I was married for 24 years to an abusive man. I can't imagine doing TH-cam and documenting it. People give this woman grace. She has to make a living and this is her job. Don't kick someone when their struggling. I think its pretty brave. It could be you.
I saw your divorce announcement video because it randomly popped up in my feed. I subscribed then, and am following your story. We're here because we want to support you. It's quite obvious that you are genuine I think your subscriber numbers have grown because women like to support each other and care. So many women have gone through this.
Same here, 100 agree with you glad I found her channel, some people don’t understand when you go through something definitely can help some one else , they may have feel or have it worse
Ann you don't have to justify your content to anyone🌻If some viewers are complaining about your content they can choose to watch something else. After you move out don't go back to the house if you can avoid it. Compartmentalize what you can until you are in a better place mentally, it will help with the grief🌻
The day I asked for a divorce was the day I got my life back. It was the happiest day of my life. I love my freedom! I have boundaries and it will take a lot for a man to even be allowed in my space. I'm very selfish with my time. I love my me time so much. I do so much by myself and love it. I love I don't have to share my space with anyone.
Divorces are Ugly. I was going to bring up my story about my divorce over 25 years ago, but Stopped because God has healed that part of my life. I pray for my X husband from the heart. It just wasn't meant to be. God is still on the Throne. God bless y' all . ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I am at the step of filing. Lawyer is drafting the document. Went through mediation. It’s a lot of feelings. It’s been a year and a half since he left and I didn’t want to file until I was physically ready. He left 6 days before major surgery and I had to get house ready to sell then another surgery. Each time my adult children helped me tremendously. I’m finally ready. Physically. Mentally it’s taking a lot of therapy that I am going through now. I’m 52 and hopefully I will be done before my bday in September. Good luck with everything.
Hi, Having gone through divorce twice, I pray all goes well for you and that's you'll be happy again, which I know you will,although we say I can't go on without him believe me can and we will Risen above all We've been through I'm a Virgo as well..We're strong Ladies 🙏❤️
Ann…I was devastated when my high school sweetheart husband left me. I didn’t want to go on. I didn’t handle it as well as you are. However I do believe there is always a reason. Now I am the happiest I have ever been with a wonderful husband of 31 years. I really am grateful to my first husband leaving for my life today with my last husband. You WILL find love again better than before. ❤
ignore the haters when going thru a divorce it’s like dealing with a death you go thru it at ur own pace and you do what’s best for you . ur starting over and you make a new beginning for urself . i actually went thru one and ended up as a single mom but i did it and it made me a stronger person .
Things are turning around for you already, look at all your new friends! I am one of them...70 year old widow living just outside Phoenix, AZ. You are doing well. Remember, don't look back, you are not going that way. God Bless!
Divorce is hard, but like you said, you will get through it. It's been 23 years for me. I did re-marry 20 years ago. Very happy and so Blessed. I was married 25 years the first time. Two children who at the time were 24 and 20. It was hard on them too. Life did go on. Lot of lessons learned, tears, and now...much happiness. Take care of you. There will be hard days. I walked off, took nothing but my car. I should have wrote a book. Will be praying for you. You're gonna be happy, I just know it. One day at a time.
Divorce is like a death. You will go through all the stages of grief. Allow yourself to sit in those emotions and you will feel your heart mending a little at a time. Prayers for peace!
I also found you because your divorce announcement video came up in my feed. Anyone that goes through divorce for any reason can understand what you’re going through. You sound like you’re in a good frame of mind and have priorities to get done. What a lovely person you are! I’m happy to follow and support you on this journey! God bless you! 💕🙏
I don't know how I came across your channel unless God sent it to me. I'm 75 years old and my son got a divorce 12 years ago. Grief is something we will all have to cope with someday in one form or another. It happened to me when my husband passed away five years ago. I learned how terrible loneliness really is. My son went through this during his divorce. whether it's a divorce or a death, the loneliness can be overwhelming. Stay busy and keep your mind occupied. take care of yourself, Ann. I'm glad you are going to be moving closer to family.
