answering questions girls are too afraid to ask w/ Jordan Ciciotti

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    Well well well! Look what we have here! (not going to lie, no idea where I was going with that but anyways) Let me ask you a question. Are you operating from victory or for victory? I ask that loaded question because i realized that so much of my hope and what I was looking forward to was for victories to come in the future. I wasn't currently celebrating the victory that I am walking in thanks to Christ. My actions were saying "oh yeah, I know Jesus died for me, but this is what I'm currently struggling with." and then it hit me. Wait a sec. Why did he die for me? To give me life and life abundant. That is something that NO ONE can take away from me. He gave me victory already. I have it. You have it. It's ours. So why are we still living day to day, pay check to paycheck, relationship to relationship hoping to be content in the future when He, the creator of contentment, has already won that for us! We just need to receive it, not achieve it. So I'll ask you in another way... Today, how can you operate from victory instead of for victory.
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    • @ToriAndChad
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  • @stephaniedidonato134
    @stephaniedidonato134 ปีที่แล้ว +177

    Your answers to the last question meant so much to me. I’m currently 37 weeks pregnant with my first baby. My body looks completely different than it did 9 months ago. I have a ton of stretch marks and at first it was very hard for me to come to terms with them. The older women in my family have always been ashamed of their own marks. They even told me earlier in my pregnancy when they saw me in a swim suit that I was “blessed to not have any.” Fast forward just a few weeks and now I’m covered. But I now wear them with pride knowing that the growth of my belly and the marks that come with that is evidence that God is sustaining and growing my precious child.

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  ปีที่แล้ว +15

      yes wear those with pride!

    • @rebekahcanova6403
      @rebekahcanova6403 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Amen! Well said! Being a mama and truly seeking the Lord in the raising of our precious children is the greatest work we can ever do because we are honoring the Lord in serving others and impacting a life or several lives for eternity! Instead of focusing on ourselves and our body we need to focus on how we can please the Lord and bless others! From a Mama who is pregnant with our 10th baby💕🙏

    • @taraleasure
      @taraleasure ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aw yes I can relate to this so much! I’m 35 weeks and thought I wasn’t going to get any but then I hit 25ish weeks. It’s amazing to see how my husband still loves my body despite all my stretch marks. I just remind myself that our little girl is so worth it 💕

  • @whitneywilliams6168
    @whitneywilliams6168 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    "if you can't love yourself right now, you never will", this hit so hard! The conversation around body image really encouraged my heart today!
    This video is filled with so much good perspective!

  • @nancydroge7682
    @nancydroge7682 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    “When it comes to physical appearance, our wives are our standard… !”
    Beautiful!

  • @dsophie7816
    @dsophie7816 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    That was really good what you said about the image based questions and your spouse being the epitomy of beauty. We grow with so many insecurities engraved to our minds by culture and media that it is so refreshing to hear how you honour your wives' body

  • @shwetav
    @shwetav ปีที่แล้ว +94

    Ah! This was good! It's so nice to hear the boys talk from their perspective about all this stuff girls want to know about! Thanks for doing this and being so honest! That ad break in a bow tie was real fun! Thanks for making us girls aware of how you boys think! 🙂

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      awww thankyou for letting me know your feedback! We love you!

  • @wellworthitco.8495
    @wellworthitco.8495 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Don't apologize for getting too deep into the conversation! Those are the BEST!! IMO I wish ya'll had more content like this, and helping the young women in the Masters Fam understand men (whether they're single/dating/married) is such an important and topic not discussed enough in the church.

