WWCCD? I did a Skype session with Coach Margaret yesterday, and it was phenomenal! What an honor and joy it was to talk with this lovely lady about my flipping avoidant and broken ex. I felt tons better afterward!
She broke up with me after 9 years and i was devestated beyond belief, i just couldn't believe it. I did everything wrong afterwards , begged, cried yelled and as time went on, i got nasty. I sometimes get sad and miss her and wonder if she's sleeping with someone. 5 months have gone by and i feel better. Pretty women are flirting with me, ive gone on dates and have been doing great at work. I saw her today to sign some paperwork and she looks terrible, I've never seen her look this bad. Terrible acne and tons of pasty looking makeup to try and cover it, it didn't help. After i left, i texed her "you look very nice" knowing that i was just being nice. I've realized that it happened for a reason and I'm feeling good, looking good and doing great! Moral of the story, if you want to try and get them back, go for it but just know that if it doesn't happen, don't despair because you will get over them eventually and you will be happy again, with or withoit them.
I often forget I am a catch. I've got myself--financially, good job, apartment, car, intelligent, etc. I can't keep trying to save others from themselves, or even allowing someone to not appreciate who I am. Maybe I attract people who are "projects" or people who need work.
Jam Jar 34 I'm by far from perfect myself and know I could always do more, but the people I encounter are just messed up. Don't know what they want, baggage, drama, no integrity or desire to commit. It's ruined my outlook.
It’s been a little over 2 months now, I still miss him and want him back. But I feel massively better. The videos have helped so much, working out, and I got a new job that I may actually like! Lol. Focus on the work, things will follow
I do NOT want my ex back at all, in fact, I want him completely OUT of my life forever!! Because of this I am sometimes very conflicted about your focus in your videos that encourage ways to get an ex back when there are more times/reasons when we should not be returning to an ex at all and should be doing everything we can to get the hell away from them...again.. forever! I love you and Coach Margaret but I am hoping and looking forward to more videos from you two soon that rightfully encourage many of us to NOT get back w/ an ex...in particular one that has been evil with some of us. Thanks Craig and Margaret!!
I absolutely know I'm a catch... I'm a good hearted guy, I now have 2 jobs that I love (not everyone can say this), I have a car, I'm getting my own 1 bedroom this winter, and I'm good in bed too ;) hahaha... Still working on my anxiety, but I'm 100 times more knowledgeable on how to handle things now, than I was before watching your videos back in March, coach... I will never lose my cool and get as needy as I did with my ex ever again, and whoever I end up with, will reap those benefits, thanks to this life changing info.
My ex broke up with me 3 days ago. We have been together 2 weeks shy of a year and had a getaway planned and paid for to celebrate. I was becoming overwhelmed by my anxiety and acting out in a way to turn her off when I saw signs of the relationship changing. I felt a disturbance in the force. This caused me to panic internally and make many mistakes to make the situation worse. I became needy and insecure and unconsciously manipulative at times. I have an anxious attachment style and severe separation anxiety. it made her feel smothered and turned her off to me completely. It was like being in a car crash in slow motion and being able to do nothing about it. I saw and new I was messing up but my anxiety was overruling my brain. Even though by learning the material and knowing the correct course of action. I have myself to blame and that's the hardest part to live with. She messaged me that morning after being distant for a few days, so I already knew something was up and overly anxious, and wanted to get together to talk. I asked her if it was about breaking up I'd rather just go collect my things from her apartment when she wasnt there instead of breaking down in front of her in person. It would have just made me look more needy in her eyes. As much as I would have loved to see her one last time and hug her. So she broke it off via text and was still open to talking in person but left it up to me when. I told her that I still loved her and am still really hopeful that we could work through our issues we'd been having and grow from it and get back to where we were. I told her she had a change of heart and wanted to try and work through things to call me. No contact rule in effect...but we still have loose ends to tie up if she goes through with the break up. She has things at my place and we are on the same phone plan. So far she hasnt brought it up and it's been 2.5 days of silence and I've been depressed and anxiety ridden. I've been going to counseling and ordered your work books to help work on my issues because I realize the problems they have caused in my relationships and I am committed to getting to the root of it all and finding a way to manage it. My question is this. Should I wait for her to break no contact to adress these lose ends? Should I? If i have to meet up with her to give her things back, should i ask if she wants to still talk? If so, should i let her know that I'm aware of the mistakes that i made and that i am committed to working on myself with or without her, state my purpose and apologize for my mistakes and let her know I'm aware of the mistakes I made and changes I need to make. Should I let her know I still think we can get past this rough patch. Then lovingly let her know the door is open if she changes her mind and initiate no contact. I just worry about breaking no contact now to atleast let her know I'm making changes and aware of my faults to maybe give her some hope. I dont warn that ruining any anxiety she may be having from no contact now that may be causing her to reconsider things. Just feel like it's my anxiety causing me to feel like I need to act in the situation.
