You guys are wise beyond your years. Here I am a whole 42 years old and married for 18 years and I still can learn from yall. I love listening to you all , many blessings to you too.❤
I get what Jonathan was trying to get at with the question about vows...what constitutes as a marital vow and how to differentiate it from mere confession of love speech. A vow is what will hold you guys down when it gets rough, it determines the trajectory of your lives together in great depth. Did i articulate that better?😂
I am so grateful for this podcast. My fiancé and I were dating 3 years and recently got engaged. Once we got engaged things were changing for him. I always knew I wanted to be his wife but I knew deep down he wasn’t sure and I believe he was scared to admit it. I just love him so much I had to let him go to figure what he really wants. Because we were hurting one another and things got pretty bad. We had a big fight and just caused us to separate. We last spoke couple of days ago and I apologized and was crying to him I wish I knew what else I can do for him.. God told me to let go. I was so scared but i had to stand in faith and obedience. I told my fiancé we need to separate and let the Lord work in us both if this is the right step and if we need to continue. I don’t want him to walk into something that he isn’t sure about. I do love this man but if there needs to be work done then let go and let God do what He needs to do. If we’re meant to walk in marriage then the Lord will reunite us. But I’m happy I took the step of faith. I hope this gives someone hope. God never fails us. Whatever happens, I’m going to be okay (:
A lot of people don’t get to know each other before marriage, they also don’t truly communicate their wants, their needs or their boundaries. Counseling is also very important. I am very happy for you both. Congratulations on your 2nd anniversary and praying for many more blessed and fruitful years…❤❤❤
Wow...my guy left me some years ago. As he was breaking up with me, (Feb. 14 th)he cried. Said he couldn't do the love thing. 6 months later he got married to someone else! Which didn't last long. I wrote in my bible and prayed to God, to send me someone he created for me. That would love me in the same space of time I loved him. Then to and him to me...this was maybe 2015. He came back to me 2 years ago, apologized for his behavior. Told me how childishly he felt he handled things. Has been working since or be a better man to me, buy us a house and we will be getting married within the next 2 years! ❤🎉😂. I just love your love story...keep doing what your doing. As long as you keep God first and everyone else last, your marriage will be blessed!❤❤
Aww both of your vows were so good! I loved Jess’s part about the circle and Johnathan’s part about helping u become the woman that god has u to be and even when he clarified that not making u be what he wants because it may not align with what God has. This was great I love this podcast man🥹❤️
I didn't want to get married just because I felt like it's not worth it getting a divorce after. But recently I can't wait to get married and write my vows and express my love🔥🙌
Jess I'm literally in the same boat you were in & it's like God told me but hasn't told him 😭 and he keeps telling me that this season has to take place because I'm not going to give you anything broken and it's such a weird situation to be in 😭 I already made the foolish mistake of telling him but hey the Lord will work out the details 😂🙏🏽
So i was blessed by this podcast n a completely different way than expected. Lately, i have been feeling very depressed, lonely, abandoned and uncared for. I have been feeling like i have no one to run to and like i don't want to burden my friends with the same things over n over. But you both helped me realize this is when I'm supposed to run to the Lord! Thank yall so much for sharing!
Glad we could help you! One of the names of God used in the Bible is El Roi, meaning the God who sees me. Just want you to know when you feel alone, that God sees you and that you could never be alone.
I love what Jess said. I was with someone for years and I just never felt sure about him or the relationship and always felt like something just didn’t feel right and I just thought… God isn’t a God of confusion so if things are not clear it’s best to take a step back and reevaluate things
I really love you guys relationship/ marriage. I can tell that the Lord had blessed you guys marriage. Johnathan is so wise before his time l. It’s so refreshing to see a man that’s being lead by the Lord
You may not experience anything necessarily that may make your relationship hard. I watch a couple that’s been together 10years and they claim to not have experienced that “Marriage is Hard” feeling. The two are very self aware, selfless and the communication displayed is on point. So don’t expect to experience hardship especially if you guys are conquering them together
Yep, you get the answer when your willing to let go of what you want so much. That meant you could not idolize her. God became your God for real Jonathan.