I went through a divorce too. Everyone has their own expereinces. I congratulate you on being as far as you are. 💕 I want you to know you can buy a home in the future. You will be happier. Be resourceful and persistent you will get thru this. Lots of love to you on your new journey. Take care🥰
I wish my daughter would understand what her dad has put me through. Married for almost 40 years. He had job problems, decided to move to another state ,live with my parents and promised me he would move me. Of course he sent me divorce papers in the mail. I found out things he left he has been cheating for years. My son understands what I have gone through. But my daughter does not care. She asked me to move back home with her. I sold my house, put all my things in a storage and living with her until I find something. She and my granddaughter are not nice to me. My ex her Dad lives near her and he call’s everyday, I here her just laughing with him. I hurts me knowing what he has put me through. They are hardly talking to me. I feel like a stranger. Am very sad. I ask if she would like to see a place I thought I would like. All she says is quite asking me so many questions. How do you talk to her without asking questions. I’m very hurt. And my granddaughter follows her with everything my daughter says to me. I can’t talk to her either. I moved 800 miles to be with them and I am lost for words. I wish I never moved
I agree. You don’t have to justify your channel. It’s hard enough in life. I’m so sorry you’re going through a divorce. I pray it will get easier for you. ❤❤❤
Girl….. giiiiiiiirllll…. You don’t have to explain yourself to ANYONE. You just do you and if they don’t like it they can pound rocks. (Whatever that means lol) I’ve said this multiple times on your videos but I’m going to say it again… YOU GOT THIS!!!!! You do you and your followers will stick with you because you are genuine. Xoxo
I am going through a divorce it’s been four years. It was one of the hardest things I’ve been through but one of the best things also. I learned so much about myself and that I am so thankful for.
I’m sorry to hear you are going through this, I gave myself 5 years to just sort out my life heart, and soul. There is never going to be an easier time, tell yourself to breathe, you did your best, now it’s time to find your inner peace and your self again, hold your head up high, be proud of who you are, and please make laughter a priority no matter what, you will watch all your negative energy away
Ann remember about 50% of people are divorced. This topic is helpful and needed, I’m going through one as well. Talking about your move, healing and staying strong is something we want to hear. Once your out of the house you’ll start to feel better. Keep going sister we’re praying for you ❤🙏🏻
I ve been separated for over 10 years and I just think it’s easier not to have a man in my life I only have to answer to me and me only I find men stressful to demanding on me
I feel for you. It’s been a year since my divorce. I was married at 18 and I’m now 42. I’m still a work in progress. ❤️ Best of luck to you, you got this!
I have been through 2 divorces but the last one really hurt me and took a lot out of me. Believe me it does get better you will enjoy being by yourself and when the time comes you will meet Mr right!
I remember just sitting at my desk and zoning out starting at my computer some days during my divorce. The self pity party was strong, and it was ME that filed the divorce! (He was a jerk) but the sadness of a failure and crappy relationship paired with my life not turning out the way I had hoped was what I was truly sad about. Turns out it was the best decision ever!! I am almost 6 yrs post divorce and honestly have never been happier. I’ve gone on ONE date in that time because I feel the same about men. There are some good ones but I’ve yet to meet them 😂 once the exhaustion of the transition is behind you everything will be just great. Can’t wait to see your journey ❤
I am not going through a divorce , but I was left (ghosted and cheated )by my best friend , especially when I was moving to another country , and it has been a really difficult one year for me . As you said , all days are not the same . I am okay I keep myself busy, but sometimes something strikes and I am all over the place crying the whole day and feeling completely lost . I get you 100% when you say you are exhausted. But you will heal you will be okay soon . Take care ❤ Waiting for lovely new home videos soon 😊✌🏻
I can't imagine how your feeling right now but your amazing your doing it with class and dignity never explain yourself to anyone you do what's best for you be kind to yourself always love that I chose to subscribe to your channel and in my own small way be of support to you 🌹
The house looks great, remember it is just a house not your home.. and I am sure your new place is going to be so homey.. my mom use to tell me you depressed clean your place it will make you feel better and burn off ugly energy.. it is ok to have your sweater inside out..we all do it.. many hugs to you on your move I know it is going to be hard..
Sweet friend, good luck with your move. I’m sure you’ll get through this. Divorce is hard and it’s hard to find your new normal. Once you move it will be easier. Pour yourself into making a new home and a better life. Done that been there. Try not to make any big decisions for a least a year. Don’t trust your feelings, they lie. Surround yourself with positive energy and loving people. No matter what YOU TAKE CARE ❤👍🏻🙏🏻
Hi Ann, I’m so sorry for your stress and sadness that you’re going through right now. It is absolutely no one’s business what happened between you two just that it did. You are so blessed to have family to lean on to help you when you need it. You sound like a smart little cookie and a strong young woman. That’s blessing #2. I will keep you in my prayers for endurance and to heal your broken heart 🥰
Ann You are not a hot mess. You are beautiful woman. I didn't even notice your sweater was on inside out. Looking forward to following you on your next chapter. Sending you virtual hugs.
