You must also know there's no such thing as a perfect marriage or relationship; each one is special. What makes one person happy might not make another person happy. But I've realized that there's always a way to solve problems. Five years ago, my wife and I were almost getting divorced because we had problems in our marriage, but we managed to sort things out. It was a difficult time, but we got through it
I totally get how important your words are, and I really want to be happy too. I'm in a relationship, and even though we're apart now, I can't think of life without her; my love for her is big. I really miss her, and I'm determined to bring her back. We've tried different ways, like therapy, to fix things.
Releasing the grip on someone dear is always tough, but in my scenario, I was fortunate to have the counsel of a spiritual guide who preserved my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I'm grateful for your guidance. I'll quickly search for her online. Thanks. I'm hopeful that adopting this strategy will also bring me the results I desire; I miss her greatly.
"Just Know that even if you let go of a good thing that you do have, that doesn't mean that God doesn't have better for you." There are not enough conversations in Christendom about waiting for that godly man with good character after many bad choices, finding him, then finding out that just because he is godly, does not mean he is the right one for you. May God bless you for your obedience with this podcast!
This was great because a lot of people think marriage can survive on chemistry alone. But y'all have to be compatible on the big stuff: kids, religion, politics/life philosophy or you'll always be fundamentally at odds. Everything outside of that is a negotiation/conversation.
It serve to Marry A Man of God. Jonathan speaks like a 30 something yesr old man😂. Love this young christian couple. Adore how opposite you guys are which serves because a Godly Marriage is supposed to make you better!!! Holiness > Happiness Take notes outside looking in📝. Ive learned so much ,no more FANTASY, FAIRYTALE 😂
Happily married here for 22 years this Saturday. Great job and I Love how you are talking to the people that wants to honor God. Blessing and more blessings to your Union!
This was a great podcast. I will add that financially, it is important for couples to understand why the other individuals' financial history is the way it is. From experience, I know of individuals who went through life changes (medically, job loss, etc) that led to financial decline. Does that mean the person is not qualified to get married or not responsible with their funds? No. But it does warrant a deeper conversation. As believers God does not want us to suffer and lack in any way, however, He does allow people to go through obstacles to cultivate a deeper awareness in the person, and to draw them closer to Him in dependency and trust as Him being their source.
@@JvstHere It's not talked about enough. Individuals are quick to cancel someone because of their financial background without getting further knowledge or giving them the chance to explain.
I love this. I’m getting married next week and thankfully we did all of these things. We did pre engagement counseling too to make sure we even wanted to get married because I wanted to kill him (jk) at one point 😅 we worked through a lot and got engaged and did traditional premarital counseling and discussed money and sex and whatnot. I actually asked him about porn on a whim …and was shocked when he said it was something struggled with because he is the most open person ever but didn’t mention that. So we had to go to our pastor and make a plan for that. I’m glad y’all bought that up!
Loved this! Me and husband got married without discussing some of what y’all listed, but thank god that the main things like him being a man of god and us putting god first helped us through some of the things we didn’t discuss. I would say in the beginning money was an issue I’m a saver and my husband is a spender it was hard at first, but my husband now sees why it’s so important to save and we met in the middle. I was homeless when I was 19 so I was going over board and wanting to save every penny due to that trauma and he never experienced that he wanted to just blow blow blow, but by the grace of god we got together and we found a solutions it works.
My husband would bring me home his check and I combined the two checks and pay the bills. He kept some for himself. But he would always come back for more. We didn’t want for anything. But we lived from check to check. This was in the 80’s and we both were in the military.
This is so good! And I think it’s tools to use if a single individual is evaluating themselves to see if they are marriage material. To see if you already have the qualities, or if you know the answers to these questions for yourself prior. So good!
Hi Jonathan and Jess!! I love the fact that God placed two ppl together not because of age but because of heart. Your hearts aligned for the purpose of what God wanted to use your marriage for, in moving His Kingdom forward. God bless you both for including God in the process to link you both together. My question, being that I have never been married, what makes marriage so hard? Just wanting some insight on why some people say that and others don't. Thanks if you have time to answer. ❤❤
thank you so much! i think there can be a bunch of factors that make marriage hard. Some can be avoided (by having thorough conversations about what we have spoken about here) and some challenges can come unexpectedly like a loss of job or death in the family or sickness with your spouse which can change the whole dynamic of someones relationship. We have been blessed that at this point we haven't had to experience any major life changes as those listed above but i definitely think the things that can be avoided, some people skip over them because they want to be married so bad and think they can handle "x,y,z" and then they come to find that its much harder to deal with the things they thought they could deal with.
