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- An aspiring rapper and his fiancé seek to receive blessings on their union, despite her family's strong objections. But in the process, the bride begins to wonder if a forever commitment to a struggling artist is really in her best interest. (Original air date: February 29, 2020) Watch more Family or Fiancé on the WatchOWN app: bit.ly/watchow...
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He can work full-time and do the producing on the side!! Grown ups pay bills!!!!! Bills are full-time!!
This he’s using her
She's footing the bill for the nutty professor's rap dream
Why is she crying- the mother was right, she could of said no and stop trying to act like he forced himself on her.
This is exactly what I was going to comment. Everyone in her family is treating her like a victim. She could have said, NO!
Period!
Correct !
This girl dumb ssa hell. He’s paying 2 utilities. But they seem to deserve each other 😅 I’m so confused with the cheating drama. Did she dance with someone and then he started cheating? Did she manipulate him and not talk to him for 2 months or was she actually done with him and also accepted his proposal after the 2 months?
Exactly. She owned up to manipulating him into a proposal. If he has to sign a prenup he needs to create one as well. He may in time blow up and needs to PROTECT HIMSELF. A career proposal was just offered by Mogul.... If it goes somewhere I wanna see him with with someone that he can love him wholeheartedly and can think for herself. Every one deserves that
If his family believes so much in his dream, they should help them financially until he makes it
Come on now, right.
bingo!
Was that a real pre-nup, because he didn't even read it. LOL
They can't, they're broke too.
Yea… you can believe in a person but we shouldn’t be on the struggle bus because of you “following your dreams”. His family and friends are enablers and should be telling him to get a full time job and follow his dreams on the side, cuss if he really believes in himself he shouldn’t be sleeping to pursue those dreams
She's literally having an emotional reaction to the fact tht he can barely pull his weight & theyre gaslighting her to compromise tht for his dream. I'm sorry soon as u say I rap & produce baby I'm gone cuz ur grown af we have enough rappers & producers please. We need plumbers contractors and electricians.
Preach!!!!
😂
He needs a full time job and a part-time "rap" or "producer" hobby, IMO JS
I’m blue collar man myself, we handled business every day
Fr😂😭
His mama called it. SHE WAS RUSHING TOO! How can she not see that?
Sheri crying and saying Micah's mom was opinionated, yet her family presented him with a prenuptial agreement that her cowardly tail didn't tell him about. She never had to agree to marry him. She's very immature.
Where do folk get the nerve to brand you high maintenance when you're maintaining yourself and not their kin 😮
From the miserable mental slums they dwell in. Negativity seeping through each of their pores and personality.
He should have consult a lawyer first
Don’t sign nothing under pressure 🧐😒
He can have it removed because it was done under manipulation and pressure to keep his relationship with her lol
The same way he manipulated her into an engagement
Anything signed “under duress” is considered invalid anyway. So I don’t know what they thought they were doing, really.
He's not good enough for her. He's looking for a place to lay his head without having to pay bills. He's trifling. You can pursue your dreams and passion while still working. Thousands of entertainers wait tables, work at fast food restaurants and do whatever it takes to meet their responsibilities while pursuing their dreams. Stop dating down!
i don't get that at all but whatever
🤔 umm he got a job he pays bills too she looking n her family looking for him to take care of her in a relationship it's 50/50 my husband n I both takes care of each other not one doing it all
N if he wasn't good enough for her why she agreed to marry him hell why she even got with him n the beginning
It was a red flag when the family was surprised he even had a girlfriend. And also said he didn’t have good options before. It seems the dude was rushing.
@@MsQueenpoppenhe pays the LIGHT and CABLE bill. That’s giving more like 10%
I will never understand working part time for a dream I feel you can work full time and put alot of efforts into the dream after work during the weekends
@@rayannwashington7568 that’s fact,😂😂
9-5 work 6-9 dream 💯💯💯
She is a passive, weak-minded person with poor communication skills and an inability to say no and have tough conversations. She depends on others to do the hard things for her. Her saying she felt "pressured" is a reflection of her own inability to handle difficult situations, the pressure she feels is internal.