  • @aligrace8135
    @aligrace8135 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was seriously so nice! I’m so glad y’all answered questions that were unrelated to image. There’s so much more to a person. Looks are only scratching the surface! I love what y’all were saying about motherhood and how it needs to be seen as a gift. It’s far more important than any career.❤️

  • @jacquelyn1000
    @jacquelyn1000 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love this. Thank you guys for being vulnerable! Helps to see men being vulnerable. I’ve learned that I respect a man so much more when they allow themselves to be real and not afraid to speak about these sorts of things!! 🙏🏼

  • @mallorymakenzie
    @mallorymakenzie ปีที่แล้ว +4

    THE DESCRIPTION IS FIRE 🔥😭 thank you. Also this video was great. Love the perspective from not just guys but godly men who live for Christ! Praying for y’all! 💗

  • @claubit32
    @claubit32 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Jordan, I really appreciated your wisdom. Congratulations to you and Milena on your new baby!✝️😊

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I will share that message with him!

  • @adriahrestituyo506
    @adriahrestituyo506 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love this SOOO much. Especially you’re beautiful perspective on motherhood and how IMPORTANT and amazing it is!!! ❤️ society says working is wayyyy better being a mom and it’s sad!

  • @lailavipal
    @lailavipal ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Soooo much wisdom in there! Thank you guys! :) And the description is fire! Thanks for the reminder!!

  • @allisonlucas018
    @allisonlucas018 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Just read the description. Chad, you always hit the mark with them! I've been thinking about the topic of victory the last couple days and how I haven't been living like God has already won. I don't need to be anxious or worry because of our victory in Christ!

  • @mominasweet
    @mominasweet ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Absolutely loved the part about highlighting how important commitment is in relationships and how important it is to encourage your partner because at the end of the day it's not about rather you love them enough or not but about the strong team and bond you build by uplifting each other through the hard parts of life because anyone can love someone on the good days. Just being thoughtful enough and considerate is what matters just as much. Chad preach on. You are an inspiration 👏🏻🤌🏻🙌🏻

  • @teresacaceresvillarroya3793
    @teresacaceresvillarroya3793 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    How beautifully said!!!!!! The Last answer deserves a standing ovation for the holy spirit for having inspired such an eye-opening comparison of Jesus ‘ scars as a sign of Love with moms’ bodies as a sign of love. Thank you so much, as a mom of 3, I will cherish this forever.

  • @nadinekba8989
    @nadinekba8989 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I truly feel like you guys are special ! There’s actually guys like you two out there? No wonder you’re married! This video was great. I love how Jordan speaks, very inspirational. He’s very intentional and genuine🤍Thanks for sharing!

  • @hannahsnyder8748
    @hannahsnyder8748 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much for the example you both set and for emphasizing the right things! So blessed by this video ❤️

  • @_devotionart
    @_devotionart ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Is amazing to hear you guys talk like this. I think is funny that as women we (for the most part) grow up thinking that men are very superficial and that they only think about sex and “a type of body” and is actually not like that. We tend to think every single man on earth thinks the same way, and you guys are the evidence that is not true. Thank God for men who really know who they are in Christ and also respect women in a truly beautiful way✨💕

  • @ZoeyIndigoSky
    @ZoeyIndigoSky ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oh my gosh this was amazing!! And YESS to all the depth and focusing on the love, the beauty and the gift of God than physical appearance! Love you guys. It's so great to see two great male friends have these conversations. There needs to be more men that have a great group of friends where they can talk about all of this!

  • @charafisher6929
    @charafisher6929 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was great! Thank you guys for answering some of the more image based questions because it is so good to hear the truth that men who are submitted to God notice but do not obsess over a woman’s appearance. My husband is a godly man and I’m so thankful for him too. It is however something that many women think often due to our heart questions “Am I enough?”, “Am I too much?”, and “Am I loved?”

  • @inezhollmann5135
    @inezhollmann5135 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was precious! How wonderful to hear that you don't obsess over looks

  • @kate_700
    @kate_700 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Praise God for Godly, masculine, devoted husbands like you both! May God raise up more!

  • @lexxilouuuu
    @lexxilouuuu ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Crying at work LOL - that last question hit me hard. Thank you for sharing your perspectives ❤

  • @YAD1997
    @YAD1997 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Looooved all your questions you picked and the answers as well! 🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @rachelfaithmanning
    @rachelfaithmanning ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So blessed to hear others holding & sharing such a Godly perspective!

