📦 STARTING TO PACK UP MY LIFE // BEGINNING STAGES OF DIVORCE

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  • @AnnsHappyHome
    @AnnsHappyHome  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +84

    FYI: I DO NOT use tarot cards. It’s a guy I watched on TH-cam for a week a month ago!! I will watch anything I want if it get my mind off of what’s going on. Rest assure I go to church!

    • @Esh486
      @Esh486 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      You don't have to explain...I think people should worry about their own faith\belief or lack thereof. Good luck with everything, I wish you happiness, healing and a successful move

    • @toriladybird511
      @toriladybird511 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      As a Christian it's not my job to judge. It's support and pray that life becomes wonderful for you.
      I truly pray God rewards you with joy and blessings

    • @starwarsmom
      @starwarsmom 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I did the same

    • @adventurousdoglover
      @adventurousdoglover 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Tarot readings helped me not only become closer to God but helped me through some of my darkest moments

    • @stormwatch7245
      @stormwatch7245 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Who cares.... it's not anyone's business how we choose to live, entertainment ourselves, or get our minds off things. People who say rude things are just angry at the world and try to deflect their own misery onto others :( the majority here love you and you're very likely HELPING sooo many of us get through a similar situation... keep being you and do not worry about what ANYONE thinks. We all deal w things in our own way and you are helping so many of us. Thank you❤

  • @lynette5085
    @lynette5085 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +821

    My dear, I feel your pain. My husband left me after 20 years of marriage and married the mother of our daughter’s best friend. I felt like my entire world was just blown apart and I was desperately trying to find my way out of the devastation, the grief and shame and embarrassment. But something surprising happened that I really did not see coming….. I thrived! In ways that I never saw coming…..I absolutely blossomed! This journey is hard and painful BUT you will find your way. You will learn that you are resilient, strong, capable and deserving of all of the blessings that got blocked along the way. My home is stress free and I am finding all my joy that was lost amongst raising kids and trying to be the right match for the wrong person. As hard as it was: there is much beauty is self discovery. Hang in there darling, you are not alone, personal growth can be momentarily messy, but oh so worth it! Onward!!!

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

      Thank you so much for sharing and those kind words ❤️❤️

    • @LindaFoyle
      @LindaFoyle 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      I know what your going through, I was married to a man for close to 20 years, I truly loved him❤ only find out, he had been cheating on me with another girl for years!!! My heart was broken. I’m now way over it, but very difficult…honest you will get through this, and even counseling with a third party, sometimes will help, God Bless you❤🙏🏻you.

    • @Belluser-we1uc5cb2l
      @Belluser-we1uc5cb2l 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

      If he cheated on you with this person and married her, he will cheat on her too. Consider yourself, free girl. He is HER problem now. Life Is too short❤ You are no longer with a selfish person.

    • @KathleenMansfield-f7r
      @KathleenMansfield-f7r 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      Please please hear me… this will pass. God has a plan for you. You will experience such relief and joy in a very short time. Hand all your sorrow over to God. ❤

    • @AmandasBudgets
      @AmandasBudgets 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      My ex dated a girl who was days into 18 at 32 (he’s 2 years older than me) He’s going on 37 now she definitely didn’t last! I’m happily married now but back then it hurt 😢

  • @missmagicfairy2
    @missmagicfairy2 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    My fiance (at the time) left me and our daughter when she was 14mths old after more than 10 years together. She is now almost 21 and I raised her myself as a single working mum. I put all of my things in storage and moved. Don't spend too much time 'packing up' ..... take what you need, your fur babies and go. You've got this.

    • @JanBee1122
      @JanBee1122 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I agree, leave him the mess. He made it afterall.

  • @judybryant3880
    @judybryant3880 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +103

    You show your normal positivity in this sad situation. I liked what you said in your announcement video that you would not change your channel name as you will be happy again. That is a very positive way to look at it.

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank you ❤️

  • @kongkalakshmipassah
    @kongkalakshmipassah 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    Whatever you do stay happy but please don't ever abandon those beautiful dogs....they are the only ones who love you unconditionally ❤

  • @blessingsonthecoast
    @blessingsonthecoast 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +148

    I am a new subscriber. I was divorced after 30 years of marriage. I am now remarried for seven years to my soulmate and have never been happier. You've got this! ❤

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Thank you ❤️

    • @AmandasBudgets
      @AmandasBudgets 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Me too! You got this girlfriend 🎉

    • @ladetx
      @ladetx 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Me too! God bless you girl 🫶💪❤️😘

  • @karencristobal4999
    @karencristobal4999 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    You don’t want someone who doesn’t want you. On to better!! You got this. A woman who loves homemaking and tarot. Solid gold.