You nailed it!!!!!!
You worded this very well!
She cried without dropping a tear. When the questions at the table got real and wanted accountability from her, she bailed. She let her family do the dirty work when she knew she didn’t want to be in that relationship. Micah might not have the money but she has her fair share of red flags, also.
I agree 100%!! She was wrong to do the prenup behind his back, and allow her family to do the dirty work. His mother was absolutely right, and she fake cried to get out of taking accountability. Her family was skewering him the entire time, but as soon as his family addressed what she did wrong, she runs away. She’s very manipulative.
She’s a walking red flag from the start ,her family just made it more known
Absolutely! She played and betrayed everyone, whilst looking innocent. And that 2 month silent treatment to punish is giving narc vibes. She has huge RED FLAGS!
Spot on! Then leave it up to the ceremony for her to tell him and his family that she wants to put the engagement on pause. Like why wouldn't she tell that man at least at the last therapy session before they went out there? Stop blindsiding that man. She's very emotionally immature.
Micha is in trouble with this one. I feel sorry for him coz he will never be truly happy with his life as long as she is in it. She is an abusive person despite that innocent look.
I love the brothers voice ngl very calm and straight to the point
The energy I get from the groom's Mom is she is looking for someone to take care of him so that he doesn't live with HER. She has that "anybody but me" mentality.
I didn’t get that. She did say that Sherri needs to let Micah go and get his career together.. Sherri doesn’t wants to do that .
What? 😮
@@mox5ive271 exactly what I said, that's "what". She wanted her to ignore her family and take care of her son while he becomes a rapper.
BINGO, but she did tell her to wait to get married until he got his finances together.
@@ashleyskitchen7186 but she wants her to wait while he still living with HER. 😂😂
That's messed up how they ambushed him with that prenup. The bride was foul as well. They could have discussed this before coming on this retreat.
Go away
Exactly
Why are people so pressed about prenups?
That was not the families decision.. He shouldn't have signed it
@@dianapatterson449 It was their decision to present it to him.
When black people call each other boogie it annoys me so much. Just because the girls family is talking about wanting her to have a provider it isn’t wrong. And it isn’t wrong for them to say that. He bought her a ring and didn’t have much of a plan. His family was acting like he had it all together and it was wrong for her family to feel that way.
in my opinion a woman shouldn't have high expectations all the time that's why allot of marriages don't last like back in the day
He looks like he’s at least 40 and talking about being a rapper. He is providing nothing but comedy 😂😂
@@MsHall0000 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Tell me about it because he didn’t admit to him not having financially been able to provide. They have no business getting married he needs to give up those music dreams unless he’s able to fund it himself outside of her.
"Boogie" or "bougie", just asking for a friend? 😂😂 We all make typos 🎉
Delusional you can absolutely pursue your dreams AND work to pay your bills. There’s no reason for a grown person to be moving like that
Yeah like what was he doing prior to this relationship
Cherrie seems to just go with the flow tbh 😭😂 he proposes to her she accepts , her family does a prenup goes alomg w it , her bestfriend tells her how bad the relationship is she ends things ,he pursues his music so she just pays the bills without expressing her feelings lol
PSA: blue is actually preferred ink for legal docs as it makes it very easy to tell a "wet signature"/original from a photocopy
That’s what I said it’s blue ink lol
Wow his music sounds sooo different from his looks actually. 😂 I was expecting a different sound.
I miss this show! Bring it back, OWN!
Ikr I love dr. Tracy she's the best❤
Girl just admitted it. He doesn't pull his weight when it comes to the bills, and you don't want to take care of no grown man. If his dream is not bringing in any revenue, then he needs to reevaluate his decision. He needs income.
"Oh, we got a pen. Blue or black ink?" 😂😂😂 Omg, the one liners in this episode are hilarious. On a serious note, my good sis seems really eager to be engaged / married no matter the circumstances. 😬
I bet you if the tables were turned and his family put a prenup in her face, I bet you she wouldn't sign it.