I feel like we’re all rooting for you. We would help you move if we could! Just know that your subscribers care about you & wish you the best as you transition to your new life. I know that I do. Keeping busy definitely helps but sometimes it’s hard to deal with the pain & sadness. Feel it deeply & then let it go as best you can. You’ll feel much better on the other side when you start making your new house your home. Prayers & best wishes for you as you start your new journey. 🙏❤️
I wish you all the best in your new adventure ❤❤❤❤. I'm glad you realize you don't need another to define yourself!!! Best of luck to you and your fur babies!!!
I just recently found your channel. I just wanted to say that I totally understand where you are at with men. 2 years ago this July I left my ex and he gave me the hardest time trying to take anything of mine or my daughters. I had to hire a constable to go with me to retrieve our belongings. He stalked and harassed me until I finally had to get a PFA. Prior to this about 10 years before I was married and he cheated on me and was abusive. So I am in a place myself right now where I think men suck and I probably will never date again. Now I am completely happy with my life and loving being single. I too am very independent so that’s also why I am happy being single. You too will get through this minor bump in the road.
Also you do not have to justify YOUR channel or what you say or music you use. Some people are either bored or jealous so they sit by themselves and nit pick other peoples lives. Just ignore them and concentrate on the rest of the wonderful subscribers you have 😊
Good luck with your move and new beginning. I'm very sorry you are going through this because, obviously, you did not really want your marriage to end. I am divorced and now that it has been many years, I can truly say I am very happy and content. I realized rather quickly that my marriage was not healthy for me, and leaving the relationship turned out to be a huge blessing. Take care of yourself and give yourself all the time you need to heal. God bless.
I actually agree with you, posting your divorce I’m going through it, accidentally found your channel definitely Does help me and I see all other positive comments, it’s encouraging to us all, Keep it up Anne, ❤ keep the strength good days and bad,,, it will get better God allows us to go through things for a reason, I try to see it as a positive 😊
You are such a good hearted person. You’re leaving the marital home, yet you’re cleaning it thoroughly like a move-out cleaning. He’s still going to live there so I wouldn’t bother, but that’s why you’re kind-hearted. Btw you don’t ever have to explain the reason for divorce. I’ve walked that thorny path and I’ll keep the pricks and stumbles to myself. My life, my chaos. Good luck dear, there’s light at the other end.❤
I think you are doing great! ❤. Breathe, allow yourself to feel ALL the feelings. This too shall pass. You can do this. You ARE doing this. Love and hugs and prayers ❤
I’m not divorcing, but I want to support you. You are very relatable and kind. I am keeping you in prayer. Share what you are comfortable with. It’s all really nobody’s business. 💜💜
I love your channel, especially your authenticity! You’re doing everything right, ignore the haters. I love your cleaning, decluttering, and organizing content and your cooking/recipes, too. I adore your dogs and your inclusion of them in yourfilming. Keep it up and take care of you!
I’m sorry you get so much negativity and people can’t keep their crazy speculation to themselves, but stay positive.. leaving will be bittersweet but you will find new joys on the next step of the journey..
Hi Ann I’m 55 and have been through many “ trauma transitions “ though I’ve never been married. All I can say is I wish I went through them half as gracefully as you.❤
Hello Ann you are doing great! It is normal to feel so many different emotions. When you get in your new house it will feel different but I think you will do absolutely great. You have a a smart head on your shoulders. You are beautiful and determine to go to the next plan of your life. I am rooting for you!💐💖
Ann you are the sweetest person 💕 I wish you all the very best as moving day approaches once it’s behind you it’s all up from there!! you soooo have this 💫 a fresh new start YOUR way..
You don't have to explain yourself to us. I enjoy watching your channel. I wish you nothing but happiness in the future. Just take one day at a time. Prayers and blessings to you 🙏
New subscriber. Just want to say you got this Girl!! I've been where you are and it does get easier with time. Looking forward to any and all content you feel inclined to share. First priority is take care of you and your babies. ❤🐾🐕🐈
Hi Ann, it’s so hard what you’re going through but wants you leave there don’t look back and believe me you’re going to be fine. It takes day by day but you’re strong and God is going to give you lots of strength.🙏 Will keep praying for you and your fur babies.😊
Some times I think divorce is like feelings of a death ! Meaning loss and feeling with sadness ! Remember it’s not on you land your feet it’s how you move them going forward! You are beautiful person
I love that you are mentioning how people jump to conclusions and then consider it a fact. I get so tired of comments that are so far from the truth. I like that you are not throwing your exhusbands personal life under the bus. Its not for us to know if he doesnt tell us. You are doing great. Congratulations on your channel growth. ❤ Blessings and Prayers
Happy New Beginning…and remember not to let life change your name… You are doing great…and anytime you feel down and sad; smile and thank God for strength! ❤
It is early Monday morning. I just wanted to say I have been praying for you. My heart goes out to you & your pets. You are doing a great job. You are a kind & wonderful person. Have a blessed week!