I'd be so interested to see you do a video on friends who give bias advice/opinions and can sabotage a relationship depending on their attachment type and their destructive emotions.
I’d really like for you to do a video on the workbooks. I’d like to see a preview page or something. I’m big on researching something before purchasing. I trust you! I just want to see what they are like.
Remember, you can find me on Twitter and Instagram. And if you want, you can see a small sample of the workbooks in the upcoming newsletter. Subscribe today on AskCraig.net. I won’t be sending out again for a while.
Coach you just save my life if only you knew. I just wanted to thank you... Of course I would love to thank Margaret as well. English was not my first language. Sorry hehehe just wanted to thank you in public. You just save my life. FYI I'm suicidal. You literally save me. Bless you. I always keep my mental health check and taking med now 😊
Hi Craig. I have a wonderful success story to share which would fit the situation of many people who have been dumped. I could't find your email on your website. Thanks
Hi Craig, are there testimonials about the workbooks? It would be great if we could see a sample or snippet =) Your channel is great and I've found it very helpful for me. Thank you.
Can u do a video on that when you get a chance with your ex and you get to your old ways again because you didn't know about these videos and do the work??
Hey Craig! I love your videos, and I wanted to sign up for an email coaching too. I’ve been struggling with a huge anxiety after my boyfriend broke up with me.. but man, IT’S SO EXPENSIVE! I understand that you’re working a lot and earning money for life, but $275 is a bit too much.. I’ll have to save money for 3 months before i can afford that. And i need your help as soon as possible :(
It sucks, man. My girlfriend and I were together 5 1/2 years and she started seeing a guy a week later. They were official 2 months after the breakup. It’s been four months this Friday and I’m just now beginning to accept that I might not get her back. Like you said, it’s their loss.
Killer Gamer well my previous girl friend before her has now come back in my life. We split for about 18 months or more. She got with an older guy and now says she made the biggest mistake of her life. They come and go mate and sometimes they come back again. I would say 75% of the relationships Ive had, my ex has asked me to get back with them when they’ve moved on with someone else. Once the new person starts to get complacent. They start to remember how good things were.
She is with an older man. I got complacent and I imagine he’ll do the same. Either way, I’m working on me and I’ll do just fine. Thanks for the kind words.
The best thing you can do is work on you, it still hurts but when they do decide to come in contact with you, I promise you will feel very differently about whether you want her back or not. I basically date my ex ex now, she wants to be a couple again but I don't think I could ever trust her. So we hook up and have fun but I've told her that's all I can give right now.
victoria try everything you can to get yourself in a better way! Keep watching these videos. Stay focused. Journal. It's really hard. I know. You can do it! These videos will help. Play them at night too! Good luck to you!
"Try to hear me then I'm done, cause I might just say this once, seen this played out in my dream, it doesn't matter, tired of feeling like a ghost, f-ck it's you I hate the most, and there is no gurantee, it dosent matter, this time I might just disappear"🎶🎶🎶
She’s a cheater are u kidding ?? Weather she’s married to the other guy or not .... old saying believe them the first time !!!! When they show there true colors ..
WWCCD?
I did a Skype session with Coach Margaret yesterday, and it was phenomenal! What an honor and joy it was to talk with this lovely lady about my flipping avoidant and broken ex. I felt tons better afterward!
She broke up with me after 9 years and i was devestated beyond belief, i just couldn't believe it. I did everything wrong afterwards , begged, cried yelled and as time went on, i got nasty. I sometimes get sad and miss her and wonder if she's sleeping with someone. 5 months have gone by and i feel better. Pretty women are flirting with me, ive gone on dates and have been doing great at work. I saw her today to sign some paperwork and she looks terrible, I've never seen her look this bad. Terrible acne and tons of pasty looking makeup to try and cover it, it didn't help. After i left, i texed her "you look very nice" knowing that i was just being nice. I've realized that it happened for a reason and I'm feeling good, looking good and doing great! Moral of the story, if you want to try and get them back, go for it but just know that if it doesn't happen, don't despair because you will get over them eventually and you will be happy again, with or withoit them.