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank you ❤️

  • @TinyFreya59
    @TinyFreya59 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    Sweetie, it gets better as soon as your mindset changes from pain to promise. Divorced after 33 years, new wife barely older than our daughter, new family… the whole thing.
    I spent the first few weeks just reacting and trying to let my feelings roll through.
    Then one day it hit me that I COULD start looking at this as a fresh start, a release from the people pleaser wife person I had turned into during this time and a chance to go rediscover who I ONCE WAS. That was the game changer.
    Sending you love and peace. You’ll get through this just fine. Just trust yourself.

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you for the words of advice ❤️

  • @mariellahinde7696
    @mariellahinde7696 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Just subscribed today ! I am currently going through divorce - it was hard at the beginning but now I love my life - he cheated on me and his first ex wife couldn’t stay out of his life - we have just started speaking amicably - after 3 years - divorce is due to be final in September- he asked me if I want to stop the divorce - absolutely NO WAY! He had too many chances - life is too short - I promise you - it will take time but honestly you will get through this as a stronger person - I promise you !!!!!! ❤

  • @livinglavi
    @livinglavi 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    This is moving really quick for me. I said that because I’m coming from your announcement video. I can only imagine how you are feeling. But you’ve definitely given me the motivation to go through all the feels and move on. I definitely needed to see this. Thank you for being open to share your journey and let us who are going through the same journey know that things will get better. ❤

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      No point in prolonging the inevitable! You are welcome and you got this!! ❤️

  • @sweetjesusbyfaith3988
    @sweetjesusbyfaith3988 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    New subscriber sorry to hear your getting Divorced. I got Divorced him wanting it I literally took my stuff but sold it all and bought new to start my new life. God blessed me later with an amazing husband and 2 beautiful boys been married for 21 years now.

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      That gives me hope! Thank you ❤️

  • @sharosmith
    @sharosmith 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Who gets the dogs? When I got my divorce I left nearly everything except some bedding, a few dishes and my clothes. Get a fresh start😊

  • @sharonjoachim2602
    @sharonjoachim2602 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Hi Ann ..Speaking from experience ..My marriage broke up after 22 yrs..With 3 children involved..He stepped out on me with someone 15 yrs younger than me..Boy it took 5 yrs to get the divorce ..So if you can get it done quickly ..because, more damage can be done later..I wanted it quick but, he kept dragging his feet messing with my head..he basically did not want to pay child support and wanted to work it out away from the court system..what a nightmare ..please surround yourself with people u trust and that support you..I have never gotten married again because of what happened ..so I have learned to survive on my own… praying and asking the lord for guidance..your stronger than you think..one step in front of the other and one day at a time!!❤❤❤.. God Bless!! Take care!!🙏😇☮️🌈🦋🌺✝️

    • @jamilgotcher365
      @jamilgotcher365 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I thought I wanted my first divorce to go quickly but now I'm glad it didn't. If it had gone quickly I wouldn't be eligible for the long term marriage social security and I'll be needing it. Glad it took at least a couple of years in order for me to qualify for his social security benefits as a long term marriage spouse.

    • @TheMimiof7
      @TheMimiof7 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      My son is going on over 3 years. His wife left him for a transgender man. They have 3 children and it’s been awful. The wife feels entitled to take everything. She stayed silent on her sexuality for 18 years. As a family, we knew she was different with her silence and not carrying in a conversation. You would ask her a question and her response would be a laugh. She’s just like her dad was. Both of her parents have passed in the past 18 months. My son is so much happier now, but it as very tough for him and the family when it was shared.

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you for sharing and the kind words ❤️

    • @btsarmyforever3816
      @btsarmyforever3816 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@TheMimiof7 Aren't there laws you can charge her with? In my country, it's a criminal offense to lie about sexuality and get married. Such a person won't get a penny in alimony or household objects and will get imprisoned and made to compensate as well. Because the trauma of touching/kissing/sex with someone who is not what they claim to be is too much. Needs therapy for life at times. The feeling of disgust and repulsion rarely leaves. Because our sexuality is different. Usually, their trick is to say "I suddenly felt I was lesbian/gay/trans" Just no. There is no sudden in this as all this is recognized early on in life, especially with today's social media. Def they will realize who they are as a person. As such courts should give a prison sentence to that ex-wife for fooling the husband.

