Best way to shake off an emotionally immature person who is using you... get needy! As soon as they have to invest in the relationship, they're gone. My colleague who used me for 6months disappeared as soon as I told her I'm depressed and need extra support. I was depressed because she drained me, she needn't know the truth. It was the only way to get her to leave me the hell alone.
Best way to shake off an emotionally immature person who is using you... get needy! As soon as they have to invest in the relationship, they're gone. My colleague who used me for 6months disappeared as soon as I told her I'm depressed and need extra support. I was depressed because she drained me, she needn't know the truth. It was the only way to get her to leave me the hell alone.
I'm glad she is not bothering you anymore! I agree with getting needy to have them not bother you anymore. Investment takes time and energy