That not ugly! I told my husband 2weeks after i met him im going to marry him! I know the Lord spelled it out... I even said i loved him. He looked at me and explained that i loved the way he made me feel... Fast forward weve been together 11 years married for 7!! When the Lord speaks he speaks.
Lol it's so funny bc Jess I have been subscribed to you since your first big chop so I've heard the "How did you know" discussions and you and Jonathan's story as many times as you've chosen to discuss it. I say all this to say, I will gladly sit and listen to it as if it is the first time! I'm a sucker for a love story😭😭
They also say the 7th year is hard but I don't know the truth about that because I was divorced 3 days prior to year 7. And I was happy about it and I told my attorney to make sure it was done before that day. I look back on it and realized that I was acting out of a place of hurt.
Not done with the episode yet but man, I struggle with the idea of there not being a “the one”. I’ve noticed a lot of Christians saying that now and idk how I feel about it. Not saying that anyone’s viewpoint is bad/wrong! I lean both ways in a sense. I feel like you can pray for God’s perfect will for any aspect of your life, so why not a spouse? When He created you, He saw all your days so why not believe for that person he knows I’m going to end up with? But at the same time I’m going through a situation right now (not a relationship thing, just a general life situation) where I do kind of agree with y’all’s POV, which is that there are better and worse choices, and if God is pleased with that choice, He’ll allow it and bless it. Al in all, I love that you guys give us (your viewers) something to think about. Y’all are killing this podcast thing
Thanks for sharing! That perspective makes sense too but I believe when you stay close to God and listen to him, you can’t step wrong in your decisions
So beautiful i love a couple who always put God first. His vowels where so touching. Hers is beautiful also. Love to see black God fearing couple what a blessing may God continue to bless your marriage forever
I think the first 2years you’re learning each other remember that word LEARNING. Even if you’re together for 5years and not live together then if you look at it when you are married and living together you will realize that there’s a lot you don’t know about each other.
oh for sure I never thought we were done learning, we will constantly be changing through different seasons in our life so we know there will always be things to learn or re learn about each other as we grow in love
Hey guys! Don’t feel bad about not having a lot of trouble in the first years of marriage. It is definitely what you make and keeping God first makes the process easier! Love you guys and love what y’all are doing for the kingdom
Johnathan is a good man he is so understanding and accepting of you and who u truly are and that’s what everyone prays and wishes for I love this for you Jess!
I love Jonathan's comment a good bank account to withdraw from to get through the hard times. Such good conversations guys. Gets better each time. Congrats Wallaces!! You guys are doing such a great job!!
Jonathan is definitely encouraging. That comes through profoundly in these vlogs. I love the way that he is aware and willing to introspect. Is refreshing to see a black man having these qualities. You both are each other’s cheerleaders and I love it. #TeamWallace.
I feel you Jonathan, Jess, you wrote those vows when you were in a particular space in your life now you are in another; so today, with your evolution within the past two years, what would your vows be today if you were to rewrite them? Almost like renewing your vows if you were to do it again today, is how I interpreted Jonathan’s question. It seems like you are still content with them. I don’t think Jonathan was saying they were not enough; I remember feeling all mushy when you read them in your wedding video. You put your best foot forward in those vows gurl. I appreciate humor. It fit your happy-love-laughing self. Hmmm...That is an idea, renewing your vows every number of years as you evolve in your relationship to make it current and to stay above marital challenges. Anyone who follow your channel know for the most part how your speech connect with the whole story. You both are so authentic.
It is interesting you mentioned people saying that they have your address, because literally a few days ago I was thinking of saying to you two, mostly Jess, on her Channel to avoid from announcing when you two will be away from home. Go on your vacation/trip and then come back and share pictures. Please, never share date/time/location on any social media, and with certain people. Please keep information private of when you will be away from home or where you will be traveling to and from. Their should only be a handful of people, those who love and care for you, your safety and well being that are privy to this information. I want the Wallace’s to stay safe out here in these streets and beyond. Much love to you both; stay safe. #TeamWallace #TeamHardWalls.