@@BetweenTheWallsPod Thank you so much for taking the time to answer. It was well explained and I appreciate the insight. Be blessed my favorite people!!!
These topics are so good. Especially when it comes to family and finances!!! Ask all the questions and think of all the scenarios and utilize premarital counseling.
Jess you have a calm, wise, discerning husband. Hold on tight he is a gem. I hope you both have a healthy and long marriage. Kudos to you for letting him speak and being honest with him. You are both beautiful human beings. #newsubbie
I am not Married I do agree with most of what you said except the money part. Lol I strongly agree as christian couple to do pre-marital counseling. You both are made for each other. I love Jess sence of humor and Jonathan patience . Those qualities are great. Thank you for this video I give up hope but I wish you all the best in your union.
You both are wise beyond your years. Praise God! I’ve been married for 30 years. We have 3 beautiful children your age. While I agree with all your points, it is also important to include in the financial topic that each person in the marriage may enter at different financial levels. My hubby had school loans and I didn’t. I had assets inherited from my deceased parents and he did not. We opted for joint accounts for living , savings, investment and travel but we each have our own accounts for other things. I have properties I share with my siblings and so does he. We each have our own accounts for self maintenance ie. My hair, nails, shopping, messages and he has same. We tithe together and donate to worthy causes together and separately. Although we have different beliefs, we agreed to provide our kids with a strong foundation with a Christian education but allowed them to choose once they went to college. May God continue to bless your marriage!!❤❤❤
BEAUTIFUL VIDEO I truly watch just to see how other people feel about marriage I’m not a bot but I won’t put up my picture lol Together 17 years Married 15 years August Settled to avoid jail Wedding day horrible Husband thought I would want kids eventually I decided at 7 no kids He loves my family with all his heart His family please let me plead the 5th No joint nothing We still together No cheating or belittling or stealing We are faithful Life has been a journey altogether but the uniqueness of marriage when it comes down to it is interesting I knew it wouldn’t be perfect but I accept my emotional roller coaster (Vivian Green) May God continue to BLESS you individually and as 1
My first comment was before. I got to finish the episo. So I'm just circling back around to say this was an excellent episode. I think you guys gave a lot of realistic advice and I agree with everything that you guys said. And I think that the only thing I will add is that people should go into a marriage expecting their partner to change but core values and standards of that person will hopefully not change but evolve. They should not have like a total 180 on those kind of things, but I think people should all change to some extent. But you should be navigating life and the world TOGETHER and expecting hardship while trying everything in your power to avoid it or prepare for how to get through it. My husband and i have been battle tested in almost every facet (except infidelity- which i rebuke in the name of jesus lol).
Wow , guys this one was soooooo on point everything you talked about is correct and from experience I realized I didn’t do any of these and it turned out horribly . You guys are making a huge difference in my perspective . ❤
This was so good! Love seeing you both discussing these topics, especially with me being engaged and our wedding this August! 💕if you don’t mind me asking, did you and Jonathan do pre-marital counseling through your church or a private practice? My fiancé and I were planning to attend through our church, but were looking at other options as well.
Of course not! Just saying that if there is negative tension between your partner and your family that it will affect y'all in some way. Not a reason not to get married though
Trying to understand, where do we draw the line of keep your issues between you, your husband and god? I feel like there is a very thin line when family gets involved… altogether, we keep family out of our relationship on both sides as much as possible. Also, unfortunately not everyone has the pleasure of being liked by their spouses parents for different reasons. I have a great relationship with my fiancé mom, my mom and my fiancé has a good enough relationship. Since me & her don’t always get along, he leans on the side of protecting me but also will let me know when I am wrong.. they can communicate even when I don’t talk to her.
i do think it's a personal opinion because some matters may be bigger to some than it is to others, but we do think that community is important and that its okay to lean on certain friends that you trust for wise council in certain situations (maybe those friends can be agreed on between partners) but yes most things should be kept between the spouses in our opinion. As far as spouses/parents not having the best relationship.. not everything we say here is a 100 percent a deal breaker its just things we believe people should be aware of before getting married so if it works well for you guys then thats great too!
