I'm 71 and still keep up with makeup. Channels like yours make us remember to keep up appearances. It's good for the soul. As the saying goes, aging is not for the faint of heart.
My mom tells me that and I already know it - I've known it since I was a teenager and DREADED it coming, and here it is. My 50's. I still keep fit at the gym, colour my hair & won't go out in public without makeup and I PRAY I stay this way. I don't ever want to give up !
Risa, you're a beautiful YOUNG woman, inside and out! I'm 72 and enjoy watching you and several other beauty TH-camrs who are 25 or more years younger than me. When I turned 40 I cried, not because I was 40 but because of how fast time went from 20-40. I knew 40-60 would go even faster!! 😳 And it did!! Aging isn't for sissies! And it's definitely better than the alternative! I was in excellent health until I reached 70. Bam! Every test's results seem to become another test needing to be ordered. Ugh! I'm faithful about routine tests and annual physicals. I do skin care every morning and night and I continue to take care of how my makeup looks, transitioning into changes in what I use and how I apply it as I age. Even though I sometimes feel that I look 80, many people, friends and strangers alike, have said I don't look my age. It's the miracle of modern makeup. 😉😊 Try drinking organic Tart Cherry Juice for sleep. I swear it works for me. It's an anti-inflammatory and antioxidant as well.
@@victoriap4335 ... I seldom have trouble sleeping, but as I've gotten a bit older ( I'm in my late 60's) I sometimes find I will have a bit of that trouble. The tart cherry juice does actually work , I just don't do it everyday. I discovered a ' supplement cocktail " as I call it , 4 years ago , and although it might take several weeks for you to see results it does work a good magnesium supplement that is like a 2000 mg and an Omega 3 supplement, even a liquid one . One hour before your normal sleep time. I also read, this sort of " signals " your brain to start shutting down. ... and when I say read I mean something that isn't graphic something enjoyable you can even look at mail order catalogs or read a book of Affirmations ...just anything that will kind of put you in a different frame of mind to slow your brain down. Also the Epsom salt baths with magnesium those will help you sleep as well. Just offering a few suggestions, 🙂😊
@@texasstardust6010 Yes, my daughter, the nurse, says magnesium is something to supplement. She uses a magnesium sleep time balm from Earthley that works for her. It didn't work for me. I've recently ordered tart cherry gummies to take when I don't have time to drink the 8 oz bottle of juice.
I’m 57. Aging is definitely an process of adjustment that is so much more than grays and wrinkles! Turning 50 for me was like a light switch had been flipped. My time tested beauty/self care routine had to be recalibrated. It’s like my skin was someone else’s skin and I couldn’t deal with that change very easily. Getting hormone medication really helped the transition. And telling myself I AM good enough, over and over. And I am not ready to embrace being gray yet, and I applaud those you have embraced it. But I am not there yet, lol. I LOVE WATCHING YOUR VIDEOS RISA. You will find your way through this.
57 here too. One benefit to being over 50 is simply not giving a flip anymore what people think of you or feeling like you need to 'fix' everyone or make everyone happy. It is so freeing to just be able to be yourself!
Rochelle I had the same experience with those changes when I turned 52! Couldn't figure out why my makeup suddenly looked like crap (went from oily to dry), all the foundation colors looked weird (because my red hair was turning grey), and the way I'd done my eye makeup for 37 years looked ridiculous (new hooding and downturned eyes). It's been a journey to say the least..lol
I'm 57 too. It definitely was like a light switch going off! Menopause was a nightmare and all the other issues that come with it. I tanked and felt the worst I ever have in my life until I started taking hormones it was like night and day. After that I just decided to try to look the best I could for my age and not sweat the rest!!
Risa the older we get the faster the years go by, just take one day at a time. I'm 76 and I love to keep up with all the new cosmetics. I really enjoy your channel!
Wow. I’m turning 48 and experiencing EVERYTHING you mentioned in this video. The struggle of getting older and witnessing your body change is real and disheartening at times. Thank you for sharing this with us.
Risa - I’m quite older than you but when I was your age and used to complain about this or that, my mom (who’s gone now) would laugh and say “Baby, you ain’t seen nothing yet !” And sadly, she was right ! And as far as time speeding by, the older you get, the quicker it goes by !
Yes, aging sucks, I am 51 and have a lot of the symptoms you mentioned, hrt has helped enormously with some things but still have the vision/hair/hooded eyes age related stuff. You always look amazing Risa. One thing about aging is you give less and less of a .......... on what people say or think, so def one bonus lol....
@Marie Crowe, I’m 60 and color/highlight my hair, workout, HRT, blah blah blah and Still I don’t like the “surprises” that keep popping up out of nowhere 🥴🥴🥴 BUT! True about not caring what others think AND! I’m letting the aging crap bother ME less and less! Like, who cares really?! I mean, geez another 20 years I’ll be 80- Im enjoying each day and not obsessing or wasting time on the truly irrelevant outward aesthetic stuff- thankful for current good health and Im good to go! It’s rather freeing! 🥳🥳🥳
@Angela, couldn’t agree more, I’m 63 and with a care factor of what others think Zero, that’s one of the bonuses of getting older, you don’t care what others think of you as much anymore, I still love my makeup and fashion just like I did when I was in my 30’s, I watch younger TH-camrs and get styling tips from them rather than someone that dresses differently to me, I dress how I want to, plus my hubby of over 40 years loves it, I’m still the young girl he married all those years ago. ❤️❤️
I turn 47 at the end of this year and it’s been rough seeing and feeling the process of getting older. Two years ago I went into surgical menopause and holy cow the effects of that has been mind blowing. I feel like 10 years of aging happened in a year and a half. The changes in my skin, the overall feeling of tiredness, the hot flashes!!! wee-doggy!!! I feel you and totally understand that feeling of falling apart and how heartbreaking it can feel!!! But we are strong and we are vibrant and we are beautiful….all of us. So we all stand together in this aging circle and lift each other up!!!!
Not going to lie I had tears welling up in my eyes the entire video. I turned 48 this year & have been feeling the same as you too. I’ve never related so much to a video, thank you so much for sharing your feelings….. I don’t feel so alone 🥺
I don’t know if you can tell, but I started tearing up at the end of the video too as I was filming! Society is so unkind to us women as we age. We need to stick to together and uplift one another!!!! ❤️
@@RisaDoesMakeup yes I could see it in your eyes love. And yes we need to lift each other up as women & regardless of age. Everyone behind the screen is going through something. Call it reverse psychology but I always feel better complimenting or typing something positive to someone even when I’m feeling like crap. Wish more people would learn that skill. Love you girl, keep your chin up sweetheart 🙏🏻😍
I will be 60 in a couple of weeks and the grey is coming in thick. Im not sure if I will be able to continue with the grey. Im very fair with freckles and my hair had a lot of red until the grey started. I feel the grey does nothing for my skin tone, looks dull. I love grey, white hair on others but I do feel it depends on the person skin tone. You are a beautiful person inside and out, love your videos.
Risa I am 60 and the one thing I can tell you is this... I finally had a heart to heart with MYSELF and decided to care about myself. When others put us down, remember the source and know that something is missing in them to feel the need to try to hurt others. You are a wonderful person and life happens to us all so enjoy the ride and find your smile!
Risa, this video REALLY resonates with me. I just turned 55, oh that's hard to say and think about, my 50's have really been a hard pill to swallow. My brain still thinks I'm very young and my body begs to differ...the changes have been rapid! Yes, brain fog, sleeplessness etc I see my kids so grown and how fast this time went by, it's saddens me, mainly because of how fast these years have gone by. You're GORGEOUS and haters are everywhere. Much love
You’re just going through the most difficult stage of aging. Believe me, it does get better and easier to accept these changes the more you get into your 50s and to be happy with the gifts that you already have.
Just yesterday you were my inspiration. I was intimidated going into Sephora to get a shade match. No one approached me or spoke to me. Tbh at 51 I was by far the oldest in there. I walked out again and then thought. You can do this. Think of Risa. I did, went back in and got what I wanted. Thank you for being my inspiration
Good for you for going back in and getting what you wanted! Sometime younger people don’t know how to approach older people and wait for us to be pro-active 😉⭐️
Oh...that's not you .that's the workers there not doing their job correctly by not checking on all customers, being friendly, etc. Sephora is for all ages.....and I think most lines would work for anyone...even though some lines are just immature ones..like Too Faced.
You are Gorgeous! Don't let anyone dim your Beauty! I was in the Beauty/Modeling industry & some of these insecure (not so nice women) are just not very knowledgeable! Don't take it to heart!
I don’t get it! .51 isn’t even old! And even if it was- I don’t understand why people are treated this way! Everyone is AGING! We are ALL getting older! What an awesome, amazing thing! Because what’s the alternative? It’s death! And I’m not ready to die at 45 years old!
Judy Bowen, Risa is great. I also recommend Alexandra Anele, she just posted one titled "My TOP Tips for YOUR Perfect Base Makeup" which is fantastic. Wayne Goss is excellent and goes out of his way to help women who are getting "wiser". Nikol Johnson is an elder makeup artist who demonstrates techniques on her channel, and one of the best examples is by Hindash titled "How I do Makeup on Mature Skin | Hindash" (Part 1 & Part 2)
I am now 60 and I hear you on symptoms of aging. Totally sucks and I remember feeling similar emotions when I turned 50. Keep moving forward and in time, you’ll feel better about things. I certainly did. Remember that you are doing what you love and that the vast majority of people adore you and love tuning into your channel. Don’t let the turkeys get you down. You are beautiful inside and out! ❤😊
I am so grateful for this video! "Falling apart" is the perfect word for how I have felt since turning 49, I will be 50 in December. First, I had to start taking high blood pressure medication. My blood pressure was never high before turning 49! I got attacked and assaulted by one of my psych patients, I am an R.N. on a very acute psychiatric unit. Then my liver enzymes were extremely elevated and the doctors can't figure out why. I don't drink at all so it isn't alcohol related. Anxiety, depression, insomnia, eye sight deterioration, thinning hair, puffy eyes. Before I hit 47 I use to have people telling me how much younger than my age I looked. That all stopped at 47. Now I get called ma'am everywhere I go. I put on 40 pounds in a 4 month period! Despite these things I will do everything I can to improve and challenge myself. I will remain curious about life and question and search for new ideas. I have also adopted the philosophy that it matters not one bit what others think or say about me. This is my life, and I will live it as such while staying a kind, nurturing human. It is good to know I am not alone.
I am so sorry that you were attacked by a patient!That would be a very traumatic experience. I wish you good health and the strength to be strong and to care for yourself.