    • @TheMimiof7
      @TheMimiof7 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@btsarmyforever3816 The US has no law to charge the wife. In the “woke environment” you can identify with whatever you feel. I am 72 years young and I identify as a 40 year old 🤣🤣🤭🤭😉

  • @JenisePowell
    @JenisePowell 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    You are stronger than you think. Once all of this is over and you get settled down you will be so much happier. One day at a time. You got this!

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you ❤️

  • @ms.patrow1111
    @ms.patrow1111 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Looking back, the divorce I went through was the best thing that ever happened to me. It won’t feel like it now, but as some time passes it should get easier. I don’t say “my ex” or “my divorce” because I don’t take possession of either. It helps to take emotions out of it. Just like a job. Not “my job”. And if you want to listen to psychics, you do it! Don’t let anyone judge you.

  • @robindestasio7563
    @robindestasio7563 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I've been where you are. Take it from someone who knows. Try not to think of this as an ending, it's a new beginning. I wish I could have looked at it like that back then. I was devastated but it was the best thing that ever happened to me. I'm almost 70 and have had such a great life, one that I wouldn't have had if we hadn't divorced. This is the beginning of the rest of your life, all new chapters to come. I left my home and almost all of my belongings and at the time it hurt but with every new experience the hurt went away and happiness replace it all. I'm not saying it was easy, but one step at a time. New people will come into your life that you would never have met if you had stayed where you were. It's stressful but please try to look ahead and think about all the new things to come. Something new around every corner. It's hard but please try to look at it as an adventure. The only thing I regret about my past is wasting time on being sad about my marriage that didn't work out.

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you ❤️

  • @amandasusan9783
    @amandasusan9783 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Hey girl! You are doing sooo great! Tip: if you dont want to deal with some of the more emotional stuff, just leave it for him to take care of. The things you shared are his responsibility as much as yours. Speaking of Tuscany, you should watch Under the Tuscan Sun! It's about a woman starting over, just like you! (Have you seen it??) Give your pups lots of cuddles and revel in their unconditional love :) You've got this!! Prayers for your healing and joy!!

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I love that movie! I need to watch it again, thanks for reminding me about it ❤️

  • @Lindasromperroom
    @Lindasromperroom 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I love Nikki and Carlo! You go girl! First marriage ended but my marriage now is 36 years!

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They are great!! Happy it all worked out for you ❤️

  • @lauram4124
    @lauram4124 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +110

    One door opens and a better one opens, trust me!

    • @chantellucky4565
      @chantellucky4565 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes, in theory it should be true but in my reality, after the 1993 divorce till today 2024, no new doors opened! 😂 just one struggle after another and still struggling to this very day as I am writing this comment! 🥲 it may just be my sad destiny…

    • @latasharogers827
      @latasharogers827 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😢​@@chantellucky4565

    • @sheilaremias2855
      @sheilaremias2855 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@chantellucky4565Godspeed 😊

    • @samia6888
      @samia6888 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@chantellucky4565don’t lose hope, I have seen many people writing about how they met their soulmate decades later. My therapist was one of them. She met hers literally in her mid 60s after decades of struggle. He was everything she ever wanted and gave me hope that a good person to be with is possible. We just have to get an extra bit of work done first.

    • @JefferyCombs-u6i
      @JefferyCombs-u6i หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wont have no prob finding some one she gorges

  • @jeanwhite6693
    @jeanwhite6693 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Be strong, this is hardest part of packing. When you move away, your heart will be at ease. Wishing you the Best of luck ❤️

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you ❤️

  • @ReginaCreates2
    @ReginaCreates2 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    new Subscriber. I went through the same thing many years ago. It was devastating but i finally got through it. I now live a more peaceful life … drama free and much reduced stress. Now I avoid drama like the plague 🤣 You are not alone …. Hang in there … it will get better 🤗

  • @BlueBird-nf2gp
    @BlueBird-nf2gp 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Hi- Even though it’s a sad time I hope you get some moments of joy (no matter how small) in planning the decor for your new home. Your pets are adorable! ❤

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you ❤️

  • @Dana-ml7sy
    @Dana-ml7sy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Don’t forget to label boxes on the sides with what’s inside, not just on the top, so you can see at a glance what’s there.
    Be happy for you. Treat yourself as your best friend & plan to eat well & take walks, for your well being. Think of your husband as your ex husband. You are now free to start afresh on your terms. Don’t waste a moment on thinking about what happened, why it happened & if anything could have changed it. That’s the past. You can’t change it. The present is now & the future is yet to come. Change your mindset, it’s not the beginning of a divorce but the end of an unfulfilling relationship. It must have been because it’s broken. You can’t fix it & it’s pointless & destructive for yourself to wallow in misery & take on the role of victim but you can reinvent yourself, become the person you want to be & take steps to embrace your new life with excitement. Starting now.
    Research has proven that if you smile, even if you force yourself at first, it will help you smile for real. Fake it until you make it. Good luck in your new ventures.