Hang in there Ann, unfortunately I've never been married & I'm 65. I have had a sad many yrs together break-up, so I can't imagine what ur going through...🙏
Hi I'm a new subscriber, you can block the haters or the negative people. It can help a lot that you don't see the negative comments. I'm devorce too and I know how hard it was, so doing it online must be so hard. Big hugs from Denmark. 💝🌹🥰
Best wishes on this new chapter! Change can be scary but it sounds like you have a great support group . I wish you much happiness and peace in your new home! ❤
There will always be someone out there with crazy comments. I am so sorry you have to deal with these people. You go, girl! You got this and I am praying for you. ❤
Hang in there sister! Ignore the ignorant people and know you are supported in your TH-cam endeavor. I’ve been through a divorce and it is hard. I watch all your videos and want to hear about your journey! Take care!
Random question (off topic)… I’m an “old lady” and we were always taught to clean wood with a “polish” like pledge, etc. I notice a lot of younger people cleaning wood furniture with the same cleaner as they do on countertops. Does that dry it out, or is it all the same? Just curious if anyone has an opinion on that. ❤
Great video, Ann. Try not to let the negative comments bring you down. Unfortunately, it comes with the territory of having a TH-cam channel (you can't please everyone). You are strong...you've got this.💪 👏 Looking forward to your next video.❤
I wish energy, luck harmony for your moving day. Look forward to July being a whole new beginning in your life story. Your channel showed up in my feed just when I needed it as I plan on moving soon and am overwhelmed. You have given me motivation and I can hardly wait to see how you decorate your new home.❤
Anne, you are a sweet person. Haters gonna hate. You tell us a snippet of your life and getting to know you has been great!! You don't owe anyone the details. I've listened to many sweet women tell us about their divorce. Its nice to be a part of your life. I do the same where I fast forward through someone just talking. I say stop taking and get to doing. Lol but never make stupid comments. You're doing great keep it up. I'll listen to whatever. 😅😊❤
I have been watching for a few weeks this is just part of your journey and I know you will be okay. I have gone through a divorce as a kid and my mom found a great guy and all of use were so happy.
Ann - give yourself all of the time you need. Break ups/divorce is hard no matter who you are. There’s so many mixed emotions to go through & deal with. Do what you need to do for YOU & no one else. ❤
You are doing remarkably well. It’s a tough process. Some days it’s a minute by minute proposition; but every day gets better. No one should expect you to share any details, it’s your business and his business. I would however urge you to be aware of any information he’s putting out there (if he has a social media presence)… you have taken the high road and this is his loss. Keep on keeping on.
Hi Ann…..I know you will be okay but it is still a difficult time. My heart and prayers are with you and your puppa dawgs. I can’t wait to see you in your new home. Chin up darling girl you will get through this.
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How are you doing today. And. I. AM. Doing good. Ok 👍👍👍👍
I was married for 24 years to an abusive man. I can't imagine doing TH-cam and documenting it. People give this woman grace. She has to make a living and this is her job. Don't kick someone when their struggling. I think its pretty brave. It could be you.
I saw your divorce announcement video because it randomly popped up in my feed. I subscribed then, and am following your story. We're here because we want to support you. It's quite obvious that you are genuine I think your subscriber numbers have grown because women like to support each other and care. So many women have gone through this.
Same here, 100 agree with you glad I found her channel, some people don’t understand when you go through something definitely can help some one else , they may have feel or have it worse
Ann you don't have to justify your content to anyone🌻If some viewers are complaining about your content they can choose to watch something else. After you move out don't go back to the house if you can avoid it. Compartmentalize what you can until you are in a better place mentally, it will help with the grief🌻
The day I asked for a divorce was the day I got my life back. It was the happiest day of my life. I love my freedom! I have boundaries and it will take a lot for a man to even be allowed in my space. I'm very selfish with my time. I love my me time so much. I do so much by myself and love it. I love I don't have to share my space with anyone.
Divorces are Ugly. I was going to bring up my story about my divorce over 25 years ago, but Stopped because God has healed that part of my life. I pray for my X husband from the heart. It just wasn't meant to be. God is still on the Throne. God bless y' all .
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I am at the step of filing. Lawyer is drafting the document. Went through mediation. It’s a lot of feelings. It’s been a year and a half since he left and I didn’t want to file until I was physically ready. He left 6 days before major surgery and I had to get house ready to sell then another surgery. Each time my adult children helped me tremendously. I’m finally ready. Physically. Mentally it’s taking a lot of therapy that I am going through now. I’m 52 and hopefully I will be done before my bday in September. Good luck with everything.