I don't usually make comments on the podcast but I felt called to say something. Jonathan and Jess are a very lovely couple in my opinion they don't seem ingenuine and I love the respect they have towards each other especially when one is expressing themselves and mostly I love that they LOVE Jesus. I felt in my spirit to tell Jonathan not to take heed to every word or reaction spoken about him negatively whether it be in the comments or ridiculous reaction videos. Marriage is so sacred and because you guys are now online with such a sacred and now rare thing there are going to be jealous people especially jealous men that can not compete with the respectful man that your husband is and that is what they will react to. Remember the Bible teaches us who can't stand before envy (Proverbs 27:4) I do hope that the comments on your channel always stay positive but I just seen another black, God centered, marriage podcast get ripped to shreds in their comment section from outsiders looking in and it just hurt my heart. Please y'all either filter your comment and revoke certain words from being used or don't read them at all. Take breaks when needed and most importantly stay prayed up genuinely HEED TO THE SPIRIT OF THE LORD ask him if you can or should post certain things because not everyone watching will be be here for the beautiful part of support but they are instead of their father the devil. That's all I wanted to say. Be strong and be courages and above all put on your armor to stand against the plots of the enemy.
Come on Jonathan with the Jems (gems) - you really do have to be careful how you present the narrative of your spouse to the outside world 🌍 others will develop a hate for your spouse based on your "venting" sessions.
So question: What can you say to someone if their dating partner was pretending (their attitude) during the dating stage and when they marry they change for the worst ?
i feel like there isn't a simple response to this especially without knowing any details and/or both sides if im being an honest. You can send us an email to explain more if you'd like!
Will there be a discussion about why u haven't legally changed your name or if you ever will. I know for me there was a story lol. I didn’t change mine right away for several reasons.
Don't spend all that money on a pleather purse and making someone else wealthy who probably wouldn't even acknowledge or value you. You're the status not the object or purse.
Do you feel like marriage is 50/50? Cause a lot of women feel like it shouldn’t be.. also what is your relationship with money like now that Jonathan is working? Just in general (If you don’t mind🫠)
i hate to be basic with this answer lol but marriage is 100/100 we're both giving everything we have, if you're talking about financially it still goes that way since we put all of our money in one bank account (we didn't touch on this in this episode but we do take out our personal spending "allowance" for the month and put it on our separate cash app cards) my relationship with money changed as soon as i said "i do" lol no longer just spending on whatever I wanted especially in the beginning when it was just me working and even know that he's working in his field we stick to the same budget that we implemented right after we got married. I hope that answers the question lol
@@BetweenTheWallsPod I love this answer, thanks. But wasn’t it kinda hard to switch the very moment you said “I do” or it’s more like evolving. I’m in a relationship and oh lord we already but heads about how I spend money 😂
Jonathan is wise beyond his years
listennn 👏🏾👏🏾 Jess be dropping gemsss too!
Agreed
I agree totally!!!! Definitely a wise man of God.
I agree 💯
Indeed he is
Thumbnail looking great !!!! Good job to the elite employeeeeee 👏🏾👏🏾
Our new elite employee did her thing...😅😊😊❤❤❤
Love how Johnathan ended it by saying don’t settle for what you know you deserve. Needed that.
You got this!
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You must also know there's no such thing as a perfect marriage or relationship; each one is special. What makes one person happy might not make another person happy. But I've realized that there's always a way to solve problems. Five years ago, my wife and I were almost getting divorced because we had problems in our marriage, but we managed to sort things out. It was a difficult time, but we got through it
I totally get how important your words are, and I really want to be happy too. I'm in a relationship, and even though we're apart now, I can't think of life without her; my love for her is big. I really miss her, and I'm determined to bring her back. We've tried different ways, like therapy, to fix things.
Releasing the grip on someone dear is always tough, but in my scenario, I was fortunate to have the counsel of a spiritual guide who preserved my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I'm grateful for your guidance. I'll quickly search for her online. Thanks. I'm hopeful that adopting this strategy will also bring me the results I desire; I miss her greatly.