  • @loridamico3368
    @loridamico3368 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I just came across your channel. I'm so sorry for all the pain you are experiencing . Praying for you and all the people in the comments going through the same situation. 🙏❤

  • @markellwilliams3594
    @markellwilliams3594 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Hi Ann. I’m so so sorry you’re having to go through this. I’m kind of in the same position except we were engaged. Been together since 2018. I don’t look at this video as boring I look at it as if I’m being here and supportive for a friend. Praying for you. Darling ❤🙏🏽

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much and I’m praying for you as well ❤️

  • @Losingmymind1609
    @Losingmymind1609 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Don’t go through this alone . It is hard . Ask for a help when you need it . I describe this like someone that you loved so much died . It is exactly like that . First you go through shock , then grief and after that you find peace. Hang in there ❤. First time here and your new subscriber . Wish you all the luck ❤

  • @donnat4650
    @donnat4650 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hi again! Idk if I mentioned it before, but counseling is a good option, as you are struggling emotionally. In my divorce experience, the judge was very supportive of me, as a woman, and was leaning toward me keeping the house. But, it looks like you have that part worked out. Prayers 🙏🏽 will also get you through! Feel better ❤️‍🩹 and don’t give up. 🤗

  • @jenramirez5329
    @jenramirez5329 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    New subscriber ❤… As women we go through a lots of painful situations in life but they lead us to believe and accept that life is forever - life experiences, growth, strength and joy once we are healed and find our way! I went through painful situations with my husband and I move many miles away and little by little the pieces of my puzzle (my life) are coming together and I’m hopeful to complete that puzzle in the near future!
    I pray for you and I hope you heal and have a wonderful and blessed life that you deserve! ❤🌹❤️

  • @cindynewburg4084
    @cindynewburg4084 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    My husband and I had a pretty small argument on my 40th birthday - after 12 years of marriage - and basically he never came home again. The divorce took 4 years. He not only didn't acknowledge my birthday the day of the argument but had not bought me a present. It was all par for the course. I hired a " crisis " therapist to help me work thru it and she was the worst !!! She gave me the worst advice ever. Long story short I was only 41 and hooked up with the best boyfriend I ever had. We separated 10 years later on good terms. I think that is what happens when you don't have to divorce. My husband - altho I find it hard to believe - did have a girlfriend. I could hardly believe it at the time. The man was 14 years older than me and I was his 3rd wife. Like Shannan Watts said - he had no game. But evidentially that was not true !!! In any event, what I regret is how easy I made the divorce for him. He got so much more than he deserved thanks to the loser therapist !!!

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you for sharing ❤️

  • @Ali-gb7mf
    @Ali-gb7mf 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is a new beginning. You are going to be just fine. Go forward! 🍾🍾🍾🍾

  • @gracerodriguez6869
    @gracerodriguez6869 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I am excited to see your new place, a fresh start for you. I am sending you a big hug

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you ❤️

  • @dawnvolk1686
    @dawnvolk1686 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi, Divorced here, too 👋 unsolicited advice, if you can, pack and gtfo of there fast! Start fresh as fast as you can. Memtally/emotionally it will help. I empathize with how hard it is. Just know it will get sooo much better! It will all be ok

  • @triciabuenaluz6438
    @triciabuenaluz6438 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sending prayers your way dear. Better separate now then years from now. You still have so much time to do what you want to do thank goodness. It's also incredibly freeing not to have to worry about how a partner feels or walking on eggshells around his ego. Less stressful all around. You'll be smiling soon enough. Hugs.

  • @lucyf7740
    @lucyf7740 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This too shall pass… your pups are so beautiful and such a source of strength n joy! 🙏🏼❤️‍🩹🐾

  • @rebeccaiop9061
    @rebeccaiop9061 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The dogs reaction broke my heart. I subscribed and will follow you to see you heal and grow. The video just showed up on my feed.
    You deserve all the love and grace and I feel you right now because I just came out of a breakup.❤❤

  • @lourdes.adorno624
    @lourdes.adorno624 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    May God give u the strength n wisdom u need to continue to go on, you’ll hav better days than others but having faith in God will be a lot easier…🙏🏼 I am also going to through a separation with my husband of 15 years not easy n super sad😢but God picks me up every time I fall… it is what it is n accepting whatever is happen I g at the moment will make it better… may God bless u girl! U will be fine!