Joice Covinton - SO sorry about all these negatives happening to you, Joice🙄 The FLD could be a result of metabolic syndrome. It IS something that is becoming more and more prevalent in the U.S. in the past few years - non-alcoholic fatty liver disease. 😒 EDIT! ...Sorry, Joice, I inferred fatty liver (I think bc you mentioned that you don't drink alcohol, and tge docs are stumped). Non-alcoholic FLD is on the rise in the U.S. and our medical establishment's narrative on it has generally been 🤷♂️ they dont know why... I just re-read your post and realize now that you said elevated enzymes, not fatty liver. Hoping you don't have fatty liver, but elevated liver enzymes are sometimes a indication, ir precursor to FLD.)...just wanted to clarify, I may have jumped to a conclusion I shouldnt have.🙄 Diet, chronic stress, poor sleep (genetics, too) can all contribute to many of these ailments/symptoms you have. A functional medicine M.D. could do you wonders. A doc who will treat your whole person - diet/lifestyle/exercise/genetic predisposition, etc. naturally...beginning with some possible food modulations, exercise suggestions, stress reduction, microbiome health - naturally first - then moving to pharmaceuticals IF other measures aren't working. Unfortunately, your job sounds awfully toxic, and (imo) could be a big contributing factor to your health issues. Functional medicine is, of course, ideal health care (as opposed to sickness 'care') - something our current "healthcare' system doesn't readily offer in this country. My best suggestion would be to start with tuning in to Dr. Peter Attia's health podcasts. Or if you'd rather watch - many of his episodes are searchable on YT. He has an episode on just about every health topic ( or disease) that exists - benefits of exercise, also. You can learn alot about your own health by listening to his podcasts. You can go to his website -Google his name (I forget the URL), and there you will find a listing for all his podcasts. Best thing you can do is to educate yourself about the health issues you are facing, and go from there. Because, if you are locked into our current 'healthcare' (sick-care) system, chances are you will be treated 1st and foremost with pharmaceuticals, rather than a doctor treating your whole person and advising on diet/lifestyle, etc. - regularly checking your biomarkers to see what is, or is not, working for you ;)) Wishing you the best, Joice... Good luck👍
Ain’t gonna lie, this video did make me feel a little down, but I love to watch your videos. I’m 41 and can feel the aging myself, but I try to count every year as another blessing because so many don’t even get a chance to hit my age. Embrace it as best you can. You are wise and beautiful. Also, you don’t ever have to go gray if you don’t want to 😉
I’m 36 and you are absolutely an inspiration to me… a beautiful, glowing woman and mother, businesswoman… you are GOALS, Rissa! 💜 Thank you for being here 💜
I just adore you! Your candor, kindness, and the innate ability to relate to your audience is heartwarming. During your video I found myself relating to every single aging issue you brought up. Thank you for being you!
I can relate to everything you’re saying regarding this whole aging process. I’m SO thankful for every year I get and for every smile line that is a direct result of making memories. I know how blessed I am. My best friend of 30+ years never got to see her 60th birthday so believe me- I know what it is to be thankful. But that doesn’t mean it isn’t hard because it just is some days. I just turned 58 and the days of feeling super sexy are fewer. It’s a personal journey for all of us and we should be supporting and uplifting of each other without judgement. You are a vivacious beautiful woman inside and out and your braveness and strength is an inspiration to us all. Keep on keeping on bella - much love ❤️❤️❤️ Xo 🇨🇦
I have all the same symptoms. I’m 49 and thought I was in peri menopause, but turns out I am right smack in the middle of menopause. I cried for an hour when the doctor told me. 😝 These transitions we go through as women can be very difficult. Like you, I have a lot of good in my life, but some days we have to vent about our sleeplessness, wrinkles, gray hairs, and brain fog. We will all get through! Good luck and thanks for the video! 😏
I will be 57 in a couple of weeks. I love your channel. I always learn great techniques from you. And lots of info on products. Some ppl are just rude. It is so wrong. You are beautiful don’t let those others make you feel any other way!!
I turned 50 two years ago and it seemed like everything started going down hill all at once and FAST - sudden weight gain, wrinkles, eyesight, night sweats and so much more! All of this without even going through menopause yet. It's taken me some time to accept the changes I have no control over and to adjust my habits or add in new ones to address those issues I do have control over. I'm with you on the gray hair. I'm not ready for that change even though I can plainly see how beautiful it is on others.
All I can say is you’re not alone. I’m 55 and it’s a never ending roller coaster of emotions, aches and pains and so forth. Channels like yours give me a break and reminds me how fun makeup can be at any age. Have fun on vacation!
I'm in my early 50's and can totally relate. You have taught me so much over the past two years, and as a result, I get more compliments now than I ever have because I know how to apply my makeup. I found you because I wanted to learn more about mature makeup applications as I wanted to feel better about myself and didn't love seeing myself on Zoom during COVID. You are beautiful and inspiring and I appreciate how honest you are. Keep being you!
Hello Risa.....I'm 60 yrs old and have gone through and still going through everything you spoke of. As far as the gray - I haven't colored my hair for 3 years and it is absolutely a transition you have to set your mind to. Don't let anyone pressure you into coloring or not coloring your hair. My blonde was part of my identity and when I stopped highlighting my hair I didn't feel like myself anymore. I felt frumpy - none of my makeup worked with the dull graying brown hair so it is a change you have to be ready for. It's videos like yours that challenge me to try new makeup and applications and I'm grateful for that "push" that I need to not let myself look rundown tired and frumpy lol.
Sending hugs!! I will be 54 in two weeks and have been there. All the same issues but with being a breast cancer survivor, wasn’t allowed to be on HRT. I struggled for 8 years with sleepless nights, hot flashes and weight gain. Still very self conscious about my shape and looks but have come to love myself. I love all of your tips and tricks for mature skin. Please don’t stop!! Hang in there and sending positive vibes your way!!
I will be 50 in January. I feel like menopause has turned my life upside down. I too feel like I’m falling apart. The good news is that we all have each other to talk to about it. How you are feeling on the inside is not how we view you on the outside. You are still beautiful to us. ❤
Risa, Risa, Risa - welcome to perimenopause! You've pretty much described every symptom I had. Never had hot flashes or feeling hot, but turned into a raging beeotch due to horrific mood swings. Luckily, there's a pill for that! Helped tremendously & it also helped that my doctor's wife was also perimenopausal & knew what to prescribe. Don't wait too long if symptoms really start to affect you. Your health & well being are super important. I can just hear your less than enthusiastic voice in this video - that is very different for you. You do you!!! We're here for you!! Welcome to the club.
I need this “pill” that you speak of 😂 Was it HRT, or b-control, or something else like an SSRI?? I’m 2 mo away from turning 48 and going thru peri menopause too! My doc prescribed me b-control pills to “regulate” my hormones but I’m feeling like what I need is HRT cuz all my symptoms stem from decreasing level of estrogen.
@@yukikowu5695 Sorry you're having these issues! My issues started when I was 48 or 49 & now I'm 61 - 9 years post menopausal. Thank goodness. No, I never wanted to go on HRT due to breast cancer on my dad's side of the family. I ended up getting DCIS breast cancer (non-genetic) anyway last year. Because it's been so long ago, I can't remember name of RX my Dr. put me on initially. I believe I was on it for two years, then when menopause happened, much less mood swings. I have remained on an antidepressant (Duloxetin) for about 8 years & keeps me even keeled. Best of luck with your journey. It is truly a journey. Just remember, we're our own best advocate. If doctors pooh-pooh your issues/symptoms, do research & get referrals and find someone that listens to you. I believe female doctors listen much better than male doctors. Just my opinion.
I'm 47 and I identify with every single thing you "vented" about Risa. However I also suffer from extreme hot flushes to the point where I cook dinner in a crop top and bike shorts during winter...lol I hope things improve for you soon. Thank you for always "keepin' it real" and helping me feel less alone in this mid life journey. Sending you abundant love & sunshine from Queensland, Australia ❤🌞❤🌞❤
OMG those hot flushes are a killer. They exhaust you. I starting getting them at 48. I am now 60 and still get them even though I hit menopause at 55. I think the hardest thing is people just don't understand.
LOL....oh, the hot flashes! I actually went through menopause in my early 40's (am 50 now) and hot flashes were really the only symptom I had and they are awful. Men don't understand most of what women deal with but try explaining hot flashes to them, lol My husband would constantly "give advice". Turn the AC down, wear less clothes, etc and I would tell him that I could be laying in the snow naked and it still wouldn't help because it's a radiating heat from the inside out. I never knew such a thing was possible until experiencing it. Now that I'm post-menopausal the hot flashes don't hit me randomly throughout the day anymore but there's still at least once a day (usually in the evening) where I have a bout of it. Bah!
I'm in 40s and I've been grey since my late 20s and I stopped dying it 6 years ago. Best decision ever. It's a source of pride and gives a fascinating dimension to my curls. I love these videos. You are only human and we all struggle. You got this gurl! Have fun on vacay!
Thank you for making this video Risa, I'm 39 and I've got alot of this to come so it's great to hear women talk about it and their experience and maybe any tips anyone has. One thing i have noticed in the last 6 months is brain fog, one day i totally forgot where my car keys where and couldn't find them and i just had a melt down, my partner was amazing and we found them after like 15 minutes but them 15 minutes felt like the worst of my life because you just start questioning how did this happen, is this my life now, I'm only 39. Honestly i know it sounds dramatic 🙄 but i know you understand Risa. Some women except getting older but for me i just don't want it to happen 😄
Hi Risa, thanks for being so candid in this video. I am 60 and I have a 35 year old son and I don't know how that happened because, last I remember, I was 35 and super slim. Then 💥 everything rapidly changed! I tried to "embrace" my grey hair but, 🙅♀️ My eyesight changed and I also suffered from tinnitus- sirens constantly ringing in my ears 😖 Thankfully, that has subsided. Risa, you are so elegant and beautiful and your videos inspire me. My son told me that, ever since I turned 60, I've been complaining more. I think it's because I've learned to not take sh*t from anyone and to stand up for what I feel is right for me. I feel so empowered now. I also have days when I feel down but I overcome them. Do whatever makes your heart feel happy. Stay strong, stay beautiful 😍
Thanks for sharing Risa, there is far too much life is perfect being portrayed online. To hear someone speak reality helps people to not feel alone an like we are crazy an being over dramatic, so thank you for being real❤
I just turned 44 and I have never been this into my skin and anti-aging then this year! I discovered my local med spa and I am choosing me in the first time since I had my kids, and they’re going to be 22 and 20. I feel the exact same way that you do. You are NOT ALONE! And I just love your content.
I really enjoyed your honesty in this video. I am 74, aging is a process. Do be grateful as you work through it, life can get difficult at a moments notice, but also bring many blessings. You will find your way as you take care of your health. It all works out.
THANK YOU!!!! I turned 49 last week and have noticed similar changes, too, over the past few years. You've calmed my anxieties and assured me that I'm exactly where I'm supposed to be on many levels. The power of makeup is a panacea! I really enjoy your videos and content. Don't be discouraged--you are ENOUGH. Hugs!