But I have come to realize that the first 7 years is the hardest because of what you’ve said; not doing the preliminary work. Most people go into marriage with dishonesty, pretending to be someone they are not, accepting certain things because they want the ring... etc after getting the ring they cut loose; their true self comes out. That is why a lot of people shy away from marriage. People str8 up be concealing the truth in May aspects.
Love your story personality and how you two work well together, even in the difficult times. Keep being yourselves and growing into the inspirations of love Gods way that you R., with all the joy that comes with her. Another great episode.
I don't think you guys even understand what you're doing!! There were so many gems and life lessons coming out in this episode. Thank you so much for sharing so transparently and I can guarantee you are helping so many relationships. Also as a single this was a great reminder that I don't need to go outside God's will and do what I think is best for me but instead wait on His time💕 God bless you both!!!
Woo so sooo good! Not only am I so thankful for both of you but also the wisdom God has given you both that you decide to share with us. The gems that Jonathan dropped about being unable to love your partner fully because you don’t love yourself or are not confident in yourself is 👌🏿. Soo enlightening. Definitely love the different POV of the Bible verse to love your neighbor as yourself. Thank you for sharing
Wow! This video has honestly helped me soooo much. Yall have no idea! I have been really struggling with the concept if I heard God correctly, and this brought some clarity to my life
Jonathan you went to The Mount ( that trip you took to The Smokey Mts alone) to seek God and came back at peace!❤Jess I give you kudos for having the patience of Job to allow Jonathan time he needed to convene with the Holy Spirit. You had faith, even though you may not have known that at that time! I am so proud of you both. You are the example I frequently give to my 3 daughters, your age, who are going thru their own relationship journeys. TY for being the tool, that as a parent I need, to better advise my children.❤I share these podcasts with them and will continue to do so!
Jonathan you went to The Mount ( that trip you took alone) and came back at peace!❤Jess I give you kudos for having the patience of Job to allow Jonathan time he needed to convene with the Holy Spirit. You had faith, even though you may not have known that at that time! I am so proud of you both. You are the example I frequently give to my 3 daughters, your age, who are going thru their own journeys. TY for being the tool that as a parent I need, to better advise my children.❤
Listen I’m not religious but I absolutely love you guys and your story 💜 so for that I will say keep GOD first, because clearly he is working for/in you guys. Been rocking with Jess for a long time & not going nowhere lol!
Your writing is good Jess. Those were beautiful vows. Your writing is profound. I have picked up on some maturity with you. Unsure where because I am not part of your everyday; but it’s definitely coming through. Keep working on your best self, I do the same continuously; we all should.
I’m so glad I chose to watch this. You all’s testimony is so helpful to others going through or feeling similar ways. Thank y’all for being transparent ❤️🩹❤️
I was reaching for my phone when your husband said you need to slow down slow down sweetheart and let your baby catch up with you all down. If you slow down your baby will catch up with you remember what your husband said slow down I love y’all both and looking forward for the third.
The first two years are actually still the honeymoon years. And my opinion, and I’ve been married for 30 years, years seven through 10 or the hardest years.children, aging parents, sometimes career changes and all of those can cause financial changes.
I really like the understanding you both have! I learned something from each episode, keep up the great work. You all inspire me so much. Happy anniversary to you both showing love all the way from trinidad 🇹🇹
22:08 more like don't get married if you can't stay in bad times, because they will for sure come! And no cheating is notttt a bad time. Cheating is a strong reason for divorce idc😌😌
It has been In Between The Har-(d) Walls. Now it’s between the Walls. Haha. Actually I have heard the first 7 years are the hardest, like starting a business.
I find it ironic that God showed Jonathan another knowing that that man was not the one. That encounter was for Jonathan even though he didn’t know it. I’d love to know what conversations they had. 😂
I agree that Jonathan should be in charge of the finances. No shade. He has more control, practical, and disciplined. That’s his strength, and if you want an easier marriage as it relates to finances, Please allow Jonathan’s strength in financial management take the lead. Jess, you react more on emotions and that is a dangerous combination for long term financial goals. Having children, requires a healthy sized bag 💼. Just what I have observed so far. #TeamHardWalls 😂 #TeamWallace I for one will never drop my last name. I may add or hyphenate; depending on how he feels about it and how much I like him. It seems you finally did what you thought was best for you, congrats.