  • @LolaAlmaguer8797
    @LolaAlmaguer8797 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm new here and I am in awe of how strong you really are! Even through your extreme sadness, you are strong. You will find complete happiness again with the right person.

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you ❤️

  • @Jk101-fc6jn
    @Jk101-fc6jn 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Not boring it’s reality,I admire you for being strong and confident

  • @donnastuart1808
    @donnastuart1808 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I wish you the best..... You'll be ok!!

  • @bridgettewilliford8438
    @bridgettewilliford8438 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Good luck with your new life and everything will be alright ❤

  • @HelenCottrell-Starkey
    @HelenCottrell-Starkey 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Ann, so sorry you are going through this right now. I too have been there but rest assured, it's hard at this moment but you will come out at the other side much much stronger. Hope your fur baby boy is feeling better. Much love from the UK 💖

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much! He is feeling much better ❤️

  • @StephanieJohnson-n4n
    @StephanieJohnson-n4n 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I feel you. I'm four years out from my ex deciding to start a band and leaving at 25 years together (23 married). But, he was the one who wanted out and did some questionable things so I got the house and just about everything in it except his clothing and personal items (he is a police officer in our city and didn't want the public to know anything). I did not realize until he left how dependent on him I had become (I didn't even go to the grocery store by myself). I felt like I wanted (needed) him with me at all times unless we were at work and always wanted to have family time (we have two boys, both grown). I now know that I am strong and can handle most things. I do still wonder why sometimes and miss the life I thought I had.

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for sharing ❤️

  • @PamelaRoberts-j4n
    @PamelaRoberts-j4n 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I’m normally a silent subscriber but I just want you to know that I have been through this. It will sting fore a long time but it will get easier. Wish I was there to help and give you a hug . Just know I’m sending prayers. 🌸❤️

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much for the kind words and prayers ❤️🙏

  • @kariay50
    @kariay50 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just happen to come across your video. Focus on you, praying and healing🙏🏻. There are experiences that are not so pleasant, yet within time it can make you stronger. All the best to you🙏🏻. The doggies and cat sense how you are feeling and only if they could talk. Your pets love you unconditionally 🫶🏻🐾🐾🐾🐾

  • @Handmaid_of_the_Lord
    @Handmaid_of_the_Lord 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love the fact that your divorce has not involved drama and washing dirty linen on social media. Wishing you a calm , peaceful life. Love ❤

  • @ditzychic1031
    @ditzychic1031 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    I hope you took all the wine! Girl take that wine!! lol.

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      lol of course I am!!

    • @carolwoodward6141
      @carolwoodward6141 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes, take the wine.

    • @dianaepple524
      @dianaepple524 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Better yet drink the wine!

  • @sharongibson1161
    @sharongibson1161 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am sorry you are going through this 😢! Been there, its hard , without a doubt. Please try to look forward, rediscover yourself and take care of yourself❤❤❤ ill be praying for you 😊

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you ❤️

  • @lauriepeeler3705
    @lauriepeeler3705 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I’m new to your channel, I just wanted to say, you go girl. You got this.

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you!! ❤️

  • @a_latte_mama
    @a_latte_mama 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I feel this video so hard! But I am excited for you to get all new things that are just yours and I just subscribed! I always say life is short and id rather have a couple of bad months rather than a lifetime of unhappiness. Your glow will return

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you ❤️

  • @JewelSommers
    @JewelSommers 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You are strong, you are going to find you again

  • @kimwood5239
    @kimwood5239 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m truly sorry that your going through this. I pray for your strength and God to give you hope and bless you so much.

  • @melissaulibarri1273
    @melissaulibarri1273 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I wish there was something magical that I could say to help your beautiful heart right now. I have been where you are. Remember time really does help heal. I just felt touched by your story and wanted to reach out and express to you how you are not alone. Some days it takes all you have inside to just put one foot in front of the other. Be gentle with yourself and reach out when you need support. Your story touched my heart!!❤

  • @jennkey2523
    @jennkey2523 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You’ve got this. May not feel like it at this time, but you do. God brought this to you, he will get you thru it also. It’s a life tragedy some many ways worse than a death of a close loved one. I’m praying for you. Something great always comes with something bad. You’ll find it.

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you ❤️

  • @AmandasBudgets
    @AmandasBudgets 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hey friend binge watching! Only advise I give you is after you move take a 3-4 day span to be alone with yourself, allow yourself to wallow and scream if you must.
    My heart was on the mend and then he stated dating a girl many years younger (I’m 35 he’s 36) it hurt so bad. Just know you are going to go through stages 😢 my heart hurts for you when you say “this house deserves a family”

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for the advice and it hurt my heart to say 💔 but it’s true.