I’m so sorry that you feel so down right now. Sending you the biggest hugs I can! Just know you really make people happy here. Whenever we have a bad day we watch one of your videos and it puts a smile on our faces. You are truly amazing ❤
Risa, this video makes me want to give you a big bear hug. Don’t ever worry about sharing your woes, it’s hard for us women as we age. Menopause nearly broke me and I felt everything you talk about. I’ve now flipped in the other direction and don’t worry at all about how I’m supposed to look, I just do me. My skin and hair changed early in peri menopause so I no longer colour my hair and it’s so freeing. Do whatever makes YOU feel good and don’t worry about the rest. Sending you love and positivity ❤
I’m 46 and definitely in perimenopause. I like that you’re talking so openly about this as it feels like no one talks about it! I plan to keep dying my hair until I hit about 60. Then I’m going to start playing with fun hair colors on top of my white hair. Mine seems to be more white than gray, same with my mom
Risa, I’m 58 and at the end of menopause. Please embrace what makes you feel good. You are beautiful!! I too, told my Mom not to go gray and she didn’t, my sweet daughter who is a hair stylist didn’t like it when I wanted to go gray.. I didn’t listen, and with that being said, when I leave her salon clients give her complements on my hair!! Win win for her!! Honestly, my hair has never been so healthy!! You will embrace your age at your own pace. I love your videos! Many blessings, Tammy♥️
First and foremost, you are and will always be beautiful inside and out! I love your videos and appreciate your honesty and ‘realness.’ I can totally relate to ALL the symptoms of aging you mentioned. I’m 53 and have struggled the past few years with not only the physical symptoms but the mental ramifications of being over 50. I completely understand how you are feeling! Aging can be difficult but as strong and resilient women we can learn to adapt, continue doing whatever makes us feel beautiful, and age with grace. 💕
Risa, thank you for addressing the aging factors. I am turning 58 in November and have been struggling with anxiety, depression, insomnia and many more post menopausal symptoms. I truly enjoy your uplifting videos and inspire me to follow up on self care. Cheers 🥂
Thanks for being so real with us! I enjoyed this more "chill" and chatty video. I'm 46 and this is helpful to hear, the good and the bad. We will all go thru it at some point
Risa I’m on the higher end of your viewers (almost 55 lol) and I can relate, but know it gets better as you work through these things. We are all different and it’s just a part of life we will all go through. You’ll be just fine and I do hope some of these unrealistic views of an older woman changes. Women like yourself can be a part of changing those things with a platform like TH-cam. Much love!
I'm really sorry that you've been struggling. Chronic health issues/chronic pain seems to just enhance the aging quagmire. I'm 51 and have been dealing with the same things you are for a couple of years. There are days I just want to give and throw my hands in the air (and maybe hurl something across the room at the same time). I admire you for being able to put on a happy face and power through the tinnitus. I can't imagine how stressful that must be. You've been able to take it on with grace and aplomb. I would never have known that you were facing something so significant without you sharing it. Holding all of that in with your radiant smile had to become heavy. Thank you for being so honest - particularly emotionally honest - about the aging process. It's always good to be reminded that others are facing the same thing and not always having an easy to. Hang in there. It gets better (or so I hear). P.S. try Retroce readers. They're just spectacular
I’m 70 and stopped coloring my hair years ago and never looked back. It’s so freeing not to have to worry about roots! ( and my daughter was in Agreement all the way). I love your content because you are always so honest and down to earth. BTW I couldn’t find the link to that other beauty content creator you mentioned so maybe you could add a pin comment with a link. ❤❤❤❤❤
💖💖💖Thank you for being so raw and vulnerable in sharing the challenges of aging! I just turned 48, and and I totally relate. I am also not jumping on the go grey trend, it’s just not me, but I do applaud women who are rocking it and look beautiful. I believe gratitude and living a balanced life in your mind, body, and spirit keeps you shining on the inside and out. You are amazing, and inspiring, ignore any negativity and enjoy the journey with grace. ✨💖
Lisa, I get it and I am with you! These past 2 years have been rough as I watch myself age in so many ways... you mentioned all the same things Ive been dealing with. Im 52. What i have learned is to not dwell on it and just do my best to be the best version of myself i can be! Also, the beauty from within is what is meaningful and matters anyway! You are beautiful inside and out!
Thank you 1 millions times over for this! I see pictures of myself from last year and before and just feel blah! I’m 48 1/2 and I see the aging more now than I ever have. Your transparency and honesty truly helped me not feel alone. My husband is incredible, but I know he has to get tired of me saying I was prettier then, i I I looked younger then, and all the other horrible insults I project on myself. So thank you for being you!
Thank you for being so real!! At 52 I officially enter menopause, within that year i gain 30 😮. Weight has never been an issue for me. Women certainly got the worst when it comes to aging. Be proactive about your health, listen to your body & find doctor(s) that care about your issues. This is the next phase of life, we’ll adjust as we always do. What’s the alternative?!? Be well and keep being you!
I have has tinnitus in my right ear for over 5 years. Sometimes it’s so loud I think others should hear it. It never stops. And you are beautiful. It’s easy for people to pick others apart from the comfort and safety of their cellphone or pc. I learned to ignore them. It isn’t always easy but it is very doable and gives me peace of mind. I hope you enjoy your vacation.
I don’t have any words of wisdom, but you are courageous to share your struggles so freely. The internet, like aging, can be brutal. I wear minimal makeup but enjoy watching you and your love for it. Hang in there, that hill is steep. Just turned 60 this summer. Women supporting women !!
Just yes, yes, yes!! Thank you so much Risa for lifting the lid on menopause/ageing… it’s just not a subject which is spoken about enough, never mind normalised. You have made me feel a whole load better about it xxx
Risa, you are a lovely and kind person. People who are critical of others are unhappy with themselves. They aren't worth paying attention to but you already know that. I'm 57 and completely understand what you're feeling and going through. Don't get discouraged and take one day at a time. The 2 years we all endured didn't help either. The 50s have been much better than my 40s but I realize everyone is unique. Enough said. I'm so happy watching and learning from your videos. I wish you so much joy through this time. 💞
Thank you so much for sharing this with us! I'm 53 and thought I was probably too old for your channel. I thought you were in your 30s! You look amazing. You are so right, it goes so fast and the aging seems to go at warp speed once it starts. I started menopause at 37 and have been on HRT. It helps with some of the things like brain fog, itchy skin, and hot flashes. But wish it helped slow down the face sagging - it does not lol. My hair started thinning, have the face bumps in the same place. I now need reading glasses just to cook or go shopping! And the body - damn I can pull a neck muscle just looking to the left. :-) One thing I feel I cannot wear is eyeshadow that has any shimmer/frost in it. Curious if you will find that as you age. It just settles too much. Love your channel. Would love more chat videos. Even if you didn't do your makeup and just wanted to vent. Again thank you for talking about this. It really does help me feel better and not depressed. We need to stick together!
I wanted to add that when I was younger I used to say I would never be one of those people who cared about their age and I would never let it get to me. Ummm I was wrong! ha
I love the flow of this video! It’s exactly what goes on in my brain when doing my makeup versus trying to come to terms with aging. I don’t see this as complaining. I see it as being authentic. It’s nice to know we’re not alone in these ruminations.
I’m so sorry you’re going through all of this!! Do know you are NOT alone. And the sweating will get much much worse. I’ve heard HRT really helps with menopause symptoms, I’m just not a fan of taking HRT. I’m 53 and have been in full blown menopause for 2 years. You’ve got this!!!
I felt the same way when I was in my early 50’s. Fortunately my menopause symptoms went away 🙏 I’m now almost 65 and am finally embracing all my changes with skin, body issues and hair. No more covering the gray and it’s growing in beautifully. You will get there too. You are a beautiful and talented lady and I so enjoy your videos 💜💜💜
Risa you’re perfect as you are. There are always life challenges as we all know. Enjoy your 50’s. That was my favourite decade. And about the gray hair…I’m 63 and I’m not ready for it yet.
Oh Risa! I have followed you for a couple of years now, and think you’re awesome! I’m turning 50 in April - and I totally understand what you mean about ageing! Anxiety, sleeplessness, brain fog, change in skin texture, hair texture, painful joints - especially hips and knees… and I started HRT at the beginning of this year. I cannot recommend highly enough! I understand that some women are at high risk and shouldn’t use HRT. But I’m not high risk - and it has been the best thing I’ve done. My skin, hair and joint pain has completely improved. Much less anxiety and I sleep more easily. The positive part of ageing (Lord knows there has to be something….) is that I have what I call ‘don’t give a fuckatude!’ and I love it! It is so liberating to get to the phase of your life where you start living for yourself, rather than everyone else! I love that you’re sharing this, because menopause is a ‘newish’ thing- it’s only been the last 100yrs or so that woman’s mortality was in the range of getting to menopause. And medicine has never been focused on woman’s health. So it was not studied much, and not discussed much until recently. So sharing is women supporting women. I appreciate you using your platform for this! Thank you for this! ❤
Thank you Risa. I’m 48 and have been feeling down as well. About a LOT of things. So I really appreciate you and all you do. And especially your honesty. The peri-menopause brain fog is Real and horrible for me. Also eye sight has worsened for me as well. And the night sweats!!! Oh my goodness!! You just vent away Risa! I completely understand. 💖💖. PS you always look stunning!
I just turned 52 yesterday and lately I’ve been feeling SO old looking. My face is especially. Menopause is doing crazy things to my texture, my hair and of course my weight. I am struggling as well and I appreciate you speaking about all this. Makes me feel more human.
Love this video. You said what we can all feel at some point. The way you felt about your 40’s….. I cannot believe I’m 58. I think the lockdown time messed our clocks up too. Keep doing these great convos.
I'm 71 and love love love all things makeup. Still haven't gone gray although I'm thinking about it. Anyway, just to let all of you almost 50 women feel better, my 50s were great! In fact, it was probably my favorite decade so far.
Dear Risa, you are truly one of my favourite women on social media! Once I had enough grey roots (plus I’m 5’9” before heels) so not many were tall enough to see my roots, i gave it a go! When I saw the colour & tone of my roots I realized that it was similar to the highlights that I frequently spent $$ on. It was one of the best beauty decisions that I made for myself! Plus my hair is much healthier! I was mostly looking at Pinterest photos before of silver haired women in my age range. I get more compliments on my hair now than ever (and I have had many hair compliments over the years). I’ll be 64 in Nov. and been through menopause too. Physical and Mental/ Emotional/ Spiritual Health care and the company of other women who also want to evolve and nurture themselves to this end has been very important to me. I’ve held Brene Brown book groups (w/journaling and sharing if comfortable to do so), this and other things have been so important in evolving and becoming and nurturing other women who walk the same path! Blessings to you, Risa on your journey! ❤
Thank you for sharing what you are going through. It is so nice to know we are going through this together and we should be talking about it. I started my channel a little over a year ago, and that is what I want to offer. A place where we can share this part of our journey and still enjoy our makeup, hair, and all the things we've always loved. You are stunning and handling the aging process beautifully!!
Thank you for this video. It is refreshing to know others have the same struggles! Even glam TH-cam icons such as yourself. I'm 46 and experiencing some of the same issues, brain fog, anxiety, not sleeping, procrastination....I feel a little bit more "normal" now :)
Risa I’m 29 and absolutely love your videos ! And as you said aging is a blessing I’m not your age but my mom passed away at just 50 and I’m sure she would enjoyed at least one more day here..Blessings and I hope good times comes for you❤
You’re quite beautiful and an inspiration to me. I’m 37 and the world can be horrible to women after 25. I must say watching your channel reminds me that every year we have is a blessing in life and in beauty. I love how your channel cultivates a community of women of all ages. We are in this together. Thank you. More life!