When i thought i finally found the one to get Married. He is not the one. But we are still friends as if we cant live without each other. -Parents dont approve He suffer from diabetis He dont have a steady job He is 14 years older then me Was married Not so intelligent I did broke up with him but still hanging around. He trying his best to win me back. Buying stuff for me ect. I am afraid that he suffer. I feel i should protect him...knowing that he live alone...ect. this is a very complicated situation. What should i do? About pregnancy i got pregnant out of wedlock...that goes easy. Why when all is well (legal) you get married it dont happen as you wish. I guess again Gods timing is the best. Trust in God and he will guide you.
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Before, y'all were Between the Halls 😂😂😂
dang im mad i aint think of that myself lollll
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POV: Jonathan reading his vows
Me: BARS 📢
Loved it too👏👏
Jess: *after 2 weeks* “why isn’t he calling me anymore..”
Jonathan: 🗣️THIRSTY!! 😂😂
lol big thirst energy 😂
😂😂 Both of y’all looking at the camera at the same time: “Please don’t pull up” 😆
lol we're like JK JK JK hahah
😂😂😂
The part about the gym consistently in a row “Oh in a row???…no I didn’t do that sorry”
That had me CACKLING! 😂😂
he wasn't specific enough lol
You guys are wise beyond your years. Here I am a whole 42 years old and married for 18 years and I still can learn from yall. I love listening to you all , many blessings to you too.❤
Thank you for listening to us :)
Yes cuz I’m 43, tomorrow is my 26th wedding anniversary and I definitely watch and try to learn from them. 🥹
ABSOLUTELY!!! This 57 year old never married mother of a soon to be 34 yr old... Learns so much from these two babies. God Bless you guys!
I get what Jonathan was trying to get at with the question about vows...what constitutes as a marital vow and how to differentiate it from mere confession of love speech. A vow is what will hold you guys down when it gets rough, it determines the trajectory of your lives together in great depth.
Did i articulate that better?😂
lol wayyy better than I did 😂
Ya'll got me to speaking and tounges🙏🏽 when you said " If there is one specifically that God has for you, he will protect that one for you."
And he will!
I am so grateful for this podcast. My fiancé and I were dating 3 years and recently got engaged. Once we got engaged things were changing for him. I always knew I wanted to be his wife but I knew deep down he wasn’t sure and I believe he was scared to admit it. I just love him so much I had to let him go to figure what he really wants. Because we were hurting one another and things got pretty bad. We had a big fight and just caused us to separate. We last spoke couple of days ago and I apologized and was crying to him I wish I knew what else I can do for him.. God told me to let go. I was so scared but i had to stand in faith and obedience. I told my fiancé we need to separate and let the Lord work in us both if this is the right step and if we need to continue. I don’t want him to walk into something that he isn’t sure about. I do love this man but if there needs to be work done then let go and let God do what He needs to do. If we’re meant to walk in marriage then the Lord will reunite us. But I’m happy I took the step of faith. I hope this gives someone hope. God never fails us. Whatever happens, I’m going to be okay (:
Jonathan is so wise
extremely, thats why I married him lol
A lot of people don’t get to know each other before marriage, they also don’t truly communicate their wants, their needs or their boundaries. Counseling is also very important. I am very happy for you both. Congratulations on your 2nd anniversary and praying for many more blessed and fruitful years…❤❤❤
thank you so much
Wow...my guy left me some years ago. As he was breaking up with me, (Feb. 14 th)he cried. Said he couldn't do the love thing. 6 months later he got married to someone else! Which didn't last long. I wrote in my bible and prayed to God, to send me someone he created for me. That would love me in the same space of time I loved him. Then to and him to me...this was maybe 2015. He came back to me 2 years ago, apologized for his behavior. Told me how childishly he felt he handled things. Has been working since or be a better man to me, buy us a house and we will be getting married within the next 2 years! ❤🎉😂. I just love your love story...keep doing what your doing. As long as you keep God first and everyone else last, your marriage will be blessed!❤❤
9 I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.”
@@ModelingTabiSAY THAT!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Aww both of your vows were so good! I loved Jess’s part about the circle and Johnathan’s part about helping u become the woman that god has u to be and even when he clarified that not making u be what he wants because it may not align with what God has. This was great I love this podcast man🥹❤️
We appreciate you :)
I was literally just complaining that I nothing to watch🙌🏽God is gooooddd
we're here for y'all lol
That part 👏🏿😂
I didn't want to get married just because I felt like it's not worth it getting a divorce after. But recently I can't wait to get married and write my vows and express my love🔥🙌
That’s awesome! I hope it happens for you!