I often forget I am a catch. I've got myself--financially, good job, apartment, car, intelligent, etc. I can't keep trying to save others from themselves, or even allowing someone to not appreciate who I am. Maybe I attract people who are "projects" or people who need work.
You are a catch Lisa!!
Wow, I've been feeling the same way...
I am a catch. I am not prefect but I willing to work on myself to be better. We are all different that's what makes us special. 😁😁😁
Jam Jar 34 I'm by far from perfect myself and know I could always do more, but the people I encounter are just messed up. Don't know what they want, baggage, drama, no integrity or desire to commit. It's ruined my outlook.
Lisa watch the videos on choosing better partners. Red flags. They help.
Bought the work books and started therapy. I am obsessed with your videos. Thanks
It’s been a little over 2 months now, I still miss him and want him back. But I feel massively better. The videos have helped so much, working out, and I got a new job that I may actually like! Lol. Focus on the work, things will follow
I do NOT want my ex back at all, in fact, I want him completely OUT of my life forever!! Because of this I am sometimes very conflicted about your focus in your videos that encourage ways to get an ex back when there are more times/reasons when we should not be returning to an ex at all and should be doing everything we can to get the hell away from them...again..
forever!
I love you and Coach Margaret but I am hoping and looking forward to more videos from you two soon that rightfully encourage many of us to NOT get back w/ an ex...in particular one that has been evil with some of us.
Thanks Craig and Margaret!!
I absolutely know I'm a catch... I'm a good hearted guy, I now have 2 jobs that I love (not everyone can say this), I have a car, I'm getting my own 1 bedroom this winter, and I'm good in bed too ;) hahaha... Still working on my anxiety, but I'm 100 times more knowledgeable on how to handle things now, than I was before watching your videos back in March, coach... I will never lose my cool and get as needy as I did with my ex ever again, and whoever I end up with, will reap those benefits, thanks to this life changing info.
2 years later, how’s it going for you ?
Thanx craig for sharing my success story...
thanks Craig I listen to you everyday It is really helping me get over my last relationship who was a 2 timing narchy thanks
My ex broke up with me 3 days ago. We have been together 2 weeks shy of a year and had a getaway planned and paid for to celebrate.
I was becoming overwhelmed by my anxiety and acting out in a way to turn her off when I saw signs of the relationship changing. I felt a disturbance in the force. This caused me to panic internally and make many mistakes to make the situation worse. I became needy and insecure and unconsciously manipulative at times. I have an anxious attachment style and severe separation anxiety. it made her feel smothered and turned her off to me completely.
It was like being in a car crash in slow motion and being able to do nothing about it. I saw and new I was messing up but my anxiety was overruling my brain. Even though by learning the material and knowing the correct course of action. I have myself to blame and that's the hardest part to live with.
She messaged me that morning after being distant for a few days, so I already knew something was up and overly anxious, and wanted to get together to talk. I asked her if it was about breaking up I'd rather just go collect my things from her apartment when she wasnt there instead of breaking down in front of her in person. It would have just made me look more needy in her eyes. As much as I would have loved to see her one last time and hug her.
So she broke it off via text and was still open to talking in person but left it up to me when. I told her that I still loved her and am still really hopeful that we could work through our issues we'd been having and grow from it and get back to where we were. I told her she had a change of heart and wanted to try and work through things to call me.
No contact rule in effect...but we still have loose ends to tie up if she goes through with the break up. She has things at my place and we are on the same phone plan. So far she hasnt brought it up and it's been 2.5 days of silence and I've been depressed and anxiety ridden.
I've been going to counseling and ordered your work books to help work on my issues because I realize the problems they have caused in my relationships and I am committed to getting to the root of it all and finding a way to manage it.
My question is this. Should I wait for her to break no contact to adress these lose ends? Should I? If i have to meet up with her to give her things back, should i ask if she wants to still talk? If so, should i let her know that I'm aware of the mistakes that i made and that i am committed to working on myself with or without her, state my purpose and apologize for my mistakes and let her know I'm aware of the mistakes I made and changes I need to make. Should I let her know I still think we can get past this rough patch. Then lovingly let her know the door is open if she changes her mind and initiate no contact.
I just worry about breaking no contact now to atleast let her know I'm making changes and aware of my faults to maybe give her some hope. I dont warn that ruining any anxiety she may be having from no contact now that may be causing her to reconsider things. Just feel like it's my anxiety causing me to feel like I need to act in the situation.