I’m in my late 40s and have been on a peri menopausal roller coaster ride . But, for some reason, whenever I think about aging, I start to remember little children I knew as a child - that died very young. I know everyone says aging is a privilege, but sometimes it’s reminders like these that help me realize my blessings.
Do grateful for this video. Exactly what I’m going through. I honestly saw all my friends aging and thought that somehow it wasn’t gonna happen to me. And now it’s happening all at once. And it’s hard. I know that sounds vain and shallow but it’s how I feel and I’m really glad that you made a video addressing this
This is the best video you've done, in my opinion. I'm sorry to hear that weariness in your voice, but it's totally relatable x infinity. There's so much I could say here. I'm so glad that you're here with your channel. The content creation conveyor belt is so overwhelming!! I'm waiting for perimenopause myself, but I waited to have kids so mine are littler. I didn't anticipate the lack of energy, but other than that, wouldn't change a thing. If you have haters, it means that you're doing something right! It's such a reflection of them and has nothing to do with you. I'm a reluctant beauty influencer (that word makes me so uneasy) but I'll be 49 next June, so I'm right behind you. I watch all of your videos because I look forward to your insights and personality! I've shared your hooded-eye videos with everyone I know. Society and more importantly, any company that stands to make money off of our insecurities will do so at every opportunity, especially to sell more hair dye and anti-aging treatments, for example. If we accepted our natural processes, a lot of companies would be bankrupt and execs would be out of jobs. Keep up the outstanding work as I know I'm not the only one that appreciates you and is a lifelong fan.
Risa, I really enjoy your videos. I’m a 57 year old that has loved make-up all my life! I have used a make- up line for years and just got bored. Also, noticed that my make-up techniques needed an upgrade and I was curious about other brands for my aging skin. Found your channel and you are my go to for what I’m going to try. Thank you! I have ordered several things you have reviewed and loved them too! You are an influencer and just picked up the bath gel you talked about from Target - Another win. I loved your comments here about gray hair. I am a dark brunette that has ALWAYS dyed my hair blond. I was so sick of the constant color- color- that I decided to let it go. It’s so funny to hear people’s reactions to it. My husband would prefer me blond, and I do look “older” than my much older sisters who dye their hair brown. But I don’t care. It’s so easy and I have received many compliments and it’s certainly healthier than it has been for years! Cheaper too!! But aging - not easy. I can’t get over not having a waist. Things just revamped themselves BUT I’m happy, and the more we all embrace our beauty will really help this younger generation I love, do the same. Great video- great channel and keep on loving you! You’re beautiful! Thanks for all you do!
Thank you for sharing. I can so relate…I turned 40 in March and I’ve been struggling with getting older and how fast time goes by. I still see my mom as 45 and my 14 year old son as a 5 year old. It is so hard!!! Life is going by so fast.
Risa, I’ve been watching you for a couple years now and absolutely adore your style and videos. However today is the first time I’ve ever commented on your video and I just have to tell you, I feel like I just had a cup of coffee and chatted with my best friend. Thank you for letting me/us know WE’RE NOT ALONE on this aging journey! I’m 51 and experience the exact things you’re talking about, especially sleepless nights. Sleep used to be my luxury, now it’s the thorn on my side. It’s honestly the worst part about aging (for me). But I felt alone in this until now. One of the things I prayed for this morning was lack of sleep and then I see your video! God’s good like that 🙏 and thank you for blessing me today with this video 🙏🙌💜
You are 100% not alone! Someday I hope to do a meet and greet and have a cup of coffee and hug as many of you wonderful subscribers as I can! Thank you for watching and for your lovely comment. 🥰
Risa, you are by far the most classy lady on TH-cam!! When you show us your outfits when you're ready to go out on the town, I think wow she is so put together nicely and beautifully!
Risa, I'm so happy that you talked about everything you did in this video as I feel it's important to talk about these real things. I appreciate your willingness to be vulnerable and share your experiences. I can definitely relate as I've experienced much of what you've mention a couple of years ago. I feel like I'm beginning to come out the other side of it, and I'm relieved. Thankfully we have women like your mom and grandma to show us going through it that it will be ok on the other side. Again, thank you for sharing.
Girl! I could have spoken every single word in this video. In fact, at times I said what you were about to say right before you said it because I’m 54 and have experienced everything you mentioned here and more. It’s definitely a lot learning to adjust and live with so many changes in such a short amount of time. I look at my eyelids and jowls and all of the other drying, falling, changing body parts and while I would love to fix them, I don’t feel like I would be authentically me. I have attempted to let my gray grow out since February and it looks HORRIBLE. It has resulted in mousy brown hair with gray “tinsel” as I call it. I have an appt next week to get highlights put back in. This meno/covid hair loss is insane and I hate the course texture. Maybe I’ll try again in 10 years when I have more gray. I don’t have a lot so it just looks drab. The ONLY thing I would consider right now is getting my eyelids done and ONLY because they are so hooded now it effects my vision. Oh isn’t it great facing all of these changes? Not, but I’m grateful to have made it this far since many have not. Shine on, girl, there is nothing wrong with the way you look!
We are definitely our worst critics. I see nothing but beautiful when I see you. I’m 49 and would feel blessed to have your face and body. On the other hand I down myself and have people say the same to me and I only see the bad. We will get through it ❤
I love this video and yes it’s ok to vent and yes getting older sucks and we are expected to handle it gracefully but sometimes it’s hard lol. I am 55 and turning 55 has been the hardest year for me, I also feel like I’m falling apart, my body is not the same, the hot flashes are terrible even on HRT, brain fog is real and so is lack of sleep. But even with all that I am so blessed with a wonderful family, a new grandson and a husband who still thinks I’m hot 😊. I am not on TikTok but I have decided this year to stop coloring my hair and let it go gray and I am so happy with my decision! I love my gray hair! But when I was 49 I would have never dreamed of not coloring my hair, I was not ready then, and it’s ok if your never ready, it’s a very personal decision. Take care of yourself, get your eyes checked, take care of your tenitis, I know how horrible it can be, and enjoy your life! And keep making these amazing videos!
Risa, don’t let the jealous monsters get to you. I’m turning 63 in 3 weeks. I have marionette lines near my mouth, fine lines by my eyes, my hair has thinned dramatically. BUT….I survived breast cancer 17 years ago and my beauty comes from enjoying my life. I love your channel and I’m inspired by you so many times❤️❤️❤️ Hugs and love❤️❤️❤️ Do what makes you happy!
I loved this video Risa, keeping it real for all us ladies who are also currently going thro so many changes, I love a good moan and you did it so well lol! Maybe do more of this type of content as us mature ladies like to know we're all in this together!! xoJoanxo
I'm looking at 63! I look fabulous (people tell me that all the time)! I have never been happier and I really believe that makes me stay attractive. The pandemic nearly destroyed me financially. When I was your age my life fell apart. My husband had a catastrophic stroke and died 18 months later and I buried him 18 months later at 48. Menopause, I didn't have time to have symptoms!!!!! You make your own schedule! You are beautiful, healthy, prosperous (you worked for it like most of the rest of us). Time goes so quickly and I know mine is limited. I have chosen joy! Start defending yourself to yourself! Do what you need to do to be content!
I totally relate! I’m 49 and started a bad Perimenopause several years ago. To top it all off, I’m ending my 40’s with Long Covid! Fortunately, it’s rather mild but on top of perimenopause’s hormonal fluctuations, it’s a fun time.😂😢
I SO agree the 40's have FLOWN by!! I'm 49 as well with a 19 year old son. I am DREADING turning 50. And yes, we are our own worst critics. You are absolutely beautiful.....you look amazing!! I love Lorry, btw!!
Please extend the viewer age !!! I am turning 80 next spring and love watching your video and follow your suggestions ..can’t believe that I am 40 years older than you !! 😂
I’m not sure what you mean by “extend the viewer age”? I appreciate my viewers of all ages! I was just stating what my TH-cam analytics tell me my most watched demographic is, which I have no control over. I love you all! ❤️🥰
You are not alone! All that you talked about, I am experiencing also. I’m fighting all of it the best I can, but it takes a toll on my emotions sometimes. Don’t forget how beautiful you are and that everything you (we) are experiencing is normal. Keep doing what you love. Thank you for sharing.
I'm 44 and are feeling the start of my visual "breakdown". Your words and feelings are strongly speaking to my heart. Thank you for sharing. And by the way, you are so beautiful!
Thank you for a refreshingly honest look at getting older. I’m 55, and I totally understand what you’re going through. We all have to make peace with our changing selves. Some people fight it. Others accept it and just try to be the best version of themselves they can possibly be. Either way, that choice is personal and should be respected. There is no one size fits all when it comes to aging. Thank you for speaking from your heart. I truly appreciate your honesty and openness.
Risa, I’ve been watching you for years. I’ve never commented, but I felt the need to interject ❤. You are truly one of the most genuine and lovely people I’ve ever seen on social media. Your kindness, honesty, transparency, and unassuming nature is beautiful, minus the fact that you’re gorgeous as well. I understand the feeling as we are only a year or so apart in age. As I’ve gotten older, I’m feeling the same. I feel 27 inside, but am actually 47 and it seems that, socially, you aren’t allowed to be fun or cool at this age, but o think we are cooler as we get older 😊. It’s absolutely a strength to be vulnerable enough to be honest about how you feel, and feelings are not wrong or bad. I just want to say thank you for sharing your feelings and know you are not alone. Prayers for you, my friend ❤
I'm 71 and still keep up with makeup. Channels like yours make us remember to keep up appearances. It's good for the soul.
As the saying goes, aging is not for the faint of heart.
My mom tells me that and I already know it - I've known it since I was a teenager and DREADED it coming, and here it is. My 50's. I still keep fit at the gym, colour my hair & won't go out in public without makeup and I PRAY I stay this way. I don't ever want to give up !
@@maddworld3317 well said.
@@arlenel9583 Keep on keeping on and defy nature everywhere you can😅💪🏼
I stared gray hairs at 28 and I’m 54 and I’m not ready for gray
@@maddworld3317 As I always say, "aging ain't for sissies!!!"
Risa, you're a beautiful YOUNG woman, inside and out! I'm 72 and enjoy watching you and several other beauty TH-camrs who are 25 or more years younger than me. When I turned 40 I cried, not because I was 40 but because of how fast time went from 20-40. I knew 40-60 would go even faster!! 😳 And it did!! Aging isn't for sissies! And it's definitely better than the alternative! I was in excellent health until I reached 70. Bam! Every test's results seem to become another test needing to be ordered. Ugh! I'm faithful about routine tests and annual physicals. I do skin care every morning and night and I continue to take care of how my makeup looks, transitioning into changes in what I use and how I apply it as I age. Even though I sometimes feel that I look 80, many people, friends and strangers alike, have said I don't look my age. It's the miracle of modern makeup. 😉😊 Try drinking organic Tart Cherry Juice for sleep. I swear it works for me. It's an anti-inflammatory and antioxidant as well.