Jess I'm literally in the same boat you were in & it's like God told me but hasn't told him 😭 and he keeps telling me that this season has to take place because I'm not going to give you anything broken and it's such a weird situation to be in 😭 I already made the foolish mistake of telling him but hey the Lord will work out the details 😂🙏🏽
God over the details! Believing with you :)
So i was blessed by this podcast n a completely different way than expected. Lately, i have been feeling very depressed, lonely, abandoned and uncared for. I have been feeling like i have no one to run to and like i don't want to burden my friends with the same things over n over. But you both helped me realize this is when I'm supposed to run to the Lord! Thank yall so much for sharing!
Glad we could help you! One of the names of God used in the Bible is El Roi, meaning the God who sees me. Just want you to know when you feel alone, that God sees you and that you could never be alone.
God has no shortage of good things…that was good Jonathan. 🙌🏾
Thank you :)
I truly love u both as a couple, and I am learning so much for my marriage from you both.
Our pleasure!
That arranged marriage example was so good!!!
Vows ate and left no crumbs💅🏾 BUT I actually do worry all the time about if my partner is the one. Thank you for sharing y’all’s story!
If you don’t have the peace that comes from God, best idea is to look deeper into why. Hope that helps.
I love what Jess said. I was with someone for years and I just never felt sure about him or the relationship and always felt like something just didn’t feel right and I just thought… God isn’t a God of confusion so if things are not clear it’s best to take a step back and reevaluate things
So nobody caught Jonathan's, "thirsty ahhhhssss" 55:58 hollering 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 The shade 😂😂😂
Jonathan mean y'all gon see one day lolll
Was looking for someone else to have noticed this cause I screamed 😂🤣😂🥲
I really love you guys relationship/ marriage. I can tell that the Lord had blessed you guys marriage. Johnathan is so wise before his time l. It’s so refreshing to see a man that’s being lead by the Lord
Thank you so much!!
KEEP EM COMING 😊 I DID A CHUCKLE WHEN I SAW THE THUMBNAIL 😆😆 lol the excitement
Thank you!!
❤❤❤😊😊 that sounds exactly like me and my boo finishing eachothers thoughts and sentences 😂😅
lol its getting scary haha
@@BetweenTheWallsPod lol yeah it be so scary and weird sometimes 😂 I love it🫶🏿💯😊
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You may not experience anything necessarily that may make your relationship hard. I watch a couple that’s been together 10years and they claim to not have experienced that “Marriage is Hard” feeling. The two are very self aware, selfless and the communication displayed is on point. So don’t expect to experience hardship especially if you guys are conquering them together
i love this!!! You get so used to hearing "Just Wait" from other people that it makes you expect it at any moment. Thank you for this reminder.
Jess… I remember the rollercoaster time you shared on your Utube channel. I’m so glad you waited on the Lord. He renewed your strength.
Hour long podcast? Gee Willikers!! grabbing my popcorn 🤓🍿
lolllll hey cousinnnn
I'm learning so much from you two 💯💯
Thanks for watching!
Yep, you get the answer when your willing to let go of what you want so much. That meant you could not idolize her. God became your God for real Jonathan.
That’s good!!
That not ugly! I told my husband 2weeks after i met him im going to marry him! I know the Lord spelled it out... I even said i loved him. He looked at me and explained that i loved the way he made me feel... Fast forward weve been together 11 years married for 7!! When the Lord speaks he speaks.
yea but sometimes when God tells you something its just for you until its time. but im glad it worked out for ya =)
@@BetweenTheWallsPod I do agree. That has been the biggest lesson this season. Moving in silence is sometimes hard!