  • @charityplaysgames
    @charityplaysgames หลายเดือนก่อน

    My husband and I went through a very rough patch several years ago and ended up moving back to be near my family. Luckily our marriage survived, but being near my family has been so precious to me. We also don’t have kids, and being able to nurture my relationship with my niece and nephew has been priceless. I wish you much peace and many blessings in your new journey ❤️‍🩹🥰

  • @wishuwerehere1939
    @wishuwerehere1939 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am sorry that you are going thru this. One of these days you will see passed all of this. When I got divorced, I was just fine with it. I know not everyone is like me. But I spent the last 7 days with covid, so I am speculating which I would rather be doing this weekend. Please give yourself the time and space for peace.

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you ❤️

  • @mayberry5043
    @mayberry5043 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Just make sure this is what you guys want. Divorce should always be the last Resort. When you walk out those doors, you know that you've done absolutely. Everything you could to save it so that later in life there's no regret.

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I sleep good at night knowing I tried everything possible to try and save my marriage, but sometimes people need more help than you can give them. I touched on this on my first video. Check it out!

    • @mayberry5043
      @mayberry5043 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@AnnsHappyHome I'll check it out. This is my first video. Knowing that I gave everything and he gave nothing. Gave me confidence to keep going And not look back. No regret.❤️❤️

  • @KristineS73
    @KristineS73 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love Nicky and Carlo!!! Whar great style they do have. Been reallly loving the Tuscany house and that new kitchen right??? Listen find that strength that all woman have and look at this as a new beginning!! Not losing but gaining life experiences. You will be ok i promise. Jusr keep that mindset itll help so much!!!😊 New sub from your last video and it seems like you might have a channel that grows into a whole new thing for you, how amazing for you 😊

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you ❤️ and I loving the Tuscany house too!

  • @dianemoore3853
    @dianemoore3853 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I would leave it all except my clothes, shoes, toiletries , hats, purses, books and craft supplies. Sorry your going through this

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you ❤️

  • @JulesAl-Mighty
    @JulesAl-Mighty 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sis, this might be the end of your marriage, but it is definitely not the end of your happy home.
    Sending you love. ❤️

  • @molliesmomma
    @molliesmomma 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Just take your clothes, any sentimental personal items etc. leave everything else. It’s far better to start anew than to have constant reminders of the past. Once you leave for the last time, never look back. Just think of the relationship as a practice for something bigger, better and far more spectacular that’s going to be in your future.

  • @carolwoodward6141
    @carolwoodward6141 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    New subbie as of this morning. I can tell you are a strong woman. It sounds like you have a kind heart.

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you ❤️

  • @mommy6153
    @mommy6153 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hope all gets better soon! Be strong! Find a church group, they do help people going through difficult times/divorce. 😊 Praying for you!

  • @cynthiabray3624
    @cynthiabray3624 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    He left me for someone else after 24 years. Hard at first, but now I’m living my best life.I couldn’t be happier! There IS life after divorce. Have faith!

  • @Jelena-y6j
    @Jelena-y6j หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m so sorry 😞 I
    Know exactly what you are
    Going threw but u will get threw this been there and went threw worse I wish u all the best ❤

  • @jmarie1959
    @jmarie1959 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love Antphrodite! He is so much fun! I do believe he is gifted and it's a good gift. He cheers me up as well. 🙂

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      He’s so funny!

  • @lmm7762
    @lmm7762 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    GIRL!!! I LOVE ANT!!!! HE IS A TFIP AND WILL MAKE YOU LAUGH AND FEEL BETTER. ANT ALSO WILL TELL YOU STRAIGHT OUT TO WALK AWAY AND GIRL BYE ON TO BIGGER BETTER THINGS! I LIVE IN GHE SAME CITY AS HIM !
    I WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP FOR 23yrs and he cheated and got someone pregnant and during all of it I stood by him and then one day just a month ago he chose her and I am having a really hard time but nothing I can do about it so I’m left with the pain and he is in happy land. Jerk! Blessings to you

  • @PinkPink-kn5gy
    @PinkPink-kn5gy 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    We just moved and I used plastic tubs. It was so much easier.

  • @brendapaul5950
    @brendapaul5950 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Be encouraged even while this is a challenging season.

  • @MirandaElizabeth-h4p
    @MirandaElizabeth-h4p หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel you. Keep your head up! Hope you happier 💪

  • @RadiantRoseMedia
    @RadiantRoseMedia 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Is very hard to go through thisnpain it was Thanksgiving xmas holidays alone after .... 😢😢😢 one Thanksgiving i sat on a table of lubys restaurants and ate bu my self and now that i look back im like i had to go through that tobbe where i am. Prayers for healing and peace.