So you don't think that 40 is too old to start a rap career? Why is everyone keep saying that 😂😂😂 favorite tp movie line.
I looooovve her brother. He whipped out the prenup one time 😂.
Babbbyyyy I'm trying to tell ya ❤😂😂😂
he did that so smooth I think he has to be a sales man 😆 And the sister having the Pen ready. I would run so fast if I was him lol
Not their business, though.I get the vibe that the girl is spoiled.
@@soundiva22 the girl has back up. That's how it is. The men only pays for the light bill and cable. Tomorrow if they divorce, he can ask money. It goes the other way, let's say he makes it as a producer, amazing. It's HIS money.
@@reviewranger4202 I understand the premise behind the pre-nuptial agreement. My gripe is that only SHE should be the one to present that ultimatum to her fiance, NOT her family. If they give the family this much control in their relationship, they would be doomed from the start anyway, cause once they get the power, ain't no telling what they might attempt.
Um she’s looking for a way out 😅 I would too !! He’s in la la land working part time talking about he pays cable 😂😂
His degree in IT can definitely provide the lifestyle and financial security the music aspiration may need to be secondary sacrifice long days and nights may be tough but it’s achievable
A lot of men cannot handle the mental stress that comes with a white collar job. They have all the smoke and mind games for women but can’t compete with men climbing that corporate ladder.
Dude could obtain a full time job as he pursue his music aspirations.
Two slow people who want to be together and get married. I say let them. 🤷🏾♂️ He is extremely talented though, for sure.
Yep he is i actually liked his music but in a world that doesn’t appreciate real rap or lyricist let’s see how far he’ll go
😂😂
How’s he planning to provide and have a wedding on a part time budget 🤔 boy bye
OK wait he can actually rap tho 😂🔥
Who’s checking for a new 40 year old rapper?
Micah has talent. His music is 100 times better than what I hear on the radio. I don't know if there is a market for it though....its too classy
Literally!!
Sounds like old school Northern rap. He actually sounds good!
He could do something but I agree that should be a secondary ambition.
His side of the family are encouraging her to financially carry them while he persue music. Girl RUN!!!!!! Yall not even on the same page. She wants kids so then she will have to support everyone. Does this music career have an end date ??
How is she high maintenance is she's paying the bills? And what is it with always pushing
Black Women to deal with
struggle love?
Exactly and even if she was bougie, she can do that. He’s delusional about becoming a rapper at his age. I’m just telling you.
Black women are funny 😂😂😂
This GIRL is nuts. She is absolutely childish. Why the hell would she not protect his feelings and tell him that she didn’t want to be with him in private?! That’s messed up.
Ahah true, but they’re in a show tho 😂😂 nothing private 🤪🤪🤪
I agree
“I don’t know what else I can do.” Sir you can get a full time job. His family talking about “he has a degree”… ok it seems like it’s purposely not being utilized.
She has very low self esteem. She can’t stand up for herself and she honestly doesn’t want to marry him she just didn’t know how to tell him no.
Her brothers faces were killing me the entire time😂
Hmm this is who Tyler Perry was telling Black women to settle for; a man that can literally only pay the light bill- SOMETIMES🙄
😅😂😅😅😅
😂😂😂😂 I'm dead
A shame
😂😂😂😂
😂😂 gurl I said that!
I'm glad Sherri spoke up to put their engagement on pause. It was the right thing and the mature thing to do. Micah needs to show that it is in him to get his plans and aspirations in proper order. He cant be a husband if he is already living off of his girlfriend. Ppl call Sherri bougie bc she expects her man to be able to financially support her??????? Other races of men have been taught thru the generations that taking care of your wife and children is being a man and is a badge of honor.
Micah is definitely talented.
But why is it ok for a woman to live off the boyfriend or husband. If she wants a prenup then even when he becomes a millionaire then things must remain the same
@@Matoaka365 yeah I get that and I saw the update. It's just that I feel it was unnecessary for everyone ganging up on him as if his plan was to depend on the girlfriend forever. You don't always have to meet someone and be with someone only when they have made it. Sometimes men also need a woman who will stick with them through thick n thin and it starts as a girlfriend.