Im a 70 yr old lifelong insomniac...I am def going to try your cherry juice suggestion. Thx#
And to Risa, you are Gorgeous and my Fav Beauty Guru!!
Thanks for the juice recommendation! Good sleep is really key to a happy healthy life!
I drink tart Cherry Juice too! It’s amazing ❤.
@@victoriap4335 ... I seldom have trouble sleeping, but as I've gotten a bit older ( I'm in my late 60's) I sometimes find I will have a bit of that trouble. The tart cherry juice does actually work , I just don't do it everyday. I discovered a ' supplement cocktail " as I call it , 4 years ago , and although it might take several weeks for you to see results it does work a good magnesium supplement that is like a 2000 mg and an Omega 3 supplement, even a liquid one . One hour before your normal sleep time. I also read, this sort of " signals " your brain to start shutting down. ... and when I say read I mean something that isn't graphic something enjoyable you can even look at mail order catalogs or read a book of Affirmations ...just anything that will kind of put you in a different frame of mind to slow your brain down. Also the Epsom salt baths with magnesium those will help you sleep as well. Just offering a few suggestions, 🙂😊
@@texasstardust6010 Yes, my daughter, the nurse, says magnesium is something to supplement. She uses a magnesium sleep time balm from Earthley that works for her. It didn't work for me. I've recently ordered tart cherry gummies to take when I don't have time to drink the 8 oz bottle of juice.
I’m 57. Aging is definitely an process of adjustment that is so much more than grays and wrinkles! Turning 50 for me was like a light switch had been flipped. My time tested beauty/self care routine had to be recalibrated. It’s like my skin was someone else’s skin and I couldn’t deal with that change very easily. Getting hormone medication really helped the transition. And telling myself I AM good enough, over and over. And I am not ready to embrace being gray yet, and I applaud those you have embraced it. But I am not there yet, lol. I LOVE WATCHING YOUR VIDEOS RISA. You will find your way through this.
@Rochelle Rick's
Hormone therapy helped me, too. That's a really good idea.
Post-50 brings real different challenges. We are up to it!
57 here too. One benefit to being over 50 is simply not giving a flip anymore what people think of you or feeling like you need to 'fix' everyone or make everyone happy. It is so freeing to just be able to be yourself!
Rochelle I had the same experience with those changes when I turned 52! Couldn't figure out why my makeup suddenly looked like crap (went from oily to dry), all the foundation colors looked weird (because my red hair was turning grey), and the way I'd done my eye makeup for 37 years looked ridiculous (new hooding and downturned eyes). It's been a journey to say the least..lol
I'm 57 too. It definitely was like a light switch going off! Menopause was a nightmare and all the other issues that come with it. I tanked and felt the worst I ever have in my life until I started taking hormones it was like night and day. After that I just decided to try to look the best I could for my age and not sweat the rest!!
Risa the older we get the faster the years go by, just take one day at a time. I'm 76 and I love to keep up with all the new cosmetics. I really enjoy your channel!
yes, definitely as you get older the time goes faster. Also, when you're working full-time and busy the day/week is over before you know it.
Wow. I’m turning 48 and experiencing EVERYTHING you mentioned in this video. The struggle of getting older and witnessing your body change is real and disheartening at times. Thank you for sharing this with us.
Same here! I'm 48 as well and going through the same struggles.
Risa - I’m quite older than you but when I was your age and used to complain about this or that, my mom (who’s gone now) would laugh and say “Baby, you ain’t seen nothing yet !” And sadly, she was right ! And as far as time speeding by, the older you get, the quicker it goes by !
Yes, aging sucks, I am 51 and have a lot of the symptoms you mentioned, hrt has helped enormously with some things but still have the vision/hair/hooded eyes age related stuff. You always look amazing Risa. One thing about aging is you give less and less of a .......... on what people say or think, so def one bonus lol....
@Marie Crowe, I’m 60 and color/highlight my hair, workout, HRT, blah blah blah and Still I don’t like the “surprises” that keep popping up out of nowhere 🥴🥴🥴 BUT! True about not caring what others think AND! I’m letting the aging crap bother ME less and less! Like, who cares really?! I mean, geez another 20 years I’ll be 80- Im enjoying each day and not obsessing or wasting time on the truly irrelevant outward aesthetic stuff- thankful for current good health and Im good to go! It’s rather freeing! 🥳🥳🥳
@Angela, couldn’t agree more, I’m 63 and with a care factor of what others think Zero, that’s one of the bonuses of getting older, you don’t care what others think of you as much anymore, I still love my makeup and fashion just like I did when I was in my 30’s, I watch younger TH-camrs and get styling tips from them rather than someone that dresses differently to me, I dress how I want to, plus my hubby of over 40 years loves it, I’m still the young girl he married all those years ago. ❤️❤️
I turn 47 at the end of this year and it’s been rough seeing and feeling the process of getting older. Two years ago I went into surgical menopause and holy cow the effects of that has been mind blowing. I feel like 10 years of aging happened in a year and a half. The changes in my skin, the overall feeling of tiredness, the hot flashes!!! wee-doggy!!! I feel you and totally understand that feeling of falling apart and how heartbreaking it can feel!!! But we are strong and we are vibrant and we are beautiful….all of us. So we all stand together in this aging circle and lift each other up!!!!
Amen sister!!!
Not going to lie I had tears welling up in my eyes the entire video. I turned 48 this year & have been feeling the same as you too. I’ve never related so much to a video, thank you so much for sharing your feelings….. I don’t feel so alone 🥺
I don’t know if you can tell, but I started tearing up at the end of the video too as I was filming! Society is so unkind to us women as we age. We need to stick to together and uplift one another!!!! ❤️
@@RisaDoesMakeup yes I could see it in your eyes love. And yes we need to lift each other up as women & regardless of age. Everyone behind the screen is going through something. Call it reverse psychology but I always feel better complimenting or typing something positive to someone even when I’m feeling like crap. Wish more people would learn that skill. Love you girl, keep your chin up sweetheart 🙏🏻😍
I will be 60 in a couple of weeks and the grey is coming in thick. Im not sure if I will be able to continue with the grey. Im very fair with freckles and my hair had a lot of red until the grey started. I feel the grey does nothing for my skin tone, looks dull. I love grey, white hair on others but I do feel it depends on the person skin tone. You are a beautiful person inside and out, love your videos.
The 40’s are when it all starts! Time to prioritise yourself 💜
Hello Kylie
Risa I am 60 and the one thing I can tell you is this... I finally had a heart to heart with MYSELF and decided to care about myself. When others put us down, remember the source and know that something is missing in them to feel the need to try to hurt others. You are a wonderful person and life happens to us all so enjoy the ride and find your smile!
Risa, this video REALLY resonates with me. I just turned 55, oh that's hard to say and think about, my 50's have really been a hard pill to swallow. My brain still thinks I'm very young and my body begs to differ...the changes have been rapid! Yes, brain fog, sleeplessness etc
I see my kids so grown and how fast this time went by, it's saddens me, mainly because of how fast these years have gone by.
You're GORGEOUS and haters are everywhere. Much love
You’re just going through the most difficult stage of aging. Believe me, it does get better and easier to accept these changes the more you get into your 50s and to be happy with the gifts that you already have.
Just yesterday you were my inspiration. I was intimidated going into Sephora to get a shade match. No one approached me or spoke to me. Tbh at 51 I was by far the oldest in there. I walked out again and then thought. You can do this. Think of Risa. I did, went back in and got what I wanted. Thank you for being my inspiration
Good for you for going back in and getting what you wanted! Sometime younger people don’t know how to approach older people and wait for us to be pro-active 😉⭐️
Oh...that's not you .that's the workers there not doing their job correctly by not checking on all customers, being friendly, etc. Sephora is for all ages.....and I think most lines would work for anyone...even though some lines are just immature ones..like Too Faced.
It’s worse at Ulta
You are Gorgeous! Don't let anyone dim your Beauty! I was in the Beauty/Modeling industry & some of these insecure (not so nice women) are just not very knowledgeable! Don't take it to heart!
I don’t get it! .51 isn’t even old! And even if it was- I don’t understand why people are treated this way! Everyone is AGING! We are ALL getting older! What an awesome, amazing thing! Because what’s the alternative? It’s death! And I’m not ready to die at 45 years old!
I get more makeup tips and I learn more from you than any other makeup artist on TH-cam. Thank you and keep up the great job
Thank you Judy! Hearing this means so much to me. 🥰
Isn't she fabulous! 🥰❤️
The best
Judy Bowen, Risa is great. I also recommend Alexandra Anele, she just posted one titled "My TOP Tips for YOUR Perfect Base Makeup" which is fantastic. Wayne Goss is excellent and goes out of his way to help women who are getting "wiser". Nikol Johnson is an elder makeup artist who demonstrates techniques on her channel, and one of the best examples is by Hindash titled "How I do Makeup on Mature Skin | Hindash" (Part 1 & Part 2)
I am now 60 and I hear you on symptoms of aging. Totally sucks and I remember feeling similar emotions when I turned 50. Keep moving forward and in time, you’ll feel better about things. I certainly did. Remember that you are doing what you love and that the vast majority of people adore you and love tuning into your channel. Don’t let the turkeys get you down. You are beautiful inside and out! ❤😊
I am so grateful for this video! "Falling apart" is the perfect word for how I have felt since turning 49, I will be 50 in December. First, I had to start taking high blood pressure medication. My blood pressure was never high before turning 49! I got attacked and assaulted by one of my psych patients, I am an R.N. on a very acute psychiatric unit. Then my liver enzymes were extremely elevated and the doctors can't figure out why. I don't drink at all so it isn't alcohol related. Anxiety, depression, insomnia, eye sight deterioration, thinning hair, puffy eyes. Before I hit 47 I use to have people telling me how much younger than my age I looked. That all stopped at 47. Now I get called ma'am everywhere I go. I put on 40 pounds in a 4 month period! Despite these things I will do everything I can to improve and challenge myself. I will remain curious about life and question and search for new ideas. I have also adopted the philosophy that it matters not one bit what others think or say about me. This is my life, and I will live it as such while staying a kind, nurturing human. It is good to know I am not alone.
Thank you for being a beautiful human inside and out ❤
I am so sorry that you were attacked by a patient!That would be a very traumatic experience.
I wish you good health and the strength to be strong and to care for yourself.
I absolutely love this comment! Keep going and keep loving your life and yourself! ❤️😘
@J F1 I have a very rare disorder and they kept telling me it’s Anxiety. Finally over 5 years I was diagnosed with Myoclonus
Joice Covinton - SO sorry about all these negatives happening to you, Joice🙄
The FLD could be a result of metabolic syndrome. It IS something that is becoming more and more prevalent in the U.S. in the past few years - non-alcoholic fatty liver disease. 😒
EDIT! ...Sorry, Joice, I inferred fatty liver (I think bc you mentioned that you don't drink alcohol, and tge docs are stumped).
Non-alcoholic FLD is on the rise in the U.S. and our medical establishment's narrative on it has generally been 🤷♂️ they dont know why...