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you ❤️

  • @bbrundage3409
    @bbrundage3409 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Walmart sells the moving boxes. Had to move last year.

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for letting me know!

  • @Maki_sSnackies
    @Maki_sSnackies หลายเดือนก่อน

    You will have your moments hunny… but it only gets better. ❤

  • @chantellucky4565
    @chantellucky4565 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    …but one thing I do know is that ‘the pain subsides day by day and the hurt no longer lingers on as it did’ and ‘acceptance of what it is’ gradually taken over and you move on..

  • @LatashaMoore-y7r
    @LatashaMoore-y7r 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm grateful to you for make this videos you are a nice honest person ✨️ 😌 💕

  • @angelicavasquez3870
    @angelicavasquez3870 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I hope you get to keep the beautiful kitty!

  • @sharonb.6146
    @sharonb.6146 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just clicked on your video and I’m so sorry you have to go through this but God has a plan for you. My dad left us when I was in 7th grade and my mom took care of everything for my sister and I. She has passed away in 2006 but she always wanted me and my sister to forgive him. I’ve only seen him a couple times since then but I felt sorry for him after I witnessed how his new wife treats him. I never thought that I would get married bc of how bad it was for my mom but I prayed to God when I was 40 and asked Him for someone to love who would love me for me. I met Ben in 2015 on an app two weeks later. I was able to have love later in my life after being single for 8 years. I will pray that you will get through this hard time quickly and come out of it with many blessings and be happy again. You can do this!

  • @donnapalaussie19
    @donnapalaussie19 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi Ann, I’m sorry you’re going through this. You’ve got this and I wish you all the very best for your future! New sub from Australia 🇦🇺 😊

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for the kind words and for subscribing!! ❤️

  • @justmaria5806
    @justmaria5806 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I hope you are taking advantage of this time to purge and donate some of the duplicates of items I have seen in just the first few minutes of your upload. Downsizing of things will help in the emotional part of the journey you are in the process of undertaking. I finally have discovered the beauty and good things of life are not tied to decor and intangibles. you have been given the gift of time to focus on you; not these things. I wish you only the best in this next chapter of your life!

  • @linda22_
    @linda22_ 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Omg your home was set up so perfectly……like similar to my aesthetic. Sorry you have to go through this….

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you ❤️

  • @LisaOBrien-i7b
    @LisaOBrien-i7b 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It takes a lot of strength to do this...I left with nothing..I say take everything!

  • @priscillacook2619
    @priscillacook2619 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi Anne, I'm new to your channel. I'm sorry to hear about your divorce. I was married and now divorce. It will get better with time.

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you ❤️

  • @sandynickelson1531
    @sandynickelson1531 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I had a very hard time when my husband walked out. I keep some thing down. It’s so hard when your left to pick up the broken pieces .pictures but took every

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes it is hard ❤️

  • @mv848
    @mv848 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good for you. I am *sick* of my marriage. But have no options at the moment....

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m so sorry 🥺

  • @jfinner86
    @jfinner86 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Friend.... This video is the first of yours I'm watching so I don't know intimates....Leave it all ....get yourself a New beginning for real ...Your clothes a towel and wash cloth to be able to have cleanliness day 1..... Free Yourself, no thoughts of what was.... Can't wait to see Your fresh START!!! I'm subscribed ❤ LE'GO!!!! 👍🏽

  • @venusbucci4829
    @venusbucci4829 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Im new to your channel,I am so sorry your having to go through this ❤

  • @mariaespinoza6358
    @mariaespinoza6358 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Just leave his stuff where it is and let him have to deal with it!!
    Ur under NO obligation to do ANY of that for him anymore!!
    Why bust ur energy doing it for him?!? Ur just making urself tired & worn out!!!

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’m not doing anything for him. It’s only my stuff I’m moving. I have to weed out what’s mine and what’s his I’m some areas however.