Wow! You told him you loved him first? How did that go?
@@BelovedbyHim he tried to convince me that I love him but I wasn't in love with him. But he learned that day! 😂🤣
@@tienna-lynnnorman alright now! I see! Well praise the Lord for greater that is coming your way!!!🙌🏾
The way you looked at him while he was reading his vows🥲
The Timing couldn’t have been better, another banger 💣
Thank you 😊
He's so emotionally intelligent and mature. Jess you got a winner!👍🏾🤩
Lol it's so funny bc Jess I have been subscribed to you since your first big chop so I've heard the "How did you know" discussions and you and Jonathan's story as many times as you've chosen to discuss it. I say all this to say, I will gladly sit and listen to it as if it is the first time! I'm a sucker for a love story😭😭
Thanks for listening again!
Love the transparency 👌🏾
Thank you!!
They also say the 7th year is hard but I don't know the truth about that because I was divorced 3 days prior to year 7. And I was happy about it and I told my attorney to make sure it was done before that day. I look back on it and realized that I was acting out of a place of hurt.
Love the one hour plus ❤
thank youu! finally didnt have a time crunch so we were chopping it up lol
Not done with the episode yet but man, I struggle with the idea of there not being a “the one”. I’ve noticed a lot
of Christians saying that now and idk how I feel about it. Not saying that anyone’s viewpoint is bad/wrong! I lean both ways in a sense. I feel like you can pray for God’s perfect will for any aspect of your life, so why not a spouse? When He created you, He saw all your days so why not believe for that person he knows I’m going to end up with? But at the same time I’m going through a situation right now (not a relationship thing, just a general life situation) where I do kind of agree with y’all’s POV, which is that there are better and worse choices, and if God is pleased with that choice, He’ll allow it and bless it.
Al in all, I love that you guys give us (your viewers) something to think about. Y’all are killing this podcast thing
Thanks for sharing! That perspective makes sense too but I believe when you stay close to God and listen to him, you can’t step wrong in your decisions
Jonathan's vows confirmed he was more than ready. 🙏🏾❤🙏🏾
Omg this was for me!!!! You two are so wise and I took a lot of mental notes ❤️. I cannot wait to see what God does in your lives.
So beautiful i love a couple who always put God first. His vowels where so touching. Hers is beautiful also. Love to see black God fearing couple what a blessing may God continue to bless your marriage forever
My YT Niecey and Nephew got us in Marriage Ministry. ❤ this. 51 and married for 20 yrs. Still learning and growing each day. Enjoy the journey!
20 years! absolutely amazing!
yesss!!! lemme go get a snack to watch🎉 btw HAPPY ANNIVERSARY
thank youuuuu
I think the first 2years you’re learning each other remember that word LEARNING. Even if you’re together for 5years and not live together then if you look at it when you are married and living together you will realize that there’s a lot you don’t know about each other.
oh for sure I never thought we were done learning, we will constantly be changing through different seasons in our life so we know there will always be things to learn or re learn about each other as we grow in love
Hey guys! Don’t feel bad about not having a lot of trouble in the first years of marriage. It is definitely what you make and keeping God first makes the process easier! Love you guys and love what y’all are doing for the kingdom
Ooooo that abundant overflow 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Johnathan is a good man he is so understanding and accepting of you and who u truly are and that’s what everyone prays and wishes for I love this for you Jess!
I love Jonathan's comment a good bank account to withdraw from to get through the hard times. Such good conversations guys. Gets better each time. Congrats Wallaces!! You guys are doing such a great job!!
Congratulations on the name change 🎉🎉🎉
thank youuu!!
Jonathan is definitely encouraging. That comes through profoundly in these vlogs. I love the way that he is aware and willing to introspect. Is refreshing to see a black man having these qualities. You both are each other’s cheerleaders and I love it. #TeamWallace.
I feel you Jonathan, Jess, you wrote those vows when you were in a particular space in your life now you are in another; so today, with your evolution within the past two years, what would your vows be today if you were to rewrite them? Almost like renewing your vows if you were to do it again today, is how I interpreted Jonathan’s question. It seems like you are still content with them. I don’t think Jonathan was saying they were not enough; I remember feeling all mushy when you read them in your wedding video. You put your best foot forward in those vows gurl. I appreciate humor. It fit your happy-love-laughing self.