I just re-read your post and realize now that you said elevated enzymes, not fatty liver. Hoping you don't have fatty liver, but elevated liver enzymes are sometimes a indication, ir precursor to FLD.)...just wanted to clarify, I may have jumped to a conclusion I shouldnt have.🙄
Diet, chronic stress, poor sleep (genetics, too) can all contribute to many of these ailments/symptoms you have.
A functional medicine M.D. could do you wonders. A doc who will treat your whole person - diet/lifestyle/exercise/genetic predisposition, etc. naturally...beginning with some possible food modulations, exercise suggestions, stress reduction, microbiome health - naturally first - then moving to pharmaceuticals IF other measures aren't working.
Unfortunately, your job sounds awfully toxic, and (imo) could be a big contributing factor to your health issues.
Functional medicine is, of course, ideal health care (as opposed to sickness 'care') - something our current "healthcare' system doesn't readily offer in this country.
My best suggestion would be to start with tuning in to
Dr. Peter Attia's health podcasts. Or if you'd rather watch - many of his episodes are searchable on YT. He has an episode on just about every health topic ( or disease) that exists - benefits of exercise, also.
You can learn alot about your own health by listening to his podcasts. You can go to his website -Google his name (I forget the URL), and there you will find a listing for all his podcasts.
Best thing you can do is to educate yourself about the health issues you are facing, and go from there.
Because, if you are locked into our current 'healthcare' (sick-care) system, chances are you will be treated 1st and foremost with pharmaceuticals, rather than a doctor treating your whole person and advising on diet/lifestyle, etc. - regularly checking your biomarkers to see what is, or is not, working for you ;))
Wishing you the best, Joice... Good luck👍
Ain’t gonna lie, this video did make me feel a little down, but I love to watch your videos. I’m 41 and can feel the aging myself, but I try to count every year as another blessing because so many don’t even get a chance to hit my age. Embrace it as best you can. You are wise and beautiful. Also, you don’t ever have to go gray if you don’t want to 😉
I’m 36 and you are absolutely an inspiration to me… a beautiful, glowing woman and mother, businesswoman… you are GOALS, Rissa! 💜 Thank you for being here 💜
And btw I hope you have an awesome, relaxing vacation - you def deserve it!
This!
I just adore you! Your candor, kindness, and the innate ability to relate to your audience is heartwarming. During your video I found myself relating to every single aging issue you brought up. Thank you for being you!
You're always so fun to watch & I appreciate your realness & honesty.
Thank you for being here for us !
I can relate to everything you’re saying regarding this whole aging process. I’m SO thankful for every year I get and for every smile line that is a direct result of making memories. I know how blessed I am. My best friend of 30+ years never got to see her 60th birthday so believe me- I know what it is to be thankful. But that doesn’t mean it isn’t hard because it just is some days. I just turned 58 and the days of feeling super sexy are fewer. It’s a personal journey for all of us and we should be supporting and uplifting of each other without judgement.
You are a vivacious beautiful woman inside and out and your braveness and strength is an inspiration to us all.
Keep on keeping on bella - much love ❤️❤️❤️
Xo 🇨🇦
I have all the same symptoms. I’m 49 and thought I was in peri menopause, but turns out I am right smack in the middle of menopause. I cried for an hour when the doctor told me. 😝 These transitions we go through as women can be very difficult. Like you, I have a lot of good in my life, but some days we have to vent about our sleeplessness, wrinkles, gray hairs, and brain fog. We will all get through! Good luck and thanks for the video! 😏
I will be 57 in a couple of weeks. I love your channel. I always learn great techniques from you. And lots of info on products. Some ppl are just rude. It is so wrong. You are beautiful don’t let those others make you feel any other way!!
I turned 50 two years ago and it seemed like everything started going down hill all at once and FAST - sudden weight gain, wrinkles, eyesight, night sweats and so much more! All of this without even going through menopause yet. It's taken me some time to accept the changes I have no control over and to adjust my habits or add in new ones to address those issues I do have control over. I'm with you on the gray hair. I'm not ready for that change even though I can plainly see how beautiful it is on others.
All I can say is you’re not alone. I’m 55 and it’s a never ending roller coaster of emotions, aches and pains and so forth. Channels like yours give me a break and reminds me how fun makeup can be at any age. Have fun on vacation!
I'm in my early 50's and can totally relate. You have taught me so much over the past two years, and as a result, I get more compliments now than I ever have because I know how to apply my makeup. I found you because I wanted to learn more about mature makeup applications as I wanted to feel better about myself and didn't love seeing myself on Zoom during COVID. You are beautiful and inspiring and I appreciate how honest you are. Keep being you!
Hello Risa.....I'm 60 yrs old and have gone through and still going through everything you spoke of. As far as the gray - I haven't colored my hair for 3 years and it is absolutely a transition you have to set your mind to. Don't let anyone pressure you into coloring or not coloring your hair. My blonde was part of my identity and when I stopped highlighting my hair I didn't feel like myself anymore. I felt frumpy - none of my makeup worked with the dull graying brown hair so it is a change you have to be ready for. It's videos like yours that challenge me to try new makeup and applications and I'm grateful for that "push" that I need to not let myself look rundown tired and frumpy lol.
Sending hugs!! I will be 54 in two weeks and have been there. All the same issues but with being a breast cancer survivor, wasn’t allowed to be on HRT. I struggled for 8 years with sleepless nights, hot flashes and weight gain. Still very self conscious about my shape and looks but have come to love myself. I love all of your tips and tricks for mature skin. Please don’t stop!! Hang in there and sending positive vibes your way!!
I will be 50 in January. I feel like menopause has turned my life upside down. I too feel like I’m falling apart. The good news is that we all have each other to talk to about it. How you are feeling on the inside is not how we view you on the outside. You are still beautiful to us. ❤
Risa, Risa, Risa - welcome to perimenopause! You've pretty much described every symptom I had. Never had hot flashes or feeling hot, but turned into a raging beeotch due to horrific mood swings. Luckily, there's a pill for that! Helped tremendously & it also helped that my doctor's wife was also perimenopausal & knew what to prescribe. Don't wait too long if symptoms really start to affect you. Your health & well being are super important. I can just hear your less than enthusiastic voice in this video - that is very different for you.
You do you!!! We're here for you!! Welcome to the club.
I need this “pill” that you speak of 😂 Was it HRT, or b-control, or something else like an SSRI?? I’m 2 mo away from turning 48 and going thru peri menopause too! My doc prescribed me b-control pills to “regulate” my hormones but I’m feeling like what I need is HRT cuz all my symptoms stem from decreasing level of estrogen.
@@yukikowu5695 Sorry you're having these issues! My issues started when I was 48 or 49 & now I'm 61 - 9 years post menopausal. Thank goodness.
No, I never wanted to go on HRT due to breast cancer on my dad's side of the family. I ended up getting DCIS breast cancer (non-genetic) anyway last year. Because it's been so long ago, I can't remember name of RX my Dr. put me on initially. I believe I was on it for two years, then when menopause happened, much less mood swings. I have remained on an antidepressant (Duloxetin) for about 8 years & keeps me even keeled.
Best of luck with your journey. It is truly a journey. Just remember, we're our own best advocate. If doctors pooh-pooh your issues/symptoms, do research & get referrals and find someone that listens to you. I believe female doctors listen much better than male doctors. Just my opinion.
I'm 47 and I identify with every single thing you "vented" about Risa.
However I also suffer from extreme hot flushes to the point where I cook dinner in a crop top and bike shorts during winter...lol
I hope things improve for you soon.
Thank you for always "keepin' it real" and helping me feel less alone in this mid life journey.
Sending you abundant love & sunshine from Queensland, Australia ❤🌞❤🌞❤
I totally identify 🥵. Just turned 50 and I have a fan in every room and can’t remember the last time I got cold. Hope it gets better. Good luck.
OMG those hot flushes are a killer. They exhaust you. I starting getting them at 48. I am now 60 and still get them even though I hit menopause at 55. I think the hardest thing is people just don't understand.
LOL....oh, the hot flashes! I actually went through menopause in my early 40's (am 50 now) and hot flashes were really the only symptom I had and they are awful. Men don't understand most of what women deal with but try explaining hot flashes to them, lol My husband would constantly "give advice". Turn the AC down, wear less clothes, etc and I would tell him that I could be laying in the snow naked and it still wouldn't help because it's a radiating heat from the inside out. I never knew such a thing was possible until experiencing it. Now that I'm post-menopausal the hot flashes don't hit me randomly throughout the day anymore but there's still at least once a day (usually in the evening) where I have a bout of it. Bah!
I'm in 40s and I've been grey since my late 20s and I stopped dying it 6 years ago. Best decision ever. It's a source of pride and gives a fascinating dimension to my curls. I love these videos. You are only human and we all struggle. You got this gurl! Have fun on vacay!
Thank you for making this video Risa, I'm 39 and I've got alot of this to come so it's great to hear women talk about it and their experience and maybe any tips anyone has. One thing i have noticed in the last 6 months is brain fog, one day i totally forgot where my car keys where and couldn't find them and i just had a melt down, my partner was amazing and we found them after like 15 minutes but them 15 minutes felt like the worst of my life because you just start questioning how did this happen, is this my life now, I'm only 39. Honestly i know it sounds dramatic 🙄 but i know you understand Risa. Some women except getting older but for me i just don't want it to happen 😄
As a 54 year old, I can so relate to all the challenges you are feeling. You are beautiful and honest. I enjoy watching your videos so much.
Hi Risa, thanks for being so candid in this video. I am 60 and I have a 35 year old son and I don't know how that happened because, last I remember, I was 35 and super slim. Then 💥 everything rapidly changed!
I tried to "embrace" my grey hair but, 🙅♀️ My eyesight changed and I also suffered from tinnitus- sirens constantly ringing in my ears 😖
Thankfully, that has subsided.
Risa, you are so elegant and beautiful and your videos inspire me. My son told me that, ever since I turned 60, I've been complaining more. I think it's because I've learned to not take sh*t from anyone and to stand up for what I feel is right for me. I feel so empowered now. I also have days when I feel down but I overcome them. Do whatever makes your heart feel happy. Stay strong, stay beautiful 😍
Thanks for sharing Risa, there is far too much life is perfect being portrayed online. To hear someone speak reality helps people to not feel alone an like we are crazy an being over dramatic, so thank you for being real❤
I just turned 44 and I have never been this into my skin and anti-aging then this year! I discovered my local med spa and I am choosing me in the first time since I had my kids, and they’re going to be 22 and 20. I feel the exact same way that you do. You are NOT ALONE! And I just love your content.
I really enjoyed your honesty in this video. I am 74, aging is a process. Do be grateful as you work through it, life can get difficult at a moments notice, but also bring many blessings. You will find your way as you take care of your health. It all works out.
THANK YOU!!!! I turned 49 last week and have noticed similar changes, too, over the past few years. You've calmed my anxieties and assured me that I'm exactly where I'm supposed to be on many levels. The power of makeup is a panacea! I really enjoy your videos and content. Don't be discouraged--you are ENOUGH. Hugs!