You are Welcome
I’ll never get over how white Jess’ teeth are OMG.😍
You guys are wiser than most older couples. Wisdom from above 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾
thank you!
Yes i agree that the one spouse not going to church becomes a prolem down the line. I should've listened 🥺
"Just Know that even if you let go of a good thing that you do have, that doesn't mean that God doesn't have better for you." There are not enough conversations in Christendom about waiting for that godly man with good character after many bad choices, finding him, then finding out that just because he is godly, does not mean he is the right one for you. May God bless you for your obedience with this podcast!
"The God that gave you that good gift has no shortage of good gifts" A word!🔥 such a great podcast!
Thank you!!
As someone who is engaged to be married soon, this was such a great podcast! Thank you both.🥰🥰🥰
Glad you enjoyed it!
Congratulations 🎊
This was great because a lot of people think marriage can survive on chemistry alone. But y'all have to be compatible on the big stuff: kids, religion, politics/life philosophy or you'll always be fundamentally at odds. Everything outside of that is a negotiation/conversation.
100%, gotta be aligned on the basics
It serve to Marry A Man of God. Jonathan speaks like a 30 something yesr old man😂.
Love this young christian couple. Adore how opposite you guys are which serves because a Godly Marriage is supposed to make you better!!!
Holiness > Happiness
Take notes outside looking in📝. Ive learned so much ,no more FANTASY, FAIRYTALE 😂
Happily married here for 22 years this Saturday. Great job and I Love how you are talking to the people that wants to honor God. Blessing and more blessings to your Union!
This was a great podcast. I will add that financially, it is important for couples to understand why the other individuals' financial history is the way it is. From experience, I know of individuals who went through life changes (medically, job loss, etc) that led to financial decline. Does that mean the person is not qualified to get married or not responsible with their funds? No. But it does warrant a deeper conversation. As believers God does not want us to suffer and lack in any way, however, He does allow people to go through obstacles to cultivate a deeper awareness in the person, and to draw them closer to Him in dependency and trust as Him being their source.
Agreed 100%, thanks for sharing ☺️
You’re the first person I’ve seen say this on this topic and I believe it too. Absolutely agree.
@@JvstHere It's not talked about enough. Individuals are quick to cancel someone because of their financial background without getting further knowledge or giving them the chance to explain.
Ooh so truth! I would be pissed at my husband and tell my sister what he did. But after we made up my sister was still pissed at him.
Gotta be careful! lol. Family will ride for you 😂
Married 38 years and counting. Great advice from this beautiful Christian couple. Keep looking up!!🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank you so much!
I love this. I’m getting married next week and thankfully we did all of these things. We did pre engagement counseling too to make sure we even wanted to get married because I wanted to kill him (jk) at one point 😅 we worked through a lot and got engaged and did traditional premarital counseling and discussed money and sex and whatnot. I actually asked him about porn on a whim …and was shocked when he said it was something struggled with because he is the most open person ever but didn’t mention that. So we had to go to our pastor and make a plan for that. I’m glad y’all bought that up!
Loved this! Me and husband got married without discussing some of what y’all listed, but thank god that the main things like him being a man of god and us putting god first helped us through some of the things we didn’t discuss. I would say in the beginning money was an issue I’m a saver and my husband is a spender it was hard at first, but my husband now sees why it’s so important to save and we met in the middle. I was homeless when I was 19 so I was going over board and wanting to save every penny due to that trauma and he never experienced that he wanted to just blow blow blow, but by the grace of god we got together and we found a solutions it works.
Thanks for sharing and thanks for watching :)
My husband would bring me home his check and I combined the two checks and pay the bills. He kept some for himself. But he would always come back for more. We didn’t want for anything. But we lived from check to check. This was in the 80’s and we both were in the military.
This is so good! And I think it’s tools to use if a single individual is evaluating themselves to see if they are marriage material. To see if you already have the qualities, or if you know the answers to these questions for yourself prior. So good!
Yall are speaking… FACTS!! Especially about being equally yoked and agreeing on core values.