How he living off her when he got a job n pay bills with out lights n electric they can't live there
@@annamarumo6007right that's what I said when he became big n they divorce things should stay the same
@@Matoaka365not all men n some women do the same thing
His music sounds good!!!! 🔥 The family better hope them tables don’t turn! Let’s see who gonna bring out papers to sign then! 🙄😝
The real question is, did he do the showcase and advance in his career?
My kind of delulu...
How TF can someone sign a prenup that they didn't read, that wasn't even explained to them?? And no lawyer present?? As much as my guy may not be ready to be married, I just can't stand by him being bullied like that.
She's is dancing with other men so he starts to flirt with other women. What foolishness is this?
😂😂😂😂😂😂
& if the wheels were turned and he had done that stop it 🤣
His music is actually good
What music producer signs a piece of paper without reading it first??? Just continue to date and mature financially.
His music is actually nice
The way they whipped out that prenup jeezus 😂😂😂😂😂 wow
🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩📣 Don't do it! This is literally the Tyler Perry dude from every other episode of Divorce Court. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾Yayyyy! Best final decision ever!
He did it while she was sleep.. PAY ATTENTION 😭
Right 😂 sleep on so many levels.. 🧐 smh
That's how my ex asked to move in with me I was half asleep talking about Yes! Smh I regretted it immediately 🤣
@@kdw1356 💯😭
@@kdw1356🥲🥲
@@kdw1356😂😂😂😂
Crazy how some black people think “struggle love” is okay 🙄 Her family wants her with a provider not a child, his family wants her to “stay down” until the come up 🤦🏽♀️
I been married 12 years we struggled the 1st 3 now we are business owners together and have made millions . Don't even go there about what we do as a people its BS because you have problems within your own heart and mind and background
@@lala0578 Congratulations for struggling, shout out to you for being a statistic and proving my point 🫶🏽
I don’t have problems in my own heart because I have standards and struggle love isn’t apart of it!! Obviously you have the problems because that’s what you settled for 😘 Be well on your journey Chile!
@@lala0578people who make millions don’t have time to scroll and read youtube comments lala. Also, congratulations on struggling when you didn’t have to i guess…
@@PureMonet I know this much my kids won't spend the rest of their lives paying back student loans doing TH-cam videos to get enough for some top ramen
@@lala0578Sweetie you are so too grown to be so ignorant ! You went on my channel and assumed I’m in student loan debt because ?!? 😭 My comment hit a nerve , I hate that for you 😢
Oh yea by the way since you THOUGHT you ate that! My intelligence paid off my college tuition 3x not a loan 😘 Let me teach your kids a thing or two about that subject… be well again chileee!
The brother of the bride and the groom look like brothers . 😐😐😐😐 😂😂😂😂
I thought that to
I thought that to
Here I am, binge watching ForF once again!! 😩
Screaming run once he said he's a wannabe rapper
To have a prenup and no money is crazy 😂😂😂
Sheri is crazy just like the 90s shoes she is wearing
How are you a mother and co-signing on your son being a part time worker and a full time mom- music producer.
Your mom is right, bro.I really like how your mother stands up.
Why do they coach all the guests to rave about the home? Im sure most of these people have visited a beautiful home before.
Even if his music may sound decent to some, and if a miracle happens and he goes viral and makes money, how long would it be before he cheated- with a preference? 😂what are the chances especially when he already "flirting" while broke😂😂whew chile.
Micah's cousin is a textbook hater 😭🤣🤣 I don't doubt for a minute he would jump at the chance to be with a woman who is considered bougie. He really got on my nerves
Not a rapper lawd 🤦🏾♀️
Music should be part time, if that's his passion ,however a 9 to 5 should be his full time. I'm not going to bed at night worrying about bills & he over there comfortable just snoring!
😂🤣🤣
I agree
He needs to leave her! She’s manipulative and goes behind his back a lot. The fact that she told her friend she was calling off the engagement without talking to him first was very distasteful. I hope he looks back on this and leave her.