I’m so sorry that you feel so down right now. Sending you the biggest hugs I can! Just know you really make people happy here. Whenever we have a bad day we watch one of your videos and it puts a smile on our faces. You are truly amazing ❤
Risa, this video makes me want to give you a big bear hug. Don’t ever worry about sharing your woes, it’s hard for us women as we age. Menopause nearly broke me and I felt everything you talk about. I’ve now flipped in the other direction and don’t worry at all about how I’m supposed to look, I just do me. My skin and hair changed early in peri menopause so I no longer colour my hair and it’s so freeing. Do whatever makes YOU feel good and don’t worry about the rest. Sending you love and positivity ❤
I’m 46 and definitely in perimenopause. I like that you’re talking so openly about this as it feels like no one talks about it! I plan to keep dying my hair until I hit about 60. Then I’m going to start playing with fun hair colors on top of my white hair. Mine seems to be more white than gray, same with my mom
Risa, I’m 58 and at the end of menopause. Please embrace what makes you feel good. You are beautiful!! I too, told my Mom not to go gray and she didn’t, my sweet daughter who is a hair stylist didn’t like it when I wanted to go gray.. I didn’t listen, and with that being said, when I leave her salon clients give her complements on my hair!! Win win for her!!
Honestly, my hair has never been so healthy!! You will embrace your age at your own pace. I love your videos! Many blessings, Tammy♥️
First and foremost, you are and will always be beautiful inside and out! I love your videos and appreciate your honesty and ‘realness.’ I can totally relate to ALL the symptoms of aging you mentioned. I’m 53 and have struggled the past few years with not only the physical symptoms but the mental ramifications of being over 50. I completely understand how you are feeling! Aging can be difficult but as strong and resilient women we can learn to adapt, continue doing whatever makes us feel beautiful, and age with grace. 💕
Risa, thank you for addressing the aging factors. I am turning 58 in November and have been struggling with anxiety, depression, insomnia and many more post menopausal symptoms. I truly enjoy your uplifting videos and inspire me to follow up on self care. Cheers 🥂
Thanks for being so real with us! I enjoyed this more "chill" and chatty video. I'm 46 and this is helpful to hear, the good and the bad. We will all go thru it at some point
Thank you for being so REAL! At 54 years old, I relate and am happy to be in such good company.
Risa I’m on the higher end of your viewers (almost 55 lol) and I can relate, but know it gets better as you work through these things. We are all different and it’s just a part of life we will all go through. You’ll be just fine and I do hope some of these unrealistic views of an older woman changes. Women like yourself can be a part of changing those things with a platform like TH-cam. Much love!
I’m 84 and I watch every one of your video shows, love you! You have taught me so much about make-up, don’t stop!
I'm really sorry that you've been struggling. Chronic health issues/chronic pain seems to just enhance the aging quagmire. I'm 51 and have been dealing with the same things you are for a couple of years. There are days I just want to give and throw my hands in the air (and maybe hurl something across the room at the same time). I admire you for being able to put on a happy face and power through the tinnitus. I can't imagine how stressful that must be. You've been able to take it on with grace and aplomb. I would never have known that you were facing something so significant without you sharing it. Holding all of that in with your radiant smile had to become heavy. Thank you for being so honest - particularly emotionally honest - about the aging process. It's always good to be reminded that others are facing the same thing and not always having an easy to. Hang in there. It gets better (or so I hear).
P.S. try Retroce readers. They're just spectacular
I’m 70 and stopped coloring my hair years ago and never looked back. It’s so freeing not to have to worry about roots! ( and my daughter was in Agreement all the way). I love your content because you are always so honest and down to earth. BTW I couldn’t find the link to that other beauty content creator you mentioned so maybe you could add a pin comment with a link. ❤❤❤❤❤
Her name is Lorry Hill
💖💖💖Thank you for being so raw and vulnerable in sharing the challenges of aging! I just turned 48, and and I totally relate. I am also not jumping on the go grey trend, it’s just not me, but I do applaud women who are rocking it and look beautiful. I believe gratitude and living a balanced life in your mind, body, and spirit keeps you shining on the inside and out. You are amazing, and inspiring, ignore any negativity and enjoy the journey with grace. ✨💖
Lisa, I get it and I am with you! These past 2 years have been rough as I watch myself age in so many ways... you mentioned all the same things Ive been dealing with. Im 52. What i have learned is to not dwell on it and just do my best to be the best version of myself i can be! Also, the beauty from within is what is meaningful and matters anyway! You are beautiful inside and out!
Thank you 1 millions times over for this! I see pictures of myself from last year and before and just feel blah! I’m 48 1/2 and I see the aging more now than I ever have. Your transparency and honesty truly helped me not feel alone. My husband is incredible, but I know he has to get tired of me saying I was prettier then, i I I looked younger then, and all the other horrible insults I project on myself. So thank you for being you!
Thank you for being so real!! At 52 I officially enter menopause, within that year i gain 30 😮. Weight has never been an issue for me. Women certainly got the worst when it comes to aging. Be proactive about your health, listen to your body & find doctor(s) that care about your issues.
This is the next phase of life, we’ll adjust as we always do. What’s the alternative?!?
Be well and keep being you!
I have has tinnitus in my right ear for over 5 years. Sometimes it’s so loud I think others should hear it. It never stops. And you are beautiful. It’s easy for people to pick others apart from the comfort and safety of their cellphone or pc. I learned to ignore them. It isn’t always easy but it is very doable and gives me peace of mind. I hope you enjoy your vacation.
Getting old stinks! I’m 53 and everything is sagging, bagging and dragging! You always look beautiful Risa
😂😂😂 I love your way of describing getting older!! 🤪
That sums it up perfectly 😂
I don’t have any words of wisdom, but you are courageous to share your struggles so freely. The internet, like aging, can be brutal. I wear minimal makeup but enjoy watching you and your love for it. Hang in there, that hill is steep. Just turned 60 this summer. Women supporting women !!
Just yes, yes, yes!! Thank you so much Risa for lifting the lid on menopause/ageing… it’s just not a subject which is spoken about enough, never mind normalised. You have made me feel a whole load better about it xxx
Risa, you are a lovely and kind person. People who are critical of others are unhappy with themselves. They aren't worth paying attention to but you already know that. I'm 57 and completely understand what you're feeling and going through. Don't get discouraged and take one day at a time. The 2 years we all endured didn't help either. The 50s have been much better than my 40s but I realize everyone is unique. Enough said. I'm so happy watching and learning from your videos. I wish you so much joy through this time. 💞
Thank you so much for sharing this with us! I'm 53 and thought I was probably too old for your channel. I thought you were in your 30s! You look amazing. You are so right, it goes so fast and the aging seems to go at warp speed once it starts. I started menopause at 37 and have been on HRT. It helps with some of the things like brain fog, itchy skin, and hot flashes. But wish it helped slow down the face sagging - it does not lol. My hair started thinning, have the face bumps in the same place. I now need reading glasses just to cook or go shopping! And the body - damn I can pull a neck muscle just looking to the left. :-) One thing I feel I cannot wear is eyeshadow that has any shimmer/frost in it. Curious if you will find that as you age. It just settles too much. Love your channel. Would love more chat videos. Even if you didn't do your makeup and just wanted to vent. Again thank you for talking about this. It really does help me feel better and not depressed. We need to stick together!
I wanted to add that when I was younger I used to say I would never be one of those people who cared about their age and I would never let it get to me. Ummm I was wrong! ha
I love the flow of this video! It’s exactly what goes on in my brain when doing my makeup versus trying to come to terms with aging. I don’t see this as complaining. I see it as being authentic. It’s nice to know we’re not alone in these ruminations.
I’m so sorry you’re going through all of this!! Do know you are NOT alone. And the sweating will get much much worse. I’ve heard HRT really helps with menopause symptoms, I’m just not a fan of taking HRT. I’m 53 and have been in full blown menopause for 2 years. You’ve got this!!!
I felt the same way when I was in my early 50’s.
Fortunately my menopause symptoms went away 🙏
I’m now almost 65 and am finally embracing all my changes with skin, body issues and hair. No more covering the gray and it’s growing in beautifully.
You will get there too.
You are a beautiful and talented lady and I so enjoy your videos 💜💜💜
Risa you’re perfect as you are. There are always life challenges as we all know. Enjoy your 50’s. That was my favourite decade. And about the gray hair…I’m 63 and I’m not ready for it yet.
Oh Risa! I have followed you for a couple of years now, and think you’re awesome! I’m turning 50 in April - and I totally understand what you mean about ageing! Anxiety, sleeplessness, brain fog, change in skin texture, hair texture, painful joints - especially hips and knees… and I started HRT at the beginning of this year. I cannot recommend highly enough! I understand that some women are at high risk and shouldn’t use HRT. But I’m not high risk - and it has been the best thing I’ve done. My skin, hair and joint pain has completely improved. Much less anxiety and I sleep more easily. The positive part of ageing (Lord knows there has to be something….) is that I have what I call ‘don’t give a fuckatude!’ and I love it! It is so liberating to get to the phase of your life where you start living for yourself, rather than everyone else! I love that you’re sharing this, because menopause is a ‘newish’ thing- it’s only been the last 100yrs or so that woman’s mortality was in the range of getting to menopause. And medicine has never been focused on woman’s health. So it was not studied much, and not discussed much until recently. So sharing is women supporting women. I appreciate you using your platform for this! Thank you for this! ❤
Thank you Risa. I’m 48 and have been feeling down as well. About a LOT of things. So I really appreciate you and all you do. And especially your honesty. The peri-menopause brain fog is Real and horrible for me. Also eye sight has worsened for me as well. And the night sweats!!! Oh my goodness!! You just vent away Risa! I completely understand. 💖💖. PS you always look stunning!
I just turned 52 yesterday and lately I’ve been feeling SO old looking. My face is especially. Menopause is doing crazy things to my texture, my hair and of course my weight. I am struggling as well and I appreciate you speaking about all this. Makes me feel more human.
Love this video. You said what we can all feel at some point. The way you felt about your 40’s….. I cannot believe I’m 58. I think the lockdown time messed our clocks up too. Keep doing these great convos.
I'm 71 and love love love all things makeup. Still haven't gone gray although I'm thinking about it. Anyway, just to let all of you almost 50 women feel better, my 50s were great! In fact, it was probably my favorite decade so far.
Sending positive energy and big hugs! You're one of my fave youtubers! Please don't let certain things get you down; you are loved 🤗🤗🤗💖!
Dear Risa, you are truly one of my favourite women on social media! Once I had enough grey roots (plus I’m 5’9” before heels) so not many were tall enough to see my roots, i gave it a go! When I saw the colour & tone of my roots I realized that it was similar to the highlights that I frequently spent $$ on. It was one of the best beauty decisions that I made for myself! Plus my hair is much healthier! I was mostly looking at Pinterest photos before of silver haired women in my age range. I get more compliments on my hair now than ever (and I have had many hair compliments over the years). I’ll be 64 in Nov. and been through menopause too. Physical and Mental/ Emotional/ Spiritual Health care and the company of other women who also want to evolve and nurture themselves to this end has been very important to me. I’ve held Brene Brown book groups (w/journaling and sharing if comfortable to do so), this and other things have been so important in evolving and becoming and nurturing other women who walk the same path! Blessings to you, Risa on your journey! ❤
Thank you for sharing what you are going through. It is so nice to know we are going through this together and we should be talking about it. I started my channel a little over a year ago, and that is what I want to offer. A place where we can share this part of our journey and still enjoy our makeup, hair, and all the things we've always loved. You are stunning and handling the aging process beautifully!!