Hmmm...That is an idea, renewing your vows every number of years as you evolve in your relationship to make it current and to stay above marital challenges.
Anyone who follow your channel know for the most part how your speech connect with the whole story. You both are so authentic.
I absolutely love this podcast, it's literally one of my favourites. You guys have so much wisdom. Happy Anniversary!
Wow, thank you!
It is interesting you mentioned people saying that they have your address, because literally a few days ago I was thinking of saying to you two, mostly Jess, on her Channel to avoid from announcing when you two will be away from home. Go on your vacation/trip and then come back and share pictures. Please, never share date/time/location on any social media, and with certain people. Please keep information private of when you will be away from home or where you will be traveling to and from. Their should only be a handful of people, those who love and care for you, your safety and well being that are privy to this information. I want the Wallace’s to stay safe out here in these streets and beyond. Much love to you both; stay safe. #TeamWallace #TeamHardWalls.
But I have come to realize that the first 7 years is the hardest because of what you’ve said; not doing the preliminary work. Most people go into marriage with dishonesty, pretending to be someone they are not, accepting certain things because they want the ring... etc after getting the ring they cut loose; their true self comes out. That is why a lot of people shy away from marriage. People str8 up be concealing the truth in May aspects.
Happy 2nd anniversary to the Wallaces!!🍾🥳💕 Wishing you many many more years of God's blessings, purpose, unity, laughter and bliss❤❤
Im so glad I have a great meal for this! Love you guys!
love y'all!!
Great recap of your vows. Nice summary of what was obviously meant to be. Such a relatable story for me❤
Glad you enjoyed it!
Love your story personality and how you two work well together, even in the difficult times. Keep being yourselves and growing into the inspirations of love Gods way that you R., with all the joy that comes with her. Another great episode.
Thank you :)
Cheers to number 2...congrats guys ❤
Thank you!!
@@BetweenTheWallsPod You're most welcome
My YT cousins, I really enjoy your podcast ❤ you both love each so much. Thank you for continuing to share your life and journey, God bless you!
I really enjoyed this conversation. You are both blessed to have each other
I don't think you guys even understand what you're doing!! There were so many gems and life lessons coming out in this episode. Thank you so much for sharing so transparently and I can guarantee you are helping so many relationships. Also as a single this was a great reminder that I don't need to go outside God's will and do what I think is best for me but instead wait on His time💕 God bless you both!!!
Woo so sooo good! Not only am I so thankful for both of you but also the wisdom God has given you both that you decide to share with us. The gems that Jonathan dropped about being unable to love your partner fully because you don’t love yourself or are not confident in yourself is 👌🏿. Soo enlightening. Definitely love the different POV of the Bible verse to love your neighbor as yourself. Thank you for sharing
Wow! This video has honestly helped me soooo much. Yall have no idea! I have been really struggling with the concept if I heard God correctly, and this brought some clarity to my life
love it!! whatever the situatin is just know that you got this
Also i wouldn't b opposed to a Bible study segment here on this channel!
Jonathan, thank you for the book recommendation. You are so mature in your walk.
"Shout out to Taylor" took me O U T.. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
Jonathan you went to The Mount ( that trip you took to The Smokey Mts alone) to seek God and came back at peace!❤Jess I give you kudos for having the patience of Job to allow Jonathan time he needed to convene with the Holy Spirit. You had faith, even though you may not have known that at that time! I am so proud of you both. You are the example I frequently give to my 3 daughters, your age, who are going thru their own relationship journeys. TY for being the tool, that as a parent I need, to better advise my children.❤I share these podcasts with them and will continue to do so!
this means so much thank you!!!
Jonathan you went to The Mount ( that trip you took alone) and came back at peace!❤Jess I give you kudos for having the patience of Job to allow Jonathan time he needed to convene with the Holy Spirit. You had faith, even though you may not have known that at that time! I am so proud of you both. You are the example I frequently give to my 3 daughters, your age, who are going thru their own journeys. TY for being the tool that as a parent I need, to better advise my children.❤
55:56 😂😂😂😂😂 I love it! I love the openness and honesty!