  • @eemilee91
    @eemilee91 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That outro never gets old. :) You guys have such a cute bromance going on! The giggles you guys shared. 🤭Really enjoy the dynamic you guys have with each other, y'all are so funny. Appreciated your guys' insight/thoughtful answers! The last part about your wives being your guys' standard of beauty was too sweet.

  • @TreasureLovely
    @TreasureLovely ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was amazing!! So insightful to know how kingdom men view women. Thank you Chad and Jordan! Y'all are awesome ❤

  • @andreaarmstrong7543
    @andreaarmstrong7543 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi guys, thank you for sharing your perspective. My husband is not confident in expressing his feelings, what you talked about gave me a great insight into why and what I need to do to support him. From NZ

  • @cyndicopeland4113
    @cyndicopeland4113 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That was hilarious! We need more of just Chad and Jordan!

  • @jenlewis354
    @jenlewis354 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "...it's just to give myself the best chance at reacting well"

  • @francescasalcedo
    @francescasalcedo ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Dynamic duo! Thank you guys for sharing your wisdom, these were some really great answers

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you for letting us know!

  • @Kiayamarieee
    @Kiayamarieee ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love these type of videos! Also cool to see from a guys perspective cause it’s reminded me and inspired me to give more safety and space for my boyfriend to process too…thank y’all!

  • @tfeliciano1106
    @tfeliciano1106 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It’s beautiful to see you honor your wives, and keep the Lord in the conversation.👏🏼

  • @addisonswannack
    @addisonswannack ปีที่แล้ว

    this was such a fun video! would love a part 2!

  • @cassidyjordan4690
    @cassidyjordan4690 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The ad was so hilarious! I had no idea Chad was that funny! What a fun surprise! Q & A chat was great too!

  • @Greg_Orr
    @Greg_Orr ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Another awesome video! Hope you and Tori and baby are healthy and doing well! Praying for you three and hope you have a great rest of the week! Also love the description Chad!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      thanks a ton my man! You are the best!

  • @baileycornelll
    @baileycornelll ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel like these questions were answered with such a fatherly type of love.

  • @nancydroge7682
    @nancydroge7682 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ~Powerful, powerful encouragement! GOD IS IN THIS, for sure! Way to go, guys! It’s pure joy to watch God working in & through you the way that He does! Thank you for being who God designed & made you to be & for using your gifts to spread the joy & further the kingdom in the extraordinarily powerful way that you do!
    Grateful!

  • @mj_9450
    @mj_9450 ปีที่แล้ว

    But yall will agree with me that WE NEED THIS COMBO 😁 Jordan and Chad, this was great and I feel like we could use more of these videos - a series, maybe? So, so helpful 🤗

  • @clarapretorius794
    @clarapretorius794 ปีที่แล้ว

    "If you can't love yourself right now, you never will." 🙌
    TRUTH

  • @graceforclaire8888
    @graceforclaire8888 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for answering all the questions, and for making this video. 💖👍

  • @brittanygreenland9059
    @brittanygreenland9059 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The ad was amazing! First time i've watched a full ad in a long time ahaha

  • @eeg122
    @eeg122 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Congratulations to both of your parents for bringing you guys up in the way you should go. Credit to you both for staying the course w/ the Lord and allowing him to mold you in the men that you are. Your answers were mature. Milena & Tori are very blessed to have you. And of course big big Praise to our Lord & Savior for His Love grace & mercy.