Not me taking notes! Thank you guys
Hi Jonathan and Jess!! I love the fact that God placed two ppl together not because of age but because of heart. Your hearts aligned for the purpose of what God wanted to use your marriage for, in moving His Kingdom forward. God bless you both for including God in the process to link you both together. My question, being that I have never been married, what makes marriage so hard? Just wanting some insight on why some people say that and others don't. Thanks if you have time to answer. ❤❤
thank you so much! i think there can be a bunch of factors that make marriage hard. Some can be avoided (by having thorough conversations about what we have spoken about here) and some challenges can come unexpectedly like a loss of job or death in the family or sickness with your spouse which can change the whole dynamic of someones relationship. We have been blessed that at this point we haven't had to experience any major life changes as those listed above but i definitely think the things that can be avoided, some people skip over them because they want to be married so bad and think they can handle "x,y,z" and then they come to find that its much harder to deal with the things they thought they could deal with.
@@BetweenTheWallsPod
Thank you so much for taking the time to answer. It was well explained and I appreciate the insight. Be blessed my favorite people!!!
These topics are so good. Especially when it comes to family and finances!!! Ask all the questions and think of all the scenarios and utilize premarital counseling.
yesss 100%
The last piece of advice was soooo good! Drop the mic on that one!
What a treat to see/hear spiritual advice
Thank you!
As someone married almost 20 years, that was great great advice....... spot on 👍🏽
WOOOOWW BEAUTIFUL VIDEO! Beautiful couple. I’d like to see pt 2 in a year or so🤍 or whenever you wanna add more info
Jess is so pretty
Yeah I think so too lol
-Jon
Very, its distracting me, she is that gurl
This was an EXCELLENT podcast. The insight you both have is priceless ❤
Jess you have a calm, wise, discerning husband. Hold on tight he is a gem. I hope you both have a healthy and long marriage. Kudos to you for letting him speak and being honest with him. You are both beautiful human beings. #newsubbie
Thank you so much!!
I would have never guessed he was 5 years younger than you. He’s very mature
This was sooo good!!!!!!!!!!
Lately my life has been encountering all of this wise counsel. I hope it's because God has something for me 🙏.
I am not Married I do agree with most of what you said except the money part. Lol
I strongly agree as christian couple to do pre-marital counseling. You both are made for each other. I love Jess sence of humor and Jonathan patience . Those qualities are great. Thank you for this video I give up hope but I wish you all the best in your union.
God could still surprise you, he’s good that way. But thank you for being on our journey with us.
@@BetweenTheWallsPod I enjoy your video's.
@@BetweenTheWallsPod thank you for the encouragement.
You both are wise beyond your years. Praise God! I’ve been married for 30 years. We have 3 beautiful children your age. While I agree with all your points, it is also important to include in the financial topic that each person in the marriage may enter at different financial levels. My hubby had school loans and I didn’t. I had assets inherited from my deceased parents and he did not. We opted for joint accounts for living , savings, investment and travel but we each have our own accounts for other things. I have properties I share with my siblings and so does he. We each have our own accounts for self maintenance ie. My hair, nails, shopping, messages and he has same. We tithe together and donate to worthy causes together and separately. Although we have different beliefs, we agreed to provide our kids with a strong foundation with a Christian education but allowed them to choose once they went to college.
May God continue to bless your marriage!!❤❤❤
Good insight! Thanks for watching
BEAUTIFUL VIDEO I truly watch just to see how other people feel about marriage I’m not a bot but I won’t put up my picture lol
Together 17 years
Married 15 years August
Settled to avoid jail
Wedding day horrible
Husband thought I would want kids eventually I decided at 7 no kids
He loves my family with all his heart
His family please let me plead the 5th
No joint nothing
We still together
No cheating or belittling or stealing
We are faithful
Life has been a journey altogether but the uniqueness of marriage when it comes down to it is interesting I knew it wouldn’t be perfect but I accept my emotional roller coaster (Vivian Green)
May God continue to BLESS you individually and as 1
This was a beautiful podcast, so eye opening. Continue to share your knowledge and wisdom. Thank you 🥹🥰
You are so welcome!