Great video sir . lots of love from India .
Awsome video! That's true I replay the whole thing and scenerios all day long! I love the workbook!
Me too
I'd be so interested to see you do a video on friends who give bias advice/opinions and can sabotage a relationship depending on their attachment type and their destructive emotions.
Isaac McCardle he did it, the video he uploaded yesterday was about this
You are an awesome guy
Thanks man I appreciate you
I’d really like for you to do a video on the workbooks. I’d like to see a preview page or something. I’m big on researching something before purchasing. I trust you! I just want to see what they are like.
I spoke too soon! I hope I get that email
Remember, you can find me on Twitter and Instagram.
And if you want, you can see a small sample of the workbooks in the upcoming newsletter. Subscribe today on AskCraig.net. I won’t be sending out again for a while.
Coach you just save my life if only you knew. I just wanted to thank you... Of course I would love to thank Margaret as well. English was not my first language. Sorry hehehe just wanted to thank you in public. You just save my life. FYI I'm suicidal. You literally save me. Bless you. I always keep my mental health check and taking med now 😊
Top video. 😁😁😁
Mr kenneth: how's you doing? Really enjoy your stuff. Thanks. 😁😁😁
Coach, I can't find you on instagram. Please, share a link here or in your description.
i really wish i could book a coaching session but i’m a broke college student
Hi Craig could we please have another video on managing anxiety in new relationships? I’ve just started one and really don’t want to mess it up.
Hi Craig. I have a wonderful success story to share which would fit the situation of many people who have been dumped. I could't find your email on your website. Thanks
Mike sopho share it here. We all could use some hope
Hi Craig, are there testimonials about the workbooks? It would be great if we could see a sample or snippet =) Your channel is great and I've found it very helpful for me. Thank you.
I just realized I posted this and then the latter half of the video mentioned it will be emailed in newsletter. Nvm !
lailbeeb He did on Twitter!
thank you!
They are awesome
Curveballs....I've been playing dodge ball.....ouch..lol
Can u do a video on that when you get a chance with your ex and you get to your old ways again because you didn't know about these videos and do the work??
Hey Craig! I love your videos, and I wanted to sign up for an email coaching too. I’ve been struggling with a huge anxiety after my boyfriend broke up with me..
but man, IT’S SO EXPENSIVE! I understand that you’re working a lot and earning money for life, but $275 is a bit too much.. I’ll have to save money for 3 months before i can afford that. And i need your help as soon as possible :(
Demand for my time is insane
Coach Craig Kenneth thank you for answering! Of course the demand is high, we all get that. Your channel is a saver for us!
In less than 3 months the girl I was seeing for almost a year moved on with another guy. Ah well, her loss.
It sucks, man. My girlfriend and I were together 5 1/2 years and she started seeing a guy a week later. They were official 2 months after the breakup. It’s been four months this Friday and I’m just now beginning to accept that I might not get her back. Like you said, it’s their loss.
Killer Gamer well my previous girl friend before her has now come back in my life. We split for about 18 months or more. She got with an older guy and now says she made the biggest mistake of her life. They come and go mate and sometimes they come back again. I would say 75% of the relationships Ive had, my ex has asked me to get back with them when they’ve moved on with someone else. Once the new person starts to get complacent. They start to remember how good things were.
She is with an older man. I got complacent and I imagine he’ll do the same. Either way, I’m working on me and I’ll do just fine. Thanks for the kind words.
The best thing you can do is work on you, it still hurts but when they do decide to come in contact with you, I promise you will feel very differently about whether you want her back or not. I basically date my ex ex now, she wants to be a couple again but I don't think I could ever trust her. So we hook up and have fun but I've told her that's all I can give right now.
so if we can afford the workbook but not a coaching session lol and want our ex back take that opportunity it can help as much as a session?
victoria try everything you can to get yourself in a better way! Keep watching these videos. Stay focused. Journal. It's really hard. I know. You can do it! These videos will help. Play them at night too! Good luck to you!
Cynthia Davison thank you!
Workbooks are amazing
Richard Hill have they worked for you and did you get your ex back (if you were trying to by anychance)
❤
"Try to hear me then I'm done, cause I might just say this once, seen this played out in my dream, it doesn't matter, tired of feeling like a ghost, f-ck it's you I hate the most, and there is no gurantee, it dosent matter, this time I might just disappear"🎶🎶🎶
She’s a cheater are u kidding ?? Weather she’s married to the other guy or not .... old saying believe them the first time !!!! When they show there true colors ..
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