That pre-nup stunt was a waste of time. That's not lasting in court LOL
Did he say he wanted to be a rapper?
People gotta stop with this Boujee versus ghetto bs.
Mommy was right, she was rushing too.
Edit: egg on my face. His music actually sounds good.. 👏🏿👍🏿
👍
Baaahahaha that's what I said 💀🤣😭🤷🏾♀️💗
Where can I hear his music from?
@@shukosworld5754 they play it in the episode.
Anthony spilled all the tea Chile
I would love a follow up to this relationship. She was shouldering all the household responsibility. He isn’t ready to be married
Why signing prenuptial agreements without a lawyer's review? Who does that in 2023?
His music is nice for sure but you can’t be a lazy artist … gotta make money to pay where you lay or sleep in yo car until you make it… he’d make it as a song writer for sure‼️💯
Soooo anyone else hear his music and was actually surprise? Also they both need to focus on themselves…individually!
yeaaa it was really good! lol i was shocked
So her family can be strongly opinionated but his can’t? I’m not understanding.
Exactly! I saw that, too!
That girl is desperate and gonna be screwed in the end.
His face when she said she’s going to hook him up with a producer so he can show her family his music 🤣🤣🤣🤣. These two act like they are still in school
Sorry to Say, I Don't Think It Will Last 😳
How does the woman betray her intended by chatting about a prenup with her fam and not the man. Then, give a fake apology whilst still trying to divert blame. What foolishness is this?
It seems like they both are manipulating each other. He says too much that he loves her. She abandons him knowing he need her and basically forced the proposal out of him.
Idc what y’all say.. her family is out of line and outta pocket… to present him with a prenuptial agreement is disrespectful and shadey asf.. that’s something me and my spouse should be discussing not y’all threatening me wit some low hanging fruit.. lucky they got him and not me
Ain't neither one of ya'll RICH....... lol
What was the point of the prenup? That won’t even hold. He could say he signed it under duress
The women was so quick blame Micah and or make him the bad guy and I agree with Mom if he was rushing then so was she!!
She is a manipulator...... she was flirting as was he but deflect everything it's brought up she wanted the proposal and manipulated him into doing so. Then the prenuptial agreement...... she sent him in knowing that this was going to happen and say "well it was a trust thing" but bet if he blew up and presented her with one she's cry that he doent trust her smh
Gurlllll, you should have enjoyed that trip. Cause thats the ONLY one you getting outta him😅
His music is littt
You didn't even read it BRUH! 🤦🏾
His mom was not explosive. She held up a mirror and made them look into it.
I just wanted him to brush his hair this whole episode. He has no personality. Her wig is whispy, she also has no personality. I don't see thos working.
sooo her family can give him an insulting prenup, but his mother can't be REAL with her about her also rushing into this thing with him? And the fake tears?? girl bye! 😂
They hit him with the pre. That’s out of line. That’s between him and her but to each is own
He's not about to be anybody's rapper be serious.
So hold up...she is the bread winner? Whats the problem? Many situations, the man is the bread winner. My issue is that she doesnt want to be the bread winner and doesnt know how to tell him..just wow!!!
Please Sherri Don’t Do It Darling
Listen To Your Family. Why He Keeps Saying Because I Love Her 🧐
F*** everything else his music is GOOD ❤
I love Micah's music!!!
😂😂😂😂
Sheri wants to stay with him even if the engagement is on hold, just in case he makes it extremely big, she can ball with him too. But prenup is signed. Do not let these turn on her. LOL
"aint like none of yall rich" lmfaoooo
Ummmm you can still follow your passions with a full time job
Is anyone in the comments going to address the elephant in the room. Being "lazy" is the least of her worries. She needs to make sure he is being truthful with himself and her.
Anytime a man prorpose 5 months in- tell him to give you more time
If he stays - he's in it to win it.
This man proposed working part time and want to be a rapper.
That won't support the relationship financially or feed healthy emotions that are needed. We all know what comes with the rapper's lifestyle.
Usually rappers in the "making" get with a woman who can finance their studio time and lifestyle.
Oh no- this man moved in with her? Absolutely not.