    • @mariaespinoza6358
      @mariaespinoza6358 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@AnnsHappyHome .. my mom says .. TAKE PICS of EVERYTHING his and the Way U left it!!! Cuz if he gets mad ..he can say, Ohhh she broke this and messed up that!! U can say, I have TIME & DATE STAMPED PHOTOS!! that show OTHERWISE!! Evidence, just in case!! 🫂

  • @teresaunderwood4844
    @teresaunderwood4844 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You can do this stay strong ❤

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you ❤️

  • @leighwagstaff2100
    @leighwagstaff2100 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I left everything all I had was my 3 weans and what we had on!.. 26 years later onwards and upwards 👍xx

    • @leighwagstaff2100
      @leighwagstaff2100 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      P.s. my ex is a lonely old man now lol 🤣 turns out the grass wasn't greener lol 🤣 x

  • @kellybrinkerhoff5055
    @kellybrinkerhoff5055 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You did a great job decorating this house, but it’s just a house. You get to create your own personal space next. I’m sorry this is so painful, I can’t even imagine.😢 Hang in there, Girl ❤

  • @kathyl3889
    @kathyl3889 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sending you prayers and love 💙

  • @trina415
    @trina415 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My love and prayers sent to you ❤

  • @stephaniewoods6505
    @stephaniewoods6505 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I may have missed a comment regarding your fur babies. Are you taking them with you? It would be them if I had to leave everything behind. Well, actually I did. Left with nothing but my two babies . Even left my shoes behind. I am literally a survivor! Tears will come but strength follows. So sorry you are going through this.

  • @AninhaMatthews
    @AninhaMatthews 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I was EXTREMELY HAPPY when I got the divorced even thou I had no job, no family in the country, no place to go, no money, with a 3 year old.
    I left him cuz I wasn’t in love with him. Today me and him are best friends.

  • @beejp8
    @beejp8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I understand the upside down feeling. I have been grieving for months knowing it was over. It is grieving-it truly is just like a “death”. I have been married for 42 years last week. Nineteen months ago my husband made me move East across the country. Moving should be an easy thing for me. I’m 65 and that’s all I’ve known as a military daughter and wife. This is different. I’m going off on my own where I have no family but loved. Arizona was the first “home” I ever had. We lived there for 16 years (3 of those were the final USAF years and he retired in 2009) after he put in his 30, retired, I thought it was our “forever”. I really hate where we are in the west of SC. He won’t take me back to our home we built as our forever home when we came back from Germany. So, I decided I’m going by myself. Our house has renters so an apartment that takes German Shepherds is my destination. I’m excited and scared at the same time. I don’t know if my husband will ever leave humid, muddy, rainy, SC. Our daughter had a baby 10 months ago. We are (free) daycare. I probably will not see my son or youngest as they are all angry I am being “selfish”. That’s a laugh! I have done nothing but sacrifice my everything for my family. I drop everything when my youngest lived in ND and the USAF removed her wisdom teeth and she had to have someone stay a week with her. I dropped everything when her boss refused to deploy and she had a no notice deployment. I flew to ND, rented an SUV, picked up her large dog and drove back to AZ by myself. Or when my son broke his foot I had to fly to OK, leave my SUV, drive his and him back to Charleston, stay with him through surgery, drive him back and forth to the squadron everyday for 3 months. The following year he deployed and was worried his pipes would burst in the winter so I lived in his house, scraped popcorn ceilings, dry walled and painted his house for another 3 months. Yea, it’s all about me. Well, now I feel for the first time it’s my time.
    So, you see, right now it sucks and crushes your soul. In 6 months you will feel better. Maybe not great, but better. All those times you realized you were shallow breathing and never taking a deep breath, those will be gone. You will be able to breathe and feel the sun on your face, watch your fur babies run through a field of wild flowers and smile. It will get better and you will be okay❣️💖

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for sharing ❤️

  • @TheOscar15432
    @TheOscar15432 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    New subbie. Really enjoyed. Sending hugs to you. Many blessings on your new journey in life.

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you ❤️

  • @chileanzombie42
    @chileanzombie42 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am sorry,hope the best for your future.

  • @candlegirl1973
    @candlegirl1973 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    New sub here. I'm so sorry that you are going through so much. Praying for you.

  • @dawnnichols7742
    @dawnnichols7742 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Separation is a painful experience, divorce is a painful experience. I know. It has taken me a long time to grieve and begin to heal emotionally, physically and spiritually. Call out to God, He will answer your plea for help.

  • @ajourneymaryb
    @ajourneymaryb 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Your channel came up in my feed... I watch a couple. When you said tarot cards that caught my attention. I'm going to warn you that is a very bad path to take. .if you want help, peace and guidance then turn to God get and read the Bible. Ask him to help you. He will. God is what you need. What we all need. (The book of Romans is good place to start also the Psalms). It will all work out. The farm has a beautiful view from the barn. Just curious what state this house is in? I like the kitchen..

    • @AnnsHappyHome
      @AnnsHappyHome  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It’s just for me to watch, not to partake. It’s for entertainment purposes only and I will watch anything that takes my mind off of reality for just a little bit!