  • @kaydeebeedy1582
    @kaydeebeedy1582 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Y’all’s answer to that last question has me in tears as a mama. Thank you for reminding me how my husband really does see me! ❤️

  • @Dana-mb1hd
    @Dana-mb1hd ปีที่แล้ว

    you guys are awesome! god bless both your families ❤️

  • @cjay6033
    @cjay6033 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg! Am so happy your both are talking about important topic 👍

  • @justinemcpherson
    @justinemcpherson ปีที่แล้ว

    The way Chad threw in, "And some snacks" so precious. 😄(I instantly thought of Motts/Welchs fruit snacks)

  • @ManonJadeYeah
    @ManonJadeYeah ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen for your anwers and especially the last one. Hope many young men will watch the video and be inspired by your respect, maturity and hearts to be great husbands :)

  • @stephanieac7893
    @stephanieac7893 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you guys for this video! Loved hearing your perspective and also so encouraged by the fact that there are good Godly men out there... and that shines with how you live your life 🧡

  • @mishajacobs.2000
    @mishajacobs.2000 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Props to you for answering these questions! I'm surprised and also not surprised that so many were on the physical side of things. Really learnt a lot from you guys🙌🏻

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      we love you, mishmish!

  • @abifaithh
    @abifaithh ปีที่แล้ว

    i love this! wish men expressed stuff like this more!!

  • @drummergirl0385
    @drummergirl0385 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you both so much for answering these questions and especially from a Christian perspective.

  • @naomiiSingh
    @naomiiSingh ปีที่แล้ว

    This was so great! 💙

  • @Greg_Orr
    @Greg_Orr ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The boyssss! Looking forward to this one!

  • @user-wq7vl7su1p
    @user-wq7vl7su1p ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this video! Thank you

  • @dreaplascencia
    @dreaplascencia ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love this!

  • @elenaursachianu1074
    @elenaursachianu1074 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    More of this, maybe a series with guys talk & one with girl talk .
    GOD bless you all & His name be PRAISED!
    hugs, from Romania

  • @sarahpreusser1514
    @sarahpreusser1514 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Not too deep at all !! I love hearing this !! Such wise Godly men !! Gives us hope that there are still other Godly Men out there !! Love love yalls videos !!

  • @amybueckert6411
    @amybueckert6411 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for doing this guy's. It was great information.

  • @maryckepienaar7959
    @maryckepienaar7959 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happily married for 10 years to my amazing hubs and we have 2 beautiful daughters. But this video was a blessing in disguise😂😝always fun and amazing to hear things from a different perspective! Definitely taking the good and applying it😅🙏🏻

  • @harleighstringer
    @harleighstringer ปีที่แล้ว

    we love this duo

  • @biancajc
    @biancajc ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a great duo! :D

  • @cdesjardins1988
    @cdesjardins1988 ปีที่แล้ว

    Definitely love hearing other men and their thoughts about women among other things. Make more of these vlogs! So interesting!

  • @rockyrock7756
    @rockyrock7756 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Jordan's analogy of Christ's scars and stretch marks that a woman bears from carrying a child was 👌🏽, never looked at it like that before

  • @sofiaiwaszewicz4251
    @sofiaiwaszewicz4251 ปีที่แล้ว

    i felt so hugged in my soul right now 🥹

  • @ErinNicole617
    @ErinNicole617 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was a great video! I enjoyed it 🙂

  • @naomigrace8261
    @naomigrace8261 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved the answer to the last question 😍🙌🏼

  • @GermaineNimundel
    @GermaineNimundel ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think for us girls I speak mostly for myself. The questioning is not because we don’t trust, but it’s because we want to be included and aware of what’s going on. You hear so many stories of woman whose husbands keep telling them they know what they’re doing an have things under control and then when things spiral, they’re not the only ones paying the price for it but now it’s the previously oblivious spouse stuck with the mess too cause she had to just trust and not question too much.