I don’t even want to get married but I’m here 😂 … love y’all ❤
lol we love y'al
Thank you :)
My first comment was before. I got to finish the episo. So I'm just circling back around to say this was an excellent episode. I think you guys gave a lot of realistic advice and I agree with everything that you guys said. And I think that the only thing I will add is that people should go into a marriage expecting their partner to change but core values and standards of that person will hopefully not change but evolve. They should not have like a total 180 on those kind of things, but I think people should all change to some extent. But you should be navigating life and the world TOGETHER and expecting hardship while trying everything in your power to avoid it or prepare for how to get through it. My husband and i have been battle tested in almost every facet (except infidelity- which i rebuke in the name of jesus lol).
LOL i am rebuking that with you sis! haha and yesss i completely agree about that as well!
Wow , guys this one was soooooo on point everything you talked about is correct and from experience I realized I didn’t do any of these and it turned out horribly . You guys are making a huge difference in my perspective . ❤
Glad we could help buddy 😊
It's so heartwarming to see your podcast growth!🥰👏🏽👏🏽
thank you so much!!
Great episode! I learnt a lot.
Glad it was helpful!
You guys are doing great with these podcast!!!
This was so good! Love seeing you both discussing these topics, especially with me being engaged and our wedding this August! 💕if you don’t mind me asking, did you and Jonathan do pre-marital counseling through your church or a private practice? My fiancé and I were planning to attend through our church, but were looking at other options as well.
That's so true, that's why God said in the Bible do not be unequaled yoked with unbelievers.
You got a good man Savanna🤗😂😩
a GOOD man lol thank you!
0:27 Jonathan was so have to say ‘we are the Wallaces’ ❤😊
i paused for the smallest second i was like should I take this opportunity to giggle or let it ride lolll he's a good one haha
You guys are so inspirational, I’m sixty two years old and I’ve never been married. I wish I had half the knowledge you guys displayed ❤❤❤❤❤❤
I’ve been looking at the best way to do our shared account now we’ve bought a house. Thanks for sharing, more food for thought for me
Glad we could help ☺️
Love you guys!!! I think that this episode is needed in today’s time. I took mental notes. Thanks guys 💕
thank you sis!!
Thank you for this podcast. Im much older than you both but learned so much. Bless yall!
This ep couldn't have come at a better time! Thanks for sharing ❤
here for y'all
heyyyy Jess, great to catch you at 1am in Namibia, come by sometime
Thanks for watching!
Great stuff, loved the episode❤❤Love u two❤❤
Thanks so much!!
Great points! Natural and enjoyable!
Great job Wallaces!!!👍🏾👏🏾❤
Great episode
I enjoy this this give me something to talk about with my partner before we decide to take that step
Great conversation!👍
So proud of you guys !!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Happy Monday 😊
Same to you!
I love this podcast sooo much 😩😩❤️
Jess ..No family/ siblings are perfect.. ❤
Of course not! Just saying that if there is negative tension between your partner and your family that it will affect y'all in some way. Not a reason not to get married though
Trying to understand, where do we draw the line of keep your issues between you, your husband and god? I feel like there is a very thin line when family gets involved… altogether, we keep family out of our relationship on both sides as much as possible. Also, unfortunately not everyone has the pleasure of being liked by their spouses parents for different reasons. I have a great relationship with my fiancé mom, my mom and my fiancé has a good enough relationship. Since me & her don’t always get along, he leans on the side of protecting me but also will let me know when I am wrong.. they can communicate even when I don’t talk to her.
i do think it's a personal opinion because some matters may be bigger to some than it is to others, but we do think that community is important and that its okay to lean on certain friends that you trust for wise council in certain situations (maybe those friends can be agreed on between partners) but yes most things should be kept between the spouses in our opinion. As far as spouses/parents not having the best relationship.. not everything we say here is a 100 percent a deal breaker its just things we believe people should be aware of before getting married so if it works well for you guys then thats great too!
Yes!!! Totally agree 👏👏👏
Have a joint account..... but keep separate ones in addition.
Jess you look beautiful I love the hairdo ❤
How do you combine money. Do both put your whole paycheck into one account. Or I s it just one together and the other two for each of you.
