
      @yotiep.1072 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Naw their grown now so give it to them..yea but that's fkd up,with his crackhead ass..

  • @listencarefully1497
    @listencarefully1497 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Damn Judge ... was he a crackhead when he left? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭 omg I’m crying 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 this poor man didn’t catch a break

    • @sherikahunter9435
      @sherikahunter9435 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Listen Carefully JudgeM went in!! And rightfully so.

    • @BigAsh551
      @BigAsh551 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      💀💀💀💀

  • @lyzettesalazar
    @lyzettesalazar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Omg I couldn’t help crying since this woman started talking. My heart goes out to her and her daughter.

  • @Milzo950
    @Milzo950 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When judge Mathis gets hyped, best believe your case is getting dismissed 😂

  • @cjohns1005
    @cjohns1005 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    He lost this case as soon as the mom started talking