Thank you for this video. It is refreshing to know others have the same struggles! Even glam TH-cam icons such as yourself. I'm 46 and experiencing some of the same issues, brain fog, anxiety, not sleeping, procrastination....I feel a little bit more "normal" now :)
Risa I’m 29 and absolutely love your videos ! And as you said aging is a blessing I’m not your age but my mom passed away at just 50 and I’m sure she would enjoyed at least one more day here..Blessings and I hope good times comes for you❤
You’re quite beautiful and an inspiration to me. I’m 37 and the world can be horrible to women after 25. I must say watching your channel reminds me that every year we have is a blessing in life and in beauty. I love how your channel cultivates a community of women of all ages. We are in this together. Thank you. More life!
I’m 29 and followed you for a long time! You’re real and raw! Keep going💜
I’m in my late 40s and have been on a peri menopausal roller coaster ride . But, for some reason, whenever I think about aging, I start to remember little children I knew as a child - that died very young. I know everyone says aging is a privilege, but sometimes it’s reminders like these that help me realize my blessings.
Thank you so much for the venting!! You said what I have been feeling! You are so beautiful and amazing!
Do grateful for this video. Exactly what I’m going through. I honestly saw all my friends aging and thought that somehow it wasn’t gonna happen to me. And now it’s happening all at once. And it’s hard. I know that sounds vain and shallow but it’s how I feel and I’m really glad that you made a video addressing this
This is the best video you've done, in my opinion. I'm sorry to hear that weariness in your voice, but it's totally relatable x infinity. There's so much I could say here. I'm so glad that you're here with your channel. The content creation conveyor belt is so overwhelming!! I'm waiting for perimenopause myself, but I waited to have kids so mine are littler. I didn't anticipate the lack of energy, but other than that, wouldn't change a thing. If you have haters, it means that you're doing something right! It's such a reflection of them and has nothing to do with you.
I'm a reluctant beauty influencer (that word makes me so uneasy) but I'll be 49 next June, so I'm right behind you. I watch all of your videos because I look forward to your insights and personality! I've shared your hooded-eye videos with everyone I know. Society and more importantly, any company that stands to make money off of our insecurities will do so at every opportunity, especially to sell more hair dye and anti-aging treatments, for example. If we accepted our natural processes, a lot of companies would be bankrupt and execs would be out of jobs. Keep up the outstanding work as I know I'm not the only one that appreciates you and is a lifelong fan.
Risa, I really enjoy your videos. I’m a 57 year old that has loved make-up all my life! I have used a make- up line for years and just got bored. Also, noticed that my make-up techniques needed an upgrade and I was curious about other brands for my aging skin. Found your channel and you are my go to for what I’m going to try. Thank you! I have ordered several things you have reviewed and loved them too! You are an influencer and just picked up the bath gel you talked about from Target -
Another win. I loved your comments here about gray hair. I am a dark brunette that has ALWAYS dyed my hair blond. I was so sick of the constant color- color- that I decided to let it go. It’s so funny to hear people’s reactions to it. My husband would prefer me blond, and I do look “older” than my much older sisters who dye their hair brown. But I don’t care. It’s so easy and I have received many compliments and it’s certainly healthier than it has been for years! Cheaper too!! But aging - not easy. I can’t get over not having a waist. Things just revamped themselves BUT I’m happy, and the more we all embrace our beauty will really help this younger generation I love, do the same. Great video- great channel and keep on loving you! You’re beautiful! Thanks for all you do!
Thank you for sharing. I can so relate…I turned 40 in March and I’ve been struggling with getting older and how fast time goes by. I still see my mom as 45 and my 14 year old son as a 5 year old. It is so hard!!! Life is going by so fast.
Risa, I’ve been watching you for a couple years now and absolutely adore your style and videos. However today is the first time I’ve ever commented on your video and I just have to tell you, I feel like I just had a cup of coffee and chatted with my best friend. Thank you for letting me/us know WE’RE NOT ALONE on this aging journey! I’m 51 and experience the exact things you’re talking about, especially sleepless nights. Sleep used to be my luxury, now it’s the thorn on my side. It’s honestly the worst part about aging (for me). But I felt alone in this until now. One of the things I prayed for this morning was lack of sleep and then I see your video! God’s good like that 🙏 and thank you for blessing me today with this video 🙏🙌💜
You are 100% not alone! Someday I hope to do a meet and greet and have a cup of coffee and hug as many of you wonderful subscribers as I can! Thank you for watching and for your lovely comment. 🥰
Risa, you are by far the most classy lady on TH-cam!! When you show us your outfits when you're ready to go out on the town, I think wow she is so put together nicely and beautifully!
Risa, I'm so happy that you talked about everything you did in this video as I feel it's important to talk about these real things. I appreciate your willingness to be vulnerable and share your experiences. I can definitely relate as I've experienced much of what you've mention a couple of years ago. I feel like I'm beginning to come out the other side of it, and I'm relieved. Thankfully we have women like your mom and grandma to show us going through it that it will be ok on the other side. Again, thank you for sharing.
Girl! I could have spoken every single word in this video. In fact, at times I said what you were about to say right before you said it because I’m 54 and have experienced everything you mentioned here and more. It’s definitely a lot learning to adjust and live with so many changes in such a short amount of time. I look at my eyelids and jowls and all of the other drying, falling, changing body parts and while I would love to fix them, I don’t feel like I would be authentically me. I have attempted to let my gray grow out since February and it looks HORRIBLE. It has resulted in mousy brown hair with gray “tinsel” as I call it. I have an appt next week to get highlights put back in. This meno/covid hair loss is insane and I hate the course texture. Maybe I’ll try again in 10 years when I have more gray. I don’t have a lot so it just looks drab. The ONLY thing I would consider right now is getting my eyelids done and ONLY because they are so hooded now it effects my vision. Oh isn’t it great facing all of these changes? Not, but I’m grateful to have made it this far since many have not. Shine on, girl, there is nothing wrong with the way you look!
We are definitely our worst critics. I see nothing but beautiful when I see you. I’m 49 and would feel blessed to have your face and body. On the other hand I down myself and have people say the same to me and I only see the bad. We will get through it ❤
I'm 54 and feel like I'm really falling apart. I felt great in my 40's but I agree with you, it goes by lightening fast.
I am 65 and can always learn more….especially about hooded eyes, and a better way of putting on eyeshadow.
Thx for helping others.👍🏻
I love this video and yes it’s ok to vent and yes getting older sucks and we are expected to handle it gracefully but sometimes it’s hard lol. I am 55 and turning 55 has been the hardest year for me, I also feel like I’m falling apart, my body is not the same, the hot flashes are terrible even on HRT, brain fog is real and so is lack of sleep. But even with all that I am so blessed with a wonderful family, a new grandson and a husband who still thinks I’m hot 😊. I am not on TikTok but I have decided this year to stop coloring my hair and let it go gray and I am so happy with my decision! I love my gray hair! But when I was 49 I would have never dreamed of not coloring my hair, I was not ready then, and it’s ok if your never ready, it’s a very personal decision. Take care of yourself, get your eyes checked, take care of your tenitis, I know how horrible it can be, and enjoy your life! And keep making these amazing videos!
Risa, don’t let the jealous monsters get to you. I’m turning 63 in 3 weeks. I have marionette lines near my mouth, fine lines by my eyes, my hair has thinned dramatically. BUT….I survived breast cancer 17 years ago and my beauty comes from enjoying my life. I love your channel and I’m inspired by you so many times❤️❤️❤️ Hugs and love❤️❤️❤️ Do what makes you happy!
I loved this video Risa, keeping it real for all us ladies who are also currently going thro so many changes, I love a good moan and you did it so well lol! Maybe do more of this type of content as us mature ladies like to know we're all in this together!! xoJoanxo
I'm looking at 63! I look fabulous (people tell me that all the time)! I have never been happier and I really believe that makes me stay attractive. The pandemic nearly destroyed me financially. When I was your age my life fell apart. My husband had a catastrophic stroke and died 18 months later and I buried him 18 months later at 48. Menopause, I didn't have time to have symptoms!!!!! You make your own schedule! You are beautiful, healthy, prosperous (you worked for it like most of the rest of us). Time goes so quickly and I know mine is limited. I have chosen joy! Start defending yourself to yourself! Do what you need to do to be content!
I totally relate! I’m 49 and started a bad Perimenopause several years ago. To top it all off, I’m ending my 40’s with Long Covid! Fortunately, it’s rather mild but on top of perimenopause’s hormonal fluctuations, it’s a fun time.😂😢
I SO agree the 40's have FLOWN by!!
I'm 49 as well with a 19 year old son.
I am DREADING turning 50. And yes, we are our own worst critics. You are absolutely beautiful.....you look amazing!! I love Lorry, btw!!
Please extend the viewer age !!! I am turning 80 next spring and love watching your video and follow your suggestions ..can’t believe that I am 40 years older than you !! 😂
I’m not sure what you mean by “extend the viewer age”? I appreciate my viewers of all ages! I was just stating what my TH-cam analytics tell me my most watched demographic is, which I have no control over. I love you all! ❤️🥰
You are not alone! All that you talked about, I am experiencing also. I’m fighting all of it the best I can, but it takes a toll on my emotions sometimes. Don’t forget how beautiful you are and that everything you (we) are experiencing is normal. Keep doing what you love. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you for your honesty & transparency! You are beautiful & talented.
I'm 44 and are feeling the start of my visual "breakdown". Your words and feelings are strongly speaking to my heart. Thank you for sharing. And by the way, you are so beautiful!
Thank you for a refreshingly honest look at getting older. I’m 55, and I totally understand what you’re going through. We all have to make peace with our changing selves. Some people fight it. Others accept it and just try to be the best version of themselves they can possibly be. Either way, that choice is personal and should be respected. There is no one size fits all when it comes to aging. Thank you for speaking from your heart. I truly appreciate your honesty and openness.
Risa, I’ve been watching you for years. I’ve never commented, but I felt the need to interject ❤. You are truly one of the most genuine and lovely people I’ve ever seen on social media. Your kindness, honesty, transparency, and unassuming nature is beautiful, minus the fact that you’re gorgeous as well. I understand the feeling as we are only a year or so apart in age. As I’ve gotten older, I’m feeling the same. I feel 27 inside, but am actually 47 and it seems that, socially, you aren’t allowed to be fun or cool at this age, but o think we are cooler as we get older 😊. It’s absolutely a strength to be vulnerable enough to be honest about how you feel, and feelings are not wrong or bad. I just want to say thank you for sharing your feelings and know you are not alone. Prayers for you, my friend ❤