Listen I’m not religious but I absolutely love you guys and your story 💜 so for that I will say keep GOD first, because clearly he is working for/in you guys. Been rocking with Jess for a long time & not going nowhere lol!
This means so much, thank you!!
Thank you guys so much. Just watching this brought some peace. You may never know how much but I have been needing all your episodes. ❤❤
Glad God is using us :)
Y'all so amazing love it God bless 💓
thank you so much!!
Your writing is good Jess. Those were beautiful vows. Your writing is profound. I have picked up on some maturity with you. Unsure where because I am not part of your everyday; but it’s definitely coming through. Keep working on your best self, I do the same continuously; we all should.
I’m so glad I chose to watch this. You all’s testimony is so helpful to others going through or feeling similar ways. Thank y’all for being transparent ❤️🩹❤️
Glad it was helpful! 😊
I love these podcasts. So refreshing and real. Thank you ❤❤❤
thank you!!
I was reaching for my phone when your husband said you need to slow down slow down sweetheart and let your baby catch up with you all down. If you slow down your baby will catch up with you remember what your husband said slow down I love y’all both and looking forward for the third.
The first two years are actually still the honeymoon years. And my opinion, and I’ve been married for 30 years, years seven through 10 or the hardest years.children, aging parents, sometimes career changes and all of those can cause financial changes.
I really like the understanding you both have! I learned something from each episode, keep up the great work. You all inspire me so much. Happy anniversary to you both showing love all the way from trinidad 🇹🇹
Let’s go West Indies!!!
Yea ima have to use some of Jonathan vows 😭
he's so good!!
22:08 more like don't get married if you can't stay in bad times, because they will for sure come! And no cheating is notttt a bad time. Cheating is a strong reason for divorce idc😌😌
This!
Good day Jonathon & Jess❤❤
hey sis!
Got carried away and forgot to leave a comment
Really love your conversation❤. I also love watching your vlogs and pod cast.
Thank you so much 😊
Amazing Pod guys. May God continue to bless your beautiful marriage ❤️
Thank you so much!!
It has been In Between The Har-(d) Walls. Now it’s between the Walls. Haha.
Actually I have heard the first 7 years are the hardest, like starting a business.
I truly enjoyed this episode and saved it to share in the future, if need be, with my daughters!!❤❤❤❤
Wow wow wow!!!!!!!!
This blessed me so much!!!!!
Thank you!
Gal your husband is so matured you would think he is the older 1
I could listen to your love story 100 times😂
I find it ironic that God showed Jonathan another knowing that that man was not the one. That encounter was for Jonathan even though he didn’t know it. I’d love to know what conversations they had. 😂
I'm in peace after watching this video
I agree that Jonathan should be in charge of the finances. No shade. He has more control, practical, and disciplined. That’s his strength, and if you want an easier marriage as it relates to finances, Please allow Jonathan’s strength in financial management take the lead. Jess, you react more on emotions and that is a dangerous combination for long term financial goals. Having children, requires a healthy sized bag 💼. Just what I have observed so far. #TeamHardWalls 😂 #TeamWallace
I for one will never drop my last name. I may add or hyphenate; depending on how he feels about it and how much I like him. It seems you finally did what you thought was best for you, congrats.
Love your show ❤
thank youuu!
When i thought i finally found the one to get Married. He is not the one. But we are still friends as if we cant live without each other.
-Parents dont approve
He suffer from diabetis
He dont have a steady job
He is 14 years older then me
Was married
Not so intelligent
I did broke up with him but still hanging around. He trying his best to win me back. Buying stuff for me ect. I am afraid that he suffer. I feel i should protect him...knowing that he live alone...ect. this is a very complicated situation. What should i do?
About pregnancy i got pregnant out of wedlock...that goes easy. Why when all is well (legal) you get married it dont happen as you wish. I guess again Gods timing is the best. Trust in God and he will guide you.
Thanks for the clarity ❤
You’re welcome 😊
❤❤❤ this was a good one
Every woman deserves a husband like Jonathan 😢