  • @viktoriyamalyk5701
    @viktoriyamalyk5701 ปีที่แล้ว

    5 stars!!!!! this was amazing :)))

  • @yaninabotejue
    @yaninabotejue ปีที่แล้ว

    Such an amazing description Chad! Its something that’s been on my heart lately too!🔥✨ from victory > for victory

  • @linoca.alencar
    @linoca.alencar ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You guys are awsome! ❤️

  • @unciaciapanca
    @unciaciapanca ปีที่แล้ว

    Love them both. Young men need examples like them

  • @lik3mik365
    @lik3mik365 ปีที่แล้ว

    Might just be the best sponsored skit ever! The music in the background haha!

  • @deborahkoumah7617
    @deborahkoumah7617 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was so good !

  • @SimplyLivingInFaith
    @SimplyLivingInFaith ปีที่แล้ว

    The ending 🤣. But so true what you said at the end. The questions were a lot on outer ness.

  • @jemimaabraham5329
    @jemimaabraham5329 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    awesome! cant wait to see this!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  ปีที่แล้ว

      We hope you like it!!!!

  • @haroldgeernian3699
    @haroldgeernian3699 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That question about body image really hit me hard. My main hobby is golf, and all my friends are better than me and I've had issues with feeling lesser than them because I can't spend the time or money to get the newest clubs and lessons all the time.

  • @shaughnsmit2076
    @shaughnsmit2076 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    To all the ladies, this is such a great perspective video!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hahah we need to do one together!!

  • @EleniceASolis
    @EleniceASolis ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My husband says messy buns reminds him of a target 🎯 then proceeds to do a shooting motion at it 😂😂😂…thank you for making this video! It was definitely interesting and had me thinking.

  • @Thandiwe_Philangezwi
    @Thandiwe_Philangezwi ปีที่แล้ว

    My goodness,I loved this🤎

  • @JMKrech
    @JMKrech ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yesss woohooo!!! This was fun to watch!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  ปีที่แล้ว

      hahah love it! Thanks Jman!

  • @audreyreagan2793
    @audreyreagan2793 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love you guys!! 🫶🏼

  • @jonathanrolle5118
    @jonathanrolle5118 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Awesome video! Enjoyed the bro talk👍

  • @gabiiszciita
    @gabiiszciita ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing talk thank you guys

  • @shaughnsmit2076
    @shaughnsmit2076 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Awesome description again Chad!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks a ton my man!!!

  • @lunarose72
    @lunarose72 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    We love this dynamic duo haha

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I want to do more videos like this! lol

  • @dsophie7816
    @dsophie7816 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you! That was really interesting

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you for watching!

  • @kelimyers3433
    @kelimyers3433 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great to hear a man’s opinion and point of view.

  • @starrperry6395
    @starrperry6395 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was a great vlog!!!

  • @briggseats4472
    @briggseats4472 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can y’all please do another one
    The generation need this

  • @mariamangion21
    @mariamangion21 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love your videos 💕

  • @mishajacobs.2000
    @mishajacobs.2000 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The bow tie 😂😂 need to see Chad in more commercials

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ahahah if more people like it, then I will do more!

  • @Greg_Orr
    @Greg_Orr ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hahaha yes Chad! That ExpressVPN ad break segment was so good!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      thanks a ton my man! I put a lot of work into it!

    • @charlenemyers6834
      @charlenemyers6834 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      More of these, please!

  • @rachelboal2029
    @rachelboal2029 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow this is going to be a super fun and funny video!!😂

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hahah we sure hope so!!!

  • @lilyw9324
    @lilyw9324 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The dedication to the sponsored portion 👏👏

  • @saderrrs
    @saderrrs ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved this 😂

  • @destineyhopkins7097
    @destineyhopkins7097 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Woot woot! Love this video

  • @sophiebotello4751
    @sophiebotello4751 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is such a fun video. I could watch them talk all day! I feel like they answered a lot of questions I’ve had. As far as the “do guys think about sex all the time question” did you think about it a lot before you were married? Like when you were in high school or college?

  • @christinawatkinsyoutube
    @christinawatkinsyoutube ปีที่แล้ว

    getting Jim from the Office vibes with that Ad 🤣