Good luck to you. You seem like a very strong person. ❤
Best wishes to you. Hugs from another September baby. ❤😊
Hi, Having gone through divorce twice, I pray all goes well for you and that's you'll be happy again, which I know you will,although we say I can't go on without him believe me can and we will Risen above all We've been through I'm a Virgo as well..We're strong Ladies 🙏❤️
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Ann…I was devastated when my high school sweetheart husband left me. I didn’t want to go on. I didn’t handle it as well as you are. However I do believe there is always a reason. Now I am the happiest I have ever been with a wonderful husband of 31 years. I really am grateful to my first husband leaving for my life today with my last husband. You WILL find love again better than before. ❤
ignore the haters when going thru a divorce it’s like dealing with a death you go thru it at ur own pace and you do what’s best for you . ur starting over and you make a new beginning for urself . i actually went thru one and ended up as a single mom but i did it and it made me a stronger person .
It was a death to
Me going through it and after
Things are turning around for you already, look at all your new friends! I am one of them...70 year old widow living just outside Phoenix, AZ. You are doing well. Remember, don't look back, you are not going that way. God Bless!
Love this! She did gain hundreds of new online friends ❤❤❤
Divorce is hard, but like you said, you will get through it.
It's been 23 years for me. I did re-marry 20 years ago. Very happy and so Blessed.
I was married 25 years the first time. Two children who at the time were 24 and 20. It was hard on them too.
Life did go on. Lot of lessons learned, tears, and now...much happiness.
Take care of you. There will be hard days. I walked off, took nothing but my car.
I should have wrote a book.
Will be praying for you. You're gonna be happy, I just know it. One day at a time.
Divorce is like a death. You will go through all the stages of grief. Allow yourself to sit in those emotions and you will feel your heart mending a little at a time. Prayers for peace!
It's not like a death for everyone
I also found you because your divorce announcement video came up in my feed. Anyone that goes through divorce for any reason can understand what you’re going through. You sound like you’re in a good frame of mind and have priorities to get done. What a lovely person you are! I’m happy to follow and support you on this journey! God bless you! 💕🙏
The best is yet to come .
I don't know how I came across your channel unless God sent it to me. I'm 75 years old and my son got a divorce 12 years ago. Grief is something we will all have to cope with someday in one form or another. It happened to me when my husband passed away five years ago. I learned how terrible loneliness really is. My son went through this during his divorce. whether it's a divorce or a death, the loneliness can be overwhelming. Stay busy and keep your mind occupied. take care of yourself, Ann. I'm glad you are going to be moving closer to family.
I went through a divorce too. Everyone has their own expereinces. I congratulate you on being as far as you are. 💕 I want you to know you can buy a home in the future. You will be happier. Be resourceful and persistent you will get thru this. Lots of love to you on your new journey. Take care🥰
You are right Ann-divorce is like a death-most people don’t have a clue! Take care of yourself on your journey! ❤❤❤❤
But he’s still close to be your friend not a total loss count your blessings !
I wish my daughter would understand what her dad has put me through. Married for almost 40 years. He had job problems, decided to move to another state ,live with my parents and promised me he would move me. Of course he sent me divorce papers in the mail. I found out things he left he has been cheating for years. My son understands what I have gone through. But my daughter does not care. She asked me to move back home with her. I sold my house, put all my things in a storage and living with her until I find something. She and my granddaughter are not nice to me. My ex her Dad lives near her and he call’s everyday, I here her just laughing with him. I hurts me knowing what he has put me through. They are hardly talking to me. I feel like a stranger. Am very sad. I ask if she would like to see a place I thought I would like. All she says is quite asking me so many questions. How do you talk to her without asking questions. I’m very hurt. And my granddaughter follows her with everything my daughter says to me. I can’t talk to her either. I moved 800 miles to be with them and I am lost for words. I wish I never moved
I went to the court house today for the divorce papers 🥰 im so happy finally getting into it this motivated me to go
I agree. You don’t have to justify your channel. It’s hard enough in life. I’m so sorry you’re going through a divorce. I pray it will get easier for you. ❤❤❤
Ann, you are putting out great content that will help others struggling with divorce. Hang in there, sweet young lady.
Girl….. giiiiiiiirllll…. You don’t have to explain yourself to ANYONE. You just do you and if they don’t like it they can pound rocks. (Whatever that means lol) I’ve said this multiple times on your videos but I’m going to say it again… YOU GOT THIS!!!!! You do you and your followers will stick with you because you are genuine. Xoxo
I am going through a divorce it’s been four years. It was one of the hardest things I’ve been through but one of the best things also. I learned so much about myself and that I am so thankful for.