All the paychecks come into one account and we move stuff around from there :)
Oh goodness I'm driving. Ive got to get home quick. Luv u guys.❤
AHHHH YAYYY I WAS WAITING
Get content! I pray Gods blessings on you guys ❤
I don't usually make comments on the podcast but I felt called to say something. Jonathan and Jess are a very lovely couple in my opinion they don't seem ingenuine and I love the respect they have towards each other especially when one is expressing themselves and mostly I love that they LOVE Jesus. I felt in my spirit to tell Jonathan not to take heed to every word or reaction spoken about him negatively whether it be in the comments or ridiculous reaction videos. Marriage is so sacred and because you guys are now online with such a sacred and now rare thing there are going to be jealous people especially jealous men that can not compete with the respectful man that your husband is and that is what they will react to. Remember the Bible teaches us who can't stand before envy (Proverbs 27:4) I do hope that the comments on your channel always stay positive but I just seen another black, God centered, marriage podcast get ripped to shreds in their comment section from outsiders looking in and it just hurt my heart. Please y'all either filter your comment and revoke certain words from being used or don't read them at all. Take breaks when needed and most importantly stay prayed up genuinely HEED TO THE SPIRIT OF THE LORD ask him if you can or should post certain things because not everyone watching will be be here for the beautiful part of support but they are instead of their father the devil. That's all I wanted to say. Be strong and be courages and above all put on your armor to stand against the plots of the enemy.
Thanks for the word! We’ll take it to heart and thanks for caring 😊
@@BetweenTheWallsPod You're most welcome :) 🙏🏾
Love to listen to you both.
Love y'all ❤ my favorite couple
Gorgeous couple.
“Do better then😂😂😂”
Yayyy a new pod
Another great episode
Thank you!!
Didn't get a notification but I'm here😂😑
People ask me all the time how I know my boyfriend is the one, God confirmed through my mother and his parents
we love confirmationnn
Not the ' How much fun' 😂😂😂😂😂
im just tryna seeeee lol
Come on Jonathan with the Jems (gems) - you really do have to be careful how you present the narrative of your spouse to the outside world 🌍 others will develop a hate for your spouse based on your "venting" sessions.
Is it freaky or not 😂😂😂 idk why that took me out!
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I didn’t comment on the first video so this is me just saying I’m HERE 😅
lol hey heyyy!
So question: What can you say to someone if their dating partner was pretending (their attitude) during the dating stage and when they marry they change for the worst ?
Oof that’s a tough one, but we’ll definitely touch on that in the future
i feel like there isn't a simple response to this especially without knowing any details and/or both sides if im being an honest. You can send us an email to explain more if you'd like!
Can you send your email address?
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“surprise.” 😂😂😂
Will there be a discussion about why u haven't legally changed your name or if you ever will. I know for me there was a story lol. I didn’t change mine right away for several reasons.
lol I think she plans on it, she’s just being lazy 😂. Let’s hope she doesn’t see I said this -Jonathan
And taking turns in paying bills... idk if that's a thing 🤔
Amen
Yes, it is our money, but for me, you need 3 accounts, a joint, and 2 separate.....from experience, but do talk about it before
Mmm… marriage is only right for me if I marry my soulmate
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Great Sexpectations!!! Read Song of Songs in the Bible...
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He will get tired of being told what to do. He is still very young
when he gets tired of being told what to do then he'll just start doing it without having to be told lol
Nah you ate with that comment 😂😂😂
Omg hi guys
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Don't spend all that money on a pleather purse and making someone else wealthy who probably wouldn't even acknowledge or value you. You're the status not the object or purse.
*Fellas marriage summed up at the **0:10** second mark ㋡*
You win the funniest comment award 😂
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Do you feel like marriage is 50/50? Cause a lot of women feel like it shouldn’t be.. also what is your relationship with money like now that Jonathan is working? Just in general (If you don’t mind🫠)
i hate to be basic with this answer lol but marriage is 100/100 we're both giving everything we have, if you're talking about financially it still goes that way since we put all of our money in one bank account (we didn't touch on this in this episode but we do take out our personal spending "allowance" for the month and put it on our separate cash app cards) my relationship with money changed as soon as i said "i do" lol no longer just spending on whatever I wanted especially in the beginning when it was just me working and even know that he's working in his field we stick to the same budget that we implemented right after we got married. I hope that answers the question lol
@@BetweenTheWallsPod I love this answer, thanks. But wasn’t it kinda hard to switch the very moment you said “I do” or it’s more like evolving. I’m in a relationship and oh lord we already but heads about how I spend money 😂
This was so good. The last few minutes when Jonathan said don’t settle! 🥹🥹