I’m sorry to hear you are going through this, I gave myself 5 years to just sort out my life heart, and soul. There is never going to be an easier time, tell yourself to breathe, you did your best, now it’s time to find your inner peace and your self again, hold your head up high, be proud of who you are, and please make laughter a priority no matter what, you will watch all your negative energy away
Your divorce video showed up on my feed. I wasn’t looking for you or watching divorce videos. But watched and I liked you. You seem real. :)
Love your channel. Love that you are just "real" about life & thats just the way it is.
Ann remember about 50% of people are divorced. This topic is helpful and needed, I’m going through one as well. Talking about your move, healing and staying strong is something we want to hear. Once your out of the house you’ll start to feel better. Keep going sister we’re praying for you ❤🙏🏻
Praying for you! Know you’re never alone and you are loved.
Seek the LORD and his strength; seek his presence continually! 1Chronicles 16:11
I ve been separated for over 10 years and I just think it’s easier not to have a man in my life I only have to answer to me and me only I find men stressful to demanding on me
I feel for you. It’s been a year since my divorce. I was married at 18 and I’m now 42. I’m still a work in progress. ❤️ Best of luck to you, you got this!
I missed my house most of all. Sounds bad to miss my house more than my (ex) husband but it's the truth.
I miss my much larger nice house too. ❤😂
I have been through 2 divorces but the last one really hurt me and took a lot out of me. Believe me it does get better you will enjoy being by yourself and when the time comes you will meet Mr right!
I remember just sitting at my desk and zoning out starting at my computer some days during my divorce. The self pity party was strong, and it was ME that filed the divorce! (He was a jerk) but the sadness of a failure and crappy relationship paired with my life not turning out the way I had hoped was what I was truly sad about. Turns out it was the best decision ever!! I am almost 6 yrs post divorce and honestly have never been happier. I’ve gone on ONE date in that time because I feel the same about men. There are some good ones but I’ve yet to meet them 😂 once the exhaustion of the transition is behind you everything will be just great. Can’t wait to see your journey ❤
I am not going through a divorce , but I was left (ghosted and cheated )by my best friend , especially when I was moving to another country , and it has been a really difficult one year for me . As you said , all days are not the same . I am okay I keep myself busy, but sometimes something strikes and I am all over the place crying the whole day and feeling completely lost . I get you 100% when you say you are exhausted.
But you will heal you will be okay soon . Take care ❤
Waiting for lovely new home videos soon 😊✌🏻
I can't imagine how your feeling right now but your amazing your doing it with class and dignity never explain yourself to anyone you do what's best for you be kind to yourself always love that I chose to subscribe to your channel and in my own small way be of support to you 🌹
You are doing amazing! It’s not easy at all going through what you are. You are so strong. I look forward to watching where you go from here.
You definitely sound level headed and focused. God Bless!
The house looks great, remember it is just a house not your home.. and I am sure your new place is going to be so homey.. my mom use to tell me you depressed clean your place it will make you feel better and burn off ugly energy.. it is ok to have your sweater inside out..we all do it.. many hugs to you on your move I know it is going to be hard..
Sweet friend, good luck with your move. I’m sure you’ll get through this. Divorce is hard and it’s hard to find your new normal. Once you move it will be easier. Pour yourself into making a new home and a better life. Done that been there. Try not to make any big decisions for a least a year. Don’t trust your feelings, they lie. Surround yourself with positive energy and loving people. No matter what YOU TAKE CARE ❤👍🏻🙏🏻
Hi Ann, I’m so sorry for your stress and sadness that you’re going through right now. It is absolutely no one’s business what happened between you two just that it did. You are so blessed to have family to lean on to help you when you need it. You sound like a smart little cookie and a strong young woman. That’s blessing #2. I will keep you in my prayers for endurance and to heal your broken heart 🥰
Ann You are not a hot mess. You are beautiful woman. I didn't even notice your sweater was on inside out. Looking forward to following you on your next chapter. Sending you virtual hugs.
So sorry you're going through this. Thankfully you have a strong support system in your family ❤
I feel like we’re all rooting for you. We would help you move if we could! Just know that your subscribers care about you & wish you the best as you transition to your new life. I know that I do. Keeping busy definitely helps but sometimes it’s hard to deal with the pain & sadness. Feel it deeply & then let it go as best you can. You’ll feel much better on the other side when you start making your new house your home. Prayers & best wishes for you as you start your new journey. 🙏❤️
I wish you all the best in your new adventure ❤❤❤❤. I'm glad you realize you don't need another to define yourself!!! Best of luck to you and your fur babies!!!
New subscriber. I have been through divorce. Keep praying and trust that God will never leave you or forsake you. God is faithful. God loves you. 😊❤
Looking forward to seeing you fixing up the new place!!!
Life is a journey and things happen for a reason. Think about all the things you have your own power over.
I just recently found your channel. I just wanted to say that I totally understand where you are at with men. 2 years ago this July I left my ex and he gave me the hardest time trying to take anything of mine or my daughters. I had to hire a constable to go with me to retrieve our belongings. He stalked and harassed me until I finally had to get a PFA. Prior to this about 10 years before I was married and he cheated on me and was abusive. So I am in a place myself right now where I think men suck and I probably will never date again. Now I am completely happy with my life and loving being single. I too am very independent so that’s also why I am happy being single. You too will get through this minor bump in the road.
Also you do not have to justify YOUR channel or what you say or music you use. Some people are either bored or jealous so they sit by themselves and nit pick other peoples lives. Just ignore them and concentrate on the rest of the wonderful subscribers you have 😊
BEEN THERE DONE THAT....but I didn't clean when I left.....God's Blessings...you popped up on my page....A prayer went up in your name
Ann please give yourself grace and also just allow yourself to feel ALL of the emotions. Ignore the naysayers….and just be you.
Good luck with the move Ann, I am so looking forward to seeing the new place :) better things are ahead for you Ann. Let the journey begin ❤
Good luck with your move and new beginning. I'm very sorry you are going through this because, obviously, you did not really want your marriage to end. I am divorced and now that it has been many years, I can truly say I am very happy and content. I realized rather quickly that my marriage was not healthy for me, and leaving the relationship turned out to be a huge blessing. Take care of yourself and give yourself all the time you need to heal. God bless.
I actually agree with you, posting your divorce I’m going through it, accidentally found your channel definitely Does help me and I see all other positive comments, it’s encouraging to us all, Keep it up Anne, ❤ keep the strength good days and bad,,, it will get better God allows us to go through things for a reason, I try to see it as a positive 😊
You are such a good hearted person. You’re leaving the marital home, yet you’re cleaning it thoroughly like a move-out cleaning. He’s still going to live there so I wouldn’t bother, but that’s why you’re kind-hearted. Btw you don’t ever have to explain the reason for divorce. I’ve walked that thorny path and I’ll keep the pricks and stumbles to myself. My life, my chaos. Good luck dear, there’s light at the other end.❤
Stopping by to show love and support and give some courage - you can do this’ you got this!!❤❤❤❤
I’m new to your channel, I will be keeping you in prayer!!
I think you are doing great! ❤. Breathe, allow yourself to feel ALL the feelings. This too shall pass. You can do this. You ARE doing this. Love and hugs and prayers ❤
I’m not divorcing, but I want to support you. You are very relatable and kind. I am keeping you in prayer. Share what you are comfortable with. It’s all really nobody’s business. 💜💜
I love your channel, especially your authenticity! You’re doing everything right, ignore the haters. I love your cleaning, decluttering, and organizing content and your cooking/recipes, too. I adore your dogs and your inclusion of them in yourfilming. Keep it up and take care of you!
I’m sorry you get so much negativity and people can’t keep their crazy speculation to themselves, but stay positive.. leaving will be bittersweet but you will find new joys on the next step of the journey..
Hi Ann I’m 55 and have been through many “ trauma transitions “ though I’ve never been married. All I can say is I wish I went through them half as gracefully as you.❤
Hello Ann you are doing great! It is normal to feel so many different emotions. When you get in your new house it will feel different but I think you will do absolutely great. You have a a smart head on your shoulders. You are beautiful and determine to go to the next plan of your life. I am rooting for you!💐💖
Ann you are the sweetest person 💕 I wish you all the very best as moving day approaches once it’s behind you it’s all up from there!! you soooo have this 💫 a fresh new start YOUR way..
You don't have to explain yourself to us. I enjoy watching your channel. I wish you nothing but happiness in the future. Just take one day at a time. Prayers and blessings to you 🙏
New subscriber. Just want to say you got this Girl!! I've been where you are and it does get easier with time. Looking forward to any and all content you feel inclined to share. First priority is take care of you and your babies. ❤🐾🐕🐈
Hi Ann, it’s so hard what you’re going through but wants you leave there don’t look back and believe me you’re going to be fine. It takes day by day but you’re strong and God is going to give you lots of strength.🙏 Will keep praying for you and your fur babies.😊
Some times I think divorce is like feelings of a death ! Meaning loss and feeling with sadness ! Remember it’s not on you land your feet it’s how you move them going forward! You are beautiful person
I love that you are mentioning how people jump to conclusions and then consider it a fact. I get so tired of comments that are so far from the truth. I like that you are not throwing your exhusbands personal life under the bus. Its not for us to know if he doesnt tell us. You are doing great. Congratulations on your channel growth. ❤ Blessings and Prayers
Happy New Beginning…and remember not to let life change your name… You are doing great…and anytime you feel down and sad; smile and thank God for strength! ❤
Well, I for one, am on the hot mess express right along with you 🤣🤣🤣
It is early Monday morning. I just wanted to say I have been praying for you. My heart goes out to you & your pets. You are doing a great job. You are a kind & wonderful person. Have a blessed week!
Hang in there Ann, unfortunately I've never been married & I'm 65. I have had a sad many yrs together break-up, so I can't imagine what ur going through...🙏
Ann, the smallest thing can set you off. That's normal and it will take a long time for you to adjust. Remember, small steps and go slowly. We care!
Can’t wait to see your new home all decorated you do such a good job!
Hi I'm a new subscriber, you can block the haters or the negative people.
It can help a lot that you don't see the negative comments.
I'm devorce too and I know how hard it was, so doing it online must be so hard.
Big hugs from Denmark.
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Praying for you and sending love. A fresh start will help you focus on self. Your future home will have your heart!
Do what makes you feel comfortable doing as far as content is concerned… everyone is different ❤
I've watched you for a while and I know you're a strong woman you'll get there
Wishing you only the best❣️ there’s no wrong way to do a divorce! Always put yourself first! ❤️
Best wishes on this new chapter! Change can be scary but it sounds like you have a great support group . I wish you much happiness and peace in your new home! ❤
There will always be someone out there with crazy comments. I am so sorry you have to deal with these people. You go, girl! You got this and I am praying for you. ❤
Hang in there sister! Ignore the ignorant people and know you are supported in your TH-cam endeavor. I’ve been through a divorce and it is hard. I watch all your videos and want to hear about your journey! Take care!
Yes you will be fine,yes im sure its sad.but you will be better off.love your videos watching someone clean is sooo relaxing😅thanks🙃.
Random question (off topic)… I’m an “old lady” and we were always taught to clean wood with a “polish” like pledge, etc. I notice a lot of younger people cleaning wood furniture with the same cleaner as they do on countertops. Does that dry it out, or is it all the same? Just curious if anyone has an opinion on that. ❤
I use oil like pledge for real wood! When I use the all purpose cleaner it’s on surfaces that don’t absorb 😊
It's therapeutic for you to talk about it. Don't worry about what ares are thinking.
Great video, Ann. Try not to let the negative comments bring you down. Unfortunately, it comes with the territory of having a TH-cam channel (you can't please everyone). You are strong...you've got this.💪 👏 Looking forward to your next video.❤
I wish energy, luck harmony for your moving day. Look forward to July being a whole new beginning in your life story. Your channel showed up in my feed just when I needed it as I plan on moving soon and am overwhelmed. You have given me motivation and I can hardly wait to see how you decorate your new home.❤
Yeah, who cares what other strangers think ?? YOU know you, you ARE you, you DO you always 😊 The haters are Miserable People ❤❤❤
Anne, you are a sweet person. Haters gonna hate. You tell us a snippet of your life and getting to know you has been great!! You don't owe anyone the details. I've listened to many sweet women tell us about their divorce. Its nice to be a part of your life. I do the same where I fast forward through someone just talking. I say stop taking and get to doing. Lol but never make stupid comments. You're doing great keep it up. I'll listen to whatever. 😅😊❤
I have been watching for a few weeks this is just part of your journey and I know you will be okay. I have gone through a divorce as a kid and my mom found a great guy and all of use were so happy.
Ann - give yourself all of the time you need. Break ups/divorce is hard no matter who you are. There’s so many mixed emotions to go through & deal with. Do what you need to do for YOU & no one else. ❤
You have a nice, spacious and cosy home, and with so many cute fur babies... Envy! ☺️❤️ Stay strong, and you do you! Hugs 🤗
As hard as this is, you are doing a great job❤
Praying for you girl , sending all my hugs ❤
Love your honesty. Praying your move goes smoothly and it helps you feel peace and comfort.
We are all here to listen & support you! ❤❤
I went through the same thing, it’s hard. You’ll get through it. Best wishes.
So sorry dear. I pray God comforts and blessed you!
Just ignore them. The more u feed into it the more thay will keep doing it
You are doing remarkably well. It’s a tough process. Some days it’s a minute by minute proposition; but every day gets better. No one should expect you to share any details, it’s your business and his business. I would however urge you to be aware of any information he’s putting out there (if he has a social media presence)… you have taken the high road and this is his loss. Keep on keeping on.
Hi Ann…..I know you will be okay but it is still a difficult time. My heart and prayers are with you and your puppa dawgs. I can’t wait to see you in your new home. Chin up darling girl you will get through this.